Dating The Zodiac: Gemini

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Gemini and dating

Once i dated a Gemini Spy. So had an excuse for his multiple identities, different ways of spelling his name depending on mood (or alias?), strange familiarity with a ludicrous array of characters and period absences. The Gemini Soap Star, not so much. There was also a Gemini “tampon entrepreneur”. Yes, male. A pioneer in the use of organic cottons for such purposes. Sadly, his plan to impregnate the product with cannabis and St John’s Wort fell foul of the Therapeutic Goods Administration.

Gemini men used to be my catnip. Maybe because my North Node is Gemini, the fuqers always help me grow. I have never known one who was not brilliant at telling jokes/anecdotes and had a brain like a kaleidoscope. Like if you put them under a scanner, this is how their mind would look. I have never known one who was not, let’s just say, erratic. As in capable of literally swearing they did not say the statement they uttered 20 minutes ago. “What are you talking about? Are you high?” etc.

That is to say Geminis are ruled by Mercury and remember that the element (and the God) both have some slippery, weird qualities. Mercury is dangerous and highly volatile, though the rumor is that they can transmute into gold is, of course, intriguing. But who has time for alchemy these days? Definitely not in a relationship. Mercury the God is classically a hermaphrodite, a trickster and capable of springing the most sensational omens and clues. What’s more is that Mercury IS synchronicity. But just don’t expect Mercury to necessarily be where it was meant to be. Time? A construct.

‘I’m a double Gemini so really I guess I am never single in a manner of speaking. I don’t see what all the fuss is about. People tend to go nuts over getting two for one when shopping. I rest my case.’ Thanks Geminian!

Z states… ‘He’s a Gemini Ascendant and Mars in Gemini. He’s never fixed in one place or with the same group of people all the time. That makes him come across as a flake. I was reluctant to add him to my social media fearing he’d be there updating and socializing all the time. Which is exactly what he does.’

Does any of this resonate with YOUR Gemini dating/mating experiences?

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HellaHeka

My Mother is a Gemini. My best friend growing up was as well. Let’s just say that both may have (perhaps unintentionally) gaslighted me for many years until I woke the fuq up when Uranus hit Aries (my 7th house) and had to rebuild my self-esteem in ALL THE WAYS brick by brick. Mom is better now, but still a Gemini. That thing about swearing they didn’t say the thing? Spot on. Crazy accurate.

Have a new best friend who is also Gemini. Can’t say I like Gemini much, and also they seem to be ever present in my life.

Ariel
Ariel

Well, I find myself able & inclined to comment on this one – couldn’t bear to revisit my three great Aries loves on the first thread. But I have had so many dalliances with fellow Gems, in fact more than Aries. My first gf was a Gem – tall, Swedish, has completed now I think six degrees?! I’m not kidding. Gemini bf from 2008 ran a blog, was a guitarist in a band that wore WW2 gas masks on stage, a poet & had a room full of stuffed toys, psychotherapy books & weird musical gadgets. He was entertaining but… Read more »

leogroover
leogroover

Never felt the urge nor had the opp to datee a gem. I think they would do my fixed sign head in. I have 2 moon in gem sons and I love them to bits but a love affair ….. no

calypso
calypso

I’m with you on that LG. Also have 2 sons with Gem luminaries and love them, but the dating – no.

Ainslie
Ainslie

I have Gemini in Psyche.. Which both allures and confuses the fuq out of people. I like it ????.
Think fast peeps

Geminian
Geminian

I’m a double Gemini so really I guess I am never single in a manner of speaking. I don’t see what all the fuss is about. People tend to go nuts over getting two for one when shopping.

I rest my case.

Chris
Chris

Nice!

Chris
Chris

Btw – does that make you Gemini squared or Gemini x 2?

Geminian
Geminian

G=Mc2

Anonymous
Anonymous

Two for one…. funny as Gem

skarab
skarab

I like air signs and all my impt romantic relationships have been with air people even though i’m a katakan – ( i have libra asc. though) I love their mercurial minds and their wicked wit. What i would like to know is, do all Gemini men suffer from very marked bouts of the dark cloud? or melancholia? or madness, even? Coz that’s been my experience with Gemini men – and not just the ones that I’ve been involved with, but all of the ones i know. Is this a common theme in the Gem male makeup? I know that… Read more »

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

No. (u can tell this is the short answer by it’s brevity) (the explanation took longer) (just by way of qualifying)

skarab
skarab

Thanks. I feel reassured by your answer. I will give no further thought to the matter.

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

Easy as.

Seriously tho,
I know some are. Some aren’t.

I’ve got a good friend who is 4/5 close planets in Gem. He can be infuratingly verbose, at times, even for my Aqua Moon. But he is very genuine comrade.

skarab
skarab

oh i don’t doubt their genuineness – either when they’re being genuine or not. Just thought that maybe they are prone to more moodiness or neurosis than other signs…..all that thinking and the myriad of possibilities….may be equivalent to blowing fuses…it’s just an observation and wondered if others have experienced it as well….it’s not a set-in-stone prejudice.
And yes indeedy, Bob is a Gem – in more ways than one!

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

True in some cases. I got some air (Aqua Moon/Uran 1H) & l can relate a bit to ‘all that thinkn’. So yes there is that side of craziness.

C Eastwood is another story tellin Gem. Great Rank-on-terrs!

In these “Dating the Zodiac” posts it tends to cover more than just dating as the discussions meander. Even multi conjuncts can be not so their sign.

I’ve already gone into defence mode for the next Sun sign in this series. I ‘ve a song quote ready for it as well (and for Scorps n Fisches too when their turn).

skarab
skarab

I would have thought *especialy* multi conjuncts can be not so their sign, I think.. ….actually i don’t think after 10pm, at least not logically….
Ha-ha yes! It looks like it’s kataka next. I could say some things already, but I’ll save it for its correct place. 😉
…Wow – TFC, you’re up early on a Sunday.

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

I gotta get scheissen done. Uran n Pluto have had much to do with my psyche past 2 years. A manifestation has been an inability to do wordly affairs. First time l have not done tax ever on time. Now lve missed ’12-’13 & ’13/’14. I gotta sell my bike and l cant follow up leads on that. My Kombi sits awaitn repairs (getn special partz fr USA). And dealing with life sucking adolescents that are not brought properly by their (apparent) parentZ! & now l am dreaming more since getting Sasportas book. What Ruler/Planet in what Sign n what… Read more »

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

So is you west coast surfn USA?

Anonymous
Anonymous

No – but that Sarostas book sounds good

Anonymous
Anonymous

sorry – Sasportas.

Anonymous
Anonymous

I think u kno mor than me but its a succint read on da maata

Veronica
Veronica

They definitely have one darker side…and the other more fun

The Baroness
The Baroness

The older I get the harder I find to bear their self-indulgence and neurosy. Most of my exes were earth signs with TOO many Gemini and Cancer placements which made them all narcisstic, deflective and generally fucked up (not to mention abusive in some capacity, one of them in every capacity imaginable). And all the Geminis I dated were outright liars who worst, believed their own lies so it was close to impossible to have a genuine, intimate moment with them. Always looking past your shoulder for something else, too. Not that all Geminis are like that, but they ARE… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

This pattern may be related to you rather than to just gem placement perhaps?

The Baroness
The Baroness

Broken the pattern, actually. Ironically, I was working with someone yesterday who was a Gemini. Talks too much, does little to no work. Expects me to feed them every time they work with me though they make 10 times more money than I do. Wants me to call them every week to keep them motivated. And I’ve realized ALL my Gemini ‘friends’ were like that. They surround themselves with people who let them play Big Mama while they remain the eternal baby. I politely listened to him, gave him a drink, and suggested he post online to look for creative… Read more »

davidl
davidl

I’m gem rising and gem moon with mercury in Aries and Pluto in Virgo. Never had a love relationship with a gem. One thing I can say about them is I find of all signs they are the easiest to pick. The gem that comes to mind was an industry friend in film and tele who would fly to LA in the mid 80s , buy hundreds of e pills from uni student labs in the states and then come back and have huge e parties. Never sold them, just gave them out to everyone from his little brown jar.… Read more »

Z
Z

Yes. He’s a Gemini Ascendant and Mars in Gemini. He’s never fixed in one place or with the same group of people all the time. That makes him come across as a flake. I was reluctant to add him to my social media fearing he’d be there updating and socializing all the time, which is exactly what he does. He loves George Carlin. He doesn’t strike me as particularly witty and his songwriting seems kind of bratty and formative, but that seems to be the area where his unfocused self longs to focus on. He left a group that was… Read more »

Chris
Chris

I love it everyone seems to have a weirdo gem story! I built a little shack in the foothills of alpine tassie with a double gem. We had no power so nights often involved me observing her 100 projects on the go at once and having a giggle. She was and is adorable. My gem moon perhaps creates an empathic bridge from my cappo. I love the rampant duality but certainly frustrating at times.

Fauness
Fauness

Absolutely! I was thinking the same thing. Oh man, did those comments come up fast too.

Fauness
Fauness

Best sex of my life with a gemini. He can still make my blood hot when I think about it and that was 10 years ago. Intelligent, fun, lone wolf, and athletic (ex-pro). So many positions in so many places. Also had a brief hot affair with a girlfriend who was also a gemini. We lived together and she asked me to read her The Little Prince when she was sick. I read the book every day until the end, when we promptly went at it. It continued for a while, and when it was over we were still friends… Read more »

Johnny
Johnny

Yup, I know and have known many Gem’s. Well, Mercury is the trickster so I know these guys and gals are good at getting away with behavior like that.

But being a hardcore Scorpionic and Plutonic guy I am good at making it brutally and painfully obvious to them that they are full of sh*t. Once they get to know me they are always on their best behavior when near me. And it’s funny how their so called “forgetfulness” or “changeable nature” all of a sudden vanishes!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Best behaviour… How boring!

Anonymous
Anonymous

We aren’t on our best behaviour around you, we just don’t want to waste any more thought on a brute than strictly necessartyt.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Or even waste our typing skills. :^|

Astraea
Astraea

Cheeky post MM! Haute-Gem is SO amazing, only fitting their psychic other can be so lethal. Gem Moon 9th, btw ; ) The selective amnesia – it’s called gaslighting. The name changes – they’re running from the law. The multiple identities – preview to their next Tom Ripley. The periodic absences – time spent establishing said identity (spouse, job, children, etc.) in a new country. I love the applied topic of synchronicity. Mercurial magic conjures Narada/Markandaya for me. The character(s) from Rushdie’s novel Midnight’s Children who frequently change(s) sex on a whim and eventually loses themselves, escaping reality, through mutable… Read more »

Astraea
Astraea

“tampon entrepreneur” I almost died!

sunshine
sunshine

Well as you know Mystic I’m a full blown Gemini albeit Saturn conj my Sun protects me from the worst of the flighty aspects of Gem. However, the best friend of a Sag I once dated, (the wisest person I have ever met) was also a Gemini and the 3 of us had so much fun together that it was often best to include him in our high jinks than exclude him. I have never met more witty and uproariously funny people in my life than those two. They could have matched Robin Williams in their sleep. On one occasion,… Read more »

Pi
Pi

the pic: she looks like a Scorpio who Jedi-mind-tricked the Gemini guy into asking her on a date, because he’s hot and runs a good line in conspiracy theories (he’s a journalis.., it’s his job to ask questions). But what she didn’t bank on was that he was 24-7 media guy. Not even her most clingy t-shirt and bodacious boobies drew his attention from the headline that day: the National Broadband Network was to be shitcanned for some 20th century idea of a communications system.

Starlush libra
Starlush libra

I am fatally attracted to Geminis. Yes every single one of them have forced some kind of amazing death and rebirth upon me for my own survival mind you. The love of my life is a Gemini and sometimes I wonder if I really know who he is TODAY! Lol. Always changing, always entertaining, so much fun but if you can’t keep adapting then it isn’t so much fun anymore. Sad but it’s the truth. I’m a Libra so it’s true what Mystic says in her soul mating book about the two signs and their compatability. These relationships have really… Read more »

BoyTwin
BoyTwin

Lies. Lies. It’s all damn lies I tell you!

LibGem
LibGem

To my knowledge, I’ve never dated a gem! I loved MM’s write up and set up of said Gems, with said broad brush! Lol! Some of my bestest mates are Gems! I have known a couple of Gems since childhood and we tend to gravitate towards each other! Even my dog is a Gem! I have to say, he is an absolute chick magnet and a social moth (totally attached to the lights!)! I love Gems for their honesty, openness to conversation and the universe with ease and grace. One of my oldest friends has a Gem son whom I… Read more »

Susan
Susan

My sun sign is Gemini but I have never felt like a true “gemini female”. I have a Virgo moom and rising sign. I read many of the characteristics here about Gemini’s and don’t really relate to many of them. I have never felt like a true Gemini. I was married to another Gemini and that was just a disaster.

Gemini Squared
Gemini Squared

I’m a Gemini, with Gemini rising and Venus in Gemini…! and I’ve dated two Gemini’s before, perhaps not the typical lothario type though. Within a few weeks of us getting together, the first one had mapped out how I was going to fit into his life and become the perfect Pamela Anderson lookalike housewife while he wrote books in a studio at the bottom of the garden. He got dropped not long after that. Second Gemini was a nice guy, but no romantic. Something I noticed about both these guys (and myself) is that they enjoyed their routines. Or perhaps… Read more »

Aries gal
Aries gal

Honestly… There are 2 Types of Gemini.
the cool Gemini and the flakey annoying erratic Gemini.

The flakey geminis ahhh I can’t stand. SHUT UP YOU SOUND DUMB with their full on crazy behaviour jotting here and there talking utter shit.

I just look at them dumbfounded. It’s so annoying I hVe to be around these types of people – just ignore. And hopefully they will pull their head in a choose to be a more calmer facade of their million personalities

Sorry for the rant I actually dealing with one at work right now

Exhausting

Anonymous
Anonymous

The Gemini I dated was both cool and flaky/annoying at the same time.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Had a long term relationship with a Gemini for a number of years. Yes to witty. Yes to articulate. Yes to a zillion friends. Everybody knew him even in other parts of the world. Worked in the film industry making cartoons – how Peter Pan of him and liked to travel to Cannes for the film festival. Messiest person I’ve ever met. I tidied – he freaked at Latest Important Bit Of Paper being chucked in the bin because it looked like little more than a chewed up post it note. He taught me how to drive and got my… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

I think gems have quite a humane element.

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

I dunno nuthin about gee-mini datin
But Dylan is a gem!

Twin-gemini
Twin-gemini

I have 5 planets in Gem and was married to a Gem, have girlfriends married to Gems. Well – when it is a party, its a sure very loud one! In my opinion – Gems born in May are way better, then Gems born in June. Just an observation. Also – I will make it to a date and sit through a date, but you have to sit there too and listen to me, ok? I was told once by a sidewalk palm-reader:”guys will forget your name, but always remember how good the sex was”… 😉

Ariel
Ariel

As a Gem born in May, cheers! 😉

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Same….May gems are def. more stable!

Veronica
Veronica

Have Gemini North node also, and almost every guy I’ve ever been attracted to has had strong Gemini placements. Guaranteed.

When I was briefly on internet dating, all the ones I liked the look of were Gemini. My partner has a lot of Gemini planets and he’s hilarious to live with. My sis is Gemini and she can be very, very funny. I’m really attracted to people who make me laugh.
Gem is also a good placement for talented sportspeople, I noticed.
Rafael Nadal *sigh*

Sphinx
Sphinx

Ah you have Gem NN, this makes a lot if sense from what you have mentioned! (I have Gem 18 deg SN, but how do you let go of that when u haz Gem Asc?)

Tee
Tee

Would love to date a Gemini, but haven’t gotten a chance (yet)! My Mars is in Gem, and with Sun and Venus in Sag, I tend to have pretty weird but hot chemistry all over the place with certain Gemini guys. Just met one last weekend, actually, who I instantly felt connection with. Such a fun mind and laid-back quirkiness (only sign I know that can pull off both being straight to the point of bro-esque but also into thrift shopping and interested in everything, even girly fashion). Unfortunately he’s leaving town, but this post is making me miss him… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx

Gem Sun guy has also Merc/Venus/Saturn in Gem.
Mars in Pisces.

Slutty astro much?
But no. He has Sun in 4th & Moon in Kataka, and most of his planets reside in the 5th House.

Plus Aqua Asc means a fixed axis, stubborn and loyal. Leo DC, yay!

Those gorgeous hands are used for his many hobbies, woodwork, tech everything, guitar, Ju Jitsu, surfing, skating, sex etc. etc.

Veronica
Veronica

Hehe, the Leo has Mars Venus Jupiter in Gem, and Sag moon, but never slutty at all.

My Aries Venus was much sluttier once upon a time :)! He enjoys giving me a hard time about it (hilarious) 🙂

Sphinx
Sphinx

Venus in a Cancer makes for poor slut as I need a guy to cook me a meal at least before I exchange any other fluids.

ALL my boyfriends are great cooks, lol.

Invicta
Invicta

oh how I long for a man who can cook.

Ariel
Ariel

Me too. Once you’ve dated a slew of Gems & Aries eat-on-the-run types… Let’s just say that a veggie gourmet meal prepared FOR rather than BY me is my dream

LauraBloomify
LauraBloomify

So much of this resonates! I am married to a Gemini. He always has two things going on at once – right now he practises law in two different areas, and lives in two different places: our small town, and commutes every week to Sydney. I especially loved the – denies saying something he just said twenty seconds ago. I have had this experience so often. When I can absolutely prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that he said what he did just say, he looks baffled – oh, sure, but that was THEN. Who’s got time to cling… Read more »

pi
pi

Also this! They’re just words. Here, have some more 🙂

Sphinx
Sphinx

Ps he is super quiet, thoughtful and considered in manner. I don’t know if it is his Cap NN, but if you think of a Gem archetype, for all his Gem planetary action, his general vibe doesn’t match. His activities, yes. But his manner no.

Sphinx
Sphinx

Oh, sorry I was replying to my own comment, but while I am here, I think yr Gem sounds in manner quite archetypal!

catfish moon
catfish moon

Never dated a gemini. Never will. It feels like dating my weird cousin.

pi
pi

Yes!! This! I mean, not the weird part but I have a lot of mercury aspects in my chart and to get involved with someone who is too similar to me makes me wonder if I am actually related to them. Aagh?! I would need some hot chemistry, which usually means scorp, toro or Aries in the mix. Saggitarius dsc / 9th house Sun i guess means I love difference not (too much) similarity ?

Anonymous
Anonymous

Good! More for me, bwahahah!!

Skye
Skye

That whole denial of things said is what put me off early on. It’s like questioning my honesty/ recall/ sanity.
Find it too hard to be with someone who’s in a million other places. So I am the Gemini dating anti magnet.
Have worked with Gem men and their quick minds are fantastic. As coworkers I rate them very highly.

calypso
calypso

I dated a Gemini, a Mexican DJ no less. He had so many friends there was just no time for me. He was King of the enthusiastic “when can I see you again, Friday?” Latin seduction followed by a Gemini pre-date “I forgot there’s this party I have to go to”. Pfft, meh. Next! (still love the dude, but from a bemused distance)

calypso
calypso

oh, i forgot to sy but this is so relevant to the Gem factor: he was the ultimate slashie, DJ/academic/caterer!

seagoat
seagoat

As a multi-Cap, I’ve always found that Gemini guys are great as study buddies to knock around with (at any age), and Gemini women to be wonderful colleagues.

But, actually, this topic is eerily timely for me MM. I recently joined an online dating site and haven’t been drawn to anyone apart from this one Gemini guy. I ummed and ahhed until Gemini sister coaxed me to put my hand out to him. No response as yet.

Meanwhile, I’ve also noted, many many Gemini guys in my age group (50s) on this particular site.

Ariel
Ariel

I want to say go for it because I as a Gem am strangely attracted to Caps & in awe of them. Sadly the attraction hasn’t been strong enough for us to make it happen yet, but right now I just think Caps are the best fit with my Taurus Venus.

Invicta
Invicta

Lets face reality.
I am a love zombie waiting for a person to happen on.
The only criteria are that they have an intellect as sparkly as my own and be hot. I know its wrong but ………..Thanks just where I’m at right now.
I feel so much more attracted to women lately, physically, emotionally, sexually.
I maY IN FACT BE A BIG FAT DYKE AFTER ALL.
Men leave me cold.
Women make me want to make the world a better place.
Sex is such tiny part go it….
Not sure how asro relevant this comment id but hey.

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

Hee hee… Difficult situation… But maybe relates because gems are inherently probed to bisexuality… I think I’ve read

Invicta
Invicta

Haha I’d be so ok if this woman turned out to be bi sexual. 🙂 I did have sex with a woman last night. It was a lot of fun at the time but I doubt I’ll call her again. I’m deeply shallow that way. She was a Scorpio/ Sagg mix and the most sexual person I have ever… no not that euphemism please – met. Ok go on then, come across hahahahahahaha Oddly picky little virgo snob that I am I found her a bit much. I mean she was great but like, yeah. Her vibe was just a… Read more »

Invicta
Invicta

Oh gawd I so laughed at this post. The Image of what heir minds look like. Cerebral porn anyone? Maybe it’s cuz I’m half Virgo, half saggo but dang them Gems always gonna be my downfall. even the tarot app keeps telling me to watch out for actual mendacity chez moi, and chez biz moi. I know I know Clooney alert! But seriously these peeps are charm and intellect personified. Add in Leo Rising and a north Node also in Cap and I must fess up. I an in no way able to be rational re this woman who I’m… Read more »

Year of the Phoenix
Year of the Phoenix

Gems as gay boyfriends only – so much fun!

One was famously on Project Runway and came in 2nd – jeez the post show bitching had to be seen to be believed……we are no longer close but have to say had some of the best nights of my life playing up with him

GeminiRising
GeminiRising

hey, is this the guy that now makes music? a blonde guy? what’s his name? i’ve been trying to find his music videos 🙂

Year of the Phienix
Year of the Phienix

Don’t think they are one and the same but who knows with those multiple personalities ; )

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Mondo! I love him, but yes…he seems like a bitch too.

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

Nope! I’ve never been able to deal with a Gemini guy long enough to make it to a date. My Moon is there, too, which seems weird. Maybe I’m just a self-hating Gem Moon. I have a hard enough time detangling my own true feelings from my thoughts from what I actually said in the moment without trying to do it for someone else, too. Sex, you say? Not with this headache!

Scorpyleogemmoon
Scorpyleogemmoon

omg gem moon here and LOL that was fantastic!

Ariel
Ariel

Totally on point!

Suddenly Leo
Suddenly Leo

I have Mars in Gem 7th house (relationships) and have never met a Gem (to my knowledge) that I didn’t adore. My friend group is filled with Gems, Cancers, and Leos (summer babies) for whatever reason – no one competes for attention because everyone’s lovely and gracious and gets off on everyone *else’s* success. But those Gems- we can just sit, rapt, and listen to them talk. And dance. Ania used to jeté into wine dinners and it was completely appropriate. Gems are the best dancers and make for excellent muses for all those Leos. LOVE this post, MM!

Sphinx
Sphinx

I love all these 3 too, my Gem partner & I are a blend of them, so too easy.

I have seen Gem external clarity used to shield internal refusal to face weakness, but I generally love Gems.

prettytheft
prettytheft

I’m a Leo with an Aquarius rising and I’m currently dating an Aquarius with a Cancer moon and a Gemini rising. I can SO relate to the “I never said that!” thing when he totally said it earlier. Dude tells tall tales. But for whatever reason it doesn’t bother me excessively. I know the seed of the meaning is there — I am familiar with the energy thanks to my Gemini dad (who also has a Cancer moon). I will totally call him on shit that matters, though. Leo and Gemini get along like a house on fire. It is… Read more »

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Agree with that – dated a Leo for almost 6 years! Our bond was laughter.

moved on
moved on

Oh tell me about your dad so I can understand my hubby! He too is multiple gem, with a cancer moon!

Lilith
Lilith

WOw. Hit the nail on the head MM. My ex husband is a Gem. Three personalities, one of them is called ‘herpes’ which is a reoccurring, painful and frustrating time for everyone. It’s hard to know when ‘herpes’ is going to raise it’s ugly head, but when IT does BOOM. And after it subsides…..what are you even talking about? Did someone say cake?

FelineFoe
FelineFoe

Exactly.

FelineFoe
FelineFoe

” “What are you talking about? Are you high?” Etc. ”

My exact experiences also.

moved on
moved on

one who was not, let’s just say, erratic. As in capable of literally swearing they did not say the statement they uttered 20 minutes ago. “What are you talking about? Are you high?” Etc. Christ, I married one! The statement above reflects the maddening life I now lead when it comes to communication between us. We even attended counselling for the problem last year. Not a week goes by where I wish I’d never met the bastard, and can’t understand why we are so good in bed together when other means of ‘being on the same page’ are so problematic.… Read more »

AquaMeg
AquaMeg

Aww 🙁 I’m sorry. I think, as a Grand-Air-trine lady with six planets in Air signs, I might offer a bit of help? I’ve got Gem rising, too, and drive my husband batty with my changeability. I recognize what he’s saying about answering but not listening! I do it, too. I personally have two modes of listening – antennas are picking up the signals but I can’t repeat it back to you, and deep listening/taking it in/will moodle it over and get back to you later. His brain is going soooo fast that he’s literally thinking his thoughts while you’re… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx

I am Gem Asc and my Gem is almost as changeable as me. I think it can be great if both people are running at the same speed – I relate to both of these comments though! Argh, good luck!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Great description!!! My triple Gem boyfriend is this…he has two channels running, one is way ahead of where I am, mind racing on and on, always to the next thing. But he is listening, and if I wait for a few seconds, the listening part will catch up and give me a very empathic response (probably helps his Gem moon is on AC, so kinda has some Kataka going on). Very perceptive guy if you just give him a few moments to slow his mind down enough to speak from that empathic part that has been picking up on slight… Read more »

moved on
moved on

Oh thank you so much for that insight! The problem is in also a triple Pisces. We shouldn’t be together but hey, for all the boring humdrum there’s enough challenge there to keep us both thinking ‘wtf?’. It’s our mercuries that clash and I was advised this by a consult with mystic and the problems it might bring. Your insight was invaluable. I might have met my match somehow, for varying levels of attention happening all at the same time……

moved on
moved on

Tsk, so hard to answer by phone. I’m a triple pisces that should say, and I have mercury in Aries, he doesn’t stand a chance once the fire cracker has gone off !

Aviatrix
Aviatrix

Omg.. thats sooo funny lololollol.. I totes get ALL this… my bfren is Gemini.. hot steamy sexy sometimes.. maddeningly self reflective MOST of the time… my current internal dialogue revolves around me saying. .’just for a moment reflect on me and what I Said before flipping over to your own bottom less pit of experience 😉 ps I hv gem moon and gem quivk 2nd rising but tempered by sag moon and taurus asc.. so I bounce with gems but really. I wish for more psychic SPACE !

Charles
Charles

Can you actually get a Gemini to sit still long enough for a date?

A quote from Miss Gemini about twenty minutes into our final date:

“Hey can you watch my bags for me? I have to go run and meet someone, if I’m not back in twenty minutes, call me.”

She returned in about an hour and twenty minutes.

Baristagem
Baristagem

😯

You should of called her! 🙂

Charles
Charles

I did call her. She didn’t answer. I called her again ten minutes after that. And in another ten. Still no answer. Then I gave up. I only stayed because I wanted to see how long she would take to show up.. if ever.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Haha…. OMG!! Who does that??!! 😯 A gem obviously

I would not have waited!!!

The Baroness
The Baroness

I dated a self-absorbed Scorpio once who asked me to ‘sit’ his glasses while he went off and talked to people. I left. AND left his glasses. He never forgave me for ‘losing’ his designer glasses and I never regretted my decision, lol.

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Gonna write my story before you all start in with your Gemini bashing. As a Gem girl, I never did really date a Gem guy – we just never seemed able to make that emotional connection. But I did have a super-fun fling with one and had to marvel over how it could be (to this day) some of the best sex of my life. Came to find out later we had the Sexual Napalm aspect – my Venus conjunct his Mars in Cancer. Hot hot… Anyway, he was 23 and I was 32 when we met one night at… Read more »

Twin-gemini
Twin-gemini

Oh – what a story, what a read… totally hot!

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Thank you! And who says us Geminis don’t have heat? 🙂

moved on
moved on

Damn. I don’t suppose those particular tampons are available on the black market?

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

I do wish that tampon existed.

Universali
Universali

Mmm, a Gemini was my first official boyfriend when I was about 14. We used to have the most amazing conversations on the phone, for hours and could discuss all sorts of things with him. Then I kinda Aqua-freaked out when he wanted to *kiss*…I couldn’t deal with the emotional intensity at all and really unceremoniously dumped him. Was horrible actually I was so cold to him. Anyway he went off the radar to pop up towards end of high school, broke into our house while we were on holidays, slept in my bed then started ringing and stalking around… Read more »

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