Good morning lovely Mystic 🙂
A quick question regarding astrology and online dating. I like to do first meeting charts for when I encounter anyone of interest. Do they commence from the moment you right swipe and match with someone or is it from the first planned date thereafter?
I’m curious because during this eclipse energy I matched with two mega hotties and seemed to hit it off with excellent mental rapport and humor straight away. The chart energy is batshit though! I’m meeting both of them (separate dates lol) in the next few days and need to know whether I should be making contingency plans. Help!
Eclipse Wired Goatgirl
Astrology And Online Dating Rules
Dear Eclipse Wired Goatgirl.
You’re a Goat – you always have contingency plans! In fact, this new Earth Era demands permanent contingency plans on all our parts. Common Sense is the new chic. You can’t purchase it. it can only be earned and maintained via vigilance.
So for the uninitiated, a first meet chart is the astrology chart of the moment you first encounter someone. It can tell you a lot about the purpose or the nature of that dynamic. In ancient days, it was considered more important than the relationships between your planets (synastry) or the two charts blended together (composite) chart.
The concept of two worlds colliding or the stars being aligned is, of course, infused into poetry and songs. Some encounters are such a flashpoint of fate, libido, and soul-recognition that the first reaction is that something has happened. The astrologically informed person is like where’s the Moon? No wait, where the hell is Pluto?! You sense the significance of the meeting with every single sensory unit of perception you’ve got.
Common Sense Is The New Chic
Strong Mars + Venus aspects on the day usually equal physical heat. Saturn signals the sort of affiliations that last for a long time. Saturn people are the ones you look at one day and realize they’re still there. It’s been decades. Contacts to the Nodes are people you’re re-encountering or who will inspire you back onto your true path. Outer Planetary choreographed encounters are the most likely to transform your life trajectory – particularly Pluto.
If you’re able to get the exact moment of a first meeting, it’s brilliant fodder for the astro fiend. Note particularly the ruler of the chart (ruler of the Ascendant) and the most exact aspects. Stuffing about worrying about esoteric aspects or wide-orb connections is a distraction. If the first meeting chart has Scorpio Rising and Pluto is on the Moon, that’s your go-to. Never mind the foo-foo eight degrees sextile from Venus to Jupiter. It’s a Pluto-Moon connection so you could hang out with this person in lieu of therapy perhaps. Or expect the association to evoke a heap of chthonic emotions and power surges.
So DOES the Tinder match (or any online dating ping) count as the “moment” of a meeting? I think Yes. But because you presumably elect when you’re going to be on Tinder or anything similar, i feel like the chart you would generate would be less ‘true’ than an in-the-wild encounter.
What does everyone else think?
Image: The Lady Has Plans