Apres Xmas: The Morph

Filed in Moon in Leo

American Horror Story

Wow so happy end-of-the-cognitive-dissonance.  A Full Moon in Cancer was always bound to evoke usually unexpressed or even realized emotions.

And those vie with the more pragmatic Capricorn Sun, Pluto, Athene. And on Xmas?  Ridic.  Nothing like chthonic feelings versus traditionalist expectations of the festival.

Add to that the rebel urges of Uranus Direct in pioneering Aries for a lucid time, right? And as in the Daily Horoscopes for Monday, Uranus is now heading straight for Eris-Persephone. This is a disrupt in search of a stale paradigm to subvert.

Steven Meisel

But Xmas wasn’t all Full Moon management. For some of us, there was the joy of explaining Eighties George Michael & Star Wars to a new generation and the delightful delusion that Xmas calories don’t count. There was time away from the relentless drive of Pluto in Capricorn and a chance to reboot ready for Mars in Scorpio forever for most of 2016.

A chance to connect more deeply with loved ones/one-self, what matters. Jesus even. Mithras? The couch? If you see this time of year as Saturnalia, like the ancients did, you were meant to banquet and flop out between crusades, empire management, serfdom and/or byzantine intrigue before getting up to do it all again.

Wham

But make no mistake about this: That Full Moon/Uranus combo was a RESET. A realization, release and a reset in prep for The Morph. 2016 is Saturn square Neptune, Jupiter opposite Chiron AND in sync to Pluto, Mars Retro and more.

Your ideas, insights and turning points of the last week are the new ground Zero for your Morph. That is “morph” as in short for metamorphosis. Sometimes soggy old feelings or fresh but flimsy ideas need some sort of existential crisis moment to crystallize and then either shatter or find their form.

But we begin with the epic relationship and power fuqery that is Lilith square Pluto all January.  I have been on about this in the Daily Mystic email but here it is again, if you think someone is pass-agg attempting to mess with your autonomy or damn your Awesome via faint praise, you’re most likely right.

Romance? It may look like a torrid mess or barren lunar landscape but this is a restructure of many a relationship scene/paradigm.

Happy Everything.  And, the Moon in Leo near asteroid Dionysus. YES hair, fashion, image and body art evolution with personal shamanic meaning to you.

Bieber

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SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

Christmas was good. Low key. Excellent food. All the mothers. Gorgeous thoughtful pressies. An afternoon nap. Gratitude galore that I wasn’t have a horrible day like my two best friends were. And a Christmas email at 9:30am (very unexpected) from the Libran (ex) Lover. Now it’s the return to drowning in ennui. I don’t know how to go forward. I don’t know what excites or motivates me. I’m totally lost. Miserable that my long term partner has a girlfriend and I’m stuck with nothing. Which isn’t helping to feel good or energised. Just taking it one day at a time.… Read more »

SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

It just properly dawned on me that I’m having the Neptune square Neptune transit and then went off to read up. Yep. That’s me!!

And it entangles my natal Mercury also.

I liked the advice of taking one day at a time. That’s the best I can do right now. There is still much to come.

supakaliMM Member
supakali

oh god, i indulged in such an ill-advised love affair during my Neptune SQ Neptune transit (not to cast such aspersions on yours Sleepless!) and when the transit ended, yep, it was so perplexing to me. Just thought it was worth a share x

ICPlutoMM Member
ICPluto

Sleepless, darling! My Neptune square Neptune dissolved almost everything I *thought* I had. I went on some wild unicorn rides-the more I wanted to understand what was going on, the less sense it all made. I started practicing metta meditation around this time and to have some resemblance of routine helped me when I was feeling adrift. The aspect played between my 6th and 9th houses. What houses are involved in this transit for you? Baby steps, no guarantees. xx

SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

It’s playing between the 9th and 12th ICP! And it’s been activated for almost nine months – with a little retrieve between Apr and Aug. But I was feeling it last year – with paranoia that I was disappearing into suburbia and no one was going to notice that I was gone. It sounded nuts to say to people ‘suburbia is eating me’. From the big picture delusions down to being unable to generate momentum. I’m cutting myself some slack. I understand as much as I need to for now. 18th Jan Neptune moves out of direct square and then… Read more »

SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

Thanks for sharing, Kali and yeah, I have been wondering about the delusional aspects of what’s happened with the Libran (ex) Lover. Looking at the ephemeris I see he entered my life five days after Neptune hit the 1 degree orb in its retro motion. And oh hell – I’ve had the square exact for almost two months during the retro period as Neptune stationed at 7 degrees Pisces. I suspect that’s when all the real problems emerged if I back tracked to dates. But it’s been the soul sucking inability to focus and generate momentum which has gutted me… Read more »

SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

Make that it’s been bang on 7 degrees since Sept 17th and won’t move on until Jan 18th. Holy mother of all mercies!!!

electro
electro

Hey, that sounds rough but at least you can see the end of the tunnel now. I love it when peeps share certain transits so I know what to look out for. Thank you!!

SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

I was wondering if your natal Neptune had been hit yet! I think I need to blog about this after doing extended reading today. One blog post resonated so deeply and it reminded me the value of shared experiences. That moment where you no longer feel alone and weird.

electro
electro

It’s coming up, I’m 13 Sag Neptune. I have Saturn on my Moon Neptune, that is enough for right now! People here helped me prep for Saturn on my moon. And I get it almost the entire year due to retrograde.

ElectroMM Member
Electro

Do you have your own blog? If you do, make sure to link us up.

SleepfulInBrisvegasMM Member
SleepfulInBrisvegas

Saturn is betwixt my Neptune-Mercury conjunction. Like I need more stuff going on. I am feeling totally torn by the need to have focus and structure at a time when I can’t actually focus and all my momentum has drained away. It’s a bit of a cruel irony and I’m yet to find the middle ground.

And yes – I have my own blog (I’ve been blogging in some shape since 2007 when Mystic first issued some interesting challenges to do soul searching! I love the fact that everything to do with my creativity leads back here!)

The Venus FlyMM Member
The Venus Fly

I have become obsessed with crystals. Geodes and jewelry galore. Feeling the urge to ‘reflect’ inner energies that escape most eyes and yep, since adorning I am being ‘seen’ more authentically.

Bring on 2016. The New Era has Begun! <3

Pegasus
Pegasus

Totally hibernated as i do at Xmas. Missed solstice party with close friends due to massive heat wave that zapped and sapped energy. Overnight temps were hotter than Bankok’s day temp in Adders. Luckily Mrs. Claws brung me final season of Sons of Anarchy, so marathon screen viewing time. It was an extremely heavy final to a loved series. Charlie Hunnam is mesmerising, all the cast is. Then gifted a bottle of Jasmin Noir. Questionable aroma, not my choice but ok after 3 hours on skin. Kataka full moon thoughts of the mother of course…..and how there is no family… Read more »

Calisamgal aka Greta Gerdie
Calisamgal aka Greta Gerdie

Just popping in from the rain soaked mid-60s east coast of the US. Planning funeral attire for a man who abandoned my father in his childhood possibly abused other family members (though it is unspoken) and then passed on Christmas Day, trying to figure out how to survive the next few days. Finally got to listen to a Solstice Celebration telecall that ironically stressed the need for us empaths to own our power in 2016 ie. be hyper vigilant of what is unconsciously getting stuck in our solar plexus especially that doesn’t belong to us. Strangely though I felt like… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

“Aligned to a higher or stronger vibration”

Thankyou for this message, Cali, you’ve given me a lot of ‘food’ for thought here (I’ve often kept eating to block out other’s energy, or maybe swallow my frustration!)

Emg
Emg

I thought I had xmas really sorted. Just me and Aqua man plus his mum whom we care for. The door was shut and no one was coming in. No family drama no emotional bullshiz but… His sister walks in unannounced at 1230 and we had to postpone our lunch. She spent the whole year slandering us and creating a nightmare legally to the point of a restraint order. Needless to say he and I had the day crapped up. Huge anger boiled over in us both. And we’ve spent two days calming down. Very odd feel to this xmas.… Read more »

Suzy
Suzy

This what I just posted on a Facebook share:
I just love her! “Damn your Awesome with faint praise!” The truth is, astrology has never clicked with me, I guess it’s my Grand Earth Trine that keeps me so myopic, but everything she writes makes me want to jump up and wag pom-poms. Check it out.

akapluto
akapluto

Yes to all this, MM…yes, yes, yes. Woke up Christmas morning upset that I have no real family but probably mostly upset that there was nowhere to get coffee and my best friend’s family told me to “come over later when everyone else shows up”. I was all teary eyed first thing when I woke up…ew I pulled it together quickly and told myself to go back into orphan survival mode and ended up having a very dynamic Xmas- spent time with lots of different people including the village community Christmas dinner (I have the moon in the 11th so… Read more »

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Sure, I got the proverbial “Withholding: defense, 10 yard penalty,” this full Kataka moon xmas & it took a good 48 hrs before I could giggle when singing, “U want it all, but you can’t have it…” But that was 3 days ago, aka Before Now. Now, time to count coup & forge ahead a la Mars in Scorpio. Viva la resistance!

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

Hmmm…“Faith No More” seems like an apt alternate title for the Saturn/Neptune square, yes?

ICPlutoMM Member
ICPluto

Christmas saw me dealing with a man who says he wants to be with me, but chose to spend the festive season nursing his addict ex-wife. I called my father on boxing day and, in his passo-aggro way, he told me he had a fall in the bathroom (why wasn´t I there?!). Further inquiries revealed he slipped because he had “one too many” on Christmas Eve. My neighbor started playing Streisand´s very loudly, and I kept on rolling my eyes everytime I heard “people who need people are the luckiest people in the world”. *cue the manic laughter* But I´m… Read more »

annica
annica

Zomg…you sound like my biz partner. She is libra sun, scorp rising. She too has a man who is totes in love with her.i have met him and believe this but he spent xmas with exwife cos kids. So yucky!

mick
mick

…and he’s SO in love with her??? lmao

Lunasea
Lunasea

Kids come first for most parents in love or not.

KarenMagpieMM Member
KarenMagpie

Yup. Romantic partner with kids means you’re in a relationship with all…the ex will always be in the picture to some degree, and creating or fostering a me-or-the-kids dynamic will be fatal to the relationship, always.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

In fact l’d think twice about someone who DOESN’T put their kids b4 me

KarenMagpieMM Member
KarenMagpie

Cosign.

Navigating any quasi-or-actual step-parenting water is not easy, but navigating the emotional landscape of someone who could be alienated from his/her kids…I think that would be much worse.

sphinxMM Member
sphinx

Well said

annica
annica

It was one of those situations where the ex wife only got preggers to trap him (and even admitted it out loud) , because he never wanted kids (poked holes in condom..she a Leo so she gets what she wants)…, but the dude (a wishywashy libra) feels responsible, which is noble i guess. My friend wants to eventually take the kids away from the exwife because she is a total loser can’t keep a job, can’t cook, or do anything else matronly expected of her. We’ll see what happens. I feel sorry for the daughter anyway this turns out.

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

I had some weird, cool happenings between that Neptune-infused Full Moon & Uranus SD – definitely no complaints here! The first was a visit from my (deceased) grandparents 🙂 I have never particularly associated Christmas with them, as we always celebrated with just my immediate family when I was a child, so it was somewhat unusual they would choose Christmas Day to make an appearance. But they were both devout Catholics, so perhaps in hindsight it wasn’t so odd after all, as the holiday obviously had special significance to THEM as individuals. I was in my kitchen on Christmas morning… Read more »

sphinxMM Member
sphinx

*clink* to you and yours – love that your grandparents are so festively oriented in their communication!

ElectroMM Member
Electro

Interesting times, indeed. I went on a Christmas Day hike with my dog in a tank top (I live in the east coast usa & we are having super weird weather). It was foggy and rainy and I had a nice chat with the ether. Uranus direct back on my SN – it went retro on my birthday. Great timing with Saturn on my moon, I have anger amplified right now. Hubs and I made a pact to go away next year and take an indefinite break on hosting. It’s just too much: the selfish father in law, the day… Read more »

annica
annica

That sounds divine to have xmas away! I used to have xmas away back in the day when i had a boyfriend to go away with. Going away by yourself for xmas is not allowed in my family unless there was a reason like…and even then they would make sure to have a pre-xmas or post to make sure you dont miss your dose of misery.

Crystallised futureMM Member
Crystallised future

I’m with you there re the reset has begun. Yesterday really topped a spectacularly fucked up year and I spent the night at the airport just to get away from what I thought would be a drama free family of origin Xmas. I have made a few pacts to myself in the past 16 hours. I’m shedding skin.

Virgo EllieMM Member
Virgo Ellie

Yup, Christmas was interesting. Mostly it was about meeting men and me just not paying attention to family. Other than my close friends and my parents. I just couldn’t do it. But I am questioning myself and my actions towards the guy who told me I was chasing him. Yes, I know I shouldn’t have sent him a Merry Christmas text but I was wondering if he was in town when I was visiting one of my spots. I just wanted to know.. so I sent him one. Ouch, he must have removed my contact info because when I sent… Read more »

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Ouch, yeah, VE – you are eminently sensible and I reckon so much of that stuff is confusing, I’m pretty sure it’s ok to go pfffffff and chuck all the cards in the air and just see how they fall, y’know? Pffff…cruise sounds like a good time could be had,

Virgo EllieMM Member
Virgo Ellie

Yup!! Lesson learned!

annica
annica

Next time that happens, you text someone you like who accused you of chasing, don’t reply if the reply is “who is this?” If you must reply say sorry it was a group text and forgot you were on there. I had to learn this too…but certain types of men don’t want to be friends. They tend to have a lot of scorp in their chart and are often super controlling and insecure. They view women only as creatures to conquer/fuck/have a romance with. They don’t believe in melding minds with you or any woman, maybe…maybe their wife or gf… Read more »

Virgo EllieMM Member
Virgo Ellie

Hi Annica, I wish I had his chart information. Never got to that point. But he is a cop so the whole chasing thing is a professional reaction. I dated a copy before so I didn’t really care that this guy was one also. Maybe he thinks is more powerful than he should think because of his profession but I unfortunately admire those officers to the highest level. At first I thought he was a Capricorn with a mix of Cancer. Very father figure like with a very sensitive side to him. Before this Christmas eve situation he would always… Read more »

PorkchopMM Member
Porkchop

I had a lovely Christmas day with my real family – my amazing cats – watching cheesy holiday movies and cooking specials and episodes of Homeland (QUINN BETTER WAKE UP FROM HIS COMA DAMN IT!!!!). Have 3 more weeks off work, ahhhh. Feeling a bit nervous about a couple things next year but need to focus on the present instead of worrying about what ifs.

Calendula
Calendula

I was at a party last night and could find no one who had seen the finale of Homeland. It will be a long wait to find out if Quinn makes it.

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Well no fights broke out, my brother (love him but super volatile black sheep Capricorn who self medicates daily micro doses of acid…) and my super straight Arian Gambian brotherinlaw who hosted. Each big loud and on high horses ( bros probably rainbow unicorn) Soooo been trying to get out more and the first guy I meet gets stuck in my head! Did note his reaction when he sees me at next meet up. Sort of shocked like he was hit with a cow prod…. I have been thinking about him between time and liked to see I had some… Read more »

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

The light at the other end of the tunnel
is a train coming the other way.

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Crikey I thought I was a negitor PF

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

I knew you’d get the joke.

annica
annica

It was starting to look like a Morrisey song.

Isis
Isis

And two weeks ago my mum tried to take her life. Our Christmas miracle was that she even made it to Christmas Day.
A course of ect later she did, and she looked pretty good!
The family, fractured as we are, were hopelessly polite, as a sheen of sadness held us in check.

After being in and out of hospitals and psych wards every day on top of …everything, I slept for two days on and off.
Moon in Cancer, Uranus direct the lest of my concerns in the end…
To new beginnings friends *clinks glass*

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Ohhh hon I wondered a couple of posts back if it was someone close to you. No words. Just standing solid with you, clinking glasses, in virtual reality/life xxx

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

that is really a hard one to live through and stay in a loving place. My mum came out after 4 days in ICU + 10 days in the ward so feel for you at this really emotional time

annica
annica

*clink glass* to the newness!

And augh…*hugs*

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

That musta been a hard xmas to get thru.
Symps Sphinx

ElectroMM Member
Electro

I’m so sorry to hear. *hugs*

And yes to new beginnings.

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

That sounds really tough – also clinking to new beginnings… May they be new and may they be better xx

ICPlutoMM Member
ICPluto

Oh Sphinx, *no words*, but lots of hugs. xx

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

This is so Kataka full moon + Uranus direct. Chiron’s in there too, somewhere…

*ting* To new chapters, yes. Salud & besos, Sphinx x

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

Oh my goddess, Sphinx….my heart goes out to you and to your family…! Love to you – that “sheen of sadness” you refer to holding the family together is so very Cancer Full Moon + Neptune….I know that brand of glue all too well as a Moon-Neptune girl. <3

Veronica
Veronica

Oh, my dear Sphinx…no words. Hope you can get some rest. Xxxx

KarenMagpieMM Member
KarenMagpie

What a thing to go through, especially over Christmas. Glad you had the space to sleep. Yes–clink!–to new beginnings.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Strength and courage to you Sphinxy.
Smoking weed cured my mother from suicidal thoughts after her long time lover died.
Heartbreakingly sad, my friend x

sphinxMM Member
sphinx

Thanks lovelies, I just felt like the astrological story is so wow. She is a multi Scorp and Saturn has been hard work for her. If she had gone out that way it would have been devastating, I would be in pieces. (Am so glad she isn’t a chemist). A friend’s father died of cancer the same day she attempted it & my friend was light and free with his passing, relieved for him. This was so different to that… Am tentatively hopeful Merc retro is supportive of study & release of old suppressed stories & Uranus/Vesta as lightning fire… Read more »

gemyogi
gemyogi

Wow… what a christmas! I’m glad your Mum is still with you and I hope things improve xx
*clink*

sphinxMM Member
sphinx

Thanks Gem, adding to the parental head count, just been out searching for a missing father of a friend, he has dementia & his carer and wife suddenly passed. Apparently this time of year the death toll among the elderly is very high.

annica
annica

Welp this was a weird xmas, less dramatic than i thought or expected. Exactly nothing happened. No family fights. Nobody zipping in and proclaiming love for me. Nada. It felt and still feels isolatingbut not sad…tinge of stoicism and nostalgia. Is there even a word for that? It is feeling like cleaning up a used condom you find on the bed that you somehow forgot. It reminds you of days gone by and responsibilities. I made extra sure to take care of myself this season and to make sure i stayed as busy as possible so i had no time… Read more »

annica
annica

And last night, i dreamed of eating a weird lobster, a species i had never seen before.

Weird times!

Alex I’ll take barren lunar landscape for $100.

S
S

I can tell my mojo is back. Maybe it’s the magic in the breeze. But the proof is that my catwhisperer skills are working again, the sedative effect of turkey on young male kitty calming his nerves.
Bring on the weird and hang onto your crazy because I’ve already got a jump on whom is messing with my vibe. The pass aggressive bs been going on for too long.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

In my new film “Batshit Cray Cray Guy Stares Dogs Down” l thru, Ocular Determinism, make canines recite the periodic table.

Of course, l could be barking mad.

annica
annica

Absolutely! I am onboard with you!

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

Nostoicalgia?

annica
annica

Lol. Now that looks like something i need a vaccination from.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

I find that used condoms seem to multiply which is strange when you consider that they are there to prevent multiplication.

annica
annica

🙂 only for you lucky Krazy Kats! Fertility sign and all!

I haven’t seen action in over half a decade but
I tell you i bought new condoms last night as a lucky charm. I have no one to use them with, but felt like being 19 again trying to pretend I am an adult and and actually have a use for them. It has been a weird week.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

More to do with memories. Last gf wafted off into the ether 12mths ago. Fittingly she was an Air sign.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

You know you are fuqd when you have not used them.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Bahahaaa I found a box of them recently, probably past their use-by date. Need to throw them away. No prospects on the horizon. Truly the thing that stops me from throwing them in the trash is the enviro factor. My intention was never to fuq the planet lol

annica
annica

I thought latex biodegrades?

KarenMagpieMM Member
KarenMagpie

Very similar to my own experience…it was a weird Xmas for me in so many ways and so very free of drama it was disorienting, like the lack of drama created a bit too much free space in my head. With you on the mix of stoicism and nostalgia–sadness tinged with resolve here, a strong sense of not going back while remembering things from the past, good and bad. I did far more goal-setting than I’ve ever done (I’m much more about how I want things to feel than concrete measurable markers in general). There’s very little left for me… Read more »

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Yeah. I was asleep on the couch on Christmas night exactly as Uranus went direct and stayed in hibercouchination for the next 36 hours. Reluctantly seeking to venture beyond, but only after a big bike ride and then a walk and then a beautiful sunset. I’m back. Sort of.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

Where’dya go?

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

So weird – I went on a bike path I didn’t know existed – minutes from home, and it was a bit magical.There were wallabies and jabirus and magpie geese all over the place, and I have lived here for seven years and never found this path…. It was cool. Mars in cancer, Uranus in scorps.

Did you go somewhere for the break, PF? Figurativlely or otherwise?

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

I took long way around that involved leaving my place of torture. I drove 1700kms, doing seats and other interior stuff on 4 cars and 1 truck. Then the last of the renos on house so it can be sold. Plus drive fr Nthn Rivers to Rocky and back and then to Adel.

Plus chasing up on my latest love triangle.

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

So much movement…Good for you!

Triangles? Why did the obtuse triangle go to the beach? To meet acute one…..

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

A get some equi-lateral action…..

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

*a* and

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Snort!

annica
annica

I love finding secret new paths and shortcuts! Makes my heart thrill!

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Yes! And with wildlife! Bit sore today, so must cycle that path every day until not sore.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

“Hibercouchination”. Love it. Let’s get this word into the dictionary xx

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Yes – Internet and phone allowed, but no other live humans. Husband tolerated, but he also lives here so that’s perfectly fine.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Various letdowns/blowups have resulted in my spending 48 hours in virtual seclusion, pigging out and bawling my eyes out. Alcoholic family dramas, which I’d tried to avoid, snuck up and bit me anyway. It’s the toxic dynamic that will not die despite my best efforts to change my part/set boundaries that work for me. Somewhere between the third and fourth ice-cream, I had what I’m calling the Magnum Classic Epiphany. Instead of trying run away from holidays, I’m going to use them to hide behind. Genius. Christmases and birthdays for obligatory phone calls and a card. A monthly phone call… Read more »

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

You gotta get out of Dodge.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Yep. I know you’re right Katman.

annica
annica

A 7th house sun would give you a Libra vibe and i can tell you in general many of us do not like to create an unnecessary stir. 🙁 but yeah Uranus would be good to call upon. Explode! Call upon The Tower card. 😀

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Thank you in fact I have been thinking through how my fab sister (absent for festivus), a Libra moon, handles our toxic fam and she does exactly as I have outlined above. She is a multi-Cap (6th house OMG) and I think this method also appeals to her sense of efficiency.
I have got the Tower card a couple of times in recent readings, mostly 6th house but yes, this is how I feel I must proceed. I have nothing to lose, not really. x

ElectroMM Member
Electro

There is one in every family, unfortunately, so don’t feel alone in that respect. I started sewing last summer and when my dad found out he went on and on about how my brother was the best in his class in middle school home ec with sewing and blah blah blah. You have to be kidding me. It’s like the parents know what a mess they are and keep their fairytale version alive at any cost to reality. Hope you feel better soon.

ICPlutoMM Member
ICPluto

I think it would be easier if parents could own their schizz. Big news for you, we know you´re human and prone to fuq ups, mom and dad. Why keep on pretending and hurting everybody? The pantomime gets boring very soon. *yawn* Big hug to you, Chrysalis.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

Things you were threading you might think

He was being a sew n sew
He is hemming you in
Seriously? He has me in stitches
He is warped in his bias; he should be weft alone.

ElectroMM Member
Electro

I have the notion to string you up by your toes.

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

“Perhaps this is Saturn square Neptune. Saturn in my 4th squaring Neptune on my sun. I have been trying for years to remake this dynamic, to suggest a different way of relating. This year I finally get it. Nobody wants it. Nobody cares.” I relate to this like you would not believe, m’dear – believe me when I tell you that I understand what a painful & difficult realization this is to come to. But it is also one that is very freeing – I have stopped trying to coax/cajole/force/whathaveyou my family dynamic into something it frankly is not. I… Read more »

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Ahh, you get it 🙂 The shocking realisation for me in the last couple of days was that I have done SO much therapy around this and thought I had it sorted… obvs not. I began therapy when Pluto was going through my 4th so perhaps now Saturn is finishing the job. Now I have a plan to protect myself within the confines of the current (fuqued) structure… rather than yet more (failed) 7th house sun attempts to negotiate a better outcome.

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

BINGO, girl – you know the deal! Saturn is always about boundaries…through the 4th, it will teach you how to “put your house in order” and have a beneficial safe containment structure in place re: family. You have a Sagittarius-ruled 4th then, yes? Perhaps you can see how the proverb “good fences make good [relatives]” does you good now? With a Jupiter-ruled 4th, family issues can be magnified and can easily take over your life IF (à la a hilarious MM post) you let that wild and crazy Centaur run free and crap all over your lawn – fence that… Read more »

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

LOL yes I can tell that, it must be Psyche in my Pisces 8th house giving me X ray vision 🙂 Thank you for your insight. I can’t tell you how invaluable it is. My 4th begins in Scorpio so must be Pluto ruled?? I am not so good on the houses. I also have Neptune in Scorp loosely conj my IC (six degree orb, if that counts). I spent most of Saturn in Scorp doing the actual structural work of breaking up my marriage and getting a house /life of my own. So now I have roof over my… Read more »

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

I had to chime in here.

I did/am doing same stuff; marriage breakup & regrouping. My IC is 5° before my Neptune. Technically starts on 29° Libra but as l’ve said before my 4H IS very Scorp flavoured with Jup there as well. The conjunction is so similar. Same angle, planet, sign and house.

The astro confirmations just keep coming. Mind boggln

KarenMagpieMM Member
KarenMagpie

Yes. Cheers to emotional self-sufficiency! I like to think getting the distance to see the dynamic is more than half the battle.

Virgo EllieMM Member
Virgo Ellie

Chrysalis, “I keep going back after I’ve been rejected. Very common. I think it’s new the paradigm for dating. It’s gotten to the point of “why not”. But I am with you in “I don’t speak up for myself well”… which means we don’t feel worthy. That is the key to getting the right guy. Is feeling worthy.

I haven’t been on much, but why did I think you were doing well with a Taurus?

Maxene Schreck
Maxene Schreck

This was the worst Christmas I think I’ve ever had. I am so over this bullshit. I can’t wait to shut the damn door on all of it and start fresh in 2016. My birthday is Jan. 4th but since it’s right after the holidays (including NYE) everyone is all partied out, so it’s rarely celebrated. I don’t even care. I would rather there be that understanding instead of people building my hopes up just to destroy them…which is how it went down on stupid ass Christmas. I feel like a brat right now but it’s hard to mask how… Read more »

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

Xmas is always bs. Presents for kids- ok. All the rest of it is the stuff that goes into Dynamic Lifter.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

I feel your pain Maxene… I know a lot of early Caps (25th Dec – 4 Jan) who despise Xmas because it takes away from their personal celebration.

Also, Xmas is fuqued. It really is. Even for people for whom things are going well. Drop in here on your bday and we will all celebrate with you xx

annica
annica

A lot of Caps are having a hard time right now. But yes bring on the newness! And your soon to happen SR!

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

Well the Monday Katscope is right……..again.
After talking to women on & off dating sites who are (understanderbly) cagey about talking to blokes. I have two (one a Cap, the other a Virgo) who are talking to me, friendlylike, but are struggling with family / silly season issues.

Now l gotta grok da meaning.

annica
annica

What happened to the hot scorpio?

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

She was high up in Fed govt dept talking to govt ministers and other countries. I felt decidedly unegalitarian in her presence. I think she thought Australia had a class system and l was not in her class. I knew l was ‘cactus’ when she rocked up in a power suit and l was just in a collared surf shirt. Haha.

Anyway these two seem much more ‘girl next door’ than glam.

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Sounds like maybe you could have been good for her, but she maybe not so good for you? Dodged one?

annica
annica

A lucky surf shirt to serve and protect your best interests!

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

I did wear jeans (good ones) & blue suede shoes.

ChrysalisMM Member
Chrysalis

Defo do this – wear your ‘true to self’ outfit on every date. It weeds out the non-starters. Your govt chick sounds like she was interviewing you.

MethinkyMM Member
Methinky

Eugh, yeah. Or wearing her armour, rather than her amore.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

Pluto is opposing the midpoint of my early Asc and late Sun. Authenticity has always been a driving force for me. Esp so now.

Going for beauty sleep.
See you guys next May

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

And true about interview slant more than amore interest

Libra9MM Member
Libra9

You had me at blue suede shoes

Pi
Pi

Australia does have a class system. We like to kid ourselves that there isn’t one though. Mind you it’s not quite up to royalty or old money. But there are efforts.

JokermanMM Member
Jokerman

I know we really do have one now. Historically we always thumbed our nose to the Old Dart and its stuffy class system. So in our running away from them we fell in the lap of the USA style ruthless class system. WW2 precipitating that move.

Interestingly the English class system had its origins in the Norman conquest. The Anglo Saxon ppls were Germanic, speaking German, for that is what Old English was. The Normans established the church, legal, executive and educational systems. They were the genesis of the UK upper classes.

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

lunar landscape is a very apt description

Lindsey
Lindsey

….. try empty space