I have a question about the current astro. There’s a difficult issue I want to raise with a recent ex- specifically that I know he was cheating on me at the time we broke up. I’ve been holding off confronting him about it because we were still in a team organising a big event for the hobby we’re both involved in, but now that’s over and I really want to get rid of the elephant in the room.
He’s Gemini. She’s Aries. Should I wait until Mars has gone direct to do this? Or is April the right time? I’m still pretty new to astro-study but finding it fascinating and helpful.
Feel free to point me at one of the DIY Astro Hacks if that’s the best place, I just thought I would ask.
The Virgo Rising Taurus.
Dear Virgo Rising Taurus,
Actually the most recent D.I.Y. Astro Hacks – Number Four does have some useful schizz in it regarding the intensity of April. But i always like to run astro-queries when i think that they will be of general interest.
And people, we can all learn from all this.
Okay so obviously we would all like to reach this point a.s.a.p. Resentment is a toxin. It has probably been scientifically proven to make the bod pump out disgusting amounts of some awful stress hormone. Like our brain is still paleo in some parts and gets the idea that we are sharing our cave with a sabre tooth tiger…JUST because of all the brooding and stress.
But i also can completely understand why you or anyone would find it hard to move on from the infidelity of a recent Ex.
But i think NO. Shut up, look hot, engage Distraction Therapy and move on pronto. The elephant is in HIS room – not yours. There is an old wives tale that says when you “marry” the mistress, you create a vacancy. Also: you lose them how you find them. Let him worry about elephants in rooms.
Unless you have children together and so HAVE to see him, why bother?
The point about Zap Zone/Grand Cardinal Cross drama is that you SHUN it when it has to do with your past or something you are trying to make part of your past. You save your Z.Z. drama for your drastic makeover, upscaling the yoga practice and/or pulling off an immense business coup. Just examples but you get the idea. You don’t back-zap.
Also, it may be part of some twisted Sultan fantasy he’s got that women are fighting over him, that he has a harem, whatever. IF there is even a nano-unit of possibility that he might be aroused by your caring re this matter, why give him that?
You either move on graciously with Taurean dignity (and not letting your Virgo Rising go ape in “analysis” mode) OR you maybe consider a minor mind-fuq.
Also Venus in Taurus in June is special…you are going to love it. I will be talking more about it in coming weeks.
What does everyone else think? Brace yourself Ms Taurus, there is some serious expertise here.
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