Mystic advises a multiple conjunct Aries who is having problems deciphering the intentions of a Virgo male she is (sort of) seeing.
Please help – I am completely confused by the actions of a Virgo man I have just met. He has nearly every planet in Virgo, and I am a multiple conjunct Aries.
He lives abroad, and I’m moving overseas in three weeks (I met him literally on his last night in town), we held hands and kissed.
When we met he had been flirting with me all night very obviously and when he had to leave to go back to his friend’s house. He blurts out that I have to get a layover in Germany, and upon realizing that wasn’t possible decided immediately he would fly to me wherever I was as soon as possible.
Which is, I guess, NOT Virgo-like at all, but I could be wrong. All I know is, we were kissing, I felt this weirdly pure, perfect feeling, told him this (“I can’t stop kissing you”) then he mumbled, “This is getting out of hand,” and quietly disengages himself, refuses to look at me, lets go of my hand last, and bolts.
Anyway, this was about two months ago, and since then he writes to me… every other Sunday. On-the-dot. I think one day he’d forgotten because I got an email from him at what would have been 3 AM Monday, 9 PM Sunday mine.
I’d tried writing him spontaneously in his language even, off-schedule, to try and spur something out of him… Nothing. I suspect he’ll be writing to me in a few days, as this is an “every other Sunday” week. If he doesn’t, then that’s that.
How do I deal with this? I’m 100% on a schedule. He still talks about visiting me; his last letter was REALLY heavy on that. If he sparked when we kissed etc., I’ve honestly no idea at this point. I’ve never been pursued in this way before. I’m used to Cancers, or any fire sign in the chart, or… hell, even Pisces. Gemini.
But what is this Virgo doing? Is he just feeling me out obsessively? Is he serious?
Dear Aries Amazon,
This seems to me to be blazingly obvious. Of COURSE, Virgo likes you. You have made his schedule!
If you wanted someone, you would swoop in Aries The Conqueror style to capture his heart and set out the parameters of his new life in the Ariesarchy, but Virgo peeps are different. They don’t like to seem vulgar, forward, or like they are assuming anything.
I know Virgos who don’t wear scent because they don’t like to impose. So why not just say you will be at X Destination on a specific date and suggest you meet? I think you should wait till April when Mercury has cleared this Retrograde in his opposite sign.
You don’t want to be part of his funk; you want to be part of the solution.
The Virgo male hates to assume. I think he is waiting for a “go” signal. That or he is interested in having pen-pals, which seems odd.
And Venus currently aspecting Uranus, Jupiter, Saturn, et al. (see your Horoscopes for more deets) makes now till Fri epic timing for such a strongly worded hint.
What does everyone else think?