Ask Mystic – In Love With A Taurus Rockstar

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In Love With A Taurus Rockstar

Dear Mystic,

I am crazy into a Taurus rockstar. Waiting to see him again has been crushing. He is literally my dream guy, and if you would have told me that I would be going after him, I would have said you were insane. Last Summer we shared a meet-cute at one of his show. Girl likes band. Girl goes to show. Rockstar sees girl at show and proceeds to stare at her the entire time. Girl and rockstar see each other outside of venue, but rockstar’s tour manager drags him away before they could speak. This has essentially haunted me ever since and I have wanted to see him again so badly.

We live in the same city and I’m pretty sure he’s still single, but we have not run into each other. I suppose we’re on the same psychic wavelength, as we’ll both post the same things on social media. There are all sorts of little signs and synchronicities that point to this being a go. I have been trying to be Zen about this and let it unfold naturally, but I would be lying if I said I wasn’t growing impatient. Not sending him a DM has been difficult, but I could not bear the possibility of a negative outcome. I have no doubts that we would be absolutely amazing for each other. Or at the very least be the hottest couple on Earth.

Impatient Aquarius, Trying To Be Zen

His band is a pretty big deal, so anytime I talk to people about this, they scoff. Our synastry chart has pretty heavy Pluto and Neptune aspects, so perhaps that’s contributing to the intense feelings and longing. Oh, did I mention I’m pretty sure he may have written a song about that night? Ugh, it’s too much. Any advice on keeping calm during this waiting game? He’s playing a show in our city soonish, but the in-between has been rough.

If this is posted as an Ask Mystic, My only request is that you pleeeaasseee keep it positive (i.e. no “rockstars do this all the time”/”who do you think you are” type of talk)? I’m trying to keep my vibe high and would like positivity thrown onto this in every way! He’s an admitted shy guy, so him deciding to say “screw this show, hot girl!” isn’t something he’d do lightly, from what I’ve gathered about him!

Impatient Aquarius Trying To Be Zen, In Love With A Taurus Rockstar. 

Is This More About Your Own Inner Rockstar?

Dear Impatient Aquarius,

Actually, i legit know of a long-time together couple who met in this way. He is a name-recognition musician and she was in the front row of a relatively intimate gig that he was doing for some reason. They met, they hit it off and the stars were aligned. So it’s not impossible, like dating a Martian or something. But without being ‘negative’, your attitude toward this does not strike me as being Zen. At least, not “Zen” in the classical style of not being attached to the outcome.

So I’m not scoffing and i sincerely have nothing but warm wishes for your quest to be Mrs Taurus Rockstar/Hottest Couple On Earth etc. But red flags:  Where does the avid conviction that you will be absolutely amazing for one another come from exactly?  No offence but that does sound a little, you know, fanatical. As you know, the word “fan” comes from “fanatic.” That this Taurus Rockstar finds you “hot” is perfectly likely, you made eye contact and talked post-show. So far so good. God-damn Tour Manager.  Probably a Virgo. A cock-blocking Capricorn? Who knows?

Mrs Taurus Rockstar

BUT (and remember, I am possessed by Saturn at the moment) there is a troubling leap from Guy Whose Talent You Admire and Who Is Hot locking eyes with you + potential chemistry to fervent, destabilising intense emotions.

So it’s not a matter of cold-showering this but perhaps more of it giving it its due. Examine the emotions aroused by this circumstance. Is there a chance that it’s not so much about Taurus Rockstar as it is about the vision of your SELF evoked by picturing yourself as Mrs Taurus Rockstar, the social validation and lucre etc? In which case you could nurture your own Inner Rockstar/Performer/Talent and run into him again – Uranus willing – at an industry function?  Other than his charisma, talent, lyrics and social media expression, what do you like or know about him?

Or, if we just take this quest as a given, you need to think clearly about it. Other than direct messaging him (and probably getting his social media manager) how are you going to see him again? And is the fan role where you, as an Aquarius, really want to be? None of this is meant to be ‘negative’ or to diminish your feelings but i do think it would be cool to do some self-examination at this point. What is the plan here? Logically, you need to develop your own profile and vibe to get in the same room as him. Otherwise, you’re just aspiring to Alpha-Groupie status.

And, step away from the synastry analysis. Obsessing over the intra-aspects of someone you’re not actually with or near to is, sorry, a Love Zombie trait.

What does everyone else think?

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Scorpio_Rising
Scorpio_Rising

good grief

galadarling
galadarling

Here’s my take on this scenario. It’s so easy to get swept away with the notion of a romance like this, and let’s be real, magical and miraculous things happen every day. But if you want to be in a relationship with someone exceptional, you have to BE EXCEPTIONAL. Showing up and being hot is never going to be enough for someone who can literally take their pick. You might get laid, but that’s about it. It’s not just about how you look. It’s about presence. Intelligence. Energy. Wit. Charisma. Charm. And having your own delicious life which is already… Read more »

Aquamarina
Aquamarina

God in heaven! Aqua babe, my personal opinion is that you sound like having a maniacal behaviour. You’re egocentric, incredibly immature and rude. Mystic gave an excellent answer to your obsessive letter, straight, rational and empathetic 100%. If you don’t see this, it is because girl you need a reality check-up, that no doubt will come sooner or later. You didn’t need anything other that caressing your mania! And no, it’s not dismissive and unsupportive, it’s the truth. Mystic, if I were you, I wouldn’t answer or reply anymore. It is for no use. She has to grow-up and prevention… Read more »

Aquamarina
Aquamarina

other than*

Alex E
Alex E

You didn’t even talk to the guy. He doesn’t even know your NAME. No one who’s ever been in love believes that this is how it happens in real life. You sound like someone who wants to be in love but has no real world experience to guide her to i,t so instead, you’re following a Hollywood film script about a ‘perfect’ connection that falls out of the sky (or in this case, the local rock venue). On the odd occasion that rock gods and fans do connect, trust me, it requires a lot more than astro synastry to stay… Read more »

Howdyhihi
Howdyhihi

Im really enjoying how many people chimed in with a variant of “Rockstars? Meh. Been there, done that.” This has gotta be one of the most interesting bunch of subscribers.

dizzarina
dizzarina

While I’ve never been with a rockstar, this post is reminding me of a New Year’s Eve in the late 80’s, when I was about 17, and I locked eyes with Ian Astbury of The Cult outside a recording studio in NYC’s West Village. Although the moment passed– there was no social media to DM him on, plus he was a giant star at that point– I remembered that moment fondly for all my life, as a “what-if” moment. Of course, now he looks ridiculous and I’m so glad my 17-year-old self was not exposed to celeb madness. I couldn’t… Read more »

Clavdia C
Clavdia C

I also had a thing with a rockstar. Front row, locked eyes, talked after the show. We drove many hours to see him the next night in a different city (sigh, love my friends). We exchanged emails, wrote each other love letters (was awhile ago when we wrote long emails like we used to write letters). I went to see him ⅔ of the way across the country twice and we didn’t click. It blew up in a puff of smoke.

Was super fun, though, to get into shows on the list.

Clavdia C
Clavdia C

Also re the “I think he wrote a song about me.” I was convinced he wrote a song about me but alas it was about his ex-gf. He just changed her eye color when he sang it and I was in the audience. Still, it was amusing and a nice memory.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I think a few creatives with drives from soul purpose are on here, even if they are not formally creatives as a job (plus many who are). Also many witches and glam shamans. So being in orbit of other glams is a given. Even before and between my side life as performer i have met and/or known some famous. But never as a fan, isn’t that funny? I mean i’ve def had fan meet-cutes but was kinda busy just being in the life to think about it, except for looking back now. You give your mateship, maybe love, and space… Read more »

Belle
Belle

Hey badass aqua babe, just want to drop in and say who cares who you are and who he is. If you have a beautiful connection it will be noticed by both of you and it will develop from there. Forget about all the extra fluff and yeah try to chill out in the meantime. In twenty years from now he’s unlikely to be known by anyone but maybe a little cashed up. I dated a ‘rockstar’ once, we met when he was semi big through mutual circles but over many years it was the pressure of the band manger,… Read more »

saturnplutoflux
saturnplutoflux

This has been the most entertaining thread in a long time, real telenovela status 😀

Alouetta
Alouetta

I know right? Glad I had popcorn.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Oh my, yes (crying w laughter emoji if it doesn’t show up). I checked back in tonight specifically to see if it had gone to defcon five

saturnplutoflux
saturnplutoflux

Haha same, between busy moments at work I’ve been checking back for the next installment!

TittyMoonBeam
TittyMoonBeam

In terms of communication strategy, most definitely slide into his Insta DMs with a personal message. It’s just the reality of the times right now and you can’t rely on getting into the same room as him by chance. These guys are on tight scheds and trust me, are already cruising Instagram in every city before a show and messaging some models to come backstage. You should ASASPTUALLY take this chance on yourself but It goes without saying that you need to look the goods and be as hot as you say you are to get his attention! I’m a… Read more »

syrynx
syrynx

There’s a reality check.

I hope you have an exit strategy, that sounds like it could be kind of awful in the long-term, tending to these people?

TittyMoonBeam
TittyMoonBeam

I guess I’ll find out. I do think there is some ‘soul eroding’ that can happen long term, but I think what’s worse is getting used to an adrenaline rush-y environment as your everyday norm. I think the OP needs to realize that these rockers can be mega narcissists, and no matter how intense and personal the initial connection seems, it might be a blip on his radar and he might have totally forgotten about you. Seriously. Those moments where you feel like your eyes lock and the entire world pauses…well, they have a handful of those every week, maybe… Read more »

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

FFS. This post has lured me out of Comment Hibernation. There is a lot of wisdom in Mystic’s advice here and from many of the commenters. But there is one very basic, very pertinent point to be made. As a former 80s B-List model I have some experience of this space and energy. If she is young and “hot” Ms Badass Aqua Babe can obviously screw a similarly young and hot muso. No doubt. But what is this massive leap to marriage? Turning up “hot” backstage will often get you laid. By someone. Or in classic groupie style – you… Read more »

Pi
Pi

You’re here!!! <3

dark star
dark star

This is a very good point. It can be annoying when a random coworker is trying to flirt when you’re just focused on doing your thing at an office, performances are the office of creatives. Also I would love to read recollections of 80s b list modeling

Secret Sagg
Secret Sagg

Imagine future you – say, when you’re in your 60’s…..even without knowing how it will end, do you think you will regret not giving it a go? I suspect you will. Of course, it might end up being a terrible mistake. Are we suddenly not allowed to make mistakes? Says who? And, aren’t there valuable lessons to be learned from mistakes? So, you would do well to have at least one contingency plan.Remember, the old planetary ruler of Aquarius is good ol’ Saturn, so you can do this! I have a few suggestions – and I wish someone had given… Read more »

nmzd
nmzd

Cap Sun/Can Moon/Taur Rising/Aqu Venus here. As a self-admitted LZ who loves a cheeky synastry stalk, I get it. But girl, you need some chill. You are massively projecting onto this coupling. And you are dwelling on one maybe moment of connection. At this point it is more likely than not to live up to what you think. I work in the entertainment industry; I used to work very closely with celebs. Still friendly with a fair few ‘celebs’. These moments happen more than you think, even to the quiet ones – I always felt entertainment life was a series… Read more »

Lexie
Lexie

Perfectly put. And yes, please do let us know what happens next!!! Best of luck!! 🙂

Crystallised future
Crystallised future

testing my new subscriber name

emg
emg

you’re on moved on

Lili
Lili

My very adventurous, young for her age friend got plucked from the rock concert crowd by band crew. Met stars, band, crew them backstage, and at party after. Got flown cross country to watch recordings, etc. Not my thing but I was happy for her. She is unusual in her beauty, lust for life and inner drama.

She enjoyed as it unfolded- and maintained her job, life etc.

Rubent
Rubent

Okeeeee so story because this post is mebbe the most well timed of them during my MM membership. Last night I randomly got free tix to a concert of one of my favourite musicians. Didn’t buy tix 1. too expensive 2. huuuge venue 3. my love is deep in the heart not amid the crowds of drunken hoo haws. Buuut when I get free tix and choose the right pal to go with I’m chillin’. I also had a sneaking suspicion of following synchronicity – there’s a chance I could finally meet this guy and really just say ‘THANK YOU.’… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

Screen V the real person? Id have chanced the real person.

Unicorn Sparkles
Unicorn Sparkles

See reply mistakenly attached to comment below.

I hear ya.

skarab
skarab

It happens to the best of us, Rubent – I have done kinda similar. Was once (late teens) at my rock-god’s concert. It had been a monumental saga getting tickets. But i had to go – I’d had many a fantasy regarding our meeting and eternal love & there i was, front row, swaying in a hot love trance, believing he was performing for me alone, then at the end of the last song he looked directly at me & motioned for me to go backstage. I froze – it was like a bucket of ice water had been dumped… Read more »

Rubent
Rubent

Ahaha yaaaas!

Squared Virgo
Squared Virgo

Dear All, this post and the comments got me full on. Wow. I agree, that Mystic gave a rational response and I do not fully grasp why Aqua Babe didn’t feel quite satisfied with Mystic’s approach. However, I have a story to share, which might be interesting and definitely fits the context. 9 years ago I fell in love with a drummer of a pretty famous band. It was mind blowing. I was working as a camera woman at the band’s concert in a gigantic venue and the moment our eyes locked after the gig back stage, time stood still,… Read more »

Unicorn Sparkles
Unicorn Sparkles

This sounds exactly like something I would do.
Don’t ruin the fantasy, don’t make myself look a fool….

I always wonder whether with some people it’s a past life thing or the universe steering us away from something that isn’t ready yet…

Unicorn Sparkles
Unicorn Sparkles

Oops commented on the wrong one

Rubent
Rubent

This made me feel better, thank you.

Miss Leo
Miss Leo

Okay, I do think you need to calm down before you do anything, be it with contacting the person or putting yourself in front of them at the show. And I’m saying that as someone in your situation right now (btw, I’m Aqua rising, so this is especially interesting to see someone else going through something similar). A few months ago I went out on a date with a champion in a specific sport/game/etc, not going to give specifics. I suppose it would be the equivalent of being a rockstar that community even though he’s not actually famous. The date… Read more »

Watersnake
Watersnake

Such good advice, Miss Leo! We MUST have a Plan B (and even a Plan C). I too have dated someone on and off for the last 4 years who was a rockstar in the 80s and is now the darling of the stock market after floating his company. After 18 months of living in separate cities, we had dinner together and he declared “I want you back in my town and I’m going to make it happen.” Yeah, right. Have heard these sorts of declarations before and then he ghost bolts. I happen to be seeking a new job… Read more »

Pi
Pi

That’s a really awesome and sweet reply.

Pi
Pi

my theory with the no second date thing lines up with Leo Socialite’s answer. It’s probably that he liked you, as a hot leo type and more. But to commit to the demands of a relationship while having an intense focus on his (or her, for that matter) profession and probably are away a lot, would be an unwise move. Maybe that’s the page he was on. (MAybe he feeds off hot dates as qi nourishment, who knows)

Melody
Melody

I think you are so triggered by what Mystic said precisely because it made so much sense. This fantasy is obviously filling some emotional void for you, hence the out of proportion vehement response to kind pragmatic advice, but this guy is a real person and deserves someone who will love him as a flawed, fluctuating, real, person. Would you still be into him if he had cancer, became emaciated and broke, and wouldn’t be able to perform anymore? Would you want to be there to hold his hand as he died? Because that is the sort of potential reality… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Beautifully said.

bird
bird

Lovely, lovely comment. xxx

flashfire
flashfire

So much truth and grace in this comment, so much we all can learn from it. Thank you.

A_J_
A_J_

Excellent comment. Spot on.

dizzarina
dizzarina

Love this response!

Alouetta
Alouetta

Really nice. You just made this thread worthwhile for something other than entertainment value.

bird
bird

Truth!!!!!!!

dark star
dark star

Deep thoughts here

saggenie
saggenie

I think it’s pretty unfair in general that our girl brains are on fall-in-love autosetting and these rock stars get to come in, make us fall in love with them, and leave us spinning all sorts of love dreams in our brains. UNFAIR. i demand restitution for the hours ive wasted!

Jokerman
Jokerman

Don’t leave us fellas out. I’ve only crushed on about 23 singerettes and 27 actresses.

emg
emg

How was that for you ?

Jokerman
Jokerman

The other day Mystic suggested l was a hoarder. But l don’t collect much stuff.
But my head is full of charts of which about 97% female charts. I can rattle off so many deets about em.

I went on a 2nd date with the Scorp from 5 weeks ago. It could be a Saturnine happening.

emg
emg

Well I hope this date is a real goodie with lots more to follow. I must say I am so the other way round. See him, bed him, talk later.! Oh we are all so different.

Jokerman
Jokerman

I don’t even know how that could happen.

Jokerman
Jokerman

See over.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Like, I’ve been in the situation once, a few years ago, and l felt shit afterwards. But to me any thoughts of ‘bedding’ someone on the first, or even 2nd date, seems to me to lack respect. I speak personally.

emg
emg

To not bed with me is totally what just happened???!!! When I had my HD reading the guy said ‘you are 0-100mph in a split second with no emotional involvement ” I had to agree. My friends who take weeks of deciding to even see someone, completely do my head in.. As I can’t see it that way. As I say we are all made up so differently.

kataquagem
kataquagem

And yes to what Mystic said about obsessing over synastry connections. I’ve noticed that every artist of any kind to whose work I feel a deep connection has significant synastry connections with my own chart — including those who were dead long before I was born. Hardly surprising, if you think about it. Even looking at this with a person you’re not actually involved with, but want to be, is a an LZ alert of the first order.

Pi
Pi

I’m not so sure, I did a close-ish synastry check of someone who sends me into emo-bliss whenever i see them speak, and it wasn’t to, say, confirm that we should be together, but more to understand the energy in my chart that they were …. activating. That process was bloody hard-won though, after a lot of previous examinations of intense feelings for others. At the same time, To retreat to some kind of backroom technical analysis of my / one’s sentiments, without actually leaving the house to *live* them… well what’s the point of life then? We don’t push… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel

I’d say forget the rockstar & go straight to the therapy you badly need. Your behaviour on here has been narcissistic, delusional, oblivious, manipulative, ungrateful, & frankly appalling. Mystic, you don’t owe this person anything.

8thhouse
8thhouse

I totally agree!! You left out disrespectful.

Unicorn Sparkles
Unicorn Sparkles

Virgo sister to my aqua sun self 20+ years ago:
You always ask for advice and then get annoyed when it’s not what you’ve already decided.

She really has the patience of a saint.

moss1228
moss1228

ahhh i remember my 20’s , laying in wait just like a spider, thinking i was the hot thing all ready to nab my rockstar-meant-to be.
impulsive romantic obsessive Youth. what hard falls we all eventually take.
i’m in my 60’s now and looking back with amusement and some sorrow on such a ride through life. i think all the things mystic said were right – on .
much love to all.

LedaB
LedaB

I’m an Aquarian… and this afternoon have been massively fantasizing about a dude I barely know, bit wow, the sparks and the sense of “he is the one’ ” is rocking me… I do believe in love at first sight, I have heard this stuff does happen from old ladies/men who tell how they met. Yes rare, but still.. it does happen now and then.. You can meet someone and feel an amazing vibe/soul connection… I have been trying to tell myself that I’m being illogical etc, but my heart and soul seem convinced. Maybe Aqua women are being struck… Read more »

emg
emg

I think it was Aristotle who said The mark of intelligence is being able to entertain an idea without having to accept it. Any advice ever given stems from someone’s else’s view of reality. It’s up to you to run it by your own reality receptors and decide if it’s making any sense for you. If it does add it to your acceptance list if not discard it or mark it for later. I agree with another post on this. You sound so like me about 35 years ago, deeply driven by pluto and Neptune and no matter what you’ll… Read more »

Bilybee
Bilybee

Sounds like a case of Love Zombie or classic erotomania

Pi
Pi

there was a post ages ago from an actress (?) going to SXSW and having a major major thing for a man who was some kind of key player. The comments ranged from Oh Honey, No to “it’s your freaking life, your time, your experiences, sand no one else’s, so go live it”

Another comment mentioned chiron – this is true, you know, by avoiding potentially non-whatever (or very yes-whatever) connections, are we denying ourselves valuable life experiences, stories, new feelings, new horizons? hmm.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

What do you mean by potentially non whatever? If u r crushing but can already see signs that u aren’t compatible for what u want, or amber/red flags, even if it’s just gut instinct, shying away then probs just maturity 🙂 Well, love is for a short fabulous burst or for a long time, and you can live beautifully in that or by your good self. If you want a life partner, then you need to be prepared for your own strong adventure into self, and into/with your lover. Whatever is given just has to be sincere and purely trusting… Read more »

Pi
Pi

mille <3

bird
bird

Oh, yes.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Ay…i should mention that with strong Chiron in the 5th i am drawn to whatever i need to learn, love and grow. Whether it be the so-called-slutty but oh-so-appreciating aqua venus, or the saturn squaring it! Saturn, Venus and Chiron have strong contacts with other chart signatures/outer planets. It’s not counsel, just a point of view i offer xx

Pi
Pi

interesting. Do you think that Chiron has magnetic qualities? like pluto? the forces of transformation.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Not magnetic like Pluto, just the simple natural impwtus within yourself to heal yourself tends to drive one towards the only situ where you equally know what’s rare in it, know there’s an unknown, and are willing to make a gamble. Stakes are high and so could the treasure be!

But that’s Chiron conjunct Merc 5th, opposed Uranus, 11th both squ are Mars Cap 2nd house so perhaps not a doc’s prescription! 🙂

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Trine Neptune Moon Jupiter 12th, i forgot 😀

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Stage five clinger

Alouetta
Alouetta

Ha! I love that term! Wish I knew it’s origins.

dark star
dark star

Wedding crashers, isn’t it?

Nmzd
Nmzd

Waynes World!

Howdyhihi
Howdyhihi

Um, at the risk of being a Debbie Downer, I’m an aqua whose previous toro long term partner took off with, like, a days notice to go be a rock star. ‘Cause apparently kids and partners precluded him doing it prior. Anyway, as with any situation, fabulous Toro rock stars can very well be another Aquas fuq-up of an ex. And can we be more supportive of groupies? I read that autobiography “I’m with the band” years ago, by a woman who absolutely OWNED being the best damn groupie of them all. Rock stars spoke very highly of her, apparently… Read more »

Sarah H
Sarah H

Badass Aqua Babe – I agree with a comment above, your responses have been pretty appalling. You don’t want negative vibes man… I’m reminded of Oddball in Kelly’s Heroes. Mystic’s response was measured and healrhy – but I think she should have left your ridiculous fevered longings well alone the minute you stated what you wanted to read in the responses. Don’t get me wrong – we’ve all had fevered longings – but what you are talking about is lust, not love, and a heady obsession with yourself, image, etc. You are literally drunk on dreams,my dear – totally intoxicated,… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel

Absolutely! Everything you said here. OP is lost in Love Zombie central. I’ve witnessed first-hand how psychologically damaging unrequited obsession can be. Pull out now babe. Even if, unfortunately, you show no sign of being able to hear that.

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Lmao girl… I could’ve written this 20 years ago. My Virgo rockstar ended up moving away to another state, started playing gigs in different circles, and we fell out of touch. He stayed in my heart though despite the passing years (me Scorpio)… And Then! Just last summer I heard through the grapevine that he had moved back to the area & would be playing at a local venue. oooooh I made sure I was in attendance for the show, looking as hot yet not try hard as I could manage, and OMG he was sloppy drunk af, looked like… Read more »

Amanda
Amanda

Look up Natalie Lue for some great reading amd reflection on rlevant themes.

Jokerman
Jokerman

I am in love with a Taurus Superstar too.
But if she’d met me Adele have nuthn to sing about.

ROTFLMAO

Jokerman
Jokerman

me *would* have

sunday girl
sunday girl

Interesting – I have a question: how do you think a loner / shy guy would feel about a pre-emptive airing in the public domain? Especially if you report back later?

Sasa
Sasa

Hi! I had a similar crazy-as-fuq electrifying “destiny-written in the stars” connection like this with a doctor, a few years ago…
And it lasted for just over 2 years.
Completely & insanely fell in love.
It went nowhere.
And on reflection, was probs mostly a profound & slightly Freudian encounter, that was deeply intertwined with a blend of father-issues and childhood issues..
So all I can suggest is to dig very, very deep & honestly assess where any pertinent ‘fate-lines’, and character recognition lies…
From another badass Aqua xxx

ÁNLEIFR
ÁNLEIFR

What is your Venus?

saturnplutoflux
saturnplutoflux

Oh dear

Badass Aqua Babe
Badass Aqua Babe

OH MY GOD!! Who would have thought that the comments would be more supportive than actual Mystic (no offense). I’m definitely not fanatical. I like his band, but I’m in no way a stan and have seen them maybe 5 times in the years that I have liked them. I specifically asked you to post this without negativity, but to be honest, you absolutely threw cold water on this and your response was not very kind or positive in my opinion. there was a bit of hyperbole in what I wrote (i.e. knowing we’d be perfect for each other, as… Read more »

WaterGem
WaterGem

Seriously? You send someone an email asking a question and you specify what answer they’re allowed to give? Controlling much?

Badass Aqua Babe
Badass Aqua Babe

She agreed to the request, only to renege later. I have the email as proof.

Badass Aqua Babe
Badass Aqua Babe

She also changed the title of my email from “Trying to Zen out about Taurus Rockstar” to “In Love with a Taurus Rockstar”… suppose to give it that extra drama and “fanaticism”. Not cool at all and this has really turned me off to her and her site, as her response and handling of this is pretty antithetical to “being positive”. If I wanted “the cold hard truth” I would have gone elsewhere. I was hoping to get an astrological analysis of the situation, not a lazy assessment of who she thinks I am, my mental state and sense of… Read more »

bulldash
bulldash

She gave super advice on being zen though

bird
bird

Yep. I agree. I thought Mystic gave a great response.

Lize
Lize

me too

Inez
Inez

Me too

hartisan
hartisan

Me too

Pi
Pi

whoa, dude! Chill on the whole thing. you asked, she answered cool your jets and think about this a bit, it’s not exactly bad. Let it go. Amazingly, you can’t make people say what you want to hear. If you need to hear something different or differently supportive… look in the mirror and speak to yourself.

Pi
Pi

and believe me, I am treading the line between joyous optimism and ‘can this actually happen’ as well.

Inez
Inez

*SOMEONE* is starstruck

Alouetta
Alouetta

This is so weird to read. Mystic’s response to your email reads as level-headed but open to possibility, with some practical suggestions throw in to boot. Your response reads as overly invested and dramatic. Stop throwing your hair around for a minute and re-read it.

Redlipstick Virgo
Redlipstick Virgo

I agree – when you asked you were hoping to get a certain answer “keep it up vibe” means don’t tell me this won’t happen so it’s contradiction that you are being Zen when you are emailing Astrologers to ask about it – I think that is the opposite of zen. Also I think Mystic was fair and gracious you just didn’t like the answer – when we manifest and create in the vortex it is NEVER about being with specific people it’s about being loving and drawing love to us not Mr ABC. Once you are in that territory… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Love Zenbie!! omg <3

Pi
Pi

MM this was the post I had in mind when I was reflecting on the sports star babe

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Well said.

Pi
Pi

this, except for the face to face encounter. funny: “god-damn Tour Manager. Probably a Virgo. A cock-blocking Capricorn?” Important and relevant: develop your own profile and get in the same room as him. This was my thinking just lately. I don’t even have a profile. I have some work to do, LOL. (Pi googles: ‘WikiHow: Ten Steps to Building Your Public Profile’ … ahahah) The oracle and tarot is being very kind to me about this. That never happens. I am not sure if it’s just being nice because it can see that I am on a longer-than-usual upward trajectory… Read more »

Pi
Pi

this makes no sense unless anyone’s aware of my ginormously motivational sports-star crush.

Virgonator
Virgonator

Send him a DM. If it’s meant to be, it’ll ground. If not, it won’t. And you’ll survive, and be the better for it.

Badass Aqua Babe
Badass Aqua Babe

I am WAY too attached to the outcome to send him a DM. Also, he’s a grown adult man and I do not feel comfortable sending a DM to him. He is a Taurus, after all, so if I’m going to do this, I have to do it right: show up backstage in my hottest look, hair flowing, a hint of mystery to draw him in, then hit him with my humor, nonchalant, yet smoldering sex appeal and intellect! It’s in the bag! It’s just the waiting that is making me antsy. I have an Aries moon, mars, north node… Read more »

Crystallised future
Crystallised future

Jeezuzzzz! If I was that rock star I’d be afraid. Your response has been absolutely appalling and demonstrates your reluctance to accept reality.

sunday girl
sunday girl

😉 If you can take a step back from your 100% valid response, astrologically this is fascinating – Chiron’s just started trawling that 1st house Aries mash-up, it all makes perfect sense…

sunday girl
sunday girl

FYI that’s a wink but it looks more like bell’s palsy

bird
bird

Biggest laughs here!

Inez
Inez

Being the girlfriend of a rockstar -yes a big one- for the last ten years, I agree. She’s trying to be cool
But coming across as fucking intense and terrifying

PlutoMoon
PlutoMoon

Please know that if all you are planning to draw him in with is your smoldering sex appeal, then you will not hold him for long. Rock stars are famously fickle and easily led astray. You will not be the last one to draw him in in this way.

Rubent
Rubent

The moment A Taurus finds out how orchestrated an Aqua can get (this coming from a fellow Aqua) with their nutty professor planning (and the above is a version of nutty professor planning – which is not a knock, just an observation.) is when a Taurus either slowly smiles or charges in the other direction.

I hope you get that smile.

toronado
toronado

Great balls of fire. Now I see why I’ve never dated an Aquarius.

dizzarina
dizzarina

This is not Aquarius behavior– IMO, it’s the Aries Moon/mashup in the 1st. And general immaturity.

chronicgir1
chronicgir1

I agree as well. Take a chance!

p
p

I immediately thought of Jim M and his taumoon(also aqua asc). Im aqua and boy, do i like tau-guys so much. (taumoon here as well). also, she may like the thrill, is what i, aqua gal, would love the most, of intricate romantic-situations”, till u grow old and taurus like, i assume, ja, and crave peace tranquility steadiness feel and u know, ommm feels. ♥this post , is like old me meeting present future me (also had my share of weird magic* encounters u go that’s so meant to be”” feel . sat fix that. scorpio s rturn )

Badass Aqua Babe
Badass Aqua Babe

THANK YOU!! He’s literally everything that I have ever said that I wanted in a man! Sensitive, gorgeous, funny, intelligent…even down to the way he dresses (let’s just say we’d look like a hot, “hip” Gomez and Morticia Addams). He’s super interesting and low-key. He’s an admitted loner, which is me to a T. I don’t find anything wrong with doing synastry reports with someone you’re interested in. He’s just a man! When I think about how handsome and strong he is I get all warm inside, and the thought of even just walking around our city with together makes… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Yes, update us, whatever happens! Im loving this live astro-shadow-play as an Aqua Venus with a Saturn Taurus square, and a possible Taurus in the wings. Most edifying! 😉 In my case, im not feeling good enough yet for the Taurus but u never know what lurks in the Aqua IC, right?

cynthia
cynthia

Uranus is bolt lightning our rocks (Taurus) /star-selves.(Uranus) How do I handle that energy within myself as opposed to out there in projection on another person? “Loving Me, Loving You.” I can’t just “do it all” by myself in the isolation, like a fantasy- ie the processing/integration of these evolutionary energies from the safe confines of my meditative closet, within my own well-sealed alchemical chamber. Sometimes my old mill needs some grist to grind slow, exceedingly slow – Pluto. So I get me out there and engage with life. Even the agonies and ecstasies of Neptune’s pure ethereal joys and… Read more »

Badass Aqua Babe
Badass Aqua Babe

OH MY GOD!! Who would have thought that the comments would be more supportive than actual Mystic (no offense). I’m definitely not fanatical. I like his band, but I’m in no way a stan and have seen them maybe 5 times in the years that I have liked them. I specifically asked you to post this without negativity, but to be honest, you absolutely threw cold water on this and your response was not very kind or positive in my opinion. there was a bit of hyperbole in what I wrote (i.e. knowing we’d be perfect for each other, as… Read more »

Ruby Red
Ruby Red

You can’t just vortex your way into a relationship with a specific person that’s not how universe and positivity work. You don’t even know this person yet you are projecting all these behaviour etc onto him. Now you are pissed as after consulting an astrologer you didn’t get yes you will be happily together. Seriously this is not anywhere near going to happen your attitude is bad selfish and frankly kind of obsessive crazy. You have not demonstrated any Zen around this love Zombie oops love Zenbie.

ashilack
ashilack

I agree with the whole Love Zombie thing. Not sure what the point in emailing Mystic for her opinion if you didn’t want her honest opinion? Were you just seeking validation? It sounds like you’re choosing to remain in this fantasy by admitting that you are afraid of DM’ing him for fear of a negative outcome. Which would be? Him not feeling the same way as you do? Which would then mean you need to move-on? Or, you know, you could DM him and it turn out that he IS into you and you can move forward rather than dwelling… Read more »

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