A Taurus With Aquarius Man Issues? She’s come to the right place.
I am a Taurus with Uranian Love Blues. I don’t usually go too weepy and wallowy – not since my Pluto-Venus transit. But I got broken up with two weeks ago, and it’s got me down. I am a Taurus Sun, and I know Uranus in Taurus is supposed to be upping my mojo. But since the Aquarius man I was seeing broke up with me just after the last new Uranian moon, I’ve been struggling a lot. It was only after my birthday, and he did quite the about-face. He went cold and broke up with me on the phone after about half a year of seeing each other.
First, he got me some epically gorgeous and personalized birthday present and then wham, one week later, it was BYE. Big effing surprise. Or was it? I guess we didn’t survive the Transition Zone. After talking every day for the first half of the year, I miss him. It’s hard to move on since he evaporated after giving me every available excuse in the breakup excuse dictionary, but I still feel zero understanding as to why.
Uranus in Taurus Is Supposed To Be Upping My Mojo.
I handled it as stoically as I could with no anger or clinging and haven’t made any contact. I’ve been journaling, reading about grief, healing, unconditional love, and doing my best — shamanic de-cording meditation, sage, ritual bathing, etc. But my issue – is I keep feeling like this MF is going to reappear since he disappeared so cryptically as well cryptically. I want to be able to move on. It’s been a struggle. Any suggestions? Ritual suggestions? Aquarian Wisdom?
Uranus in Taurus to be quite frank has been a bit of a wet blanket for me. I’ll get over it and get back to my creative zeitgeist as you might say. But damn, I am a bit heartbroken.
Jennie the Taurus
Dear Jennie the Taurus,
Of COURSE, he is going to reappear cryptically. If I had the digital infrastructure, i would run sweepstakes on this. This break-up occurred within the Mars Retro zone. Homie will be re-activating during the actual Retrograde phase from late June to late August. Fuq it. Do not make any contact whatsoever and i bet you he will be hunky door-stopping you within 24 hours of Mars turning Retrograde. Aquarius men think that they are ludicrously unpredictable, but they run on schedule, always.
Recall that this is Mars in Aquarius until mid-November. It’s the most extended stay of the Warrior God in Aquarius since the early Seventies. It’s like the Matrix Reloaded out there. Or unplugged. Whatever. So your Aquarius Man is probably restless beyond belief and viscerally feeling the potential entrapment of a relationship, any relationship. This won’t be personal. It would be experienced more as existential dread evoked by the prospect of being in a conventional pair bond. Like when you’re walking through the compulsory Ikea maze and viscerally experience your conformity — or browsing the Daily Mail’s sidebar of shame like a mass tabloid lab experiment.
The ritual for getting an Aquarius Man back is not to give a fuq
Reset your brain so that you literally shut down whatever synapse is triggered by this character and he will come back. The ritual for getting an Aquarius Man back is not to give a fuq. Picture him on an alien tundra in another galaxy. That unapproachable. That distant. Or like a conspiracy theory that you read once but dismissed. But the real question here is, apart from missing him and his spooky little Uranian brain, do you want him back? Uranus in Taurus IS going to be rad. Maybe he cleared off for good reasons? It wasn’t meant to be?
But I think he freaked and that if you retain Stealth Mode, he will be back. Or so what? When you’re a Taurus with Uranus in Taurus, you would be able to out-weird him effortlessly. What does everyone else think?
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