Ask Mystic: Is Something Going On With Geminis & Love?

rhiannon

Hi Mystic!

So not sure how this works and/or if people can just ask you questions but I was curious about something and wanted to give it a shot.

Is there something going on with Gemini’s and love? It very well could be me (Gemini sun here) but I’ve noticed in the last couple months a LOT of Gemini’s have been getting in relationships. A couple celebrities and also a couple of my different friends (and now myself). And some of them, including me, have been getting together with other Gemini’s!

The only real aspect I see happening to Gemmie’s is saturn opposing our suns? And/or Neptune squaring them? Which definitely doesn’t sound like love to me (although I suppose Neptune is the highest love, but a square?)

Just thought I’d reach out and see if my astrology brain was making patterns where there aren’t any or if your esteemed astrology brain sees this too?

Cheers!!!
Kristina

Hi Kristina,

Yes, general questions with broad appeal can be sent to Ask Mystic (mystic@mysticmedusa.com) and more depth things to the same email address but with Astro Shrink in the subject field. Or you can email Astro-Shrink (astroshrink@astro-shrink.com) direct if you want to book an amazing astrologically informed psychotherapy consult.

OKAY and Geminis with LOVE.  Every Gemini i know or know of is doing something BIG around love at the moment and i think it is Saturn. Whenever Saturn is in the opposite sign to you, even if is not making a direct opposition, there are consequences.  Saturn is astringent. It makes you highly aware of time and patterns in your life. You apply a risk-benefit ratio for everything.

Most of the Geminis i am seeing are in break-up mode, the romantic veils are dropping in a pool of filmy gauze that only now do they see was synthetic. They’re assessing input versus output and not wanting to mis-allocate their mercurial charms.  Two Geminis i know turned up looking freshly amazing & explained that they had exited from “sort of okay” relationships because they felt they were not being seen. 

Or that the relationship had become unequal, the other person’s problems or concerns got a lot more air-time with the Gemini being relegated to some role (entertainer, unpaid shrink, task bunny) that they had gotten sick of. And that they realized this was not something that could evolve or be altered. That realization of limitations is SUPER Saturn, Saturn on steroids.

Saturn and Neptune can both = love but not necessarily the heated lust intensity of Mars-Venus. With Saturn in your opposite sign you’re not doing flimsy drivel and irrelevant distractions will send you into a towering rage or you just won’t do it.  Neptune squares can make you LONG for magic and spiritual meaning in a relationship but this can be a high or a bubble that hurts like hell when it wears off or is pricked.

If you’ve been noticing more Geminis in love the last eight weeks, blame/thank that long Mercury in Capricorn phase from mid-December to just recently.  That bought many a depth intimacy and highly charged rapport, along with the existential soul-mining.

What does everyone else think? IS there an activation in the Gemini Love Matrix?

 

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Aquarpio
Aquarpio

Interestingly as the Neptune Saturn square came into effect I did some research & found that my two biggest romances of adulthood (which totally turned me love zombie, sadly) coincided with the 1st Neptune Saturn square & then the opposition (between my 1st & 7th houses). I’m both excited & terrified at the prospect of something happening now, haven’t been involved with anyone since the opposition & while I would like to think that I’ve learned something & can turn the next magical connection into something that doesn’t leave me half crazed the prospect of failing on that level again… Read more »

Aquarpio
Aquarpio

PS: Aqua Sun & rising, Pisces Moon.

ArielMM Member
Ariel

YES. This Gem, Leo rising, with Saturn heading for her natal 5th (return), is totally in love with a Taurus. He’s different to the types I used to date (lots of Aries & Gem men previously; total heartbreakers.) He moved countries for me. No shit. Plus we are talking about being open; I’m not sure my Venus Taurus, with Pluto dead opposite in Scorp could handle that. BUT it does mean I’m evaluating my tendency to be attracted to many people; to be kind of emotionally if not literally non-monogamous, and figure out how important those crushes are, whether they’re… Read more »

kitsuneMM Member
kitsune

Venus + Mercury in Gemini here falling hard for a Venus in Taurus type. Currently feeling all these feels.

virgo pannic
virgo pannic

I don’t know a lot about astrology, but is that what’s been happening to me? virgo sun/gem rising, I just ended a 10 year relationship with the father of my kids (very supportive scorp) and decided to turn my whole life around, focusing on jobs that I really like, as opposed to those that pay well (this will take some downsizing in my lifestyle). When I stop to think about it, I freak out, but then, it feels so right that I’m sure it will turn out all right in the end? I don’t know, I’m kind of lost, this… Read more »

PiMM Member
Pi

neptune / chiron transit opposite sun? north node conjunct?

hdq
hdq

Also besides big S/NN/C/J, asteroid Chaos is at 19 Gem and Psyche at 11 or so (double check that). You’re probably not going to leave your partner over a psyche transit tho. Saturn + NN, absolutely

virgo pannic
virgo pannic

I guess not (I’m a newbie), but I’ve only checked astro.com. I’ll try to look into that to figure how to best handle everything. thanks!

Aries gal
Aries gal

I want to share a situation that is happening with my Gemini Sun Saggitarian moon best friend. Her soul yearns to be in Greece, she stayed there for 9 months and loved it, came alive. She love the simpleness of life of there (gathering food, gardening, cooking, spending time with loved ones) The Greece economy isn’t as developed as it is here in Aus. She came back in 2014.. and has been unhappy since being here. She dates the type of guys who are either in jail, on Home D, or in a bikie gang – I don’t even know.… Read more »

hdq
hdq

Saturn love
Walks beside me
Saturn love
Terrifies me
Saturn love
Gets me to the church on time
(Not really)
Saturn love
Makes me responsible
Saturn love
Makes him sober
Saturn love
Won’t get to my DC till December
Saturn love
You’re very boring
Saturn love
You’re very grounded
Saturn love
You might just last a long, long time
Saturn love
The bills are past due
Saturn love
You’ve got good boundaries
Saturn love
It’s time to formulate a plan
Saturn love
Sits on my neptune
Saturn love
Feels disempowered
Saturn love
Puts my trust in Juuuuuupiter
Jupiter rising
Can’t stop eating
Jupiter rising
Won’t be sober
Jupiter rising
Doesn’t believe in Saturn love
Or does, maybe.

supakaliMM Member
supakali

nice one HDQ, smiling <3

baristagemMM Member
baristagem

Just doing a bit of housekeeping… 😉

Lux Interior Is My Co-PilotMM Member
Lux Interior Is My Co-Pilot

I think Gems are getting their shit together, and YES, Saturn. Foundationing

vikingwoman
vikingwoman

My Gem husband has gotten his kink back on..went through his second Saturn return last year very smoothly so I guess sex is back on. I have a Gem moon so words and ideas get us hot and bothered.

GemLeoLibMM Member
GemLeoLib

So happy to see my post here (I feel famous!)
It totally makes sense with Saturn culling out any undefined, shallow, flimsy relationships. I was trying this thing where I dated multiple people at one time (they all knew about each other) but when the last one came along (Gemini), right away he was serious. None of the others seemed to care that much about me and this guy feels secure and honest so I dropped the rest.
Thank. You. Saturn!

PlutoMoonMM Member
PlutoMoon

I have a Gemini DSC and an empty (of major planets) 7th house… I think someone (it was moi) set up a bug zapper on that corner of my chart and all the little bugs keep going ZZZZtt.

LiberatingVenusMM Member
LiberatingVenus

Yup, definitely Saturn, IMO. Saturn opposing the Sun from the Solar 7th House is classic “commit or GTFO” energy for relationships. The result? Gems are way less inclined to play the field and are more likely to get serious with a sweetie under this vibe….especially if they’ve been diligently policing things from a quality standpoint and raising the bar in a good way re: relationships. One way or the other, you’ll know *exactly* what you are working with in a union when Saturn opposes the Sun from the 7th – the basic parameters, the strengths/weaknesses, where it can/can’t go, all… Read more »

Triple Air Gem
Triple Air Gem

Not so far….?
Break ups and realisations around crappy relationship assumptions, yes. Lots of mining the past, old lovers resurfacing and aha moments. but no one new. honestly, right now I don’t know if I could. I feel like I might snarl at them before scurrying away lol

FreogirlMM Member
Freogirl

One more thing… Mystic, don’t you think the motto for Saturn transits is ‘fortune favours the brave’? I am only just starting to understand the meaning of the transit.

FreogirlMM Member
Freogirl

“Is there an activation in the Gemini Love Matrix?” Yes. Out the door. No more pretence. No more flimsy love veils. Fuq off Qi vamps etc. I’m Sagg sun and gem rising, so I’m doing it straight up – no mixers: end of 20 year relationship and, my goodness, never had so many people say to me that I look AMAZING. I feel like I’ve got the Saturn goggles on big time – but really big and strong and clear goggles, yes? It might be Mars transit or whatev too, but I don’t get tired. I keep going and feel… Read more »

jojoMM Member
jojo

Yes! There is most definitely something going on with Gemini Love.
I am a Gem Sun, and recently ended my partnership of 20 years with my mate. Currently trying to work out if I should go back and try work things out, or keep myself open to love/mate/date someone else (something I’ve never done before). My Gem Sun bestie is also working on her most important love relationships at the moment too. Major transition time!!!

Carey
Carey

Gem moon and Asc. yep, hold on or break from a 20 year marriage has been the topic of the last year and a half. 5th 7th and 8th houses getting all the action.

Best to all!!

FreogirlMM Member
Freogirl

Oh gosh… Me too! I just posted below. Twenty years. Me too. Tough. But I hear you – looking at it through Saturn goggles – should I stay or should I go now?

Pi
Pi

Two close friends of mine, aries rising, both went through serious interpersonal “growth” during their saturn-7th house transits (Libra of course). Both also met an Official Partner (in the relationship sense, not commercial sponsorship lol.. although that’s an option too i guess), one is now married to hers.

I’m interested to see what saturn will want to refine / redefine / test when it goes into my 7th house… hmm lemme run the numbers…

Amy
Amy

I think something is definitely going on with GEMINI’S and love at the moment !!! I recently started a ” new ” relationship, but have noticed in the last couple of Mystic’s Weekly Horoscopes for Gemini’s have contained NO advice or insight into current or potential future relationships or love happenings. Its been all about my retro biz career or money troubles….please Mystic more insight into GEMINI’s love possibilities in next week’s Weekly Horoscopes. I need some advice as to where my relationship could potentially be going…..

AKAPlutoMM Member
AKAPluto

Haha. A Gem rising friend was just asking me why she keeps getting involved with Gem suns and Ascendents.

Other Gem rising friend who considers himself the “king of impermanence” is waking up to the fact that he’s legitimately engaged.

sphinxMM Member
sphinx

Dunno about romance but my awesome Sun/Merc/Venus/Saturn in Gem partner gets taken to task for not activating his Moon in Cancer enough at times lately.
Or for using his moon in Cancer for home/cooking concerns instead of EMOTIONS, or emotional connecting, lol.
I like Moon in Cancer after a long day of Gemini.
(Scorp Moon plus Gem Rising, so I just seem flitty, but Pluto is always watching)

Pi
Pi

pluto is always watching 🙂 <3

MultiairMM Member
Multiair

Definitely. I am a multiple Gemini (Sun, Jupiter, Venus) and usually NEVER date. But in the last couple of weeks I’ve been out with 2 Gems. Tres weird.

GMM Member
G

Oh fuq yeah. Gemini reappeared on NYE (who has timing like that?), turns out he broke up with long term gf and had been hurt by another woman. His treatment by the newer woman made him recognise that he’d been a shit friend to me, hence the reappearance. One reason fof distancing himself was that he had developed a crush on me.

Yeah, Gemini’s are being made to face their love questions.

davidl
davidl

I’d say that the least whining about relationships around here over the years has been from Gemini’s. I’m gem rising and moon and have noticed from many years observation of Gemini sun friends, that yes they do have relationship issues but that air / mental thing has a type of logic that doesn’t seem to get stuck for too long. Also when they are singletons there doesn’t seem to be that underlying ‘part of me is missing’ stuff. I put forward that Gems are the least likely to be love zombies and the least likely to be in desperate need… Read more »

GMM Member
G

Gotta agree with you there. Also noticed that their light, logical breeziness can work against them; when their feelings get too uncomfortable they’ll retreat into their minds. Perhaps this passage is forcing quite a lot of gemini’s to recognise that they can’t think their way out of feelings.

davidlMM Member
davidl

Feelings, nothing more than feelings… Well we know that song was not written by a gem. 🙂 I’m not too sure though that attempting to intellectualize feelings is all bad. It can get you out of the mud for a minute so you can sort of breath and move forward. Let’s face it we are talking about the great paradox here. There is nothing rational or logical when it comes to matters of the heart and that can be a real mind fuq for anyone who desires to lead a rational life. For example if you ever sat and did… Read more »

GMM Member
G

Again, I fully agree with you. And I’m certainly not against intellectualising things (Lib sun, Aqua asc: I love my brain!), just saying it’s easy for air signs to think their way into desensitising themselves, which isn’t always appropriate. It’s such a fine balance.

Pi
Pi

You make a good point.

I’m only recently starting to (learn how to) make my pisces sun and mercury – piscean im/expression of Self – a proper priority, rather than my shoot-from-the-lip, intellectualise and make light of, gemini rising, which squares my Sun-mercury exactly.

and it is so desensitising, you’re right, much goes un-expressed or un acknowledged, not owned very well. Unravelling so much stuff.
the balance will come, no doubt

X

Pi
Pi

I have done a SWOT analysis on children and they are losing bigtime. sorry kids, it’s ova. LOLOLOL
god i am SO funny
I’d give it some thought with the right guy, but hey. universe knows where to find me while i am cleaning up my brain.

Pi
Pi

capricorn moon = cost-benefit analysis on EMOTIONS
unless pisces takes over.
or aries venus gladiatrix.
then all bets are off.

rachelMM Member
rachel

The worst love zombie spell I ever had was for a Gemini–our attraction was totally air–super conversation/talking, wordplay–LONG telephone conversations (I usually am not a chatty telephone person…) that would go on all night long, etc. Of course he was also probably a pathological liar and the hot and cold from him scrambled my brain into tangles upon tangles of “what the f is going on?!” Lol. I had a couple moments in the past few days of musing about him, must admit. I have natal Jupiter in Gemini, in the 12th–another big reason for the attraction was the fact… Read more »

rachelMM Member
rachel

AND just read scopes for Tuesday “Six more days of Jupiter in opposition to Chiron to vamp up your psyche and force even can-be-a-hoarder-of-grudges you to just eject a whole pile of pointless baggage.”

So maybe that is why?! Lol

ponwah
ponwah

Ok well this might explain the huge crush I have developed on one of my colleagues? Trying not to love zombie I promise…

GeminianMM Member
Geminian

Admittedly I am dating a bit after a drought and have two things on the go right now relationship wise, or as I like to call it, an alliance. Like both lovers etc and was thinking maybe it was more Uranus approaching my Venus and my wanting to do it differently, but happy to take Saturn/Neptune into account too. All parties know etc and are fine both very Uranian types of people. I feel very Simone de Beauvoir all of a sudden. The interesting thing is that none of it is superficial, all very highly transformative and the interaction is… Read more »

Catcatcat
Catcatcat

Hmm. My current interest is a Gemini I’ve pen pal-ed with for…over 10 years, since the Myspace era. We’ve never met. (!) We are predominantly text/chat based. Some long emails. Kind of incredible. He just broke up with a girlfriend. I’ve been single quite awhile… We’ve long time flirted in and out of relationships on either end of our writerly divide. He started talking marriage via text memos maybe a month after his breakup. Ha. I had to not so gently guide him back towards earth. I think we’re gonna meet, but perhaps on more rational grounds. I didn’t want… Read more »

NikiMM Member
Niki

I’m not sure but I’m surrounded with Geminis! Is it because I’m a Gemini Rising? Haha. But yeah, everyone’s in that transition of either getting out of a relationship that’s no longer serving them or just not allowing qi vamps and love zombie types to ruin the vibe.

isabella
isabella

Scorp rising, Sun/Moon/Mercury/Jupiter/Llilith in Gemini. ZERO love since I finally left my 5 yr on/off Scorpio last year. Work and discipline back to the way it was before we met though. Saturn? Hoping (praying) for a sparkling summer. June usually brings naughtiness. Hehe.

essemtee
essemtee

Hmmm, I did the existential soul mining alone, and feel as though I have never been more devoid of possible conversation partners re: the eclipse and literally closing the door on the old life. However I am half way across the world in a new city so maybe my gem sun/aries rising hasn’t found its footing yet. On the other hand I know a gemini who is probably about to break with how much she’s been straddling old love and new love, and another gem friend is in love with like six people. I still say we’re always all over… Read more »

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

This Sun Taurus/Gemini Rising can feel things activating in the ether re: love but seeing no “tangible” manifestations as of yet. Stay tuned.

Yup here we go again
Yup here we go again

COMMENT DELETED FOR HUMOURLESS RUDENESS – JM

KittybatMM Member
Kittybat

Huh? That’s pretty harsh! If you’re not interested just scroll by. Personally, I’m interested in everyone’s stories! I don’t comment much because of self esteem issues, but there’s a real diversity and openness to honest sharing here that I enjoy reading. So you know, just scroll past if you don’t want to hear the Venus Fly journey. Have a nice day 🙂

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

“I don’t comment much because of self-esteem issues.”

The unintended charm of that sentence makes me laugh with love. But no need to be shy, little kitty. Shine on, baby – shine on… <3

KittybatMM Member
Kittybat

Aww love your comment, thanks! I will attempt more bravery 🙂

ramtwinMM Member
ramtwin

Please take your hatefulness elsewhere. I do, and I am sure others do too, want to hear about venus fly’s life. That is why we are all here. To share and read about each other. This is a supportive community.

Maybe look into your own advice and write in a journal? You could begin by asking yourself why you feel the need to put down and insult others on the internet.

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

Goddamn I love a haute Ramzilla. Stay fly, you double dose of goat <3

tw:leoMM Member
tw:leo

um, wow.
ilu, VF.

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

Muah! *scratches the tw:leo where they need to be scratched* Funnily enough, I went to go read the “Decorum” rules for the Forums (it takes communication to have a relationship you know – I want to know your standards, dammit!) and saw this snapshot of a post which felt it was directed at me. And I laughed out loud. For like a minute. Because it is so bizarre to me why people want to attempt to shame and use and abuse people in any capacity at all and all I could do was laugh. I guess this is where the… Read more »

BelleMM Member
Belle

Obviously not feeling the love..

Aries gal
Aries gal

HEY BACK OFF ZOMBIE. We are interested!!!!
what were not interested in is YOUR COMMENTS

THANKS BYE WHY-DONT -YOU -GET -A -LIFE!

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

Lawd have mercy – this fire feline. Go on with your bad self <3

Aries gal
Aries gal

hahahahhahaha
I say stuff like that lol

Lawd have mercy in deed and Venus Fly you keep going on with yo bad self girl x

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

Meow ;D <3

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Just want to say how nice it is to see a no-tolerance stance toward bullies/hateful snipers. That, & other commentors offering support. Refreshing.

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