In Love With A Taurus Rockstar
I am crazy into a Taurus rockstar. Waiting to see him again has been crushing. He is literally my dream guy, and if you would have told me that I would be going after him, I would have said you were insane. Last Summer we shared a meet-cute at one of his shows. Girl likes band. Girl goes to show. Rockstar sees girl at show and proceeds to stare at her the entire time. Girl and rockstar see each other outside of venue, but rockstar’s tour manager drags him away before they could speak. This has essentially haunted me ever since and I have wanted to see him again so badly.
We live in the same city and I’m pretty sure he’s still single, but we have not run into each other. I suppose we’re on the same psychic wavelength, as we’ll both post the same things on social media. There are all sorts of little signs and synchronicities that point to this being a go. I have been trying to be Zen about this and let it unfold naturally, but I would be lying if I said I wasn’t growing impatient. Not sending him a DM has been difficult, but I could not bear the possibility of a negative outcome. I have no doubts that we would be absolutely amazing for each other. Or at the very least be the hottest couple on Earth.
Impatient Aquarius, Trying To Be Zen
His band is a pretty big deal, so anytime I talk to people about this, they scoff. Our synastry chart has heavy Pluto and Neptune aspects, so perhaps that’s contributing to the intense feelings and longing. Oh, did I mention I’m pretty sure he may have written a song about that night? Ugh, it’s too much. Any advice on keeping calm during this waiting game? He’s playing a show in our city soonish, but the in-between has been rough.
If this is posted as an Ask Mystic, My only request is that you pleeeaasseee keep it positive (i.e. no “rockstars do this all the time”/”who do you think you are” type of talk)? I’m trying to keep my vibe high and would like positivity thrown onto this in every way! He’s an admitted shy guy, so him deciding to say “screw this show, hot girl!” isn’t something he’d do lightly, from what I’ve gathered about him!
Impatient Aquarius Trying To Be Zen, In Love With A Taurus Rockstar.
Dear Impatient Aquarius,
Actually, I legit know of a long-time together couple who met in this way. He is a name-recognition musician and she was in the front row of a relatively intimate gig that he was doing for some reason. They met, hit it off and the stars were aligned. So it’s not impossible, like dating a Martian or something. But without being ‘negative’, your attitude toward this does not strike me as being Zen. At least, not “Zen” in the classical style of being unattached to the outcome.
So I’m not scoffing and I sincerely have nothing but warm wishes for your quest to be Mrs Taurus Rockstar/Hottest Couple On Earth etc. But red flags: Where does the avid conviction that you will be absolutely amazing for one another come from exactly?
No offence but that does sound a little, you know, fanatical. As you know, the word “fan” comes from “fanatic.” That this Taurus Rockstar finds you “hot” is perfectly likely, you made eye contact and talked post-show. So far so good. God-damn Tour Manager. Probably a Virgo. A cock-blocking Capricorn? Who knows?
Mrs Taurus Rockstar
BUT (and remember, I am possessed by Saturn at the moment) there is a troubling leap from Guy Whose Talent You Admire and Who Is Hot-Locking eyes with you + potential mutual chemistry to fervent, intense emotions.
So it’s not a matter of cold-showering this but perhaps more of it giving it its due. Examine the emotions aroused by this circumstance. Is there a chance that it’s not so much about Taurus Rockstar as it is about the vision of your SELF evoked by picturing yourself as Mrs Taurus Rockstar, the social validation and lucre etc?
In which case you could nurture your own Inner Rockstar/Performer/Talent and run into him again – Uranus willing – at an industry function? Other than his charisma, talent, lyrics and social media expression, what do you like or know about him?
Or, if we just take this quest as a given, you need to think clearly about it. Other than direct messaging him (and probably getting his social media manager) how are you going to see him again? And is the fan role where you, as an Aquarius, really want to be? None of this is meant to be ‘negative’ or to diminish your feelings but I do think it would be cool to do some self-examination at this point.
What is the plan here? Logically, you need to develop your own profile and vibe to get in the same room as him. Otherwise, you’re just aspiring to Alpha-Groupie status.
And, step away from the synastry analysis. Obsessing over the intra-aspects of someone you’re not actually with or near to is, sorry, a Love Zombie trait.
What does everyone else think?
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