Libra and dating
Well i went on a date with a Libran male a fortnight ago and i ain’t saying nothing about it. Yet. But i DO know that a lot of the “complaints” i get sent here at the Mystic Medusa Bureau are to do with Libran guys.
“Passive aggressive” and “manipulative” seem to be the most bandied about critiques, along with the obligatory acknowledgment of how charming and attractive these Venus ruled peeps can be. The women seem not to be as problematic. Or maybe the people messed up with the Libran ladies have other outlets for their ire?
One of the main things people get wrong about Libra – i.m.o. – is to assume that they’re all mad into pair bonding. I mean, they are but often with a lot of people. Libra IS the free love champion of the zodiac. Sure Gemini and Aquarius talk a good game about it but Geminis often like to have a key partner at home to “manage” things and Aquarius often prefers intense but non-existent affairs, you know?
Whereas many a Libra is genuinely, at the base of their psyche, polyamorous. Add to that their keen appreciation of aesthetics and symmetry, psychic sense of smell and disdain for tedium, plodding stupid details and grubby Earth sign style mechanics of relationship and you can see how dating/mating with the Libran dimension of the zodiac could be problematic.
LavenderQueen is all for dating the Libra.
‘I am a Libra married to a Libra and I love my Libra man. I think we “balance” each other out well. He isn’t manipulative and you just have to point out that his passive aggressiveness is BS and he fixes it. The one thing he never does is make decisions.’
‘Ummm I’ve dates two Libras and I can’t disagree. One of them I consider a soulmate to this day but we couldn’t get it together because of life choices…even so I would still say he’s a total slut. Next dude broke my heart so hard I have romantic PTSD!’
Thoughts on Libra and dating?
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