Love Zombie Update: Venus Square Neptune Was A Test

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Venus Square Neptune for the last four days was a test. Did your Love Zombie inoculation work? How much emotional distance did you put between you and acute lessons of the Saturn Square Neptune era: late 2014 to early 2016?

Or was the Capricorn Convergence energy sufficient to stop you from responding to all but the most significant stimuli?

Venus Square Neptune always evokes yearnings and the ghosts of long-faded desires.

Of course, you can channel it into Art, Compassionate Deeds, Enhanced Rapport With Genuine Loved Ones, Yoga and Connecting With The Natural World.

But it can also be a slippery dip straight into toxic terrain.  Enfeebling food, mindless consumption and entranced e-stalking of phantoms through social media. Or a neural loop of hyper-obsessing over naught.

The most recent Venus Square Neptune was super-charged by Jupiter and an Eclipse. You would have either had a Love Zombie Relapse OR a series of sharp insights about past bouts with the L.Z. Virus.

So, how did you do?

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Taurus VixenMM Member
Taurus Vixen

Wow, so that is why my first love was so in my face in my memories. I was even talking about him. We ended 20+ years ago. At least I didn’t reach out like I so wanted to. Course I did have the fantasy of us getting back together and living happily ever after.

socialgraffitiMM Member
socialgraffiti

Not really Love Zombie, despite the implications of Venus square Neptune.

It was in the sixth house, so for me it brought a realization regarding work, corporate culture, and service, especially the inevitable folks who try to assert their power in the workplace. They just do that in order to overcompensate for the lack of influence they feel in their personal life.

Nobody can really help with that. You just have to avoid and focus on yourself.

catharticcreation
catharticcreation

Got sucked into an internet haze. Barely left the house. WAS love zombied by an old coworker who keeps messaging me even though i’ve clearly expressed lack of interest.
hmmm….

Saoirse KirkeMM Member
Saoirse Kirke

Fail. In theory. But a learning curve goldmine.

Saoirse KirkeMM Member
Saoirse Kirke

I think I was about 10 all week. TV. Soda. Living as if a documentary film crew were putting together a montage for me to view later.

FireTryin'MM Member
FireTryin'

Thinking I did ok. I passed. Yes, I passed. Loves past, present, non-aligned–recognized and put into proper perspective. Careful monitoring of boundaries in place. Awareness…and sadness. Not seeing any possibility with any of the men in my life zone, but landscapes look incredibly sexy. Wide-open vistas with outcroppings of stone in the distance. Warmth, light, and solitude. A chance to see more stars. That’s what I long for more than a lover.

Roflarup
Roflarup

Glad to know this is what was happening! I totally failed though. Have been obsessing over this thing that feels unresolved and have written a ton of texts explaining how I feel and how I can no longer be friends with this person. Haven’t sent them though and I haven’t contacted him. I nearly vomited because of a photo he posted on Instagram. Jesus! I think I might have reached a point now where I’m actually done now. At least I hope so. It’s embarrassing and a waste of energy.

omg
omg

oh shit, somehow i missed that this was happening. my partner was really upset with me on one of the last four days, i just tried to listen and then it was ok. we both got into the most tiring emotionally-draining day though yesterday and it was incredibly confusing, built on triggers, and neither of us really knew what it was about. today i feel exhausted and sad… this was total love zombie, not quite sure how to come through it :'(

inkaMM Member
inka

thought I might have escaped intact but the Leo I’m Zombie-ing over (I don’t know his chart but I’m betting there’s SIGNIFICANT Neptune in him) wrote a song and posted it online and the lyrics would suggest he’s written it about me. I’ve got one foot in Capricorn tendencies where I turn off thoughts about him and think about my future (my keyword for the past few months has been LEGACY — and that’s acted as a snap back to goalstalking and my own awesomeness) and another in deep Neptunian waters where I wonder and whimper about why he’s not… Read more »

AsherahMM Member
Asherah

Found myself down a rabbit hole of emergency prepping after power went out in snowstorm. Deep dive into lessons from surviving Bosnia and current madness in Venezuela. Did NOT see this coming at all. Former LZ triggers were nowhere to be found as I was so intensely focused on surviving whatever apocalyptic scenario is coming…(which is probably nothing as I live in a very secure area). Strange what shapes LZ madness can take…also, this eclipse was conjunct my Venus in Leo, so was expecting v glamorous romantic/dramatic love interest scenarios. Instead, I was researching best practices for water maintenance/storage/protection etc.… Read more »

libraquarian
libraquarian

I did alright? Did not contact anyone, generally focused on myself/health/current relationship. I did obsess a little over “wonder where that arsehole is now” and “how is he still alive after doing so many drugs but I get back pain if I sit wrong” but no contact and kept stalking to a minimum. Yay!

GwendolynMM Member
Gwendolyn

I rocked! 1/ threw out my wedding dress from 1992! Did a Snoopy dance at the Savers bin… 2/ finally, with the help of therapy, my love zombie chemicals in my brain are flatlining (bastard love bombed me) As a reward for this my Hecate archetype rang the police… We now have in my State a Domestic violence disclosure scheme… So I advised the police the name of my exes new “soulmate” (she looks at him how I used to, he’s a cold narcissist as usual. I nearly puked at the sight, that was me 2 1/2 years ago) They… Read more »

libraquarian
libraquarian

YES! I will Snoopy dance into the new era as well.

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

Wow – I can feel your resolve and personal power through the screen Gwendolyn! Maybe you’re a Saggo? (bow reference) and if so sounds like the brilliant harvest that is revealing itself post Saturn and some serious Pluto power….that cackle combined with an ability to stare down an unworthy opponent was a giveaway – at least to me anyway. It ain’t fun but I do love those moments when we see former versions of ourselves even if it makes us want to puke or reel. It’s very powerful transformational juju. As an aside – and in my personal experience, narcissists… Read more »

GwendolynMM Member
Gwendolyn

Thank you Centaurus
Actually I am a pissed off quad Virgo settling into her second Saturn return…in obviously Capricorn…and also a newly minted Crone (hence cackle!)

He was my change of life baby lol

Thanks for the reminder about narcissists…

Rise Sister rise

Yes transformational indeed, to see another woman whose life will be temporarily ruined, like mine was…

Trust someone absolutely and one of two things will happen:

A partner for life OR a lesson for life

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

*2nd attempt* For some reason my earlier comment just disappeared. so… um… The important things were: Your last 2 sentences – yes, so succinct Virgo quad – ok so you’ve had/got Pluto and Saturn in trine somewhere for sure and Uranus into Taurus should be a beneficial transit for your I imagine. Change of life baby – I just wish this one was a f2f response because it was personally very funny. Initially blank because, well.. I’m a little distracted or wanted to run an old Neputne7 program that failed upon launch… then a sort of recognition and reflection followed… Read more »

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

I am considering a name change – Neptune7

Idk – given what it is I’d need some feedback right….. 🙂

GwendolynMM Member
Gwendolyn

Love it…voluntary adoption lol
Perfect echoist correct
wish I was a fkn duck!
Said baby had a temper tantrum the first date!
Red flag much, never stopped same tantrum all relationship…
Never met a male narc before…

Space analogy perfect

Take that shot of truth too

Failure to launch, delete the programme..

Thank you Centaurus
There are so so many amazing people here that MM has drawn to her, and us to each other.
Provides sanity everyday

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

It’s too mystifying why early warning signals get overlooked or downplayed right. Benefits of hindsight eh…

And it IS the same tantrum… cloaked to fit ALL scenarios and amplified if there be the slightest hint that it’s an invalid response.

The community here is pretty great. A diverse bunch for all the common experiences there’s loads of differences between us but it’s inherently respectful and supporting. Very Aquarian community I think and a testament to not only MM but to everyone here.

PiMM Member
Pi

I am avoiding any further thoughts about this matter by not contributing to the comments, lol.

Jokerman
Jokerman

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PiMM Member
Pi

#capricornmooncopingstrategies

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

Yep – I went minimalist here too. Spot on x

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

This comment might be one of your best….

SMM Member
S

Exactly right Jokerman

UniversaliMM Member
Universali

Ahhh so that’s what was happening I didn’t actually respond to anything or make any contact but did find myself in thought loops about all the things I would like to say in regards to how the dust has settled but more bizarrely in my dreams last few nights really going through it. Last night I slapped him repeatedly whilst listing off his lies etc. then I jumped in the ocean.
I think I’ve past my LZ days. Fact is we share a child so there’s no escaping living with his BS

Lux Interior Is My Co-PilotMM Member
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

innoculated. Must have channeled it into Marie-Kondoing the house.

MutatisMutandisMM Member
MutatisMutandis

I had really positive failure manifestations! First was a coworker who had a sudden-onset LZ crush with ME as the target – we were on a biz trip and I had to gently decline and disengage myself without any feelings hurt. I know in this day and age this shouldn’t be a ‘positive’ but he is a gentle soul and I was on high alert for getting neptoon’d myself so no harm no foul. The second failure was me admitting long-gone LZ feels for a near-miss from almost 20 years ago that I recently reconnected with. Rather than a full… Read more »

crisannmMM Member
crisannm

Let go of a Piscean I was seriously in Love Zombie mode over. Big win. 🙂

babysinclairMM Member
babysinclair

The latter for me. The mutable square manifested as my Saggo rising husband taking off on an impromptu snowboarding trip in the middle of a snowstorm. Just found out i’m pregnant (after 4 1/2 years of trying, woooo!) and I definitely feel fatigued, achey and nauseous. “Don’t worry I’ll shovel when I get back” says Saggo husband, which would be 2 days later. Meanwhile, it starts sleeting on top of like 2 feet of snow and i’m Like fuck this is going to turn into a frozen lake if this doesn’t get shoveled right now. So I spent 2 hours… Read more »

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

Hey congrats on your new family member! 🙂

babysinclairMM Member
babysinclair

Thank you Centaurus ❤️

CarrieMM Member
Carrie

Love zombie in literature:
AND I SAW HER AS A SAD THIRTIETH CHILD OF VALENTINE THAT FELL, NOT AS LUCIFER REBELLING AGAINST GOD, BUT BECAUSE SHE TOO PASSIONATELY WANTED TO BE UNITED WITH HIM! ALL THINGS IN EXCESS BECOME SIN.”

Lawrence Durrell, “The Alexandria Quartet”

CarrieMM Member
Carrie

I should have been paying attention! Totally makes sense why I went off the zombie cliff. So the zombie itself is the dead love on legs, which then turns me into a defacto zombie cause all my emotional and mental energies are focused on a nothing. The best I can do is observe this phenomenon since fighting it doesn’t work for me. I learned this weekend that Lilith is in my Pisces at 10 * could that be why I was so full out zombified?

Scorpio_RisingMM Member
Scorpio_Rising

What witchercraftery is good for keeping a Love Zombie/stalker away?
One resurfaced again in my life and is an extremely persistent pest.
Any advice or humor is appreciated. Thanks!

CarrieMM Member
Carrie

As a zombie-stalker, the best is to acknowledge the zombie’s existence and then be absolutely fierce and even cruel – NO and GO. Don’t leave room for interpretation or any sliver of light a zombie might creep it’s way into. Be cruel to be kind and don’t you look back.

Scorpio_RisingMM Member
Scorpio_Rising

I did 20 years ago with a restraining order. DID NOT work. In fact, it became a challenge for him to work around it. A sane person takes no as an answer and backs off, not him. Stalkers stalk that’s what they do.
I ignored him for years and that seemed to work until he started befriending mutuals and reinserting himself back into my life. Narcissists hate to be ignored and it set him off but eventually backed off until now.

CarrieMM Member
Carrie

Ohhh. Oh. This is a different category of stalker. Forget my advice. What you’re going through is serious business- Especially given that years go by and he still violates all the boundaries he can find to violate. I hope others here might know some good psychic self-defense strategies. I’m sorry this is happening to you.

Scorpio_RisingMM Member
Scorpio_Rising

Put him in a freezer…I mean his name. lol!

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

I read on here recently that putting someone’s name on paper in a bottle, filling it with water then freezing the bottle is effective. An extra layer of psychic defence than just the paper in the back of the freezer! 🙂

ElizMM Member
Eliz

still dangling on the fence.

scorpiodawnMM Member
scorpiodawn

trying to finish sthing i know is unsuitable…but ill probs b crawlin back at the weekend…so 50/50

deepwaterMM Member
deepwater

I contacted the barber but didnt get a hair cut. Is it a relapse?

LibraLilithMM Member
LibraLilith

In order to move on with no regrets I Told him I loved him after 3.5 years making a point of not telling him
Burnt /deleted everything and haven’t contacted him since

Honestly not sure if that’s a pass or a fail

SMM Member
S

Thankfully I didn’t rehash anyone from that era. Danger zone avoided.

ICPlutoMM Member
ICPluto

*marking myself safe* 🙂 Welcomed many insights, but did not entertain reveries.

ElectroMM Member
Electro

I’d say I was about 50/50. No relapses from the era of the hard core crush, but I was hella emotional. About everything. Venus on my moon Neptune and Neptune in my fifth during the eclipse conjunct my Fn sun. Good lord. I still have work to do to take care of myself properly.

Jokerman
Jokerman

If there’s a 50/50 chance, presenting, 90% of the time it’ll turn out wrong

CentaurusMM Member
Centaurus

Yeah – it definitely had that 2014-16 vibe to it! A-Ok here.

Calli GMM Member
Calli G

>Venus Square Neptune always evokes yearnings and the ghosts of long-faded desires.

I’ll say. My libido roared back last week for the first time since menopause. I didn’t reach out to share the results with ghosts from my past, so I’m calling it a win. Still, I thought I wouldn’t have to factor this aspect of life into my future plans. We’ll see if it’s a blip in my personal biome or if the past month’s chaga infusions unblocked something on a more ongoing basis. Bodies—so weird.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

I wish mine would come back. It has flatlined the past six months or so as I try various big pharma hormone combos to prop up other aspects of my health and symptoms.

Calli GMM Member
Calli G

Yeah, I didn’t know how much I missed mine until it came back. After years of helping my parents through extended, terminal health issues, a few years of antidepressants to help me get through that, and menopause, it was totally off my radar.

SheRatMM Member
SheRat

TOTAL(?) relapse…completely considered actually letting Judge Virgo move to my new city with me to set up house. I put the question mark there because I didn’t actually TELL him I was seriously considering it.

Sweet SanityMM Member
Sweet Sanity

Godammit, I contacted a past lover, now I feel awkward. Luckily he’s an Aries so he took the surprising attention well.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

I didn’t even know there was Venus square Neptune! This is unheard of for me, particularly as I have it natally (does 7 degrees count? Astrodienst says it does). No yearnings, no inklings, no relapses, nothing. I am all business at the mo. Oh wait a minute – maybe Saturday. Ah yes Saturday I put on some music and had a little cry. But that’s all. A lame effort compared to my usual stellar LZ escapades. I’m calling it a solid credit pass.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Nah, its a Distinction.
I think I got one too.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Thanks it kind of felt Distinction-esque but Cap moon won’t praise itself that much lol. Glad you got one too!

Triple Air GemMM Member
Triple Air Gem

I’m with you, Chrysalis
Some minor reminiscing with a bit of poignant ‘what ifs’ promptly quashed by ‘Fuk no, I’m way happier now’.

A friend saw my ex b/f today and relayed that he looked so shrivelled and horrible. Funny synchronicity that made me realise the chapter is well and truly closed.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

That must have felt so good to hear that about your ex. Confirms your choice of right path x

CharleeMM Member
Charlee

The above gif series but dry eyed last night. No regrets, no guilt, no remorse. He’s just gone. Fuq it’s liberating, took awhile but this aspect really helped.

Mon
Mon

Like, scraped a pass. I’m sad, hurt and angry by a recent breakup. I didn’t contact him. I said what I needed to say in an email when he broke up with me and cut all contact. I acknowledge that he was not the person for me. I do not want him back. It came to light that he isn’t the person he said he was, not even his name, in the last few days. The only slight stumble I had was when I was criticised by his friend/business partner for not wanting to stay friends with him. I pretty… Read more »

Sweet SanityMM Member
Sweet Sanity

Sorry you went through that, good on you for not contacting him!

Mon
Mon

Thanks! It’s over now. That chapter of my life is closed, time to fill up the other pages of my book of life with good stuff!

Virgonator
Virgonator

Well, I settled into a part of me that is completely uninterested in dating. I was surprised it existed, and continue to be surprised by how solid it feels.

But I binge watched ridiculous YouTube videos and ate terrible food and basically blasted myself to anywhere but here in whatever way I could (I mean, luckily I’m not a substance person, but the internet is its own potent vice), so… still losing to Neptune, I think.

MissDeeMM Member
MissDee

Virgo rising here. Very similar weekends plus the uber sad ucknoledgmebt that at 46 I am officially into the “dead zone”: same age guys want the younger ones – especially if they are good looking – and younger guys, well they are young and they must focus on their future which cannot be with me. So I ate practically everything from my fridge and yes, look for some cheese YouTube videos.

TheNakedEye
TheNakedEye

Similar experience, Virgo rising and sun. Completely over indulged on food and drink. Had a past guy show up but also came to some firm realization about current Scorpio (aka. Waste of Time) and decided to stop rose-color glasses that situation.

VeronicaMM Member
Veronica

Miss Dee, you are not Dead!! There are younger men out there that might not want to have children etc (I am in that kind of relationship) and same-age men that would like to be with someone who has similar life experience and he can relate to.

you seem like a lovely person…now is the time to shift into a new zone xx

loubuzMM Member
loubuz

I was dating a sexy (aren’t they always) qi vampire who ghosted me just before Christmas (hey at least he posted my runners in the mail with socks neatly folded inside). I’m still kinda hoping he’s going to want to revisit but I know this guy is not dating material. At least I haven’t fired off any mushy texts or resorted to eating every product in the Haig’s chocolate shop. I’m on the edge of love zombie-ing but have so far been able to keep the straight jacket on

Babzville
Babzville

After 10 days of building my strength, I dove into the flames Friday, got enough encouragement to continue to make a fool of myself Saturday, and got to the point of no return. It’s so bad, I might as well blow it up, it can’t get any worse. I don’t even care in some odd way, I guess I’m numb, but compelled to burn it down. I feel like I’m on a course of annihilatin and won’t stop until it’s destroyed beyond hope. ( I’m an Aries.)

KatMM Member
Kat

Been here before

natalie leMM Member
natalie le

lol, literally about to break up with my boyfriend of 9 years, that I got back together with in 2014. stellium cap. he’s my zombie I can never quite pull out of the swamp.

AKAPluto
AKAPluto

I’m not great at conquering my LZ tendencies but I got to the bottom of a few things these past few days. I’ve had a crush on the same guy for a couple years now and we finally made out in the beginning of January…I decided not to sleep with him because I have feelings (THAT alone was a first for me). Then he started getting really awkward wand distant with me and rather than try to talk to him or do more emotional labor I just nursed my wounds alone and decided it sucks to be bummed out. Still… Read more »

Sweet SanityMM Member
Sweet Sanity

Omg “committing oracle abuse”, love it. Sometimes I wish I could cut myself off.

AKAPluto
AKAPluto

Yeah oracle addiction is a legit problem for this impatient mercury in scorp. I need to know the answers NOW. I do realize it’s illogical as the oracle becomes less accurate the more you consult. Decided to give up the Oracle for post Mardi Gras lent (I live in New Orleans) just to get things back in balance.

emgMM Member
emg

Passed A + or possibly distinction. Got propositioned by a chap 20 years my junior. But it’s just not on my agenda. No relapses or pangs. Just focus on where I’m going. It is as though I’ve been vaccinated or maybe just had my windscreen cleared !

jickyMM Member
jicky

Ended a 2 month down-dating FWB attempt..amicably, thankfully. Grateful for some fun times but don’t miss his political views or $$ issues. Not sure about managing temptations to re-connect..

amazonalisonMM Member
amazonalison

Passed with flying colors. Which was a relief, since I miserably failed the Saturn/Neptune square test.

StarinspiredMM Member
Starinspired

Woohoo, passed with flying colours! (For a welcome change of pace)
Definitely thanks to the Capricorn convergence around the Cap Asc.
A most awesome feeling, even replacing the icecream with celery.
Not that the path is easy, but continuing the mountain ascent, thanks to the eclipse and all planets direct, giving that extra little boost in fwd momentum, even while standing still.
It’s all of a sudden like every boulder/block on the path has a gift under it.
When did that shift happen ?
Grateful regardless

BryseaMM Member
Brysea

I was consumed by the loss of him. LZ MF.

RubentMM Member
Rubent

Passsed, by boy oh boy oh boy did I ever come close to willingly failing.
Zoooooossssshhh

Greta
Greta

LOL. I’ve just had a revelation that should I find an appropriate researcher, I could be the subject of a book.

BLISS WITCHMM Member
BLISS WITCH

Failed. Maybe a D, if you’re grading kindly. Had some insights, but also relapsed. It’s a serious addiction.

ScorpintheSky
ScorpintheSky

Ahh well. The beauty of the sun rising every 24 hours is that you always have more opportunities to kick a habit. Give it another go! You have it in you.

BLISS WITCHMM Member
BLISS WITCH

Thank you for this!! I actually do feel a bit more clear. Hopefully it will last.

KatMM Member
Kat

Trying to let a past life love go, even though it’s painful and unresolved and then I crossed paths with him four(!) times yesterday in different locations. I was trying to figure out why he keeps crossing my path.

HelMM Member
Hel

Wow!…I feel you. Four times! That is a lot!

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