Dating The Zodiac: Taurus

L'uomo Vogue

Once I dated a Taurus who…oh GOD i have never dated a Taurus. Technically, it would be brilliant but i think my Aquarius Rising must repel them. I mean, there was half a date once, decades ago. He was about 1000 years older than me – i would honestly not have been surprised had he revealed a vampire-like familiarity with the times of Casanova or the Dark Ages – and control-freaked the fuq out of the waitress in a way that actually felt unsavory.

Then he lecture-ranted about how vegetarians (eg; me) were really bad in bed because they limited themselves or were scared of “the flesh” or something. He said that my political views were irrelevant and that i should stop dying my hair so that he could help me “get ahead” in television. He looked out the window and sighed stoically when i spoke but referred every 2nd sentence to “when we make love” or “when i bed you.”

So – and i know this does not reflect well on me but i was very young and it was a Uranus transit – i sprinted out the door when he went to the lavatory. The waitress held the door open for me and hissed “go, go” in empathetic solidarity,

But THAT Taurus was clearly not typical of the genre. They are renowned for being psychologically adequate, cute looking (Venus ruled and all) + fantastic in bed, are they not? Thoughts?

 

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DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

It’s funny….Taurus is historically the sign I have the least connection with and clash with the most. And I’m a Gemini on the cusp of Taurus with a whole lot of water/earth influence – doesn’t seem like it’d be such a problem. I asked a psychic once about this…she bases her reading on your birth chart. She said because I had only one planet in Taurus (Mercury) and it was not aspected or conjunct with anything else in my chart, Taureans and Taurean traits probably cause me to feel challenged. It IS frustrating having the Geminian lightning-fast brain with the… Read more »

prettytheft
prettytheft

I dated a Taurus for three years, and even lived with him for a couple! I’m an Aquarius rising, too. He had a Leo rising, so we seemed like a natural pair, at least at first. I have a Leo sun, too. And he had a Scorpio moon and with my Pisces moon, well, I have to say I felt completely safe and cherished with him. He was beautiful too, I met him at a fashion show and he was one of the models. So where did it go wrong? Well we were both young, both idiots, and while we… Read more »

Clair de Lune
Clair de Lune

Not your typical Taurus Mystic. I’m not astrologically gifted (but I am a gifted sensitive/empathic – something I see the same but you observe the inner universe rather than the outer. Same gift when you observe your inner universe as great and infinite as the outer universe, as it is. I just don’t know how to read star charts or astrological terms (we’ll say rudimentary level). Now for some inner astrology, he may be a Taurus but depending on ALL the celestial entities or objects in place during his natal chart he may not be your typical Taurus. Every object… Read more »

Clair de Lune
Clair de Lune

Is there a way to make an account here so I can modify my posts. Last one was a bit long so sorry for that.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

I wish we could edit / delete our posts too.

Too long of a post is actually very good. IMO!

Marianne
Marianne

YES!! I dated a Taurus with scorp rising and Gemini Moon – Im a Taurus with Scorp Moon and Gem rising.
The relationship WAS all about the physical yes, but it was trying to end it was terribly difficult for either of us. It took years.
Unfortunately he did play a lot of head games and sleep around.
it was though, very intense.

TTD
TTD

Oh dear…. I am a Taurus with Aqua rising…

Waterylibran
Waterylibran

I’ve got a it of a ‘thing’ for a Taurus fellow at the moment, but he doesn’t see me that way, so I’ll have to settle for friends – sigh – but a truer friend you could not ask for. One of my oldest friends is also a Taurus man whom I’ve known since I was 16, is the of only person I know who’s never been unemployed and has just retired after 34 years in the he same job – only a Taurus eh? The only Torro I ever got up close and personal with was the duddest of… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

Have only ‘dated’ Taurean women and what gorgeous women they are.
Superb taste do the Venus ruled have. Just THERE for you with nourishment and soft couch. The CowGirls make fine friends.
So perhaps the CowBoys are just as hot?
A Taurean man would be my choice if it weren’t for the delicious Sagg ones around. Funny how taste changes as when young it was all musicians and artists now they have to be over 6 foot and built like a brick outhouse to turn me around.

Patti/Skyler Rosey
Patti/Skyler Rosey

I’m a Taurus sun & moon. I do NOT like a waitress or any food prep person who has a sloppy appearance. I am VERY fussy about my food. I do cook almost every day or night and yes I can be stubborn a shell and a pain in the ass too. But I’m loyal and treat people like kings and queens until they turn on me. I’ve never dated a Taurus, that I know anyway. Funny thing is my Aquarian daughter was madly in love with a man who shared my birthday. Her Mars and rising are Virgo so… Read more »

queenofthejungle
queenofthejungle

I dated a Taurus once — Taurus Sun and Taurus rising, an exceptionally handsome man with slightly soft, feminized features. He was a rebound relationship after divorcing my Leo first husband (two Leos in the same house seem to clash over who is in charge). My ex was nine years older than me; the Taurus was nine years younger, so I think it was the pendulum swinging and letting me see the age difference from the other side. The sex was great, and he had many lovely qualities (artistic, intelligent, loyal). But, the relationship was ultimately doomed by the age… Read more »

whitne
whitne

8th house taurus here. Also mercury, venus, mars, chiron, vesta, and juno in taurus. Libra rising and aqua moon in the 5th house How can anyone who knows astrology over generalize one sign given how many variables factor in to a personality. For as taurean as I am, its all tempered by so mant other things. The taurus that I find difficult are those with too much fire, especially aries. I once dated one who had the same stellium as my taurean mother. Both also have scorp rising. Could not deal with the arrogance. I know that I can be… Read more »

Malva
Malva

I didn’t.
Though there’s one… 1000 year older man who’s been talking frequently with me, in a way it’s become a little bit weird. Not in a sick way, but sometimes when we talk there are awkward moments when I ask myself “Did he just say that?”.
My Asc in Taurus perhaps attracts him, especially since he has Venus in Taurus…
He’s very warm, subtle… Has great taste and it’s just so comfortable to talk to him and be with him.
He better not pass the borderline.

Z
Z

Well, the person I like is Pisces Sun and Taurus Moon. He does have bovine eyes (I always thought his eyes were like a baby calf before I made the association) and when he looks at me they’re misty and teary. Once I could see him fixing his stare on me alone from ten feet away, with wet and glowing eyes. Taurus people are a bit of a mystery to me. And as parents they are more mystifying to me. My grandmother was a Taurus and she didn’t particularly strike me as a good mother to my Cancer mother, who… Read more »

Anon
Anon

Have no idea about the men but I worked for 1, 2, 3 Taurus women. Insecure, jealous, workplace bullies. All with ideas above their station. Too stupid to realise their ambitions were thwarted by their inadequacies, not by dark forces of evil. Similar to lower Scorpio women.

catfish moon
catfish moon

Oh good grief. He sounds horrid.

I adore my Torro. He has mercury in Taurus too. I have mars, ceres, and midheaven in Taurus.
We are peas in a pod, even when we don’t agree, which does happen.
We love to cuddle, watch movies, sleep, drink and eat, make passionate love. He is very attentive. Feeling blessed.

Triple taurus - cancer rising
Triple taurus - cancer rising

My “people” are sturdy in relationships! And our views. It takes me forever to find someone I fancy- but once I commit it’s real. And possessive. I’m sure my Taurus x3 energy makes me even more frustrating- but if you’re patient with us we will love you for a long long time.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Loved my Toro.. But he was cusp guy so I toggled between the toro and gemmy sign for him. But yes.. He was amazing in bed!! Wouldn’t consider being in bed with ever again. I am glad I met him.

Not sure where or what is going on in his life. I hope he is happy!!

Aries gal
Aries gal

Hi Virgo Ellie I’m a bit surprised by your comments re: cusp of gem and Taurus
I’ve seen you comment for a while on this site so I assume you’re pretty clued up about the basics of astrology at the very least – my question – do these cusps personalities really exists?

He’s either a Taurus sun or Gemini sun with other signs the planets of their personal birth chart

Does the cusps actually make an influence?

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Hi Aries Girl.. Yes, after learning so much from Mystic and others here I now look at both signs. I am also on the cusp so I read both Virgo and Libra. Also, Mystic also encourages us to read our sun and rising sign horoscopes. And with me my rising sign is Libra. For the toro/gem… I never got the deets on his birth time. I am a true believer of the astrology signs descriptions. I think they can be so accurate especially when you are dealing with an unanswered question. For example: my brother is a social butterfly and… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

That’s not what Mystic says at all. She says to know your birth time for accuracy.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Are you a subscriber?

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Oops sorry, I am working off a new tablet and missed your main question about cusps. I added more info than WS needed but I do think being on the cusp has an influence. I hope others chime.

Anonymous
Anonymous

No, it doesn’t… your sun sign is your sun sign.

Centaurus πŸ™‚

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Yes, your sun sign is your key sign, but reading your rising sign scope also relates.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

12th.. I agreed with you…

Xi!!

kalliope
kalliope

I am a Taurus, and I dated a Taurus for 7 years. Never again. Haha

Io
Io

Seems most of the stories are about awful Taurus men. Sorry to hear about the bad experiences. My father is a Taurus and a lovely man. Loyal and true and still madly in love with my mother after 35 years of marriage. Slow to anger, very affectionate. Steady as a rock. I’m also Taurus (woman) and obviously I think I’m a catch. I also have some Sagittarian influences so that probably helps shakes things up a little. Strengths: steady, loyal, warm and easy company. Natural authority. Kooky, funny, an strange balance of being a total oddball yet sharp and respectable.… Read more »

Ok4u
Ok4u

I was with Taurus for 3 years. I am a gemini with moon in Taurus, and of course in my early 20s I left him for Aries and broke his heart because I just wanted more adventurous guy. I was bored I thought. But he was actually and still is the best guy I ever met and the most suitable for building a family and creating strong partnership. I think they are one of the more stable signs for marriage and staying by your side in times of trouble. They are also very kind at heart.

LibGem
LibGem

I had a love zombie episode with a Taurus woman in my early twenties. The thing that prevented me from becoming totally entranced was in soooooo many relationships at the same time! Just doesn’t sit well with me.
However, I was grateful for her assistance in coming to terms with my own sexuality.
Totally enjoyed the heat, sensuality and passion! Oh hang on a minute, I have had that in all of my relationships, lol! πŸ˜‰

moved on
moved on

Whooooh! I had a Taurus lover with mars in Scorpio and a brilliant, intelligent mind around 8 years ago and those memories are still an aphrodisiac. He was unforgettable. But married……I enjoyed being his mistress immensely

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

Heh heh heh. J’Adore the pictures going with this series mystic. okay, Taureans. I have three. Taurus Number One: a renowned in his day rugger stud (World Cup level) with a body that i still recall with extreme fondness and a wide on. His conversation was very limited, a list of all the foods he liked and did not like. A list of actresses and models he thought hot and those he thought not hot. A list of all the streets he had lived in. IT DID NOT MATTER. We communicated at a cellular level. Taurus Number Two; a gynecologist… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

TLS: YES. last para. x

calypso
calypso

A list of all the streets he had lived in LOL

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

Mars in Virgo?

Sphinx
Sphinx

πŸ™‚ adorable!

leogroover
leogroover

Wide on ! hilarious. Made my monday morn

Lux interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux interior is My Co-Pilot

Never dated one….!

leogroover
leogroover

My taureen ex had a lot of aries as well but was never the my way/highway kinda guy, That was more me and thats my Low leo trait. However , he was loyal,romantic, a wonderful father but a dud in bed and poor on intimacy.
We are good friends still and work really well as shared parents.
Current man has mars in Taurus so is glacial relationship wise . Is has taken him 6 years to realise we should stick together but now it is divine.
Love his earthy sensuousness.

Methinky
Methinky

I dated a super sexy hunky rich fun Toro for a while. We had to break up though – it started in his HSV. He yelled at me for putting my feet on the passenger dashboar, lounging, while we were cruising. I asked him not to yell at me and he said ‘You women have got the vote, what more do you want?’

And that was the end of that.

Ambre
Ambre

Hilarious …yes tried one ..cliche taurus …cute , bovine like eyes ..loved food ,wine ,sex ..owned a winery and cooked me dinner in his kitchen on our first date ..deal breaker – obsession with 5 am wake up sex ..snoring and farting in bed …me Pisces with freedom addiction ..literally ran away . Break up was bad ,he wanted his books back that he loaned me . Suffered guilt for years about this one until I read up on Taurus men and realised how they are all like this..not sure I could do one again . Though I loved the… Read more »

akapluto
akapluto

Long ago, before life brought on the monsoon of Aries men, I was only dating Tauruses. Being Scorp rising that seems to make sense but no no NO. Can’t do it anymore. Good: they are not afraid of commitment Bad: you must do as they say and be married to them Good: they love food Bad: time to get fat Good: They really do that romantic/chivalrous sugar daddy stuff reeeallll good Bad: It’s because they know everyone and everything has a price Good: they have great taste or at least know what is valuable/durable. Material geniuses Bad: Can be allergic… Read more »

Aries gal
Aries gal

SPOT ON!

Sphinx
Sphinx

πŸ™‚ lol.
Good: Amazing musical ability & sexy singing voice.
Bad: Ltd use of speaking voice yet loud thinkers (gears audibly shift as they figure out which tone of inarticulate grunt to respond with).

Horned Serpent
Horned Serpent

I’m an older Taurus Sun, Taurus Rising, Cancer Moon and Mercury in Taurus. (Venus in Aries and Mars in Gemini). Reading all these posts has given me a some brilliant insights into myself and in particular SagiTaurean’s comments about being ruled by Venus. Maybe that explains why I love to talk for hours, love shopping with women or men (even shoe shopping), can get quite emotional over all sorts of stuff, love romantic comedies and beautiful scents and perfumes. In my younger days I could have been considered mad bad and dangerous but time and a determination to grow have… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx

Lovely comment, you do sound very kind and a treasure of a friend to have.

Horned Serpent
Horned Serpent

Ahhhhh. Thank you Sphinx

Veronica
Veronica

The Leo’s business partner is low Taurean with the ability to be haute, but the Leo has to really hold him to it, and is a lesson for both of them. toro’s got it in him to grow and he had a pretty f’uqed up childhood, was abused and asked to leave home as a teen. He has a desperate need to control the people around him, and he does it with money and food (a good cook of course) he’s not harsh in his words. Sometimes I get the white magician as a tarot card for him, and sometimes… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

‘Hearing his voice made my skin crawl’.
So you have understanding of the power of sound, Ronnie,
and how dissonance and timbre is a sign of something awry in the energy?
My acute hearing is a double edged sword (as are most sensory gifts), voices tell me so much about the person’s mental health, era, mood and education.

Veronica
Veronica

Oh, I completely agree, Pegs. Energy out of balance is what it is. Sometimes I can just hear in his voice that he is lying and it grates on me. Must be so hard for you to be in constant earshot of the chaos next door :/ wish I could help somehow. Something in what Sphinx advice gave me an image about if you can channel archangel Michael’s flaming sword… Can I just ask a bit of advice if you read this Pegs (or if anyone has the same experience) why do you think my hands have gone kind of… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

Michael is certainly my go to, have a glorious depiction of him and his sword close by and did some petitioning just yesterday πŸ™‚ The Legal Road is being trod, slow and methodically going by the letter of the law that i have a right to peace & safety in my home. Hands have direct energy connect to our heart, change of season can have a strong effect. Bursitis don’t think, but some karpel tunnel and/or something going on in the elbow. Self massage for circulation. Arthritis means fire in the joints i believe = painful. Medic check Ronnie first… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

Ah merci buckets Pegs!! I thought you might have an idea about this as you are so well versed in bodywork. As a matter of fact there is some circulation and elbow stuff going on. Will follow it up. Bummer to have all these aches and pains springing up as time goes by and nearing 50. The spirit is a bit pissed off with the vessel (body) though I know I should take care of it more. Is Michael in the helpful friends/influences sector (of fengshui bagua) in your home? Hopefully he will manifest as a real helpful legal personage… Read more »

toroloco
toroloco

Reading about how people find toro mean boring is actually more dullthan anything else I can think of. Just cuz they bored you doesn’t mean you should send everyone else snoozing too, people.

If your gonna date any Taurus, you better like, nay, LOVE food. That’s all I’m gonna say.

toroqueen
toroqueen

thank you. πŸ™‚

OpeheliaRising
OpeheliaRising

….credit card i’d lent to him in our early days because he was consistently running out of money. Needless to say, our days of living together as a couple and planning a wedding together were numbered, uncomfortable and ridiculous. What had started out as earthy, sweet, mesmerizing sex had become a chore because he was always complaining about how it wasn’t enough and it was always the same (he called it “pizza sex”). He continued to tell me how i should be living my life (even making another list for me of steps I needed to take to improve), I… Read more »

flowerchild
flowerchild

Oh my gosh, this guy was heavily emotionally abusive to you. I hope you’ve had some time to heal. Abusive men can be any sign, too, so I don’t want to imply that this is a signature of Taurus, not by any means. Abuse will play out in different ways, for sure, depending on personalities and astro. I had two different abusive boyfriends when I was in my 20’s. One was a Leo and the other was Scorpio. I just see them as abusive men, though, not saying anything about their Sun signs. I know one of them, the Leo,… Read more »

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

Nice objectivity in your statement. Sometimes the low version of the sign becomes the ‘whole’ and only description or representation of that sign.

OpheliaRising
OpheliaRising

Yes! Thank you so much. I totally didn’t mean to imply that all Taureans are abusive- this story is just an example of Toro jealousy and control issues getting well . . . completely out of control.

Tales from the Crypt
Tales from the Crypt

So glad you out of it. Maybe you find a haute Taurus now.

My brother is a SunMoonMercVenus Bull. He has always been the servant. He has actually been the trodden on one.

DP
DP

That’s interesting- my Taurus was also the servant in his family- more towards “the fixer”. Making sure everyone (including loony dad) was ok, taken care of, fed, on the right track, etc.

Anonymous
Anonymous

He was my fav bro- we more yin. My other 3 are yang and treat their women that way.

Prosepine
Prosepine

What a story! You re told it so faithfully which tells how thoroughly you have been working through all the debris, which, can only be a good thing for you.

Did you guys have heavy pluto links?

OpheliaRising
OpheliaRising

Thank you! There’s been a lot to process (despite the double novella length of my comment i left out heaps of similarly amazing details and incidents) but it made me work through why on earth I would let myself be treated that way, and for such a long time, when he showed me red flag after red flag from the very first days. And that is helping me begin to understand my own Pluto issues. Pluto issues. Ha. Yeah. Mars conjunct Pluto in the 8th opposing our composite Sun at 29 Pisces (which makes me think it was the end… Read more »

kayo
kayo

Yuck. Just like my first bf, toro sun with a lot of cap… My excuse for sticking around was that psychological abuse was normalized for me (narcissist mom). That relationship woke me right up but it took 2 years of feeling chained to a humongous pile of sh**. I suspect he’ll be sending you those gifts & gushy emails for a long time. I started fwding them to the girlfriends but even that didn’t seem to make a difference.

OpeheliaRising
OpeheliaRising

Still recovering from a 4 year relationship with the Double Taurus, Pisces Rising who entered my life as the personification of Pluto’s square to my Moon. For the first two years he insisted he was Polyamorous (“It’s just my sexual orientation, like being gay. I’m physically incapable of being with only one woman!”) and I, being disillusioned with relationships in general and also an Aquarius, gladly went along with the experiment (he had not actually tried to have a Poly relationship until me). Controlling? Check. From the very beginning he let me know every little thing he found displeasing or… Read more »

Anon
Anon

oh dear… The only Taurus I ever dated was “Polyamorous”.
Controlling and a tight-arse with money!!
He ended up marrying his child hood sweetheart. The Polyamorous thing was just an excuse to sleep around.

Polyamorous = ethical sluts.

Z
Z

I liked a Capricorn who did the same exact thing except he married his first girlfriend. Well, those two certainly deserve each other.

Invicta
Invicta

My parents were both Taurus (mom now dead) and born on the same day. Sex was kind of a big deal for both of them. FF is also born on my parents mutual birthday but I think he has sex with his right hand and his Amygdala more than actual human beings. Aqua moon and Aqua rising. He still emails me. Pretending to be someone else but letting me know he knows I know its him. The way only a fucked up forensic psychoanalyst would. Lol. I mostly just ignore them. Oddly enough I am sublimely happy. Those alchemy baths… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

Your’e looking gooood πŸ™‚

Zen-zilla
Zen-zilla

Bad game. That’s all it is. Nothing more, nothing less. I’m sorry you had to I through that, M. (Moon in Taurus 29”)

Piwacket
Piwacket

OMG it’s all true. Controlling. And full of themselves (they know better than us mere women) and he thought he was good in bed!!!! Completely selfish. And 8 years older.

Half a date!!! Wish I’d been so quick on the uptake πŸ™‚

Running from the bulls
Running from the bulls

Yes, there’s always that poorly disguised, sexist condescending tone in their voice if you don’t see eye to eye on something – which is something I can’t sense from males of other signs exclusively…..And man, can they hold a grudge!

R(Aqua/Tauri)
R(Aqua/Tauri)

It is true. I LOATHED my dad as a teenager despite us being very close growing up because of this…the condecension. The lack of respect for emotional appeals or explanations of any sort, even if it’s presented with logic. I think part of my dad’s karma is to dismantle this. He treated me and my two sisters like boys growing up (which was great then because I was a tomboy, not so great later). Guns, horses, motorcycles, hardcore manual labor chores. I think he really secretly hoped the youngest had been a boy. He was very angry all the time… Read more »

flowerchild
flowerchild

Yes, and currently. The guy I keep banging on about is a Taurus! This is the SLOWEST progression of a relationship I’ve ever experienced. He is quite controlling in a sort of surreptitious way…..hard to explain. Very good in bed, sometimes kind of forceful. I’ve never had someone ‘control’ my body before, like, a couple times he has taken my arms behind my back and held his hands over my hands there, strongly, while he’s behind me during sex. We do sit on the couch for hours talking and drinking wine, listening to music. That’s our ‘routine’. I’m trying to… Read more »

Aries gal
Aries gal

Floweeeerrrr child!!!! Oh how your current situation sounded very similar to my previous and significant heart break.

Aqua sun Taurus moon packed 2nd house and libra mars retro!

Idont have any good sorry πŸ™ he was way too controlling and I ran for the hills.

He fit the mars in libra trait in every way. How frustrating for a man to have this placement….

GOODLUCK!!

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

My dad’s one. Then my mom is a Sag, like me. They’re still married, pretty happily so, and so dating a Taurus always feels like exactly what I’m supposed to be doing. I’ve had relationships with three or four of them over the years, and it does indeed feel like coming home — for better or worse or both at the same time. I’m never sure if it’s been a good thing or a bad thing that I never seem to be the right girl for them. Certainly if I’m privileging evolution over all else, there is a reason why… Read more »

hdq
hdq

I spent almost a week texting with a Taurus a bit ago. He was the most boring human being I have ever encountered. Endlessly asked me questions like “on a scale of 1-10, rate your responses to situation abcdefg,” and “which would you prefer, blah or blah.” It was like a job interview with (extremely impressive, and after the second day, the only reason I was talking to him) dick pics. Steadily, endlessly, every few hours for days, he’d pop up. Ugh. The clincher of doom tho was that he had the worst, most unimaginative taste in music EVER. Finito,… Read more »

Gemricorn
Gemricorn

lol too funny.

leogroover
leogroover

Dick pics? ewwwwww

hdq
hdq

They seem to be pretty standard. I find them amusing.

toroqueen
toroqueen

I have had strong feelings for 2 Taurus men in my lifetime. Very caring, complimentary, good at showing affection, great conversationlists, creative as hell, driven, good in the sack, they like to party … etc. However, they thrive off of routine, and tend to get stuck sometimes. Also they take FOREVER to make a freaking decision. BORING. Maybe it’s my Scorp rising and Sagi moon, or Aries dominated chart … but I am a girl taurus sun – and i dont take long to make my decisions at all. I am probably the opposite. I also get bored of routine,… Read more »

SagiTaurean
SagiTaurean

Taurus sun here – first man I ever slept with, Taurus. Unfortunately he was also mentally ill… I think he has been in Montana protecting the wild buffalo since he ripped my sweet little 16 year old heart out.
Taurus men… I’ll pass
Taurus women we are much happier, I think being a woman in a sign ruled by venus is much preferable to a male … All Taurus and Libran males seem frustrated to me…

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

Yes yes yes to the frustrated Taurus/Libra guys! There’s a certain amount of entitlement involved in being Venusian and it can… be worn very awkwardly on the male of the species.

btavepoet
btavepoet

Sphinx is right about the women. Mostly. My oldest friend is Toro and she may as well be bowie! That’s haught tho. Base is just well, base. Heewhaw

serenity
serenity

Yup! Henry Cavill is a taurus. I’m sure he’s the only Taurus I’ll ever date again. i dated one — now a director. I was told I’m good luck for the men I’m with – at least the ones I truly loved, because they climb to the top and they have. So this Director Taurus I’m referring to has since touching (or rather f****g the golden goose (me), haha. Taurus: full of themselves!!! yawn yawn yawn. Egotistical bores. I’m an aries with lots of cardinal. I get bored with them real fast. A good romp in bed with them never… Read more »

btavepoet
btavepoet

No. They are the second sign. Unevolved, brutal they may bed you good once or twice but they are primitive and childlike. Good looking staunch and stoic, farmyard in their thinking. Pure but dumb ox.

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

wow! creep!

Sphinx
Sphinx

No. Super mercurial here. I just can’t with the Toro’s in real life.
Silent, stubborn, slow, loyal to the point of witless…

My Sun is in the 2nd though? Why can’t I feel the love? πŸ™
My passions run Neptunian & my 12th ruled by Taurus… But no cigar, thanks Toro Freud tho Robert Pattinson, Jet Li, Channing Tatum, Albrecht Durer, Immanuel Kant etc all seem totally hot! I hope to hear some nice stories to educate me on how wrong my thoughts are.

The Toro women are fabulous people!! Tough, focused, smart & gorgeous. At least that’s mi experiencia.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

me too. the women toros are so amazing.

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

Also agreed. I love a Lady Taurus. I had a Taurus roommate for a few years and she loved Tiger’s Eye jewelry. She had little Tiger’s Eye button earrings and they were the most perfect thing on her.

Veronica
Veronica

Yes my sis has Toro moon, and several good girlfriends toro or toro moons. Goodness and steadiness, I find, and not dumb AT All. Maybe not brash, or fiercely assertive with their intellect, like um, an Aries gal might be. Thank goodness for that though πŸ™‚

Marijita
Marijita

“They provide, you obey…” Brilliantly put. Too bad my five planet Sadge stellium and Scorp rising doesn’t do “obey.” My Taurus ex-husband certainly had this framework in mind for the ten years we were together…… And yes, anger that can tear down any wall. Especially when it meets equally fixed Scorpio anger fueled by all that Sadge fire. He probably would have been a great lover if he had been more playful and less adamant about lovering being only his way…. We have a stunning Taurus sun, Virgo moon, Aqua stellium daughter though. She is the best. I won’t date… Read more »

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

I recommend taurus for 1st timers. They will not hurt you physically. Def good at sex but horrible at intimacy, and that is coming from the “robot” of the zodiac. I also find them generous, at least with their money. Certain prized possessions, no, but money provided they don’t consider it a prized possession yes.

I actually find Aqua and Taurus staying together for a long time. I don’t know how happy such unions are, but seems stable.

Running from the bulls
Running from the bulls

LOL Mystic, that is funny but so real too. Toro guys are like the sugar daddies of the zodiac – they provide, you obey. But the good thing is that they do vibe that really early on, so that those people who want to run, can do so….. I’ve narrowly dodged a couple myself – can’t even bring myself to go through the ridiculous events again – I just remember being stunned at what they were proposing – in a nutshell “my way or the highway”. I had, up till that moment been wrongly thinking that that kind of man… Read more »

Liberating Venus
Liberating Venus

As a note aside, I wonder when it was evolution got so far out of whack as to allow the male of the species to take over the selection process when it comes to mating. In nature, it’s always the female who gets to pick, and the male had better either put on a good show & perform or else ship out. That’s why male birds and such are always more colorful – they have to impress the ladies. Something is fuqed up when the tables are turned like this and a guy automatically assumes you’re just going to spread… Read more »

GFTpisces
GFTpisces

Husband is a Toro-rising, and our second date (I held out until the second date!) he was very Taurean, and while his Aries sun is my kryptonite (I’m such a sucker for those Rams!), his Toro side is where a lot of my favorite bits come from. Actually, that second date started off terribly. Our first date had been one of those walk all over the city talking all evening late into the night, then kissing sweetly and holding hands at the end kind of dates. Date two was dinner and a movie, and the conversation just wasn’t. happening. I… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Wow. That sounds so awesome. I want that too. Really enjoyed reading that πŸ™‚

Anonymous
Anonymous

So did l

Anonymous
Anonymous

so did i x thank you for sharing

Anonymous
Anonymous

I think we all synonymously agree with anonymous.

R(aqua/tauri)
R(aqua/tauri)

Wow, thank you for writing all that. This is so beautiful. Like I don’t know what’s going on with me this morning but I almost teared up…

My dad is a Taurus and he is very much like that. He told all his friends when he was leaving the navy that he was going to California to marry the first pretty blonde girl he met. And then he did. Been with my mom for over 30 years…the decision su

R(aqua/tauri)
R(aqua/tauri)

Cut off, sorry.

Supersedes the relationship itself and while I used to think that was a bad thing now that I am older I think i get it.

GFTpisces
GFTpisces

Wow, what a story about your dad! It’s funny, isn’t it? The way something can make our perspective change. Often it’s time, but sometimes it’s an event or a person. If you’d told my younger self even 7 or 8 years ago that I would define love or what I wanted out of a relationship the way I do now, I would have laughed in your face, I think. And my answers are by no means for definite in some ways, but my assertions or less strident, and I definitely appreciate a level or quietude in my emotional life that… Read more »

R(Aqua/Tauri)
R(Aqua/Tauri)

Yes, I’m transitioning more to something like that as well. I have so much stuff going on in my brain and so much that I want to do in the world goal-wise that instead of looking for stimulation from a partner like I did before (as in number one criteria) I am looking for, literally, a partner. Someone I can build stuff and bounce ideas off of in our incubated shared space who I can support in their passions and who supports me in mine. I’d like to have a more quiet, simple existence enjoying the small things here together.… Read more »

miki
miki

omg, venus in cancer and a taurus sun…who owes who what…pay up

btavepoet
btavepoet

I’m so happy this is a positive and beautifully rendered tale Pisces. As should be when water meets earth, it’s either mud or an archipeligo. Adore each other, so proud he said it and so proud you heard. Blessings

GFTpisces
GFTpisces

“it’s either mud or an archipelago.” Wow, I love that so much. Beautifully said. And thank you!

hdq
hdq

“Love and the decision to love aren’t really all that different.”
So perfect. Absolutely. Wow.
What a beautiful story! Thank you.

Gemricorn
Gemricorn

My god. I want a Taurus πŸ˜‰ !!!!
Thank you – what a love story. Inspiring to read.

DP
DP

I totally teared up reading that. Thank you for sharing this, it was a lovely read.

flowerchild
flowerchild

Reading this makes me want MY Taurus (currently on-off) even more. Like R said, I am appealed by the more comfortable everyday relationship at this point in my life. I’ve had every possible/every which way/over the top scenario…..can’t take it now at age 46. Need something mellow and loving……really appreciate and value that now. Could never do the high drama again. I really just don’t have the energy/Qi for it. I have been quite fatigued due to health issue (and age?) the past few years…… Honestly, I just want to be plain old LOVED for once in my life before… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel

Lovely story! I think you need never question love – just whether it’s expression meets your needs, & it sounds in this case like it certainly does. Heartening, thank you.

Sphinx
Sphinx

πŸ˜› awwwww!

SagiTaurean
SagiTaurean

Oh my. I may have stumbled upon this when I needed it most. A Taurus sun and true node – I have been in love with a Cancer for years, but have just come to this place tonight where I am beginning to question my Taurean loyalty in all it’s extreme glory and endurance. I think I made the decision the first moment I saw him years ago that I wanted him as family but it has been such a long journey and he still feels so far away. There should be a book called… “When the Taurus turns away…… Read more »

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