January 2015 Horoscopes Are Posted

Remedios Varo

The January Monthly Horoscopes are posted!!!!

It’s a big month – i know we could say that about heaps of months lately but this is big by even Zap Zone standards.  A Plutonic Full Moon, Pluto square the Nodes, Uranus on the South Node, Lilith opposite Neptune, Saturn establishing in boho Saggo…Something for everyone!

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akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 9:01 am

More info… waiting for wonky love crap to stop. Saturn’s first stop after crossing my late Scorpio AC is right into conjunction with my 2 degree Venus. That’s right…this could be a very helpful bitch slap. I just keep reading more and more info on how to be clean, clear, adult and emotionally healthy about relationships. And doing plenty of preachin’ cuz hey it’s Saggo, right? But seriously…with me and the legally-bound Aries…who is totes unavailable…I basically handed it to him to tell me he just wasn’t into it, like, in the most light hearted and non threatening way and… Read more »

SororaMysrica
SororaMysrica
December 30, 2014 12:02 pm
Reply to  akapluto

girl you got this……

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:58 pm
Reply to  SororaMysrica

Thanks Bae- you know I’m trying to get above this sitch but it’s got more holes than a loaf of swiss!!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 2:39 pm
Reply to  akapluto

The two do go together. I know it seems like you’re one or the other, but its kind of like wearing a pad – you are bleeding in your pants, but not really. Gross. It is gross. Sucky situation. But you will get through. As always and better than ever.

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:59 pm

Too true, 12th house…sometimes there’s no way around, only through.

vslr
vslr
December 30, 2014 7:49 am

The narcissistic ex is now continuing to stalk my blog. Double Libra. I feel its his way of remaining in the picture and of having control over me. I want it to end. I have blocked him from all channels but there’s nothing really I can do about blocking him from seeing my site.

Do they ever leave us alone? 🙁

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 7:59 am
Reply to  vslr

Not until they find new prey. Maybe not even then. I was just thinking about deleting my blog. I’m not that into it anyway. And I’m sick of the Pisces stalkery. It just doesn’t feel worthwhile to me.

vslr
vslr
December 30, 2014 2:10 pm

Here’s hoping that jan/feb merc retrograde won’t see him finding another inventive way to stalk or that he makes direct contact. No more!!

Hav my suspicions the leo dude is also stalking my blog. Have info that has upped this suspicion. But im not sure. If he comes back in that time – I’ll be over the moon.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 2:38 pm
Reply to  vslr

The Pisces will block me on FB so I can’t block him. Its been this ongoing thing I’ve been ignoring, but today I realized his profile was back online (at least, not blocked to me) so I can block him. Its exhausting. I’m not looking forward to hearing from him ever again.

Anonymous
Anonymous
December 30, 2014 6:59 am

This year I had Saturn on my Moon for so much of time. It is like Saturn is the King of the Land of Silver Linings. So there was even a full moon eclipse exactly on the degree of my natal moon!! Not to scare the Moon in Saggi peeps, but it was really hard. I have tried not post as much as I haven’t felt as positive, and I don’t want bleary up the blog. Tbh I am not clear on Saturn’s lessons yet. I think they might have been, “Evolve, grow up, act your age” or something. Last… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx
December 30, 2014 7:00 am
Reply to  Anonymous

Sphinx, with thanks for indulging the long post. Eep.

Fauness
Fauness
December 30, 2014 1:21 pm
Reply to  Sphinx

I’m a sag moon, conj neptune. Eeeeek! I have until November till Saturn is exact, I wonder how many comments I will see on other’s experiences until then. It’ll be worth the silver lining gift though, right?

sphinx
sphinx
December 30, 2014 11:51 pm
Reply to  Fauness

I lost two mother figures this last year.
The Saturn was more about dealing with that, the aftermath, than about the actual losing of them. But hell it hurt!

All life is full of worthy lessons. Life is a silver lining in itself, so yeah, it is worth it.
Let us know how you go. 😉

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 30, 2014 2:50 pm
Reply to  Anonymous

Thanks for your words here and happy new year Sphinx! xx

sphinx
sphinx
December 30, 2014 11:49 pm
Reply to  Gemyogi

Thank you Gemyogi, to you too, I hope you have a glorious new year!!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 5:54 am

So, I had a house party the other day with old friends. I haven’t seen these people in so long, last time I threw a house party for this crew the last thing on my mind were snacks, lol. So, I emptied the pantry and served nuts, olives, cornichons, whatever snacky stuff I had on hand. It was fun, but regarding the snacks, one guest was like “Are these grapes?” about the olives and it was hilarious and I was about to post something about it with a picture and it felt like for a good 20 seconds or so… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx
December 30, 2014 7:04 am

Of course your words have power! You must know this, you are an incredible writer. Don’t doubt the impact you have on others, including many you have never met and who will never thank you, but listen or read or perceive you with total awe.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 7:30 am
Reply to  Sphinx

That is a very humbling realization. I consider others equal to me in terms of impact, although I sometimes feel I could kick them in the face to wake them up to that fact and clealry face kicking won’t do. 😉 It was perhaps a few years ago that it dawned on me that maybe everyone thought I had everything together, that I was an expert, and that my behavior as anything less than top of the pile was utterly confusing to them. It was terrifying to consider. But, I guess I’m accepting that more. Part of getting older. Someone… Read more »

sphinx
sphinx
December 30, 2014 11:48 pm

Virgo make wonderful grown-ups!
For a Mercury ruled type anyway.
I am working on this.

pi
pi
December 30, 2014 7:15 am

Hi 12 v. I think 3rd house Saturn transit for me was when I started learning how to communicate more… Responsibly? Bravely?clearly? I had to deal with fears about being honest with others (fear of being received badly, yelled at/reprimanded etc)

Well, Learning ongoing but started then-ish.
Xx

pi
pi
December 30, 2014 7:23 am
Reply to  pi

Fear of some kind of rejection because of honesty. I guess that’s Saturn too. But you’re right, anyway. It’s a “no joke” transit! Lol.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 7:39 am
Reply to  pi

Funny, I’ve had this transit before and I think last time I had it, when I was 12 or so, it was about speaking more boldly and being unafraid of – and even suffering from – social rejection. But, I’ve held that lesson. My fear now is leadership, being held in high regard by others. Is that strange? I like equality, but its a fiction to an extent, isn’t it? I realized with the old friends I saw the other day that – like it or not – I have done better than others. I had one frenemy say that… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 7:48 am

I’ve got all sorts of Neptune-Saturn themes coming up for the next year. Saturn will hit my NN and Neptune and IC as it transits through Sag. I feel its going to be a real test of my ideals.

vslr
vslr
December 30, 2014 8:16 am

Very valuable discussion on Saturn transiting 3rd house.

Thanks!

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 30, 2014 2:47 pm

You are seen as capable and in control from the outside. We all have our insecurities and demons that are invisible to most. Use your power wisely but don’t discount it. Being vulnerable is a sign of strength. If you speak with authority ppl think you have all the answers 😀

david5379
david5379
December 30, 2014 3:31 pm

I totally get what you mean. To survive a certain point I just depegged myself from attaching opinions or things like that with any importance and I was used to being this put upon outsider. I just kind of got used to the antagonism and grew up like that with this almost combative assumption or something. I was so used to being considered lesser and making up for it and proving otherwise or fighting for respect that I kind of get this weird push back I have noticed the last few years or so. When I got here to college… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous
December 30, 2014 4:12 pm
Reply to  david5379

Haha, I love reading yr thoughts, you are such tender and refined spirit! And yes, full of nobility 🙂

hdq
hdq
December 30, 2014 5:35 pm

Saturn in the 3rd is odd. Frustrating, especially for Mercury-ruled peeps (or so I assume). Small talk is painful, lying is impossible, and in the end there’s nothing to do but speak your truth. Which, often, doesn’t exactly endear others to you. I find it best mostly to not speak.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 6:05 pm

I so hear you 12Hv. With Gem Asc and Leo Merc in the 3rd I’ve always taken my communication skills for granted because I’ve always had them – well not for granted, but .. just never made a big deal about it. So it never fails to spin me out when people remember things I say, or are impacted by things I’ve said. I’m humbled by it too. Definitely have worked through a process of becoming more conscious and responsible about my words. It’s a work in progress ….

hdq
hdq
December 30, 2014 12:11 am

Happy new world, astro-bitches!! Xoxoxo

Chrysalis
Chrysalis
December 30, 2014 7:02 am
Reply to  hdq

Back at you, lovely one xxxxx

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 7:48 am
Reply to  hdq

xoxoxo

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 30, 2014 2:41 pm
Reply to  hdq

Bring it on! 😉 love & light xx

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0
December 30, 2014 6:52 pm
Reply to  hdq

{{HDQ}}

Muah! xx

Chrysalis
Chrysalis
December 29, 2014 6:29 pm

What a year 2014 has been…I started it scared sh*tless of everything, insomniac and drunk. Somehow I’ve managed to do the Saturn transit of my 4th pretty well and have come out of it financially literate, securely employed, with my perfect house and sleeping properly. Miraculously my long-term Saturn neck has cleared up without explanation, I never have trouble any more after being debilitated for nigh on seven years. Oh yeah I’ve also had more (and better) sex in one year than in the whole of my sham marriage 😉 Interestingly this complete reset of my foundations has started to… Read more »

sphinx
sphinx
December 29, 2014 8:42 pm
Reply to  Chrysalis

You sound like you have not only shed a skin but stepped into an entirely different vibration of existence! Kudos Chrys, take that jealousy sitch & p’raps try seeing it as an acknowledgement of how very far you’ve come..? You are a star, xx.

gemyogi
gemyogi
December 29, 2014 10:04 pm
Reply to  Chrysalis

Happy new year Chrysalis and well done for all your hard work and also the self awareness and growth. Hooray for the end of Saturn neck and the good sex as well! 😉

hdq
hdq
December 30, 2014 12:09 am
Reply to  Chrysalis

Heck yes. Nicely done!! Xxx

pi
pi
December 30, 2014 5:33 am
Reply to  Chrysalis

Well done on the turnaround chrysalis. I do hope your old friend sees the light and there is a way through for her to see the new you with clear eyes too. As you say, maybe letting it be is the best solution for now. a good 2015 for you. Xxxooo

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 5:41 am
Reply to  Chrysalis

Awesome. I hope Saturn brings me some good, regular sex soon, lol.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis
December 30, 2014 5:43 pm
Reply to  Chrysalis

Thanks, lovely people… you all inspire me on a daily basis, such a generous and smart community we have here xx

Pegasus
Pegasus
December 29, 2014 4:40 pm

A prosperous and super healthy New Year 2015 to all my cyber friends and especially those who have had wonky experiences with Saggos 🙂 Daisy Dog is so excited about her first ,longer than 30 minute, road trip hoping she doesn’t need to pee for 3 hours. This is a practise car trip for a long wanted drive to Melba, 8 hours. So love her, she growls under her breath when she hears DVN in back garden and barks at anyone entering my drive, just 3, perfectly protective sensitive guard dog,can’t wait to buy a ‘beware of dog’ sign to… Read more »

sphinx
sphinx
December 29, 2014 8:40 pm
Reply to  Pegasus

Good luck with worshipping at the altar, cats & dogs, festivities & fuqing off the sunscreen! There is nothing small about the bose amp and the music discovery, rock it out Pegs, xx.

gemyogi
gemyogi
December 29, 2014 9:57 pm
Reply to  Pegasus

Have a wonderful new year Pegs! I’ll be at my bro in law’s 50th having a rockin time. I’m doing the tunes — a chance to be DJ. it will be a very relaxed affair with some old friends of my sister and bro in law, and kids… lots of dancing!

Fauness
Fauness
December 30, 2014 6:52 am
Reply to  Pegasus

Wonky experiences with saggos? *hand raises. I had an intense LZ episode for a multiple saggo coworker that I completely pulled through. Almost spilled the beans to get it out of my system but decided to ride it out and take the lesson for what it was. I’m out alive. Hurray!
Happy New Year!

DP
DP
December 29, 2014 4:38 pm

Hi PIABs, I had a beautiful experience that was tied up in a bow thanks to the wisdom of you commenters, and I’d like to share. Background: the last two years has been a non-stop painful evolution, as many of you can attest to in your own lives. Most recently Saturn on my moon- so much frustration, unhappiness with my status quo, misunderstandings with my loved ones, loneliness. But the last few weeks, something else has sprouted up, unbidden. It’s a hard thing to describe, but it concerns how I relate to others. Somehow I have stopped caring about things… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis
December 29, 2014 7:49 pm
Reply to  DP

Beautiful story… thanks for sharing xx

sphinx
sphinx
December 29, 2014 8:38 pm
Reply to  DP

Happy to hear you are finding all that gold amongst the river pebbles! Happy New Year, xx.

gemyogi
gemyogi
December 29, 2014 9:51 pm
Reply to  DP

Wow. Now that’s how to do Saturn! xx

hdq
hdq
December 30, 2014 12:06 am
Reply to  DP

What a lovely story. New Year blessings to you xxx

skarab
skarab
December 30, 2014 3:13 am
Reply to  DP

Beautiful story DP.

pi
pi
December 30, 2014 5:26 am
Reply to  DP

Yes DP! We are only human. Deleting the soundtrack for (what sounds like) “take on unnecessary responsibility for what others may or may not think about me” .. great idea! Your forest experience sounds lovely. Thank you for sharing.xoxx

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 5:37 am
Reply to  DP

Beautiful. Happy New Year.

davidl
davidl
December 30, 2014 5:41 am
Reply to  DP

Great realization DP. I believe lives are measured by those special moments of satori.
Have a great 2015 fellow ram. X

Fauness
Fauness
December 30, 2014 6:45 am
Reply to  DP

Lovely, lovely story. With redwoods! Saturn is headed towards my moon, which I am apprehensive about, so this brings a bit of relief. Thank you.

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:50 am
Reply to  DP

Lovely…I too feel the change. Freedom from having to care-take and coddle people while simultaneously speaking your mind is HUGE. Letting go of controlling situations is HUGE. Wahoo!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 29, 2014 4:24 pm

2014 has been an amazing year of personal growth, although at times it felt like my head was going to explode, or implode, or some form of plosion. The best strategy I found for handling the ZZ energy was mindfulness – focusing on the present moment, doing only that which is essential in that moment. Any kind of reflective analysis was best done in the company of wise and insightful peeps, so as not to float off into self defeating headspaces. 2015 already promises to be fascinating as I’ve been offered a new position with the Health Dept. I’m working… Read more »

gemyogi
gemyogi
December 29, 2014 9:54 pm
Reply to  prowlncrab

Happy new year Prowln! I think it’s going to be a good one. Already loving Saturn in Sag and fresh energy coming in! congrats for the new job!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 5:55 pm
Reply to  gemyogi

You too miss GemYogi – I look forward to hearing of your 2015 adventures. 🙂

davidl
davidl
December 30, 2014 5:33 am
Reply to  prowlncrab

Gawd I hope it doesn’t implode, that would very unattractive.
Have a good one P. May your head remain symmetrical throughout. X

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 5:56 pm
Reply to  davidl

May we all remain symmetrical under pressure david! (especially us cardinals) … happy new year to you and the fam.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 5:38 am
Reply to  prowlncrab

Congrats!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 5:57 pm

Thanks 12HV 🙂

Sphinx
Sphinx
December 30, 2014 6:25 am
Reply to  prowlncrab

Sounds like it will be the work will be a constructive & interesting process, awesome!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 6:01 pm
Reply to  Sphinx

Oh god yes sooo intriguing and interesting. Gets to the meat and bones of human experience. Am much influenced by Jung’s positivist psychotherapy – the science of psychic change and how it can assist those trapped in a vicious karmic cycle of mental health/addiction. But I won’t be openly sharing that insight with any of the psychiatrists I’ll be working with anytime soon … tehehehe :mrgreen:

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:45 am
Reply to  prowlncrab

That is indeed Jupiter/Neptune in the 6th! Congrats!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 5:59 pm
Reply to  akapluto

I know right?!!

akapluto
akapluto
December 29, 2014 2:36 pm

Well, while it is nice transforming into a completely different person in under two years, I’m pretty much fed up at this point. Good riddance, zap zone! I’ve been feeling this moon coming up for days… or is it the Mars/Jupiter thing? All of the above? Can you say “overreacting”? Saturn in Saggo going through my first house is already amazing. My tolerance for shit is at an all time low and steadily dropping. My interest in taking myself seriously is rising. If not me, then who? Of course, its a wobbly lesson trying to figure out how to set… Read more »

Miuesse
Miuesse
December 29, 2014 3:53 pm
Reply to  akapluto

Uhoooo!
Get ready for (approx. 2 years of) stripping back old facades re. you and your interaction with others in your world, as you perfect and build a genuine you.. Hard work – oui! but def. worth it. 1st house saturn – the only way is up.UP.UP!!! Do you for you. Forget the rest. Be your own doctor! 😀
M.

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:35 am
Reply to  Miuesse

Miu- I’m up for it. Trust me. Fuck errybody!!!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 29, 2014 4:26 pm
Reply to  akapluto

The weird thing about boundary setting is that many people feel guilty and awkward for doing it. At least at first. It’s a vulnerable space to be when you assert yourself and state what you need and what you refuse to participate in.

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:39 am
Reply to  prowlncrab

Indeed. Also kind of like a weird business transaction. A sort of intangible one (this may be my 2nd house Neptune speaking…) in which you invest into your own value.

Every time you assert yourself, state your boundaries and do whatever possible to keep them from being crossed, you show everyone and most of all YOURSELF that you are valuable.

Of course, there are those the people that never respect your boundaries- the toxic folks- but that’s a whole other chestnut…

prowlncrab
prowlncrab
December 30, 2014 5:53 pm
Reply to  akapluto

I think you’ve just nailed it – learning to treat ourselves as valuable beings can be a “wobbly” process because we are so unfamiliar with it. Society places a lot of emphasis on personal value being based on such erroneous things as appearance, how much money we have, who are friends are, what status we hold in the social sphere. Social stratification is a fundamental organising mechanism of human society and old habits die hard. Probably the only time we experience being valued “just because” is when we are a baby – and that’s if we are lucky enough to… Read more »

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:56 pm
Reply to  prowlncrab

Um YUP Crab- it’s way too easy to get caught up in basing your value on external things. WE teach people are value based on how much we value ourselves. No looks, money or status necessary. Saturn now on my Venus is all about this!

The Baroness
The Baroness
December 29, 2014 4:42 pm
Reply to  akapluto

Sometimes you end up flipping out or going over gung-ho because you’re trying to figure out which dynamic works. That doesn’t excuse any volatility or insanity on your behalf (lol) but sometimes I notice once you’ve been through the ringer you go one extreme from the other until you ‘naturally balance’. I realize now the last 5 years of ‘futility’ was really about me creating a ‘base’ for myself internally and externally. I have my home comforts to be my sanctuary and help me look after myself the best I can. All the ‘loss’ over the last 5 years has… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 5:56 am
Reply to  The Baroness

“I realize now the last 5 years of ‘futility’ was really about me creating a ‘base’ for myself internally and externally. ” Wow. Are we having the same transits? Because this is like my life. Amazing.

akapluto
akapluto
December 30, 2014 8:44 am
Reply to  The Baroness

Baroness- I should hope it’s a balancing and not a permanent move towards jaded and defensive attitudes…

See: my mother. Tired of taking shit from everyone, she turned into the scariest woman alive who deals with no shit, even if it isn’t actually shit…

I mean, she’s had over 50 different dogs because none of them were good enough…she goes from normal to psycho at the slightest provocation…she will dissect your brain until she figures out what it is you’re “doing to her”.

So yeah I have that tendency in me and it needs a bit of work hahah

VenusRules
VenusRules
December 29, 2014 11:37 am

Very happy new year to you, Mystic, and to all the regular commenters whose wisdom and depth and humor I appreciate so much!

Saturn moving out of 6th seems to finally be breaking up the work/income logjam that’s been intractable for the last three years. Trying to be patient as the details unfold.

Skye
Skye
December 29, 2014 11:10 am

Never good when you’re up at 2am because you feel like your relationship has died only to read your partners horoscope saying that relationships implode.
It’s been a horrible year.
And I feel like I’m still walking on the bridge as its burning.
Goodbye and good riddance 2014. And the ‘learning’ ain’t over yet….

Muggle status demotion acquired

vslr
vslr
December 29, 2014 8:36 am

Just read a good quote and wanted to share:

“Let go, but without pushing away. Adopt the attitude that there are no toxic people, just toxic dynamics. If you abandon the dynamic, while maintaining loving boundaries and communication, you will be able to catalyze great positive effects in yourself and your circles.” ~April Norris

anon
anon
December 29, 2014 8:44 am
Reply to  vslr

thank you! That’s exactly what I needed!
I am stuck in a toxic dynamic.

vslr
vslr
December 29, 2014 8:52 am
Reply to  anon

I just came back to say that on second thoughts I don’t quite agree with the quote. There ARE toxic people. And they will remain toxic/ narcisstic etc. A toxic dynamic suggests that I am also contributing to the toxicity where in reality I was being preyed on by a wolf in sheep’s clothing. In those instances I don’t think maintaining loving communications is a good idea. On the other hand, I can see how after a breakup this might be of use. I need to learn how not to burn bridges with the normal and the art of letting… Read more »

echo-echo
echo-echo
December 30, 2014 2:29 am
Reply to  vslr

great quote! thankyou

Skye
Skye
December 30, 2014 5:10 am
Reply to  vslr

Toxic people feed off the negativity or vulnerability in us. Once we find our own strength then we see the situation and cut ties. I don’t think you can be loving when you’re dodging knives or throwing them back. I readily admit that while I would love to pin one particular past toxic storm on the other person in reality I would rebound off the darkness and get consumed by it… Toxic dynamic. On our own perfectly normal functioning people. Together: recipe for hell. I fully endorse pushing away. If it’s poisoning you why wouldn’t you stop taking it? But… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel
December 29, 2014 8:07 am

Hey, sorry to say this, but I am having problems logging in & staying logged in – only on my computer. The site works fine as always on my phone. I’ve tried fiddling with my browser but just wanted to say it here in case anyone else was having difficulty.

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 29, 2014 2:43 pm
Reply to  Ariel

Try clearing your browser cache and restarting yr computer

anon
anon
December 29, 2014 8:00 am

Advise from fellow readers. How do you successfully bow out of attending a narcissist’s NYE party without them freaking out? or seeking revenge? I am trying hard to take the High Road but if I have to endure one more party or event with this person I will no longer be responsible for my actions. I’ve taken the passive -aggressive insults, jabs, backstabbing, belittling comments that I can tolerate. The only reason I am being cordial is that my husband is friend’s with this woman’s poor battered finance. She holds threats that she’ll destroy others careers if they don’t kiss… Read more »

Year of the Cat
Year of the Cat
December 29, 2014 11:30 am
Reply to  anon

Consult a Sagg, they;
1- tell the truth (famously reported) &
2- they know how to get out of things.
By the way, l got a poor battered finance too!

Pegasus
Pegasus
December 29, 2014 4:42 pm

And Elsewhere is their favourite place to be 🙂

Year of the Cat
Year of the Cat
December 29, 2014 6:09 pm
Reply to  Pegasus

I got 2 brothers,one a Lib Sun and Sagg Moon and Asc and and the other a Sagg Sun and Gem Moon and Asc. Both are hard to pin down. Libra is never where he is spose to be. Both are salesman and wanderers.

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 29, 2014 2:41 pm
Reply to  anon

Give a short plausible excuse e.g. Sorry we can’t make it but I/my child have/has food poisoning. Migraine? As long as the narcissist has an audience she is unlikely to worry about a guest or two dropping out.

And be sure not to post any selfies on NYE.

Lady L
Lady L
December 29, 2014 3:12 pm
Reply to  Gemyogi

Good advice Gemyigi.

The mock illness can then also be ‘the reason’ why Anon pulls back and avoid contact with toxic person post-NYE.

BTW on the topic of selfies, saw on Twitter that selfie stick is known as ‘narcissustick’.

Hope you get out of the dreaded party Anon! I myself abhor most parties as it is, and this one sounds especially diabolical!

Happy New Year to all! Wishing everyone lots of free time, balmy sea breezes, good books & cake, delicious cake. 🙂

Skye
Skye
December 30, 2014 5:00 am
Reply to  Gemyogi

I would pick the excuse option if dealing with narcissist.

Would usually choose that for people I haven’t totally written off tho personally.

I’m the queen of abrupt contact cutting when I finally have enough. Aqua elements = sudden WTF.
But it pisses people off when I do it. Have a gem friend who did it with such style that she could cull you from her contact list and you’d still think she’ll call you any minute… Yep any minute now ( four years later… Any minute now)

How much more do you want to put up with ?

Miuesse
Miuesse
December 29, 2014 3:47 pm
Reply to  anon

I read your note and thought to respond. From past observations + professional experience re. this type of scenario… don’t go and don’t reply – that is, don’t give any explanation as to why. You don’t need to explain once you have given an answer. If you RSVP ‘yes’ – one doesn’t give an answer as to why they ARE GOING. So when you RSVP ‘no’ the same rule applies. No EXPLANATIONS required! 🙂 most people forget this, and with narcissist personality syndrome this just feeds further into their warped/unrealistic sense of reality. Bottom line: Don’t go. Don’t explain yourself.… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo
December 30, 2014 7:50 am
Reply to  Miuesse

^so much this

echo-echo
echo-echo
December 29, 2014 6:10 pm
Reply to  anon

If this is a true narcissist I would butter them up with lots of compliments before giving my excuses…”Im so upset that I can’t attend your party this year, it is always such a glorious/awesome/fantastic event and I look forward to it for months but unfortunately my kid is sick/my dog is dying/ I f*ckin hate you….” well not the last one. But if you don’t want to make too many waves its necessary to throw the monster a little bs tidbit. 🙁

echo-echo
echo-echo
December 29, 2014 6:14 pm
Reply to  echo-echo

I know this sounds like a cop out – but you can’t not ‘play’ games with a narcissist – they never stop as its all they know, and as you already said it’s not a good idea to invoke their narcissistic rage if they have the means to hurt you. If it were me I would ‘fade out’ with these pleasantries over a few months – they begin to loose interest.

echo-echo
echo-echo
December 29, 2014 6:17 pm
Reply to  echo-echo

saturn is sagg means facing the truth of these peoples nature – and acting with wisdom and restraint, not going all gun ho and galloping into the sunset – that isn’t saturn at all – in my humble opinion anyway – Ive dealt with enough of these monsters to show the scars as proof of my learning

anon
anon
December 29, 2014 7:31 pm
Reply to  echo-echo

excellent advice!

sphinx
sphinx
December 29, 2014 7:48 pm
Reply to  echo-echo

Hey, don’t knock galloping into sunsets, that is a fave. 🙂

But this does remind me of a virgo technique known to me, where upon ticket evasion on trams, a long, long, monotone explanation of why there was no ticket machine and how it really was a shame and the full intent to buy the ticket but that at that station the..blah, blah, blah in the most boring, quiet voice possible ALWAYS resulted in the waiving of fines.

sphinx
sphinx
December 29, 2014 8:36 pm
Reply to  sphinx

😯 never done it of course.. but I know it works with narcissists & drama addicts!

echo-echo
echo-echo
December 30, 2014 2:21 am
Reply to  sphinx

lol! I don’t think I would be game to do that but would love to see someone else try! hopefully my intense amusement wouldn’t blow their cover 😀

Chrysalis
Chrysalis
December 30, 2014 5:00 pm
Reply to  echo-echo

Definitely this. They need to feel like it is your loss. The merest hint that you are reconsidering your attachment to them will have their psycho vengeful streak working overtime to crush you.

pi
pi
December 30, 2014 5:10 am
Reply to  anon

Maybe try reverse psychology. Go to the party. Show up drunk and/or high, in fancy dress. Vomit on her lounge. Embrace and passionately kiss her partner in full view of everyone, when you arrive (forewarn your own husband). Spill drinks on her, play Bon jovi on the stereo, song along. or start a fight with the dj. Bring bottles of the worst sparkling wine (not champagne) you can find and force them on her as you arrive telling her how fabulous it is. Any luck you will horrify her into never speaking to you again. You may need to have… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx
December 30, 2014 6:22 am
Reply to  pi

Ooh, if Virgo rules narcissist evasion techniques via acting drab, then is the above the Leo or Pisces version Narcissist Evasion Tecnique? There needs to be be a technique for every sign cos there lots of narcissists to avoid out there 😉

davidl
davidl
December 29, 2014 6:20 am

Thanks Myst x I had just asked about my January from I Ching ! Your reading for Aries is totally in sync with Confucius. Here is what he said. “The superior man abides in his room. If his words are well spoken, he meets with assent at a distance of more than a thousand miles. How much more then from near by! If the superior man abides in his room and his words are not well spoken, he meets with contradiction at a distance of more than a thousand miles. How much more then from near by! Words go forth… Read more »

seagoat
seagoat
December 29, 2014 5:24 am

Thanks Mystic. If Jan is anywhere near as intense as Dec, bloody hell, hold on. Btw, that picture keeps drawing me back to it. why?x

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0
December 29, 2014 4:27 am

I read them before you even got this post up, Mystic lol! Have been feeling this epic astro energy building, building, & compulsively checking your monthly page: what’s happening, what does Mystic say?? Thank you for your always astute interps & generous info dissemination. Empowering! And you couldn’t overstate it: January will be one for the books, no doubt.

“With great power comes great responsibility.”

x

gemyogi
gemyogi
December 29, 2014 10:12 pm
Reply to  AnkhRising8.0

Yes I am feeling change and new energy… loving Saturn in Saggo. I feel that change will be quite easy in Jan/Feb, refining and decluttering in all areas of my life. I’ve applied for a great new job (totally different to my work for the past 15 years) and fingers crossed I have enough volunteer experience and have written a good enough application to get an interview. I have a good feeling, but don’t want to get my hopes up. Interviews will be mid Jan so I’m detaching until then.

cal
cal
December 29, 2014 11:36 pm
Reply to  gemyogi

woo hoo!! good luck GY, and all the best to ALL the PIABs for the new year! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0
December 30, 2014 5:29 am
Reply to  cal

xxxxxxxxxxx

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 30, 2014 2:36 pm
Reply to  cal

Thanks Cal and blessings to you xx

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0
December 30, 2014 5:23 am
Reply to  gemyogi

How appropriate for this new Saturn energy that you’re applying for a fresh vocational direction with the work & time that you invested under the old Saturn! And Plutonian new moon in Cap to boot? Transformation a go go! Way to work the astro, Gemyogi 🙂 You’re on to something *big*!

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0
December 30, 2014 5:26 am
Reply to  AnkhRising8.0

Full moon, I mean! It just feels new 😉

Endings & beginnings, one in the same…

Gemyogi
Gemyogi
December 30, 2014 2:36 pm
Reply to  AnkhRising8.0

Yes, hope it works out. I’m sooo ready for a change of career! Thanks and happy 2015 to you AR

Chrysalis
Chrysalis
December 30, 2014 4:58 pm
Reply to  gemyogi

Fab news GY, good luck! Sending positive vibes your way xxxx

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