I recently enjoyed a brilliant example of Virgo Dating Efficiency. On my retreat in September, i met this woman – super fit, competency-oozing, strawberry blonde – and she was saying how she met her husband. She had been single for 11 years, pouring energy into first perfecting her health (she works in that industry) and fitness, then getting “serious” about her finances. She did not want to be lured off mission by a relationship and said she was not “good at casual sex or relationships.”
One day, she decided it was time for a serious pair-bonding so she went immediately onto an online dating site and put down not to message her unless you wanted to actually meet, as her previous forays had made her aware that heaps of peeps just like messaging back and forth but with nothing ever happening, like a digital limbo. She also said that she was not interested in anything other than an amazing relationship and that she had done the work on herself to be able to keep up her part of the ‘bargain’. etc.
Then she scheduled three or even four dates/meetings for every Sunday, having hair and make-up done in the morning and meeting one man after another, so that the rest of her schedule was not ‘cluttered’ up. She warned them within five minutes of meeting that her usual attire was work-out wear and this look was atypical of her. If she did not feel the person was the one, she thanked them for their time and wished them luck on their quest for love.
On the 10th Sunday, she met the man she was to marry, asked if she could see him again and texted politely to tell the days remaining two dates that she was unavailable and deleted her profile. They have been together ever since.
“Are you a Virgo?” asked my Virgo friend of the strawberry blonde. “Yes,” she grinned proudly “and they were all spread sheeted.”
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