The Full Relationship Moon

Filed in Full Moons

This will be ranted about with more nuance and sign by sign (or rising sign) in the Monthly Horoscopes for October but check out the Full Moon in Aries on October 5/6. It’s like the ultimate Hot Date Night…On Pluto. Or the “particle collider” version of chats about “us.”

This particular Full Moon – when the Sun in Libra opposes the Moon in Aries – is always a fun ride as broadly speaking, Libra loves “together” and Aries loves to self-actualize. If you’ve gotten the balance out of whack, you feel it with this Moon.

It can be the sort of Moon where, Werewolf like, you go out to howl at Luna for a while before texting some F-Wit to take you back after all…that’s if you’ve been individuating SO much or setting your anti-co-enabling-crap-relationships borders SO high that the Full Moon tips you into needing to get married…Now.  Only you don’t know what century it is because Venus and Mars are also conjunct in Virgo and data from every relationship ever is churning into your brain.

Or it can be a Full Moon that goes the other way; you have made significant compromises of time, money, psyche, place, autonomy, whatever…only you did not know that it was happening. And then suddenly – this process is helped by Pluto being in aspect to both the Full Moon AND Venus-Mars – you come out from your amnesiac trance and hit the roof in a rage, charging around looking for your lost self. Or, you know, just ranting your discontent at the soulmate turned Chief Enabler of Crap Suspect.

Bonus Points for existentially questioning whether it was relationship climate change or you just evolved out of a previous ‘shell’.

True or functional relationships with a foundation of authenticity tend to thrive brilliantly under such stars but you still need to duck the were-bats in the streets, try not to break your jaw tensing up at idiotic communiques landing in your phone/device/front doorstep and view the surreal cavalcade of politics with Priestess-like detachment and poise.

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Sankt Freundin
Sankt Freundin

I still reguralry receive those “I miss you” or more subtle “How are you?” messages from a dedicated army of my loser-ish ex boyfriends/lovers/who-knows-what-it-even-was’s so that’s why I’M FINALLY CHANGING MY PHONE NUMBER tomorrow! Yes! This is the perfect time as I’m finally busting out those sad old ghosts AND unabling myself from ever getting back to them as one weak moment, one text back only provokes months of active longing from their side. And I don’t think a mile long block list is actually good electric devise feng shui. So now or never, very Pluto like, metamorphosis and a… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel

And single people avoiding toxic shitheads & recovering from abusive relationships, therefore not in the dating or marrying pool, get to steer clear & laugh? Please say it is so…

gogengo
gogengo

Jesus take the wheel

So much this

TY Mystic so interested in seeing what October has in store

TripleL
TripleL

FM already in effect for this PIAB. Ran into an ex last night while at Happy Hour for my birthday with my dear Gemini friend. The ex douche ghosted me twice: once on my BD when we were 26 or 27, then again on my BD in 2012. I turned 53 yesterday.

Last night, I wasn’t friendly, but I wasn’t rude, either. I just sat stoically & watched him gazing longingly at me, as he squirmed & fumbled for the right words, not that there are any.

Synchronicity, huh gang?

flowerchild
flowerchild

Good job! You handled it perfectly!

I hope I can be exactly like this if I run into my ex. It’s the perfect way to respond –or, rather, *not* respond. 😉

Happy Birthday, too! 🙂

TripleL
TripleL

Thank you, thank you, flowerchild!

And, if my loaded Saggo big-mouth 7th H (w/Lilith) & Mars in Leo 3rd H can do it, you bet your sweet arse, you can do it! LOL. xx

flowerchild
flowerchild

Oooh! That’s some strong astro! Yeah!!!!

I’ve got nothing of the sort. Pisces Moon, Pisces Mars, and Cancer rising! Total mush!
But I’ve got the icy Venus in Capricorn and aloof Aqua Sun….I’ll try to channel those! 😉

dark star
dark star

Wow I’m so inspired by this too triple L !!! notes for a
Piscean moon

TripleL
TripleL

Yes … a rockin’ plan!

TripleL
TripleL

I am glad, dark star! It has taken YEARS to quasi-master some of the less than favorable/flattering aspects in my natal. Lots of throwing the baby out with the bath water kinds of idiocy. I still shoot first, ask later, at times. But am not quite the verbal missile launcher I once was as a youngster.

Happy weekend!

scorpiodawn
scorpiodawn

its gonna b conjunct my jupiter…eek!

flowerchild
flowerchild

How did I miss this post?! Oh man…….my old housemate moved back to the city and I just went out for drinks with him tonight and with his girlfriend and my current housemate…. Haven’t seen him in a year and a half and I was instantly like, damn, there is serious attraction there, that I felt when he lived here but it just rushed to the forefront tonight……oh wow! But……..he’s in a long term relationship and he’s half my age……. The astro is weighted heavily, he’s got SO MUCH CAPRICORN! Sun, Venus, Mars, Neptune, Uranus and Psyche (exact conjunct my… Read more »

flowerchild
flowerchild

Oh, and all his Cap stuff lands in my 7th house, opposite my Crab rising… gah! Well, at least we’re good friends and he’s my neighbor now, which is kind of amazing that not only did he get to move to San Francisco from Canada — got a good job and the visas and all that — but he randomly ended up getting an apartment less than a block from mine! I guess we have karma together, but what’s great about this situation is that it’s really all GOOD karma. I just felt so happy in a light and optimistic… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Oh I remember you posting about him before! How lovely that you can feel good things and enjoy that the connection is positive and enduring without it needing to be ongoing romance.
Hey I wanted to thank you again for mentioning Hip Sobriety on here. It has totally changed my life and way of thinking. xxx

flowerchild
flowerchild

Thanks, Chrysalis! 🙂

Glad to know you’ve found so much benefit from Hip Sobriety, too! Good news!

Jokerman
Jokerman

This all to confuzzing.

Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

These are the posts I subscribe for!

And they alwayyyys deliver!

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Goodness, so much in play. Mars-Venus on my first house Pluto-Uranus conjunction, Merc on my 2nd house Mars, Pluto still on my moon-Lilith, Saturn on my SN and opp my NN (still, sigh, this feels like it’s been so long Saturn trawling through the base of my chart) and Neptune and Chiron in Pisces almost done with my 7th house. AND a full moon looming ! Yoga is proving my saviour at the moment, it must be releasing a whole bunch of stuff because I get home from class and curl up in a ball and cry. Got to make… Read more »

Scorpy
Scorpy

Yep. I’m feeling this! That last para especially. Anxiety vs intuition. No idea.
My natal Pluto/Uranus is in 8th, along with Mars and Uranus squares my Saggo moon. Burning bridges is my core competency. Fighting the urge every day!! And with Pluto about to go direct in a few days I don’t think I’ll be able to contain myself any longer

Pi
Pi

This lady is amazing (imho) if you’re feeling caught up in these kinds of things. I fill up a podcast app with her longer talks.

https://www.tarabrach.com/

Scorpy
Scorpy

Cheers, but which one? There’s too many to choose from. I have zero motivation or energy today.

Also sick of doing inner work on myself. Nobody else bothers and they do fine in life. Sometimes you just have to say “fuq you” to people.

Scorpy
Scorpy

just to clarify – i feel that only a small portion of the population bother doing inner work. Of course everyone here is self-aware

Pi
Pi

true 100000000000000% on second para. sometimes that’s all the clarity we need 😀

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

I feel a bit the same sometimes… I spend so much time ‘working on myself’ and meanwhile the fuqwits are taking over.

bird
bird

Yes. I feel that way sometimes too. xx

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Thanks for the link – this looks really good xxx

Pi
Pi

I hope you find value in it – the meditations are nice, I find that the talks are very rich with wisdom and you (I) really do feel transformed after listening to one (or more).

bird
bird

“I realised the other day my anxiety is not only back, it’s running the place so well I barely register that it’s taken over.”

Yes! I had the same realisation a couple of days ago. I hadn’t noticed how much of my behaviour is driven by an unconscious compulsion to soothe my anxiety.

FireTryin'
FireTryin'

This made me laugh. Snort. Ha! I have done both these things in my life already. Thought I was individuating but really an undercover agent version of me was hiding in the shadows ready to pounce and get me married, quick like. Then after 20 years, I woke up and went through the roof in a true-lost-my-self rage. I’m better now. I think. I understand shadow code, a little. Enough to know to be careful. While I was sleeping the moon squared my Venus while Mars was conjunct and it was really a lovely dream I had.

Great post.

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

12Aries43 reactivates the Zap Zone hit of December 2014 – no thanks! My Venus & angles have taken enough of a pounding – everything can just go the fuq ahead and step off the Cardinal signs now, TYVM. Unless you plan on bringing me legit cosmic presents for a change, GO AWAY.

TripleL
TripleL

Oh, I second this one, LV! Turn me over, I’m done.

Aquasunrise
Aquasunrise

Does this mean it is NOT an auspicious time to do a 10 day health retreat in physical practice of a spiritual discipline…with many strangers as potentially a revisited scene… It makes me wonder… I have sun in Aquarius 15-20 degrees…6th…the libra sun and Aries moon will make an interesting aspect to my midheaven & IC too. My south node is 2nd similar degrees…north node ares in 8th…I’ve been wanting to go to a boot camp so to speak. The head instructor’s of either choice are both very good. I’m planning to recover my commitment to physical arts, yet it… Read more »

Aquasunrise
Aquasunrise

Oh venus & mars in virgo would be also conjunct my Pluto 1st…Pluto is transiting my 5th, conjunct venus…

Pisces Mars is 7th widely conjunct chiron…opposite Pluto and uranus…

I’d be truly re-inventing/ transforming my being…

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

The physical stuff will get you tired pretty quickly so if you can do your spiritual discipline enough to learn when to accept backing off is not quitting….erm, for both…then you’ve got a good start. With that 2nd 8th axis it’ll be a real push-pull, so keep eyes on the prize and be both committed and forgiving. Libra Sun will be okay with any vascillations normal to forging a new path, but Aries Moon might keep pushing your feelings of inadequacy to task by burnout, if you let it. Let that Aries Moon be your cheerleader for every thing you… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Watch that Piscean Mars dip in energy levels opposed the Plutonic charge to regenrate. Kepp remembering that recharging IS regenerating, and should also lead to sustained effort on much slower terms than you might feel. It’s a marathon not a sprint race. Best of the stars for your endeavour.

Aqusunrise
Aqusunrise

Thanks, Pisces is in 7th. Lol it’d be my unhealthy relationships being hopefully re-shaped/ more discerning my defined by all the Virgo action! Yes folks have to be careful not to burn out…plus my Capricorn Venus 5th is being Pluto-bombed by current transit there

The head instructors are both health “gurus”, though this is about being our own, just that sometimes the spiritual energy sort of siphons people’s individuality. Eyes open, I guess!

Pi
Pi

i’d have thought that the ongoing pisces-virgo dynamic would be pretty good for physical/health/spiritual practice. and with the transiting SN in Aqua, maybe a way to recognise south node-y things while it’s near your sun and feeling all personal-like.
hope your recovery continues, whatever you choose ASRxx

Aqusunrise
Aqusunrise

Hi Pi, agree, thanks. Interesting with Leo north node transiting in the 12th…it’s a retreat organised by a well known health / cult. The aquarian influences would be more in background themes to the Leo agenda. I think 12th house is almost a bit like our shadow persona.

Aqusunrise
Aqusunrise

Pi just another idea; virgo stellium of mars venus hitting natal Pluto is in conjunct the Aquarian stellium of the 6th – that is an aspect of adjustment, and it is often quite uncomfortable…

Sun in 6th (ego) conflict to Pluto 1st (transformation) is really pretty difficult, I’m saying this is really like a testing challenge.

Also neptune is quincunx the libra sun/ mercury vibe…that requires a dexterous mind in the face of any sentimentality or warped emotional dreams…with macho Aries moon, which will conjunct my saturn 8th to ramp up the effort! Nothing like pain as fuel to streamline feelings…

Pi
Pi

Wow that’s a big mix of aspects there. They all seem to indicate some kind of personal awareness trip.

Jan
Jan

Ah, tits. I actually cannot be bothered with this but suspect it will be a major thematic given the flow of life lately. Conjoining MC and NN in my chart and in the chart of the person I’m seeing. Recent and ongoing conversations are pointing this in the ‘howling at the moon’ direction for sure… I swear i’m gonna be the addict that ends up starting a Pisces Anonymous group after this full moon.

Centaurus
Centaurus

Hahaha…noted.
That little bit of insight is written so well.
I am well amused considering my mission and geographic coordinates during this moon. I will be in a strike zone. Good thing I have a handy border to cross if necessary and several safe houses to take cover.

Centaurus
Centaurus

I may also be going for bonus points…
Jupiter Uranus round 3 – ding ding

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

The board game reference had my Sag thing going, “Yeah ok we can do this.” Not sure why as i’m not known as a board game freak, but it’s actually true. Won a French wine at a quiz night once. Not that i do quiz nights, either, but all those games are a good gamble! You gamblin there, girl? Play like you’re a loser who doesn’t give a damn! (Poor advice from a person with gamblers in the fam, who avoids the races and can’t remember card games for just that very reason! Jupiter tricks me into a newbie win… Read more »

Centaurus
Centaurus

Yeah we got this and noooo…not gambling, never interested me. Am not even sure where that little bit of lingo downloaded from but it seemed to fit. Talking in metaphors and perhaps stretching Mars in military mode tactics with Mercury bounding along beside him egging him on with quips.

For a Saggi I find horse racing offensive. Too close to my blood lol … Ive been blessed to have a few equine friends in my life. I forget card games too!

Ding ding was the boxing ring bell.

I suppose I could have summed it up in two words…

Heading north….

xx

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Have fun, you ol’ Mexican! I send you a Charles Bronson stick-on moustache for your journey xxx

*whinny*

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Ah yeah you are probably channelling Jake LaMotta. Sat in the car with an African listening quietly to an interview on the radio with him. God does bless uber rides 🙂

Centaurus
Centaurus

Muchisimas gracias

Yes yes.. I had not considered a disguise. Mo-cognito eh. Me gusta

I had to look up Jake and..that’s entirely plausible since he only recently left this realm though I don’t know why he’d pick me. I’m ok with the jokes but not so much the left hook.

davidl
davidl

Seriously, you two speak in codeShe just placed a bet right ?
I’m on to you guys.

Centaurus
Centaurus

IF.. I were a gambling lass David I’d say it was the Viking /Aries scent of possible war that drew you to this post. Well, that or your kinkier side came out at the mere suggestion of dress ups? Hahaha..

Bless you funny man x

CleverUserID
CleverUserID

this is interesting, been in a very surreal, possibly soulmate, possibly completely dysfunctional relationship for 6 months. we’re either great mirrors, inspiring in each other massive growth, change and karmic up-leveling, or this needs to be set on fire. sounds like this moon will be the time to find out which way to go for sure. and yeah i’m a Libra, so this moon always gives me a little extra kick before i descend to the underworld for the dark half of the year. blood moon. see you on the killing fields.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

There’s never an either-or with those soulmate-y connections – and i say this because the universe has conspired to keep two sag rising and moons in the same grounded location – it’s a both-and. You’re great mirrors, great soul-growth, and great at probably setting it on fire. i guess i am lucky in that the projection seems to have to have some kind of growth, only because i can neither push it nor escape it. And neither can the other person. While i feel all the frustrations of it, i can say that each of us HAS to grow. Sometimes… Read more »

Jan
Jan

This is profound, thank you for sharing this insight. ‘both-and’ indeed…

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

“See you on the killing fields”

Boy, do I know that location well; familiar stomping grounds indeed when you’re Venus/Pluto and your 7th house ruler lies buried in the 8th. Relationships truly are the catalytic converters of the soul; extracting all the noxious pollutants until we finally burn clean.

Cherry Moon
Cherry Moon

The last paragraph – much thanks & will take heed. My jaw is already near breaking point. This will be a true test for my NN-SN (Libra-Aries) resolve.

…*were-bats in the streets* Lol! and how.

marsbar
marsbar

The past few days has been euphoric on project immersion up until yesterday realizing I just finished ovulation. Cue serotonin crash! Been taking kava pick me ups and a wee bit of chocolate to comfort myself. I knew dating a breezy Gem musician would give me lots of space and me time (which is ideal) , but i am lacking attention and cuddles lately (weird because i am not normally cuddly). He has been texting me a lot more it seems since i have started indulging in a new Aries fantasy celeb crush while he is out of town for… Read more »

Ren Wah
Ren Wah

I’m probs more the raging lunatic. Plus the Uranus Jupiter opposition is bang on my mc/ic. Feeling like I can take down the roman empire single handed AND warp zap into a new reality!!

Belle
Belle

I seem to have just played this scenario out earlier today.. Hell what will I be like next week..

Janey
Janey

Gahh, me too!

jeskile
jeskile

Me three!!

Aquapath
Aquapath

Me Four. It was a doozy.

Pi
Pi

Ok whoa lol. It’s on my midheaven/IC which means both natal Eris and Pluto are directly in play. Hahahahah oh well, if I can survive outer planet transits to these two on my chart angles then surely I can survive this (and if not then that becomes someone else’s problem I guess!). Can I surTHRIVE though. YES WE CAN #aries So astro freaks is this right? The full moon will be translated by Mars (moon in Aries) and Venus (sun in Libra) conspiring in Virgo. As the Virgo action is in my 3rd house, is this -as in right now… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Maybe I have some kind of implosion and walk out of the house with nothing more than my toothbrush and never come back.

dark star
dark star

Second that…pulled my chart and it looks kind of scary. Lots of libra Lilith squares and sun opposite mars venus :/ note to self Avoid public

Pi
Pi

You’re right. 10th house and 3 rd house with close links to er, conflict-seeking planets could apply to PR issues as much as ‘opportunity’… Maybe I unplug the modem for a bit instead.

dark star
dark star

Hahaha Love your phrasing **conflict seeking planets**…I’m actually due for some quiet contemplation so its opportune

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I say work on your creative venture BUT keep the emails open in the background, so you can deal with them by typing response, getting back to biz and then sending your perfectly edited communique.

A little tip: delete the sender from the To so you don’t accidentally send until it’s truly ready.

Pi
Pi

genius. thank you!! i was overthinking it all..
also a big fan of that high-stakes email Sender management tip 🙂

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Not genius, just accident prone Sag Rising in combat with Cap ruler 3rd house. The Cringing, now and again! Works out but by god!

Delete sender as soon as you hit reply, and before you start to forge the text 🙂

davidl
davidl

I’m back at my desk playing with people’s business systems.
I learnt my lesson long ago about pushing the go button way too soon on looping email scripts.
Sometimes I forget to write the stop button. Once started those scripts can send thousands of emails until you basically smash the computer on the floor. Once I sent out thousands of emails with purchase orders attached while testing a new script 🙂 Then I had to send them all another email asking them to disregard the last one.

shit happens 😉

dark star
dark star

Good tip!!!!!

S
S

My conversations today were all around intimate relationships. Could be the urge that surfaces after a funeral. I wear his wish on a tshirt for love, peace and help the world. I’ve found a return of several people in my life, these relationships have a renewed harmonious flavour. Could a romantic relationship be next? The right kind would always be welcome.

Pi
Pi

my sympathies S.

i’m sure you’re due for some of the good stuff.

S
S

Thank you Pi. My son’s friend who past away, found it difficult to get to a salon to have his hair cut, dealing with repeated headlice infestations and he had beautiful hair. The prevention, intervention and ongoing support strategies for suicide (both youth and adult) needs a royal commission. This boy’s life reflects so much of my journey and I am determined to help. Glad I could provide details of support services to some of his friends. Speaking up about services that I need as a person with a disability to complete my course. I finished an artwork from 2010,… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Also a Hot Tip: bad or chronic cases of “clench-jaw” can be offset by shrieking with laughter. See Also: Saggitarius; Gemini; YouTube comedy marathons.

marsbar
marsbar

Great tip! I live under a rock and didnt know about how funny Key and Peele were (they are no longer doing comedy together). Here is “Menstruation Orientation”:

http://www.cc.com/video-clips/yd1c36/key-and-peele-menstruation-orientation—uncensored

Pi
Pi

Because this is the internet and it is global except when it isn’t, and it’s Comedy Central [Hey Comedy Central!! You Suck!!], it’s not available in my location. So basically this means that Mystic can’t send the emails when she wants to send them because servers don’t know that Local Time means (eg. my email arrived 5pm Monday (whatever), but then, comedy central knows what digital viewing zone I am in, or whatever it’s called, I think its other name is You Can’t Sit With Us – Very Un-Aquarian and anathema to the founding principles of the internet, not that… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte
milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Dont even know what that emoticon is.

A flounder, i think. Both eyes on the same goddamned side.

Cos sometimes it be like that

Pi
Pi

ahahaha thank you Mille…

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Too flippin curious to view, me, and Merc in Aries in 5th will NOT have my creative inspiring entertainment BLOCKED 🙂

Glad to help a more techy person than i am! That’s great!

Pi
Pi

right?! 9th house fish sun mercury here **I shall not be geo-blocked** [you can’t block an entire ocean] lol
or is that more for scorpio sadge types hahaha.

also, I think men shouting at other men about women’s experiences is an under-utilised tool of the women’s movement

Pi
Pi

5th house aries merc probably gets that medal though 😀

dizzarina
dizzarina

That was pretty much the best thing ever.

Pi
Pi

also, thank you Marsbar!! sorry, I got distracted 😀

Pi
Pi

Is she trying to get the attention of Jupiter (incumbent) in Scorpio? 😉

Kim S
Kim S

Hot date night and particle collider spell bender–maybe reprise the warm up rounds different weekends, different nights different cities. Go the universe for a I did not see that coming type of vibe. Just when you think you are coming into port it seems there you are, there YOU ARE all at sea again, away on the open main. Why not share that with a pirate black magic women or femme fatale

Leo-Scorp Grrrl
Leo-Scorp Grrrl

With no relationship and none in sight, I suppose I keep individuating. Certainly I’ve come out of a relationship shell. (excuse for dry spell?) I’d rather be alone than be the lady in the first image. I don’t have time for drama. No down dating and no keeping anyone around just for fun. I mean, Saturn is heading to Capricorn! To join Pluto. I’m sure I’ll need some fun, but only with authentic peeps!

Ariel
Ariel

My thoughts exactly! Good on you 🙂

inner_circle8
inner_circle8

Hahaha I’m excited!

Break up blues? Got that, check.
Wanting independence? Got that too.
Having opportunities left right and centre? Check.

Hehhe it can go either way for me!
Haha I wonder what will happen?

Oh skipping in and out of detachment from it all? Yeah I think it’s this bit.

Thank you, it’s slowly making sense.
Also it wasn’t the mars in Virgo that fired me up.
I think it’s the Pluto.

Rubent
Rubent

AHAHAH, reading wikipedia plot lines for silent films is basically like watching them. Humming whatever soundtrack that may have been used. Both ‘Sunrise’ and your posts could be mini episodes currently playing out inmyhead. Of course they could easily be playing out with and through another, but THAT is the current crux of the Libra/Aries axis for me. Since right now, for these sorts of things to play out in day to day/waking life feels like one party (likely me) would suffer some very very dire drawbacks and repercussions on different levels is I were to indulge myself at this… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Yes.

KellyH
KellyH

Dear god.. I mean my anti-co-enabling-crap-relationships borders are pretty damn high but still.. damn.. this sounds like get thee to a mountain retreat and disable all communications devices STAT kind of warning. And yes yes, I’m a Libran riding the individual lifestyle, forget the schizzle relationships groove train to the max kind of gal at the moment.

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