Mars In Libra & The Oracle In “Helpful” Mode

Vintage Tarzan with Jane

Dear Mystic,

I’ve just been hit by a nasty, soap opera-y break-up. On holiday in restored 17th century mill in the middle of a very beautiful nowhere in the middle of France with Libran-friend-of-14-years-turned-boyfriend-about-9-months ago. Things had been tricky for a couple of months. I thought work to blame. We’d barely seen each other for 6 weeks. I’d thought that getting away would allow us to discuss, reset, find equilibrium. Libran arranged the break. All of it. The very romantic setting, the car, the lot.

We get there. Libran – who is a bad drunk; alcoholic who has recently fallen off wagon, badly – gets drunk. It’s ugly. Next day, Libran is contrite. Says we need to talk. (And, yes, we do.) Libran tells me he’s had a series of one-night stands over the past while. With random men. I am a woman. He’s confused. He wants me to be magnanimous because it is very difficult and confusing time for him. I should bear in mind he has anxiety issues. I should bear in mind it is hard for him. He doesn’t know whether he is bisexual or gay. It is difficult for him. That I can be difficult (and, very true, I can.) He glosses over lying, infidelity, the breach of trust. The men? I don’t care about that. I care about being lied to, about my trust being broken. I left. I’m still a bit in bits.

Today, I checked the oracle. It told me the below. Thank you. It helps.

YES A LOT BUT GENUINE PERCEPTIONS OF THE TRUE YOU HAVE BEEN CLOUDED BY ALL THE CRAP THIS PERSON HAS SPUN ABOUT YOU TO SALVE HIS STUPID EGO.

Virgo To The Max 

Dear Virgo To The Max,

Wow. Some romantic holiday. God. I guess at least it is all now out-in-the-open. You know, Mars has been in Libra for the extent of your “about nine months ago” and this guy seems to be displaying every single Low Libra trick in the book. WHY he bothered to go to all this trouble and then undermine the whole holiday would seem to have more to do with severe addiction/denial than anything astrological BUT i find it interesting that nine months ago was the start of the Saturn cycle now ending + the whole Mars deal. And voila, a lot of stuff is out the open.

I am SO happy the Oracle was helpful and yes, it can be hideously apt. I did not  know that answer was even in there. Hmmm. That’s the problem when you work with Quantum Matter lol. So let’s take the New Moon in Leo on Jupiter this weekend as a fresh beginning. Clearly this person is not worthy of you. He needs to get clear re his sexuality, not blame YOU for his substance issues (seriously w.t.f?) and seek proper help for them before he tries to go gallivanting about seeking romance with good friends (14 years friendship also makes this a Saturn thing) in exotic locales.  Reset with the New Moon – it is super auspicious – be in Queen mode & when you are in the mood to run some super-Virgo analytics on this, assess the lesson learned. Because it’s been Saturn  in a Mars-friendly sign going back and forth over the same degrees of the Zodiac for the last nine months WHILST Mars was out of whack – plenty of lessons, fate and realignments of the psyche.

What does everyone else think?

 

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fallen angel
fallen angel

This all sounds way too familiar, minus the you know.. wonderful setting, the apologies, and the well crafted drama. My ex, the Sewer, didn’t tell me jack.. so when I was forced into the life of a spy, I found things such as: – Wired funds to hookers in Hong Kong – Transvestite hooker services in the US, but there were some overseas too – Memberships to transvestite dating (if you can call it that) services, exotic women dating sites, so on and so forth – Still actually being married to a woman who strangely tolerated all this but I… Read more »

Kitsune
Kitsune

Ah waaaow.

Last year I ended a relationship with a libra sun aries moon male who couldn’t seem to get his priorities in order — whether he was staying or going. He drifted away into a relationship with someone else and was perfectly content skirting around the issue of what actually went down.

This is classic Libran antics.

Run!

TripleL
TripleL

Holy shizzballs, Batman! Did I NOT just f’ing hear from lying, cheating narcissist Libra dude I had to bitch-slap permanently during the ZZ? WTH is going on in the cosmos? Barely unhinged the training wheels off my new, Higher Vibrational Self. Hilarious, Universe, a real knee-slapper … a soul test, per chance, ladies??

sweetpea
sweetpea

Dude looks like Robert Plant pre Zep 😆

TripleL
TripleL

Teehee … too funny, sweetpea! Alas, yes – more like wee Zep 😀

TripleL
TripleL

I concur, wholeheartedly. This Libran lady has a perverse attraction for Libran males, despite the facts that each and every one turns out to be completely self-serving, lying, cheating, commit-phobe sacks of shit!

Got your eye on a Libran male, do ya? RUN, FORREST, RUN!!

pearl
pearl

yep! lesson learned

TripleL
TripleL

Oh my dear, Pearl. Gargantuan and empathy-filled hugs <3 xo

Libra1Leo4
Libra1Leo4

Have a bit of sympathy people!!!!! It is very unfortunate that this has happened as it has but why not try to be a tad compassionate for the said Libran? It truly is very easy to say he should man up etc etc but I very much doubt he set out to be intentionally hurtful or malicious,

Libra1Leo4
Libra1Leo4

Ian Thorpe?

Pi
Pi

Pretty sure Ian Thorpe is a better man than that and worked out identity issues for himself some time ago. Y’think?

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Totally vibes someone who would rather hurt himself by keeping it internal (depression) rather than externalising through behaviour or blame.

calypso
calypso

Dear Virgo, How disappointing. You have my condolences. I was married to a sexually confused alcoholic Libran man and I agree with others above – you are fortunate that this was exposed now, hurtful as I’m sure it was. I would think it is very complex situation and that your friend does actually care for you despite his current confusion and behaviour, although Lo Librans can be narcissists. I echo Sphinx somewhat – you may have been a catalyst for his evolution and I hope there is something constructive in it all for you as well. I have to say… Read more »

LEF
LEF

Have never met a Libran male that wasn’t shallow (as scored to my scorpio moon standards), addicted to substance, and absorbed in his own world 24/7. VTTM – I JUST had a Libra dude pull something similar on me … but, with a fascination for transvestites. I am with you on “who cares – who shagged who” – your sexual preference is your business and my Sagg rising (conjunct Neptune/Mars) isn’t the least turned off by the desire for taboo exploration. (further supported by my 12th house scorp stellium) … but the trust issue – for the love of goodness… Read more »

calypso
calypso

wow, I know two Libra men just like this – substances, unresolved sexuality/affairs – and i am very happy I am no longer partnered with either of them!

LEF
LEF

(my) Venus in Libra had mistaken this one as THE one. Trust is hard to get back .. not to mention, an insult to my intelligence. Have moved to the anger stage of the grief process … Only a few more steps to go!

calypso
calypso

the Venus in Libra. hmmm, that must be my downfall as well. Good luck!

pearl
pearl

..see Judy Ringer’s explanation of wrang wrang…

pearl
pearl

I had an experience along the same vein as yours virgo that shocked me in to a downward spiral of horror-there are harder things to discover about your supposed soul mate besides confused sexual identity like sexual abuser/paedophile/it has taken quite a bit of time to recover from this.Never expected to uncover the predator he actually was ,and on my journey of discovery out of this I have finally understood the lessons this experience gave to me .Those who have knowledge about what transpired have urged me to document a fictionalized (for my safety) story which I hope I will… Read more »

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

I share your pain someone I trusted turned out to be a padeophile, he admitted to molesting & being in love with his own daughter.
I am still thoroughly disgusted to this day. Courts chose to believe him and ignore his daughter’s complaints of abuse.
The courts often ignore red flags until it is too late. I tried to help but could not.

Universali
Universali

Wow. Holy mary de la leche this situ so similar to mine I can’t believe it. Without the gay lovers on the side – altho have been wondering bout this for some time.
I wish you the strength your’re going to need to get thru your Now.

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

What do I think? First of all, condolences, sweetheart – you do NOT need this garbage! He needs to man up and take responsibility for himself and his poor choices, and if this is how he treats a “friend” of 14 years, I am appalled to think of how he would treat someone he wasn’t (supposedly) close to. Secondly, with Uranus in Aries opposite his Libra Sun? I do believe there is a high probability that he *IS* gay and is legitimately having trouble self-identifying as such. This does *NOT* in any way, shape, or form excuse his actions and… Read more »

Universali
Universali

Great response. Am curious would transit over ones ascendant be similar. Sorry, typing on iphone on short time frames!

Sphinx
Sphinx

I guess, your friend has used the vehicle of your friendship to launch himself forward. This is a shame for your friendship. But if you feel like you can forgive him, then possibly he may have more to give you than ever down the track? He has rebirthed himself through your love? This point of view can only be had if there is genuine love on both sides perhaps. Maybe on some level this experience was a gift you gave your friend? That you allowed your heart to be the stage on which he could resolve his issues at last?… Read more »

Sphinx
Sphinx

And I am sorry, that sounds a bit light hearted..but I know this is a painful and harrowing situation as I have a few Katakan girlfriends who have been in this situation and one Pisces girlfriend. Cappy guy, no kids involved but very sad for Kataka # 1 for the reasons you mention. Today they are good friends by phone after some time and distance. Pisces guy had two kids with Kataka #2. There was a lot of bitterness for my married friend, all was not well for many years. But then, they both turned a corner and were really… Read more »

Veronica
Veronica

Lovely perspective Sphinx, will take years to see how it pans out. I like the story of the #2 Katakan friend, i remember when you were going through her passing with her also.

Sphinx
Sphinx

Thanks V! This was one of the situations where I commented first and then saw the responses others had made later.. 🙂 Lol. Not sure my perspective is the same as others here.

Veronica
Veronica

Theres no doubt it’s an absolutely harsh thing to go through. Just sometimes that there can be something salvaged and and there is growth i it, definitely for the person whose trust is abused, but even for the one who breaks the trust

Virgo-to-the-max
Virgo-to-the-max

Again, thank you all. I appreciate your kindness and wisdom very much. It’s a knock. And, yes, the biggest thing right now is the respect/trust thing. I don’t particularly care who he’s shagged – male, female; Good grief, he could even be into illicit balloon sex for all it matters – I do care about being deceived and having years worth of trust treated casually. My health, too. I’ve already been to the STI clinic. I’m angry about that. It’s grossly irresponsible of him. It’s fine to risk his own sexual health, it’s not at all cool to risk someone… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Hey. Thanks for the insight. Didn’t mean to get off the track of your main event here.
Virgo analysis followed by aqua ‘sod it’ must be a lifesaver at times . Hope it helps you navigate this one too
X

samantha
samantha

i’m Virgo rising with Mars Aqua, what wrote (and also Virgo to the Max) resonates.

sunshine
sunshine

I’ve heard of scenarios like this often enough to believe now that it must be a given. In order to get to the BIG, UGLY truths about emotional/amour issues, men need to oil up with booze first. Alcoholic or not. This guy did you a huge favour, and I mean huge. He was honest. THAT is a big deal which you will come to appreciate. None of this has anything to do with you except as Mystic has said, the relationship, your involvement with this type of person is a lesson from father-figure Saturn. All good ladies experience these lessons… Read more »

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

I’m sorry…he was honest? How? He f***ed a bunch of people behind her back, and then just happened to get liqoured up enough to spill the beans during his next-day hangover. That’s not honesty – that’s it all coming out in the laundry! There is a huge difference – honesty would have been having the emotional maturity to explain to her (before taking up with anyone else) that he’s confused by the (sexual) feelings he is having. Or, honesty would have been at least breaking things off with her first (regardless of the reason he chose to give her) and… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Ohh goodness VTTM, I feel for you. What a horrible sitch and yes, a thermonuclear disaster. The betrayal of trust…hideous. Not to mention the death of your illusion of what kind of person he was/is, and the knowledge that your relationship wasn’t all you thought it was. Ugh.
As many have observed in the comments, forget dreams, astro and the Oracle… take immediate steps to assess your sexual health. You could ask him if he put your health at risk, but why would you believe anything he told you right now?
Sending support your way xx

zenuende
zenuende

My commiserations VttM. Sounds like you’ve already accepted the inevitable though and it is definitely all about the absence of trust and loss of dignity, hey? If I may offer some advice from my own experience – under the auspices of saving you and anyone else who will deal with a similar situation a whole lot of drama – it’s a case of bi now, gay later. He aint comin’ back from Big Ole Gayland, sorry, so don’t look back. You’re on the money that if he loved or even cared for you he would have allowed you to keep… Read more »

pleidian pisces
pleidian pisces

OMFG – I was meant to read this post – have had weird stuff happening all around me this week – still annoyingly pining for unrequited phoenix lover for 9 months – the one and only photo of him disappeared from my laptop – a random message ‘appeared’ on my phone from “me”- as If i was writing a text to someone that said: No, he’s not coming back…he’s not right for you..WTF??? who wrote it? THEN,the next day – I get a massive sensation in my gut that tells me he’s gay/bi confused so he can’t be with me!… Read more »

Virgo-to-the-max
Virgo-to-the-max

Thank you, all. The relationship is over. It ended with the one-night stands. I am not sure the friendship can recover. His actions undermined the trust we had (and, let’s face it, trust is the foundation of any relationship, platonic or otherwise). I am numb, and, yes, leaving aside his issues with drink and his sexuality, I’d been Virgo-guilting a bit (Sun, Moon, Jupiter and Pluto in Virgo; Aquarius ascendant; Mercury in Libra, Venus in Libra. Ouch). It saddens me too. If he’d had the courage to say he was confused, that he needed to explore, then we could ended… Read more »

Jen Scorpio
Jen Scorpio

I agree with everything above, plus some. Don’t try to work it out, understand it or attempt an equitable allotment of blame/responsibility; some things defy explanation. If it feels bad then let it go. Life’s too short and there’s too many good men out there to waste our energy on the qi vampires. The learning will come when the time is right. For now fly, be free.

Pi
Pi

How does your Virgo need to Fix all the things work with your aqua IDGAF ascendant? Curious. Xx

Pi
Pi

Also in case that wasn’t clear, v sorry to hear about the thermonuclear disaster. x

Jannah
Jannah

Absolutely agree with what you’ve written there and it’s some beautiful insight. Go and lick your wounds, take a nap, recover. No guilt jobbing yourself either. You’ve got this. He will find his way in his own time, you’ve got the opportunity to find yours xx

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

Some people are self destructive and cannot be saved, they must save themselves.
I dated two Libran men who had serious addiction problems, but blamed me because I was an easy scapegoat. Both are still addicts and alcoholics and refuse to take responsibilities for their own disease.
You dodged a bullet- go celebrate with your real friends. Cheers to you! 😉

Moonatic
Moonatic

92% of blokes give the rest of us a bad name.

Pi
Pi

Hahahah moonman

S
S

8% it’s no wonder it’s a battlefield, this thing called love.

calypso
calypso

😉

Moonatic
Moonatic

I gave myself a new name for my solar return. I read on cafeastrology you can do a chart for your solar return and it gives you a headsup on the ensuing year. Gee, astro is amazing. Does anyone know much about it.

As Dylan (Greatest Gem communicator of alltime) says “arhh but l was so much older then, l’m younger than that now”

On blog topic; Drop him.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Happy Birthday Katman!!! May the year ahead bring you some cinammon n spice and all things nice 😀

Moonatic
Moonatic

And some “Cowgirl in the Sand”

S
S

Well Moonday Katman your Birthday is today. Many happy returns to you and Cinnamon Girl too. May you be blessed this year and all the years that follow. 🙂

Anonymous
Anonymous

Ta Scorpybot n S

curiouser and curiouser crab
curiouser and curiouser crab

cowgirl in the sand. haha. too funny.

samantha
samantha

One of my all time favourite artists and songs

Gemyogi
Gemyogi

Happy birthday!!

calypso
calypso

happy solar return ChameleKatakan!

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

😀 I’m loving all the name changes

Moonatic
Moonatic

I feel like the blushblogger. Any more and my face will run a temperature

calypso
calypso

I know 🙂

what about Kata-Kata-Kata-Kata Chameleon, He comes and goes, he comes and goooeees 😉

S
S

Kataka Kulture Klub (love ya work CS)

Moonatic
Moonatic

Hmmmmmm…. Dunno.

Thanx Gemyogibear and CalypsoQueen.

Moonday dunno about…..but l sure wooda like to have met Freya whom Friday is named after.

Sphinx
Sphinx

Happy Birthday Man o’ Moon.

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

Happy Birthday!

skarab
skarab

Ha- ha Moonatic (I like), I’m also a katakan and I’ve been doing the same with my name. I tried out 3 different versions of it in yesterday’s post.

Happy solar return!

Moonatic
Moonatic

I thort Skarab musta been Katakan. What was ya others?

Anyway, gutes nacht femmes. Ta for ya wishes.

skarab
skarab

not telling!

Moonatic
Moonatic

So your new name is Ms Terious!
Ta for later wishes. I was getn beauty sleep; it didn’t work.

Moonatic
Moonatic

I paraphrased Steven Wright (a dry Sagg Sage) . “99% of lawyers give the rest a bad name”

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Many happy wishes! 🙂

Moonatic
Moonatic

Thanx to all

capcantaur
capcantaur

well as someone who just had a ‘relationship’ with a Libran blow up last Friday due to similar dodgey reasons (and timings), all I can say is…Librans. Never met one of them that isn’t hugely attractive and yet hugely dodge.

cancerrising
cancerrising

AMEN AMEN AMEN

oh gawd.

pearl
pearl

add my emphatic vote. AGAIN the Libran Male. There will have to be a lot of ground covered for my current belieifs to change.Prove me wrong.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I know very closely a Libran male who is loyal, devoted and marvellously guiding and sharing. In fact, a lynchpin of my nearest and dearest, and a role model of commitment, whether that be to a cause, a project or a person. He is married to Aquarius. If my Mutable self need ever query what the ethical choice in balance of myself and others is, i think of his words of wisdom or actually ask his advice. Before committing to a cause, of course, he weighs up the options and consequences very carefully, in contrast to my “feet first” (as… Read more »

pearl
pearl

..beliefs..experiences…

toromojorising
toromojorising

Well, doesn’t this situation sound just terribly vile and confusing and awful? Take care of yourself Virgo to the Max. As as suggested above, run for the hills because this person isn’t shining any amount of love, light, honesty or sincerity into your life, and that is what you deserve. Find the lesson, learn it, apply it and move on. It’s not easy, but so worth it.

S
S

When communication fails in any relationship, it’s difficult not to say “if only and we should have.” On one hand your dealing with the boyfriend aspect and the other your friendship. His sexual identity issues are left for him to discuss in a trained therapeutic environment. Your friendship has taken the heaviest blow. Trust is earnt and he didn’t feel like he could discuss his true identity with you. Which is the difficult part to process and heal. Seems to me he has been dealing with his sexuality for some time now. Do not let your self belief be soured… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

S for Sensei xx pi

Seagoat
Seagoat

Yeah. Lousy way to treat a friend. Keep walking and look forward to what’s next in your life. Virgos are great friends (I have lots). I have found them to be loyal, gorgeous, clever and great fun. Great mates. There will be lots of people there for you with open arms.

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

yes, I agree I have several close, reliable Virgo friends they’re the best!
Sounds like he may have a sex addiction and a sexual identity crisis wrapped together,

larks s
larks s

I’m sorry to hear that Virgo-to-the-max

Please do take care of yourself. Indeed, this character sounds terrible – he is doing his best to assume the victim position even when he has really been the one who should apologise and take responsibility.

Dodged a bullet, for sure.

And please do get any sexual health checks that might be necessary.

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

Virgo To The Max, you don’t need the Oracle. And i say this as a compulsive user of the Oracle and tarot. You need cognitive behavorial therapy to work out why you feel anything other then relief right now. This person sounds monstrous – it does not matter what romantic intentions he has for you or if he is thinking of you. Slam that door shut and don’t go back. As Leo on the rise says, he needs a psych nurse. Not a girlfriend.

R(aqua/tauri)
R(aqua/tauri)

As a love zombie in therapy, I approve this message.

cancerrising
cancerrising

AMEN

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Wouldn’t an actual psych nurse want a break in her personal time?

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

If his/her survival instinct is strong, then yes.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

exactly. i help people for a living and do volunteer work to get the rest of the “omg i need to help people” out of my system so that there will be nothing left over for doing that in my dating/love life. That is my new strategy since 2010. i would love to tell you my new strategy is helping me avoid hard luck cases, but since i haven’t had a date since 2010 i have no way of knowing.

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

I would say that your new strategy is working 😉 Stay strong, eel x

Buckle (Aries, Pisces Asc, Gem Moon)
Buckle (Aries, Pisces Asc, Gem Moon)

I like your style!

LeoEscapeArtist
LeoEscapeArtist

Yes, with Neptune in opposition to Virgo, call in the support staff. 🙂

MutableMabel
MutableMabel

I’m a big fan of Al-Anon too. It’s free and comes with all kinds of weird new friends who know all your secrets. It’s done wonders for me.

Anyway, Virgo, you are way not alone in this. Addiction is a horrible, insidious disease and it messes with everyone it touches. It’s easy to know that intellectually, but especially after this kind of close encounter, calling in some reinforcements to help you make sure your head’s on straight is probably a good call.

bluesky
bluesky

Hear, hear to what Mutable Mabel said. A relationship with an addict can make YOU feel crazy–since the other person’s behavior and signals are so screwy. The person that stays with the addict risks going down with the ship. Swim away, dear Virgo.

K-Gem
K-Gem

Another Libran melts down…has this been the Mars in Libra experience??

skarab
skarab

no – not for me nor my closest double libra pal (sun and moon) plus me (lib rising) have been cruising this astro. Well, to tell the truth, it was like being on an obstacle course trying to out-run a giant wave roaring behind us. It was a challenge and things got hairy, but I even managed to turn my life around after years of being stuck. So this has been an interesting trip. My life vest was reading Mystics advice.

K-Gem
K-Gem

sounds like it has been a great transit – not easy but a good result.

skarab
skarab

and what i also meant to say to Virgo to the Max is that I empathise with you as something similar happened to me with a Virgo years ago. He’d booked an exotic holiday for us where I know he was going to pop the question…..cut long story short – when arriving at exotic island he admitted to having had sex with men while going out with me – claimed he “must” be bi but still loved me and wanted to marry me etc. I won’t even try to explain how i felt …. I bolted and never looked back.… Read more »

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

ahhh yes… the dreams really do tell all. For me anyway – Neptune conjunct Sun

skarab
skarab

aaah yes, it’s all flooding back now, the horror – this all happened on my birthday… and my saturn return was a mere few weeks away.

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

Never ignore a series of negative dreams,it maybe a red flag to run!
I ignored mine and paid dearly for it. Never again.
Your subconscious knows and sends you a message that something is off.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

nope. not my experience at all. It’s more annoyance/frustration that things aren’t flowing smoothly my way. Sort of feeling like my creativity and art are stuck as i haven’t produced new work in over 6 months. I’m choosing to re-go over old stuff. My natal mars is in libra tho.

Buckle (Aries, Pisces Asc, Gem Moon)
Buckle (Aries, Pisces Asc, Gem Moon)

The romantic getaway sounds to me like he was still prepared to keep lying about it at the time of arrangement/booking.

Run away!

Anonymous
Anonymous

I agree – get your perfectly turned out Virgo self the fuq away from him –

Seriously what a freaking tosspiece he is – narcissist and probably a sociopath too – unless you’re a psychiatric nurse who the hell can deal with that shite?!?!??!???!!!

Leo on the Rise
Leo on the Rise

I agree – get your perfectly turned out Virgo self the fuq away from him –

Seriously what a freaking tosspiece he is – narcissist and probably a sociopath too – unless you’re a psychiatric nurse who the hell can deal with that shite?!?!??!???!!!

Please realise that none of this has anything to do with you – he’s a nutjob Run Run Run
Blessings xxx

Flying Cat
Flying Cat

Yes. Run like the wind. He’ll never tell all his truth.

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

WHOA! You poor thing!

All that covert shagging around sounds v. dodgy mars in Libra…and this dude is a Libran.

How pass-agg to arrange a romantic holiday and then drop that bombshell!

But I do have to say it sounds v. picturesque and totes Libran 🙂

I say, yeah reset, clear your head and give it some SPACE (like a year or so) and if Mr Libra has sorted out his issues, then maybe think about whether it has a chance. But yeah, you were betrayed, so I’d think twice about trusting this person again.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

take care of thyself first virgo to the max. get whatever doc screenings are necessary to preserve your health. you may have dodged a bullet with this one. i have a feeling he just told you all that stuff so he doesn’t have to keep feeling guilty about it. It’s all about him! That’s why the drinking…makes it easier to keep being dishonest.