Dating The Zodiac: Libra

libra and dating
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Libra and dating

Well i went on a date with a Libran male a fortnight ago and i ain’t saying nothing about it. Yet. But i DO know that a lot of the “complaints” i get sent here at the Mystic Medusa Bureau are to do with Libran guys.

“Passive aggressive” and “manipulative” seem to be the most bandied about critiques, along with the obligatory acknowledgment of how charming and attractive these Venus ruled peeps can be. The women seem not to be as problematic. Or maybe the people messed up with the Libran ladies have other outlets for their ire?

One of the main things people get wrong about Libra – i.m.o. – is to assume that they’re all mad into pair bonding. I mean, they are but often with a lot of people. Libra IS the free love champion of the zodiac. Sure Gemini and Aquarius talk a good game about it but Geminis often like to have a key partner at home to “manage” things and Aquarius often prefers intense but non-existent affairs, you know?

Whereas many a Libra is genuinely, at the base of their psyche, polyamorous. Add to that their keen appreciation of aesthetics and symmetry, psychic sense of smell and disdain for tedium, plodding stupid details and grubby Earth sign style mechanics of relationship and you can see how dating/mating with the Libran dimension of the zodiac could be problematic.

LavenderQueen is all for dating the Libra.

‘I am a Libra married to a Libra and I love my Libra man. I think we “balance” each other out well. He isn’t manipulative and you just have to point out that his passive aggressiveness is BS and he fixes it. The one thing he never does is make decisions.’

Akapluto reveals…

‘Ummm I’ve dates two Libras and I can’t disagree. One of them I consider a soulmate to this day but we couldn’t get it together because of life choices…even so I would still say he’s a total slut. Next dude broke my heart so hard I have romantic PTSD!’

Thoughts on Libra and dating?

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I dated a Libra sun with an Aries moon and Virgo venus for two years. About a year into things my father died and he got all wishy-washy with my despair. I think he expected me to move on from it quickly and as a result, kept one foot on one side of the door and the other outside. Eventually I pushed him on out, but was shocked to find out a few weeks later he was probably already seeing my neighbor at the time.


I live with a Libra who has the sun plus 4 planets (Sun, Neptune, moon, Venus, Mercury) in Libra, for a total of 5 in Libra. All of that is in the 5th house. Ascendent in Gemini. Jupiter exactly conjunct his MC. His life purpose is to have fun. His definition of fun. So any person or any occasion attracts him if he thinks its fun or exciting. Any social occasion is a celebration. People love him. He’s popular. He’s very handsome. He’s always perfectly dressed, if not overdressed. He has lots of friends. Everyone is his “good buddy ……”… Read more »


I cannot help myself but add to the Libran male description- just went to the amazing criminologist/ psychologist (yes helping me recover from said libran)and cautiously brought up astro …she strongly stated that there seems to be a preponderance of libran males popping up on the domestic violence perp profiles…anecdotally…..jaw dropped…


Hmm…rings true, I’m married to one, with Capricorn rising Aries moon and everyone tells you how easy going they are ! agreed outwardly,
but the silent manipulations….


Libra men…I have a Libra brother who looks quite a bit like the photo illustrating this blog post. Currently dating a Saggo with Mars in Libra, last year I dated a Cancer with Mars in Libra. They both do/did this periodic withdrawal thing. I’m getting used to it, although it really bothered me at first (I am an Aries with a Cancer Moon and Venus in Taurus, which may be why I think the relationship is over every time the Mr. in question gets distant). I will say that the periodic withdrawing that I’m attributing to Mars in Libra is… Read more »


Thank you for sharing this. I’m going through this with my current guy who has sun and four other planets in Libra and it’s very confusing.


I’d like to add libra seems perpetually adolescent to me… like Archie Andrews with hearts in the eyes blooming in the vicinity of every betty and veronica in radius. but obv 1000x more more handsome/suave, like where it’s the legit the women would be fighting over him.


Oh yes, finally the libra-poly connection! My boyf is a libra rising/venus and we had the whole open relationship for a while (he tried to convert me) but i didn’t like it one bit (er, like a year later…). he thinks it’s his true path & is kind of evangelical about it. His venus is in the 12th with sun conj neptune so ‘spiritual polyamory’ is his jam. He’s a scorpio sun/merc and fixated on every beautiful woman in existence + mega Love Zombie. It’s profoundly frustrating to my aries moon (gotta be #1, yo!), but I get it on… Read more »


Libra men dont hug tight. No depth in their hugs ????


I’ve noticed this too … even have a Libra moon friend who hugs lightly.


c’est vrai… a light touch seems to be their speciality

Prince Stolas

Ha! Looks like my ex-Aqua-Toro’s apt! no condiments in the fridge! There were like ice cubes and frozen chicken breasts and pizza.


Try a libra rising, moon in gemini, mars in aquarius guy, omg good confusion…that’s also with scorp in venus and saggo sun…mental.


Someone pointed out to me once that they’re the only sign (symbol) of the zodiac that is represented by a machine (scales).
Every other sign is flesh and blood.


I am a Libra married to a Libra. I love my Libra man. I think we “balance” each other out well. He isn’t manipulative and you just have to point out that his passive aggressiveness is BS and he fixes it. The one thing he never does is make decisions. This can drive me a bit batty as he never knows what he wants to eat, drink, wear etc. I am glad I am decisive or nothing would ever be decided.


I dated a Libran Sun (Cap Asc; Tau Moon) for a whole ten months. It was THE single most challenging and soul-crushing relationship I have had to date – and I’ve had many. Ha! Never have I been with such an intense individual who consistently left me in tears after “disclosing” his liaisons and insisting I be “more supportive” of his “needs”. We were both openly polyamorous (me becoming so after meeting him and with his encouragement) but “committed” to each other – or so I was lead to believe. Within two weeks of getting together and he confessing his… Read more »


To stick up for Librans (moi Mars in Libra) I’d say our manic desire for balance is very a important trait. Balance in everything- life, that painting on the wall that is off kilter by 1mm, dishing out exact amounts of drink, my turn your turn kinda thang, You do me favour I will tear down walls to do you a favour back. Always thank peeps with a gift where appropro, Uneven anything i have to ‘fix’ or try to. Psychic sense of smell don’t start me. I could , in the winter air, smell snow falling in the NSW… Read more »


OK, so I’m a Gemini with Aqua rising and while there are other signs I am compulsively drawn to (Scorpio, Capricorn), Libra is IT for me as far as relationships. I am now with my 3rd Libra in a long-term relationship and couldn’t be happier….that song “3 Libras” by A Perfect Circle has special significance for me…even tho Arien Maynard was apparently writing about 3 Leeb women who broke his heart. Oops. I also tend to have a lot of Libras as friends, both men and women. While their wishy-washiness and what I consider an unwillingness to talk honestly about… Read more »


“Aquarius often prefers intense but non-existent affairs”

Coffee out of nose laughing.


I can’t wait til you get to aquas.


Yes! that comment had the same effect on me …hilarious but so brutally true.


me too! 😯

Ingrid Tosteson

Loving the comments…laughing at the nature of human nature is so healing after the absolute mind fuck, emotion warp, and deep soul felt amorous amazingness of my libra male experience. I err on the side of aquarius, yet have enough in me to stop the madness and want monogamous for the sake of clarity and the sublime trust necessary to go deep within and achieve special goals that alchemy can only unfold. Devotion is a two way street, and as such the paradox of libra is a conundrum my soul is weighing forth as I venture forth into another dream… Read more »


ooh, like.


That man has a juicer on the fridge and Gerberas on his wall. Nope. Nope. Nope.



Cannot IMAGINE dating a libra. Pretty boys turn me off and I am philosophically opposed to symmetry. The dislike is probably mutual tho – I have a super crooked jaw. And a family full of librans, and that’s ENOUGH.


Libra men. Charming. Players.


Well, I’ve had ’em all – all types of Libras with various combinations: the charming ones, the liars, the sleek, silver-tongued ones, the seductive ones, the uber cultured ones, the smooth, the conniving ones, the Cool, the enchanting conversationalists, and the passive aggressives. And some more, already mentioned above by others on this thread. And for the past 26 years, I have been blessed by the company of my Libra Sun/ Asc life partner. He is even more than the sum of the positive traits of any Sun sign. He loves me. He lets me Be and encourages me to… Read more »


“He loves me. He lets me Be and encourages me to pursue any dream that I desire – no matter how hare-brained”.

That’s interesting to me as my partner’s Sun is also conjunct my ASC and I feel exactly the same. Their Sun shining light on who we are in the world?
I have had other partners who said they supported me no matter what, but in action it didn’t feel so.


I like that – ” their Sun shining light on who we are in the world.” Our partner being our own spotlight (soft focus at my age :-l) – nice concept. And we theirs of course. Otherwise imbalance. So we should choose someone that shows us up in the most favourable light… doing a Marlene Dietrich when choosing lighting..


Honestly, I love Libra men! I have Libra Asc, moon, and jupiter and I find that no other sign is as considerate. Libras are so fair! And especially if I am living with someone, I need that energy or I lose my mind. I have never been able to stay with someone who didn’t have that energy in their chart somewhere. Moon in Libra men are the best. I don’t find them passive aggressive at all, but then again, we’re cut from the same cloth. A lot of astrologers say that the only true match for a Sagittarius is another… Read more »

Marie Hebson

I am madly in love with a Libran male – have been for over 30 years. I won’t lie, our early years were full of arguments, great sex, more arguments, then more sex but overall, he is my soul mate and our love has grown into this amazing, whole, soulful, wanting, cherishing, longing just to be in the same room with him kind of love. I am a cancer, true water sign. Not sure of what what he or I is in conjunction with, all I know is we work – and we’ve had many couples, friends, relatives, co-workers state… Read more »


“Libra IS the free love champion of the zodiac” – Agreed, but ONLY if they have Neptune in Libra conjunct their Sun. Neptune = no boundaries. Or Uranus – that’s another one that screams “free love”. Neptune was in this sign from late ’42 to mid ’57, and the “flower children” born during this time came of age during the 60’s when this concept was a Big Deal. Uranus was here from late ’68 to late ’75, and the explosion of Free Love from the late 60’s to early 70’s in particular is pretty self-explanatory since this is a planet… Read more »


And this. thank you.


Yep. Gotta consider the whole picture.
I’ve known Libra for a while. Didn’t stray in the flesh, for sure. Superficially charming and ready to hop up and get you a cuppa, but with a Venus in Scorpio, wasn’t much for free love. Terrified of the deep.


Libra is in love with love. And beauty. Period. I don’t think it’s so much a case of innate poly tendencies so much as this. All the Leebs I know are pair-bonded in one respect or another – it may be their Bestie, it may be a Significant Other, or a biz partner, but the Leebs I’ve always associated with are all about companionship in one format or another. I think the surest way to repel them is to be self-centered, so perhaps if our Libra is drifting away we might examine this possibility. A lot of times, once we’re… Read more »


I agree so much with this.


agree too. Nice expression LV. We want everybody to play nice and be nice to each other.


Just wanted to say I’m dating a libra and he’s one of the most solid and genuinely nice people I have ever met. Needy? Yes, might be both value alone time too. I am a Scorpio with Taurus rising and he has Capricorn rising, which I think is am interesting combo on his part. Thoughts? Again, it’s early days yet but my gut is saying nothing but good things.


Libra men are my weakness … As memory serves me, there have been 2 robust connections (possibly more, as I haven’t been an astrofiend my entire life) My first Libra (Leo rising/Kat moon/Venus+Mars in Scorpio) and I had a 2 year thing. We played house for a while and watched his friends couple up/get hitched for about a year. One day, after realizing he’d never verbally expressed his affections – I asked him how he felt. He told me he didn’t feel anything different for the mailman, this mother, or me. I promptly moved out and never heard from him… Read more »


🙁 both of those stories are really messed up, especially #1. that’s beyond cold.


Thanks, R. … at the time, people told me I was acting too needy by asking for verbal validation, but his honesty really did some damage. Appreciate you validating the frigidity of it all … after this last Libra, I’m truly convinced they are incapable of empathy. Fairness/Balance? Sure, but only when it’s convenient or benefits them directly.


I don’t think it is needy at all to have a conversation about our feelings for our partner, with our partner!!! It is essential, normal, healthy, for better or worse (as they say)

And look at what you got out of it. Illusion busting. To say the least 🙁
Pi x


Can’t connect with a lot of the negative rap towards the Libran Man. I am married to a Sun/Mercury Conjunct Lib + Aqua Moon + Leo Mars for 15 years. Apart from being gorgeous looking, well defined physique, chiselled dimpled chin etc…Relationships are his number one priority in life, be it with me, our kids, his friends, or work… whatever… Extremely loyal and a seriously wise negotiator and diplomat. He does have some downfalls ~ lame bullshit which stems from fear of conflict, can be needy for intimacy and can out sulk anyone on the planet if he is feeling… Read more »


the way librans collect friends fascinates me and is a subject of my ongoing study. insta-posse. they are very good at it. I am not sure if i am envious, or just see it as Room for Improvement in my social life, at some stage perhaps, if it becomes a priority. thank you for reminding me of that trait of the Librans


I think I’m guilty of this but my explanation is: I love people!

And I really get off on meeting new people especially.

The downfall of that is the old tried and true friends get insulted when I’m more excited to meet new people. But meeting new people excites me, dammit!

Maria Padhila

Libra/Gemini rising and not only polyamorous, but I write about it. Despite my age and the odds, only libra guy was way back–my poetry professor. Looked like Redford with a broken nose and is the good kind of crazy. Had the gentlest breakup ever, like a diplomatic withdrawal, made it look like it was me, but I think it was because I put on about 10 pounds! He still checks in on my poetry blog sometimes and is wonderful. I like to just take people where they are. (The abusive stalker I had was a Sag, so so much for… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

Over the years I’ve had many long-term, endearing but strictly platonic relationships with Librans of both genders. Very flirty, very critical lot. Critical or decisively discerning, it would depend on many factors; constant balancing/rebalancing of the scales. Passionate always. All of that I can appreciate & have found many Librans I’ve encountered sympatico. My 7th house runs from early degrees Virgo to late degrees Libra + Pluto-Moon in early Libra. I’ve never felt sexual chemistry/attraction to Librans. Yes many of them tried lol but nope, I wasn’t feeling it. What Scorpio (with Aries in the 1st & MC + North… Read more »


you must be a seething mass of scorpio magnetism with that lineup, S inc. 😉 XX

Scorporation, Inc.

Seething mass lol! Then there’s my Uranus-Mercury @ 29* Libra/8th house… Like a beehive. “I’m sorry, but could you speak up? Can’t hear you over the bees!”


That’s cut-through communications right there … How is the dark moon and merc retro going for that? Oh and Venus too … -.-
:). Pi x


Haha. I am glad somebody has finally mentioned the polygamy. I feel this is the more natural way, mainly because I see the majority of people who are in relationships, especially the males almost having to force commitment to one person, many of them cheat or find stimulation from the opposite sex via another method. As a Libra I think I want balance and equality in a relationship and forcing the other person or myself to totally bend to the others or societies needs does not have it’s basis in love, not in my eyes anyway. I’ve honestly( and I… Read more »


I thought I should add. I would not go look for a polygamous relationship.

Ideally one on one connection would be wonderful but I want who I love to be happy and like I said I don’t think a large percentage of men want one on one relationship.


Oh yeah. What the others said about sex. I can’t/don’t enjoy sex unless its the higher type. My mars is in retro which makes my sex life resemble that of a dead dried frog who is only now active in heaven.


SuperLibran, yeah that’s what my saggo yoga teacher ex used to call me. I have 5 planets there including Venus, mars, Pluto and Uranus.. So you could say the Saturn transit was a bit of thing, it was the exact duration of the yoga teacher actually. I have Aries rising so maybe that’s why I don’t relate to the lack of action so many talk of, but yeah lower vs higher vers can make a huge difference. The poly thing doesn’t resonate with me either. I just want the one deep connection, of course I’m happy to appreciate beauty from… Read more »

Circe Baby

Currently seeing a Libra Rising + Libra Moon angel. He is all about the free love. His dream business would be a lingerie company that only makes g-strings and offers a set of five for free for new customers, such is his ardent belief that the female derriere looks like a masterpiece in a g-string. But only if the lady pleases, naturally.

I have my Mars at 29 Libra so I am crazy for these Venusian types. I like my men feminine looking, fine and clean. Long hair is good but a good haircut is better.


I think I am in a polyamorous relationship with my Libran husband – he is also married to his golf (the first true love in his life and most lasting) lol


It’s interesting reading all of the above. I don’t recall ever dating a Lib male, but I do bat for the other team. Lol! However, with a Lib sun, Gem rising and Aqua moon, I am one of the most monogimist people you’ll ever find! Yes, I’m of the female variety, but I also have some lovely male Lib friends who are in very living, stable, monogimist relationships. I am told I am charming and charismatic and yes I am capable of flirting, but I am totally true to whom I’m relating with. I have never really understood how or… Read more »


Heh heh I’m poly and I have no urge to date more than one person…sex with another person is generally random and just a fun experience…but being venus/uranus in saggo I see no other way to be…

Multiple boyfriends? Hell no. It’s hard enough dealing with myself, let alone another person, let alone two! Agh!

Even in the Quietest Moments

Wild (or boring) sex with any woman, er, no. Sex with my wild woman, yippe yi ay.


The thing I most remember about when reading a biography of libran Brigitte Bardot was that she openly had so many lovers in her heyday, but was never derided for it (even in that era) she had goddess status in France. Goddess of free love! Have never dated a Libran man, been friends with a few and always find them very attractive, and intelligent & well dressed etc. I do like all that, am libran rising myself. Stood back and watched how many women pursued them, but never inclined to pursue, they might have been too nice? The few times… Read more »


That’s interesting, reading this made me wonder if Aries people ever have a preference for the sign that rules their 1st House/ASC. Clearly not!

(I am with a Gem and am Gem Rising but he is very involved with my SN which is located on my ASC).


I never dated a Gem (my Asc/1st House 26 degrees…late…)

But married a Kataka which is basically my full on 1st house and 2nd house

And then of course there was the Pisces which is my MC…big part of my 10th. Think it’s the angles that hold some sway either way.

Sagg rules my 7th tho (obviously) and husband was a foreigner and his Jupiter (Sagg rulled…traditionally of the 9th) was in Aries conjunct my Sun and all other Aries parts.


If peeps are kinda curious about that long term relationship/7th house…look to the planet ruling the 7th and what it hits in your chart…Or what some other’s planet/part hits in your chart).

For love affairs, the 5th. Mine is Libra (Venus)

I have natal Venus in Toro (with Lilith…gawd help me)…square Uranus in 3rd…

Can’t help that I’m forever independent and nothing will ever change that.


Gemini is my catnip actually (where my NN is. When I looked at pictures of men on RSVP, guaranteed the ones I found most attractive were Gems. The Leo is Mars, Venus, Jupiter in Gemini. He makes me laugh, just at the point where I might lose my temper, I laugh instead!

I have 3 Aries planets in 7th house, but not much to do with Aries men either


Re: Bardot

Her ruling planet (Venus) was conjunct…..ta-dum!…Neptune! See my other comment below about why I was saying I don’t think Libra energy (by itself) is necessarily all about the Free Love.


Yes interesting what you write about Neptune conjunct sun, she was certainly an icon of the times.

Btw I think it’s a great thing that she could openly take whatever lovers she pleased, particularly in that era, and she was still adored as la Bardot!


” Libra IS the free love champion of the zodiac.” Yup. I dated one for about two years, with a break in between so he could fly to Canada to try and make it work with a girl there. Absolutely THE guy for manners and charm, really lovely. He collected Swarovski figurines and carefully chose his outfits each day. Appreciated a good cocktail and classical music. My Libra rising really loved all that stuff about him, but the Aries/Sag part of me did not so much, especially when it turned out that Mr. Polyamory didn’t actually want a poly relationship… Read more »


LOLOL awesome. i mean, hideous. but awesome, as an anecdote at least xx


Tres hilare Jessleane; his mother broke it off for him… God these Dating the Starsigns are a major dumping ground. I think its just men in general!!!


I was just reading an article on domestic abuse in The Guardian and among many interesting things it said that all victims of domestic abuse -all!- (according to battered women’s advocate), thought their abusers were “the nicest person” they had ever met when they were first together… I wonder what capacity for abuse an amicable Libra might hide… With a touch of neighboring Scorpio in the personal planets, you have quite a concoction…


I know someone who is a libra-scorp combo and although you think butter wouldn’t melt in their mouth, my god the arguments i have heard about. like 2 personalities.


times may have changed though.


in all fairness [since we are talking libra here, fairness seems apt], i think what it was (is maybe) is the libra parts have a clear idea of what is best or necessary for The Relationship, and if the other person does not eventually toe the line, then the SAS / paramilitaries (scorpio parts) get called in. I get that , I guess, but making the Ultimate Sacrifice for a partnership is a little beyond my “man on verandah polishing shotgun” venus aries / moon cap ;D hahaah


I definitely concur that the possibility of Scorpio being in any Libra’s chart creates a certain scenario (and I’m not talking smack cuz I am myself Libra/Scorp full blown). The Libra who broke my heart was all wonderful and perfect until he saw something he didn’t think was gonna work and shit got shady fast. He broke up with me out of nowhere and i mean out of nowhere. He was Mars/Uranus/Venus conjunct in Scorp! But seriously you can’t be prejudice against a whole sign…that’s lunacy. Libras are, at the very least, some of the better people you’ll meet, and… Read more »


Well this is an awful suggestion you are making here, LaLuz. And very offensive imo. This is Astro slander of the lowest form.
It’s one thing to have a good whinge and vent about some Libra you’ve known, but it’s quite another to suggest that because of their Astro personalities they could be domestic abusers.




I don’t know about the bigger picture but I’m going to be honest here and state that my Libran brother was abusive to his wives… I mean FOUR wives peeps…He worked thru his issues with my mother thru his marriages which is unfortunate. He needed counseling and a time out from relationships. My Mother, double Leo, had a lot of Virgo and not to bash that either but she was HARD on him… As a child, imagine working hours and hours to put together intricate airplane parts (on a model), only to have your mother smash them in her rage..… Read more »


And so this is where we take our consciousness and stop the madness.

Be the generation that heals it.

Mother passed it down to my brother from how she was treated by her Father…

All the challenges in my life are eventually looked at and understood as not just for me but for my kids and their children..


The air signs in general don’t like messy stuff and project onto others. Especially wounds, needs, hurts. It is never ok to hurt someone. Hurt peeps hurt peeps. Libras run/hide from wounds by evaporating and recreating a persona- it’s like trying to hug a cloud. Many abused women I know were Libra because they maintained the Stepford Wife veneer. And didn’t want to risk censure or the blame/judgment. My observation re abusers- male and female- They perpetuate the top- down dyads- right/wrong, powerful/weak, worthy/naff. Low Libra glosses over everything, then the masks fall off and whoa. Being alone with feelings… Read more »


my abusive Libra ex is just as you describe Kell, and currently having a Saturn on Neptune transit. i hope it helps cos after 6 years apart, geez i’m getting sick of being the projectee!


You have obviously misinterpreted my comment, CatLib. Any sign can be abusive, but the “niceness” factor is Libra’s trademark strong card. And it can be misused, at times, don’t you think?


That was me…


I’ve read some pretty crazy things on these blogs before, and generally take everything with a pinch of salt. I mean, who doesn’t enjoy indulging in a bit of exaggeration to illustrate a point. But when someone actually suggests that a particular Sun sign could be the perpetrator of domestic abuse – with absolutely no evidence, that is where I draw the line. I agree with CatLib – this comment is not only offensive, but also abusive.


LaLuz was *not* saying that “a particular sun sign could be the perpetrator of domestic abuse”.

LaLuz *was* saying that IF one were able to pick out potential perpetrators of domestic abuse via astrological indicators, *one* astro combo that *might* indicate a potential for domestic abuse *might* be a Libra sun with some Scorpio in the personal planets.


Thank you, Arienaquacancer.


I must have gotten lucky with my (sun in) Libra. He is the most compassionate, understanding, supportive and easy to talk to man I’ve ever been with. We are going on 4 years together and we have a wonderful bond. Whenever there are conflicts we work through them. He has always made time for us and helps me remember I am worthy of great things. Perhaps he has other planets at play that help but this Libran is one to keep. Or maybe we are just a good match ^^ I don’t just feel the love inside me – I… Read more »


Yeah, you can never really see the evolution of a Soul in an astro chart…Peeps keep tryin’…You might see the karma thru the nodes but how that plays out, the why and the wherefores are beyond us….Until we live them and then understand them of course.

But your relationship sounds lovely.


Sometimes when it’s right, it’s right;-)


I’m a female Libran with a stellium in Libra.. and in relationships I’m never interested in dishonesty or looking for other guys. Probably because I don’t get into a pair unless he’s the most beautiful.. and would rather just break up with him if I fell out of love and in it with someone else. Dishonestly can lead to unpleasantness.. Libras need connection…


Have had two relationships with the Librain (sic) of the species. One had a hair fetish as in liked lots of it and would withhold sex if you had a wax, shave et al. Liked seeing prostitutes and had no issue with multi-partners. Had mother issues, as in a lot, of, mother, issues. But unbelievably good looking and charismatic, insanely so, much like he was. Second was a sociopath of the highest order. Mother issues again, as in dead mother issues, and I don’t want to speak ill of the dead but there’s that old adage of how people can… Read more »


Ummm I’ve dates two Libras and I can’t disagree. One of them I consider a soulmate to this day but we couldn’t get it together because of life choices…even so I would still say he’s a total slut. Next dude broke my heart so hard I have romantic PTSD. He came on like we were soulmatea and lost interest in a matter of weeks. The most charming, seductive interesting dude I’ve ever met. Handsome as the devil himself. Found out later that he’s done the same thing to hundreds of girls! Ew. And as for the girls…well I’m Sun/Moon Libra… Read more »


“so sue me” … haha excellent. the thing is owning it and telling the whingers to rack off 🙂


heh heh yeah….if done in with proper etiquette (not in front of your significant other) than I see no reason why people can’t flirt…


My ex-husband is a Libra, 10 years younger than I am. And I’m an Aquarius. He is everything stated in the article. He’s beautiful and charming. As well as passive aggressive and manipulative. Every day I regret divorcing him, I am still in love with him. At the moment we’re friends with benefits, and it works. Honestly it may be the best I ever get out of him at this point…


Dated an attractive and grounded Libra for 4 years. He had some of the qualities everyone is talking about. Was very open sexually, ok with polyamory, ok with bisexual playing, but once we started dating really cared nothing for any of that, just didn’t seem to have the motivation to really search it out, but the thought of it was just fine. He had always been a loyal partner when he was in a relationship, never cheated on a past girlfriend. His Venus in Virgo liked me barefooted with no makeup, and was really into the idea of me shaving… Read more »


Libra girl over here. I always thought that the male Libra were unreliable, one minute super suave the next it’s like they can’t even remember your name. I had this big crush on a gorgeous Polish guy that worked with me at a restaurant and he was such a charmer and he knew how to subtly creep into your psyche. I was 17 or 18 and he was 10 years older. He was a Cordon Bleu chef and I was super impress with his cooking skills, ended up in his bed where he covered me with honey and licked it… Read more »


It”s my Libran bro’s birthday today. Happy Birthday, wherever you are. We always had a special bond but Aries Pop said he took issue with him for a reason Dad don’t understand. After Libran brother called my Gem daughter some time ago (2 yrs) and went on about his FOURTH divorce and the drama surrounding that still, I didn’t appreciate that (okay, he has a Sagg Moon and can’t help himself…lol…if anyone was going to understand him it was my Sagg Moon daughter 🙂 ) But Pop is getting older and I can’t abide that my brother does not talk… Read more »



😆 Sweetpea! Way to go Pop!! 🙂



Thank you Gemmy girl! x


Oh, I forgot this one…





Gemmy, I love that song by Sia…”Chandeler”…

do I still suck? 😯 lol

but I remember Rhianna and how we both liked “Like a Diamond”…I thought this was Rhianna until I looked it up on Youtube…

Do you like it?




No, you don’t suck!! I love it too, plus Sia being an aussie girl doing well in the US is just awesome! I liked a few of her other songs, they’re a bit moody 😯 I blame my pisces rising for that 😆 my Gemmy side loves dance songs. I’ve been listening to Stevie Wonder’s masterblaster lately! 😀 I’m also loving Pink’s collaboration with Dallas Green & have been listening to this (my pisces rising just gets so lost in listening to violins, i love it) What else you listening you to Sweetpea? xoxoxoxoxo


Wow, well, I love that song and AM listening…

So true…

Other than that, it’s just Sia..So great she is Oz..just adore that song..obsessed…

And then of course my old cd’s in my car…

You know Beautiful Day and all…for reals..most others are scratched…lol

Have a good weekend baby girl..xoxoxoxox


~gonna swing from the chandelier~

As and aside., slept 11 hours last night and dreamt of taking “Rizopan” never taken it in my lifel but in my dream I was high…


Understand Chandelier is about drugs, etc…


Literally goggled Rizopan this am…


I ended up in a live in relationship with a LIbran almost by accident. I needed somewhere to live in a hurry and i moved in with him and then didn’t look for another place to live. (This was when I was much younger) He was sweet and charming and ended up cheating on me with his ex, someone we saw socially. This happened a week before we went on holiday and stayed with his parents. I split up with him before the holiday but went with him anyways – gah. Not the best holiday i’ve ever been on. I… Read more »

Lux interior is My Co-Pilot

Ha, never dated one.

But I’ve always found ’em to be “all flirt, no phone number”


This is so true, I feel like Librans objectify and are objectified more than any other sign. Is it true that at one point 50% of playboy bunnies were Libran? One Libran friend in particular had the most casual fuq buddies I have known, but in an organised way. It was all very fair. Monday night was the kinky guy, Tuesday the nutty Russian, Wednesday the Carpenter (very useful, she kept him for a while) etc. etc. I think the Libran sense of justice makes them very even-handed in their dealings with others, almost bloodlessly so for my intense tastes.


ah! I think that’s it. I need blood. and fire. just enough , you know? well, and some brains too. Ok. so what I basically need is a human sacrifice >:D *crunching sounds*


HEY just had a half-glass-of-rose-inspired south Node flashback. My venus in aries, conjunct south node, in 10th house. Maybe I was a (cough) leader of some sort who fell in love with the hunky / pretty creature who was next in line to be tipped into the volcano / to the lions etc. maybe I was wealthy and/or corrupt. perhaps I squandered my authority or wealth in an effort to bestow freedom upon my beloved. hmm. now, in this life i face material lessons: saturn in second Leo, moon in austere cap, mars in the house of sex and debt… Read more »


sorry the point was venus and *Chiron* conjunct south node 🙂


Yes! Thank you for articulating that. Blood and fire is exactly what I require too. It’s a mutual sacrifice thing with me tho. Mmmmm crunchy


yeah the air definitely needs room to circulate but nothin’s cooking without fire 🙂


Love the day of the week rotation! Lol


My friend was Virgo Sun, Saggo Moon, Libra Venus. Her lovers were meticulously spreadsheeted one per day of the week!


Never dated a Libra Sun guy, but seem to have attraction to guys with Mars in Libra. I have Aqua Sun, so that’s the only thing I can think of to make a connection there. I have SN in Libra but late Libra, and these guys’ Mars were early Libra, so I don’t know… I have Eros in early Libra as well as Venus in early Cap, so the dynamic square, but still…. I know a lot of Libra women, though, as friends, but as Aqua I think I’m too independent for them and they don’t understand how I ‘do’… Read more »


Ha! My partner is mars in libra and I have an aqua sun as well as venus in cap. Tell me, do you think those guys have difficulty expressing themselves directly, ie. passive aggression/withdrawal? Moodiness? I would love something to pin it on.


Pass/agg for sure, but more maddening is the wishy washy non-committal vibe. And yeah, not being very direct, not just with what they’re saying, but with actions too.
Current dude has Mars in Libra retrograde! Argh!


Agree!! That’s a pretty accurate summation of their traits.

“washy non-committal vibe”

Totally!! It’s so frustrating!

I seem to attract a lot of mars in Libra guys. They’re drawn to my Venus in Libran.

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