Uranian Relationships

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Hi Mystic!

I just wanted to drop you a quick line. I’m a Libra Sun and Moon / Leo rising and have recently met a Leo Everything guy after leaving my long term partner in January and trudging through a single desert with my shrink for the past 9 months.

As a Libran I do love to pair bond and have been so confused about this freedom / love stuff you’ve been talking about. I want super connected pair bonding and haven’t been able to see how that relates to this whole freedom paradigm!

Anyway I recently met this guy and he currently lives three hours away and is about to move nine hours away. The relationship feels really secure, supportive and uplifting BUT he’s not even here! Freedom! So I am carrying on in my new kickass job, doing daily Pilates and generally being pretty fabulously single but I also have this wonderful man who talks to me every day and comes to visit me on weekends. This feels so much like what you were describing as individuate romance that I wanted to share it 🙂

Much love!

The Newly Individuated Libra

YES!  Newly Individuated Libra, congrats.  And so for ages now, i have been preaching re the possibility of Libra and Libra Rising people working Uranus/Eris for stronger but more independent relationships.

That is still an enticing prospect for our Libra, even if many of you would still prefer a more entwined version of romance. It’s like your love life has become increasingly Aquarius, which can be weird if you’re not aligned with the futuristic rays of Uranus already.

And now everyone has the promise of Jupiter in Libra – a force that does augment genuinely high minded, idealistic and super civilized relationships or partnerships of all ilks. This is especially the case as Jupiter moves to oppose Uranus on and off through out the next year.

Question: What civilized, higher vibe relationship feels have YOU been channeling since Jupiter got into Libra a few weeks ago?

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Catcatcat
Catcatcat

I don’t think I’ve done anything remotely high-minded Jupe in Libra since it happened. What’s the symbolism of it all? I’m currently suffering an allergy attack – my yearly slog through fall/winter allergen hell, disgruntled in my job, and in red-eyed shock that the letter writer considers 9 months a ‘desert’ of single-hood. Oh yes. I’m a bitter, saucy minx at this moment. I’m currently holding a cat wand (I’m also allergic to my cat, so double plus good!) and trying not to furrow my brow. I guess I booked a trip to Spain, for an amazing artists retreat thing.… Read more »

PlutoMoon
PlutoMoon

Yeah, I thought I had found a perfect scenario like this too – long distance yet super connected – until I found out he was married. Very disappointing but had to walk away. Good news is that if I found one (good guy – at least minus the married-and-willing-to-overlook-his-current-commitment part), I can find another. And hopefully this time within driving distance, and definitely non-attached and available! Jupiter is currently transiting my Sun, MC, and Uranus so hope abounds. Next!

Twin-gemini
Twin-gemini

This is what I been working toward my whole life! With Libra rising and everything else Geminian – I always said to my men:”if you want me to stay – you can lock the door, but give me the key”. My FREEDOM is everything to me! I need to breathe that free air to be creative,happy, sexy and seductive – and I will give it all to one man only in return to my freedom. I am still looking for that man who will understand that – he doesnt know how lucky he is yet.

Pi
Pi

Yes. If you love something, set it free. Possessiveness or jealousy is repulsive , corrodes happiness imho and such a vibe killer. It doesn’t have to mean an open relationship at all if that s not the vibe. Like you say. Just let me be.
the sense of I’m ok you’re ok.

Lili
Lili

Tr Jupiter on my Ceres, Valentine, Venus. 11th.

Jokerman
Jokerman

HB John (Libran Sun / Aqua Moon)

skarab
skarab

Yes indeedy……HB JL!

*Our society is run by insane people for insane objectives. I think we’re being run by maniacs for maniacal ends and I think I’m liable to be put away as insane for expressing that. That’s what’s insane about it.*

He wasn’t wrong.

Jokerman
Jokerman

“We turned left at Greenland”

skarab
skarab

*I believe time wounds all heels.*

dizzarina
dizzarina

YES Happy Birthday to John.

Unaspected Sun, Moon opp. Pluto, Mars conj. Neptune, Lillith conj Aries ascendant.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Also Jackson Browne

davidl
davidl

Another Daryl Hannah victim.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Neil and Daryl sounds a bit suss too.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Maybe she likes wrongsiters….dunno

Pi
Pi

what’s lilith doing right now? the trump thing and also personally a bit ragey today around lilith-ian themes. a bit distracting as i have to concentrate on other themes.

embarkons7
embarkons7

I am an Aquarius nearing Saturn return and in the first serious, if quite unconventional, romance of my adult life. And it’s actually not that different than what the poster described in part: my Pisces lover and I are currently both doing awesome intense graduate programs about four hours away from each other and negotiating how often to see each other (I’m happy with longer gaps between when we see each other and more into a few long visits vs more frequent shorter ones). But yes it feels mature and individuated with potential to grow. I’ve always said I didn’t… Read more »

Pi
Pi

“I’m so relieved you’re thinking about a relationships in a way that I can *understand*!” – half the world

embarkons7
embarkons7

Right? More than half, I would say — sigh. Which is what I love so much about the community of free thinking, attuned people here and MM herself.

skarab
skarab

This is quite a similar situ to my partner & me, embarkons. I too felt & still feel exactly the same way towards marriage as you do. My partner & i met as Jupiter was going through our 7th H. He proposed to me then (on his Jupiter return & me on my Sat return) – but i told him how i felt about marriage & he completely respected my opinion. But much to my annoyance, a similar visa/work permit situation to yours arose & we ended up at the registry office 3 yrs later. On that day the Sun… Read more »

embarkons7
embarkons7

Thanks so much for the heartening reply, Skarab: it’s really lovely to hear from a kindred spirit who’s been there. And you know some of my rethinking the whole thing — if it all is just a piece of paper, how much energy do I want to spend opposing it if it would make certain things easier? — absolutely comes from seeing bad ass unconventional couples like you redefining love and partnership, and not being hamstrung by the old posseive labels and preconceptions.

So thanks again — your post gives me some great stuff to mull over.

<3

sphinx
sphinx

Saturn is now in my 7th House of Libra. Saturn is quite an organising or civilising influence at best, no? Meanwhile, back at the ranch…Jupiter, Mercury, Sun in Libra are partying it up in my 4th – where my natal Pluto/Uranus in Libra reside. Well family relations have been awkward and very stormy but we have some clarity. This to me is haute. I know others can work with nurturing, softly-softly fuzz grey, but I prefer things super clear and fast. What is clear is not great mind you – it is just now I know in whom to confide… Read more »

BLISS WITCH
BLISS WITCH

I think this is my natal go to vibe.

I have Libra rising sextile Venus/Uranus in Sag (where I have three other planets)….

love being married to an introvert who takes time to be alone for his health because it gives me space for myself as well.

Catherine
Catherine

My natal Neptune in the 12 th in Libra which is also conjunct my asc in Scorpio will be conjunct transiting Jupiter, which is going to then ping my natal jupiter/uranus conjunction. I have been solo ten years apart from v long distance lover now not even that. At 61 and covered in scars from recent op I actually feel very comfortable now with sun in 12 th house too. Doing lots with tarot archetypes. Uranus in Aries will soon be conjunct my Venus on my descendant. . He would have to be very preistly and meet me up there… Read more »

davidl
davidl

Keep riding that zuvuya x it’s not the size of the wave it’s the motion of the ocean 😉 K, don’t discount meeting your perfect match while exploring the 5th. It happened to me many moons ago and turned out to be the hottest most blissful pairing I’d ever experienced. One of the advantages of living in 3D world is our ability to enjoy an earthy sensuality and there are many at slightly higher levels that seek a union to enjoy these pleasures. I was taught many things through this bond and one of the most important was to fully… Read more »

leogroover
leogroover

wise words David

leogroover
leogroover

My mars in Libra is hard to switch off when it comes to relationships. I’m constantly refining them but can never ditch anybody. Would love that strength. Had a classic rel with the bad boy from Uranus who is still orbitting my world but I have posted him to the outer rim where he can do no more harm, I had to move to another galaxy (ala Tasmania) to do that but it worked. I had a walk and talk with him 2 weeks ago and was not tempted to get physical. So proud of myself. His presence here would… Read more »

Jokerman
Jokerman

I wished l could get just a tincture of my v strong Uranian influence to apply to how l feel about relationships. But absofuqnlutely nothing. My Bucket Handle Aqua Moon, 1H Uran, cj my Merc does not impact one iota. That’s one side of my Outerplanetidity. The other side, of my Outerplanetidity, is my Moon Asc trines my Nep, which in turn, squares my 7H Moon. My Nep (4° Scorp cj my IC) is a very very heavily aspected planet (as well as being a stationary focal – in a TSq) with the other relship planets (Moon Asc, Mars, Venus… Read more »

toroloco
toroloco

So, Aqua guy I thought I would get back with just up and left to move 6 hours away from our town this morning with no word to anyone about it. I’m really hurt but I guess I shouldn’t have expected to plan anything around Uranian types.

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

Libra rules my 8th house, where my Venus-Pluto-Lilith conjunction is. But then it’s also half of my 7th, where my Jupiter-Saturn conjunction is. Sun Sagittarius conjunct Scorpio Uranus.

Partner is a Libra Sun/Virgo Moon/Virgo Asc.

We’re about a year and a half in and it’s finally sinking in for me that this is real. I’m busy doing Saturn, he is a Friend of Saturn from way back, and we are kind of meeting in the middle now. This summer was full of rough conversations but we seem to have come out the other side nicely.

Pi
Pi

also lol at libran “single desert” which is a mere 9 months after coming out of a LTR. : D

Pi
Pi

nice lol not mean lol.

Jokerman
Jokerman

Having a 7th Haus Moon – l understand where she is commin from.

dizzarina
dizzarina

Yes, I couldn’t help but chuckle at that.

SoloUnaSignora
SoloUnaSignora

I LOLed at that too. I am a Taurus Sun/Mars with Libra Moon/Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto and Sun/Venus/Mercury in the 7th house who hasn’t had a relationship in over a decade. I think the only things that kept me from going mad were the fact that my Libra stellium is in the 11th house so I get emotional satisfaction from friends and groups and that I have Uranus conjunct ASC and opposite both Sun and Venus so the unusual is kind of usual for me (I also have a partile trine of Venus and Saturn, so I can be patient).

Pi
Pi

hang on i am having a uranus venus transit until ….*checks ephemeris* OMG… like all of 2017 and into 2018
0_*
in my house of PR and career visibility
aspecting everything. At same time, the first conjunction arrives with mars conj jupiter lilith, and saturn newly into my 7th house about to transit Eros.
And, wtf?! some kind of Venus retrograde return chiron situation
also Jupiter spending the entire year bouncing between my north node and IC Pluto
i need to think about this?!?
Something is going on lol.

embarkons7
embarkons7

When Uranus was transiting my Natal Mars about a year and a half ago I embarked on a romance with my current Pisces lover / partner (Uranus transited his Venus somewhere in there too) and it’s been good for meeting someone who’s unconventional enough to be in a relationship with me and for audacious unlikely, but it seems for real, partnership: with love letters and travel mixed in. Not that the transit has to manifest in a mainly romantic way – it could be about an unconventional self-love and self expression when Uranus gets to your Venus – and I… Read more »

Pi
Pi

being a diehard 9th house fan, i hope you enjoy your jupiter transit there too. the situation with your pisces man sounds really lovely actually. sounds like you have venus mars pisces synastry! wow, just absorbing your words, it really has been a while since I was involved with someone. still coming out of that deep sleep. no matter, sleep is restorative… it will be related to profession but also something out-there with the house placement. Being 10th house Venus I always seem to have good relationships with the ‘boss’ but hmm. I wonder if this is a bit more… Read more »

marsbar
marsbar

Who are these Libras who manage to get a decent relationship? Good on you guys! Work your magic. I am glad this stuff still exists. I haven’t seen one of those in years unless you count the vaporized Gem, which i don’t, since it didn’t last. It has been this way since 2008. Tiny little breaks with some non-invested man who initially came on strong before disappearing. I am not going to lie, i really want to be in a relationship, but there is nobody worth my time knocking down my door to be in one with me. Nobody worth… Read more »

december baby
december baby

Hubby has transit Uranus on his 7th house right now (he’s a libra asc) and can say that it has been a challenge to let go for me (leo asc and no air in my chart except Chiron… Which is EXACTLY conjunct hubby’s sun). On the other hand, Uranus is rocking my 9th house, so guess what gets us really close? Discussing politics.

Pi
Pi

uranus 9th house transit , so fab.

if you’re willing to share, i am curious about how the sun chiron synastry works out for you.

december baby
december baby

Hi Pi! He’s sun in Gem 9th, I’m Gem Chiron in 11th. Our families had known each other since forever but we met up officially when a mutual friend (who was a writer (gemini, 3rd-9th) and tragically ailed with cancer (chiron)) made us meet up. It was instant attraction and repulsion; I thought he would hurt me if I got too close, he thought I would do the same, but we could not stop talking or knowing more about each other. With time, though, we both had to talk about our fears and found out we had suffered similar letdowns… Read more »

Pi
Pi

thanks december baby, i appreciate this! what a lovely vibe you both must have together 🙂

been trying to understand natal chiron & synastry in my chart.

december baby
december baby

Yeah, it’s pretty nice! But it’s also something gradual (chiron also hast to do with time, like Saturn). I recommend Melanie Reinhard’s and Barbara Hand Clow’s work. In my case, dealing with Chiron has really put me in touch with dreams and friends (11th) in VERY unconventional ways and it demands flexibility, thus I can’t stay in a group for too long!

december baby
december baby

In other words: where Chiron is, you will have at first a very profound trauma. But if you dig deep and understand what had caused it then let it go, then your understanding becomes a great asset for you to help other and make a positive change, and then be more authentic about your life story. People often refer to chiron as a place of pain, but I see it as my redemption place.

Pi
Pi

Wow thank you, there is a lot to think about here. An energy that suffuses things that can be transformed. Thanks for these comments… Xx

Pi
Pi

surprisingly enough i am being better at accepting help as in teamwork to achieve this Thing that i have been tripping over all year. also somehow equanimous instead of caving under enormous time deadline pressures but maybe i am suffering enormous delusion, not sure, check back in at xmas

quintile
quintile

hey that sounds good! I took a while to work my natal mars in libra but now leverage it to do great team work, as both a participant and leader. working with others can be such a giving situation, especially for water signs as we can make people feel fab about their input and help bring out the best in them. x

Pi
Pi

: )

Libra9
Libra9

This Libra has been single for four years after a decades-long romance (with two children/teenagers) and wading through a whole ocean of brown stuff including LZ, work, family deaths, real estate … Suddenly (as in three days ago) I can entertain the possibility of Mr Right. As long as he doesn’t want anything other than higher-plane relations once or twice a week. No domestics.

FireTryin'
FireTryin'

“As long as he doesn’t want anything other than higher-plane relations once or twice a week. No domestics.” <—- Yes, that right there.

Of course, right now I don't have time for even once or twice a week until December. Mr. Right can wait a couple months, right?

Oneirix
Oneirix

Ahh, Jupiter is transiting my 8H with intercepted Libra. I feel like I’m finally coming to terms with the fact that I may just never meet someone who is up to snuff, and I feel super sad about that. But I have gotten much more real about my needs, and it’s nice to know that I won’t fall into the “playing house” type of long-term relationships I’ve been so used to up till now. No wonder they weren’t fulfilling! But it is a bummer to realize that, after being pair-bonded for SO much of my life, maybe it just isn’t… Read more »

FireTryin'
FireTryin'

I’m following the same path–no playing house with anyone, but also feeling somewhat deflated about what happens when that’s off the table… except that I have a whole host of other interesting things to do. Relationship/pair-bonding just not the ultimate goal.

Here’s to finding a satisfying alternative!

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Going to a half day Yin yoga class over looking the bay tomorrow, the weekly classes have helped my to start opening up, releasing hurts moving through stuff with breathing and meditation and really consciously building compassion for everyone including myself. I started googling some of the things my teacher talks about and I have altered my view of me, tapping into the divine feminine and really feeling the confidence that brings me. Also probably doesn’t hurt that I can the attraction waves coming from my boss of 6months and that blossoming of potential there. And the generl work environment… Read more »

catfish moon
catfish moon

Just noticed….
transiting Uranus is on my natal Jupiter! In my 8th house.

catfish moon
catfish moon

And transiting Jupiter is on my natal Pluto in my 2nd.

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

I’m getting really irritated by the energy of people who take their blessings for granted & bitch & moan all the time, for one thing. Jupiter in Libra (on my moon-pluto, then mercury-uranus) has me white-lighting my aural field 10x/day, which is ridic. I just need to change up a scene or two. Not working harder, just smarter. On a brighter note, I’m very impressed with staff & admin at my son’s new school. He’s had a very bad go of it these last few weeks, & ppl at school have been great with us both. Very supportive, good communication,… Read more »

The Venus Fly
The Venus Fly

That’s my mantra “Work smart, not hard.”

If you are already intense, anything you do already comes off as “hard”, lol :p

Leo-Scorp Grrrl
Leo-Scorp Grrrl

Like!

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

I’m just seeing this, VF. Lol true! Hard af 😉

The Venus Fly
The Venus Fly

I am not currently pair-bonded. My IDEAL relationship would be with a wonderful, cross-cultural man who is walking his creative path at a high professional level who is pursuing his goals but would like to share his journey with an awesome woman such as myself. I have all of the above qualities myself other than high professional level – been working diligently at that skill for the last how many years. My sights are set on a true pair bonding of equality, mutuality and a lot of damn fun. Being creative I “get” that sometimes months apart are a necessity… Read more »

The Venus Fly
The Venus Fly

Libra ruled 5th ;P

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