Romantic Weirding Elevation

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Erwin Olaf

So okay, the weather’s been strange for ages now, we can forget all about seasons as such. We have a climate. But haven’t relationships been strange lately?!  That Eclipse on the Cardinal Cross point of April AND now Venus in opposition to Uranus, square Pluto. It’s a potent preview of the Zap Zone Finale coming up.

Some people are consciously uncoupling a la Gwyneth – some are uncoupling in a blur of unconsciousness, Blue Devil Hoochie Juice and crap concocted in some godless factory processing plant that should really be labelled “edible food like substance” if we were to have (lol) truth in advertising.

Triangles are forming, loyalties are shifting, psychological patterns are being grokked and fate is at play. It’s not just in love – some friendships/alliances are becoming super-tight and productive beacons of light. Others just seem like they should be de-cluttered, pronto.

What’s buzzing about now in relationships is strong in December – warp speed full bore hardcore mind-blowingly ON in March.  And one of the side-effects of this Mercury Retrograde is epic genius insights/awareness of power dynamics in relationships.

Without wishing to advise actual reclusive psychopathy – don’t give away a nano-unit of your power.  If you have to just say ‘fuq it’, withdraw from the field of play and go Love Zombie on yourself, harnessing your health & wealth, just do that.

If someone wants more “space”,  they’re going to have to text you that in Alpha Centauri.  Nobody trumps you in space wars.

Venus-Uranus energy (see your Horoscopes for more) is not remotely conventional and totally non bourgie but hell it’s LUCID.

Thoughts?

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Crisis? What Crisis
Crisis? What Crisis

Venus-Uran opp workn for me. I had dinner with my newfound Scorp (+ she is a Rabbit- me Porker). She n me talked like 4 year olds in a sandpit. I asked if she’d like me to walk her home; she said yes. I asked her if she wanted to see me again; she said yes. I said l’d ring in a coupla days; she said good.

I so cant wait to see her again.
She has those bright beautiful focused Scorp eyes. And her Asc is Taurus.
I feel SOOOOOO good

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I had a first date with a Pisces who would not stop talking about himself. I’m sure he suspects that went really well. And, to be fair, he is accomplished and has some great stories. It was just like – is there anything you want to ask me? Pfftt….

Crisis? What Crisis
Crisis? What Crisis

Not so good to talk about oneself ad nauseam.

We kept it turning over. I think l learnt more about her than she did me. She did research on me (Scorp Detectivity, l spose) it amazed me how much she found out.

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

So I have a question for all you relationship geniuses about typical cis-het dating. I had asked some male friends who are not interested in me, why they thought I seem to be a permanent bench warmer in the love game. Their answers were sort of similar, even though asked at different times….that “I seem too complete” or “like a self-contained ecosystem” and that men ignore me because they don’t seem to be able to “add anything” so why try? While I am flattered on one level, I am also wondering what I am doing wrong. Isn’t being “complete” and… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

I don’t have any answers but I feel for you. I’m in the same boat. The only guys who fancy the “compete” me are all married.

Seems to me like the more broken one is the better chance of pairing up.

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

I hear married guys are tempting but luckily I’ve almost never been attracted.

I know. I thought about faking some brokeness.

Anonymous
Anonymous

not in the least bit tempted by married men. UGH!! Just saying, they’re the only ones that show interest.

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

ah! married men and taken men show interest in me because it is easy for them to be brave as they have a fall back chick or i can be their fantasy. gods forbid anything actually real happening. because then it would be your fault! lol.

anon
anon

was just thinking that today!! They get to have their cake and eat it too and throw us the crumbs. Every now and then one gets weak and hungry for attention, so the flirting starts again…

then nothing. Nipped one of those in the bud the other day. It’s been going on for years!! He appears and disappears just to boost his ego.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

That’s pretty much what the Leo implied – that I was too good for him and that I was so level headed and grounded that it was scary. His previous gf sounded like an alcoholic and the one prior to that had a raft of mental disorders. She was still hanging around in a high needs high strung kinda way which I think propped up his ego from its own inadequacies. So fuqed if I know mate! From my experiences and observations men like women who they feel they can control on some level. It may not be overt like… Read more »

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Actually having gone away and thought about it, I can recall a raft of couples where the woman is the dominating, controlling agent speaking to their partner like he is some kind of intellectually maladjusted child. And the guys seem to like buying into that control dynamic whilst resenting it at the same time and passively working against it.

I just find these dynamics vile and want nothing to do with them, neither seeking to control or be controlled. I guess the majority of the population are incapable of being anything else.

Anonymous
Anonymous

“And the guys seem to like buying into that control dynamic whilst resenting it at the same time and passively working against”

Yep. That was my last relationship.

Anonymous
Anonymous

I should add that I agree with you Prowln. I don’t want to control or be controlled either. It’s why I ended the last relationship. I had all the control. It’s boring.

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

what you say makes a lot of sense Prowlin’. I’ve also been the woman in charge about 2 relationships ago and it sucked. hated it.

Ms.
Ms.

The broken thing never works though, sure it might look like a relationship from the outside but often these things are opportunistic and vampirish in intent if not in practice. No one is complete and this was badly put to you but maybe showing a very very certain kind of vulnerability OR in another way humanity in your manner than what was meant by complete. Either that or you need to way up your social circle into something that challenges you more than babysitting crisis people

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

^this

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

My circle, I’ve been working on..but it is a slow process.

I’m not sure how one shows more humanity or vulnerability. i had one female friend say this to me with zero examples. humanity! I volunteer when i am not working for myself. You would think that would boost humanity. Is this like wearing wearing no makeup or showing off fat rolls? Because i don’t get why i have to behave in a manner that is sort of put on to get a date.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

No, vulnerability isn’t volunteer work or fat rolls. Its being humble, being open, being afraid of being rejected, and being strong enough to share feelings when they may not be returned in the same way. A willingness to look like you don’t know something. And that isn’t about self actualization. No one knows everything. No one knows the heart of another. Asking open ended questions…its hard to give more specific answers without context. This is a social dance. Vulnerability is being ready to get out there and get bruises and admit you wished it had gone better. Not, to say,… Read more »

anon
anon

I hear you and I don’t have a problem with being open, humble, vulnerable etc etc, but there isn’t anyone WORTHY or my eqaul to be that way with!!!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

^ That right there is invulnerability.

anon
anon

invulnerability? REALLY. So i should just go online and just date anyone? Pffft.

Ms.
Ms.

not at all, that’s a reaction that doesn’t fit. its a word that is not used very well in its meaning.

marching around with expectations that are a form of defence over ease will deflect people who are adjusted but more at peace. Showing your humanity is expressing the peace and an invitation x

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

um..people can’t fake affection or pretend to like people for very long u less you are a sociopath. I can’t find my equal either…or even someone who seems vaguely interesting at all. Trust me i look. i look all the time,

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

“there isn’t anyone WORTHY or my equal” is WAY different than “Ouch, it didn’t work out.”

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

It occurred to me that the only one worthy of you is you. Same for everyone else on the planet.

anon
anon

Not really. There are plenty of love zombies out there (my ex was one) who don’t feel worthy, so they go from one person straight to the next, with barely a breath in between in order to fill that hole or emptiness and to validate their worth.

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

I like this. This is beautiful. I’m not wishing for one worthy of me. I want someone who will be salt to my pepper.

anon
anon

Also, I don’t have a problem with rejection either. I have pretty much approached ever guy I’ve had relationship /fling with. Stuff waiting around… but i’m done with the chasing and doing all the work. Guys are too damn lazy these days because women throw themselves at anyone half decent

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

same here, fuck if i didn’t ask guys out, i’d still be a +40 y.o. virgin. It is a requirement to stick my head out in the past,

I’m trying something new, I am allowing men to ask me instead since that is fucking novel for me.

anon
anon

We’re on the same page .Prince 🙂 I just want to try something NEW too!! Gee, it would be nice to be asked out for a change.

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

thank you for this explanation.
this sounds too masochistic for my taste if i am being honest. I would not deliberately put my hand in a shark’s mouth and go,,gee williakers why did it just bite me? and not blame myself.
I do take risks on people and share feelings which then get rejected and i brush off immediately. decontaminate.
and why is it always on me to be the one to take the risk? why does no one else ever have to take the risk with me?

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

A shark’s mouth…lol.

Whatever works for you. You can’t answer why someone else doesn’t or should do x/y/z. You can only do you. I’m sure you’ll figure it out.

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

I AM working on myself. Isn’t thatt he whole point? Perfection of self should mirror that in reality? I am not trying to control others…fuck controling others,,,I am asking why the fuck nothing universe? What could i have possibly done wrong? why am i being punished for trying to improve myself? If i just wanted to be alone then I could have just done nothing, stayed the same. so here i am on my birthday, waking up to yet another year of no birthday sex, let alone birthday hug or card or anything from anyone. I isolate myself to prevent… Read more »

Crisis? What Crisis
Crisis? What Crisis

Happy Birthday. I am sorry to hear about your travails. I hope it turns for you; and soon. There is nothing wrong in wishing for a partner.

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

thank you!

Ms.
Ms.

xx

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Happy birthday. I’ve spent the past five waking up alone. I realized, and it got less painful when I did, that most grown-ups don’t have parties for their birthdays. Not that you’re wrong to want companionship, but maybe not take it as a personal failure that you don’t. This is life for many on the planet. I know its hard, this past one was my 40. And every year I think “next year it will be OK.” But its not up to someone else to make my life OK. Or the years I acquire. Anyway, I get it. I do.… Read more »

DP
DP

All I can say is, you’re not alone in feeling this way. xx

calypso
calypso

happy birthday Prince Stolas! Lots of love and acceptance for you, and where you’re at. I think some releasing could help x

Ms.
Ms.

yes

Ms.
Ms.

I have to agree with 12th here. It’s about expression of self reflecting a philosophy that says there is an invitation.
Sitting on the bench is a phrase that terrifies me somewhat. It’s too passive to wait, and wait for what? adjusted forward thinking people love equals, benches are for rescuers in search of damsels. the vulnerability and humanity is created in our expression. x

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

I’ve been told that the definition of insanity is to keep doing the same things over and over again that do not work. My history is that I am the aggressor and the ONLY way I’ve ever been able to get a date is to ask a man (except one time). If I am to change things up, I am supposed to be trying to be more receptive and feminine and stop asking guys out. I’m plenty yang so I have a feeling I’m supposed to be learning how to be more yin. I’m supposed to lure instead stalk and… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

Hello again, no I am Australian. Familiar with bench warming x It’s hard for me to respond personally as I am very open about gender and loathe traditional gender roles so these are things I do not value myself but I understand this is not everyone. There seems to be this great burden with your words about wanting a very certain kind of approach and interplay that performs to traditional roles. Personally I don’t think it matters or should be a point of interest when lasting partnerships and someone right for you is the focus but then again I don’t… Read more »

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

i actually don’t want a certain kind of approach. I am taking kundalini yoga right now and they are very big on the division. I’m used to doing things in my own masculine zany way (i’m sun-uranus conj)but doing that the past 10 yrs has gotten me nothing, if anything it has gotten me burnt. A good hunter knows when to change strategy. I am thinking perhaps the battlefield is just different now, I recently watched a friend my age try to get back into the dating game when she was married for 10 yrs. It was awkward to say… Read more »

anon
anon

I have Uranus square moon. I like to do things my way too. I’m also very yang. Too much. I just can’t seem to turn down the volume. Very Yin men love it though but I don’t want that anymore. I don’t want to lead. I want to walk together, side by side with someone but like Prowln said it’s a very rare thing these days.

I think you’re right – battlefield is different now. I think Neptune in Aqua (technology, online dating etc) changed the landscape

anon
anon

and happy birthday!! 🙂

Anonymous
Anonymous

well, of course it doesn’t work. WE know that, but broken people just move along to the next victim don’t they.
So many “brokens” on online dating sites.

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

yup a lot of brokens, i just put up an online dating profile. a few weeks ago. Not one bite, it doesn’t surprise me though. Women in my age group get overlooked a lot.

Ms.
Ms.

by dickheads wanting a woman in a catalog. you don’t need these people. Don’t blame age, I get hit on by all kinds of sick people and its not flattering to have emotionally abusive idiots try to twist your arm. The boys my age (34) on sites shop younger also. In hope they won’t notice or be less baggage. I understand you are pissed off at the choices. I won’t online date, I tried it twice and it was fucking terrible. On paper, we are not who we are, and that works for some 😉 there are other options and… Read more »

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

agreed! We are def. not who we are on paper. But i don’t have a lot of options of expanding contacts. A suitable man is not going to burst through the wall if i sit at home or I’m at work.

Ms.
Ms.

sure but thats not even a suggestion xx

I am not saying its easy, I am saying you need to be clever with your options and not be fooled that online is an actual representation of the pond. no pond scum for you

DP
DP

OH god this was chilling to read. Chillling from the recognition.

Perhaps this is my problem? That I’m working towards self-actualization?

All I know is, I;ve been on the bench for an awfully long time.

.Prince Stolas
.Prince Stolas

it is never mentioned in the brochure of self actualization, that it is a lonely stretch of road with no guarantees. Of course you can’t go backwards either so once you are on the road you can’t get off. It is like being cast out of the garden of eden. you lose all innocence.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

I’ve noticed that people committed to a path of self actualisation tend to evolve beyond the stock standard power and control dynamics that seem to be the norm in relationships. Coupled with the idea that you have no desire to find someone who will complete you, because you’re already bloody well complete, but instead to compliment you and vice versa … well yeah like david said below – that knocks about 90% of prospects out of the ring. Perhaps it’s also a zap zone thing? We cardinals (you Libra me Cancer) are being challenged more than most to authenticate in… Read more »

david5379
david5379

a bit late to the thread here, but just wanted to let everyone know guys are out there that wan’t someone complete and their own person, me and my closest friends even have conversations to the effect as guys where going to have to probably settle for girls that want us to be overly in charge of things in our 20s instead of having an equal and meeting your match type deal. We feel really weird about it and we wish we could meet girls that had their own thing going on and it was more like equals just sharing… Read more »

Izzie
Izzie

Be a LZ on yourself….perfect…then I hear about a woman marrying herself..ceremony friends pics the whole deal…this astro is crazy bats and empowering…lol

Stacey
Stacey

triangles, yeah, thinking of Justin/Selena and Jenner girl. Seems like the Saturn/Ceres square on Lilith eh? Just a thought :).

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Well my closest relationship ATM is with my twin sister/new biz partner and we are practically Psycic re design and direction – saying the words the other was about to ect and always on the same page Showed a close friend our print strike off and she is blown away – we have a lot of creative friends and sis works at GOMA (fab local art gallery) so not many muggles to get reactions from and everyone has been SERIOUSLY impressed! My friend the photographer will take the photos for website, which bro and tech genius nephew will build –… Read more »

Skye
Skye

Relationships. Contact. Intangible? Is that the word. It been like trying to grab particles floating in air. Only for them to slip through fat clumsy fingers.

I hate this year. I’d like my life lessons to casually arrive not pulverise me mike Tyson style.

Counting down from 10. I’m just going to stay concussed here on the floor. Use this end of bout knock out to have a much needed nap.

Taurus Vixen
Taurus Vixen

You poor thing. We’ve all been there. Once you awaken from your nap, try dating yourself. It is great fun and full of wonderful adventure of all things you have always wanted to do.

Skye
Skye

Yes, once the headache subsides I’ll have to take myself on vacation. Or even for ice cream at the beach at sunset. For now tho… The floor of the boxing ring is as far as I’m able to go.

Anonymous
Anonymous

A good friend once said to me, no matter what happens or how bad you feel, Frock-up.

Aquafleur
Aquafleur

At first I didn’t think I was getting this astro, nothing happening in relationships, same old same old, not great not bad. Then just say ‘fuq it’, withdraw from the field of play and go Love Zombie on yourself, harnessing your health & wealth, just do that.
Great stuff cause that is what i seem to be doing.
Grand to know I am grokking the astro any how.

Charles
Charles

My life seems completely frozen. Here’s what I’m dealing with:

Mercury opposition Mercury
Mercury conjunct Neptune
Moon opposition Neptune
Moon conjunction Mercury
Sun opposition Venus
Venus opposition Venus
Uranus conjunct Venus

And that’s just the direct oppositions/conjunctions. And that was all in place at the moment Mercury went Rx. Fun times.

Circe Baby
Circe Baby

So that’s why this weirdo is turning super pro? And I mean super pro.

Thanks for the moral support!

MedusaTattoo
MedusaTattoo

Sitting in a five month period of post-breakup Love Zombie hell. The continual compulsive thoughts of reconnecting with the ex has been a periodic mind-fuq that has seen great periods of drought and flooding. Yesterday marked the strongest day of this over-saturation of energy to reach out, check-in, connect, or re-spark something I ended months ago following two years commitment and ultimate realization that the future was not so bright. All things must pass, has been by guiding mantra, but it’s so much easier said than done, and no matter how much spiritual energy I turn to, each day marks… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I once was in such a desperate lz situation I called a past life reader to help me understand the bind. And she told me about a painful past life of mine where my energy was like a clenched fist. I refused to let go. And I asked what to do. And she said to bring the pain close to me and hold it like a baby. Made no sense at the time. Maybe doesn’t make sense to you now. But sometimes, resistance makes it all worse. Not saying to reach out to him or her. Saying, whatever pain or… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Also, sometimes mental is just mental and meditation and breath work helps. I was upset the other day mentally, but when I meditated and focused on breathing, I realized I was actually quite at peace. Its OK to love someone and not be with them. Love feels good.

MedusaTattoo
MedusaTattoo

Love is a great path to help solve this. Meditation and breathing are really key, have worked on some EMDR therapy with my therapist to help assist in this matter, and it really has assisted in the processing of the grief. It’s always key to remember that I have everything I need in this moment, and that any mental fuqery that comes up is usually of my own making.

Thanks for the help!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Be kind to yourself. Maybe it isn’t just of your making. But making peace is – and its hard work! Be gentle. LZ on you!

Seagoat
Seagoat

Alternatively, you could make a research project of yourself, Document the feelings, signs of spring, slumps – trial all the various fixes, action plans and therapies, keep a track of your progress and when you are through this you’ll have a story to tell, in whatever form you choose…

MedusaTattoo
MedusaTattoo

The daily journaling only just occurred. I’ve had about 10 consecutive entries in 10 days. It didn’t change the relationship chaos in my mind, but it provided an outlet for whatever thoughts, insights, feelings occur or just occured at the time of writing. Doing away with any sort of pre-meditative writing and only writing what comes out will certainly paint an interesting picture down the road.

Skye
Skye

I was in a similar situation a few years ago. My Scorpio moon tends to cling and obsess and finds it hard to let go. I was given an article about psychic cords and how we bind ourselves to others. I carried out a little ceremony including a full house clean out, salt bath and a letter to him about how I felt, tied with red string and then burnt. It didn’t help. It wasn’t until we had an argument while trying to be polite to each other one day and he basically said goodbye and good riddance. I needed… Read more »

Skye
Skye

And as 12HV says… Be kind to yourself. Slowly slowly

MedusaTattoo
MedusaTattoo

It’s funny, I did a similar ceremony, taking the letters I had written since I broke it off, the one remaining picture I had of us together, and did a meditative burning cleanse. The problem resulted in me not looking to give it up, but seeking some grandiose clarity that of course never came. I have had a very hard time coming to terms with actually WANTING to be freed of it. Because I broke it off, and was in a fuqed headspace at the time of the break up, I’ve questioned how things could be today, reminiscing only on… Read more »

Seagoat
Seagoat

I’m thinking not so much about journaling as therapy, but more about observing your situation in a way that can lift you out of it… I just think we can learn so much from these intense moments and find a way not to be swamped by them but to actually mine these experiences, for-I dunno- Future wisdom?

FireTrined
FireTrined

I am so feeling this. My core relationship is holding steady and strong (thus far anyway) and has actually gained in clarity and inspiration recently, but whoa…. all my other relationships (biz, friendships, even casual neighbourhood relations) are hitting the fan. I am alternately (and sometimes simultaneously) being treated like I’m a highly erratic four-year-old, the doormat/scapegoat du jour, or the antichrist. Let me assure you, I am none of those things. And weird schizz keeps coming up around money. Have been responding with a cocked eyebrow, a sly grin and absolute determination to, as you say above, not relinquish… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

Also “too legit- too legit to quit!” I had that earworm at 3am today, seriously 😛 funny

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

I wonder if this is an MC Hammer transit? There should be an asteroid or something named after him.

FireTrined
FireTrined

lol… Agreed. But securing those trademark Hammer pants to an asteroid would be no mean feat!

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

It’s hammer time! Ahahaha

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

Oh holy crap guys! Asteroid Burrell (16121) is conjunct Uranus right now in Aries and retrograde. M.C. Hammer (AKA Stanley Kirk Burrell) is also an Aries. lol!

It is personally conjunct my chiron too.

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

Lol! Omg PS, it really is hammer time. Hammer time is You, woman 😀

Methinky
Methinky

So on the money! My favourite saying this week just happens to be “Everything looks like a nail when you are standing their holding a hammer” !!

Hahahahahaha

Methinky
Methinky

OMG how embarrassing – THERE. Standing THERE. In my thoughts I spell well and don’t mince homonyms, it’s just typing I suck at 🙂

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas
Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

I had to fight this a.m. with my son’s specialists. Less of a space issue, more of a time one: give me my time or I’ll cut you! When you’re incubating a kidney stone you don’t fuqing mince words. Mincing is for fuqing onions.

Anonymous
Anonymous

“Or I’ll cut you”
Lol! Love your work scorp. Xx

R(aqua/tauri)
R(aqua/tauri)

I’m a Venus-Uranus girl and really liking this Astro. I feel more Aqua and detached from energy draining situations, am behaving like a cat and just very blunt about what I want and don’t want to do. Besides the final blowout with my ex the Pisces in March of this year I have not had any romance (if you can even call that bizarre, drama laden one-off event romance lol). And I like it. I feel powerful and self-contained and im holding out for someone who demonstrates they are the same so I can finally have a relationship where I… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

Like 🙂

Lucy
Lucy

Finally.

Prince Stolas
Prince Stolas

I’ll take recluse for $100 Alex.

I hate this astro and can’t wait for it to be done. It’s just been non-stop hiding from everything/everyone lest LZ shit *could* happen.

Nannon
Nannon

And not just relationships, work situations too! For myself, when one thing ended, another began in 48 hours! I’ve taken some space from my significant other after a big blow out. It caused us both to have heart to hearts. He finally started seeing where I was coming from in all of this. It’s a very refreshing time in my life due to the eclipse.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Yes – business too! Got to negotiate a new gig for myself in a way I’ve never had to before. Freedom is a lot of responsibility too

david5379
david5379

Wait so the last month or whatever is supposed to be a preview for what’s coming up later? That girl I like I never saw her again walking that way, and I feel devastated I fucked it up yet again by not waving back(but at least I half smiled and didn’t look away) I really really hope I do see her again, hopefully that works out

Kava
Kava

Finally snapped on Post Traumatic Stress-afflicted, Cancer/Saggi moody traumatised torturous boyfriend on his behaviour. Called it out as emotional abuse, made him promise to seek counselling and cut contact. In the initial fog, he for the first time admitting fault, sending flowers, asking friends for help, not sure on the counselling but strong signs of yes. Feeling this deep desire for his sake to get help, and almost detached from his unreasonable verbal outbursts of the last few months. Niggling bit proud of myself for digging in and refusing to tolerate that behaviour. Retro-fuzzy so a possibly unrealistic wee hope… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Spot-on. So strange. 180. Que sera, sera. I’m totally LZ on me.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

And a Pisces out of nowhere! Clicked online, clicked on the phone and he’s texting this morning to say he woke up with a smile on his face from talking to me last night. We meet for drinks/dinner after work. Who knows? Maybe its a reward for letting the Taurus go quick and easy? Whatever will be, will be. I’m LOVING this astro. Was so sad a few days in the build up to the eclipse, but the after effects are FAN-FUQING-TASTIC!

akapluto
akapluto

It’s so weird…the Libra I used to “date” (only three weeks and we never had sex) and was LZing about for 8 MONTHS popped up both the April eclipse and this one, like clockwork. The thing is, we actually stayed friends after we broke up (torture) and we were essentially very close…till he got a girlfriend and started treating me like a stranger! At the April Eclipse I texted him from a farm in Florida and told him how shitty it was that he was treating me like a stranger… Come this eclipse, I’m helping his new girlfriend move, have… Read more »

Charley
Charley

Yep. This whole year has been weird in an epic way. I am a walking zap zone though, all these transits have been happening to me for ages and will be until March. The Venus/Pluto square is bringing the psychological triggers and intensity and the Venus/Uranus pop is just bringing the crazy!! I’ve genuinely given up trying to control things, it all feels so inevitable I’m just going with it now, it’s less stressful that way.

bobby
bobby

[the proverbial thumbs up]

Ms.
Ms.

yes

LittleOne
LittleOne

I’ve been all about the space all year… Not even feeling the weather for once. I have struck a balance between Uranus and Saturn and have flown with it all year!

Seagoat
Seagoat

‘Go LZ on yourself’ haha! Done.

Pi
Pi

“nobody trumps you in space wars.”
LOVE this mystic lol

amazing pisces scientist contacted me out of the blue. this never happens. I do actually mean, never. this has never happened. maybe now i have (presumably) worked through this wierd chiron venus south node -feeling i was dealing with about him for ages, somehow the dark matters sense that the friendship can proceed. the something. still shaking my head at the randomness. maybe this is uranus now conjuncting his mars. huh lol

Anonymous
Anonymous

friends is good. nothing is good. everything is good.

MiM
MiM

“If someone wants more “space”, they’re going to have to text you that in Alpha Centauri. ”

As a (personal, emotional, mental) s-p-a-c-e junkie, I just LOVE this 🙂

Horoscopes are fantastic, thanks Mystic. The Zap Zone spiel/reminder on weeklies is a cosmic-magical practical life-saver.

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

Yes I gott dig in the space war thingo!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

lol – that was my favorite line too

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Yes.. Very weird!! Holding my own!! I just think I like the challenge. Who’s gonna win. Who is stronger. Nothing is perfect at least not now in this day and age!! A relationship is never perfect from the started and while it continues!! We should always be learning with each new love!!

Hold on loosely…. Who sang that song?

Anonymous
Anonymous

38 special

Anonymous
Anonymous

your weird

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Love that song.. Thanks!! I couldn’t remember the band!

awesomegamer8949
awesomegamer8949

bitch fuck you

leogroover
leogroover

Now play nice you two

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

I agree but who is that loser talking to?? Looks like they are lost!!