Dating The Zodiac: Aquarius

Aquarius and dating

Aquarius and Dating?

Aquarius is the absolute poster person for the Treat Them Mean, Keep Them Keen brigade. Be “nice” to them and they’re off-planet. Erase them from your brain and they’ll be at your threshold, an ingratiating smile plastered across their alien features, like when outer-space conquerors turn themselves human for a bit by an immense power of will.

Are they original? Fuq yeah. Ludicrously technique conscious? Without a doubt. Able to be taken anywhere? No way. Shunning convention is not just an affection with Aquarius/Uranus type people – they literally loathe and distrust it.

They run on electricity, pheromones and strange sound-waves from the galaxy. Also, they are psychic but not in the muumuu gerbera call upon Archangel Michael dear style – it’s more like machinery talks to them. Plus, they don’t give a fuq if you think they’re a sociopath.

Don’t even THINK “long leash” because they’re more like space cats from Alpha Centauri than anything you could harness.

Mystic follower Josephine notes, ‘Female Aquarius sun here and my boyfriend is an Aquarius as well. We both can be extremely loving but also very unemotional. We both have what the other needs. But the problem is when we both want it at a certain time, the other isnโ€™t on the same wavelength. Weโ€™re best friends and we have a level of honesty and loyalty that I havenโ€™t experience with any other partner in my life.’

Thoughts on Aquarius and dating?

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aquariana

I am aqua sun. And for a long time I seriously thought Aquarians were great with their lofty goals and disengaged demeanor. But life has shown me something else: every single Aquarian I know has cheated. And often more than once with more than one affair partner. It is as if they have no morals, or they are very hazy with them. They also seem to feel absolutely no remorse and rarely, if ever, apologize for their actions. In their minds everything is justified and clear. This can in extreme cases also extend to other aspects of their lives –… Read more »

Prince Stolas

Do you know if it is mostly the Feb born Aquas who are cheaters or the Jan born ones? or all of them? My exp has been the later Feb born…Pisces cuspy ones to be the biggest cheats. (yes i know there is no cusp action acording to Mystic). I actually find Aquas to be amazingly loyal. maybe too loyal? like I can’t get rid of them loyal…. :p

Anonymous

So far I have seen that the late-January ones are the worst. Oh, and once you were linked with an Aqua, you will never get rid of them. Loyalty? I don’t know… Loyal partners wouldn’t cheat. It is more like they consider you ‘their person’ now. They will forever check up on you when the fancy strikes and if the path to the bedroom is well-lit, also in there.

Sweetpea

Seen NDNA (Next Door Neighbor Aqua) the other day as I sat at my computer and looked out the sliding glass doors. He seemed to be walking okay…but the give away was a glass of wine in his hand. Sure some here remember our drunken trist a summer and a half ago… He and live in condo mate Kataka nearly came to blows. Kataka has two cars and so since Aqua was parking in one of the “free” spots Kataka usually takes, Kataka parked in front of his garage. Ah oh.. I got a voice mail from security because they… Read more »

Flicketty

I’ve had relationships with most of the zodiac (with the exception of Scorpio, Virgo and Pisces) over the last 30+ years and my Mr Now is an Aquarian Sun/Cancer moon Dragon. He’s the most befuddling of all – which is exactly what an Aries Sun/Pisces Moon Dragon needs. Couldn’t work out if he was so weird because he’s a) a sportsman (no experience whatsoever with one of those) b) an African (as above) or c) an Aquarian (first ever) or whether it was the insane combination. Aloof? the word was created for him. It took more than three years to… Read more »

GeminiGin

Beautiful quote from a beautiful Gemini. ๐Ÿ™‚

gemini

โ€œIโ€™m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you canโ€™t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell donโ€™t deserve me at my best.โ€- Marilyn Monroe (Gemini)

Josephine

Female Aquarius sun here and my boyfriend is an Aquarius as well. We both can be extremely loving but also very unemotional. We both have what the other needs but the problem is when we both want it at a certain time, the other isn’t on the same wavelength. We’re best friends and we have a level of honesty and loyalty that I haven’t experience with any other partner in my life. The only other boyfriend I had that was Aquarius was my first and I was 15. We were not only lovers but best friends as well. I don’t… Read more »

The Venus Fly

I usually find Aquarians feel deeply but yes, are not ’emotional’. That’s fine. I value honesty and playfulness more over ’emotion’. I got enough passion and emotion for a whole continent, you don’t have to I tell ’em ;P

GeminiGin

I think you’re totally delusional. What you think is “emotion” and “passion” in yourself is actually hate and jealousy.

Louise

I just ended a’thing’ with an Aqua after finding out two days ago that he is married with two small children. I called him a sociopath in the text I sent him. Looks like that barb will be water of a ducks back to him lol.

Scorpbot

Really warming to Aquas after reading these comments.

I have Psyche and Saturn in Aqua. Venus in Libra trine Saggo moon in 11th. I like my freedom and space.

My one true love and longest relationship was with a Virgo with Aqua moon and rising.

The Venus Fly

I just love them. Happy to be the ‘loving’ cup of earth to hold their water. As long as they like lap at the waters long time ;P

God I’m smutty, lol *face in palm*

Scorpbot

You’re a Taurus, I forgive you ๐Ÿ™‚

The Venus Fly

;D

GeminiGin

Yes, you are. Thanks for that disgusting image, I just threw up in my mouth.

Anonymous

Ive dated and otherwise “romantically sized up” a few Aquarians in my time.

One common thread Ive found from my past is that there is something going on with the Anus with them. Either obsessed with bathroom humor, their bowel movements, anal sex, anal smells(long story), cleaning or lack thereof in that region, preoccupied with my anus, etc. It can get pretty weird with them. But you know, Uranus is their ruler and all…. so yeah.

Venus Cazimi

I’m an Aqua female (Saturn, Sun/Venus, Jupiter, Mercury) & have never dated an Aqua man – somehow I think it would be a bit incestuous, like taking the fraternity-brotherly love thing a bit far. That creeps me out,

& perhaps it is also that we simply aren’t in one another’s wobbly Uranus orbit. Libra, Leo, Scorp, the occasional Taurus experiments more my style

The Venus Fly

Haha – I notice you mentioned fixed sign and signs ruled by Venus. Experience has shown me that Aqua vibes well with Fixed Signs and with the Venusian vibes. I think the warmth of Venus comforts the Aquarians even if they don’t admit or (or are even aware). As long as they are respected, given space and loved objectively and sincerely they’re pretty damn happy to know you ;P

Venus Cazimi

I think it is the dignity of the fixed signs, that loyalty can be an unspoken thing & a given; Aquarians are a tranquil lot & don’t mind cosying up with reliable types. The Venusians provide them a peaceful environs that is calming & supportive & encourages them to express love & affection in non-demanding ways helping them to fully flower emotionally

Scorpbot

nice ๐Ÿ™‚

The Venus Fly

Darlin’, you’re speaking my language *reclines and purrs*

The Venus Fly

I’m a five-planet Taurus (Sun, Mercury, Mars, Venus, Chiron) with both my Eros and Psyche in Aquarius. I want my space to pursue my creative and intellectual goals. I truly value the creative, witty, insightful soul who truly SEES me and accepts me and chooses to love me for who I am with no fences. But I also want to know that one is the one who will be steady and have integrity when we are not in each other’s orbit. I think that’s why the haute Aqua’s (and Leo’s and Scorpio’s) and I vibe. It’s the perfect balance of… Read more »

Scorpbot

well said. That’s what I’m after too. Nothing less will do.

The Venus Fly

Ditto. I sense a beautiful drought is coming to an end and a gorgeous male specimen is about to ignite and electrify WITH moi ๐Ÿ˜€

GeminiGin

Oh, but you don’t vibe well with anyone. BAD VIBES ALL AROUND, BARF!

Alouetta

Ok credentials. Me, aqua sun and jupiter; him, aqua rising. Being with him has the been the most challenging and rewarding thing I’ve done, mostly because his aqua qualities hold up a mirror to my own. So no, we’re not easy but I think a lot of the pain and confusion of aquarian attractions is caused by a basic misconception. Aqua’s don’t want to merge- the challenge of being with an aquarian is to be self-determined. All the time. So when you’re feeling a little sooky and just want connection to avoid doing the thing you should be doing- ie.… Read more »

Scorpbot

“It might seem like theyโ€™re being remote, but really theyโ€™re just doing the thing they need to be doing”

That sounds so appealing to me because I’m always doing the thing I need to be doing.

I want an Aqua now. ๐Ÿ™‚

And yes, some people would be better off with a dog. LOL ๐Ÿ™‚

Alouetta

Yes that’s the thing I really respect about my scorp friends. Nothing holds them back (for long).

Baristagem

๐Ÿ˜ฏ

I’m hopelessly gooey eyed for Aquas! I’m attracted to their independence, Uranus thinking & the fact you can’t fit them in a box; totally unique. I’ve been with Dr Aqua since 2006 & our relationship is never boring! I have to say the ZZ last year challenged our relationship but we both took a major step back (space works well for us Gemmy’s as well as Aquas) & we found our way back to each other. Because lets face it, there is no-one like an Aqua ๐Ÿ˜ฏ ๐Ÿ˜€

iris aquacat

Oh us Aquarians…so unmanageable! I have a Sun, Rising, Mars and Saturn in Aquarius. Uranus conjunct Pluto in 7th house and a Leo Moon on the DC. In other words I am an expert on dating Uranians. Yes treat em mean keep em keen SOME of the time I suppose…but I think it is more nuanced than that. They need deep space, as in you truly trust they will be honourable so that they are FREE from icky psychic sticky webs of guilt, worry and resentment. I find Aquarians amazingly psychic- probably sensitivity to electrical currents/hormones or something like that,… Read more »

Sparkling Leo

Yeap those Aquarius dudes are a trip. Sociopaths who don’t give a damn funny, not funny, how cold they can be with such warm depth! The men I knew were like walking magnets for everyone publicly and then privately oh my what messy psyches and ruthless. Hard to dispel them in my experience but still love those men. Lucky for me I found a magic wedge to prevent me from getting all gaga over any again. Phew!

Chris

So spot on mystic….quite gratifying to read your analysis of the Aqua headfuck routine. I always new my mother was a selfish freak but was so surprised to be totally annihilated by an Aquarian recently. The rules of mutual respect just did not apply and something so sweet quickly became a study of how not to let myself be treated. Before I knew it, I was set up to fail. It took me months to work out that I was not meant to understand or be able to work through the laberinth of issues vocalised with off the cuff meanness.… Read more »

Venus Cazimi

Aquarian people can become very confused by intense emotions, the sign is ruled by the central nervous system & they are acutely sensitive to the thoughts & feelings of others. If you examine the relationship more closely & honestly you may be able to pinpoint what was triggering this person off, think of the things that Aquarians find intolerable, being compared to your own mother might be one of them

Chris

thats very condescending, I’ll be sure to examine myself in all the ways you see fit….

Venus Cazimi

I’m sorry you feel that way, it certainly wasn’t my intention (to be condescending)
I noted that you spoke of your Aquarian mother’s undesirable characteristics & those of your (former) Aquarian partner in the same context & was interested to make comment, it is my experience that these people are not usually given to extremes & only spin out when under pressure or when stressed,
I may be wrong in this instance & meant no offense, Aquarian & proud!

Chris

That you imply that I somehow confused the relationship with my ex with the one I have with my mother is not correct. Nor is it correct that I compared these relationships at the time as an Aquarian thing. The assumption that I have not honestly examined these relationships…well..all 3 together is quite offensive. Thats ok online forum and all. I do respect that you are Aquarian and proud. My initial response to Mystics post was inspired by how spot on she was re my ex, but the language I used could have been gentler. The cappo posts last month… Read more »

Chris

(For a cappo)

Venus Cazimi

Ok, you may or may not have noticed that I said sorry? The point I’m making is that we often project, be they positive or negative, behavioral patterns & expectations learned from our parents onto our mates, it’s a purely unconscious thing, perfectly normal & to be expected. I don’t want to get into a heavy or heated discussion with you about the anima & animus, oedipus complex & all that, it isn’t necessary, but since you’re a Cap it’s quite likely you have at least one personal planet in Aquarius, you’re moon would be very revealling too, by sign,… Read more »

Anonymous

Ok then – in the interest of cappo- Aqua relations. I have a shallow understanding of astrology and leave it up to the experts so I’ll give info as I can, which is pretty basic. Moon = gem, ascendant = libra, Venus = cap, 4 more in sag (including Mars)and 2 more libra but no Aquarius. Most of my chart is clustered around the base with my gem moon and cancer Saturn in the mid heaven above and Chiron in Aries and Jupiter in Pisces setting. Sorry if it’s a bit rough.

Anonymous

Oh yes and I did get a composit chart done and explained. It was vey interesting, but revisiting it all is of little interest right now as it is all firmly behind me. Mystic did my transits and said I had some kind of dangerous sexy man dreaming ๐Ÿ˜ฎ / creative genius thing going on which I am happy to run with!

Venus Cazimi

Ok, first & foremost yourruling planet Saturn would’ve been veryantagonistic toward yourformer partner during his trip thruScorpio.secondly the Uranus-Pluto square would’ve knocked yourchart around being on the cardinal axis, & Uranus is the former partnersruler! Thisis a verynarrow box so unless you wish to starta newthread I don’t think I can continue, but you get the general idearight?

LunaBUG

I sometimes become quite zombie-fied in certain situations, where people are negative and listen to my loved ones problems literally 24/7 that it comes out my ears… but I feel, and expressing… there are simply no words besides… I need to stop and be alone.

I have 5 placements in Aquarius and am intrigued by Pisces folk as I want everything to simply flow.

Venusian Liaison

I’m seriously involved with an Aqua 7th house / Leo Rising and honestly he loves adoration (hello Mr.Sunshine King) but just takes it and doesn’t return it UNTIL I ignore him. The more I’m off in my own happy self-possessed world, the more he fawns, almost from an insecurity-esque position (you still love me right??). My pluto control freak 1st house has to keep in check or I just get bitchy over this. Always a balancing act with us.

The Venus Fly

My LZ crush was on an Aquarian with an Aries Rising. This 5-planet Taurus Gemini Rising admittedly has a silver seduction tongue and I had that water bearer literally tossing his air basking in all my sweet words, lol. I loved when he would just grab me and kiss me quick when I would put the honey words on him but than poof – he backs off. It was obvious I got under his skin but he did all he could to resist me hence why we never moved forward. Damn shame, it was friggin’ electric like it always is… Read more »

GeminiGin

Of course you’re an LZ…crazy in every conceivable way.

Bee

As an Aquarius I can attest that this post is pretty much one hundred per cent legit! I’m not sure if I’d say treat em ‘mean’ keep em keen though. More like give them all of the space and then some and you’ll be fine. A mate of mine tried to set me up with his friend – sample response “I cannot go on a date with him. He’ll fall in love with me. Boys fall in love with me and then I can’t get rid of them. Not happening” I’m not sure where exactly my ego comes from but… Read more »

Venus Cazimi

I don’t get it either, from my experience if you treat’em mean you end up with one highly confused, temperamental & probably disinterested Aquarian. We’re not glib like the mutables, or gung ho as the cardinals, we’re nice friendly fixed folk with little time for scheming, strategies or game playing, so what gives? Thing is with both Aquarian men & women their perception is so uncanny they know exactly what’s going on anyway; What’s the point? they’ll shrug & say, but they won’t hold it against you, they’ll only put it down to some peculiar freakish human behavior of yours,… Read more »

LunaBUG

Oh! My! F***, dude I say that all the time. Said it today

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Yeah, I totally get that. I’m not into them myself per se.

Anonymous

I have dated two Aquarians in my time and never again will I go down that path. One was perfectly fine but I don’t think it would have ever gone beyond casual dating. He was an over-achiever and pretty hunky, looked like a total yuppie, but when you got to know him he was into counter-culture and had some pretty obscure interests (many matched mine). Most of the guys I date that are into the same music “scenes” as I am all look the same so I liked that he was totally not what you would expect. Overall he was… Read more »

Venusian Liaison

So sorry to hear about the Aqua stalking. The sick part is the more you push him away, the more he wants. Sending you some anti-stalk angel energy. <3

pi

In this day and age ! They still require evidence of physical violence. Shameful and backwards. What an utterly shitful situation this is for you. I want to offer all manner of Venus-in-Aries-isms but I would sound like a total jerk. Hmm. I wish I had a global vigilante squad at my beck and call to squash these people like the cockroaches they are. No offence to cockroaches.
Peace xo

The Venus Fly

It’s such a double-edged sword. Some sociopaths have learned how to hit without showing bruises (or punch in areas traditionally covered with clothes). There is also the very, very SMALL amount of clandestine people who make false accusations and sadly, I have known of said individuals. Claiming something isn’t enough, but discounting something because someone was clever enough to know HOW to manipulate and abuse is vile. It’s such a double-edged sword.

prowlncrab

How vile!!! Do you live in Australia? There is a really good helpline for people experiencing DV – this definitely comes under that category as in Aus it is recognised that physical assault is only one form of abuse.

https://www.1800respect.org.au/

Skye

At the very least this would qualify as stalking. The guy is making threats to harm? If they’re in writing then there’s a case. If in Australia there are also options for misconduct orders – no need to prove violence just harassment. (Which sounds like you’re getting)

prowlncrab

Yes – stalking. It’s taken seriously here in Aus and the police have trained units that are sensitive to domestic abuse cases. If you are in another country then perhaps try contacting a women’s health or community centre, even a refuge for advice and information about what you can do in your state. Regarding the panic feelings you have been experiencing – this can be a symptom of post traumatic stress disorder or PTSD and is very common for people who have experienced abuse and/or stalking. It is absolutely a violation on your personal right to feel safe and you… Read more »

iris aquacat

Great practical, supportive, straight-forward advice prowlncrab as always! What a creepy douchebag this jerk is. And yes, often in a DV situation police ask re physical assault because it is easier to get a restraining order pronto with clear proof, BUT they are well aware of psychological abuse and intimidation- and stalking is a crime in every State and Territory of Australia. Police do take it seriously, especially if you are trying to leave the situation – the stats prove this is the most dangerous time for women.

Anonymous

Thank you, I appreciate your help. I have seen several therapists over the years regarding many things in my life, and have spoken about this particular incident to a professional. I have done a lot of healing over the years. And although it is wise to never let my guard down with this person, I am no longer in crisis mode. It’s true that there are times I still feel paranoid but mostly I have come to terms with things. It helps that I have and have always had a supportive group of friends and family. But yes, I definitely… Read more »

prowlncrab

God no .. I did not take it as a downer and found your post courageous. Sharing honestly about these things is one of the first steps in stopping cycles of abuse. So many victims internalise the abuse and think it’s their fault, are shamed and feel isolated. Talking about it helps others … someone could be reading this thread and identify their own situation. It may empower them to do something about it instead of feeling hopeless and stuck. Thanks for clarifying that you’re not in crisis anymore though and I’m glad that you found the support you needed.… Read more »

The Venus Fly

Sociopaths come in all signs. Mine were Taurean, Capricorn and Gemini respectively. He sounds like an asshole, not an Aquarian. Don’t even indulge his idiocy for a second.

Anonymous

True, he just happens to be an Aquarius, but mostly I attribute his sociopathy to a harsh upbringing (which I used to have sympathy for). This person made it a point to isolate himself, has no friends or family and was not used to receiving any kind of compassion in his life so he really clung to me when I showed him affection. But he obviously does not know how to handle things like a stable minded adult and I tried to get him to talk to a professional many times but he refused. He does not see anything wrong… Read more »

The Venus Fly

Mine was a Taurean who also had a harsh upbringing. I found out through exes how extreme it actually was. However, he’s what, 48 now and still exploiting and abusing people. I will always regret not taking out a restraining order against him. Thankfully when people leave him he doesn’t chase them but wow, it took me quite a few years to cleanse from the rage and violation one feels. I met mine in Australia but went back Stateside with him which is where it got psychotic.

PlutonicGem

Oh my god, you’ve just described my soon to be ex-husband and our relationship to a T. My Aqua was emotionally and mentally abusive, very controlling, very suspicious, very angry and rigid. I’m his third wife and all three of us left him for the same reason. I think he could be a psychopath/sociopath as that would explain his incredibly distorted take on life but I’m not sure. All I know is that the man I dated and fell in love with is not the same man I married. The veil fell off within weeks of the wedding and I… Read more »

Anonymous

UGGH, I’m so sorry, and yes, to everything you have described. Absolute insanity. He also urged me to quit my job! He had this whole idea of me being a sort of house wife/sex slave that he wanted to take care of. He acted like he was some kind of hero, giving me shelter and security but in reality it was all about control. He thought he would buy me. But even the gifts he gave me he would later hold over my head as if I “owed” him something. Completely sick. You are right that it isn’t necessarily an… Read more »

prowlncrab

Hey Plutonic Gem … I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through this and I hope that sharing and identifying with others helps you feel supported – you are not alone. Six months separation may not be enough time to fully process what has happened for you. Sometimes the natural reaction in traumatic situations can be to numb out – until it is safe to feel again. Then all those high powered emotions like fury and grief can come up and overwhelm the person. Be assured that it is a normal process and that you can get through it. You probably… Read more »

PlutonicGem

Thank you so much for your compassion. I can tell you know exactly what I’ve gone through and what I continue to deal with as I process this grief and the incredible sham of my marriage. Yes, I have a pretty harsh Pluto signature in my chart. I’m not your typical Gemini (is there a typical Gem?) and my entire life has been filled with tragedy and unusual circumstances but this marriage–to the man I thought was the love of my life–nearly destroyed me. Just reading your comments and those of others who have experienced a relationship with a sociopath/narcissist,… Read more »

The Venus Fly

I “knew” before I got involved with mine that something was wrong. I literally had visions. When they came tumbling out during our first (yes, FIRST) phonecall he accused me of racism and projection. Two years later when I left and did a background check in turns out EVERY SINGLE THING I ‘saw’ in my mind and said was actually true. That was the big ‘trust yourself’ lesson for me. One thing about us lovers – sometimes we see what we want. We fall in love with the potential of the good moments and excuse away the bad. We all… Read more »

Anonymous

Although none of my exes have ever EVER taken it as far as this whack job, I have noticed a pattern of the men I split with trying for years after to get back with me. I’m not sure if it’s because they did not expect the split to happen (I have very little patience for being treated poorly and will leave pretty quickly if I’m not happy) or if it’s a Venus in Scorpio thing? I seem to recall something about that on a different blog post. Even my very first boyfriend from high school contacted me last year… Read more »

The Venus Fly

Mine too. Than two years later claimed I was ‘fired’ to try and make me feel ashamed of myself. Mine was another level of sickness. The stories I could tell…

LunaBUG

This is just a very lost soul, no part of astrology can hold this down. All 12 signs are ego and how our souls choose to express themselves…

Calli Grafiti

I’ve never dated an Aquarius, but my BFFs have both been Aqua women. The ability to have long, deep conversations about every and anything, while still maintaining a certain distance (oddly necessary for this Libra sun–I guess all those planets, esp. Venus, in Virgo keep me inclined to be self contained), just works so well for me. Since I’m not really looking for a close, forever, thing, an Aqua man might be just what the cosmos ordered. Alas, they tend to look right past me. Pity.

Skye

Never dated an Aquarian. We’d both end up drifting off to some other Galaxy for personal ‘space’ at the same time and never have someone to come back to. Too weird.

Seagoat

I haven’t read all the posts above. I’ll write first and read later. I just have to say this in response to Mytic’s post: I am totally enthralled by the effect that Acquarirans have on me. My most stable, enduring and warmest realities are with them. I’m talking a daughter, a best friend and a soulmate (now passed) belong to that sign. I am multiple Cap, with only one planet in Aqua (Mercury) all else is water. But, Acquas let me be me, and give me security and space at the same time. And when I want to rave about… Read more »

Anonymous

Sorry for typos. Usually more exacting. BUT full mooon in Cap, big family party to celebrate 80th birthday of Cap parents, I have sun and moon in Cap by the way and I’m the eldest of their eight children, so I had a a glass of red or two after the party…hence the typos, but ON it now xxx

seagoat

well it’s Cancer full moon actually…but here I am correcting myself again…was a good night last night anyway, and I’ll always need Aqua/Uranian type people around me in some way or other.

sodarkanddreamy

Aquarian men are my kryptonite. Double that if they have Aquarius moon. Love the freedom and lack of judgement they offer, the mind-bending chats that last all night and their up-for-anything attitude in bed. They take FOREVER to make things physical, though. Had one Aqua boyfriend who made me wait six months before he’d sleep with me. After that he wanted to try everything. I’m a Libran but my Mars is in Aqua, so that might explain it. Love them to bits.

The Venus Fly

My choosey Taurean self doesn’t actually don’t mind the wait because I know they’re one of the few who are worth it. If an Aquarian is serious, they’re like us – they lay back in the cut and just scope. Making sure. Sizing it all up. Ensuring they have an escape route until they realize they won’t need one with this particular soul. They go from hands up/stop sign to octopussy submissive Dom. All the switching drives me mad, but they’re into Dominant women (especially creative ones) so I am in heaven coming up with new scenarios, scenes and stuff.Goddess,… Read more »

sodarkanddreamy

Oh I hear you! So true about the escape route. I once loved an Aqua one who would be deliberately mean to me so I’d leave him because he didn’t want to love anyone, but when it would start to work he’d panic and do everything to draw me back. When I finally left for good, he moved cities to be near me again and couldn’t understand how I couldn’t want him anymore. Tried to convince me with logical arguments about how love is just an energy, it can’t die so me not wanting to be with him was just… Read more »

The Venus Fly

Lover vibration Aqua, huh? My sympathies. May we both attract Haute ones who recognize a diamond in their midst and honor it ๐Ÿ™‚

sodarkanddreany

*raises glass to you* Here’s to that ๐Ÿ™‚

Capraz

I haven’t read any of the comments because I so need to just say “how bloody amazingly accurate all that is for me” about my experience with what I call a very emotionally expensive relationship with the utterly unforgetable Aquarian Alexandru… three Chinese lifetimes ago, and for 11 months of “relationship”, 3 months of waiting to hear if he was ever going to contact me again without a goodbye, I stupidly allowed myself to limp along for 7 years before somehow he subsided from my mind. He even resembled in spirit and darkness and nattiness of dress the photo you… Read more »

Anonymous

I haven’t read any of the comments because I so need to just say “how bloody amazingly accurate all that is for me” about my experience with what I call a very emotionally expensive relationship with the utterly unforgetable Aquarian Alexandru… three Chinese lifetimes ago, and for 11 months of “relationship”, 3 months of waiting to hear if he was ever going to contact me again without a goodbye, I stupidly allowed myself to limp along for 7 years before somehow he subsided from my mind. He even resembled in spirit and darkness and nattiness of dress the photo you… Read more »

cal

It’s almost too painful for me to think let alone write about the Aquarian I loved, but he was so many things that others have offered as characteristic – the cold computer who loved intensely and yes, even honoured his commitments, the kinky explorer with disdain for convention. He made me more alive, he made me a better person. Yes, and then he was gone. It was Uranus/Neptune, eventually unreliable but an amazing conductor of the ZAP ๐Ÿ™‚

pi

Aquas, the fixedness is good for something. No flaking out, they’ll say straight up if they’re not going to the stupid baby shower/ graduation/ your own birthday lunch etc.
You sound like you’re hurting a bit still. Xx sorry to hear that
Damn, heartache is a bitch. Being single long term, that’s the silver lining I think. No fuqery.
Hugs x

AnkhRising8.0

“… that’s the silver lining.” Agreed. Total rejuvie, big act of self-love. Reboot, refresh.

cal

you feel me Pi ๐Ÿ™‚ I guess it should read “the Aquarian I love”….

I think someone up there said something like “honourable, but in a completely inappropriate way.” SO spot on.

well you gotta laugh, and cherish the good. singledom has a silver lining hey? well, it better be good for something ๐Ÿ˜‰ just joking, I’m really OK with it.

thanks for that hug Pi, when the Scorpio goes soft, that’s the time to get one ๐Ÿ™‚ appreciate it x

pi

Xx

cal

Actually this has been really helpful!

I just realised it’s the Cancer moon making me nostalgic and clingy and that I can use this full moon to let go of this person who belongs in the past.

I have less than half an hour to prepare, so great how these things crop up for processing at the right time! ๐Ÿ™‚

AnkhRising8.0

Aww. What became of him?

cal

he had unfinished business. I think it was a reset thing, and karmic – a Uranus opposition gift triggered by the North Node. I guess he just went where he was supposed to x

AnkhRising8.0

Machinery talks to me. And appliances, electronic gadgets, medical apparatuses– I get no rest in hospital. 8th house Uranus-Mercury, horns of Scorpio; 12th house Aqua. They have big, important things to say, our mechanical creations. One of my brothers & his wife are Aquarians. He is an ironworker/welder; she has a degree in psychogy & works with people with developmental disabilities. Their courtship & marriage have been a source of head-scratching & amusement at times by us onlookers. While it’s sometimes strange to the rest of us, though, definitely theirs is a strong, reciprocal kind of union, & they’re happy… Read more »

skarab

I hear you re the machinery talking to you and your thoughts on it. I have exact same thoughts and i’ve never heard anyone express them before now. I don’t think i’ve got strong Aquarius influences. I dunno if having Uranus conjunct Merc and Mars in 10th would make me so machine sensitive. Same thoughts extend to buildings…. glad to see i’m not the only weirdo :-).

cal

i think the thing with buildings could be crab?

pi

Had an “arrangement ” with a Sun mars Venus in aqua tradie for a while back. Have to admit it was fun for my aqua mars/ Venus Aries, didn’t have to give two fuqs about anything other than an sms proposition of an eve. no reply meant no sex, ‘yes’ meant exactly that. I was raised by a pack of antidisestablishmentarian aquarians so while my more subtle/sensitive Pisces M.O. and the 8th house vibe of my mars needs care and feeding regularly, if I can avoid the eggshells ego crap and emo whatever at other times, cool. So I do… Read more »

hdq

I think I lurve aquas best of all, moons especially. They always give me this soul-searing look, totally different than a scorp but just as intense, sideways, like they’re all of a sudden surprised to realize that I’m an alien too, or something. But it never works, we just get stuck in our heads. ๐Ÿ™

The Venus Fly

Ah, ‘the look’. The last Aqua crush was at his most beautiful when he was quiet and ‘spoke’ with his eyes. Oh man, used to KILL me. And his hands. Ay yi yi…

GeminiGin

Dood. Nobody cares about some dude you were stalking – get a clue!

Year of the Horse

My Lust is in Aqua along with my psyche, Moon and 2 other rocks. The Peter Pan thing is alive in me. I played footy last year (how many other NepScorp/PluVirgs did that?) & still scrape the pegs on a bike. I must try maturing one day.

Aries gal

Haha! ….. This post… Yes Mystic. Let me explain ๐Ÿ˜€ So since the age of 13 (am 24) all of my serious partners were Aquarian. All born within 5 days at the beginning of Feb. I never forget birthdays (heh heh ๐Ÿ˜‰ ) My mother is also serious sun/venus/mars Uranian human. And closests friends born jan 26 and feb 3. I have experienced the haute and low characteristics of the sign a million times over. There is a distinctness about an Aquarian… You just “know” you’re around one. I have Aquarian NN / Mars with pisces rising neptune in 11th… Read more »

The Venus Fly

I’m a sucker for them, too. BUT, they have to have the Mars/Venus/Eros/Psyche’s in earth or water signs so my 5-planet Taurus Eros/Psyche Aquarius self can flow/build/fly with them. We both want the same thing – freedom in the world, a lover we can trust wholeheartedly who “gets” us and never limits/judges. And they’re into ALL the sexual ish, from tantra to kink which delights me to a T perfectly. Best sex of my life, and from friends I’ve heard they’ve never forgotten me either. An old friend ended up dating my ex a decade later 4 years and he… Read more »

Aries gal

Haha! Brilliant!

I love that people are seriously taking an interests in their Eros and psyche, I think it’s so important, it determines that soul mating, omg-get-in-my-bed-NOW feeling. How interesting so you have 5 major planets in Taurus???? ?? Whoa!

What was the chart like of the person you’ve felt has been the most compatible for you?? Was it mostly water and earth??

The Venus Fly

I usually find them to be Aquarians with a TONNE of earth or water planets. As I get older I notice all the folks I have that ‘special’ connection are all the fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius). Used to not be able to stomach the Scorps and Leos but I have come to adore the July ones (still not a fan of the August ones for the most part) and Scorpions, well, they seem to ‘balance out’ as they get older, lol.

The Venus Fly

The last one I shared ‘wow’ chemistry with was an Sun Aquarian with his Eros in Taurus and Psyche in Virgo. I’m a Sun Taurus with Eros/Psyche in Aquarius. Both of us had moon in Pisces. Alas, the whole push-pull vibes didn’t do it for me. I’m no longer the impatient little hottie I was in my filly days, this wild horse can patiently wait if it’s the ‘right’ stallion. But when the stallion pulls back by habit too much, this one trots off elsewhere. It’s all about mutuality in this universe, if you can’t reflect/share it, I have to… Read more »

GeminiGin

Ugh…thanks. You’ve now ruined all barnyard animals for me. Doubt you were ever a “hot filly” so much as a horseface. Or maybe jackass? Because you certainly are full of SHIT.

Aquarianne

I love your stories. It’s lovely to hear happy experiences

MiM

Aqua and Gemini are (to me) Peter Pan. The boys who never grew up.

Now there is a certain charm in that. Definitely.

But long-term, I prefer more solid ground.

Anonymous

I find them fixed as fuq. Open minded as long as it’s their way. Unfaithful even to themselves. Boring.

mrsjayanathhewage'ch

no one cares!

DP

Apparently, someone does.

Anonymous

They prob don’t. It’s not that interesting really

Scorpbot

Never dated an Aqua. We’re like chalk n cheese. Only slept with ONE Aqua and that was only to complete the zodiac wheel. ๐Ÿ˜€ It wasn’t particularly pleasant. Was chatting to ex work colleague last night – an Aries with Mars in Aqua, married. He always contacts me once a year when he’s interstate. Flirts, says we should catch up but it never happens. So predictable Last night as soon as I said that I’ve always been future oriented and that I can’t afford to be attached to anyone at the moment because I’m too focused on my arts degree,… Read more »

Anonymous

i guess if you’re just doing ‘it’ to fulfill a tally it’s never going to be anything more than a tawdry numbers game.

Sphinx

Don’t be like that. This judgey Anon face doesn’t suit you darling.

prowlncrab

Oh look Scorpy … you’ve got a stalker troll too. It must hard being excluded from the popular PIAB inner circle and having to compete with our fabulousness. ๐Ÿ˜€

12th house virgo

Anyone who claims to be excluded from an unmoderated public blog should be ridiculed relentlessly.

Seabird

This comment made my day – thanks!! ๐Ÿ™‚

The Venus Fly

Brilliant, 12th House. Brilliant.

Scorpbot

Yaaay, I have a stalker troll. ๐Ÿ˜†

Ambre

In the orbit of one right now…been years since I was last burnt by an Aqua first man to break my heart ..took a year to break up with him because everytime I broke up he begged me back and became such a good man for a little while…this one ..Aqua with virgo moon . He is insane and crazy and controlling and completely manipulative but takes no responsibiliy for it . Me Pisces ..master of aloof and playing hard to get has managed up with him . But seriously its like entering a storm ..not a relationship .. Luckily… Read more »

Birdstargirl

Such good cookies. This is awesome.

jojoba

too. fxkin. true.

mick

oh ya fuq thats me

Kell

Love of my life- college era- Gem Aqua Moon. Alley cat- oh/so Zen. His wife is Multi Kataka. She toured The Continent to prompt his proposal. She took off. He was on the next plane. Happily ever after.
She’s bi- and has to stray to keep him enthralled.

The Venus Fly

When it comes to the sensual pleasures of the world, I share profound chemistry with the Aquarians. I have only had relations with the lower vibe Aquas, but I have observed that when they decide they wish to be committed to someone (with their ‘freedom’ ensured) they love pretty damn hard and devoutly. All I can say is when we come together it’s explosive, for both parties involved and for anyone who happens to catch a glimpse of the flirting and ‘mating dance’ leading up to the merging. My last LZ crush was an Aquarian. Man, I have NEVER burned… Read more »

The Venus Fly

I HAVE been drawing the Page of Cups a lot which allegedly rules the birth dates of late January….?

Anonymous

Ex and current are both Aqua, along with a host of other people in my life currently. They’re hard to figure out for sure but all possess a beautiful sensuality, passion, sincerity and clear vision about who they are and where they are going.
I’m an Aries sun, gem moon and cancer rising. I have learned through aqua association to traverse my emotional issues that have plagued previous relationships and hindered me. I find aquas very inspiring to be around.

The Venus Fly

The coolness can drive you nuts when you want clarity. But by the same token, in my past relationships I was not requesting clarity from them. I was playing pass/agg (I was a kid, I didn’t know any better) so getting mad at them wasn’t warranted. You can’t expect people to treat you better if they don’t know how to, and if you don’t know how to love yourself to boot. I learned through Aquarians I had to learn to hold a certain standard for myself so I wouldn’t fall into ‘regret’ relationships. But I learned that, they didn’t teach… Read more »

Anonymous

Not the same anonymous as above, I’m new here, no user name yet ๐Ÿ™‚

DoubleMutable

Aaaaaaand, here’s another example of why I, personally, can’t stand Taureans. Your black and white judgments do you a huge disservice. Let’s go ahead and judge a whole zodiac sign because something in YOU attracted nothing but low versions of Geminis.

Seabird

I hate Taureans because I once had a bad Taurean boss. I hate Capricorns because of a bad Cap boyfriend. I hate Aquarians because of my ex-husband. I hate Saggs because my cousin is a Sagg and he’s an a-hole. Umm…I hate Scorpios because my ex-boyfriend left me for one so it’s obviously her fault and her starsign and nothing to do with me or him, just her Scorpyness that stole him from me. I hate Leos because a friend in highschool that I had a fight with 25 years ago was a Leo. I really hate Librans because i… Read more »

prowlncrab

๐Ÿ˜†

sphinx

๐Ÿ˜€

DP

Hilarious! XD

GeminiGin

OK, ok, we get it. You’re slutty. Enough already! (barf barf barf)

Aquafleur

I am an Aquarian woman and I feel a bit more human than you’ve given me credit for. Perhaps I assume to much, that others are on the same wave length. I am in a relationship with a Pisces. Maybe we are the best mix. I remember Linda Goodman’s description of this mix as Sherlock Holmes and Watson! Ha ha. There is a bit of that. It is what it is!!!

Kataka on Fire

Compelled by Uranian influences
Dated a Sun/Uranus conjunct
And a Venus/Uranus conjunct

Love moon and mars in sextile or trine to Uranus have a double whammy at the moment with someone

But Aqua? Never, I get sooooo bored – as friends 100% yes I love them in Sun or Moon or Venus but I get turned off to boredom by the distance, the alien indifference and the fuzzy is it a friendship or relationship thing in terms of romance.

Sororamystica

Divorcing an Aquarius this month….need I say more?

PhoenixWolf

Yes. What worked, didn’t work?

Aries gal

Yes… To comment above^

UltraSag

Big hug and best wishes for the future.

It will be great!

Also, to second the other two posters, yeah gory details always appreciated, lol.

Gemyogi

This reminds me of a gorgeous aqua I had a crush on 10 yrs ago. He was a tradie surfer dj type and very sweet. I made the mistake of asking him out and he ran for the hills! My gem sun loves the crazy eccentricity and the intellectual stuff

Gemyogi

Also had a gem sun aqua moon bestie until she cut me off last year when I accidently spilled the beans that she had been discussing BFs finances with me. He got the shits with her and it was all my fault. Huge ranting email about trust and loyalty etc etc. in the end I don’t really miss the drama and the psycho whingeing ๐Ÿ˜‰

The Venus Fly

Sadly, the reason I cannot be friends with Geminis anymore is because they are loudmouths who don’t honor what you tell them in privacy. Not only that, they hear what they want, not what you tell them which makes it even worst when they gossip to everyone. Gems are too narcissistic and disrespectful for my tastes. Fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius) are big on loyalty. To be honest, sounds like you are the one in the wrong but in typical Gemini nature you deflect upon the other person to disfigure them to make out they are the problem when… Read more »

Anonymous

Haha, I have the same policy with Geminis. Definitely do not honor things said in privacy, and hear only what they want to hear, and spin another story out of what was said, I definitely think there is this pot stirring type of mentality with them. For all their mercurial quick-wittedness, I just have to pass on whatever they offer bc their lo-vibe behaior just isnt worth the good portions.

Anon 2

Haha, you must be a Gemini then (tho haven’t seen any good portions of you)

Anonymous

Maybe I am. We see what we are, and if I am guilty of that, then yes, I am guilty of that. the same can then be said of you too, however ๐Ÿ™‚

DoubleMutable

You guys are talking about douchey low-vibe Gems, not Geminis in general. Quit generalizing, it’s gross and you should know better.

~Gemini who keeps tons of secrets

Seabird

Yep, I am one of them – a Gem extremely good at keeping secrets. I just won’t be complicit in certain stuff if I think it’s dishonest. I think it’s funny that Gemyogi obviously called her ex-BF out on it but is getting paid out here for being unable to keep a secret…???!! WT…? I don’t think loyalty entails having to hide duplicitous behaviour, sorry guys.

DoubleMutable

Exactly.

Kataka on Fire

Don’t want to enter a Gem witch hunt but strong Gemini planets (Taurus sun) still is the only person in my life who I could say was truly two faced. Went 3 years working with them everyone thought we got on well etc and one day it just exploded in a heap of back stabbing, accusations (many false) and general craziness. Everyone was shocked that someone could keep a facade up for so long…I hadn’t a clue and I’m pretty astute is stuff isn’t right.

anon

I dated a guy with a packed 3rd house. All he did was jibber jabber about noting of consequence. But he was SUCH a bad listener!!! And he use to say I said things I never said

I love Gems but their inability to listen is infuriating to say the least.

Anonymous

This also struck a sour note with me. I don’t know about Geminis, but Sag can be guilty of this as well. In fact, I severed a friendship for this very thing. Scorpio moon here- when I say it’s in confidence, I mean it. Trust and loyalty ARE a big thing, and the cavalier way GY is painting it strike me as very shallow and self-serving. I would like to state, however, that I refuse to paint any sign in such broad brushstrokes- there is high and low in every sign. My other two Sag besties would NEVER betray a… Read more »

Kataka on Fire

Yes all people are blends of different energies. Broad brushing a “sign” is naive, I guess we all just found that Gem-Sag energy affected us in the wrong way!

Gemyogi

Wasn’t going to respond to this, but it’s amazing how three of you have jumped in to criticise me because I’m a Gemini. Judgey much??? Without even knowing the whole story of my ex friend and our history. Btw she is also a gem. And repeatedly cuts off friends for some perceived slight or criticism. I consider myself to be a loyal friend and I’m not a gossip. Anyway you’ve obviously made up your minds that I’m shallow and disrespectful so I’m not going to dispute any further.

Anonymous

Gemyogi,
We responded to the story you gave us. I’m sorry, but the attitude of, in essence, “LOL trust and loyalty” can’t help but come across poorly. Perhaps take some personal responsibility and explain yourself.

Anon

Sure, she can do it right after You explain yourself…tell us why you only ever say bitchy things but no one knows anything about you?

Anonymous

You mean, me, Anonymous? Well, it’s because Anonymous only says bitchy things! (except Pi) And in any case, I thought I was fairly measured in my response. Calling someone out on perceived hypocrisy is not bitchy, it’s discourse. Calling someone bitchy for engaging in discourse, is simpleminded.

Anon

You must be very simpleminded then if you can’t see the hypocrisy and presumptuous ness of asking someone to explain themselves while reserving the right not to do so yourself ๐Ÿ™‚

Anonymous

What exactly to I have to explain?

Aries gal

The venus fly – everything you just said
YES YES YES!!!!!!!! Ahhhhhhh
Geminis …. I have gem dc and I’ve had so many bad encounters friends-wise with geminis
So TRUE, shut your mouths please.

And turning it around on you so you’re the mental case with the problem, not cool. I can see right thru you.

Rant over, lol.

Skye

I worked with a Gemini man who was telling me how another coworker was pissed off with him because he told a secret. “It’s me! I mean hell you know I can’t keep my mouth shut for more than two minutes so why tell me of all people? You know what’s going to happen.”
Geminis are natural communicators. So maybe apply the Internet rule: if you don’t want it public don’t publish it.

I still think they’re good value tho ๐Ÿ˜‰

Anonymous

I think you make a good point, re choosing one’s audience wisely. People don’t know what you don’t tell them, for better or worse. I carefully consider these days whether I share with any scorpio my deepest most personal things as I have had one (just one! but it was enough) scorpio use that against me in the past and it’s not a mistake I care to make a second time. likewise if someone tends to judge us for things that to us are of less consequence (common example, partying or ‘promiscuous’ behaviour) then we save our breath and the… Read more »

Pi

^ me

ps. i get that scorps are cool and loyal and stuff, examples abound here and i admire many other scorpies in my life. but the thing that the friend did was unforgivable, i think she knows that now, but it did change how i manage my secrets, ah lessons how you suck.

Skye

…expect something that they are not capable of giving…

i never realised how much I judged people based on my own expectations. But it’s hard.
Somethings need empathy and solace like you say. The hardest things usually.
Using that against you tho is cruel.

Lessons. Deep sigh. Sometimes it’s hard to judge what you’re dealing with if its using its smokescreen.

prowlncrab

I have known GemYogi for a long time and can say that I have never known her to be a loudmouth, narcissistic or disrespectful. She probably didn’t think that posting an entire backstory was required as some of us long time posters know her well enough to realise that she’s a conscious, considered and mindful person.

Anonymous

Oh, you know her in person?

Knowing a person’s posting history is not knowing a person. In any case, I’ve been here a while myself, and that does not exempt me from forming an opinion I choose to express about abominable behavior, as articulated in one post.

Again, if she chooses to expand upon her cavalier attitude about trust and loyalty, we’re all ears.

cal

oh, grow up

Anonymous

Well that was well thought-out and -expressed. I’m sorry to hear it from you, you seem like such a great person.

I’m not sure what is so wrong about having an adverse reaction to an attitude I consider repugnant. I hate to think that the cliquishness that seems so prevalent amongst the commenters here, is actually true. This blog seems to be such a congregation of thoughtful people.

But if I am told to grow up because of expressing an unpopular opinion opposing a regular commenter’s post, then I guess it’s as cliquish as it seems.

cal

if you really need more, I’m finding all these negative reactions, well, reactionary and poorly informed at that….unnecessary, judgemental, over-reactive and full of unwarranted presumptions and demands. I hope you understand I didn’t want to expend any more energy engaging with them but as Prowlin said i do believe these accusations to be unrepresentative of GY’s character and somewhat offensive in themselves. It is possible to get a pure sense of someone’s energy through this forum, although as I am reasonably empathic perhaps I find that easier than some people would. Otherwise, I thank you for your compliment, I often… Read more »

cal

lastly, and this is offered in good faith, if you have been triggered the best gift you can give yourself is to explore your own feelings and motivations rather than try to change others

6

Yes. Wise words, thank you for writing this, Cal.

Anonymous

Please see my response below 6, and I”m sorry if I was sarcastic with you, Calypso. And yes, you come off very well here- I always enjoy reading your posts.

Aries gal

Omg .. Guys.. Chill the eff out. Gem yogi I think you’re being super sensitive the response was more towards ALL a geminis and their flakey behaviour. Come on, they are flakey. The “laugh it off” part of your story regarding trust and loyalty in a friendship as being something minor is a bit funny.. And does add the the typical flakey ness of the Gemini but just chill!

No bad ideas or feelings towards you personally, just low gemini behaviour in general ๐Ÿ™‚ every sign has it’s low… We’ve all openly bitched about them. It’s enjoyable.

6

Exactly and thank you for writing this Aries gal.

Kataka on Fire

Perhaps GY explained it too quickly but it absolutely came across as very cavalier to quite a sensitive topic, I would have been very upset if someone did that to me and caused trouble in my relationship

But There’s always a chance that there was more to it so I did find some of the criticism harsh but YES the following comments on the whole were about other Gems behaviour and examples of such.

Anon

Why would anyone post about their sensitive inner motivations in response the atmosphere of nasty judginess you exude? ‘Abominable’ behaviour? Cavalier attitude?
Look in the mirror

You are totally judgy. what used to make this blog really interesting was a sense of gracious acceptance of all sorts of different ways of being.

6

I always find a particular Anonymous here particularly verbally spiteful, intentional or not. Anonymous, whoever you are, I hope you do as much self-evaluation as you do pointing the finger. We all have our strengths and weaknesses, but hopefully we are more solution-driven rather than negativity-magnifying. How much positivity have you added to this blog and community (vs. the long-time posters, for example), vs. how much argument-driven communication have you created? Its totally ok to have an opinion, I get that, but sometimes we need to lay off the gas pedal on finger pointing esp when we are only adding… Read more »

Aries gal

Yeah agree re: anon – you do seem quite spiteful, you chill out too. Lol we are all friends here having a convo.
Opinions we all welcomed. As well as reactions to opinions.

Anonymous

OK OK, TRUCE. It seems I’ve rankled some, and I apologize for it. 6, thank you for at least acknowledging I have a right to an opinion. And no, I’m not the Anonymous you speak of- I almost never post anon here, and almost never engage in arguments. I didn’t think I was spiteful. But perhaps I was. It’s true this post hit a nerve. I’ve had this (and not apologizing for using this word!) cavalier attitude applied to me in my personal relationships- a friend who betrayed me so cavalierly and blithely that 8 years later it still takes… Read more »

cal

hey, we all have our moments! You make some fair points – others were being ridiculous and it can be cliquey, but I think although strong bonds can be formed most people are also open and broadly accepting….yes, even of Geminis! I’ve known low Gems and I am all fixed and Scorpy, so I know about loyalty but I also value responsibility in all it’s guises. I respect your capacity to self-reflect and wish you well ๐Ÿ™‚

Anonymous

Thank you so much Calypso, and the same to you. ๐Ÿ™‚

Anon

OMG you always pretend it isn’t you and point the finger at someone else LOL

Anonymous

You know, I myself have noticed a lot of the stuff you have spoken of here, so I dont know if it helps any, but know that I feel you, you have a friend in this regard here in me, and you are not alone in noticing these things. These dynamics stopped me from interacting in the past, but then I realized I was missing out on a lot of interactions I did want to be part of, so I decided to not care so much about others and just be, bc there are some really great people here. I… Read more »

Anonymous

Wow. I don’t know what to say. Your generous-hearted response is humbling, and received with a gratitude I find hard to express.

I think you are right on the money about posting anon.

I’m pretty much speechless right now, so I’ll just say:

Thank you.

12th house virgo

Gemyogi is 100% haute.

When people start crying about the right to have an opinion, they usually have run out of things to say. You had an opinion and responses to your opinion. Work out your authority issues without slapping your pass-ag judgements around here seeking attention. There are no oppressors here. And we all like positive attention, ffs.

Anonymous

And just for the sake of clarity- and yes, I admit it, self defense!-

I do a hell of a lot more self-evaluation than I do finger-pointing (except when it comes to family, I think); and I imagine the ratio of positivity to argument-driven communication I contribute here is about 56:1. I should probably work on that.

And I’ve been here about five years, so not sure what the parameters of long-time poster are. But I suppose you could say I’m not in the winner’s circle.

Winner

There, there, it’s only perfume…

cal

๐Ÿ˜€

Kataka on Fire

If someone doesn’t have enough basic honesty to declare themselves on a regular basis ands stays “anon” that speaks a lot…

Anon

You don’t have to get personal if you can’t or won’t understand a concept.

GeminiGin

All of these Anons are probably the same schizo person = Venus Flytrap!

Another anon

All judgey ears ๐Ÿ™‚

Seabird

Grab a handle and lets know abut you then. I have exactly the same response to Gemyogi as Prowln – I don’t think I need to know them in person, what I do know is that on this site they have never spouted un-backed-up vitriol whilst moonlighting as a real person. So many anonymouses on here posting crap – grab a handle and front up.

pi

Wow! Gemini bashing or what. gemyogi totally took responsibility for the situation where she writes “and it was all my fault”

I fuqing love geminis ftr. Including you gemyogi. Mwah

Anonymous

Sorry, but I really took that to be sarcasm. Again, not trying to start any arguments-that’s really what it sounded like to me. Could be projection on my part.

hdq

Most boring comments ever. If gems have one thing going for us, we’re not hypocrites. Swear us to secret and it’s silent to the grave, but in all other things we value honesty above ESPECIALLY above ridiculous pretentiousness like in this thread. Seriously, one anon can perhaps self-examine, but others anon and not, I worry about, except caring

Anonymous

That really hurts, HDQ.

hdq

Sorry, was meant to go on comments above, sorry for the typos (why was I even awake let alone writing at 3am?), sorry if your feelings are undeservedly hurt. Not sorry for my annoyance at those pompous projectiles of anon comments. I imagine GY’s feelings are hurt too.

Aries gal

Ok, every single sign in the zodiac has received some intense sign bashing can we please refer to dating a capricorn lol. Now that was bad, 90% hate!

This isn’t any different

pi

Hmm, ok, I didn’t see the sarcasm there but I see your point.

Anonymous

meaning, I read regret, not sarcasm. oh well. thus concludes the analysis

pi

That was meant to be for anon ^

Look yes it’s cathartic to vent about our gripes with other Sun signs, god knows I have done it here too and will probably continue to do so lol. But I was really quite surprised at the strong response to gemyogis comment.Maybe I am sympathetic to the Gemini MO, it’s possible. But still. strikes me that it becomes personal when it is as a reply to someone’s comment imo.

Yes dating a Capricorn.. that was HARSH *wince*

Seabird

I am sympathetic to Gemyogi – every sign gets bashed on here (except librans, everyone loves a libran….) I just don’t like it when someone I have known on this site for years gets done over by people who don’t even tell us their names.

Full moon or what?

Skye

Is it over yet? Has everyone stopped fighting?

K

LOL. All this fightin’ usually happens on a Dark moon. I guess it’s the intense full moon making everything hyper

Chrysalis

I just popped in before work as I wondered the same thing ๐Ÿ™‚

seagoat

I just want to ask why was the ex-bestie discussing BFs finances? That’s a deal breaker if you ask me…I certainly wouldn’t want my boyfriend to discuss my finances (not that I have any!) with his mates…so Gemini: whistle-blower or motor-mouth? I think sometimes Gemini’s feel the weight of confidences and secrets too much to bear…they need to off-load, keep light etc. As for arguments on this thread? for what it’s worth I think it’s fine to disagree and call each other out…anything is better than group-think… from what I read there are obviously some issues that people genuinely have,… Read more »

cal

yes, that’s what I meant about responsibility, although I didn’t really want to get into it so I tend not to explain very well, but ultimately, it is hers.

I’ve had people throw trust issues at me when really it was their partners who should have worn them.

Anonymous

it was a gemini cocktail if I remember rightly… the initial comment was so long ago it feels like kansas.

Anonymous

I am a Gem and been with an Aqua for over 6 years. It works for me..the ” don’t tell me what to do and I won’t you ” Long leashes we both need but we have never discussed it, it just is…we just assumed. Loyal, sweet, respectful, dreamer that brings all of his thoughts to fruition, romantic, sexy, but does have a dry sense of humor that sometimes makes me loose my wits! Bad boy that majorly has been reformed for many years..Loves to come home to me and I him.

david5379

its weird my two strongest planets are saturn and uranus so I have this weird conflict between very contrarian constantly and respecting the established tradition of things and what works, so I have tons of fringe looney feelers out there but also kind of worry about not revealing that bent too much and remaining saturn level qualified. I really like aqua moons (usually), I can find where they stand on an issue really easily and reason with them, more easily then most people its always very refreshing. Although it basically amounts to “I believe in science” so from this uber… Read more »

12th house virgo

I have moon in 11th house in Leo. I feel like my moon is more Aqua than Leo, but its kind of tricky. Leo rules my 12th so I don’t see it. I find myself attracted to people who don’t fit and I usually project all kind of glamour onto their don’t-fitness that they don’t really deserve. Like, its one thing to live out the story of who you are, unhidden and unapologetically. But those people, I find, are really poems I write in my head. Most people are misfits because they can’t negotiate healthy connections to others, not because… Read more »

The Venus Fly

That is so Neptunian and 12th housy. I was the same for so many years (4 planets in 12th house) but these days, I’m demanding mutuality and reciprocal adoration, fun and passionate friendship.

Scorpbot

“Most people are misfits because they canโ€™t negotiate healthy connections to others, not because of some moral stance of higher evolution of consciousness”

So true!!!

david5379

to be fair, most of any kind of people are probably not that great, I could see how that would be more of a thing though or how that value could cause a blind spot

DP

OMG Mystic you nailed them, just nailed the Aqua man. I also have a history with them- Aqua is my DC. The three men I’ve loved have all been Aquarians. I also don’t want to go into the long stories, but let me tell you, they were epic dramas. One has remained my friend, my best friend in fact. He has a Pisces Moon and Scorpio rising, so he is extra psychic. I wish I could meet a replica of him that wasn’t… so resistant to relationship with someone who adores him. And a bit more sexual in the earthy… Read more »

aqualala

Also, the electricity/pheromones/galactic sound waves/machine talk bit — that made me happy.

Anonymous

This is my favorite MM post of all time and that’s saying a lot bc there are a lot to love. The last bit about the space cat from Alpha Centauri – a page right out of my book.

Agree with the poster above that I think men are more likely to stay keen when treated mean, bc I certainly don’t operate that way.

aqualala

Treat them mean, keep them keen? No, no, nuh-uh. Not me, and not my aqua friends. Treat me mean and you are blocked, disconnected, disposed, burned, grave danced upon and location lost to memory. Maybe men stay keen? Interesting.

Anonymous

Agreed, Aqua Moon here, treat me mean and you will be quantum bitch slapped out of my vortex faster than a black hole with the shits.

pi

LOL! This comment xx

LexieL

LMFAO! That’s a crack up comment. Love it!

Anonymous

Forgot to add that my prismatic ally placed holographic self will only project cool, icy elegance while offending party even begins to notice they got kicked to another dimension.

tw:leo

haha! my mum is aqua moon and one of my besties is aqua sun, and THIS stuff above is toootally true.

The Venus Fly

I know what MM ‘meant’, but I fully agree with you. From experience Aquarians don’t like ‘mean’. They’re friendly, quite gregarious (in which capacity is unique to chart, if they have plenty of ‘earth’ or Venus they know how to ‘blend’ into conventional settings to pass the time until their next adventure or exploration) but like the Saggs they don’t like unfairness and meanness seems unjustified and even damn uncouth to them. However, I will say, cool detachment has kept the ones I’ve known intrigued. I guess they feel you would happily accept their need for space. But by the… Read more »

DP

Yes, true. They may be a lot of other things and their actions may feel quite cruel at times, but they are not, in my experience, mean or vindictive people.

The Venus Fly

Agreed. Even the dawgs and cheaters are not out to HURT their partners, they’re just chasing the thrill, lol. No excuses for their behavior, and I never enabled them in the slightest, but I DID see the difference and got a chuckle out of it, lol.

aqualala

Steady, yes. If you can’t rely on people, what’s the point? Can’t exactly keep them around for study. Expect fairness from your people and justice from humanity. If your people can’t be just, they aren’t your people.

Anonymous

Zero Degree Aquarian woman AGREES with this statement completely!