Love Zombie For A Week But It Felt So Good

Miles Aldridge

Dear Mystic,

For the past 4 or 5 years I have managed to stay away from the love zombie trap. I have dated, been the dumper and the dumpee. I have quietly and peacefully hermitized my self when i felt I have needed it. I have given loving and grounding advice/ support to my friends who keep themselves in constant love zombie mode. I have been in control of my emotions, actions, squelching most lower neptunian influences. But the peeps I have been dating, well lets say there have been no spark.

But this summer I started a postcard/ snail mail friendship flirtation with a cute hippie/rambling skater boy turned med student. Total paper sparks!!!

About a month ago I was traveling through his town and we decided to meet.
For me it was instant attraction.(He is a Capricorn with Aquarius rising)

The first time we sat down and started talking a little voice in my head said “I will make out with you tonight!” He smelt like catnip to me. We had a wonderful day/night together conversing about travels, art then later in the evening dancing together in dark corners away from the crowd at a music show.

I left the next morning and on the way home I felt it. My emotions started to take over my rational brain.
Three hours later, when I reached my house, I immediately started to cyber lurk. I’m not on facebook thank god, but there is insturdgram and other sites for me to gaze upon. I figured out his birth chart sans the actual time. I started calculating our atro compatibility. I was fantasizing about the future. I mean I would totally move there! It will be amazing etc etc.

But I was at war with myself. The other side of my mind told me to stop it. I told myself all the things I have been telling my friends. But I couldn’t stop!!!! ahhh! I made a diagram. real facts of the encounter vs my unrealistic desires. This was no help!!!

A week later I received two texts from him, one stating he had a great time and the convos we shared had a profound effect on him. The other text came a few days later, stating that he doesn’t like text, talking on the phone, only likes writing snail mail. ooof. (not good for me as I love chatting on the phone and communication in general)

So basically this is an unavailable person. But deep down I wished that he would say “I don’t like these things, but you are worth the trouble”. That he would like me enough to talk on the phone and develop a relationship that is more than just one night. (total fatasy!!!)

Why??? Is it my sun, venus and eros in Pisces that has made me vulnerable to unrealistic love?

Anyway, I feel the effects fading. I let myself lean into it. Stopped fighting with myself, but have stayed super aware of what my mind is doing.

So I tell myself it is okay to I feel this way as long as I learn something from it.

Anyway thank you for letting me vent. I can’t wait to read your new book!!!

 Is there ever an instance when being a love zombie is good?

I was wondering this because lately I have been dangerously close to becoming full blow cynical about dating/mating.

My little trip to love zombie land has taught me to lighten up a bit. Not to become so obsessed with “where is this going” and to enjoy the adventure.

Anyway thanks for listening,
Sun Pisces+ Gemini rising+LEO moon= warm mist
(I actually frequently dream that I am mist)

 Love and blessings to you,
Water body with a Leo heart

Water Body, this does not sound Love Zombie ish to me. Maybe a tiny bit but even the fact you checked yourself screams NON-ZOMBIE…you know? Also, it is natural to have feelings/desire for someone you’ve been with and with whom  you share chemistry/rapport.

Let’s not worry about YOU in this instance – let’s look at HIM.  Send us the dude’s astro details and we will assess.  Capricorn with Aquarius Rising makes snail mail explicable – he thinks it is more private, he is trying to buck the obvious convention, he likes the elegance, he wants to analyze your handwriting, he is a stationery snob so will have the thread count of your paper checked out, he is a Luddite and fantasizes about coming over to smash up your computer before seducing you. I mean he clearly likes you.

And where is this at? Are you writing snail mail to him? I think that is cute – did not Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie recently exchange correspondence thus?  In fact, it’s AWESOME. You could WOW him with stationery fetish standard letters. In purple ink.  In fact, if you have his address, we could ALL write to him.

Thoughts?

Image: Miles Aldridge

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Aries gal
Aries gal

Ahhh…. guuuys…….. I think its all pretty straight forward. 1. had a lovely night sparks flew woo woo! The circumstances/situation set up the entire evening and vibe – awesome. 2. Geographically very hard (not impossible) but very hard. 3. Straight up does not like to text etc wants to do LETTERS? oh my god. So you can’t communicate quickly.. or have a lovely conversaiton via phone its LETTERs? really. wow. Come on. 4. She’s all about communication loves to talk text bla bla he does not need we say more? FIRST OF ALL – Both communication styles are way OFF.… Read more »

leogroover
leogroover

WTF? is it with men. i am def not going back to LZ land and am checking myself hard. Putting on brakes big time so I do not go over that cliff into the LZ abyss. i have lightened up, i was enjoying the adventure of our new style relationship and then BAM i get a giant shove into the limbo void between sanity and the land of Love Zombies. The sitch? The SO was busted today by moi on a dating site. Still in shock tried to talk to him but he went all defensive and shut down. he… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

WtF ?! Things too happy for him?? What an idiot he is

leogroover
leogroover

idiot is the word veronica

Anonymous
Anonymous

Sorry to hear that Leogroover. That sucks!!!! 🙁

That’s why i refuse to go back to online dating.

I dated a guy I met online and when we decided to be exclusive I asked him to delete his account. He did so but then 6 months later I discovered he was on another dating site. I brought it up and he tried to brush it off by saying nobody ever contacted him on that site. Like I was supposed to believe that?? Pfft.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I think guys get addicted to those sites. Not saying I disagree with you at all for calling him out on it and holding him accountable.

leogroover
leogroover

Its like a lolly shop- addictive for some yes. He said he would take it down but he hasn’t yet after 3 days. He said he was just looking but the temptation is always there and if its not one site it would be another like you said Anon.
Not sure what to do

Anon
Anon

just looking! but WHY????

I feel for you.

Alouetta
Alouetta

Oh he may be a keeper. Letter writing takes so much more effort than using a phone plus you can share yourself at a much more intimate level. I think it’s more honest. Write him a letter! If he writes back, then he’s worth another letter.

Btw this is my fave post and response from Mystic. It’s like seeing a bud sprout and ‘it might be a weed’, ‘no no dont pull it out, it might be beautiful!’.
Too early to tell.

calypso
calypso

i love it too, and i hope Water baby keeps us informed 🙂

catfish moon
catfish moon

Where to start…… Your awesome for being able to have perspective. You do not sound love zombie at all. Why should he change? Just to make you happy? Then it is doomed from the get go. My lover, Torro sun Scorpio moon, hates using the phone, does not text, etc. He knew we would run into each other often(tiny tiny village). My heart told me, yes he likes you, forget the rules. My heart was right. We saw each other often and all proceeded well and fast. Been together since a month in, years later. But as a water sign(cancer)… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

Sometimes minor zombiedom is kind of flattering but you are in no danger of becoming headless. I’m kind of glad I have my saturn transit through this neptuning and venus on my sun. Hello hot people just fell out of the sky this week and erm… wow. My playmate left back home and bam! 2 amazing people in the same week. Whats going on? I’m rolling with it but the universe is conspiring… no one lives here though, that would be to practical. So I am just keeping the door open and getting on with my life. My inbox is… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Aw, Happy Birthday Ms.! Everyone deserves their special day and you have always been special here. x

Now, you go twist on some tables tops, eh? Blow some horns, pop some streamers… 🙂

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

Happy Birthday Ms, blessings for the year ahead. xx

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Happy Birthday Ms sounds like this is a very exciting Saturn return : )

calypso
calypso

well why don’t you just go ahead an have a series of wonderful adventures for your birthday! enjoy 🙂 x

leogroover
leogroover

and big hugs to you Ms

Ms.
Ms.

Muchas Gracias PIAB Senoritas

Veronica
Veronica

Si! Feliz cumpleanos chica xxx

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Many years ago, my mentor & I were sitting at the bar of some hole in the fabric of time wall, podunk of a dive, sunburnt & with dirt under our fingernails. He took a pull of his SoCo & said to me, “Do you know what your problem is? You’re too smart.”

Dark moon in Scorpio doesn’t give two shits for grey areas. You’re in or you’re out, you’re dead or you’re alive. Sure you’re free to change your mind whenever, but you have to commit before you can flip flop. So pick one.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I agreed with this once. But I don’t anymore. What I’ve realized is it doesn’t matter what another says or does. When I stand in my own power, they can come and go without impacting me. I don’t have to make the ultimatum. I don’t need a vow. I need my own action and my own stillness. This is about a million miles from where I started when Pluto began squaring my AC, Mars, Pluto, and Mercury by transit. Power doesn’t pick promises. And it doesn’t cling to hope. It just is. Ha ha! That’s some nebulous shit right there.… Read more »

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

It’s not about the other. It’s about you. So we agree. Pick one.

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Who said anything about ultimatums? Not me.

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

*sigh* That old fuqer was so right.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

” You’re in or you’re out, you’re dead or you’re alive.”

That’s an ultimatum, which means “a final demand or statement of terms”

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Nope. *You* decide, has nothing to do with the other. It’s a Convo You Have With Your Self. Can you take “the other” out of your perspective here? Omg I dont know how you can agree with me but argue about it at the same time, 12hv. Whatevs lol

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Oh, I think I understand now. Its a pronoun problem. I thought you were telling them “You are…” not as in yourself decided. D’oh

sweetpea
sweetpea

Know you have worked a lot with this 12hv. You have come a long way as know you are Venus sq Neptune and I am the opposition. Think that those aspects eventually break illusions which of course is painful. It helps us to break our attachments which of course is painfull 🙂 but in the end a gift, don’t ya thunk? Sounds like you so got it.. It’s a really crappy maze to have to sort thru…just so sucks. I would so do things differently now with the Pisces/Venus in Aqua but at the time I didn’t know any better.… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Wanted to add that the scriptures say “there shalt not have another god before Me”

That means your inner Self and your communion with that Self which this world so easily distracts one from.

To me, Neptune and Venus is about delusional love but then a higher love. Just used to love that song “Higher Love”

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I don’t know. My Saturn 3rd house transit has started and my siblings have been hitting me with the Jesus hammer. I’m not touching the scriptures right now.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Local Radio station says “desperate equals broke equals stupid”
Of course I have laughed at that but at the same time identified with it.
Realize that so many things I have said and one here was an attempt ot save myself.

Some of you bouth it and some of you didn’t…lol…

Of course it was never calculated.

One of the things that got me thru was remembering the Angle who cameto my bedsiede when I was 27 yrs old. Thats what I clung to because it was real.

And Mystic did a post about a clown and I knew she understood.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

“I never knew that I did hold the power” Because Neptune blurs boundaries. Its what Neptune does.

sweetpea
sweetpea

“Scriptures” haha…understand.

Had meant to say the song I have always loved is In Your Eyes…Peter Gabriel.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Dang, another Cap Moon…My faves always are. He is Aqua

sweetpea
sweetpea

Hey, didn’t want to come off as disingenuous…..What you said
has touched me.

sweetpea
sweetpea
leogroover
leogroover

dang SP love the way you say dang. any hood your desperate quote is music to my ears.

AnkhRising8.0
AnkhRising8.0

Or, ok, maybe the idea of not attempting to wield power over others is so foreign to you that you totally missed me from the get go. I’ve never issued an ultimatum to another. Ultimatums are b.s. But all of this is so beside the point! The point *was* that under a dark Scorpio moon, shit is black & white; Scorpio dislikes grey areas. If you would like to argue that with me, my perception of Scorpio dark moons, be my guest 🙂 But you’ll have to go it alone from here on out.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I totally read that “you” as being directed at the Aquarian male in the situation. I have 4 out of 10 planets in Libra – everything is about the other. And I was never in an argument with you, particularly over perceiving the moon – at any station or in any sign.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Plus, the English language really does need more pronouns. I’ve run into this problem with others – understanding their language – before.

6
6

Im with you 12hv, I never read your comments as arguing, I understood clearly that there was just a personal language barrier operating here. – it happens with everyone, and I especially come across this all the time as well.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Thanks. We could use ore “You” s in English

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Its really hard to take things as they come, isn’t it? More and more, I think “love zombie” is just another way for saying “control freak.” Que sera, sera. Same as it ever was. xo

islandgirl
islandgirl

Sure, but i guess it’s all a matter of degrees. There’s the crush and obsessive thinking about someone we’ve only recently met and been attracted to, which I think is normal, no? Then there’s the hopeless situation where you know that it is hopeless, either becoz the other person is unavailable, married, or no damned good for you, yet you obsess in the most pathetic way that ultimately stops you from living a normal life – that to me is LZism. I don’t think Water Body’s case is that of a LZ – it sounds like an interesting interlude with… Read more »

islandgirl
islandgirl

Hi 12hv, i also think you’re right about LZ and it’s relationship to control freakery. Maybe the term LZ is being used in vain too often.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I do think its being over used. Because when you’re in a place of acceptance, you aren’t being a lz. Its only when you’re convincing yourself or trying to convince others of how its going to end or needs to be that the problem starts.

calypso
calypso

NAMING LOVE TOO EARLY is a beautiful but harrowing human difficulty. Most of our heartbreak comes from attempting to name who or what we love and the way we love, too early in the vulnerable journey of discovery. We can never know in the beginning, in giving ourselves to a person, to a work, to a marriage or to a cause, exactly what kind of love we are involved with. When we demand a certain specific kind of reciprocation before the revelation has flowered completely we find our selves disappointed and bereaved and in that grief may miss the particular… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

^What he said, 🙂

Thanks for sharing that, Calypso

calypso
calypso

the idea of proud disappointment is interesting, no?

leogroover
leogroover

totes agree on proud disapointment- its a Leo curse. Know it own it urrrgh

Water Body
Water Body

Hello guys!
I love all of the thoughtful comments and feedback. I realize that these things rarely have teeth. I will continue to reciprocate writing if he does the same. But because I enjoy it , not because of an imagined future/ fantasy outcome.

He birth deets are Jan 20 1980 Sacramento CA. I believe at 8 am. But that is only a guess.

What do you think about it?

Ms.
Ms.

you sound like you enjoy it and are having fun. when its not fun then you know. all the best x

Alouetta
Alouetta

Good attitude. My thoughts on letter writing are below 🙂

AquariCrab
AquariCrab

In my experience, the love of communication has been a part of being drawn into lovezombiehood. The joy of writing that oh so witty letter, text or email, from planning it in my head to editing to get it just right. I have Venus in gemini but I guess anybody can fall for that lure. I guess it is also the intertwine of creativity and libido. The antidote? It’s hard when you love communicating in that way. I guess it’s better all round to find a more appreciative recipient or throw the energy into another form of writing, like journal… Read more »

seethingcalm
seethingcalm

I agree with this. I’m Venus in Gem too, also Kataka with Aqua rising. Witty/creative communication feels like a high that lures me into LZombiedom. It’s happened with every single person I’ve dated longterm. The first talk/date is mostly nonstop communication, and I get the LZ buzz immediately. I was even led into a really weird relationship with a very strange person because he communicated in the most fascinating way, and it really TURNED ON my root chakra—I was on fire through his words alone! All other rational considerations flew out the window. So I def experience a connection between… Read more »

seethingcalm
seethingcalm

also forgot to mention my Gem Venus is opposite Neptune…

firefish
firefish

I have had the most amazing correspondance relationships, and was just thinking this week how much i miss writing letters, as kids took over and i just lost the thread, but its the most amazing deeply satisfying experience and no better way to get to truely know a person, i like the idea of not texting and abhor the phone unless its a really old pal…im also pisces, gem rising, and somehow that form of communication really brings out the bestest in me, i say go for it, and enjoy the slow seduction of it, even if it is only… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx

I am interested in this mist affinity.
Those elemental sensations are pleasurable in my experience.
Had a past life regression where I was some kind of extreme shape shifter and experienced being a shoal of fish, birds in flight, then particles of sand etc.
I couldn’t maintain my form & lurched from experience to experience, which felt tiring.
Anyhoo. As a Scorp Moon with Gem Asc & Leo Sun, maybe I can be petroleum puddle with slick rainbows shimmering in the sun after the rain, 😉 .

islandgirl
islandgirl

I want some of what you’re having! 🙂

But seriously – I can relate – I’ve had *experiences* where I’ve felt I was a cloud/mist of colour particles/light.

pi
pi

Wait! I can contribute something relevant for once! A very old (long time not elderly) sweet and rarely seen Pisces friend of mine is an official Letter Writer. Charming and thoughtful, these letters were official old-school correspondence, a little thing from a place here, short note penned elsewhere. not deliberate endless tracts of text Day before me: moon in cap too. Huh. I was a little taken aback not having written and posted things since my grandmother passed away a few years earlier (bless her Virgo soul) but I actually really, really like the idea. There was no motive thing,… Read more »

pi
pi

Agh! “His birthday the day before me” text eaten

pi
pi

I always always insist on postcards from pals and relatives overseas. Facebook is the travel correspondence equivalent of putting tomato sauce on everything you eat

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

Ha ha Love it Pi ! May i plagiarize ? xx

sweetpea
sweetpea

lol..yeah, Pi you are the cutest ever.

Don’t do facebook…I’m now too thoroughly paranoid but besides that do love sending holiday cards to my family, or shall I say “postcards from the edge”…

Of insanity? (Iva Davies….)

No, just Palm Springs. Living like I was a tourist for the last several yrs is what got me into this mess…lol

See, I wonder why if one is born into this world, they can’t just live like a tourist? I mean I’m only passing by. Nothing serious… ha

pleiadian pisces
pleiadian pisces

Omfg….this was awesome…as fellow pisces sun i am so effing impressed by your control!..i was totally zombified after a first date to someone who never spoke to me on phone for 5 months….err totally keeping me at a distance but i kept falling..and.as predicted….dumped…once…he came back…dumped again….cried in foetal position for a couple days…then devoted myself to my spiritual path …again…new lessons under belt….number one….when neptune is totally exactly conj natal sun….trust no one except intuition…it was telling me from day one. Check out how it feels in ur gut….it doesnt lie 😉

np
np

Right, wow, talk about synchronicity.. only a few days after my first ever post, this one comes along, almost the same kind of stuff that got me lurking/subscribing here in the first place! yes, lets have the astro!

movedon
movedon

I personally have very fond memories of my one and only love zombie episode and classify him as a major influence on my life path thereafter the ‘event’. Take him up on the offer and see what happens. Immediate chemistry is so rare it just might be more than just LZ, and this is from a Pisces with sun, Venus, Chiron and Saturn all in the 8th house. One can always savour the handwritten much more romantically than short text messages via the glaringly bright electronic screen that somehow kills the ambience of the message. I reckon his first message… Read more »

movedon
movedon

Heck, what the heck. Bloody auto correct.

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

A sexy pen pal is probably not enough if what the LW wants is assurance of a proper relationship in the here-and-now.

That said, my Taurus girlfriend began a very long relationship with a Cap guy exactly like this, except they lived in the same city. Snail mail/mix tapes. It only took a month or two for them to decide it couldn’t wait anymore. If you have the patience, it could be sweet.

Ms.
Ms.

thats kind of cute.

Blisswitch
Blisswitch

My husband doesn’t like phone calls either.

I pretty much told him when we started dating that we would have to move in together for it to work because I would need to talk to him every day and he wasnt about to start calling haha

seafaun
seafaun

hehehe I love that. I can’t talk on the phone either. Its sad when people feel hurt by it, it really doesn’t mean they are unimportant. Its special you could see that with your husband! 🙂 I would swim oceans to talk to them face to face, just cant do phone! My throat closes up and panic ensues and its the most exhausting thing!

LCG
LCG

Mystic’s hit the nail on the head. A Cap doesn’t play hard to get, he *is* hard to get, and the things she’s mentioned will certainly turn him on. Add into the mix an Aqua rising, which will want to make sure you can handle independence and distance before you’re allowed to make contact, and you have a classic test. I would do exactly as she says. And one more thought. A Pisces to a Cap is either too watery / flaky or just the opposite — carries the aura that they go back for ages, connecting way back into… Read more »

stone cold Pi
stone cold Pi

Nup. Well done. I’d call that an intensive crush based on actual events, so you might be out of the lz danger zone imo…
Other than that, in my experience and learnings 2010-2013, if he ain’t callin, we ain’t talkin!

Baristagem
Baristagem

😯

‘In fact, if you have his address, we could ALL write to him.’

😆 😆 😆

sunshine
sunshine

Yeah, wouldn’t the private Cap just love that! Think Mystic is off here. I wouldn’t write. IMO the guy has rationalized his preference for snail mail in some way, probably as defiance against technology, when his real purpose is to maintain distance. Not wishing to at least speak on the phone to someone you care about/is a friend is not normal. My money is that he’s one of those guys with major intimacy issues that he masks with intellectualized mumble jumble about ART, the romance of the pen blah, blah, blah. It’s just a better sounding BS line. Think you’re… Read more »

Z
Z

There is truth to this.

sweetpea
sweetpea

haha, I laughed at that. Can you imagine the deluge? when I was about 17/18 had my first love…A Pisces of course. He was six yrs older and he moved to Neveda. We did have tons of fun writing snail as back in the 70’s not much choice. But my Mars in Gem sure loved giving him the juicy details of what I would do to him 😯 Many yrs later my Aqua neurosurgeon and I dated a brief stint.Know that doctors are busy but he would never call…just email and ask me out. Small catch…I hadn’t yet been able… Read more »

flowerchild
flowerchild

I love it! It takes much more effort and thought to write an actual letter or postcard. These days it shows someone cares and wants to take the time to do this. Texting is a no-brainer, lazy, too much instant gratification and people rely on it so they don’t have to put any more effort in than that, or in exchange of meeting in person. If this guy is going to go to the lengths to write you a hand written letter, he likes you genuinely, and willing to spend time thinking about you, and the time getting stamps and… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

I always always insist on postcards from pals and relatives overseas. Facebook is the travel correspondence equivalent of putting tomato sauce on everything you eat

Scorpio
Scorpio

My thoughts exactly, as soon as I read he was a Capricorn. It’s not you, it’s him. Trust me, I’ve been there. I’d even go so far as to say there are no such thing as love zombies, only those Water signs who love to communicate who fall for a Capricorn who hates talking on the phone. Am I right?

np
np

or air signs that love to communicate with earth signs who are wildly gifted in the writing department but “don’t like texting” hmm

The Baroness
The Baroness

All my exes have been Earth signs. And all of them LOVE to talk. For hours. On the phone. WHEN they truly dig someone (or want to shag them, lol).

moss
moss

As a Cap, I agree. I intensely dislike talking on the phone & texting but if I am into someone, I will talk all night on the phone.

np
np

True enough. This was the case also.. Just incommunicado right now with no explanation. Virgo sun

Z
Z

I’m Capricorn and I hate talking on the phone only because I work on the phone to earn my keep so I don’t like to extend that to my leisure time.

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

Write on ! Enjoy card shopping in off the beaten track book shops. I understand the phone thing. I wouldnt take it personally. Taking yourself off to an art gallery / museum cafe to write about the fascinating exhibition you’ve just seen … Or better still, a space museum ! or planetarium ! An Observatory … A cafe at the end of a ferry ride … A cafe near the beach .. pick up a touristy postcard from an out of town area … Short notes are fine, i wouldnt post next letter / card until he has matched you… Read more »

Charles
Charles

I just wanted to mention a particularly wonderful turn of phrase in the Daily Mystic, “delusional economics,” which I am dubbing “delusionomics.”

sphinx
sphinx

That should be an asteroid. I bet I would have it conjunct Neptune in the 2nd.

The Baroness
The Baroness

*chuckles*

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

I think writing letters to each other is wildly romantic and say do it and do it with soul

Ms.
Ms.

exactly, romance. (aw) whats wrong with being romantic and inspired? how is this zombieland?

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Yeah you’d have to catch two buses and a train to get to zombieland from there

Anonymous
Anonymous

😀

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

I concur!
As a Capricorn the very few times I have received hand-written letters of courtship have been the most insanely romantic and sexy thing. We need more letter writing!! Even I would go Zombie over a letter writer.

Recommended listening: PJ Harvey – The Letter
“can’t you see
in my handwriting
the curve of my ‘g’
the longing…”

http://youtu.be/XwJk2wXsIZI

Z
Z

I used to love listening to that song. I’m a Capricorn and I like handwriting a lot. I like to see how the people I like write and get really turned off when people spell incorrectly and often.

The Baroness
The Baroness

Is it just me or does EVERY guy who says he hates the phone once he falls in infatuation with some unattainable woman across the country/world all of a sudden becomes a Skype/Phone addict? Go ahead and write the letters, dahlink, but I think the ‘attraction’ is not a romantic one. At least not anytime in the forseeable future (not trying to be a downer, just a practical Taurus who has been around the paddock more than a few times). I made a decision to un-LZ late last week. Been a fantastic, generous week. Saw a GORGEOUS guy yesterday who… Read more »

Water Body
Water Body

I think deep down I agree with you. But I will keep writing letters because I enjoy it. And it is good practice for when the real deal comes along.

The Baroness
The Baroness

Write, darling, write. I’m a compulsive one. I kiss every envelope before I post it. I still send postcards!

Good to see you can enjoy the romance of connection without blinding yourself. Even Mystic knows the chart only reflects so much. And when a man wants a woman, he comes for that woman. ALWAYS. Whether now or later, he comes 🙂

Z
Z

Annoying when the one you like never comes but the ones you don’t care about won’t leave you alone 🙁

The Baroness
The Baroness

Eeeeeeeeek!

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Well done on NOT moving to wherever the dude lives and diving past his house every night.

No harm in a little snail mail—hey convenient—means there will be no awkward moments when a dude rings you while you’re with another dude and you have to pretend it’s a telemarketer/work colleague/your mum.

have fun and who knows what might happen….

bubbles
bubbles

yummmmmm write the letters write the letters

susan said so
susan said so

Holy cow, this is my favorite Dear Mystic & response ever! I love everything about both.

(& you frequently dream you’re MIST?! how awesome is THAT?!)

Yes, let’s all write him. I used to participate in a snail mail group called postcardX. Snail mail from strangers all over the world. It was fabulous.

xo, Susan

p.s. Let’s see this dude’s astro!

The Baroness
The Baroness

I started one of those! Everyone got mine, I got none in return 🙁

pearl
pearl

um, is there a time factor to be measured in the diagnosis of Love Zombiedom? if this guy is making himself difficult to connect with, why chase? nah, I say enjoy the memory.

PlutonicUranian
PlutonicUranian

MEN DON’T TALK. WE VOCALIZE. Sheesh, what is so hard about understanding that? He’s a Cap…increments, woman!!! He’s Aquarian…do something different!!! IT’S LOVE!!! You’re only a “zombie” AFTER the fact.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Hmm. Well said. The cap / aqua analysis. Cap = increments, spot on. Pi

catfish moon
catfish moon

Agreed! And when did snail mail equal difficult. He prefers that. So what.

PlutonicUranian
PlutonicUranian

Snail mail is about as romantic as a man can get. I’m missing something here.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Question: What if a man sends you something snail mail belonging to you, when you hadnt personally given him your mailing address?

leogroover
leogroover

after the fact love it david

Water Body
Water Body

I snorted hot cocoa out my nose whilst reading this!!! I love the picture too. Yep that was pretty much me for a week. Thank you Mystic xoxo

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