Geminis Are The Most Flirtatious – True Or False?

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Women born under the sign of Gemini are considered the most flirtatious.”

This is from 1953 – was it true then? Is it true now? Is “flirtatious” even a thing anymore or is there a more mindful term for it?  Please debate this here. Anecdotal proof welcome.

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Anna
Anna

Moon in Gemini and Venus in Gmeini are very flirtatious, yes. Sun in Gemini and Mars in Gemini, no. I myself am a Mars in Gemini and I don’t like to flirt.

LightningButterfly
LightningButterfly

A note on scorpio flirting! For those who remember my work crush Scorp from a recent Ask Mystic – he came up to my desk and said “what’s it gonna take for a guy like you and a girl like me to go to Starbucks?” Everyone in my cube pod cracked up laughing. And the funny thing is I’d just hit up Oracle for “Is X thinking about me right now?” (yeah, I know) And it said “X is right now thinking of ways to impress you.”

amystar
amystar

It is both true and false 😉
Gemini Sun, Mercury, Chiron
:p

Kay
Kay

Flirting is a game of the minds…a sparring match. Know your target. Know your strategy. Work your charm. Knowing whether or not you actually want to take home the prize is another story…

Gemini Mercury/Venus

Triple Air Gem
Triple Air Gem

I have Gemini sun conjunct Venus in the 5th, with Lilith conjunct MC in Scorpio, and I am accused of flirting all. the. time. Quite often I am flirting but the amount of times it’s assumed I am, yet I’m not, is pretty hysterical. I like to think I’m sprinkling a bit of love and charm wherever I go, because life can be pretty drab and everyone needs a bit of pizzaz in their day – especially if they can’t generate it themselves. (I can’t believe I used the word pizzaz, but yeah it makes sense to me). I also… Read more »

marsbar
marsbar

So slightly off-topic here but I swear what is it with Geminis and clogged tub drains? Too busy flirting to get drains cleaned?

Just about everywhere I have showered at that is owned by a Gem (both male and female) (rich and struggling class), and I don’t fucking care how famous said Gem is …fucking mansion…NYC flat in Manhattan place….you’d think since they have maid service…..the shower drain is a mess where water trickles down a slow pace. 🙁

Rubent
Rubent

Geminis are kids! I mean that in the best of ways and I’m talking more about the Gemini essence/energy rather than the people themselves (seeing as no one can be ALL Gemini) That childish energy is childish not in the sense of immaturity (though it can be) but rather a very genuine curiosity – a curiosity first and foremost I think in ideas and concepts (it’s the first communication sign afterall!) – and their enchantment with those things is reflected in the way they express themselves. Other people are like pockets of ideas and concepts for Geminis to look into,… Read more »

connie
connie

I think you covered the Gemini vibe extremely well and comprehensively.

Rubent
Rubent

aw, thanks man!

LightningButterfly
LightningButterfly

Me too!

Pi
Pi

Nice,
I picture Scrooge McDuck in his cavern, joyously flinging around not money, but thoughts and ideas and options and connections and possibilities and fun and so on.

Rubent
Rubent

Ahahah, exactly!
Instead of cold coins it’s like a room of visible wind threads and scrouge is riding on over and in between them, wide open mouth laugh and twittering over the richness of his thought juggles.

Laurel
Laurel

Gemini ascendent here. I’m friendly. Then shocked when my charm, giggle and eyelash flutter gets taken seriously. Dude, I mean, I talk to EVERYONE like that, even 3 year old kids. Actually especially little kids, we get along famously. 😛 Stop taking friendly banter and appreciative glances as anything more than “I notice people and talk to them” k?
PS my vote is for the poet above. Though I’d probably change my mind for some haiku 😛

sphinx
sphinx

I’ll bite:

Gemini sets sail
Sleek through the mirror pond fray,
Keel cleanly slicing.

sphinx
sphinx

Flirtatious is loquacious but depending on INTENT A conversation with Gemini.. can get rather bent. Depending on the quality of Mutable in store, On it’s aspects and house placements, applicable planetary lore, We may find ourselves in conversation (in variable situations) with a multitude of conflagrations (expressed by variable vocations) as Gemini must vary by the very nature of God’s Law. Moon may make for grandiose, especially with Fire on hand A Gem Ascendant champagne-giddy, ever dancing to the band If Saturn is well aspected a walking Ethics Committee you may find Or perhaps a steel Sword-swallower, who can can… Read more »

Pi
Pi

<3

Alouetta
Alouetta

Aw yay!!

connie
connie

wonderful!

Bilybee
Bilybee

Love this <3

Kel
Kel

The person who penned this quote in the 1950s was obviously hypnotised by the smouldering pout, dramatic lashes and restless skirt hem of the gemini queen Norma Jean a.k.a Marilyn Monroe. The woman in the picture even looks similar with only a change of hair colour to disguise the obsession. Marilyn certainly acted the role of a flirtatious, suggestive and possibly available dame with an ease that is totally gemini – as for flirting being more prevalent in one sign over another though? flirting has a myriad guises and forms, and the more passive forms of flirting (i.e., cancerian woman… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Holy shit don’t get me started on Capricorn flirting ahahahahaaha xoxo

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

They pin you with their steely gaze and decide they want you and then you are theirs…..

Pi
Pi

also they like to fix things for you. they want to build you into their system.

Pi
Pi

A q though, had you sussed his sun sign first? Or simply doing hot for teacher, cappy styles?

Kel
Kel

I didn’t know his astro stuff at all, just kind of decided it was going to happen. But after the fact, turns out he is a cap too 😉

Pi
Pi

Hahaha! Bullseye 😀

dark star
dark star

Gemini: MVP-Flirt Olympics. Charming is their baseline pulse like breathing or eating. Witnessed it recently: was hanging out with my friend and a Gemini acquaintance. The Gem had, as my friend put it- blacked out a few drinks earlier but was somehow spitting decent game while barely standing. Haha quite impressive. I also have a friend with strong gem vibes fielding a proposal to be a third member of a marriage (a professor while we’re in school no less), become a designer for one of the biggest tech companies in the world with no actual tech experience, star in his… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Is it possible that scorpy moons see the bs but still enjoy the entertainment value ? They are easily bored by the mundane otherwise it seems. Gem energy adds court jester levity to an otherwise humdrum moment…

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

I agree my Scorp Moon / Virgo Sun enjoy The Wit but don’t try and manipulate me with charm cause I will NOT be

dark star
dark star

yes I could definitely see that juxtaposition..

hermes26
hermes26

I’m a Gemini and never intentionally flirt other than back when I was dating. I do go out of my way to be friendly with all people and creatures though. Unfortunately I’ve found that when an attractive woman is friendly it’s seen as flirting. And when an attractive woman is shy she’s “a stuck up snob”. All the Gem women I know are not flirty but I once dated a Gemini chef (multiple Gem planets and ascendant) who flirted like Captain Jack Sparrow and could woo just about any girl with his confidence alone. Oh, and his tendency to call… Read more »

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

I worked with The Most Gemini throughout the Nauties in a high end fashion atelier he was a puckish gay man child first spotted in Brigit Jones Diary as a scene stealing extra in the egg peeling scene long before I met him He was a persistent flirt who had a sexual harassment case brought against him by a WOMAN Even I pashed him He personifies the Gemini elements of mutability, his alter ego is a hilariously middle aged widow now filling Arthouse cabaret shows in major festivals in Australia after starting his career as a incredibly talented designer /… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

I’ve gotta mate who is listed in my phone as Quicksilver. He is Gem Sun, Asc, Moon, Merc & Venus. He can make a purchase of concrete sound like he is trying to flirt the salesman. And he is totally hetro. He’lll even talk to a 75 yo woman the same way as a teen girl. I swear he even once made a pass to a…….Dalmatian.

Pi
Pi

I would love to have overheard that concrete phone sales order. Hahaha. Purely out of curiosity, mind! Gems don’t even have to resort to officially salacious language or heavy breathing. That’s the magic y’see

sphinx
sphinx

🙂

rachel
rachel

I mean, clearly there are other astro factors in play with this– My experience with Gemini vibe is that they do tend to be in fact rather charming and “flirtatious”–WHEN THEY FEEL LIKE IT at least, LOL–and can then also go cold on a dime if it strikes them. The lightness about them, mental activity like fluttering wings, quick wit, humor, etc. does translate well to flirting. Leos flirt with everything though–lovers, friends, the stars, the moon, THEMSELVES , LOL. And really, unless hungry or otherwise enraged, Leos crave affection possibly more than any other sign. Perhaps this does sometimes… Read more »

Greta
Greta

Absolutely false. Genuine interest and care for other humans should be the norm, not a sign of defect. Also the fact that others find us charming or attractive is not our problem, you think we’re flirting when in reality we’re probably considering the issue you just presented, already have the probable outcome and have moved on to the next issue.

emg
emg

Flirting is not a defect. It’s a gift !!

Calli G
Calli G

I think the combination of Venus and Mercury in a person’s chart would have more influence on their flirtation (which I’m defining as communication with a sexual and/or romantic undertone) skills than a person’s sun sign. I’m thinking a Scorpio with Venus in Libra and Mercury in Gemini could flirt like whoa. Or, indeed, a Taurus with Venus in Gemini and Mercury in Libra, could be one heck of a flirt.

emg
emg

That’s true. It can be a variety of planets as a compound flirt !!

Laura
Laura

I am not a Gemini, but I know plenty (my 7th house cusp is Gem so maybe I attract them – both of my kids and my sister are Gem-infused, as well as a few exes). Suns in Gemini, Moons in Gemini, Venus/Mars in Gemini, whole stelliums in Gemini – what they all have in common is loquaciousness. It’s not always flirtatious – the Venus in Geminis do flirt shamelessly though – but even when it is, it focuses mainly on their damn mouths, they never shut up. They’re funny, inquisitive, light, butterfly types who flit around from flower to… Read more »

Unicorn Sparkles
Unicorn Sparkles

I worked with a Gemini male who thought it was perfectly reasonable to try his bar pick up lines on me every work day. He considered it practice.
He never understood why I was offended at having my skills reduced to ‘you’re looking hot today’.

Two Gemini women I know are always attracting lurkers, stalkers and love sick types who desperately want their approval.

I put the flirt tag down to a combo of intelligence, curiosity and the ability to unselfconsciously discuss any topic from quantum physics to sex orgies.

Georgia
Georgia

Yes! Sun, Venus + Mercury Gemini here and this is the way of it. All of the things (not just human ones) get tickled and teased out and darted around with a little touch of a wry grin. Flirtation is fun, like playing with sex/creativity/life force/connection/God through the intrigue created in the mirror of another human being. Leaning in toward a thing of interest with the glee that stems from knowing you don’t know, yet but probably soon will. It’s clear how this could seem like merely smutty suduction in more archaic times. But these days it could be unpacked… Read more »

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

I think Geminis are easy conversationalists and their natural curiosity about, well, pretty much everything is often mistaken for flirtatious interest by onlookers. But just because they talk to you it does not mean they want to date you – there are a lot of guys out there who think a woman chatting them up automatically = “She totally wants me, dude!” LOL, no. You have to remember that Gemini’s raison d’etre is to communicate, and communication is by its very nature a two way street – they are always going to seek out someone to swap info with, bounce… Read more »

Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

YES–men and women–but it’s not personal. Don’t feel special.

Lia
Lia

IHaving both Mercury and Sun in Gemini is funny thing. I was first aware of others’ perceptions when a (teenage) housemate assured me that I was “very charming”. When I questioned her about her observation she said “You know about and are interested in so many things that you can talk to anyone.” (I attributed it to being my Australian-Irish (Leo) father’s daughter! My father who loved a “yarn” was also a careful listener and was a walking archive of Australian oral history.) Decades later, at a party, I was chatting to an Irish guy from the county next to… Read more »

LightningButterfly
LightningButterfly

Yes, I think this is the essence of Gemini flirtation. We like banter and can “flirt” with anyone, but it’s usually pretty innocent and more about the mental connection. I get downright awkward and shy around people I really fancy – luckily, the Gemini quick wit can still show up to save me in those situations. Sometimes.

Multiair
Multiair

It’s not just people we flirt with. I spend waaaaay more time flirting with ideas and philosophies, with diets and friends. Trying them on for size. Seeing if they’re a good fit – or not.

Ariel
Ariel

this!

VirgoGemAqua
VirgoGemAqua

So true!

Pi
Pi

I think each sign has their own flirting MO… Talking is a clear sign of interpersonal engagement and the animated Gemini is hard to miss. But then say you have Scorpio who kind of radiates vibes and emits a kind of low-frequency electrical hum (you know, like an electricity substation) when you pass by until ~voomp~ you kind of get caught in the electromagnetic field like iron filings. Or then there is Libra, who suddenly turns Super Nice All The Time and always seems to appear smelling faintly of lovely cologne and is never without lip balm and freshly-combed hair… Read more »

Pi
Pi

Although gemini rising conversation based purely on curiosity about the other person has often been mistaken by a third party as home wrecking

Kel
Kel

Oh yes to all of this. I do admit having all my defenses taken down by bodily Taureans in weak moments. Those strong Toro arms …

Scorpy
Scorpy

Oh please continue. These are brilliant!! Love the Scorp one. Haha.

What about Cap? Saggo?

Pi
Pi

Sadges kind of attack you with some kind of intellectual bear hug I think. Or they pass you the spliff before fixing you with an impish sadge gaze and while exhaling say “so, tell me about the time you ….” And then the stories get wilder and wilder until you’re tumbling around in the grass/sand with them or they’re showing you their yacht / cliff diving photos from a very up close and personal angle hahaha
I think caps are like the story below – shy but proficient. Like a cancerian approach but more directly and unashamedly technical?

Pi
Pi

Caps aren’t afraid(?) To tell you what you’re doing wrong, but some do it in a more oblique fashion maybe.

baristagem
baristagem

I would say not. I’m a triple conjunct Gemini (Moon, Venus & Sun) and I don’t flirt unless I’m interested in the person. I just happen to find most people interesting, like the interesting types… like most people. I’m around people a lot. I can’t help it.

*paws the ground*

So, you seem interesting…

Pi
Pi

Ahahaha <3

emg
emg

Hahahaha Brilliant

dark star
dark star

Love

Pi
Pi

it’s true though. to not be able to talk to someone about a thing that you want to know more about them is kind of cruel. it’s like cutting off an air supply.

Tessa
Tessa

I am Gem Rising (1H Merc/Sun/Mars in Cancer) and I admit I am percieved as being flirtatious..but don’t realise it until after its happened (intercepted 12th house Gemini)And its always in a lighthearted joking sort of setting that it occurs..not meant to offend anyone.I am more aware of it now so tend to tone it down alot these days.Depends where yr natal Mercury is too.I can also chop and change between modalities of communications with lightening speed, multi-task (amazing what I can do safely whilst driving), talk you into doing something I personally believe in & hate passive smoking with… Read more »

Leonieke
Leonieke

ooh, sounds like my ex!

MoonySagg
MoonySagg

True!! Moon in Gemini on the MC here, with Leo Rising – I am a terrible flirt (as in effective, with no self-control)

Kel
Kel

Leo rising had GOT to count for some of this flirt power amirite??? All the Leo’s in my life activate their flirt powers with devastating precision

aquaFenix
aquaFenix

Well flirting is mostly chat and curiosity 🙂

Cat
Cat

I think the key word there is “considered”. Considered by whom? Being related to and friends with many Gem ladies, it’s not them. They are just good communicators with low boredom thresholds and little tolerance for stodge, in form or in function.

MissDee
MissDee

I disagree and I am a quadruple Gemini. I’ve found Gemini men to be very flirtatious but that’s another point. Back in the 50’s “flirtatious” wasn’t a good thing IMHO. So because us Gemini woman aren’t afraid of the intellectual confrontation with whoever, man or woman, I think this was mistaken as flirtatious. At that time a woman was supposed to have a convo just with “the girls” possibily inviting them over. I can totally see though a Gemini woman holding up a convo with a man, or answering to her boss or some stranger at a bar in some… Read more »

Pi
Pi

I would agree with this actually. If a comeback or a calling-out is merited, v strong chance a Gemini will step up! But being one for exchange and not sudden-death conversation, the opponent’s stocks will increase if they can respond with wit, awareness and intelligence. So, I guess that can be seen as flirting, but for a Gemini it’s more commonly known as “breathing”

Greta
Greta
mariaoz
mariaoz

We had a friend who was born on the 13 th June and she was still battering her eye lids at men when she was 90. Such a flirt but always kept herself looking lovely. My mother was born on the 14 th June and she was the biggest flirt. She kept herself looking nice in her 80s. So I really do think that Gemini women are the biggest flirts without a doubt.

Nunovitch
Nunovitch

I don’t have to imagine. I live it.
Add Aquarius moon.

Yup.

Nunovitch
Nunovitch

Try being a fire sheep Gemini with Scorpio rising…

Nunovitch
Nunovitch

I don’t have to imagine. I live it.
Add Aquarius moon.

Yup.

emg
emg

True !

emg
emg

Venus in Gemini here I flirt without even thinking about it I can’t seem to help it to both male and female ?!?!?

jojobiie
jojobiie

yuuup lol gets me in trouble on the daly

jojobiie
jojobiie

*daily, lol

emg
emg

I know It was Jessica Rabbit who summed it up
“I’m not bad I’m just drawn this way”

Billy D
Billy D

A Gemini friend once told me “you can’t be truly promiscuous without being bisexual.

emg
emg

Well I’ll agree with that. It opens the field I suppose

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I think that’s a way of being exclusive while reclaiming slut shaming. And that is my thought after some shocking statements a close family member recently made, a propos of nothing at a close fam event, about the childhood (primary school) mating styles of the siblings present. Mine of course was reserved for last (as the punchline, i think, because i’m an easy punchline for that person at times…blame my unhidden Sag that my Piscean self often wishes was more circumspect in these situs): “Mille would go with anyone who wanted her, boy or girl”. Absolute silence from the entire… Read more »

twinfishrising
twinfishrising

I just call it mutually satisfying communication.

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