Could A Leo Policeman Retrigger The Dormant Love Zombie Virus?

How Do I Make Him Love Me

Dear Mystic,

Firstly, thank god for your horoscopes, i have been drinking them up like zap zone juice for advice during all the weirding. I was feeling SO STRONG because i’ve quit sugar, am eating paleo, doing 90 minutes of training at the gym every day and plugging away at my good projects in Saturn Girl mode, but a Leo policeman has sent me bonkers, triggering all my stuff!

And he hasn’t even done anything bad, he’s just been ‘busy’!

So  – please can you help me. I have worked hard and long to eradicate all of my Love Zombie tendencies.  But I fear that this Leo policeman is retriggering them!  I met him a month ago – via online dating and we had a 13 hour date that was meant to be just coffee but obviously evolved. It was hands down the best “mating” experience of my life.  It felt fated. We arrived for the date both wearing ouroboros – me a necklace, him a tattoo.  He had all these attributes really similar to the policeman (!) character in the novel i am writing.

And he also says he preferred cats to dogs (like me!) because dogs are ‘like toddlers’ ! I’ve only ever thought that but always afraid to say it out loud! I had this spooky thing where when he sat on my couch and patted my cat (yes I slept with him on the 1at date) it looked like he’d been here before, or had happened already. Very odd/fated.

The orouberos around both our necks, the spooky things i have written into my novel that he is etc etc. Then don’t hear from him for a week, or more. See him a fortnight after first date – he comes after work to a comedy gig but he’s late because he’s arresting someone – he seems stressed and busy. We have a couple of drinks and he drives me home, this date is a mere 3 hours.

I’m so scared of getting attached. I think I already am though. The only thing scarier than not being attracted to anyone for 4 years is being insanely Zombie about someone who may not feel the same way back

Now, after sending what i thought was a flippant and lighthearted message saying “I’ve forgotten what you look like” he has asked me out on Friday night, but i feel like i’ve dragged it out of him, i have invited him to three things in 3 weeks he has been ‘too busy’ to come to. I’m scared i’m going to say something on friday like “why do you wait 2 weeks between dates? Are you married…?”
I noticed the full moon affects where you have 25 Aries and Libra – for me, my Venus is in Aries at 23 degrees, as is my Chiron, and my north node is in Libra at 24.

I wish i didn’t like him so much and i can’t believe how much head space he is taking but i just think the synchronicities are too astounding. It’s so hard when it feels like you like someone so much more than they’re interested in you…he is a Leo, with Moon in Pisces and Mars in Taurus and Venus in Virgo – maybe the earth is slowing him down.

Of course, his unavailability makes him more appealing to me so i’ve got to examine what THAT’s all about…

Yours, taking-every-day-of-april-as-it-comes, trying to be cool (but not) Zapped Pisces

Dear Cool But Not Zapped Pisces,

Okay, several points here. I shall list them for clarity.

* Thank you for the image of a Leo Policeman. I can see him checking out his profile in the side mirror of his paddy wagon or whatever.

* For the zillionth time people, MARS IS RETROGRADE.  So Mars = Men – arguably especially policemen and in classic astrology, they retreat.  Do you go in hot pursuit when Mars is Retrograde? No. You do the metaphorical equivalent of resting your army & polishing your swords.  And i am sorry but three invitations are “pursuit.”

* Of COURSE his unavailability makes him more appealing to you – you’re Pisces, sign of the Paranormal Romancer. Admit that you enjoy all this schizz.

* Epic that you are resisting the Love Zombie Virus. Perhaps consider engaging a light Anti Love Zombie Protocol as IF it had already happened. Massive determined distraction. Not contacting him at all until Mars is Direct on May 20. Removing yourself and seeing if HE makes any more.  I just read this on a blog and it feels relevant, albeit a bit “Not That Into You” ish:

He may love you. He probably does. He probably thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of

their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.

* You spent 13 hours together the first date so it is either massive chemistry that could be freaking him out a bit or he was just dogged Mars in Taurus and happy to spend as long as it took to get himself laid.

* I am not sure if “arresting someone” is excuse enough to be late. Don’t police people just knock off at the end of their shift and someone else takes over or do you think he was pinned down in a fire fight?

* I think, given your Venus-Chiron and North Node near the degree of the Eclipse + the North Node stuff – that you won’t need to demand answers from him on Friday + don’t take this is as a Zombie trigger but it’s classic soulmating astro – seriously.

And finally – Mars in Taurus can move slowly, like a glacier and Venus in Virgo over -analyzes. My god, give Leo Policeman the chance to miss you and make his own moves towards you.  Resist the L.Z Virus via yoga, manicures, writing screeds of stream of consciousness stuff in your journal, long solo walks – whatever it takes.

If you and Leo Policeman are meant to be, April is the kind of month that shakes loose the obstacles and synchronizes people who are destined for one another. It’s a catalyst – let it happen.

What does everyone else think?

UPDATE FROM THE FRIDAY NIGHT DATE: He had to cancel last night. I was pretty disappointed but relieved in a way as it was weirdly making me anxious, i’d built it up so much…We chatted for half an hour on the phone instead, so that was nice . He has serious concussion & can’t keep food down. I called him to check he’d been to the doctor but that was all…
And now I shall leave him be until Mars goes direct ???? as per everyone’s advice… And voodoo/write the end of my novel ????
I don’t think he’s married, I think he just works awful hours. If he finishes at 4, sometimes he doesn’t get out til 8. Police do a really tough job.

AND even later:  OK! So you know he had to cancel due to his head injury, so i got up today determined to do nice things that i enjoy doing and make the most of my beautiful life which is actually quite fine single or not… i rode to my favourite cafe and bought some roses to plant on my balcony, then got a call out of the blue from a guy on RSVP I’d forgotten about…I took my profile down weeks ago and forgot i had given him my number… we had a really nice chat while i was at the cafe then he drove down from the mountain to meet me there (! he lives in the dandenongs, we’d never met before), we had really fun conversations then went to the park where he gave me a salsa lesson! He’s a salsa instructor ex-mechanic and a capricorn. Then we had a really nice hug and now i’m home to work on my book.

So Neptune meant magic, but not in the way that i’d anticipated! I’m grateful for everyone’s advice though because i do think you need to be not attached and people are more interested in you. And i read this awful but true quote about online dating today ‘the one who is least interested has the most power’.
They pursue you when you forget about them! Now i feel all glowy from my dance and my hugs and my chats with this interesting man!! There wasn’t animal attraction like there was with policeman but definitely fun.

 

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Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

So Pisces Girl.. what happened with your Friday night date with the Leo Lush? What did I miss?

Pisces
Pisces

It’s all there on the update virgo ellie – you might need to press refresh…?

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

A-ha.. got it! Interesting about the cop but I have to agree with you Pisces girl. I loved my cop and totally understood him. My problem, like you, is he tried to stay distant and I kept on coming after him. I would buy him b-day presents. I never got a Thank You! I don’t even know what he did with it. So.. I feel for you. But how cool is it Salsa Man showed up! I love those. Least expected and you had fun! Good for you! Also I hate the game that is play to keep a guy.… Read more »

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

Concussion.

Fab excuse. I am taking it. “Sorry i can’t come to because i have concussion. ”

My girls are using it too. Nobody DARES argue.

Ms Pisces, remember the Marines? You are out of there. He is Fallujah. Delete his details.

DO NOT SHOW UP AT THE PRECINCT WITH CHICKEN SOUP, SOME HERBS AND A COPY OF THE ALCHEMIST OR I AM GOING TO COME DOWN THERE AND WHACK YOUR PALEO TONED BACKSIDE.

Pisces
Pisces

BAHAHAHA!!!! YOu are SO awesome LS. Thank you!! yes my paleo backside is bloody 2 kilos lighter since i met him because it’s now been 5 WEEKS!!!! Don’t worry, i called to check he had been to the Dr (he was typical policeman laissez-fare about head injury but i have a conscience i need to deal with so couldn’t just text him saying ‘that’s bad, take care’) so my conscience is clear now but i haven’t made any further contact. It’s taken ALL MY STRENGTH mind you. Bloody hell. I can’t delete his details. I just can’t. But i won’t… Read more »

calypso
calypso

because he has concussion? just kidding.

I’ll tell you why he hasn’t called – because you acted like he was your boyfriend after one date! and checking of he’s seen a doctor? a bit too much like his mum!

OK, I’ve had enough with the exclamation marks now. Sorry Pisces, you probs scared him off.

20 000 words by Monday? That’s a GREAT goal, good luck 🙂

Wonder Woman
Wonder Woman

Hi honey, I just caught up with the blogs and decided do a quick tarot reading on it. Whether you believe in it or not I swear by my cards. I usually only do it for myself and a couple of besties, however… The question I asked is “What does Miss Pisces need to know about her policeman”. In one card only. Pretty basic ok? I shuffled just then for quite a while and when I stopped and turned over the card it was the three of swords stabbed through the heart. Now don’t panic, because this can mean more… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

Wow that was very generous of you. Thank you. The 3 of swords always freaks me out a bit, makes me think of death and grief. In another development, I had a very freudian injury at the gym this week. I pulled (tore?) a chest muscle doing burpees so now it hurts to breathe. The area around my ribs is inflamed. I think it happened because i didn’t warm up and i ignored the signs of pain. A bit similar to the whole scenario with the Leo! A good friend demanded i delete him from my phone last night so… Read more »

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Yay! Glad you had fun, and well done on resisting the LZ virus!

Wait till Mars goes direct and the Policeman will come through if he’s going to, and who knows who else!

Have fun, ALWAYS xx

Porkchop
Porkchop

I just read the update.

I don’t trust the policeman… He wasn’t too busy to start chatting online and have that first date. His behaviour after they bonked seems to be pretty ‘he’s just not that into you’, unfortunately? Maybe he never had the time for or interest in a relationship and was just out for a shag? Or, he does have the time but just not the interest now? Both are so disappointing when you’ve put yourself out there 🙁

Porkchop
Porkchop

And he may not have been truthful about his ‘situation’ with Pisces. For all we know it could be lie
after lie coming out of his mouth.

Pisces
Pisces

You’re right pork chop, think i’ll just be happy with my memory of that date but move on with my life! Also have taken my online profile down. Whole thing is pretty crazy.

Porkchop
Porkchop

You’ll find a way to use this experience in your writing. Plot, character, theme – who knows. But you’ll turn the heartache into literary gold!!! All writers need life experiences to draw on 🙂 Lots of hugs.

Pisces
Pisces

Thanks so much 🙂

monte
monte

By the way, not only is he a cop, but he is sooooo married.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

He’s married? I am totally missing some updates!

pandora
pandora

Well…would you feel like a love zombie now if you didn’t sleep with him on the first date? If you start to stalk him he could arrest you. We all know that police men chase, lol, so what’s there to chase if you aren’t going anywhere. Keep yourself busy with things you enjoy and see if the energy shifts because you know that saying, ‘it’s me before we’. Aren’t you busy writing a book? you can write the outcome anyway you like.

Pisces
Pisces

Love it. So True. And to Monte below: HE’S NOT MARRIED!!!

monte
monte

Then why say the following:

“why do you wait 2 weeks between dates? Are you married…?”

Sounded like YOU DON’T REALLY KNOW.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Ok! I need confirmation on this married comment!

Pisces
Pisces

He could well be Virgo Ellie, i really have no idea. I’m going to let this one go…

Aquarianne
Aquarianne

You’re all fabulous!
The essence of everyone on this blog should be distilled and dolled out one drop at a time through some clandestine black witchy market to every girl in her first love affair with booster drops available in times of dire need thereafter. 🙂

calypso
calypso

the long-anticipated LZ vaccine!

S
S

Dear Cool But Not Zapped Pisces, I think the Leo Policeman is married. I am just looking at the lack of contact during the first date/encounter and being a policeman is a great cover. Just ask the questions that you need to ask to give you perspective and this should help eradicate your potential Love Zombie tendencies. This has been a very helpful post, thanks for the quote too MM. My recent cluster fuq in the brain aka psych ward hospitalisation, I was afraid to go on a blind date as my heart has been occupied by another for 2… Read more »

pi
pi

also let’s not forget your awesome 13 hour date. that’s kind of excellent. regardless of whatever else comes to pass. a nice thing for the memory banks : ) .

Virgo-Lib
Virgo-Lib

Why don’t you just try to be friends first?

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

I think it’s a little late for that considering the a-hem “13 hr date”.

Ms.
Ms.

LOL

Oh Mercy My
Oh Mercy My

“dogs are ‘like toddlers’ ! I’ve only ever thought that but always afraid to say it out loud!” . . Um, why?

do you think that you are wayyyyyy too sensitive and internalised? just say what you think and be who you are . im sure its all very fabulous

Libragal
Libragal

My, my, my….this sounds like my ex!!!!!

Leo policeman, tatts, 2 boys (1 that lives with him), pisces moon, venus in virgo..also met him on line. If its the same man, you’re first ‘faute’ was to sleep with him on the first date…

If he doesn’t call & doesn’t msg u, then he’s not worth your time…

Good luck!

Pisces
Pisces

well that worried me!! But my police dude has no kidlets…

S
S

Just checked out the Friday scopes…had people over for dinner that told me about the Zombie in the complex. He walks are here at 3am. Damn this synchronicity is hot at the mo MM!

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

0_0

Elise
Elise

I married a Leo with a Pisces moon in the 12th house! Leos are feral. They can get very lone wolf-ish. My husband used to actually say that to me when he was blowing me off when we first got together, “the lone wolf rides alone” or some such bullshit. I wasn’t into him when we first met, he was one of my bosses actually. He would come down at stare at me while I worked. I fell in love with him when he finally didn’t have any time for me! He was trying so hard not to do his… Read more »

catfish moon
catfish moon

I am mars in taurus, venus in virgo, moon in leo in the 12th house(pisces house). But a kataka woman.

No, cops do not get to check out at end of shift. NOPE. Can you deal with that? A cop is busy, commited, works overtime. I could not deal.

Back off. IT is okay I promise.

Veronica
Veronica

It’s true what you say that cops don’t get to check out at end of shift. They say it’s hard on their marriages, cos it’s not the type of work you can switch off

fallen angel
fallen angel

Oh Hun. Great comments from everyone btw.. am still amidst my life of boxes. Were I a cat I’d be so drunkenly happy skipping in and out of them but I am not, hence must suffer through the 7th ring of hell that is packing – unpacking – editing – curating – and countless trips to Goodwill. Hopefully, more good will returns when all this is done. Pisces babe. First rule of life for anyone. YOU GOTS TO SHOW UP. It works for work, it works for love, it works for everyone from the Dalai Lama to the rubbish collector.… Read more »

calypso
calypso

you’re the best FA, and especially this, I’m taking this bit with me 🙂 “if I get a feeling of need over something (a man, a chair, a shirt, whatever), I stop and look for that feeling of play. Meaning is there a sense of play in the urge? If it’s absent, then I’m just being willful and stubborn..”

calypso
calypso

cos sometimes I feel like that about chairs 😉

fallen angel
fallen angel

oh honey, we all do.. it’s why I mentioned it! 🙂

doublekataka
doublekataka

and yes to all of this!

Ms.
Ms.

LOL, I do that too (pre date orgasm)
*recommend*

pi
pi

yep. it’s the bomb.
ooh aahh oh la la la alalaaaa
oh hai dateguy

fallen angel
fallen angel

Yes, i’m surprised not everyone does it.. but then I guess if you’re a man it could seriously jack things up (no pun intended) in case your refractory period ain’t that efficient..

Ms.
Ms.

there are still (sadly) a lot of women who think its desperate to play with themselves. Don’t start me, I am sure we could talk about this for at least 12 hours 😉

good to see you kicking around still babe :*

AquariCrab
AquariCrab

Fantastic comments. Very helpful for my current LZ stirrings

fallen angel
fallen angel

The thing is, we all have them. But clearly a VACCINE needs to be robustly developed???

doublekataka
doublekataka

consult your father issues. this is hard territory I know, and I say this while doing an epic pluto transit so I’m not trivialising it. but in the quest of Life, therein lies the key to the Lock of Love Zombie. I got there and it just sort of happened: a very deep dream where most of the processing took place, and I only had to put the very obvious puzzle pieces together and jot it all down the next morning. liberation!

doublekataka
doublekataka

“it just sort of happened” while mile deep in pluto shiz

pi
pi

mmm. I learnt inestimable amounts and still am, about how i approach a male significant other, though totally mining my relationship with my father. it is ALL THERE TO SEE. freaked me out. well not really, more like OMG that gut-feeling of recognition. not instant overnight. the kernel is set when we are born and the programming builds around this. the lenses and stimulus-response in place long before we recognise it is a completely constructed consciousness. mind you this all started with saturn on IC / Pluto , jupes and uranus opposing, bla bla bla bla anyway. it’s a big… Read more »

monte
monte

Why would you date a cop?

monte
monte

Full Stop!

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Lol. Was thinking the same thing. And a Leo! Eww. 😯

fallen angel
fallen angel

Don’t Leos wear uniforms well? There is THAT.

sweetpea
sweetpea

I think so FA…good to see you about luv.

When Leo rising sis was with American Airlines she had a pants suit uniform. Dark blue and shiny gold buttons and all.

Said “you look like you should be flying the plane”…She looked fabulous darling..

She is also a Rooster in Chinese astrology and they are supposedly known for military stuff, etc.

Veronica
Veronica

I accidentally had an amazing 48 hr first date with a Dutch detective inspector. His Sun (exact on my moon) and moon Scorp, Sagg Venus. He was leaving town the next day, and I was LZ over him for aaages afterward

PIsces
PIsces

That sounds very ‘Before Sunrise’. Love it 🙂

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

God all this talk about Pisceans is making me a bit scared of dating the Pisces Psych now!!!!! …. oh well we’re having breakfast on Sunday apparently. I like breakfast first dates.

Vslr
Vslr

All this talk of Friday is making me nervous!!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

I figure nothing untoward can happen locked up in my bedroom … or locked up in the gym, covered in sweat and looking remarkably unattractive. 😀

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

with the phone switched off and the doorbell set to stun :mrgreen:

Vslr
Vslr

Pahahaa good one! I guess friday would be the day to lock myselfin my room voluntarily and charge ahead with revision!

pi
pi

prowln yo uare on fire tonight lady. imagining the pile of suitors lying dazed and wtf confused on the ground outside the front door. you step over them as you adjust your earphones on the way for a run.

AB
AB

Mhmmm… lots of pisces energy is a bit delusional.. depending if they had a bit of say, earth or air to ground their personality.

Really depends on the planet and house the pisces energy is placed.

For example, my Pisces venus is in the 11th house, having experienced LZ symptons my Aqua ruled 11th house always grounded me with some logic towards my venus affairs. Not to mention my Cappy moon.

Totally depends..

I love Pisceans though… they are just magic.

Ab
Ab

This is some of the most straight forward advice to be given in this situation.

You have been single for 4 + years you are a pisces you want that connection.

You felt it with this guy.

But you are also hyped up with your rose coloured glasses and loving the idea of synchronicity /fated feeling – who isn’t, pisces more so.

BUT he is not trying with you.
He’s not interested in you.

Otherwise he would be with you.

That’s it that’s all you need to know.

NEXT!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

yeah … if they are into you they are just “there” … they hover, they make their presence felt. Some are shy, some are forward … but generally most guys (unless they are a complete emotional cripple) will let you know one way or another they are into you.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Yes, this.

Kittybat
Kittybat

This community really makes me smile. The sage advice, the humour and the oh so cool vernacular of words and phrases I just want to copy and drop into my daily usage. So glad I found you all! Mystic, excellent, most excellent advice and I can only applaud all the comments…

Good luck Friday and heron after, Pisces 🙂

virgo kathleen
virgo kathleen

🙂 I agree with this, great community here.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hello fellow Pisces, I have some ideas about this which may or may not resonate. Are you an early Pisces? What is Neptune doing to you at the mo? A lot of Pisceans I know are having all kinds of Neptune issues just now and not just the hooch. I reckon what’s happened is that you have simply drawn to you part of the character you created in your novel… a version of him has manifested on the physical plane. This has been happening to me a lot. (I’m a multi-Pisces). Stuff whizzing across the cosmos to my front door… Read more »

AB
AB

Great comments!

Pisces
Pisces

Yes it’s true, Chrysalis. But i guess, like everything you’re going through, you think ‘o this is just life and i never noticed it before’ but it’s true, it is a magical power we need to control… Intention is important… and i do believe writing is an act of shamanism, which you need to be aware of… i find the scenes in the novel which involve conflict affect my aura for at least 48 hours…. is that strange? Dunno. I’ve always hated being sensitive, but we can’t ignore it either. Maybe that’s why i like the policeman, it’s like they… Read more »

Vslr
Vslr

Could someone kindly give a character profile of a man with Leo sun/venus in virgo. Likes/dislike…what is he about? Please and thanks x

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

My ex has that. Impeccable taste – at least in his mind ;-). Craves an audience. Reliable but liable to blow. He has Capricorn moon. Mars in Aries. You can’t really do a composite without knowing moon etc

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

I dated one for awhile. Very handsome. Stylish. Technically brilliant in bed … like mind blowingly, gob smackingly, stuff a pillow in your mouth before you scream a hole in the roof and scare the neighbours brilliant. But he was also a rampant alcoholic, a sex maniac and … not very reliable at times.

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

Mine was not that way. 🙁 Maybe a Mars sign-aspect thingy?

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Sounds like my ex Cap/Scorp Moon guy (perfection apart from the weekly piss binges, I had no problems with him being a sex maniac, heh)

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

No more talk of Caps with Scorp moons ya hear? This is April! April!!! …. we’ll have none of that. 😮

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

You can run, but you can’t hide from the infectious toxic love plague that Caps with Scorp Moons infect you with 😛

(Mine was 20 years ago and he’s still on my mind, though not in a love zombie way – I just milk the good memories for creative inspiration these days.)

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

ya can’t get infected if yer MIA! 😛

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

LMAO!! Thanks for the laugh prowl.. I want to scream a hole in the roof…. someday! teehee!! xo!!

Vslr
Vslr

The insights i’m getting into leo sun/venus in virgo here is just fab seeing as my crush has the same astro. Men are hardwired to chase – let him take the lead and when he’s there with you reciprocate fully and shine. Show him you’re interested by all means but not desperate. There’s a difference. Standards remember. Give him the gift of craving to get to know you. That feeling of omg i need to know about her and unravel her layers. That’s hard to inspire in him if you’re turning up left, right and centre and in his face.… Read more »

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Mars in Cancer men don’t chase. They just wait for women to come to them. Especially when they have a grand water trine.

Vslr
Vslr

Knew something was wrong with my comment. Ignore my advice dear pisces!

This is just the weirdest because my guy has mars in cancer too!

Kittybat
Kittybat

I’m a Mars in Cancer woman, also with a Grand Water Trine (though not involving Mars) and that’s probs true for women too. Can’t think of a time I have chased…even with the LZ .. My MO was more the silent eyes thought vibe thing…which didn’t work lol, but there you go!

Invictus
Invictus

“mine” (potentially) too VSIR
oh dear- make art not Love, remember your name is Invicta

calypso
calypso

ha, classic 🙂

Mystic could be tweeting this before we know it! MM peeps are on fire today!

Aquaria
Aquaria

I could write a book about that. If only I’d known before trying to apply logic via “the rules”.

Still …I think the “if they want you in their life they make time/room” thing applies.

Focusing on self and your projects is must. Even if coupled.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Oh of course it still applies!!!I “it’s not how they feel but what they DO about it” etc etc
I was just sharing an observation about Mars Cancer because it’s the first time I’ve experienced it.

I’m not chasing anymore. I have moon in Saggo, love the “thrill of the hunt” and spent many years chasing but I’m over it now.

I’m glad Leo Socialite shared this nugget again:

“Just because someone desires you does not mean they value you”

Mistaking desire for love – made that mistake many times too. Especially being a Scorp with Eros in Scorp.

Invictus
Invictus

moon in sago and Eros in Scorp too

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I dunno if I agree with this, my Gem has Mars in Cancer, he had absolutely no problems chasing me. Are you sure your guy just isn’t undiagnosed Aspie? Aspies are the ONLY guys I’ve ever known not to chase, no matter what the sign…

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Besides, cancer is cardinal, initiating is natural territory for cardinal signs…

Invictus
Invictus

oh dear I have a thing for assburgers
that would make so much sense

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

SA, I really do think he has Aspie. Too many odd behaviours!!! Way too many. I asked him once and he flat our denied it. He just has to be. Think his dad had it and both his children have it – one is Aspie the other autistic. Plus he acts like he’s 14 sometimes! Arrested emotional development of some kind.

Anyway, Gem is more likely to chase than a Crab.
This particular Crab had Toro rising, so maybe there’s that too. Not the chasing type.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I know at least 5 guys with kids diagnosed on the autistic spectrum who are all so fuqing obviously text book AS but they either can’t see it in themselves, or if they can, they are in massive denial, it’s so fuqing weird, a male ego thing? I don’t know… (Women with kids on the spectrum tend to be the complete opposite, completely relieved to FINALLY understand why they’ve struggled their whole life).

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

yeah must be a male ego thing.

So is memory and lack of awareness of time an Aspie thing?

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Yeah those things can be an issue, though most of the Aspies I know are aware of this and don’t like the anxiety being late and upsetting people causes so they end up being early for everything – they seem to go one extreme or the other with time management, depending on their personality, whether they’ve been diagnosed, and whether they use the diagnosis as an excuse to be an arsehole or not. It would be really hard to be in a relationship with an undiagnosed person, or one who is diagnosed but sits around on the internet all day… Read more »

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Well, he refuses to admit he has it so I’ll have to assume he’s an arsehole (for my own sanity) because no matter how many times I told him his time management sucked and how it upset me, he didn’t give a shit.

He can be “timeless” with someone else. Can’t imagine he’ll change. He just goes from one relationship to the next hoping things will just work out without making any effort. Classic love zombie – Neptune square Venus.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I’d have to let him go if he refused to make some sort of effort (which he could at least fuqing try if he knows it upsets you – AS or not).

I can compromise on many things in a relationship, but disrespecting my time is not one of them.
Similar attitude from the rotten tuna fishman over another issue – fuqer knew something upset me but was sorry I felt that way, not sorry his being a jerk… hasta la vista fishman

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Well I did let him go. Twice!!
I’m the same. Happy to compromise (isn’t that what relationships are about?) but when one person is doing all the compromising well… that’s fuqed!

Hate when peeps do the whole “sorry you feel that way…” but not sorry for what they’ve done.

Invictus
Invictus

Scorpbot this is so true and seriously annoying. How can you be sure?
I want to believe you so much lol

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

It’s only true in my experience with this person and he was a multiple Crab. I can’t speak for all Mars in Katakans but have been reading young Pisces David’s comments, who also has Mars In Kataka and seems to be a bit passive with initiating contact with girls he fancies.

so… I don’t know. *shrugs*

Feel free to jump in if you’re reading David 🙂

Ambre
Ambre

Ever since neptune has gone into Pisces ..Ive noticed that my creativity / imagination and awareness has reached a new level..Problem with this is that any romantic urges /dreams and projections are intense!!!! My advice – Watch your thoughts ! Use your newly awakened magical powers of imagination to visualise and feel the out come you want in this situation . Forget cold hard evidence on your lap ..close your eyes , remember how good it felt with him and really feel it as if he is right there with you ..dont worry or focus on him being the character,… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

oh yes the neediness…where does it come from?????

Aqua-Cap-Gemini
Aqua-Cap-Gemini

Dear Pisces Writer You have fallen in love with your story character. Suddenly, he manifests right infront of you, on your laptop screen with photos that may be a few years old. He is stunning in each one. You have a fab date together – the symbols are there – Oroboros (or as Lister on Red Dwarf says – Our Rob or Ross). You know this character in your mind inside out, but now there is a physical version, and the mystery deepens. You.Want.More. Your story character will always be more interesting than the real one. You can make your… Read more »

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

I LIVE for these sorts of questions. Mystics advice and many of the commenters are excellent. To this i would add – * You kept texting him invitations? Tell me, have you also created a fake i.d to e-stalk him across facebook? Have you found out which unit he is in and gotten a police scanner to track his movements? Have you considered getting arrested so that he has to come around to your house, sirens blaring and everything? * Speaking as a LEO with Moon in PISCES i feel very easily crowded by people, friends, potential lovers, anything. If… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Gold.

Hard. Perhaps cold. But pure gold.

Pisces
Pisces

LS, I snorted at your advice!! Pure gold!!!
Friday will tell the truth. Have to scoot as on shared computer but i am loving everyone’s advice – THANK YOU!!!

Vslr
Vslr

My virgo sun/mercury is loving the analysis and the bullet points. An excellent breakdown xx

R(Aqua/Tauri)
R(Aqua/Tauri)

I know. It’s perfect. I want to print it out and put it in my wallet or something. The Leo Socialite– can I hire you to be my life coach?

Kittybat
Kittybat

Perfect!

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Fuqing brilliant! TLS, I wish you’d write a book or a blog or something, srsly…

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

I know right? She’s getting funnier I swear 😉

Sobriety suits you TLS!

calypso
calypso

that’s what I reckon. hilarious, especially about the cat 😀

Sphinx
Sphinx

It’s poetry really TLS! Needs to be read aloud to be appreciated. Gem & I howled!

Ms.
Ms.

I know. she’s brilliant

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Too much, TLS, love the marines simile, thank you.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Literally ~years ago~ told TLS she is hilar as all get out… I would just find myself reading her posts and then coming to what I called “bracing myself for the chuckle”… 🙂 Agree with everything TLS says. Once we give too much of ourselves and are then floating in the emo netherlands we then have to turn the tables and get back on even kee/playing ground. Not great territory for Neptunian vibe. Not the way the game is played by Neptune. For me, Venus opposite Neptune, there was never any game to begin with.. But I’ve done it. No… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Yipes, after reading all these posts here last night and then going to bed, I dreamt of the next door neighbor Aqua. I still park down aways and will not walk by his doorstep. Nope… Dreamt that I had a flat tire and he was going to help (in real life had had a tire problem…yes, Aries ME was changing the fuqer myself…I didn’t need no help but he was kind enough to come by)… Yet, in the dream noticed my bra strap was hanging a bit out of my tank type top. I adjusted the strap a couple of… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Funny…I had a dream about Uranian Scorp and car problems last night. I posted about it on the Ennui post. WTF?

…Venus on Neptune opposing my natal Venus.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

…an squaring my natal Neptune. I’m sure those don’t make me feel agro, but I am feeling all sorts of amped and f-ed up today.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Believe cars represent “our vehicle”….ourself, body, etc? How we manage that in dreams is how we manage ourselves…are we in the drivers seat, etc. Sure you know this 12th already but posting it for those who many not . With the car repair in my dream obviously trying ot heal. Think with me and the next door neighbor and our Cap Moons it’s about being vulnerable and NOT asking for help when we need it. I was fixing my car…I was doing it “myself”… When we met we both had been drinking. In his English accent he said “I’d had… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

ps, you have alot of Venus and Neptune going on… “Amped and f-ed up”. That could be Libra Mars in your own sign…and with the Pisces gone, processing alot. Sometimes we transform some shit when we get good and mad enough. Yep, Mars in 12th…repressed anger on the psyche level. Venus opposite Neptune only could take so much for so long until Aries rose up to smash the fuqer…but I did humbly ask for Spirit to help me, and actually, Spirit transformed it for me, not my ego. The more I played from the ego level the more I knew… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

My ego is running my spiritual life right now, sweetpea. I know it but its like being caught under a wave. The more I try to stop it, the worse it gets.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Natal Mars at 0 Libra, first house. 4 degrees from AC, 6 from Pluto.

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It’s because you are pissed.

I rememver literally pacing the floor and pulling at my hair, that is how crazy the Pisces had driven me.

But what I rememver in getting in touch with my power was my anger…that transformed everything.

I remember thinking “how dare he not respect me!”

And then asking for help to get out of the mess. It took a bit more time but it all fell into place.

Your Mars and Pluto/Asc are a bit in the zz yet. They may be getting out of orb but they are on an angle which makes the effects last longer.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

They are out of orb, but my Merc is at 11, so it conjuncts them both too. Ugh. I have this problem with hiding my own anger and it makes me so angry!!!

calypso
calypso

hey 12th – hiding yr anger that could be making you feel depressed?

Invictus
Invictus

Genius

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

I am with 12H.. Gold!!

xo!!

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Hun, I think you’re doing GREAT, I mean, you’re constantly banging on about how you DON’T WANT to be obsessed with him–that’s Anti Love Zombie. A true Love Zombie would be buying a wedding dress, and sending a few more texts for good measure. Darls, you have sent him 3 invites—he knows you’re interested. Now chill the heck out and if he wants to see you he will get in contact. Mars is Retrograde–it may take a while, and if he doesn’t get in touch….move on. In my experience Leos are like cats. They want what they can’t see, and… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

You’re ace. I LOVE this advice.

Kittybat
Kittybat

Perfect! lol

Sphinx
Sphinx

Also I would take into account this Leo is a cop. “Compared to the general population cops tend to be: Pragmatic, Isolative, Prejudiced, Conservative, Suspicious, Cynical, Assertive, Action oriented”.
Conservative Leo Cops may or may not be PIAB territory, certainly waiting till May will sort the wheat from the chaff..

Invictus
Invictus

Sphinx your take on “the cop” as a personality type is awesome. I love how this thread IS about astrology but also ISNT x

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Ditto!! Honestly.. you are all my therapists!! The best therapists I have ever had!

Mucho Thanks!!

xo!!

Pisces
Pisces

Sphinx that is SO helpful for my novel. THANK YOU.

maira
maira

I would plan for a dramatic exit on date no. 2, after the way Leo behaved. Maybe in the first three minutes, “I just wanted to tell you in person that you are not what I am looking for” (but I wanted you to see me looking like a million bucks, te-hee) or after a kiss, or even after sex, but the very second it’s done. You have to understand that most men in this stage are somewhat similar to dogs in training (sorry, nice men who read here, I’m sure that you are not like that 😀 ), so… Read more »

maira
maira

*throw a bone. English is my third language, but Mercury is in my 6th, so spelling mistakes hurt 😀

Leo-scorp
Leo-scorp

So true Maria xx

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

WOW.. Love that analogy, maira.. “throw a bone”!! And I like the idea of our Pisces girl having the opportunity to see this Leo Lush in person. It would be great to have that time to say to his face “I am just not into you”.. even though we bite our sex starved tongue. We want it but it’s time to punish the pup!

Love it! Learning so much for you “peepettes”..

xo!!

xo!!

Andrea
Andrea

How I wish I had Mystic’s advice in my dating days! Listen to the advice it’s gold.

Sphinx
Sphinx

My thoughts exactly! You are so lucky Pisces, take note.
P.s. Pisces, chemistry & love are not the same thing. You can have both/neither/different levels of each in any relationship. I advise not getting hung up on that unless you are only after sex, which you aren’t.
Hope he sorts himself out! Good luck.

Leo-scorp
Leo-scorp

Noooo don’t do that..I’m a Leo lady who’s been a love sick zombie for months on end..but I do say, keep your eye on the fairy tale, and fuq reality xxx

pi
pi

Can’t possibly imagine being in a r-ship sans chemistry. I’d rather marry a relative. Seriously. What a waste of anatomy. You know. Unless I was 80 or something.

Sphinx
Sphinx

Ha ha! Yes we should all settle into sexless amoeba-like bunches, lol. No, ick,I just mean chemistry & love are not the same! Have had great karma-induced chemistry with complete nincompoops. But also with beloveds, 😉 , never give up on the fairy-tale!

pi
pi

ah well that part i understand well.

fairy tale. says it all really.

😛

Anonymous
Anonymous

Ninety minutes at the gym every day?? As admirable as it sounds, methinks it’s too much and narcissistic, not that you wanted my opinion on that. Anyway, back to Mars Retrograde, which as Mystic says, cannot be overemphasized . . . among other reasons it’s important, it rules your Venus. The ruler of your Venus is going backwards . . . get it? Ain’t no time to be charging ahead in romantic pursuits! The ruler of your Venus says to retreat and re-strategize! Honor thy astro!

Pisces
Pisces

Anon, gym is the best thing at the moment for me as i work a completely sedentary job so it’s the only movement i get all day. I like your explanation of Mars retrograde, I’m bloody sick of it! I wish it would charge ahead already!

Ms.
Ms.

That’s not really fair re gym. I think for some people the results are in the do rather than just to look pretty. I know my body type is really geared for a lot of physical activity, because it does wonders for my head. Strong physical routines have been linked to lift depression and numerous other heart nerve cures. I would go to yoga (gym not so for me) for 90 min a day ever day if I could because its amazing way to transform your emotional energy into a positive reset for the mind. The physical is a bonus.… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

GREAT advice. And yes, gym is more for my head than my body. But they are interconnected.

Centaurus
Centaurus

For the zillionth time… ah, I like this. Yes reminders are good right now.

Dear Pisces.. just chill and maybe try to trust that the outcome you want can happen. We all tend to loose that notion to some degree if there is a lover involved in this concept. Hold the tension, I hope it flows according to both your desires.

Mystic, the ‘relevant’ snippet from the blog is ALWAYS. I am loving the entire response and polishing my arrow heads. 🙂

Invictus
Invictus

Just joined an online dating site. I’m a writer now and am taking on a few paying clients (all local ladies in my area) and F keeps emailing me so I figured hey, why not take your own advice. No, I am certainly not looking for Mr right but I read the advice I just gave Zapped Pisces up thaar and thought, “hey woman, YOU need to get out there.” I wrote that I’m really boring and a driven to the point of being a complete workaholic, that fitness is my religion and I’m all about early nights and early… Read more »

Invictus
Invictus

Oh wonderful. Screw insomnia. Seriously. I’ve been gearing down for bed for HOURS and trying to get to sleep for ages now. Mind is RACING! Wishing I’d never joined stupid dating site. Not that I’ve logged on yet but just thinking “men =barf”. Not to be hating on men but honestly. Wtf was I thinking??? Ugh I have better and much more important things to do than meet MORE BLOODY BLOKES. Again. Sorry for the sexism but this is like a heroin addict saying ” oh I think I should try smoking grass instead”. Type of thing. Like NO! My… Read more »

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Your name is Invictus! Soooo cool. And yeah, delete that profile if online dating makes you feel yuck.

Invictus
Invictus

Thanks Lux
xxx

eureka gold
eureka gold

Invictus, sorry to hear you had second thoughts re online dating.
But seriously, thank you so much for this gem, ‘going to interview them like i’m a CEO interviewing for a highly sought after position…’ This is my new pluto in capricorn dating mantra! So thank you thank you thank you!! 🙂

Toroqueen
Toroqueen

I had a similar situation last fall. Met a triple cancer (sun,moon,merc) dude with venus in Leo. We actually got to know eachother for about 2 months before gettin down … Finally one drunken night, we had sex. Then poof … He was a weirdo. So I cut him off. No questions, nada. It sucked at first cuz I took it very personally, but at the end of the day the universe is prob looking you me. Sorry but if a man really likes you, you should hear from him w/in the next day or two after a naked love… Read more »

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

I agree.. but what if they failed at the naked love fest. Wouldn’t they run like wild fire? Just curious..

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

The quote still applies.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

“Like” 🙂

toroqueen
toroqueen

Virgo Ellie – great question! Honestly I think HE thought he failed at the love vest. I mean a) we were drinking fireballs AND b) he is/was hung up on age issues. Both of us had tended to date younger people, but in our scenario he was the older one. He kept saying ” I am not like the young bucks you date …” Whatever. I still think he should have called. There was obvious chemistry. And if even if there wasn’t – he lives 5 minutes away, and we have kids the same age that will end up in… Read more »

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Oh.. the good ole “age” fear! (sigh).. And true if you are a Toro… there is something about that personality that grabs our attention. My last guy was a toro cusp gem. Very smooth!

The toro/gem I hung out with gave me the my “age and because of my ex” excuse for not wanting a commitment. (sigh)..

What would you do if you heard from him?

toroqueen
toroqueen

Hmm … sometimes I do think people are scared of commitment. I am, and have been working so hard to just let things flow vs. trying to control the outcome. Who knows, maybe Cancer boy was just retreating like some do, and was going to come back out later to say hello. We will never know, because i tend to break things off quickly when I feel like there is potential for me to get dumped or hurt. In the case of your toro/gem dude, I think he most likely is telling some version of the truth. Maybe he didnt… Read more »

toroqueen
toroqueen

PS – thanks for the toro compliment Virgo Ellie!

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

You got it toroqueen.. Sounds like you have a good sense as to what to do! Good Luck!! xo!!

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

I love Police men.. I don’t know.. men in uniform with a gun! Sexxx–eee!! Also the whole I will give up my life for another is impressive. Yes, there are some out there that are a little psycho.. but the toro/gem was fun, sexy, hot and I felt very comfortable / safe with him. They unfortunately are taught to not get too close. Some can handle it and some can’t. I agree with everyone here. Step back… let him go! You have to see if he can make the effort. It’s honestly hard for them to be committed unless they… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

Thanks Virgo Ellie, yes i think a lot of the coldness is part of the job, it is pretty serious dealing with the lowest common denominator of society! I will wait and see.
Thanks everyone else for your advice and Mystic, too, it has been a tough week…

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

It’s tuff Pisces girl.. I won’t lie! When you have that great feel with guy you want it ALL of the time. I know it! Try you best to get into yourself.. baby steps.. but definitely work on one week not contacting him and keeping busy.. what ever that means!

Ready… Set.. GO! xo!!

virgo kathleen
virgo kathleen

Hugs to you…it’s really tough when you’re in that situation. Your emotions are running wild and you get so excited and so hopeful.

When you’re outside of it, it’s really clear (hence people are generally saying the same thing in the comments), but in the middle of it, it can be really tough to think straight, to NOT send that text, etc.

I’ve backed off dating for a long time now…not that I’m recommending it, but personally I realized that I need to be 100% happy being with myself in order to attract the right person for me.

toroqueen
toroqueen

Me too Virgo Kathleen! I am just starting to kinda of entertain the thought of getting back out there. i tend to do that about 1x a year .. 🙂 Good for you for focusing on yourself! you can never go wrong with self love.

virgo kathleen
virgo kathleen

Yeah — self love is the most important thing! Part of it is I’ve had codependency issues in the past and I’m so done with that.

Pisces
Pisces

Tks… am noticing the virgos are giving very good advice here. Might be time to channel my virgo moon and forget about being a pisces for awhile…

virgo kathleen
virgo kathleen

I think we Virgos understand because Virgo-Pisces is a continuum. 🙂 Plus you know we love giving advice…ha.

pi
pi

I love advice from virgos. Don’t always choose to follow it but always worth a listen.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

lol too pisces, you!

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

SO True with the Virgo advice giving.. whenever I say something advisable I step away and say to myself “ummm… practice what you preach girl”… LOL!!

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Haha Oh yes! Just realised i had my down heart lifted by two Virgos today. Honour your Virgos 🙂

pi
pi

Vestal Virgos… Keeping the hearth fires burning.

Leo-Scorp grrrl
Leo-Scorp grrrl

Spent 14 years with a cop. Married 10 of them. Favorite look was the white t-shirt jeans and the shoulder holster. :-). We need them and I wish the best for the poor broken ones. The ex is a good cop. Was good a military man. Was not the best “normal guy” or dad. Not capable. Without kids we may still be married. The job either affects some or the emotional issues take them to it. Tread carefully. The job can overtake them but in my case it was also the excuse for SO much. There is a built in… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you –
I am a little spooked by this as i have been chanting in my head about the whole situation ‘time will tell…’ –

Pisces
Pisces

and am also quite careful to avoid qi vamps (and was thinking about them today)…

Charley
Charley

Oh no!! Nothing like amazing sex to make you feel bats, it’s a hormonal trick, oxytocin and dopamine running wild. You really need to back off and let him come to you, you’ve put yourself out there and now if it is meant to be and fated it’ll happen.

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

I’d be pulling out with friday nights date night, with something like ”Soz, can’t make fri night, had a better offer” and wouldn’t make contact again, next move – his.

The Leo men i’ve had longish term flings with have loved a bit of a chase.

Channel my Gemini Sun/ Aqua Rising Sister ”What’s your strategy?”.
Don’t have one – get one !!

There may be someone else involved hon, brace.

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

Wes Andersons new flick is out (in Oz) this week. I’d have my phone off and be in the cinema fri night…some where where there are book shops and cafes open after hours to peruse and wander.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Thank you – I think you’ve just planned my Friday night! Movie has been out here in the US, but I haven’t made it to the cinema yet.

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

I would love it to be mine ! Enjoy 12HV. xx.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I’m out with my Virgo buddy watching art in action, pieces being created live…then we EAT. Food, art and Virgo buddy 🙂

If i didn’t have to work we’d do this film too…we both loved the shorts for it! Maybe next week…wish we could both join you 12HV xx

pi
pi

Fleece hath spoken and her words doth be wise and cool xoxoxo

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Ummm…I’m going to scratch off the bit of advice about doing yoga to avoid Love Zombie schizz.

It didn’t work. *cough*cough*

Sensei noticed me.
I am *that* kind of anime.

I’m knee deep in it trying to avoid it.

Nr
Nr

Seriously the situation doesnt rub me the right way. Beyond the astro, if you invite someone 3 times and theyve said no, it would be a huge sign to just detach and back off. Know the ball is in his court. If he is into you, you will hear from him. My Venus is in Cap and Mars is in Virgo. Ive been living that quote above when it comes to relationships for awhile, especially with the last one…Its not about what the man feels. Its about what he DOES. I would find an all-encompassing super hobby or something just… Read more »

calypso
calypso

he has Pisces moon? he will probably not be a one-girl type. Also, policemen….they do have to stay back at work if some paperwork or whatever has to be done, but they are notorious womanisers, right? married is a distinct possibility. Keep us informed though! would be good to have a good news story before the end of Zapril 🙂

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Love your term Zapril!! You all are so creative! It moves me!

xo!!

calypso
calypso

I love it too Ellie, but I was inspired by Mille who is the creative one 🙂 I used it somewhere else and gave her credit

Nr
Nr

Yep I never dated a Pisces Moon so I went in really open eyed and hearted – hurt like hell afterwards.

I mean look at it this way – things were so bad that a friend of a friend, who’s incidentally psychic, messaged me to warn me and tip me off. I did some digging after that to confirm what I was told but a month after the tip off I was able to confirm she was totally being honest with me. So into the dumpster he went. He ended up moving far away. Good riddance.

Wildwood
Wildwood

Yes- your Pisces moon experience certainly resonates with mine. I know exactly what you mean about feeling like the other woman in your own relationship! Maybe my Neptune conjunct ascendant and sun was why I put up with it for so long.

Nr
Nr

There’s no reason to be in a relationship where you are not made the priority. If the dude doesn’t treat you like a Queen he can Fuq off for all I care. Venus in Cap muhfuqers.

S
S

Agree with you Nr. YOU stocks should not fall. When they DO, time to reevaluate.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Wow that is one fqd up neptunian triangle. Partnered men playing turn me off. Sour. So disrespectful and lonely for you. I’m very Neptunian, and those layers are not at all subtle to me. When i have partners, certain men seem to buzz around like flies. I find their aura, their breath, their space revolting. It’s very weird how they perceive themselves as the opposite. That must have been really crazy-making and hurtful.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Can so relate to this. It never ceases to amaze me how these married guys approach the whole thing like it’s a massive compliment that they want to cheat on their wife/gf with you… Sorry fuqers but I find it insulting and disrespectful to be viewed as nothing more than the fun bit on the side. Vomit.

Nr
Nr

Thx Mille. Yes it hurt like hell for a long time, totally are away at my self esteem and I haven’t been on even a date with a man since. This was 2 years ago.

Nr
Nr

Scratch that, I have been on dates – they just didn’t register as dates to me bc I wasn’t serious about the person at all and was not open to their advances. Weird I know but I know I’m a weirdo 😀

Savannah
Savannah

I love how you’ve articulated this Nr.

I also feel that first date mating puts one in the ‘been there tapped that’ category, it’s pretty much not going anywhere. Or it’s set the scene for meet ups for only when he feels like it, Leo or no Leo. And no amount of hand-wringing will change it.

acquagal
acquagal

super helpful, and i agree 100%! thanks for the reminder on mars rx, and that people, and especially men, should not/will not pursue. also for the reminder that april is a catalyst that will shake loose obstacles and synchronize people that are meant to be with each other. i can relate. also paleo, working out 5 days a week, and dealing with the lack of pursuit, albeit consistent communication and positive rapport, by keeping myself distracted with my OWN activities, goals, plans, that have nothing to do with anything other than bettering MYSELF. the best projects we can work on… Read more »

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

“Like” acquagal.. Stay focused on “self” K!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

*smacks head* …. poor Pisces. I don’t know what to say … except I’m glad I’m not the only one being pinged. Ok … actually I agree with Mystic – perhaps a little too eager? Mind you I would not have slept with him on the first date regardless of his hotness level for the very reason you mentioned – can create an unwanted attachment way too quickly before really having time to check out the territory. But a bit late for that now … ummm good luck Friday? Man the current energy is weirdass … people are like dying… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

SO true, electricsville. I feel like i need a cape just to go to the shops and protect myself from the weird juju going on…

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Yes! It’s invigorating but also a bit anxiety provoking .. like you’re waiting for “some-THING” to happen …

AB
AB

Aries Venus though.. if they want it they will get it. My 2 cents.. dating a Aries venus guy..

Libra takeover in the zap zone
Libra takeover in the zap zone

I think love zombie situations are past life residue. Often it is past to let them go, because the past life situation probably wasn’t that great. Just my two cents.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

They seem to draw one in like a magnet to try and finish the unfinished story. They’re always terminally unfuckingfinished stories. So untidy!

Pisces
Pisces

So true! Maybe i’ll write the ending… thing is, i haven’t got to that part of my novel yet… maybe things won’t move forward until i do…

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I think the quote says it all. He may love you. He may be your soul mate. But if he isn’t showing up…nothing can make him. In another post, I ranted about people evading truth and Pi asked what I meant and I didn’t reply cause its vague but this is the sort of thing I meant. The Pisces I broke with recently couldn’t even recognize his own feelings. He had some Piscean saying to justify that but the bottom line was he could love me and treat me like shizz. He could love me and leave and have no… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

And, remember too, someone more suited for YOU could appear at any moment. Having options isn’t a bad thing.

Pisces
Pisces

Thanks 12th house virgo. I went on 2 other dates in the meantime to distract myself and all they did was remind me how much i like the policeman and how rare actual chemistry is. One guy’s aftershave made me want to shower in Dettol!
I agree with the options idea, but this astro is definitely triggering obsessive issues, i think not just with me…?!

llb
llb

TOTALLY not just you. I’m a Pisces too, met a dude last year but he was going through some stuff, we stayed in contact and had a date recently and it was a-m-a-z-i-n-g (after a year of not feeling any connection with anyone) but he’s really busy with work (overseas!) so I am love zombie-ing out like a crazy love zombie, waiting for his to reply to me back coz I can see that he’s seen my witty messages so why the damn silence… etc.

Pisces
Pisces

Oh don’t you hate ‘seen’ on iPhones, it is such a mind^&%$!?!

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Oh really.. with iPhones you have a little more tracking on “peeps”? Don’t iPhones have extra features for Facebook as well? I don’t know why I get that feeling.

calypso
calypso

😯 i think this is criminal – there should be less knowing all round *said the scorp*

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

If someone really wants you and cares about you, they’ll make time in their busy schedule to communicate with you…

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Oh Holy Hounds no i’m a Pisces with just about everything else going brilliantly (if a bit slowly for my taste, so Mars Retro)…and this bit totally grabbed me:”he’s late because he’s arresting someone “. And here i thought i’d grown up. Just don’t put a Leo policeman in my path, please! I can’t believe you just wrote a guy into being! In fact, had a similar vanishing in january, so now i’m just feeling like life is safest with NOTHING tasty in my viewfinder, except money, art, rapid work skill development, friends and real estate. Something is off about… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

Thanks Mille! Yeah tonight didn’t happen. Am a bit scorpionic about revealing why on this forum… but i agree about the timing. I can’t WAIT til mars goes direct!!

Wonder Woman (because I'm wondering what all this means...)
Wonder Woman (because I'm wondering what all this means...)

Triggering? More like sling-shotting-myxomatosis-ridden-Easter-bunnies from where I’m sitting. I read your letter and related so acutely I feel like a doppelgänger. I’m a Pisces we no clue as to my different ‘aspects’ other than to say that I’ve fallen off the wagon, hardly gone to yoga, sent impulsive text to the I appropriately aged ex toy boy (lame text = lame response btw people), am now holding my breath to see if ex-holiday fling shows up (yes after about 3 invitations to visit our fine state) and nail this soul mating acorn opportunity into the ground once and for all.… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

You have made me laugh!!!!! We aren’t alone!!!!!

Wonder Woman
Wonder Woman

Mission accomplished then my dear. Laughter is the answer. And guess what? I just found my Wonder Woman t-shirt amongst my house move mess. T’is nothing short of miraculous. AND I just took my sorry ass to yoga so now I swear it’s higher. Which is a GOOD THING. Never a Girl Guide but always ‘prepared’…..

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Oh yeah my Scorpio girlfriend’s policeman story, complete of course with sexual analysis, was one of the sorriest and most hilarious. Avoid. Definitely a law unto themselves.

oh no. a pun. sorry 🙁

pi
pi

Oh god. Club Pisces is here. Hi ladies. Saggi-loving also with kryptonite-scale weakness for good cologne. Mercifully free of the Zomb. Tip: helps if you never leave the house. Xo

Invictus
Invictus

12 th. I LOVE how revved up and full of pep you are sounding lately. This new militant and hardcore version of you is uber sexy. Really. Are you working out more or just seriously focused on getting over the Pisces dude? Cud you sound on form in a way I’ve never heard you sounding. Keep doing whatever you’re doing xxx

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

well said. I don’t think I could add anything to this.

While it is often said that true love doesn’t keep count. I can assure you during courtship, it does.

Save yourself Pisces!!!! before you become salmon dinner for a Lion who just looking for buffet choices.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

“before you become salmon dinner for a Lion who just looking for buffet choices”

Yep. That pretty much sums up the whole online dating experiences me and my friends have had.

UGH.

calypso
calypso

This is great, I don’t entirely agree with you about soulmates but I do certainly KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE that they are probably here to teach you something, not to live happily ever after with you. it’s often a shame.

Anyway, this: “Let the Leo policeman be a man. Let him show you who he is and how into you he is. And if he isn’t, do yourself a favor and don’t pretend that’s a mystery.”

try to keep fiction in the realm of your profession (probably hard with so much Neptune about) and good luck 🙂

LiberatingVenus
LiberatingVenus

Oh, ladies – my condolences! We’ve got one more day until the conjunction between Venus & Neptune is exact….let’s hope all of this Love Zombie schizz blows over once the tide goes back out, eh?

Much love! xoxo

catfish moon
catfish moon

Excellant!

Invictus
Invictus

BTW this zap zone is one my Chiron, which also happens to be in Aries and in the 5th so bang on the few degrees being zapped too. Already had a little cry today. It’s cool tho, I just try to let shitz wash over me and keep getting back up. Exercising and eating right. Have taken clean comfort eating to a whole new level. Protein ice cream anyone? I just made 2 litres..
I wish I wish kidding.
Fuqit actually I don’t, it’s delicious! Right, I’ve got movie to watch and a blog to write xoxox

Invictus
Invictus

Oh fuq You poor thing. I’m not being condescending. The Venus Chiron thing is ouch ouch ouch …. But Mystic is right. Seriously. Trust me I KNOW it’s hard but you need to focus on something else. For your own sanity and also because you might be – ok honestly it sounds like you ARE coming on too strong. Forget astrology for a moment. If a guy asked you out 3 times in two weeks and you said no wouldn’t you start getting a Pavlov’s dog kind of “I don’t know- something feels off here” about the dude? This isn’t… Read more »

Pisces
Pisces

Thank you so much. And YEAH, what IS it about Chiron and the self-esteem??? It is right on my sun at the moment.

PlutonicUranian
PlutonicUranian

Pisces, imagine that you are not Pisces, but Leo. Now, WWLD? That’s right, now do that.

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

Love it !
Where is your Mercury placed ?
(Aries? or too polite for Aries ? Maybe in a detached water sign ? Aqua – I’m curious, love your thinking.)

cosmic fleece
cosmic fleece

*detatched air rather !

maira
maira

I love it too, great analogy 😀

Leo-scorp
Leo-scorp

Noooo don’t do that..I’m a Leo lady who’s been a love sick zombie for months on end..but I do say, keep your eye on the fairy tale, and fuq reality xxx

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

He heh love it…or just look at the picture in the frame on cartoon damsel’s bedside and imagine you awake from your brief delusion to realise he looks just like this. (You’ve been pining for Dad.)

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Ohhh Mille.. could you expand on your comment about “You’ve been pining for Dad” and it’s relation to this Pisces & Leo Love? Very interesting. I always wondered about that for myself. I am always looking for acceptance by the guys that I fall head over heels for and who just turn their backs on me and it’s always in fear of them finding someone else. Hence, my Mom and I didn’t get along later in life and my Dad and I got closer but he never was really there for me the way I wanted. You got me thinking… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

I think this not astro related at all… if you are (not saying the pisces in the letter above is) desperately searching for validation in a relationship without it being one, you can be sure as hell its got very little to do with your projection screen, I mean um, “boyfriend” or love interest

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Hi Ms. So, what you mean is that my connections with men and them them going wrong has nothing to do with my strong need for validation from my Dad?

Pisces
Pisces

Hey Virgo Ellie, yeah i think Ms and Millenuette are talking about that beautiful Anais Nin quote “we don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are”…

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