Dating The Zodiac: Scorpio

Scorpio and dating

Scorpio and dating

People, pull yourself out of your Taurus Moon Carb Coma, Existential Angst Over American Politics and Mars in Capricorn Status Anxiety long enough to contribute to Dating the Zodiac: Scorpio.

Once I DID date a Scorpio, and I am still too paranoid to even mention this person as they are obsessive, litigious and more than likely well connected in poltergeist circles.

But you guys are not wimps – I know it – go ahead and tell all. We learn via our commingling of human experiences, do we not? Patchouli incense and batik comfort muslin optional.

Double Scorp offers a full range of hope:

‘I’m a Scorp married to a Scorp. He is the most delicious, intense, wise soul I’ve ever come across. He can also be maddeningly annoying, sensitive, and be an opinionated back seat driver about EVERYTHING. I’m pretty sure I’m the same. I’m eternally grateful how groovy he is with changing himself and getting over his shit. He’s incredibly loyal and committed. Both of us are stubborn as fuck about being married for the rest of our lives. We are both pretty dedicated to getting over our shit, healing, and evolving. Any miracles can be achieved because of that.’

method in my moonchildness isn’t so sure…

‘As a Cancer moon, I try to avoid Scorpio energy. Yes, it’s very compelling and intense, but in the end, not worth it. I find it always starts well, but then suddenly they drop out, which doesn’t mesh very well with the cancer moon need for security. And when it gets really bad, I have way too many buttons that can be pushed by Scorpio mind games.’

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Double Scorp
Double Scorp

I’m a Scorp married to a Scorp. He is the most delicious, intense, wise soul I’ve ever come across. He can also be maddeningly annoying, sensitive and be an opinionated back seat driver about EVERYTHING. I’m pretty sure I’m the same. I’m eternally grateful how groovy he is with changing himself and getting over his shit. He’s incredibly loyal and committed. Both of us are stubborn as fuck about being married for the rest of our lives. We are both pretty dedicated to getting over our own shit, healing and evolving. Any miracles can be achieved because of that. Hard… Read more »

samantha
samantha

I haven’t ever dated a scorp which on reflection suprises me. Generally speaking I like them a lot. Being a triple Cancer I tend to click with them. ( I do Pisces too) One of my besties is a scorp lady who is awesome. Shy and doesn’t like to be touched or hugged as someone else mentioned above. She can be very intense and feels things intensley and also has a very naughty side that comes out when you get to know her but she is also very loyal and faithful to her husband. Another good friend who I work… Read more »

jen
jen

“dating a scorpio” – or any other sign – is a 2 way thing. what dysfunctional bits did you bring? (yes, I’m a scorpio – most of my friends – and lovers – seem not to have had problems with that)

Ms.
Ms.

its everyone else’s fault didn’t you know 😉 x

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Pay attention, guys…every single one of these Dating The Zodiac posts has comments mostly about people’s negative experiences with the sign. That’s the entertaining stuff, right?

Pisces lady
Pisces lady

I’ve dated a nasty scorpio (who also happens to be the best lover ive ever had). He was a good friend but a terrible romantic partner. Insecure, cruel and easily threatened. Jealous. Extremely mean to assert his power over me. Driven by fear and self loathing… that was 7 years ago. Now i have a beautiful and gentle SCORPIO boyfriend. He def has some elements of scorp im familiar with – broody, sexy, temper, but unlike prev scorp he is not cruel he is not mean or insecure. Hes kind and loving. I have seen the bitterness towards others. The… Read more »

6
6

Ok this thread explains a lot. I know someone with Pluto-Uranus straddling my Mars in Virgo that has been confounding my senses as to his motivations as he is not even available. That comment above about the library, claustrophobic lighting and couch – omg this guy is technically not a Scorpio but he is being a Scorpio with me. He’s invaded my dreamscape, stalking me, always watching me out of the corner of his eyes, bored holes through me when I’m around… #_# I feel like his piece of meat when we have no actual relationship!! Im glad I never… Read more »

katacato
katacato

Would Euripides’ Medea end up on the recommended or non?
To be honest, it was like a tonic for me last week.
Cleared my case of the old LZ right up.

Cher
Cher

Leo gal….the Scorpio fella I met….WOW…..well actually we didn’t meet….more like a hadron super collider thru us together……something works for us at a subatomic level….it was elemental……all the good stuff people have said and some of the bad….very haunted when I first met him……so embarrassing just being in a room with him and other people…..the air in small places would like get super charged and everyone else is getting fried and they’d know it….even when we were on opposite sides of a room. Was love of my life…was spoiled…still love him…..but connection was hard to deal with…….it was like he… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

I dunno, I don’t think any of the haute team scorpio cares much because everyone has a story and its better to vent (and learn?) some people had some pretty hardcore experiences and they are worth noting.. Its something you deal with constantly being a scorpio, we can deal, let them vent.

It would be nice however for other signs to have the same attitude when same sun posts hit. Over identifying with shit peoples behaviour based on your sun sign is a bit, whatever.

Amelie Aveling
Amelie Aveling

I know we’re aiming for something other than Fuqimg the Zodiac, but… I refer to the Sex and the City episode featuring Mr Pussy. The Scorpio I dated was Mr Pussy realised. The sex was amazing. So amazing that I turned into a Love Zombie. It actually left me scared I would never have… ahem… It… so good again. He was distant, always thinking deeply and slightly aloof, though I think that might have been his Saggitarian Venus. It was all super casual and I believe we were both sleeping with other people. When he came over to break up… Read more »

cortscortscorts
cortscortscorts

4 words – DON’T GO THE SCORPIO! That is all..

sweetpea
sweetpea

Funny as all get out is Jim Carey’s Saturday Night Live spoof of Scorp Matthew Mc’s Lincoln commercial.

Funny as hell.

sweetpea
sweetpea
sweetpea
sweetpea

Jim Carrey is Scorp/Neptune rising, Moon in Gemini. Gotta love him.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Years ago I worked for a small country Chiro doc. He was a Scorpio who liked to take his Kataka wife on road trips, on his motorcycle. They got divorced and then married again! I liked her a lot except that she was a bit too fundamental Christian….”God cries for us…we are the scum of the earth”…What the hell? He was a bit on the quiet side but nice too. I used to call his personal office his “cave”. Back when, when I smoked cigarettes, my purse was in the closet and smelled of tobacco. He didn’t say a word,… Read more »

moonstark
moonstark

Eeeek, no. I’m a little gun shy of scorpionic men these days, although my current boyfriend is a scorpio sun & merc, but he is a lovely & refined creature thanks to his libra rising/venus. Definitely sex obsessed, which is fun only some of the time. All of his darkness — and appreciation of — seems to be expressed through art, which is far better than the personal drama and betrayal narratives that most scorp men seem to entertain. My real scorpio blast was from a scorp rising conjuct mars scorpio. Truly the devil with uranus in saggo in the… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Whoa…cool story. Love your “pseudo romantic Scorpio backlash”.

Sounds like you have come a long way. Don’t be afraid. If he hasn’t grown, he should be tho!

moonstark
moonstark

Thanks, sweet pea. glad there’s a suitable place for me to share… been anticipating the scorpio post!

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

They make some of the best songwriters.
Neil Young. Joni Mitchell. Gordon Lightfoot (all Canadians as well). Helen Reddy. Gram Parsons. Alannis Morrisette (Moon). Katy Perry. All of em have deep emotional intensity to their music.

But Neil is best. His written words are so evocative complimented by an array of eclectic styles and aural imagery. On the other hand, his guitar work sublimates the need for words. Truly a giant of modern music. Many stand in his shadow.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Katy Perry!! Ugh. You ruined the list.

And you forgot Bjork!

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

I don’t like her much but do admire her ‘bolshyness’. 1000 pardons on forgetn Bjork (and any other notables)

sweetpea
sweetpea

I love Katy Perry’s “Wide Awake”..At the end, the little girl stomps her foot and the boogey men go flying….something like that.

And hey, isn’t it Scorpbot’s birthday today?

Believe she said the 6th. Happy Birthday Scorpbot! Think she said she was going on holiday 🙂

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

HB Scorpybot

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Hey. Thanks for remembering.

Had a great little holiday. Was just perfect.

50 and feeling fabulous 🙂 x

sphinx
sphinx

wow! happy, happy birthday lovely scorpbot extraordinaire! glad to hear you had a wonderful time away, may it presage an awesome year for you, xx.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

🙂 well I have Saturn’s farewell party to look forward to. Yippee!! What does one wear? Formal attire I suppose. Lol. Can’t wait to get my diploma for approx 2.5 yrs of Saturn school 😛

calypso
calypso

yew! yeh! ta ta big Daddy!

and a very happy solar return to you Scorpbot!

roadhouse41
roadhouse41

Black Tar Heroin Of The Zodiac?

Oh, sure, if you have absolutely nothing else going on for the next thirty years and were planning to heave all your cash, time and self-respect into the Maw of Kali anyway, surrendering your uterus to that guy is an awesome Life Plan.

Anonymous
Anonymous

lol

Ms.
Ms.

classic

norbert
norbert

I have heard that scorpio men are very different to the women. Low men Haute women? I have always been perplexed by this. The men brood, the women exude. Anyone else have thoughts on this?

If
If

I haven’t had a relationship with a scorpio male – probably because I have so many planets sitting on my Scorp ascendant that we don’t attract.

But I have heard this too, about the men and the women.

I suspect the answer may lie in testosterone and its interaction with the less attractive Scorpio personality potentials – ie it can magnify the dominance games, the lack of trust, the stinginess. Then again, if he trusts you, testosterone can theoretically magnify the legendary Scorp capacity for protectiveness and sharing of resources, which probably explains why some are happily paired off to them.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-athletes-way/201310/testosterone-fuels-both-competition-and-protectiveness

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

Yes the women are awesome. They just exude power and charisma. <3 them!

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

I dont reckon women have a monopoly on haute in any sign. On this site l hear much about men and their failings; we have em no doubt. And l spose that is bcos it is mostly women on here. But lve experienced first hand 2 femme bosses who were A-Grade, Blue Ribbon, First Class Psychopaths. One a Taurean Stomper and the other a Meglamaniac Cap.

For every Turnbull there is an Abbott!!! (Scorp (Male) Politicians in Oz – for ppl not fr Australia)

pi
pi

Maybe it is because I am whatever, but I find men even at their most difficult easier to deal with than women, in my personal connections. I think it’s my own dynamics rather than any gender thing. I always found my father easier to confront and deal with than my mother. Guess that’s a starter.

Quitelight
Quitelight

That hasn’t been my experience, norbert. Haute Scorpio fiance, Low Scorpio former female bff. They had a lot in common (gorgeous, intense, intelligent, funny, passionate) when I met them, and they liked my honesty & clarity. But the more time I spent with each of them, the more they went in their own directions, high or low. They never warmed up to each other. Although my partner did his damndest to be positive & supportive while I rode out my tumultuous relationship with her, she resented the hell out of him & found a million little ways to show it.… Read more »

method in my moonchildness
method in my moonchildness

As a cancer moon, I try to avoid scorpio energy. Yes, it’s very compelling and intense but in the end, not worth it. I find it always starts well, but then suddenly they drop out, which doesn’t mesh very well with the cancer moon need for security. And when it gets really bad, I just have way too many buttons that can be pushed by scorpio mind games. This is scorpio suns and scorpio moons.

sphinx
sphinx

My hub has Cancer Moon in trine to my Scorpio Moon and we are best friends. Even tho super different, we get along great. And I would never play mind games, I am too busy and too honest for childish shenanigans. Dating a fixed moon can be of real benefit for long term relationships.
I would avoid button pushers, not scorpios.

method in my moonchildness
method in my moonchildness

Well, if I’m looking for fixedness and stability, I’ll take a Taurus over a scorp any day.

Katacato
Katacato

I had a two year relationship with a scorp right out of high school. Before then I was obsessed with him for years. pass-agg unrequited stuff. At shows, playing songs I wrote about him in front of he and the girl that eventually became his ex. Eventually we ended up together after my first high school boyfriend gave me my walking papers, but ours was a very friendship and informational exchange based relationship. I think in the two years we were together, even with a little domesticity/shacking up we still only traded “I love you’s” once or twice. maybe just… Read more »

catfish moon
catfish moon

yikes… 1st guy I kissed ….clingy , threatened to kill himself when I broke up with him(He’s fine 25 years later) 1st guy I said I love you too…..jealous, clingy, would not move on. Had sex with two others, only once each. One was slimy, manipulative, with many a tale of sexual exploration that went places I never would. The other was still hung up on his ex 2 years later. BOTH had the smallest penis I have experienced. Both were the worst lays…LOL. Married one, 14 years, almost 6 years later he won’t divorce me, even though we are… Read more »

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

WonderScorpGirl is a Scorp Sun, Venus, Mars & Neptune + Taurus Asc. All l can say is wow, wow n wow. I truly believe relationship placements, that are trine/sextile, are the best.

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

I think l live in Tasmania!

hi there
hi there

you’re a tasmaniac.

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

Can a Katakan enter the womb a second time?

clocklessmonster
clocklessmonster

Honest accounts here, only. There are plenty of good posts, but unfortunately, there are just a lot of shady scorps in the world… and it’s not so surprising. they are of the underworld.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Yes, it’ like it’s not cool to bash what is “supposedly cool”…but it’s not cool…on some levels..Am well acquainted without dating a Scorp.

Scorpio rules my 6th and Sagg Jupiter in 6th sextile Cap Moon in 8th.

The most transformative experience of my life was after dealing with 8th house emo issues which affected my health. Pluto was conjunct Jupiter.

Karma…Eventually it has to move if ya gonna get there….

sweetpea
sweetpea

So okay, yes, that was cool…

And Pluto did the trick by fuq. :0

😆

sweetpea
sweetpea

One of our therapists birthday is on Monday. It was hilar as each person’s name was put on the white board as to what they are bringing. I started it off with “Poo Poo Platter”…(believe that is a Thai appetizer tray?) Then ensued “handcuffs, condoms, lube, heroin, Special K ….apparently the Pisces doc is bringing “meat”…Pisces doc’s wife “marijuana pops”… They did not imply that but the other therapists went crazy. We need an outlet after being in those little rooms all day.. 😯 Like Pi said one time, “to let off steam”.. Scorp therapist is Sun and Saturn in… Read more »

Shinefromtheinside
Shinefromtheinside

LOVE! The only Scorp I ever dated, I married and now have a started a family with. He is the most loyal, stable, compassionate person I have ever known. I’ve literally dated the entire zodiac too… lol, but he is absolutely tops.

My Taurus moon loves his Scorp Sun and Cappy Moon… my Virgo Rising to his Pisces Rising… Our opposites attract and it works so well… and we are very sensual beings and ambitious to boot!

Quitelight
Quitelight

I’m with you, Shinefromtheinside! I’m engaged to my Scorpio love of 18+ years. I was the commitmentphobe, and his patience with me is breathtaking. He’s a true haute Scorpio, and has owned me with those drown-in green eyes since I met him in gr. 9. We didn’t date until years later, not recognizing each other in a bar, but drawn in by those EYES…. don’t want to start ranting about his sheer awesomeness (I would nauseate even myself), but seriously, haute Scorpio is intoxicating, even after 18 years. I will say, I think his Cap moon, & years of yoga… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Have a regular, younger Scorp man/massage patient at the doctor’s office. He has the Scorpion tattoed on his left shoulder. Blonde, blue eyed hunk a rama border patrol dude. He said I hit all right points (back neck, shoulder,,he loves the scalp massage too. Wonder what his Moon and Rising might be?) I said something to the effect of being “the mean massage therapist” as in gotta do what I gotta do. He said “you’re not mean…you’re awesome”….ha…Mystic, does that fit in with the weekly horoscopes? 😆 ~Cassandra~…Mystic, you never miss a beat. x Was so funny too as while… Read more »

clocklessmonster
clocklessmonster

Oh ya, so ok. Scorps are fantastic in bed. I am a Sagittarius, so I admit, I was not above maintaining that eight year miserable relationship due mainly to the incredible sex. TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT IN RETROSPECT.

But of course, hindsight is 20/20.

theclocklessmonster
theclocklessmonster

Been there, will never do that again. I was with a Scorpio for eight very long, very turbulent years. We broke up 4 times, and fortunately for good about three years ago. He sucked my soul. He was unemployed almost the entire duration of our courtship, so I helped him go back to school (grad school) by supporting him financially, getting his application together for him, even writing an essay that got him a small scholarship. Then when he got in, I stayed behind to save move money so I could quit my job and move to where he was… Read more »

pi
pi

Took your FURNITURE!!!!! that makes my Saturn in “don’t touch my shit” second house go mental. Ugh. Sure, I mean relationships are designed for heartache and abuse and stuff, standard, but taking your actual specially acquired things. Not foam- filled shit from discount furniture warehouse but proper restored everything. Scream!
Ps. Am NOT being sarcastic
Pps ^ honest.

pi
pi

Ppps. Am happy you are now with a lovely kind aqua. Xo

jjjjj
jjjjj

Oh and how can I forget?
The other biggest F word in the Scorp’s Universe is Forgiveness. Forgiveness is the crucible to Super Scorp vibes for sure.

clocklessmonster
clocklessmonster

so true. I always found myself apologizing for one thing or another when I was with a scorpio.

Redsonya
Redsonya

I am a scorpio sun with scorpio mars and mercury conjunct in the 8th house:) But I also havje venus in Sag, a pisces ascendant, aquarius moon, and a lot of Jupiter so I can detach more. I’ve never dated a scorpio man – I tend to be with aquarius, cancer, or Taurus men. I feel like men can sense my detachment and they like it somehow, but once I have “claimed” them, I don’t pull any punches about how jealous I can be and that I will walk if there is any cheating, lol.

jjjjj
jjjjj

I’ve never dated one of my own but I dated a cap with what I suspect is Sag rising, Jupiter in Sag conj. Neptune in Sag., Scorpio Moon conj. (also guessing) Pluto conj. Venus in Scorpio. conj. Saturn in Scorp!!!!! (!!!!!!) Mars in Libra, retrograde. WHEW. He was drowning in alcoholism and combusting all over the place. So much idealism, energy, and strong feelings in one person. He was recently separated (though lied about that through omission), sexually abused in pre-adolescence, parents divorced, mom a recovered alcoholic, and a string of relationships with women who’s father’s had abandoned them. Since… Read more »

Virgoan of More Virgo
Virgoan of More Virgo

I have never dated a Scorpio but just wanted to say that if I was single that is the sign I would most like to date. That stare, that library, the inevitable conversation about madness and art. Yes please!

sphinx
sphinx

They are high on my list in theory. In practice I never met a Scorp that did it for me, Scorp Moon tho I am.

That library, that claustrophobic lighting, that oppressive fabric couch totally don’t do it for me!!! Plus Picasso has the worst vibes of any artist to the point I can’t ever see an exhibition of his again. I don’t care if he is a genius, he is a grotesque one.

My NN in Sagg & mutable axis would need a really light & free Scorp.

But yes, if I were single I would go Team Scorp for sure!

Ms.
Ms.

The virgo combo can be awesome intellectual chemistry with serious bedroom consequences 🙂

ms. vervain
ms. vervain

Amen to that! Very well said…..

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Ugggggh my ex husband was Scorpio rising. He read my diaries for all our marriage, pretended to be straight, was manipulative, secretive, had affairs overseas.. He trained as a spy years and years ago, and a clairvoyant once told me he had been a spy in a previous life. Sent anonymous letters to people to hurt them, stole money from the marriage, took and kept incriminating photos of people. And that’s just what I know. I’m sure there was much more.
He was low Scorp to the extreme…also Neptune rising. I lived with my own stalker. *Burns sage stick*

sphinx
sphinx

Oh Chrysalis, please write the book! There are so many young girls that need to know your story.

Along with Calypso’s comment not to breed with addicts this would be a service to society.

I am sorry you had to live that though, it sounds torrid. Hope you are much healed & recovered as you sound it in the comments!

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Yep totally ok now, except for a lingering fear that he is still not done with me. I do accept my own role… I was such a mousy and frightened thing when I married him. Oh there was also the incident of the bushfire very near my ex-lover’s house. I always wondered if he’d had something to do with that. The only people who ever got him fired up sexually were either androgynous Scorp women or Scorp /Scorp rising women who had that Scorp sexual intensity about them. It was interesting to watch because I became aware we were just… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

All of this is mounting evidence for me to not get heavily involved with the Venus-scorp rising multi sadge, with very strong but not-rendered-conscious links with Neptune (conj Sun) sextile Pluto (in 12th house). Mucho chemistry and seemingly laid back, but each time I sense a more controlling or fixed nature beneath the surface. A lot of 2nd house energy vying with the sadge energy. He does make it work in an interesting way though.

Tiffany
Tiffany

mostly just brats that glamour at your daftest and exhaust with tiresome sulking

BetteNoire
BetteNoire

dang, we have a reputation don’t we? (she says with pride) All kidding aside, (really, do scorpios really kid around?) I have to say I can see myself in alot of what many have you described (full disclosure: SunScorp-MoonScorp; MercScorp; -Aquarius Rising; most planets in 8th house) . Obsessive, intense, passionate. I like to think that I am one of those evolved Scorpios, maybe it’s the aquarian in me. But sometimes we get stuck in de-evolving ourselves (that can be fun). I will say this…we know when you are into us… sure, we can play dumb or hard to get,… Read more »

j
j

Hell YES.

Ms.
Ms.

if you don’t fear the dark and know who you are then its all fine. For sure x

Charley
Charley

I’m a Scorpio. Never dated a Scorpio Sun man, Scorpio women are my catnip but the men just kind of repel me. Not in a disgusted way, just literally no attraction there. I always maintain that the male of any Sun sign always embodies the characteristics way more than the females and I just kind of see right through all their intense crap. I’ve had a lot of very Plutonic men in my life though and in recent times Scorpio moons and risings, I don’t mind it but as a Scorpio I need to know and understand a person as… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

I know what you mean, I have Scorp moon and have only the once been attracted to a Scorp man (as above) his sun was exact on my moon, and he had some sagg in him to mesh with my Aries stuff. Dont want to drown in someone else’s depth at all, got my own to deal with! Generally they don’t attract me at all, though as a matter of principle I approve of the intensity and I can see when haute they are very strong. my Leo partner has Scorp rising (that’s almost his only water) and he can… Read more »

sphinx
sphinx

I so relate to both of these comments as Scorpio Lunar person.
And like you Charley I also love the Scorp girls. In fact I have a new friend who is intense in all the best ways, warm, outgoing, friendly, thoughtful, funny – intensely those qualities is a real pleasure to be around! One of my other Scorp friends became schizophrenic & we fell out of touch, but she is still one of my favourite people in my heart if not life today. Maybe the girls turn their intensity on themselves, whereas the males project it outwards?

Veronica
Veronica

What I really appreciate about my Scorp women friends is that they really Know me.
They know who I am, what I’ve done, how I think. Don’t need to explain. And they would tell me truth about things but do it with real affection. May have been some of the normal girly competitive crap between us when we were very young, but they are true friends in longevity

Haven’t had any Scorp men friends, though so I don’t know what they’re like

Ms.
Ms.

I never date them but I have been hanging out with one and its textbook scorp on scorp. ON the scorpio new moon eclipse no less and he’s a double scorp (rising and sun) with 4 planets in scorpio in the 1st house. Ive only known him for 2 weeks and we are already friends from heated romp meeting classically not suited but good in bed, he’s totally obsessive, followed me up to another city and across town… and classic scorp but great guy otherwise. Not my thing at all but I love him for who he is, super internally… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

He sounds good to have by your side in a new city and situation 🙂

Ms.
Ms.

Yes, hers only in town for a bit but he’s a handful! but now we have barked out some boundaries we are all good. Personification of scorpio though.

nush ciel
nush ciel

LOL!! Where do you get these amazing pictures from? Best ever Scorpio male story. Back in a smaller island not far away from Oz..The magnetic man, Machiavellian, master manipulator, outdid Heathcliffe for drama and pathos, batted those penetrating eyes and told the biggest Bull*** stories, had SO many women fall at his feet, liked and conned ex- doing same courses to loan him their assignments/essays etc. “cos he was too busy.(wooing and seducing the next one) then got A marks ‘cos he was sleeping with the tutor, and original author got a C. Go figure. Lived in a big house… Read more »

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

I had that marking irregularity happen to me at uni. The 4 of us males, in the course, suspected ‘pretty girls get the best marks’ syndrome. So l did 2 assessment tasks. One l submitted as mine. The other l gave to two girls, one a J Anniston look-a-like (grand fire trine-her words- v attractive), the other was really nice to talk to (they both asked for help). JA got the best mark and the nice girl came 9/12. I came last. Most of us had a big laugh the day the assignments were handed back. And this was from… Read more »

zenduende
zenduende

OK, settle in kiddies, this is going to be a long one : ) Was married to a Scorp for 20 years, so I kinda got my PHd there. Plus, have had many, many Scorp friends because, as a Piscean with my moon in Scorpio, I’m like catnip to them and them to me. Let’s start with the Good: Passionate, driven, smart, dead sexy (we literally spent weekends in bed for the first few years), never boring (the biggest sin you can commit in my book), *usually* loyal (we’ll come back to that), hard workers with a great work ethic,… Read more »

6 of Cups
6 of Cups

Ooh would love to be educated how Pisceans are stronger than Scorps. I know a now ex-couple with those signs – they recently split after many years and I was worried about my Piscean GF hanging in there.

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

Could be they transcend better. Low Scorps let unforgiveness issues take em down

AquariCrab
AquariCrab

I pursued a Scorp once and, on the second date, he preceded to interview me with a ‘been in the wilderness too long’ stare and a series of yes/no questions about what I do in the bedroom. Yikes!

Ms.
Ms.

I accidentally fell into the lap of a multiple conjunct double scorp on the eclipse. He’s chasing me around Spain. Never date Scorpios and he has already complained at the clash of wills after not being able to get out of bed for several days on first meeting. Friend for life.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Just Uranian Scorp. The sex was only metaphysical and most of the relationship in our heads. When he realized I expected it to eventually be physical-physical, he cooled off. Eventually, he did a shout-out on Facebook – who wants to be my girl? Within a months, he found his soul mate, a reiki-nutritionist-former-stripper who quit her 9 to 5 gig in the government, sold all her stuff and moved 5 states to be with him. Naturally, his interest in me slightly renewed after that. Its true what MM says about ignoring Uranians 🙂 Anyway, he and his soul mate are… Read more »

Bunny
Bunny

I’m a Leo-cancer-Leo… My very first bf in high school was a Scorp. Yes they are scheming and secretive but I’ve been lucky to know all the moral-core scorps— suuuuper high standards, no cheating, tad bit jealous and possessive. He all but dumped me over a rumor that was not true. I swore off scorps and started on a long spree of geminis… Nevvvvver again. Now I’m older, wiser… Have a dear dear male friend Scorp. Intense, amazing memory, mentally challenging… Knows way more about astrology than I do… And my current boyfriend is a Scorp-Gemini-Aquarius. Super loyal, faithful, intense,… Read more »

Charley
Charley

Scorpio here who massively adores Leos, I think it can be an amazing mix.

Yes to Red being a Scorpio, sooooo Scorpio haha.

Sparkling Leo
Sparkling Leo

I was told by an astrologer once, a California astrologer, that the Leo/Scop attraction was general ill fated since those two signs saw the world totally differently. I was recovering from a mega planetary Scorpio at the time. Just loved him and he me except we had a built in time bomb with a wide age gap, and cultural one too actually. It was just amazing mix, only could not go on forever because in essence we did see the world so so so differently. Lasted 6 years! For the short term can’t beat that mix.

Crime of the Century
Crime of the Century

Works for Hilary and Bill. (tongue firmly in cheek).
I taught a boy in yr 12 last year and he is a Leo who started goin out witha Scorp. I said to him, on the quiet, dont you dare look at another ‘skirt’. He did, a month later, volcanic was the reaction such that the whole school knew. Hell hath no fury like a Scorp scorned.

leogroover
leogroover

Tot agree on the Leo/scorp thang. My leo man is attracted to my sharpness espesh when he has gone all sooky goo goo Leo with his troubles. I cut the crap for him and he appreciates that. He is deep in an earthy way (taurean mars- hello wide on) so enjoys the intensity of our thang even tho I go all girly and silly often just to lighten his life.

pi
pi

remind me to head to the desert and flip stones more often. i miss my scorpies.

WaterGem
WaterGem

Hey Pi – is that really you over on the Virgo Vision post? I didn’t want to click if it wasn’t but I do if it is?

Pi
Pi

Hey whoa! that is not me! wtf. Mystic..? spam alert,

Pi
Pi

thanks for that..?! also nice of you to want to check out the link… if i ever do some kind of website any announcement wld be much more gemini rising and much less spam-flakes. xxx

Anonymous
Anonymous

actually does seem to be legit deviantart link but hey. i suppose there are only so many letters in the alphabet.. pi

Venus Cazimi
Venus Cazimi

Scorps & me (3 significant relationships).
Oh, for the realm of weirdness. Oh, for the sacrednicity. Oh, for the out of nowhere coincidences. Oh, for the serendipity & the irrisistible magnetism…

The universe knows…

Great lovers (me Aquarian, not my karma)

BoyTwin
BoyTwin

Dated a Scorpio just once – great fuq but didn’t take the break up v well. Last and lingering memory: running into him at the local club to be greeted with “The people you see when you don’t have a gun!” I am confident it wasn’t a joke …

Quadruple Vulcan
Quadruple Vulcan

Early on, in high school I determined, find out if you can weather the Scorpio storm. If you can’t, get out now, cuz there will always be another one. If you can then stuck around cuz they’re the best! This was just friendship at this point. I’m a quadruple Virgo but have Scorpio ask and moon conj Pluto and Saturn in the 8th. I was engaged to a mostly haute Scorpio 10 years ago, a Peruvian ayahuascero whom I’m moved to the Amazon to be with. He built me a 3 story house (cap moon) and we had a scarlet… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

A Peruvian ayahuascero???
I so wish I could sit down and hang with you and the scarlet macaw for a day or two. Sounds FASCINATING.
I really want to do an aya ceremony

Joyinthe8th
Joyinthe8th

I admire and adore Scorpios, Fish me with rising crab loves the intensity, somehow we sync automatically and I love that. ….. but there’s something resistant in my chart, dunno maybe Sag Lilith, wants to flee. Scorp men and women to me are awesome, so sexy , so smart I rejoice in how much I can trust them …. – even though their own agenda will be purring along underneath whatever is going down. I get them, l like them …. in fact I could do with one right now!!

Z
Z

Sag Lillith always wants to flee, haha!

The Baroness
The Baroness

I used to loathe scorpio’s growing up. In their youth they can be overly pretentious and way too invested in the myth of how they want to be seen. Once I crossed the threshold of 30, I’ve come to enjoy and value them. They just want to be loved and understood but feel like they have you around their stinger. Sadly for them, I’m a sexual dominant that sees through people like their plexiglass. I can tell them all the deep things they believe about themselves which makes them feel connected and even get damn worshipful. If you’re curious, I’m… Read more »

jess
jess

I just found out that Tony Abbott is a Scorpio! *shudders*

The Baroness
The Baroness

He’s not a scorpio – he’s a lech and privileged parasite. That just so happens to be born at a certain time of year ;P

zenduende
zenduende

Yesss, if you look up low-Scorpio in a dictionary you’ll see his picture. Even with me being a fan of scorps he makes my skin crawl; liar, superior attitude, thinks he knows better than you, secretive (trying to hide the facts), power obsessed, paranoid, I could go on…. But, yes *shudder*

B
B

AND he’s got an Aries Moon….put the two energies of the Low variety together: filthy playing, lying, sleezoid and bullying a*sehole ….could go on….but I need to calm down now.

Kat
Kat

I’m a Cancerian. Should that be a Katakian? Anyway. I’ve had two significant Scorps in my life – both utterly life changing, because that’s their MO obviously. At 15, my first ‘true’ love in high school – Paul. As if that first love is not intense enough, this was ancient, primal passion, stratospheric kissing. He knew exactly who I was before I’d even become me. With him as my yardstick, I was set up for a world of future love expectation that could never ever be met. Enter Scorp #2. I was 34. I knew him for 9 and a… Read more »

Fishngoat
Fishngoat

Omg. Every significant man in my life (starting with my father) has been a Scorp. (Yep, all over that Freud..) Have had major connection with them all my life. But after ending things with the most recent one only a week ago, I’ve smudged, reiki’d and therapised my way forward. I think I’m swearing off them for life. In general, my observations are; emotionally unavailable, sexy and seductive but controlling and “my way or the highway”. Only want you when it suits them, too many secrets, slightly adjusted stories so they are always the hero. Manipulative and emotional blackmailers. And!… Read more »

The Baroness
The Baroness

I thought my Dad was a scorpio but realized because he was born abroad he was born as a Sagg. He has that scorpio fury but he’s a total Sagg. I always loved Saggs, they were my best friends for the first 30 years of my life. Now I realize for such freedom lovers they are actually CRAZY co-dependent. They always needs someone around to watch their ‘freeness’. But I still like them. Just don’t find them as riveting as I did.

The Baroness
The Baroness

ALL my exes were either Caps or Taureans who have their Mars/Venus/Eros/Psyche in both Gemini and Cancer. I’ve realized that Gemini and Cancer together leads to emotional self absorption that FEELS like lower vibration Scorpio vibes. I’m ALL about the fixed signs with mucho earth these days – I like knowing my lover is well adjusted enough to cope with themselves let alone others, lol.

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

I have noticed this too. They must always be painted as “the hero” of the story or they go bat shit crazy, i can say they manage their PR campaigns well. *cribs notes*

saturnplutoflux
saturnplutoflux

oh yeh – majority of long term female friends are scorps too

PlutonicUranian
PlutonicUranian

I don’t think it’s a thing necessarily, directly attributable to that Asc/Dsc axis. How is your Venus, is it earthy and well aspected, perhaps mixed with Jupiter, like Taurus may seek? Is your Moon in Water? Scorpio would welcome you, and set the table for your visit. How do you dress and smell? Tauran men might want to know “how you do it”. Interest in you may be “masturbatory” on their part – I don’t mean that badly – recognizing in you feminine / Venusian aspects of themselves (1st house), seeking to assimilate those parts via intercourse, rather than a… Read more »

saturnplutoflux
saturnplutoflux

hmmm, Venus is alone in Cap, squared by Uranus and moon in Lib…although Mystic did say she was my chart ruler (can’t remember why). Maybe that’s the Toro bait.
My predilection for Scorps could be linked to a multi Sagg optimism/stupidity/need for adventure which plays out as “ouch – that burnt, let’s try again…oww – nope……again?…oww – don’t think I’m backing down or going home …”.
Seriously though I do have a baffling, non astro compliant quota of intensity/revenge factor and i only meet my match in scorpios 🙂

PlutonicUranian
PlutonicUranian

Thanks for playing! So Venus is indeed earthy as well as contacting Uranus and the Moon from her Ruling sign. I would theorize that you have flirt power over Venutians. It is well-practised (Capricorn), unconscious (Moon), unusually immediate (Uranus), and challenging (square). Scorpios on the other would indeed have a natural tendency to line up and play double-dutch with you because of the natural arrangement of opposing Suns. Kind of like a karmic jump rope so yea, the more I think of it, with Scorps it could be just the 1st/7th axis thing like you first said hahaha. (This is… Read more »

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