Astro-Query: No Sex Since Neptune Went Into Pisces

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Dear Mystic,

I am a Pisces (Sun, Venus, Mars) who has not had sex since Neptune went into Pisces.  In 2011. No i am not a nun nor marooned on some remote island with only turtles. Yes i have a libido. I was willing to wait this out but i have just ascertained that Neptune is not into Aries until 2028.  So obviously i need to get something happening before then.

Have i met men (I am a heterofemale with some bi tendencies – the classic chardonnay gay) i fancy? Yes but my post Saturn transit policy of not dating people who are addicts, insane or in another primary relationship has ruled these gentlemen all out. Have i considered online dating where the people are presumably available and also wanting to meet someone…maybe me?

YES BUT since Neptune got into Pisces i am artistic (tick) and psychic (tick) more than usual AND TOO DAMNED SENSITIVE. I have developed rampant dating phobia. I can’t explain myself to a stranger. I am too self conscious to dress for a date. So should i toughen up, have a 1000 shots of Blue Devil Hoochie Juice and go to a bar/hire an escort or accept that this is a more spiritual time of my life (early 40s, single after a long relationship) and confine my interests to cats and yoga already?

Am i too sooky for sex because of Neptune  in Pisces? Was i more open to encounters in my 20s because Neptune was in Capricorn or because i then thought cellulite was a ceiling material?

Help?

Suddenly Shy Horny Piscean

Dear Suddenly Shy Horny Piscean,

As i read your query, my iPod played the Run DMC lyric tell me the last time love bought you clothes. Which makes me think that HEY it is the Zap Zone so cut yourself a break already. Staying afloat and with a smooth momentum of time-money-focus IS arguably more important than getting laid/falling in love again, right?

Okay so cats and yoga are always a good idea but there is no reason why you cannot also be open to a new, um, dalliance. With Neptune in Pisces, it is a good idea to NOT indiscriminately blend your vibe with people at a different frequency to you and yes you now have a set of Saturn transit induced standards so you ARE more discriminating & sophisticated these days, cellulite or no, yes?

Also, unless you are going to attempt to pull a Teen Wolf star or someone, is there not a fair chance that the next object of your lust may also have a bod defect or two?

So Neptune leaves Pisces in 2027 – it’s only 13 years! But seriously, draw upon the magical Muse powers of Neptune in your sign to get a grip. Focus on smooth sailing through the next few Zap Zone weeks (so intense, seriously, I’m on it in the Scopes/Daily Mystic) and revise your mate/date policy when Mars gets to SCORPIO…in late July.

What does everyone else think?

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Neil Ormsby
Neil Ormsby

I am a Pisces, and my wife is expecting a baby at the end of June !
I suppose I am Horny Ormsby because I have just turned 60 Ha Ha Ha.

My advice to Suddenly Shy Horny Piscean, is to get out more !

Sexual experimentation might help you to find what you are looking for.

Cocomonster
Cocomonster

I’m a Pisces, and I haven’t had sex since 2011 either (had heart broken/crushed/annihilated). I’ve been hit on and chased by several guys (and a couple girls) since then but I don’t WANT to have sex or any sexually related experience. Sometimes I feel like I never want to ever again. For me, it’s a trust issue that drives my lack of libido. It’s not so much a distaste for sex itself, I just don’t feel I could go through the emotional stresses that come with it again.

Andromeda
Andromeda

“Rampant Dating Phobia” sounds totally like a thing. I can see people whispering, “Oh, she has Rampant Dating Phobia. I know, it just happens.. sometimes from one day to the next”. I think I have RDP too. I mean I happen to be partnered up now, but when I wasn’t I think I managed 3 dates (one blind) in three years. If it vibes right I would clear all past life issues around partnering up (those pesky chastity vows don’t have time clauses) then do a little manifesting then completely forget about it all but just remain open to the… Read more »

Emg
Emg

Sorry this is a bit late. I am Pisces rising and I have Neptune in my 8th natal and currently in 12th transit. I don’t go a week without sex! And two weeks ago there were four of them through my bed in a week. That is almost normal for me. It just seems to happen that way. Anyhoo Main man was one of those in that week, who just arrived back in my life and therefore I am now clearing the space. I’m so pleased with myself for having told one that he is no longer required and having… Read more »

Double Happiness
Double Happiness

Yep loved the first kiss! Was either totally beautiful and romantic or everyone is acting ha moon n neptune conj scorp with a dbl Virgo sun Asc – my tarot is the star so really feel the pull – deep romantic / jaded same kinda wish I had a string of lovers / only want one very very good one

MiM
MiM

Wonderful comments on here. Am reminded daily what an incredibly supportive, humorous, insightful, MAGICAL site this is. My eternal love for George Clooney has hindered my love life in real life 🙂 I have Pisces Sun and Mercury conjunt in 6th house. Virgo Asc has made me beyond fussy – all my life. I like that. My last MASSIVE attraction was to a married (!) Kataka Sun colleague whom I knew felt attraction to me too – I fought it like nothing I’ve ever fought romantically (or should that be non-romantically?). My heart would practically jump out of my body… Read more »

Savannah
Savannah

If your going to do the online dating/f-buddy thing using all that you’ve learnt about being discerning will go a long way in sorting the nut jobs from the interesting ones. I found that when Neptune was in Aqua, my 7th house natal sun, mercury & Venus I was in a long term relationship & had a very unfulfilling sex life. I was climbing the walls! Then I fell in love with a Pisces man who wasn’t worthy of it. Just as Neptune was going into Pisces I got a grip, learnt a lot, had my first and only affair… Read more »

maira
maira

Late 2011 for me as well… so only 13 more years to go, right? 😀

hdq
hdq

I think I can count the number of times I’ve had sex since Neptune went into Pisces on my digits. But I’ll take those twenty experiences over the hairs on my head of aqua, cap, whatever. Also, the astral kundalini has been off the charts, so there’s that…

Seagoat
Seagoat

Just wondering out loud here… seems to be lots of intelligent, passionate and sensitive people doing without a lot of sex these days (and both genders experiencing this as I’ve learned from discussions with friends) I’m wondering if that’s to do with the way our senses are so saturated with sexual imagery (that is more about marketing than eroticism) that the sex act itself has become (ahem) second fiddle? All the Pisces references.. Is it that sex just isn’t that physical anymore? Also I have noticed, even when you go to a big show, or even some sporting event, you… Read more »

S
S

Thank you for your insights SeaGoat (sorry but my smart phone is censoring me with the spelling of your name).
The IPhone gives editorial comment.
I’d say screw the big show Arena schizz and go for the quality experience. Around the fire acoustics. Unplug yourself people and experience the pleasures within those intimate meetings.
Love n light to you Seagoat and your not preaching to the choir with me either.

Seagoat
Seagoat

S, I know what you mean about the editorial comment from the IPhone!

And yes you are right about finding an antidote in the “around the fire acoustics”. That’s a nice way to talk about intimacy. Lovely!

And hey, sorry, I didn’t mean to sound preachy (though as a multi Cap it’s often the default), I’m just genuinely curious about why so many people, who would otherwise be up for it, are just not having the kind of sex lives the media boasts about. I thought it was just me. (!)

virgo kathleen
virgo kathleen

yeah…I’d definitely say it’s because of technology. It’s totally changed how we interact with people. we’re ‘following’ more people than ever on social media but how many of those people are actually close friends? Ironically we’re more disconnected than ever. Texting is so far removed from talking to someone in person, it barely counts! And we say “oh I follow him on facebook but don’t talk to him” about EVERYONE. We are too busy to go out and have fun. We don’t keep real connections going. We just ‘like’ posts from people we used to be really close to. I… Read more »

Double Happiness
Double Happiness

Wow – me too – since Late 2011 mmmm I have waves of sultriness – I resist the resistable, I get attracted to mr wrongs – I don’t pursue, am wanting Big Love or at least that feeling of magnetic attraction of body mind and soul jeez no wonder it’s taking a while…..

leogroover
leogroover

Whats wrong with cats and yoga? Both keep me sane way more than any man ever could.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

🙂

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

Nothing since 2009 here– do I win the celibacy sweepstakes? I’m bisexual even so theoretically I have twice the prospects. How does a mega Scorp do it without becoming homicidal? Priorities. My time & energy are my most precious commodities & I’ll be damned if I waste them on anyone not worthy. This pool is a piss-free zone.

Ms. Leo Noir A
Ms. Leo Noir A

Holy WTF-how-did-you-hack-my-mind, Batman! Without the yoga reference, this could pretty much sum up my existence to date as well! Freakin’ spooky … !! :O

I must confess that I don’t much miss the headfuqery of being in a relationship, though. But some occasional top-quality sex would be nice.

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

Agreed

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Ditto on the last paragraph.

Anon
Anon

What about a pluto in cap drought? 🙁

Years to go!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

shhh … we don’t talk about pluto in capricorn 😉

Anon
Anon

🙂

DoubleGem
DoubleGem

Oh, so we probably really don’t want to talk about Pluto in Capricorn entering the 8th house?

sweetpea
sweetpea

I suppose we will have to tho when the time comes. Cap rules my 8th and for sure it will not be ignored.

sweetpea
sweetpea

I had thought when Pluto hit my Moon Mother would die, but she was years earlier than that.

Suppose I will die…not that I haven’t already..

sweetpea
sweetpea

My but we’re dramatic here, ain’t we?..

Lord I never laughed so hard as when I posted about KL’s cat. I mean I snorted, got tears and everything…

Ah, we just gotta keep a sense of humor now peepes, thats all…

What is lost is always found. The universe never loses anything…Including you…x

Ambre
Ambre

This is exactly what I have experienced since 2012 .. Complete desert .. I am Pisces sun cap rising . Kept freaking out about not having sex for so long etc ..finally broke the drought yest .. With Aquarian Virgo type . But I manifested him literally and it took lots of small steps of setting to the universe . Most important thing with manifesting is to get your vibe aligned up with what u want . And then let go of outcome .. If you really really want it …you won’t get it . But if you really want… Read more »

leogroover
leogroover

very good advice ambre

nocturnal
nocturnal

“Sex? Nothing since 2011 for this Pisces rising.” same

“YES BUT since Neptune got into Pisces i am artistic (tick) and psychic (tick) more than usual AND TOO DAMNED SENSITIVE.” yep

this is a comfort to read, the whole not being alone biz

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

This thread is what I needed today. Similar history. So on Saturday I went to a blind date set by friends. The “date” and I should be around the same age, 42-43. When they told me with apologies that they set me up without telling me first, I told my friends that the date part was not that important, it would be nice to meet new people. It is not that I am not interested in dating, I’ve learned that “blind dates” make people nervous. I was thinking I was helping them, and him, by taking it as friendly as… Read more »

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

A thing I do with well meaning friends is tell them I will meet all of them for lunch or drinks. That way it’s over and painless…not sitting through or wasting a dinner! I don’t like those blind date set-ups where you can’t escape but I don’t mind mutual no commitment meet-ups. Although I find what happens is the dude is way too eager an I’m the one bailing.

S
S

Teen Wolf…thanks for the flashback Mystic.

I’ve discovered bites on my right ear and it’s swelling up with First World problem puss. Thank fuq I got to squeeze it until the splat on the mirror. Tupac is that you in there? Are you telling me to pack or back myself?

SSHP your saucy alright! You will know when it’s time. Screw the cosmos you just stick to polishing your good self. #GoCats

Porkchop
Porkchop

One thing I hate about being single is when you have a big zit or blackhead on your back out of your reach. My old bf would get them for me. Maybe that’s why he left haha! I love popping zits!

S
S

Make delicious scrubs at home and then shed more that your skin in bed.

Pi
Pi

ohh gross. I don’t know how people do that. gag. soz. I put that in the ultimate gross-out category, even below badly maintained feet. Never understood the urge or the willingness to submit…! eek

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

It’s against my rules of hygiene.
I couldn’t ask anyone to do anything so gross!

scorpio_rising
scorpio_rising

ugh..that made sick reading it. I have an anti-acne fetish.
yikes! 🙁

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

I used to adore my Virgo exes for that!! They would make it all nice and clean, steam it, and then use an extractor. So awesome! My toes curl just thinking about how much bliss a clean back is.

But yes…for less drama just use some fruit acid to dissolve the skin on your back so the black head will come out. Rub a bit of fresh lemon on the spot.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

I’m doing cats and yoga. No sex since end of 2010. I have nothing sig. in Pisces but I’m in the same age category as you so perhaps it is an outer planet/generational thing? Quite honestly this Kundalini yoga thing is helping even though I was initially skeptical having done many types of yoga before with no results. Just remember you won’t die from not having sex even though it feels like you will some days. Just breathe. I just got reminded how scary sex can be from a married pal who just contracted an STD from her poly group.… Read more »

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

I say you are doing great—the fact that you haven’t got involved with any non-suitable types means you will be freeeeeee when you meet someone awesome! I say focus on doing what YOU want and what YOU’RE into (if that happens to be cats and yoga, so be it) and the rest will fall into place. Also if it’s just sex you’re after, by all means hire an escort. In fact, hiring a gorgeous escort (male or female) just drinking and having fabulous conversations (with the bonus of sex!) with sounds awesome to me. No-one would have any idea. The… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I came home the other day and looked at my pets and thought “None of them have a sex life and they’re happy.” For years I drove myself nuts with the idea that NOT having regular sex meant I was unnatural (not a nun or in isolation either) and therefore had to FIX this problem (and I was horny, so there is that). Intimacy is a rare thing…sex or not. I would have hired a man whore if I knew where to find one. But don’t drive yourself nuts about it. It will happen when it happens, or not. Same… Read more »

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Toys are not very fulfilling. They are better than nothing for absolute blue box but you can’t do a proper energy exchange with one. Well not without breaking the toy. :p

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

blue box … bahahahaha 😆

breaking the toy … snort …. ah dear *wipes tears of mirth*

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

😀 I dispatch them to the haunted….spooky….sex-toy graveyard to forever lay in a plastic/silicone pile.

leogroover
leogroover

too too funny Eel <>

catfish moon
catfish moon

ummm…Have broken a few. But agreed. I prefer a skilled human.

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

Who wouldn’t? But obvs we are talking about making due when one isn’t available.

Baristagem
Baristagem

“None of them have a sex life and they’re happy.”

My Pisces girl puppy is always trying to hump Leo mancat 😆

catfish moon
catfish moon

HA!!!!!!!!!!
My pup went into first heat. My 4 yr old spayed female dog and her did some serious humping.
I got puppy spayed.

Baristagem
Baristagem

Haha! These guys have been done & STILL!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

LOL. True. But sex does not make a complete life, is my point. I come home to my sunny little house with my lovely sunny pets and think “Nobody is getting any around here and that’s OK. Let’s go to the park!” LOL. Interspecies nonsexual relationships are where its at!

Veronica
Veronica

Oh I so so agree, I was single for over 12 years, and celibate for the last 5 of those.

My dog was the best, truest companion I could have had through that time. We had a wonderful time on our own, went on adventures, and to dog beach and park.
I only grudgingly accepted the Leo at first cos my dog really loves him 🙂

samantha
samantha

ermmm. me too. Well not 2011 exactly but close enough…… and the few that have been have been all wrong. As Mystic quite aptly puts I was definitely blending my vibe with people at a different frequency.

I’m not Piscean but Cancer. Sun Moon Mercury all conjunct in the first few degrees.

So sorry nothing helpful from me I have no idea why i’m in this space. But I will be reading these comments closely! 🙂

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Yep Cancerian here too … and just yesterday I worked out that my last proper bona fide relationship was 12 years ago!! … ok there have been relationships since then true – but they have been hodge podge weirdo ones that are intense, but generally short lived and oft times unpleasant at the end. So I have no sage advice on the subject either. I blame Pluto which got into my 7th house roughly 12 yearsish ago and totally fuqed up my love life from that point onward. It’s now in my 8th … with not much improvement. But I… Read more »

samantha
samantha

Yes, that’s exactly what internet dating is like for meI! Like a supermarket hah. I end up a bit dazzled by everything and walking out without getting what I wanted.

But also I am find that I have so much other good stuff in my life that I’m definitely not chasing anything. I’ periodically dipping my toe back in the water and finding the whole dating scene more amusing than upsetting.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

I’m 42 and it’s a bit grossifying when 25 year old boys and 60 year old men wink at you …. I mean I’m old enough to be the parent of one and the daughter of another. Just vile really. Yet guys my age would happily go out with a girl in her 20s. Personally I find that quite disturbing.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Have you tried the young ones or the old ones before? I say don’t knock it until you tried it. I’ve tried it and I’m not a huge fan of either. They all have their own issues. But i know what you mean when you find comfort with your own age group. I try to explain the young ones what life was like before computers and they just don’t get it. There are certain courtesy things they don’t get either. The old ones have too many rigid rules for crap that is outdated and have ballsacs that shrivel at any… Read more »

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

So you’re really not inspiring me with those remarks EEL!!! LOL Yeah I’ve tried a youngun … Virgo 10 years younger was too cute to pass up when he ermmm chased me around a bit. But that was when I was 30 … so he was 20, noxious, leo rising so totally obsessed with himself and really just needed life to slap him around a bit … which it did. Last husband was 12 years older. Nuff said. I look at his pictures now on FB and he looks soooooooo ancient. Just wouldn’t feel comfortable with such an arrangement. But… Read more »

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

totally feeling you with this Prowln’!

But then you start looking for ones your own age group and you realize…hey they just got out of shitty marriage so they are looking for a fun fling (burned from their previous marriage and NOT over it) or they are those ‘single for life’ guys. augh!!!!

Porkchop
Porkchop

EXACTLY.
That’s why I love Pilates and cats 😉

In a couple years Pluto will conjunct my Venus in Cap in the 8th. Perhaps I will meet my match then. Just going to carry on doing my thing and will see what happens.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

oh i do hope Pluto conj Venus will be good for you!

calypso
calypso

lol, love ya EEL 🙂

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Loves you too Calypso! 😀 I’ve been missing this site since I’ve gone all feral productive.

calypso
calypso

feral productive – that’s where I gotta be!

AquaKat
AquaKat

I dont get it. If l, as a man, referred to a woman in a disparaging way l’d be howled down. Yet sisters can be rude without impunity? On dating thing ppl(both sexes) need to realise that they should be more open to differing circumstances incl age, money, etc. Love conquers 73%, l mean all

UltraSag
UltraSag

Well said! Otherwise, someone is gonna have to pass these rules on to us. What, we can only date people who are aged +/- 10% more than us (are there allowances for 7th house Saturns?), have income levels within +/- 15%? Myeh, I think I’ve broken them anyway.

samantha
samantha

yes I can relate, I’m 42 too and my married friends (both male and female) all think it’s great when I get 20 somethings wanting to go out with me but seriously *rolls eyes* not my thing.

Bulls Eye
Bulls Eye

Heartily agree Prowln. I’m so over 20 somethings thinking they can woo me with untried ways…..and the gross grandpa’s thinking I could possibly be interested in them are the recipients of my firm rebuke. I’m also in my early 40’s & sex has become a once a year event for the last god knows how many years. Have come & gone with internet dating over the years however the last incident signified a major ‘let’s call it quits”! Imagine being on a date & somehow the conversation became about the most amazing bj he received from a prostitute!! I was… Read more »

Porkchop
Porkchop

your second date made me LOL!!!!!!!!!

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

wow that commitmentphobe dude… sound like you dated my last guy!! LOL!

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

PC, I live with natal Pluto/Uranus/Mercury tight conjunct in my 7th daily – it’s a triple treat.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

So is that a good thing? Or a challenging thing? Can’t quite work out what it would be like to live with that level of intensity daily!

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

It’s intense. Relationships with Hades, Uranus and Hermes themselves and the Plutonic ex of 17 years still blames anything that goes wrong in his life today on me and we broke up in 2007 (divorced in 2012). But we have two beautiful kids together – eternally bonded. I have loaded 5th and 7th houses – I’m here to “do” relationships (NN on cusp of 4th/5th house conj Venus/Mars). The romance is the fun bit, the 7th house stuff gets …. intense and it never goes away.

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Prowlin, in Mystic-speak my 7th house is a permanent intense hyper-bats Zap-Zone. It’s anxiety central right now for me too. I wish I could elaborate but for my own sanity I’ll wait until the storm has passed if it ever does *sigh*

calypso
calypso

cor, sounds like my situ. copped a hit from the (since 08) douchlord ex today that he sent in 2013….maybe I needed a reminder of what a m*therfuqer he is to prepare me for ZZ central!

calypso
calypso

oooooh, penny drop. at first I was al, whassup Mercury? why so long delivering the deets? why now?Now I see it was the FM on my Pluto (see comment re: relationship hell above!)

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

“I’m here to “do” relationships”

Reading that only confirms this feeling I’ve had all my life that I’m NOT here to “do” my relationships – empty 5th and 7th.

Happy to “do” my 10th (Sun).
😀

catfish moon
catfish moon

I have empty 5th and 7th, but relationships are on my “do” list. Hugely on my list…..

so….venus conjunct my ascendant, but from the 12th, so Pisces flair to all of them.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

I have venus square my ascendant.

Uranus/Pluto conjunct in my 8th. Karmic flair to all of them.
And Uranus squares my Saggo moon – over in a flash.

calypso
calypso

I’ve had Pluto in 7/8th since 1993 😯 and it’s pretty much been a trip to hell since then, although I’m sure I wouldn’t make the same mistakes again, if that sounds like a good outcome *wry face*

hdq
hdq

Heh, I love your supermarket analogy. I walk around, look at the shiny packaging, and realize, hey, I’m not hungry at all.

I drunkenly went on there a few weeks ago and felt guilty for non-participation, so I thought I’d give a few genuine-seeming guys a good rating. Holy hells the emo storm that came at me! So, in some dimension, somebody’s hungry and being well-fed… 😯

PhoenixWolf
PhoenixWolf

Sensitivity means you are open. Open to connections that work/ not work, instantly – you’re guided and tapped into pleasures or magic that others can only dream of. Mystic’s “The Zap Zone” brand is your queue to find a way to exist serenely, authentically, being as sensitive but not reactive or emotional. Like a goldfish when it’s glass is tapped, it swims away from the (negative) vibration. Trust yourself to be led down the right stream to a good match, and then when it happens, go with the flow. You may have to even hang up your Analysis Hat, Pisces… Read more »

PhoenixWolf
PhoenixWolf

” Focus on smooth sailing through the next few Zap Zone weeks and revise your mate/date policy when Mars gets to SCORPIO…in late July.”

This bit ^ especially.

How can you remain open and sensitive without getting hurt?

Zeeee
Zeeee

I suggest feng shui.

virgo kathleen
virgo kathleen

yes!! there are things you can do in your bedroom to be ready for a relationship energetically at a ‘qi’ level. Such as not having your bed in a corner but having space around it. and also having pairs of twos. 2 side tables, 2 vases with flowers, etc.

Of course I don’t do this but I’m not looking for a relationship right now, lol.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Yes. You were never in control of your life anyway, so let fate do its thing and go with what elevates your vibe.

Zeeee
Zeeee

That’s funny, I haven’t had sex since then either. But I am a libra sun who is experiencing the joy of the zap zone (unemployment since the end of graduate school two years ago.). I am financially strong, but can’t figure out a new career path.

Equilibrium Girl
Equilibrium Girl

Haaa! I just did my maths and ME TOO!!! Weird. I hadn’t actually thought about how long it had been but, yep, end of 2011. Oh dear vag, don’t worry, you’re still awesome. Cap sun/ merc/ Venus, Libra rising = Zap Zone plus. But do I care? Hmm. Sure, it’d be nice to have someone love me and to love, to get laid, to snuggle up on the couch together, etc etc, but I’ve got myself to sort out first. It’ll happen. Turning 40 come NYE – so surreal to even write that – but I don’t consider age to… Read more »

calypso
calypso

sex gets so much better after 40 – wait until your Uranus opposition (also you – and they – get less worried about superficial stuff, and my assessment is they’ve never been making as many assessments of us as we think they have) 🙂

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

So agree with Calypso.. The best sex phase for me started after age 45. LOL!! Going through a drought right now but.. it’s all good! Learning how to manage bad boys!! LOL!!

Prem
Prem

It really is true. I was ripping it up through my 40s. I was doing precisely what I was born to do & dancing to my heart’s content. Greatest love (‘Like Water For Chocolate’ sizzling merge of 2 into 1- so my 19 y.o. daughter observed) commenced when he was 27 to my 43.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

I want to agree with this so bad but since I haven’t had a chance to sample the menu at all since being in my 40’s, I can’t say one way or another. But I did notice a huge boost in my 30’s being way better than my 20’s.

Nushka
Nushka

well well well. pity Sophie Fontanel beat us all to riches by writing about her celibacy first, made a cute little French bestseller, laughing all the way to the bank whilst hundreds of women worldwide feel not so alone and wierd about their celibacy, astrological or not. No idea where her Neptune resides, but is now apparently actively sexy again with a married man, and rich. Sigh. There more fussy one is about one’s body sharing, the easier it is to spot what you like. And to like you. I won’t say how long I’ve been celibate but it seems… Read more »

jicky
jicky

I liked that book,’ twas sweet.

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