thank you, THANK YOU, for this amazing list of ways to lovingly exorcise qi vampires!
I’ve been battling one hell of a manipulative/hostile/pass-agg/whatever, you name it – she has gone there – qi vamp for three years (our tumultuous bff/frenemies relationship morphed into a business partnership because I thought I could save/change her), & finally, thanks to your wisdom, had the willpower & confidence to cut ties & prance away. my 12-card tarot readings last month said to strategize on the next saggo new moon, so this morning I meditated on detachment & how I don’t need anything from her–not for her to hear or believe me, not for her to change, grow, apologize, or “forgive” me, anything! because I finally see how I can’t change her.
lo & behold, this afternoon she sent me her most ridic email yet. My double-aquarius partner helped me draft a professional & minimalist exit, & I have smudged my house/lined salt at the door/am currently on a cleaning binge.
praise be to the saggo new moon! praise be to the zap zone!!
~gem moon/kataka sun/lionness rising
My Dear Gem Moon/Kataka Sun/lioness rising,
She morphed into a business partner? Holy Hecate. That would be extremely difficult to unravel but you DID IT! I think that, with Qi Vampires OR any situation that is vamping your Qi, identification is two thirds of the issue. For instance, if you are a Love Zombie, you are your OWN Qi Vampire unless you are using it to fuel transformation.
But basically once you have grokked the situation, the actual ending is relatively easy. It’s the confusion and soggy feeling when you don’t know what’s going on but you always feel like there is ill-defined thing that you have to make amends for.
“A toxic person robs you of your self-esteem and dignity and poisons the essence of who you are. He or she wears down your resistance and thus can make you mentally or physically ill. Toxic people are not life-supporting.” Toxic People – Lillian Glass.
Go you! And yes, with the Zap Zone switched up to the max setting now and till April, who even has the TIME for these creatures?
Image: Rene Gruau