Astral Repetition Mating Syndrome

Leonor Fini The Man With Masks

Mystic, i have been searching the site trying to find a resource to help me understand this wicked weird phenomenon. I’ve had, my quest sparked again by the recent ask mystic post ….

While i have never known anyone with MY birthday, i have attracted now THREE February 1 babies into my life into intimate relationship (and I don’t let a lot of people in). Varying years, but not by many.

AQUARIANS MAKE ME CRAZY! Maybe too much air (I’m Libra Sun). But I adore them, these maddeningly wandersome Aquarians. There’s a Rob Zombie song that starts off with a repeated phrase, “so revolting, and yet so interesting …” yes, something like this.

Anyway, obvs there’s a lesson, karma, something going on here. if there’s a particular keyword you recommend on which to search, I’d love to do some more reading on the site. this has to be a thing others have experienced, so i figure i am just missing it in my search (missing so much lately, baby is that veil thin, are we even having this conversation? “i was dreaming when i wrote this, forgive me if it goes astray …”).

and I am loving being back again with a subscription!! i’ve missed you!!!

~scurries off white rabbit style~ 

Well, well.  I get it, i really do. There IS something in the archives on this but i can’t recall the title or when it was. I remember only that there was a fight breaking out in the comments over the merits/disadvantages of Gemini men or something.  So let’s revisit it.

It’s called A.R.M.S. Or it is now. Astral Repetition Mating Syndrome. It’s when you attract a whole string of one sign. Or more specifically, one signature aspect. For instance, i had a long phase with Aquarius being ever present, to the point that if someone expressed interest in me, i would know he was Aquarius. But what’s with the run of Venus square Saturn people? Every single significant other.

More recently there were Virgos.  A quick observation: beneath their fussiness, analytical skills and pronunciation correcting ways, remember that these people are every bit as Mutable as a Gemini, Sagittarius or Pisces. Maybe even more so, because we get so lulled by them being Earth. But i digress.

My feeling is that A.R.M.S. is something Jungian at base. We are subliminally drawing in that which we need to be. We are sleeping with (or whatever) ourselves, the unexpressed dimensions of our psyche. So if you have an under-utilized Uranus, hello Aquarius.  Or if you have some old family wounds to heal, hello Mr/Ms Saturn square the Inner Planets.

It is worth thinking about relationship patterns now. Jupiter in Libra seeks only harmonious, growth relationships and to re weight whatever balance has built up.


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92 thoughts on “Astral Repetition Mating Syndrome

  1. I have long had a crazy attraction to both Scorpios and Aquarians. I swear I can spot them a mile away. My last 2 major relationships: 1 was a Scorpio w/Aqua moon and the 2nd was a Scorpio with an Aqua decendant. Oddly enough they were born on the same day, 1 year apart. Both broke my heart in the worst way. I also have an Aqua ex that I work with (not closely) and he still drunk texts me. I have Aqua on my DC.

    After this last heartbreak I swore off Scorpios. Decided to work on me. I have found myself talking more and more to a Virgo guy. I’ve never been attracted to Virgos but this guys sun is exact to the minute conjunct my North Node so I have a feeling he’s here to teach me something.

    Friend wise I always have at least 2-3 Pisces in my life.

    I have also noticed that the people closest to me all have at least 1 planet at 29 degrees.

    • i wish i had birth data on some of the major players in my past. i’d love to back track and check moons and ascendants, etc, bet there are similarities with them all.

      kudos for you for working on you! i am in that phase now. i just got a cat heaven help me to help me swear off dating for a bit to do so. but i’m feeling a mutual crush developing that feels potentially (gasp) healthy. but i am at the point now where if someone were to even ask me for coffee i’d want to do their birth chart first lol

      i don’t understand the degree thing sadly. i still have so much to learn here.

  2. It happened to me with Leos (I’m a pisces). 4 Leos in a row… some even shared birthday. I knew somethings was up that needed to be addressed and when I finally got around to it, it stopped 🙂

  3. Guilty as charged. Virgo, Virgo, Virgo…and then more Virgo. A handful of them even had the very same birthday. So, that’s some obvious karma playing itself out in my life…

  4. Oh itd be nice to have some light shed!
    I’m a Capricorn rising/sun aquariaus and my aries Venus squares my Capricorn Saturn Uranus and Neptune (cap moon too which squares my aries Jupiter)
    All a sudden this summer people (guys n gals) seem to see me in a whole new way and it made this summer terrifying as I am working through past trauma as well as a grief stricken, transitional year. I’ve never been in a significant relationship or even a casual one so navigating and discerning has been..I dunno even k ow what the word would be!!!..I want to connect but all major people I feel a pull too feels incredibly intense or karmic and having not had general intimate relationships, let alone explored karmic, I’m left a little raw.

    Any pointers?

  5. This is so interesting to me…

    When I first started dating, I kept attracting Aries men…there were like 5 in a row and they never really lasted/worked out. Mostly based on illusion…but, I think it helped me learn to be more bold as I was just coming out of crippling shyness.

    Since then, 3 of my major long-term relationships were with Librans…including my current soulmate and babydaddy. Who happens to have Moon in Aries – hmmmmm, maybe he’s the perfect combo of what I need/lack?

    I’m a highly Plutonion Gemini, Aqua rising. So attracting/being attracted to other air signs isn’s so surprising. But I can be pretty erratic and used to confront and/or sever ties with people with no warning. So perhaps I needed to learn the Libran balance and diplomacy. 🙂

    Aquarians have loomed large in my life in other ways…my mom, my son (double Aqua), my first 2 bfs, the guy I lost my virginity to.

    And I’ve been mad attracted to Scorpios & Capricorns – great chemistry, terrible for compatiblity though.

  6. It’s the Aries men. Went back once more this summer after swearing & living by the code of ‘never again’. They teach me to be selfish, self-obsessed, & put my self first. Especially to follow my creative dreams.

    This last one was NASTY, karmic & cruel. Have never experienced a relationship like it & sincerely hope I never do again.

    It has made me renew my vow of ‘Aries men, never again’.
    But the point is never to need to do it again! & to never settle for less love than you deserve, no matter how beautiful they are, or how much love they seem to offer at the beginning, if they don’t stay consistent with it. be present & value yourself.

    It’s been a lesson in trusting my intuition (which said there is something off about this from the start) & realising that the possibility of (self)destruction is real, not just something to be toyed with. But, it was inevitable. It was a karmic lesson. I’m still processing it & the fall-out might take a while, but goddess I am glad it’s over.

  7. Yes yes yes on this and the Jungian stuff. I attracted and was wildly attracted to March 16th dreamboys who helped me to escape from a really bad situation and then poofed- then recently acquired a male cat who happens to have the same birthday. Angels helping? Perhaps. Or my higher self guiding me to where I need to be. Currently entangled with a Scorpio with a strong Neptune signature so there’s still more of that Pisces energy wafting about. I’m chalking it up to my NN in Pisces needed to be expressed in a healthy, haute, and liberating way. Is there something in your chart around this degree of Aquarius or at that degree in any other sign that is seeking expression?

    • well PHUQ ME! i have Saturn in my 5th, in Aquarius NO WONDER i attract the Aquas, i ache to be them and can’t quite get that mojo workin with saturn blocking it. add the virgo ascendant?! ffs!

      my aquas are all born in the 60s so i can’t connect with the 80s babies posts. 🙁

  8. I spent decades looking for a Taurus like my father to marry me and restrict any/all independent movement for the rest of my life. And yes, I have done a lot of work to combat my intense self-loathing.

    Thank God I couldn’t get one to stick around long enough. I don’t really want that. Now I don’t find them attractive anymore because they all look like they’re going to brick me into a wall.

  9. Caps. Let’s see: ex-hub and marriage-busting lover were born a day apart although ten years difference between them. Two other v serious lovers plus high school bestie and college bestie, all within a week of my ex-hub.
    I have 5th house Cap moon-Lilith-Eros-Juno, plus Sun-Saturn conj in Pisces. I think I just pull them in, like a weird force field.

    • Oh I just remembered, I guessed the lover’s sign long before he told me his birthdate. He banged on constantly about time. Hilarious.

  10. Gosh, yes. Pisces, Cancer, Pisces, Pisces, Cancer….. Goddamn. Guess I should expect a couple more Pisces, hahaha.

    It’s the Cancers that get me most hooked – some sort of weird sick narcissistic house of mirrors. Can’t keep looking at imperfect versions of “myself” that need to be fixed. (I’m a Cancer)

  11. The unexpressed side of me is obviously Aquarius- which makes sense, as that’s my DC. The three men I’ve loved have all had their Suns hovering close to that point, in the 7th house.

    Outside of lovers, I do seem to have astro patterns with friends. A startlingly large percentage of my inner circle have Pluto in the first house. That makes sense to me, as with a Scorpio moon in a water house sextile Pluto, I’m pretty Plutonian. Plutonians need each other.

    The other strange pattern is Mars conjunct Saturn. My reading of that is, with their Mars stifled by Saturn, they are instinctively drawn to my very strong Martian self (Aries pile-up trine Mars in Sag).

    Two of my best friends have shared Moon traits with mine: the first was Moon in Scorpio, the second is Moon conjunct Neptune. I think there’s something really poignant about that.

    I love the astro patterns you find with your people. It’s always instructive.

  12. Hahaha – are we secretly long-lost twins?! 😛 🙂 I don’t have any kind of discernible “type” in guys, but astrologically speaking the majority of my SO’s have been either Aquarius or Leo and I seem to have a penchant in particular for those born in early Feb/Aug. The only Fixed placement I have that pings this degree range is my Ceres – I would start by looking at what placements you might have circa 12 degrees of any of the Fixed signs to see if there’s a synastric hit, because obviously if this is the common denominator it means you are working on some issue relative to the planet in question.

    I would not date another Aquarius again. We do get on fabulously and make excellent friends, but ultimately they tend to be a bit too cool for me in a romantic context – I need warmth and passion! I have mad love for you guys (and girls), though – my BFF is an Aquarius Sun w/ a Leo Moon <3

    • Yes! I love Aquas and have NEVER dated one. My sister and mega Aqua son are awesome. My other two kids had Aquarius planets. Many of my dearest friends have been Aquarius Suns, but romance, no.
      I have no planets in Aquarius and it is in my 6th house.

    • oh yes, as BFFs they are the bomb but that aloofness, soooooooooo not mating material … but i love their free spirited fight to the death for righteous causes vibe … as a Libra Sun / Virgo rising (with heavy scorp), i want fire, need earth, hmmm earth sign with fire rising?! heh

      i have a weird Pisces male thing with significant men in my life like sibs, uncles, etc. that’s a weirdness there, bc it’s not a (at least in this life) choice. and as to the pink shirt convo, is it just my Pisces dudes that all have wicked bad teeth?

  13. Yes, I went through a Taurus phas a while ago… didn’t realize until wayy after that they also had Venus on Aries like I do, near my degree, which, wait for it… squared my Neptune. Any “what if” feelings I had clung on to evaporated after I figured that out.

  14. early Jan capricorns. Can’t explain it. It’s not the knee melting attraction but something about the energy of that middle decan.

    • Damn, YES to that decan. Soul-mates. It’s my Neptune in Cap. Three intense attractions/ affiliations – oneis a dead poet on whom I wrote my dissertation, & literally writes the poetry of my soul.

      • yeah! omg. it is a husband-y vibe to me (hence freaks me tf out lol.). only one has vibed True Romance (sigh) , the others a bit off kilter, but yes the thing generally…
        love the dead poet crush ; )

        Mid may Toros are the other ones. hedonistic motherfuqers with that sexy, um, work ethic.

  15. This month has been a raging river of synchronicities. As fuck. Feb 1, aqua moon, and cap stellium baby here, with a Libra Sun (+ stellium) love of my life. My pattern seems to be fixed on Virgo rising men (which he also is), but throughout my adult life the pull towards him has gone consistently beyond unmatched. What gives? Quien sabe.
    Sidenote: can confirm: my father was an Aqua, and I’ve inherited a fair amount of pink shirts and a pair of salmon pink 501s ?

  16. Yes! This resonates strongly. Working in blokesworld for over a decade now, there’s been attractions but I’ve NEVER, EVER given in, oh, you know never get your meat where you get your bread thing. Always dated men out of my circle to keep safe hard as it is in a relatively small town. Well, along comes a new man we lock eyes I’m thinking fuck they are so blue but the little woman in my head is screamintg don’t think about it buddy to him and me. So, I’ve taken myself in check not just laying in the grass watching him but more watching me. How I react with him, it takes strength when there is an obvious attraction that neither asked for. TBC..Because I’m pattern recognitioning her

  17. Yes this resonates! Growing up there were at least 4 Librans in my group of friends, all born within a week of each other. I guess I didn’t learn whatever lesson it was as hubby is a Libran born in the same week…and the Librans keep popping up. As a Pisces Sun I seem to attract the Air people…maybe there is something in attracting what you are lacking???

  18. Before my Saturn return all the guys I was into were older than me and Caps. After the return they’re younger and Leo. I can only blame/thank my Venus in Cap for this bounty.

  19. I got bullied out of a job by a misandristic supa low Cap bitch. My crime? I was born the same date as her X.

    I met him a few years ago. He has owned the same 3 brands of car (VW, Renault & Peugeot), the same brands of moto cycle (Yamaha & BMW) & name the same 3 musicians as our faves; Bob Dylan, Neil Young & Kate Bush.

    Her daughter was the first to illuminate me to this fuqn weird phenomena. She told me she felt sorry for me as she saw her dad in me……and so did she. She is Australian but l did not hold that against her.

    • OK – sorry for the digression – but Ffs Pf, stop being such a fuqn wind-up merchant. I have never seen so many idiot males doing the idiot male thing in my life as these past few days – from Trump to street urchins. WTF? Mars?Pluto?
      Last night no one could get any sleep until i literally put the hose on a pack of out-of-control youths who were playing craps outside the front steps and ended up in a bloody knife wielding cocky dog fight after snarling, strutting & whelping all fuqing night long. Sick of it.

      • Lilith in female is TIRED of pass agg “swinging on my tits” neediness via snark, faux swag or BS.

        I’m looking around these past few days bemused by the testerone bitcheral amped up way past. But the women are cold chillin’, seeing through it and NOT THERE HERE or BEHIND it.

        Though I wouldn’t mind a game of non-knifey bones right about now. I just told my snarky Kataka son to pull his head out – he laughed and apologised, lol

  20. I think the article is “Same Birthday Synergy Attraction” it popped up in my random posts recently. I have had friends with the same birthday (male friends) but I am more attracted to my ascendant birthdays, Scorpio, and where my Uranus is in Cancer. All my long term relationships including my marriage were Scorpio or Cancer. I like Aries for flings as that’s where my moon and venus are

  21. Aqua. Dated two Librans with same birthday at around the same time. (Many many years ago) both were a lesson in disaster. One more than the other.
    Now have found that brother in law has the same birthday. And due to past experience with the two birthday sharers am prone to judging him harshly.
    It’s like the first two were the lesson I had to learn and this one has been sent to see if I actually learnt what I was supposed to.

  22. Every long timer (4 different relationships of 2 years or longer) has had scorpio moon or rising. The latest of nearly twenty years has both.

    Did I mention he drives me nuts?

  23. When I lived in Paterson Nsw there were 5, yes five people in my neighbourhood born on the 17th May. Moved to Walcha two very significant people also 17th of May. Birthday twinnies everywhere…..

  24. My A.R.M.S. are Gemini man. I am Gemini myself so what does that say about me? I am under using my Gemini planets?
    I does feel like I am allowed to be 100% my self when I am around them.
    The last one was Gemini + Leo moon like my the guy who broke my heart.
    And when I realized he was G + L like that one, I was actually happy (yes, crazy I know), like I had a second chance. Which I obviously hadn’t.

  25. There was that post about Tom Cruise? Some celeb…the ANGLE…like he only married people born around a particular birth date?

    Remember that one?

    Anyway, I know this phenomenon WELL.

  26. My sort of A.R.M.S.-in-Perpetuity seems to be men with Mercury in a Water sign and/or some signature placement in Cancer. I have Mercury in Gemini and it is easily my strongest planet (final dispositor of the chart, etc.), and I guess these very non-breezy types are supposed to slow me down or something? Or perhaps ‘remind’ me (via an appeal to the complementary element) that, despite all the Air in my chart, I’m an Earth sun sign so that’s my core?

    My more recent A.R.M.S. is men who have Venus in Gemini almost exactly conjunct mine OR men who have S. Node on my personal planets. Still haven’t come close to figuring that out yet…

  27. Omg, I totally have had Astral Repetition Mating Syndrome.
    Three Leo’s almost in a row, as am I. One involved when things started going wrong with the SaggEx. Perhaps a reminder to get my Sun/Ego/Destiny in gear?

    Two were born within a few days of myself, in fact one was born in the same hospital 12 hours apart from me, lolol! That’s pretty extreme A.R.M.S., Jung would have some serious words for me.
    My Sun is my only Leo placement, perhaps I wasn’t embracing it fully?

  28. Oh hell yes! I have a lifetime of me attracting water signs (sun sign) Pisceans in particular and yes this would absolutely have everything to do with my Venus in Piscean in the 8th and wondered why???? Especially as I am Aries/Leo Rising.

  29. Shit this post is on point! I hear you! The last three guys I’ve had clandestine crushes on all had mars at in early Pisces, at 9 degrees Pisces!!! I have a mars, moon and saturn between 0-8 degrees Sag so there’s that square……hmmm.

    I’m a Feb 4 1986 birthday so I really resonate with the above post by @Feb 1 Aquarius. Lots of aqua, sagg and that scorp pluto square if the Feb 1 aqua that you are attracted to are born in the 1980’s. What are their moon signs and the rest of their inner planets? Might be a clue there why you are attracted to them?

  30. I’m curious what years the original poster was referring to. One thing you will notice about Aquarians born in the 80’s is that there is a pretty good chance they have Pluto square Sun (or other inner planets, or both).

    Check out Lauren Conrad’s birth chart for an example. Born Feb 1, ’86 and she has moon in Scorpio conjunct Pluto, square Sun/Mercury & maybe Venus. This is a good bit of fixed energy, as well as a good helping of the Pluto/Uranus outer planet vibes.

    It might not be just the Aqua that you are drawing in. If you are a Libra, the air trine will make for a good connection, but these fixed square Aqua’s could be looking for balance from you. These Aqua’s may not be aware of their under the surface Pluto/Scorpio style power vibes, and that can be a lot for a Libra/Venus type to handle.

  31. For me and I’ve stated this many times, it’s the rising sign EVERY time.
    If he ain’t Leo rising I don’t seem interested. Not that I ask as most folk don’t know but if I ‘see’ a guy he’s going to be Leo rising. And most of my girl friends are Leo sun sign or have big Leo in their chart. I’m cancer with late Pisces rising and this has gone on for the past thirty years !
    I’m now using design to further my knowledge and we mate/date those who link us and make us whole,function well. So I fall head over with very individual self centred folk and become pretty direct myself. Or maybe it’s my fifth house sun Jupiter that loves the lion!

  32. My Scorpio north node conjunct my IC…

    1st boyfriend who was first make out sessions, 2nd boyfriend who was first to exchange I love you with. Other flings.
    My ex husband was multi Scorpio..sun, mercury, Venus, Mars
    2nd man I lived with was Scorpio sun.

    After him I was over it, wanted a Taurus sun for my Taurus Mars. Universe provided, we fell in love and still are together…..he has a Scorpio moon!

    No escape!

    Other teenage flings and loves were cancers like me or capicorns(my sun and Saturn are conjunct).

  33. Oh yeah I agree about Virgos. They don’t quite fit the mould. The most mystical of the Earth signs, going about like sparrows in their Earth coloured garb, trying to be The Grey Man, but not quite succeeding. I am puzzled and intrigued by Virgos.

    I haven’t experience same dates of birthdays with men. Had a run of Low Pisceans for a bit (Pisces rules all of seventh and some of eighth). I have tended to give Pisceans a lot of rope in the past, but since I realised that Low Pisceans are my Achilles Heel I don’t because I tend to hang myself with it. Luckily I can spot a Pisces man at a thousand yards now, which is one of only two bona fide Astro gifts I possess. I have Venus conjunct Neptune too and I get a feeling that they are Piscean. They stare and don’t say a lot. Nobody can ever catch you out for what you don’t say. And they often answer a question with a question.

    Gift two is an ability to spot a Libran man because they wear pink a lot. This is my personal theory based on real evidence. Last demonstrated on honeymoon, the elderly guy on the balcony next door, lovely bloke, pink for a whole week, finally had to ask him.

    Does any Libran man in y’alls life wear pink? I

    • I love when men wear pink! Haven’t had a lot to do with Libran men, but the only one I have met recently, has worn pink!

      • Any man who has the audacity to really do it his way – truly – I give some form of propers to. I don’t have to like someone to respect their talent or audacity.

    • Interestingly enough the man who “set off” the pink trend – the rapper Cam’ron – is a friggin’ Aquarius. He went through both a pink and purple phase. Kanye got hot off the pink for a minute but his ass is a Gemini.

      Airy airy airy air air 😛

    • i don’t know about pink but i instantly fall in love with men who have the guts to wear dresses. for real. I think it’s my mars in aqua. anything that gives the finger to middle society and its bizarro (read: norm-bore) dress codes, and means it, because the social consequences for dress-wearing men is sadly massive, makes my heart sing.

      • The one guy that has pulled it off is Eddie Izzard (one of my fave comedians)….& Oh my lordy, i just checked – he’s AQUA EVERYTHING: sun, venus, mars, mercury, saturn & jupiter … wouldn’t you know it , LOL?

      • Ditto. Frank N Furter coming into my life at age 8 was everything.

        But I saw my old crush wear a dress for a scene – I thought it was hot while he probably wortied it emasculated him. The Footy dudes who do that I can’t get into because of the whole ‘homoerotic but wholly homophobic’ BS. But Kelso on That 70’s Show in a dress vibe? FUGG yes.

        He was a pretty thang in his youth, lol…

        • Brian Molko from Placebo. Just looked him up and quotes of his, awwwww lovely:
          “The more you’ll dress up the more fun you’ll have”.
          “Imitation is the highest form of flattery, but clones kind of get it wrong because we are promoting individuality and being proud of being yourself.”
          “I love being a freak. It’s great”
          Says the Sagg. <3
          My fave Sag boyfriend before I met husband (parted because he wanted kids and I didn't, way back when) used to dress up in a wig and tailored suit to go to the video shop, and put on a voice. Just wanted to be in disguise sometimes. I was delighted by it. Just so silly.

      • Haha yep me too! When i met my sag hubby he was wearing a sulu (one of those Fijian man-skjrts) loved it! And pink yes!
        I dress quite plainly but have a lot of dreams that indulge my leo moon where i have these absolutely gorgeous outfits and live a totally different new york style life. I often wake a bit melancholy like there is this whole other life i could be living, but then i walk to the beach or ride to our little cafe across from the creek we take a glass of wine to in the arvo & splash around w our daughter and im like…yeah this is not that bad 🙂

    • Yep – my partner (multi-lib). He’s not by any means a trend follower nor a preener – but he did have a hot pink shirt which faded into a lovely mellow pink over the years (it had tiny fruity looking motifs) which he wore with aplomb for many years.

    • I LOVE Virgos – I’m nearly all fire and air and need earthing – so I find myself totally intrigued by/obsessed with them – although it usually ends up with a niggling sense of inferiority haha….never stopped me from going there tho.

      Weirdly, before I knew knew my asc was Toro it was almost guaranteed any guy who showed interest would be Taurus… that stopped once I found out and started integrating T vibes into my life consciously.
      The last long term love interest was sun Virgo but quadruple Sagg (like me), ex-husband also quadruple Sagg, the two other significant connections were also Virgo/Toro suns with triple Aries + 1 Sagg… I think I see a pattern!

      • lol, just checked out someone else who has been looking pretty interested. They’re Cap sun with -you guessed it -quadruple Sagg!! WTF??

        • Ah Virgos. My favourite Virgo story is a friend of mine, a man married to a close friend of mine. Known him for years, or at least I thought I did. He is a psychology teacher and thinks astrology is bullshit, but whatever, since he is so Virgo he proves the theory. I was over their house and I pick up this exquisite little hand thrown pot on a shelf and I say to him “What is this, where did you get this?” and his wife (also a Virgo) says “Oh, Terry was a potter once and we lived in Romania”.
          I am like wtf. At this point I knew them for a decade. If that was me I’d have taken a billboard out to advertise my potter skills and bored the crap out of everyone at dinner with the “Did I mention that once I….”

            • Oh I have a great Virgo story. The Weatherbeaten Virgo had at least a dozen ’emergency’ supplies of dental floss placed at strategic positions about his house/car/person. In the glove box, his briefcase, in a little pocoket thingy in his couch. So funny. So Virgo. As soon as I found out about his dental floss fetish I knew he was a Virgo.

    • I have a Cancer ex who looooved wearing pink. He was scrapping his way into an old money scene he didn’t belong to and I think he decided pink was the ticket.

      I think my current Libran partner would wear pink if it were not worn by so many people exactly like my Cancer ex. He has a Virgo rising/moon and owns multiple colors of the exact same shirt that he spreadsheets out with his various colors of pants so that everything wears evenly and he doesn’t repeat outfits at work.

    • My Libran man has never worn pink. He did, however, recently pick out a lavender shirt that looks fantastic on him. I was doubtful about the choice until I saw it on him. 🙂

      • Oh, and I immed. knew he was a Libra because of his facial features – straight-across eyebrows on the bushy side, random dimple, brilliant smile, sweet eyes. Definitely has the lollipop face..meaning sweet as candy, not big and round. 🙂

  34. Yeah I have the same thing. Got rid of that intensely karmic / grand trine relationship after a year or so of nagging posts from Mystic lol… Only to date four more guys in the last two years with his first name, second name, second middle name, and now his exact birthday from the year down to the minute. WTF do I do here. I’m not in touch with that ex any more but obviously he is still lingering within me somehow

    • Ha. This is funny. My fiancée I met on the same day/date as my first husband and his birthday is the date of my second wedding!! He’s a double whammy

  35. Yep for me it is/was Gemini’s. Birthday’s 4th, 6th and 7th. I do have a lot of Gemini in my chart even though I am a Taurus sun. Repeating the pattern. Hm need to work out what the lesson is/was.

  36. “You get what you run from.”

    Until you ‘get’ whatever you’re supposed to learn here, you’ll keep repeating it.

    If you focus also on the coincidence about the Birthdays, you’ll also attract that via Law of Attraction.

    If you need more info, reply to this message.

    • Hello – I am replying to this message… would you kindly continue with your train of thought/information. I am interested in your thoughts on the matter. Merci!

    • This is sort of true for me. I met someone, intense, strict, older, and wise – very astute while partnered – I was ill and deluded and I was told – some hard blunt truths…to stop my escapism, however I would not take it from anyone…

      Yet I felt like I’d known this person before. When I felt myself falling for him, that was it. My felt senses knew it was mutual. What did I do? I ran…for my life…then he severed me, out of his life, very coolly with a smile, all the emotion in his hands shaking. I was so sorry I couldn’t be myself, honest…

      It was a saturn transit through scorpio…saturn about to transit sextile to my venus in capricorn 5th, and over my neptune in scorpio, 3rd. It was as if he was close to me, while he sat composed on the other side of the room…

      Then there were issues of status; he was influential, bossy – I did not believe I was worthy anyway…how saturn is that?

      I haven’t reconciled with it, too much…

  37. Gemini energy dominated my dating life. If they weren’t Gemini, they would usually be a Cap or Taurus with a Gemini Rising and/or Gemini relationship placements (venus/mars/eros/psyche).

    Socially I am still a magnet for Gem energy but I keep it “light & Bright”. Deep friendships are just not possible for me with peeps who are uber Gem. But that’s just me, millions on the planet I’m sure are more than happy to love a twin (though I do have a thing for REAL Twins – Rami Malek YUM).

    I REALLY connect with Saggs, March born Aries (April born peeps can be hard to deal with – Taurus included, lol) and July Leo’s (August folks can be…challenging. They need a LOT of pandering like April folks). I think like Scorpios Leos just “mellow” and DEEPEN vs drown in their ish as they age. But maybe not *side eyes the Donald*

    “It really is all very personal” – Ms. Colombia, ‘Beetlejuice’

    • Well your beloved Robert Downey Jr. is April 3rd, two days before my birthday, so I suppose you’d be willing to do all the pandering he’d theoretically require?

    • Yes! Gemini were the bane of my existence for a long time. As an Aquarian, they seem to think I’m this intellectual and creative constant court jester. *sigh* It’s very difficult to build deep relationships emotionally. People would think the twins would be my bread and butter as there is a meeting of the minds, but if they don’t have some water or earth in there to balance that air out, it’s a head against the wall situation. Lol

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