Astrology And Relationship Break-Ups
By its very nature, this Transition Zone features a higher rate of relationship break-ups than would usually be the case. People are more aware of their raw, core selves and which of their aspirations are aligned with that. Projections are dissipating at Warp Speed. Pretence cannot be maintained without damages. As societal ground shifts beneath us and we experience the daily w.t.f media flow, only the rock-solid relationships, friendships and business alliances make it through. The others are reforming or disintegrating.
Some of the most poignant communiques here at Gorgon H.Q. are from people wanting “clarification” that the Tarot, Oracle, their Pluto transit, instincts, dreams and Horoscopes are all incorrect. That their “complicated” or “strong despite it all” relationship can be saved.
This is not a Love Zombie situation. That’s when a person over-infuses a tonne of energy, erotic vibe and soul into an attraction or projection that simply can’t hold it. That’s a crush masquerading as a “kind of” relationship. I am talking about actual relationships with red flags, rather than rose petals, strewn everywhere. Ones where a creative mind has obviously been subverted for the purpose of explaining and excusing crappy conduct.
The Devil card keeps showing in the Tarot. Dreams are nightmares of dirty swimming pools on abandoned resorts or gigantic waves that threaten to overwhelm fragility. Saturn or Pluto are applying hard. Friends shrug and change the subject when you bring up the latest plot twist in your long running soap opera. Or stage doomed-to-fail interventions. One moment you’re out, that’s it. The next, something – a gesture, a ghost of familiarity, a surge of sentiment – means you’re back in.
The “Stay or Go?” Stage Is Worse Than The Actual Break-Up
But the stage where you are contemplating whether to Stay or Go is far worse than the actual break-up. There is an eerie phase where you are with someone but withdrawing your psychic energy from the relationship. You’re doing whatever alchemy has to happen for the “us” to become a “me” again. It’s depleting.
At the same time, there are practical concerns – maybe children to consider, animal companions, certainly joint accounts and passwords, a whole heap of stuff. Your psyche says “flee to the mountains.” The accountant thinks it will take months to disentangle the shared $$$ scenarios. Existential concerns spike between 1am and 5am, the time in Traditional Chinese Medicine when anger or grief are processed. What if this is your best shot? Does stepping out of the relationship means you’re failing at society-life? Could this mean you become a desert crone, prowling around the outskirts of town grazing on gorse and nettle, communing only with sky and spirit? Or an out-of-control lush, a Mickey Rourke character trapped in a David Lynch dystopia?
A Subliminal Script Stars Running, Spouting Patriarchal Shit
When you contemplate initiating a break-up – especially of something long-standing and woven into a vestige of tribe or community – a subliminal script starts running, spouting patriarchal shit and spewing out random bits of code that don’t make sense. This is often when you turn to Jupiter or Neptune for a good time. Jupiter Vibe says the Path of Excess (shopping, boozing, heaps of holidays) really can lead to the Palace of Wisdom. Neptune Vibe can inspire a segue to pure fantasy; A Rescue Romance perhaps. Or the sudden winning of an astronomical amount of money that enables you to move into a secret pad somewhere by the sea. From there you would use your lucre to hire people – therapists, goons, lawyers – to do everything else. It would be a clean break.
But most break-ups are dirty. Feelings and theories repressed for the sake of civilised coupling get weaponised. Forensic accounting uncovers flimsy constructs. The reclaiming of your personal psychic space is not the joyous exercise in authentication that it would be if you were stronger, cashed up and rested.
But nonetheless, the hardest bit is the not-knowing. Once you click out of denial and into transition mode, you can deploy your Saturn energies: patience, strong friendships, wisdom and planning genius. And then, as you free up all the energy trapped in lying to yourself or trying to prop up a fake facade, you rebirth. Always.
And with Cosmic Doctor Chiron now at the start of the Zodiac, the Zero Point of Aries, what better time to recommit to self-actualisation? Regardless of who you love, your relationship status, libido and/or loyalties, you can take this celestial cue to revamp your relationship with self and Source.
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