How To Get A Capricorn Man To Chase You

How To Get A Capricorn Man To Chase You

Thrillingly, someone was so impressed with the advice given in What To Do If A Cancer Man Is Ignoring You that they sent me a similar question. It was nearly as succinct: “I am interested in how to get a Capricorn man to chase you. I am a Leo woman.

I used to get annoyed by these sorts of questions as I thought they demanded more detail. Was the Capricorn man her colleague at a drone laboratory? Her ex-husband who owed her money and slept with his parole officer but was still hot? A Tinder date who’d ghosted her?

But my thinking has evolved on this, and now I see the lack of context as a blessing. It allows me to offer extremely broad suggestions to anyone who might be interested. So here, in no particular order, are my ideas on how to get a Capricorn to chase you. I think this is pretty much gender neutral.

* Live in a vast haunted mansion with only your loyal family servant for company. Let yourself be glimpsed in fleeting poetic moments. For example; the perfect oval of your face gazing wistfully through the tinted windows of the limo. Or gliding through the meadows like a tree dryad of the golden ages. Your patrician bearing and elite-level tennis skills conceal dark family mysteries.

* Ensure the Capricorn knows that you only read literature or non-fiction written over a hundred years ago. You scorn contemporary writing, acclaimed or not. “Let’s see if it still holds up in a century,” you scoff.

Evidence Of Competence Is More Nurturing To Them Than Actual Nurturing.

* Capricorns climb. You could try being higher than them. Because they’re not going to clamber back down the mountain just because you’re frolicking in the meadows below. But a hostile corporate takeover, leveraged buyout or a dramatic attempt to out-earn them could have an aphrodisiac effect.

* Become brilliant at elegant, concise summations of situations. This Zodiac sign freaks at waffling whimsy, no matter how funny or ‘cute.’ But zoom in with something pithy and wham; their heart opens.

* Steal something off the Capricorn man’s front balcony when you are in his line of sight and then sprint. Admittedly, this is only a technique to be deployed for when you want him to literally chase you.

* Ask for their advice on a good dentist, tax accountant or something else Saturnine and suggestive of a person-with-their-s**t-together. Many Capricorns become accustomed to being lent on by overly needy people from a shockingly early age. Evidence of competence is more nurturing to them than actual nurturing would be.

* Remember that they’re not Leos. Leos are basically big cats. You can wiggle the human equivalent of a toy with feathers on it and entice a Leo. And there are Sun Signs who’ll pursue at the slightest hint of a new lingerie scenario. Capricorn? They’ll ask if you kept the receipt. Don’t even bother.

* In homage to the mysterious Mer-Goat aspect of this sign, you could display an interest in esoteric topics. But as with the literature point above, reject recent rehashes of ancient data. Instead, head straight for the Dead Sea Scrolls, Gospel of Mary Magdalene and the Voynich Manuscript.

* If you wear fragrance, wear only one and weave it into a coherent scent story. That is, wear it as perfume, wash your floors in it, use it as a room spray and leave a scent trail for him to follow. It need not be expensive – Capricorns loathe extravagance, remember. But make it exclusive, artisan and linked to a stylish ancestral narrative. Examples: Your aunt Lucretia’s violet farm or an alchemist ancestor who isolated the essence of Dracula Raven Orchid.

* Capricorns heal by making money. Get in the way of this process or fluster their focus and the only way to get a Capricorn man to chase you will be by owing him a heap of cash.

Thoughts?

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LibrariusMM Member
Librarius

My father is a capricorn, and I had three cap boyfriends in total. The last one had a Scorpio moon plus a host of planets in Cap, super-complicated-but-powerful-and-attractive dude with depth and guts. So I know they can be worth chasing even if they seem too down-to-earth for some. One niche way to lure a Cappy in is to shine your intelligence, as the pithy-comment advice suggests. If you can’t or don’t want to handle their professional sphere and show off in that field, just be interesting in whatever sphere you’re interested in. Draw them into an analytical and complex… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

My mother had a Cap bf when I was 16. He was 21. I beat him up. I got locked up for three weeks. So l got out and trashed his beautiful Holden on a 3 hour joyride. I got locked up again for three weeks.

He was gone when I got out.

Melle
Melle

Leo woman married to a Capricorn man here – spot on and already screen shot to share with the husband when he gets home in twenty minutes. He won’t laugh. He’ll ask how much I spent on groceries. Bravo Mystic Medusa!

PlutoMoonMM Member
PlutoMoon

I had a Capricorn once… he was great in the sack but crap in the emotional relating department. I did really like him though, he was quite virile and earthy, solidly built, a killer drummer with a Virgo moon. I got his interest by being a femme fatale and not taking no for an answer. It lasted about two years… until I grew tired of him always putting his business before me. My Cancer moon needed more than he could give.

SagittaureanMM Member
Sagittaurean

Don’t!

Saturn in Pisces
Saturn in Pisces

Not male but am Cap queer woman – I woke up today and promptly went on a massive, tearfully loud Aries Moon rant about people in my life with “no aspirations” who were “sabotaging” my “rise.” I quickly arrived at my favorite defense mechanism, “fuck everyone,” before sitting with that feeling and working hard to come to a more mature conclusion. I was making an effort recently to “evolve my character” beyond my perception of my natal chart, but I unfortunately lapsed into calling others “useless” and spent a good half-hour analyzing how “useful” everyone around me was to “the… Read more »

PiMM Member
Pi

so i was actually thinking more about the OP , and cap and leo vibes. i am solely working here on my Leo housemate and my cap moon, and what i appreciate in that energy: – carries self with self-respect, pride, even when drunk as hell etc. – a determined preference for quality experiences, objects and environments. – good at knowing the right people and having all the right moves. – A Leo Will Help Capricorn Look Good Without Even Trying. it’s like the leo specialty, like you guys really want the people around you to be shiny and awesome,… Read more »

dizzarinaMM Member
dizzarina

Very insightful analysis, Pi!

bossladyMM Member
bosslady

YASsss!! As a Cap, I fully concur! LOL – “steal something… from his front balcony.” Yes, a chase would certainly ensue.

lindapetersMM Member
lindapeters

Perusing the responses and reviewing the question once more, ex’s justification comment upon exiting sprang to mind …”men are hunters”. There’s a world of difference between the chase and the enduring. Careful what you wish for. Remember, hunters usually kill and consume their catch. Ouch. Not good for long haul prospects. Just saying…in this Sat/Pluto weather.

LouieMM Member
Louie

Spot on. although my Cap does like my lacy bits.. he also likes being seen as incredibly useful with handtools. I asked if he wanted to help with my floor renovation and next thing he was round in a flash with a sander and helping me re-do my kitchen…

LouieMM Member
Louie

Spot on… although my Cap does like that I got some nice laceys but that could be his Scorpio undertones.

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

My brother and eldest sister are born on the same day, four years apart. Not long after New Year,, worlds apart until they became parents and shared a strong disciplinary streak.

My brother is the opposite of the money chasing, wealth and status seeking Capricorn man. Living on the dole in NNSW since the late 80s, he is the epitome of the anti establishment, conspiracy theory loving, drug taking drop out. Takes micro doses of acid to mitigate the black dog.

Best way to catch one of these types is to shun cities, make up and your sense of disbelief.

WizarDoraMM Member
WizarDora

Pinch their favourite “how to get ahead in..” biog and peg it!

Oh Mystic you are a smasher! Apologies for my debbiedowner on Aries. Will try to see the grace in all signs, with tongue firmly wedged in cheek x

rachel cap scorpMM Member
rachel cap scorp

Mmmm, competence…. *fans self*

judithMM Member
judith

this is sheer brilliance. i understood it backwards forwards right side up and down. genio!

Black CatMM Member
Black Cat

Hmmm, I am a Cap woman and I am turned on by integrity. I like people who care about things and pursue what they care about (yes, including money). I find showy displays of wealth a bit pathetic. I love intellect but don’t like talking about it. I’m not sure if Cap men are the same but I have had a few chase me and I think they’re turned on by women who are smart, cool, and primarily autonomous but who will let them “take care of things” at times.

galadarlingMM Member
galadarling

My father is a Capricorn and his ultimate insult is, “That person has no INTEGRITY!”

Black CatMM Member
Black Cat

Hahah yes! It might be the only thing that trumps competence for Caps.

ladystefaMM Member
ladystefa

My fiancé is a quadruple Capricorn and his favourite qualities about himself are his “jawline and integrity” lol

Unicorn SparklesMM Member
Unicorn Sparkles

Hahaha… my first answer was also steal something they value and run.

ponycat
ponycat

Does their heart count of value for them? I wonder

sphinx
sphinx

A Capricorn man fell hard for me after watching me take money from customers at the door of my dinky beachside nightclub. Dirty US dollar bills filled my fanny pack until they were spilling out …he was visibly moved. Flushed he suggested we move those bills to a more ‘private and secure’ location, so that he wouldn’t need to protect me and my bills. He now runs a whore house in Cartagena.

skarabMM Member
skarab

Hahaha! Now dontcha regret what your life coulda been like with Señor Capricornio?

sphinx
sphinx

Funnily enough he was very respectful and protective of his employees and it was almost like he felt a duty to take on the role to guard them in ways others in his position would certainly not. He was a good egg. Just not my kind of egg!

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

This could be the start of a novel! What a fantastic story. xx

sphinx
sphinx

Haha, I can’t get over mm’s, “the only way to get a Capricorn man to chase you will be by owing him a heap of cash” I want to read a story about that!

SoVeryGeminiMM Member
SoVeryGemini

Many Caps partner with people younger than their physical age. I know m & f Caps that have mates 9-11 years younger than they. Also, accept the secret self-loathing of Caps: you will never change that.

libraquarian
libraquarian

Yes! I had a Libra ex with tons of Cap energy and he notified me early on that he was looking for “fresh blood” – I was 6 years younger. He had a messed up Neptune and a bunch of mommy issues so that didn’t work out.

ladystefaMM Member
ladystefa

I’m 8 years older than my capricorn fiancé! But the self loathing lol I think I’ll have to learn to live with that

Jokerman
Jokerman

I worked with a bloke a few years ago who was 52 att. I asked if he was partnered. He said he got married for the first time last year. “Oh, how old is ya wife?”. “22”.
I said to him who is the Capricorn? He quizzically answered, “She is, how do you know?” I said, “Capricorns do age difference”. I later said to him that their Saturns were in the same sign as well. He said that’s the first thing he was prepared to give astrology some credit on.

ladystefaMM Member
ladystefa

I was with most of this, but “Capricorn’s loathe extravagance” is not quite what I’ve experienced. I’m engaged to a quadruple Goat and let me tell you they bust their ass for to live a life of luxury. They work and work and build and climb so that they can live well. Maybe it’s better to say “they loathe a scene” — my goat is positively embarrassed by sloppy dramatics.

PiMM Member
Pi

Also never forget that all caps are very emo. They are basically some kind of Pisces/ Scorpio combo with a dry stone wall exterior

PiMM Member
Pi

As a cap moon, I actually agree with ” But a hostile corporate takeover, leveraged buyout or a dramatic attempt to out-earn them ” as secret turn-ons. Like, that’s someone who is planning for their future, hahah
Also, absolutely no PDAs. Ever*. Just no. Have some self respect lol.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Hahaha YES re the PDAs

ScorpleocapMM Member
Scorpleocap

This is really interesting, Pi. As a Cap moon, I can relate to this somewhat – ambition is a huge turn on for me, but then ultra competitive behaviour isn’t. And I’m all for PDAs!! Must be My Leo rising and Jupiter in Leo rising outshining the Cap moon. Or I’m Cap moon in the 6th, so maybe my cappiness is just confined to work realms. I do LOVE working with Caps.

SMM Member
S

A Cappy took my heart and touched my soul many years ago, it’s a love like no other. I do sincerely wish I could have experienced life with him. I’m sorry there wasn’t a way this could have happened.
Where I’m staying his name appears on a sign and that helps me get through my days here in recovery. I feel blessed to know that I’m capable of loving without conditions, I have him to thank for that.

SwordidQueenMM Member
SwordidQueen

I have zero earth in my chart, yet managed to snag myself a Cap with Taurus asc and Virgo moon. I’m Pisces with Sag asc and moon, opp my Saturn in Gemini. Was it all the recent Saturn action with Saturn in Sag running over my asc and moon, forcing me to get my act together, that drew him to me? He had worked through the same issues himself some years earlier. There I was, making the tough decisions, putting in the hard work and happy to accept advice from someone who’d been there. I was needy, but not too… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

Wouldn’t having an Earth Dsc, Moon, Merc, Venus or Mars be the best shot at this? And I’d say it’d be better having them placed in Taurus or Virgo moreso than in Cap. That’d be bringing in some Earth aspects they don’t have but would appreciate.

Leo v Cap…sounds like Howard v Keating.

Lucia
Lucia

I know a couple, he, Cap sun stellium, she Cap rising stellium, she, sun in Virgo, he, moon in Virgo and yes, seem to be true soul mates for sure.

Jokerman
Jokerman

I’m a firm believer in partners being in the same element or, at least, same polarity. Esp Mars and Venus AND Neptune and Pluto.

PiMM Member
Pi

what u mean by same polarity jm?

Jokerman
Jokerman

Glad you should ask. Yin or Yang

ScorpleocapMM Member
Scorpleocap

Curious… do you think the same element for their sun sign is important or just having a large amount of energies in the same element?

Jokerman
Jokerman

I don’t rate Sun and Ascendant, of themselves, as much but a connection to Mars and Venus is very good.

ScorpleocapMM Member
Scorpleocap

No interest in Cap men after a recent disaster! Not my type. Being a Cap moon myself I though it might work, but nope. Give me a Taurus any day, I say. I need sensuality, tenderness and someone that can handle random waffling – it’s true, Cap’s can’t, they hate it! I’d say the advice is pretty spot on.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Taurus would make a Grand Cross for you as you’d know.

Jokerman
Jokerman

I might also say this is written with succinct care.

Aquaria
Aquaria

Would this work for Capricorn moons as well?

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Oh jeez I had three spanning two decades, one after the other, great loves, all of them. Here are my tips: – have a Cap moon or stellium of some kind – this will draw them in like you are the batphone or something. Figure out what part of your chart is Cap and do that to the max. Remember with Caps, ‘max’ doesn’t mean ‘big’ it means ‘the best’. – be better than them at something that they value – figure out what kind of status object/thing they are into and vibe that. Some like money, some like professional… Read more »

prowlncrabMM Member
prowlncrab

Lol you’re spot on with a few things. Admittedly both my Cappies have water moon signs so …. if they have a water moon sign and are Cap. Do not even bother trying to bullshit them for a nanosecond. Actually that reminds me of the third Cap with the Scorp moon … he was majorly judgy and money obsessed. Also self obsessed and moody. Erk. My Cap is in the 8th house ……… so I’m like a sex bomb magnet to them even when I look like a bag of boiled shit. Yes they are not threatened by your skills,… Read more »

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

I know a long-term Cap couple (bloke was Cap number four, I forgot about him lol) whose marriage seemed cold and loveless from the outside. I couldn’t work out how he stuck it out. Over time I realised that the way they build their empire is, for them, their chemistry; and the way they show their love for each other. Decades together and absolutely rock solid despite seemingly living separate lives. Completely different to my own multi-Pisces ‘destiny’ concept *insert cry/laugh emoji*. Although, said destiny concept has now been crushed under the weight of successive Pluto and Saturn transits to… Read more »

skarabMM Member
skarab

Oh god i know a Cap couple like that in London. GLACIAL (as you’ve mentioned) is their MO. He’s a top lawyer, she works as a curator at the V&A Museum. They’ve been together for decades. They don’t like children & instead have a vast collection of antique glass from all over the planet. They’ve even bought a large apartment next to their house to keep said collection. In public they seem to talk telepathically, & if they do talk to each other it’s a series of posh vowel sounds that i can barely understand. They are both tall and… Read more »

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Bony. Yes! The Cap wifey I know works with teeth. She is very scary. Her hub had a massive crush on me for years – nothing happened, see above point about boundaries, ethics etc – but she has loathed me ever since. I’m still scared of her!

skarabMM Member
skarab

Totally get how you would be ……. “works with teeth” LOLOL!

PiMM Member
Pi

their telepathic thing would be the cap instinctual ability to know when something is worthless junk, or its socioeconomic equivalent. but naturally, it’s not about shallow judgement. a cap would pull a catwalk model out of a prison lineup / antique emerald ring out of a $2 trinket basket … because they Know. or something. consider their opposite, the cancerians. a uniquely visceral response to the material world.

libraquarian
libraquarian

“have lots of rules about when things can and can’t happen” gave me a good laugh!

libraquarian
libraquarian

Also, Leos in my experience don’t wear really good jewelry, they wear really flashy, gaudy jewelry. As in, tons of rhinestones but won’t stand the test of time, which disgusts Capricorn

narelle
narelle

I’m a Leo with Virgo rising, so not into anything gaudy

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Interesting, all the Leos I know are into high end bling. I’m Leo rising with a big Cap stellium and so it’s only ever top quality for me! I kind of admire those Leos who can be flashy like that, I tend to be on the conservative side (Cap influence no doubt)

libraquarian
libraquarian

A cap stellium and a virgo rising mixed with Leo like @narelle described above makes sense – earth is timeless, dust to dust, so you want your Leo status bling with quality that will last. Granted, I may be jaded. I had a Leo classmate ruin a class trip to France because she constantly wanted to go shopping. She held us up at the Louvre foyer to buy these hideous bedazzled sunglasses with two snakes that would intertwine along the sides, and we ended up with less than an hour to see the actual art. My Libra stellium still aches.

BlancaMM Member
Blanca

Lol! The bit about rules is very apt. I’m a Cap sun female with a stellium in the first house. Scorpio bf jokes that I have rules for everything…. and I really do.

PiMM Member
Pi

A proper Capricorn would cringe a little inside, but also quietly appreciate, the noisy yellow top-down Lamborghini on the main drag. But cap wouldn’t be too worried because she has a classic Porsche and a bentley parked in her garage (or, she saved the bentley’s quarter mill for her managed investments and just drives the Mazda 3 around most days, because it does the job perfectly well, without the interest payments, and her income is nobody’s business anyway) 🙂

Black CatMM Member
Black Cat

All of the above and I would also suggest to make like a Virgo when it comes to attention to grammar. Nothing kills the mood for a Cap like a person who can’t use apostrophes correctly.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Goodness yes. I never met a Cap who isn’t fastidious with punctuation.

prowlncrabMM Member
prowlncrab

hahahahahahaha …. oh some of your comments Mystic gave me such a good cack. Well I’ve had two of them … long term. So here’s my thoughts: – if you’re a Cancerian woman you are IN … or at least ahead of the pack already – have a great rack but just hint at the awesomeness of the rack within don’t shove it out there – make it clear that they’re not gonna get laid any time soon – don’t wear too much makeup – they’ll wonder what happens when your fake face slides off – wear your talents on… Read more »

prowlncrabMM Member
prowlncrab

Oh and also Cappy men often have amazing eyes … on the first date with my Cap I noticed it straight up and said “you’ve got amazing eyes … although I’m sure you hear that all the time.” It was delivered straight up, not flirty … just a matter of fact statement. He was so taken aback he blushed …. nawwwwwwwwww

loubuzMM Member
loubuz

Brilliant! A Capricorn man just wandered back into my life last night- this post is perfectly timed!

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