The Virgo relationship settings are as efficient and smart as anything else they do.
I recently enjoyed a brilliant example of Virgo Dating Efficiency. On my retreat in September, I met this woman – super fit, competency-oozing, strawberry blonde – and she was saying how she met her husband. She had been single for 11 years, pouring energy into perfecting her health (she works in that industry) and getting “serious” about her finances. She did not want to be distracted. And she was not “good at casual sex or relationships.”
One day, she decided it was time to pair-bond. She went immediately onto an online dating site and put down not to message her unless you wanted actually to meet. Previous forays had made her aware that heaps of peeps just like messaging back and forth. It becomes a digital limbo. She also said that she was not interested in anything other than a fantastic, committed relationship.
She Spread-Sheeted All Of Her Love Options
Then she scheduled three or even four dates/meetings for every Sunday, doing hair/make-up in the morning and meeting one man after another. Why? So that she did not “clutter up” her schedule. She warned them within five minutes of meeting that her usual attire was work-out wear and this look was atypical of her. If she did not feel the person was the one, she thanked them for their time and wished them luck on their quest for love.
On the 10th Sunday, she met the man she was to marry and asked if they could meet again. When he said yes, she deleted her dating profile. They have been together ever since.
“Are you a Virgo?” asked my Virgo friend of the strawberry blonde. “Yes,” she grinned proudly “and I spread-sheeted all the dates.” It was an example of Virgo Vision at its best.
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