Ask Mystic: At What Age Or During What Transit Should Great Sex Get Factored Out?

Dear Mystic and Mystic Followers,

At what age, stage or transit should “great sex” be factored out of an equation? I ask because i am closer to Uranus Opposition than Saturn Return and i am about to have Saturn roll over my multiple Capricorn Sun, Moon and planets. I know enough to understand that this is going to demand maturity on my part and yes i have read every single post on Saturn here. Seriously, I am on on board with Saturn values. 

However…after a hiatus between relationships i have recently taken up with someone who probably does not fit the Saturn template. He IS sane and solvent but we have nothing in common, no conversation that does not bore me and probably him as well, completely different political values and well, he is like a Luddite with computers – he opens his snail mail with a hunting knife and i am a vegetarian who works in mechatronics. You get the idea.

But the sex is life-affirmingly beyond belief incredible. I am fairly sure that this copulation experience is worth ten thousand times every single treatment or healing i have ever had. I have a new hormone system operating thanks to this man or it sure as fuq feels like it. My doctor asked me what on earth i was doing as my cholesterol, blood sugars etc were WAY down and all the good things way up.  I know longer need to wear make-up, my shitty knee fixed itself, i have fantastic sleep.

But i am i living in a fools paradise? I can introduce this person to none of my friends – they are left wing and he is like a right wing conspiracy nut – I would loathe to ever live with him – he is a hoarder and collects technological relics. Should i get out of this before Saturn gets to Capricorn and think about someone more suitable?  Or as he is Taurus (I know, i know) can i assume that Uranus into Taurus might make him…different? Can you change a Taurus?

Hormonal Sea Goat.

Dear Hormonal Sea Goat,

Factoring it out of the equation completely? Never. Saturn does have a lusty angle to it you know – think of Pan and Dionysus. They’re an aspect of Saturn. And Capricorn IS an Earth sign. It’s not all cerebral. There is a terribly Saturnine tone to the idea of just pragmatically prioritizing your true physical needs and spreading the other desires around your broader friendship circles, right?

This brings up an age-old question that is probably perfectly evident in ancient scrolls excavated from old temples and so on; can you have it all? Can you get it all in one relationship? Or is that Madonna-Whore schism just hard-wired into humanity, regardless of the gender or the relationship themes?  The psycho-therapist Esther Perel explores this sort of stuff brilliantly in Mating In Captivity.

Also, what is the Taurus Luddite’s opinion of this? Does he think you are Ishtar reincarnated and he is already secretly studying treatises from your side of the cultural-political spectrum to find more common cognitive ground with you? Or is he compartmentalizing you/this thing as a “great root”, as we say in Australia?

Conventional wisdom is that a Mars-Venus sex-based affinity cannot last the distance, that if you want a significant, enduring relationship that there need to be other factors in play – strong Mercurial rapport, shared values (which is very Jupiter), comfort and ease together when not hard-at-it generating new forms of alien pheromones and so on. But could this be wrong? Could Uranus in Taurus help to bring about new arrangements?

But with Saturn influencing a heap of your natal astral energies, yes you will no doubt desire the whole package, a growth alliance. Can this deliver it? If great sex is ALL this is going to be and there is no joining-together to form a greater-than-your-parts whole, will it satisfy you under the steely lilac rays of Saturn?

Now i have raised more questions than i have answered – what does everyone else think?

 

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ÁNLEIFR
ÁNLEIFR

I am curiously watching this one, since we are getting ready to enter Uranus in Taurus, can the poster update us on this?

Sally Wilde
Sally Wilde

This is the relationship I’m leaving. Got all the benefits, but the right-wing conspiracy and hoarder shite drove me around the bend.

Taryn Tantra
Taryn Tantra

It’s sex. It’s great.
Park this in you “Alive Today’ basket until it’s ..dead!

Seriously, having been there done that with a view to romance I can tell you from experience & teaching others – don’t make a relationship dingy anchorered out of a sexual luxury yatcht moment!

We’ve come too far to base our primal needs on a long term prospect.

Take him deeply and with passion! Get pregnant even – have a baby If that’s a desire and if he’s submitting…

There you go; that’s today’s woman – empowered.

Taryn Tantra
Taryn Tantra

..should add; have cap rising was whacked by Pluto when I had these experiences… so you can cap-Italise big time especially when and Uranus goes awol in juicy sensual Taurus. Enjoy!

monte
monte

You are probably more alike than you think…

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Wow what a brilliant thread, so much wisdom and experience here. I’m assuming you don’t know his rising or other placements, HSG? It would be good to get an idea of his Mars/Venus/Moon… Anyway here’s my take. His Toro will be pinging your Cap which is currently enhanced by Pluto in Cap and all the Virgo planets.. and you are having wonderful, earthy, healing sex. Fantastic! Toros, all the appetites – they can teach the rest of us about properly inhabiting our bodies. The transformative aspects of this suggest Pluto or Chiron could be involved – what house is your… Read more »

12th House Virgo
12th House Virgo

Sage advice!

VenusianVirgo
VenusianVirgo

Im following this whole discussion intensley, but what you said Chrysalis just struck a cord with me. I am in a relationship that has no Mars-Venus chemistry and I am a Venusian woman. Venus conjunct ascendant in Libra. I also have Moon in Aries, and strong Mars squares. I have no trouble pursuing or going after who I want. I love love love sex, this guy has Saturn square Mars and had a lot of sexual issues when we first got together. Pretty much the first year I was infuriated sexually 24/7. But I stuck with it as I felt… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Sounds like our situs were a bit different…my ex-hub was Neptune rising in Scorp, so who knows if I ever really knew the real him. He had Mars in Cancer (lo not haute – pass-agg to the max) and like me, Venus in Aqua. He had issues deep and troubling way beyond what I could deal with. I suppose the troubles began about sex but ended up being a clusterfuq of mistrust and dislike and the weight of so much unspoken. He was unwilling to even discuss my real pain at so much rejection, and worse, he hooked into my… Read more »

VenusianVirgo
VenusianVirgo

That’s nice to hear, and exactly what I have decided with the psychic scenario. People can be wrong, and besides life is in my own hands.

I think your right about Mars square Saturn. Although at first it was like trying to love someone who was cold as ice, and just a WALL.. Afer working on it, he has relaxed considerably. Now I am seeing the work ethic and how composed he is as such a positive. Always reliable, and he does apply this to our relationship. Thanks for the reply!

marsbar
marsbar

Well unless they spelled it out, “heartbreak” can be just about anything..like finding out he is a Lakers fan when you are a Spurs fan sort of thing too. It doesn’t always mean break up. Give the relationship your best shot and hope for the best!

Pi
Pi

“I wonder if with so much Cap you are also hardwired to have half an eye on the future and ‘ticking all the boxes’. Perhaps you are being shown another kind of relationship, another dimension of yourself is waking up, and some of your ‘givens’ are now up for negotiation.”

This so much right now!

I’m glad you commented, xhrysalis – was wondering what you were thinking with the triple Toro and all.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

OMG the Triple Toro is a lot like HSG’s guy. In my situ he has money issues (Mars in 2nd opp Neptune in 8th), a hoarder, politically not on the same page. But I really like him and the bedwork is fabulous. My friends like him, as long as we steer clear of politics lol We are still together, I am still trying to figure it out. I don’t want to make a wrong decision. Part of my problem is that I yearn for something more creative, more romantic, where we talk about ideas instead of fulfilling appetites. Yet at… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

“You can’t always get what you want
You can’t always get what you want
You can’t always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You just might find
You get what you need”

(The Strolling Bones)

Pi
Pi

You are not banging on. Take it from a gem rising Sun mercury person, haha I completely understand about the need to talk about ideas. There’s only so much of the mundane and small world personal I can hack before my brain starts looking for gaps in the fence seeking greener pastures. I think it’s why I find higher ed so satisfying. And on the short occcasions where I dated (or hey! Just hang out with) men who are on the same page intellectually /conceptually (like with anyone we have common ground with i guess), I initially do a double… Read more »

Pi
Pi

This isn’t snobbery, by the way, some ppl seek a mutual love of fetish gear and studded vinyl, others look for whatever , an interestingly stocked bookshelf or something.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

I reckon your 9th house sun needs a smart guy, Pi…staying up ’til 3am talking about important stuff. Clever banter. My first love was a bloke I stayed up all night talking to. Left at 6am and walked home, buzzing on convo and coffee. A quadruple Gem. it’s not that the Triple Toro isn’t smart – he’s postgrad qualified, street smart, and he reads people better than anyone I know. I just miss a more spiritual/creative/intellectual connection. It was great when it was about eating and drinking. I’m moving away from that towards a simpler and cleaner life. I ditched… Read more »

Pi
Pi

tough call. it’s hard to know at what point we get our fix from outside the relationship vs desiring it from the partner.

JillLoftis
JillLoftis

Or maybe there should be a dating service for those of us with sun in the Eighth House.

JillLoftis
JillLoftis

Never never never never.

Never.

Jokerman
Jokerman

I don’t wanta talk about it….but l think about it all the time.

Catherine Cox
Catherine Cox

I think the Uranus live transit tends to be what the hell am I doing but doing it anyway

Pi
Pi

Question for the question: all the comments above are like “sex whenevs” ok cool, but I was just wondering if it might actually be a personally significant Chiron transit that significantly muffles libido? If one is sensitive to existential stuff? Or Neptune transit? (Nothing is real). Maybe that depends on availability of sex I.e. if one is already in a relationship or not. I just think that the yin factor of Chiron isn’t exactly the kind of vibe for heading out on the pull

dark star
dark star

There’s a mystic article I remember on Neptune transits trending somewhat dry spell..you’re too delicate psychically to disassociate during sex or it has to be soulful so finding a rando on tinder will not work always? And Chiron has been trans the same area recently

quintile
quintile

neptune transits can lead to confusion and delusion in relationships – high neptune aspects can be mystical but low can be very delusional.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Ain’t that true. Neptune, in my 8th, is separating from my Mars Pluto Vesta Venus in the 2nd/Virgo.
And she who has hurt me so much is a Pisces Sun Moon Mars Chiron cj.

I have cds.

Pi
Pi

so true about Neptune!!! Hahaha / argh I have come to believe the key with Neptune is to take absolute and all encompassing, embodied cosmic responsibility for everything we say, do and feel. If we are a universe unto ourselves projecting outwardly, this is the deal maybe? I’m saying this in the context of how much I now value a practice of “acceptance” in giving me new degrees of both emotional freedom and the capacity to love freely without … expectation? . Not sure. In this way we can take the universe into ourselves. If that makes sense? Saying “s/he… Read more »

marsbar
marsbar

Ha! You just reminded me of the controversy with that “look what you made me do” taylor swift song. Because those are the words of a narcissist or abuser potentially. No one can make you do anything.

marsbar
marsbar

So do you love this guy? If you do, I am not sure it shows in this post. And does he love you? We know very little about this man except superficial stuff and that he is a Toro. Because ultimately this is one of the things that decides if you will last or not. I knew of a couple who had the worst synastry i had ever seen. Totally different interests and personalities. I don’t know how one would even get together except it was arranged. They lasted 10 yrs together! Because they were determined to! But as soon… Read more »

Pi
Pi

It’s funny isn’t it how were totally into someone for uranian reasons but we’re ashamed of it/them in some way. Even if they are as u say kind, decent, respectful, yummy in some way humans. And thank u mars bar for the reminder that Uranus Venus transit is not necessarily coup de coeur type stuff, It can just be ‘the unexpected’..

Jokerman
Jokerman

I looked up that meaning to be sure.
Funny thing: when l got married l had Venus exact on my Uranus AND Uranus exact on my Jupiter. Freakish.

marsbar
marsbar

Even your marriage had the stamp of Uranus!

Jokerman
Jokerman

Venus @ 15° Leo applying square Uran @ 22° Scorp. Cusp of 2nd to Cusp of 5th.

marsbar
marsbar

Sometimes “social shame” as in my friend’s case is more from ego because she is an FJ and a Libra so she wants him to match her. In a way that makes sense from the outside. But yes she is uranian as well! Good guess!

I am more wow-im-too-weird-nobody-exactly-like me that finding an exact match would be close to imposs so why try? Just be happy with close-enough. In my case people have been wondering where i have been.

Jokerman
Jokerman

I’m weirder than you….by a country kilometre. I don’t even know what fuqn planet I’m on. Or drugs for that matter. Alas I’m not on with anyone.

sphinx
sphinx

I like what Pi said above about body having it’s own language. Your intellectual mind and consciousness is very self-important to think it can rule your life with an iron fist!! But the body knows, the body remembers. There are universes inside you populated with inner constellations longing for expression, with loving memories of joyous times with this soul. Maybe you were red insects in the Amazon together having a ball of time? Or pink river dolphins? No one cared about your political affiliation then, it didn’t matter. Perhaps if it feels right let your inner stellium of characters speak… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Aww red insects in the Amazon!! <3 #2getha4eva

Pi
Pi

Love the way you talk about a silent little language.

Aquasunrise
Aquasunrise

I have the Esther Perel book and think she is rather pragmatic. You can listen to/ view her via Ted Talks, which is quite interesting. Once upon a time I think pragmatism was a good ploy as far as incredible sex was concerned…it can be in endless supply… an heighten and alter ones state, in knowing, yet I’d say that the dignity that is unspoken of, in modality of erotic movement may not be enough… Your resolve has to be relative to your current circumstances; you may be open now and yet it may pass as you access other insights… Read more »

kriblack
kriblack

If it ain’t broke don’t fix it. Why do you have to give up a good thing or alter it if it works the way it is. Keep on enjoying your life altering sex. Who needs conversation when the chemistry is that good, Good conversation can be had with anyone, great sex is harder to come by. Enjoy while it’s working for you and relax. When the time comes that you need more and it’s not working for you, you’ll move on. Or, maybe it will grow to become an amazing relationship that broadens both of your life experiences and… Read more »

marsbar
marsbar

Good conversation can be had with anyone?
LOL! You don’t work in any job that requires customer service, because I can personally vouch that is NOT true. Most people are lacking skill when it comes to convos.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

That’s interesting because my experience has been the exact opposite. Easier to find decent sex than mind-altering conversation. Perhaps as Venus in Aqua I tend to detach and compartmentalise sex somewhat.
Merc in Pisces 7th house trine Neptune – I need good convo like a drug haha

davidl
davidl

So you’re early 40s ? Hello ! this is just the beginning of YOUR life. Before that you’re still in the fittting room trying on different you’s. Welcome to the time when pleasure doesn’t have to be muddled up with aspiration and old dreams. This period between 40 and 60 is about what makes your heart mind and body sing. There is a simple rule I follow. Is this making me feel better ? Is this making me feel higher ? Is this growing stronger each time ? If so carry on. There are many of us who have similar… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel

Fantastic comment, perfect. He’s putting you back in touch with your power – the experience is healing you. I bet you have a Chiron transit going on, never mind Saturn’s need to draw clear boundaries. My thoughts exactly. It’s great sex, enjoy it while it lasts, no need to make it into something it isn’t, and appreciate how huge the power of a ‘purely physical’ connection can be.

dark star
dark star

I love this re: bliss cycles and 40-60…I do feel before that a person is usually more self involved

12th House Virgo
12th House Virgo

This is beautiful.

12th House Virgo
12th House Virgo

This is beautiful.

Sometimes I get blissed out for no reason and I want to put a mask on it. Turn it into romance and love zombie out on it – but nothing is there. It’s still love. I’m in love. Just with no one. Sometimes it’s so sweet it stings.

No sex tho. Not opposed to it. I must be living the no-sex transit.

Pi
Pi

Yes this. Once you detach from the need to apply it to a person, it’s like finding the holy grail, or a secret? key to lasting joy or lightness …that sort of thing.
Sometimes I experience it towards or received from another person, it seems to function best by just letting it exist in me and sending a cosmic note of gratitude to the source. (I think I have The Capricorn to thank for a big part of this process)

12th House Virgo
12th House Virgo

I discovered it as a result of a love zombie relationship. It’s so strange to me now that I ever thought it had to do with him. Just like you can’t give someone hunger, you can’t give someone love.

Pi
Pi

YES wow that’s a really interesting way of putting it. Love zombieness, it can really deliver hahahahaahah xx

davidl
davidl

I’ve said it here before but I do feel the ‘beings’ are the planets themselves. We are more like sex spores, male oriented or female. So when 2 sex spores are doing it right we get a taste of what it is to be a whole being, the power and the glory of that universal status. I imagine the planets, star systems and galaxies as being in a constant state of transcendental bliss and that this is the the state that truly powers the multi verses. Aside from sexual union I’ve found bliss in devotional mantra. Something I am forever… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

I’m a giving sort of person (how can ya not be with Kat Sun & Asc & Mars cj Venus in 2nd Virgo) but when ya live where 3.2 ppl per 1000 sq kms there aint much takers. I just realised how one planet’s traversity, from one house to the next, has linked lessons. So Pluto fuqs up my career (6th) options, sends me to the nulla, where everybody is either too young, partnered or pickled. My teaching career is now revived, it’s now my relationship life that is as desolate as Tarcoola. (My move to SE Qld is mired… Read more »

ScorpintheSky
ScorpintheSky

I’m turning 40 this month so thanks for giving me something to look forward to. I believe you.

Tauroscorp
Tauroscorp

There is no such thing as ” just great sex”.
There is always something to really amazing wild chemistry although it may not be obvious to you.
I believe you are overthinking the situation. Listen to the wisdom of your body.
But then,
Im a taurean as well.

Pi
Pi

yes. Bodies are a language too. we should not make this inferior to other stuff, *as long as* the other dynamics are not generating hurt, resentment, or other feelings of ‘something’s not right and i am not myself here’.

Tauroscorp
Tauroscorp

Exactly Pi. And if something is not right it usually is reflected in the physical and shows up in the form of illness, low energy etc.
the body is more directly connected to the subconscious and expresses things directly.

current
current

Nothing lasts….the sex will fade you’ll get bored

davidl
davidl

That’s not necessarily true. You can find something that grows and continues to grow. Sexual pleasure can induce spiritual bliss. In fact it’s been understood for thousands of years as the doorway to a deeper understanding of spirit and true happiness. Hey, and it’s free ! Maybe worth keeping the door open on this one current.

current
current

I guess I’m more middle way than tantra.

marsbar
marsbar

I am the same. But for me to have something stable that makes me happy long term, friendship needs to be present. I was in a relationship for 6 yrs before realizing i would never be friends with said individual if we weren’t mashing organs. But at the time i was oblivious to being a demisexual!
Know who you are at any age!!

emg
emg

Oh no it’s the sex for me ! Neptune in Scorpio my 8th. Live and die for the sex!

Jokerman
Jokerman

Can l add my 0.2c worth? I agree with you both. Sex is fanbloodytastic; no question. But there has been a few times I’ve experienced it consensually, and by itself, with no emotional input. I have come away, everytime, feeling empty with some self-loathing. Us Cancertslike sex just as much as Scorpio-types but there has to be that emotional connection. I qualify this by knowing that Scorpio feels emotions too but they can ‘iced-over’; at times. I esp feel that dichotomy as the 2 rulers of Pisces are SDirect T Squaring Focalisers, in Scorpio, in the 4th. Asc trine Nep,… Read more »

emg
emg

I’m a cancer moon mars in 4th cancer sun Jupiter in 5th but I need no emotional warm up or connection to really enjoy a sexual connection or act. Granted a long term relationship needs a connected quality but without incredible sex it’s just so tough for me. Pisces rising with Neptune in Scorpio 8th. And of course with Jupiter just hitting Scorpio and my 8th the work is going to be about finding great quality experience in this field. Or bedroom or kitchen or stairs…

current
current

Nothing lasts…

Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

HA! I thought Taurus as soon as I read “opens snail mail with hunting knife”. I know a few who do this. Great sex/chemistry at ANY age, obvi. The fact you “can’t introduce him to your friends” sound problematic. Does he do political ranting 24-7? Or are your friends the ones who just dive straight into politics? Surely you could have a quiet word with both–these are my friends their politics may differ from yours but please treat them with respect? Could you develop some common ground? Organic gardening? The environment? Sustainable living? These all vibe Taurus/earth sign I would… Read more »

ScorpintheSky
ScorpintheSky

Good on you Lux. This is what I think too. Lust comes from a place deep in the subconscious that I don’t think can be easily rejoined with “learn the lesson/move on”. Can you find common ground? Lust CAN put us in a place of humility and openness that more easily allows for mental integration and wholeness a la Dan Siegel.

dark star
dark star

The title of this made the Scorpio in me recoil…and the thought of changing a Taurus made me laugh. Id agree enjoy the sexx for what it is and manifest someone with Everything

Medicatrix
Medicatrix

Ha. Ditto. And I also agree with Mystic that there is something terribly saturnine about pragmatically attending to your physical needs. (At least that’s what I’m going to tell myself from now on- lol!!)

Christine
Christine

Having just been through a Uranus opposition, I’d say you guys will break up after Uranus is done transiting that area of your chart. Your beliefs and approaches will change, but I predict that the Taurus guy will get lazy and you’ll get bored and move on, having learned whatever you need to learn or work out whatever you needed to work out with him. I have a strong Uranian signature in my chart (Uranus square Sun) and although I am already wired for the unusual, the opposition shook my life up so much that I found myself doing things… Read more »

ScorpintheSky
ScorpintheSky

Interesting. Thanks for sharing.

leoliza
leoliza

Do you like this man? There is no conversation or any talking? Just badda bing badda boom? I don’t think I could be with someone I was embarrassed to introduce to my friends.

CleverUserID
CleverUserID

I’m having the best sex of my life at almost 54. We might even be soul mates, but if we weren’t/ aren’t I’d still be all in for the sex.

I say just enjoy it, but stay open to other opportunitues. This could be a primer for even greater things to come.

Pi
Pi

this gives me hope

OMG LOL

I had actually typed
“this gives me hoe”

CleverUserID
CleverUserID

and thus therein lies hoe-dom bwaaaahahahaha !!!

i gotta tell you as soon as i utterly gave up. boom.

the universe is a weird place.

Pi
Pi

😀

Gemyogi
Gemyogi

Thus gives *me* hope!
Still celibate and still looking… in between phases where I look at my mostly unhappily partnered friends and think ‘why do they waste their time on that one?’ My single life is good

CleverUserID
CleverUserID

single was/is awesome. when you own wherever you’re at and rock it, it’s all good. i was absolutely happy being single. and then this. who knew!?

Pi
Pi

I don’t actually understand the question. I agree with both Mystic and LV!?!? why would you even ask that? Most of my relationships were founded on a solid but untenable basis of really sexy sex and a monumental mismatch in values, beliefs and lifestyles/ recreational pastimes. The sex (and some other mercurial cool conversation stuff, they were all air signs rising) kept the liaisons going far longer than they should have He is a taurus. He is a man. He won’t change. Just suggesting that now. Particularly if he is over 40ish and has an absence of mutable energy in… Read more »

Pi
Pi

mostly what i like about this whole scenario is that mind blowing bed (wherever) work does not harbour prejudice unlike the rest of our silly minds. It seeks only one thing… mutual satisfaction 😀

dark star
dark star

Shagmanic lol dying can you tm that

Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

IKR?!!

Pi
Pi

#shagmanic

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Multi-layers of genius in this word! Let’s try to get it in the dictionary. xx

Jokerman
Jokerman

Multi-Mike-Myers-Layers to that word.

Pi
Pi

have to admit though. it’s nice to just rock up to brunch / whatever people do these days without having to develop a PR manual or use social kid-gloves for loverboy / frends

Pi
Pi

Natal moon square Venus is a real hassle sometimes, lol

Catherine Cox
Catherine Cox

My solution has been to have a great lover who I wouldn’t want to live with as he’s too hectic for me, and a wonderful gay man who adores all the same things as me. I lived and travelled with the latter for a year in a vehicle no problem. I don’t think its a strict rule that you get everything from one relationship though I am sure some people do. So long as its all in the open and all parties are happy then why not? Taurus ♉ with Aries moon and Venus and a Uranus that says freedom!

Catherine Cox
Catherine Cox

P s am 62

Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

Ohh that is genius

kriblack
kriblack

Agreed. I believe my gay best friend is my soul mate. We have almost 100% interests in common. We always get each other, we never have to explain ourselves, we speak nearly every day and we haven’t lived in the same province for almost ten years. We don’t even see each other every year but I never feel like we’ve been apart. And none of the men I’ve dated are remotely like him nor would I want them to be.

marsbar
marsbar

LATs are trendy right now! Acronym for “living apart together”. A lot of older couples post 40 y.o, because of complicated living arrangements like parent or adult child living at home AND housing costs do NOT have room for a live-in lover.

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

NEVER!!! Great sex can happen at any age; it’s about the chemistry and connection between two people. As for your man, though, just don’t try to make a main course out of decadent dive into a bag of potato chips, OK? Although on one level I am sighing with wishful admiration/longing at your description of its wonderful rejuvenating powers, personally as far as I am concerned if I don’t actually *like* you that will kill all desire dead cold. I just can’t fathom bedding a right-wing conspiracy nut. But I am super selective about who I allow into my boudoir… Read more »

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

I think what concerns me most is this: If you get into any “relationship” – and IDC whether it’s an actual official relationship or just a “thing” w/ someone you’re shagging – with the desire to change someone, it is a giant red flag to just stop right there and check yourself. Accept the situation as-is or let go – hoping for/wanting someone to change for you is an exercise in futility/disappointment regardless of incoming transits. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Uranus over his Sun could just as easily mean he gets, like, *legit* crazy BTW :-/ Are… Read more »

Sankt Freundin
Sankt Freundin

Ah. Now I get it. Thanks LiberatingVenus! I’ve been wondering if my hormones are out of whack lately because now I’m horny even when PMS’ing but it must be the Jupiter into Scorpio!! Because even though my hormones are humming, I’ve actually spend long times in selibacy, embracing tantric approach even to sex with myself. I feel like that is Haute Scorp. I have Jupiter in 8th house (+Virgo Mars lol) so I haven’t always been very ‘haute’ when it comes to sex but yay I must be growing self-respect and that all!

Mystic Medusa
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