Venus Uranus Aspects Explained by someone who has one.
I have Venus opposite Uranus, and I don’t care about the romantic convention. I never did. There was no inciting incident but the concept of weddings, nuclear family units and the consumer unit couple never once appealed.
Venus Uranus aspects take some growing into, especially if you’re female. We have discussed Mars-Neptune Men at length here. They tend toward the heart-breaking hot addict end of the spectrum, forever seeking the next high. His female equivalent is not Venus-Neptune. It’s women with Venus Uranus aspects. Their independence is not some airy concept. It’s a treasured asset and the number one priority.
Venus-Uranus women can, at first examination, seem alarmingly Lilith-like. But they’re not fueled by the pure rage that often drives Lilith women. They’re more indigo, detached and electric. Instead, they’re free-wheeling forces of Uranian ingenuity.
They’re Zeitgeist Compliant Trail Blazers
Their everyday choices in mating, dating, parenting, beauty, and food rile people up, but they’re not doing it on purpose.
Women with Venus Uranus aspects leave a trail of Zeitgeist sparks behind them. They repel or attract but never evoke a moderate reaction. Immune to many a society standard, she sets out to do/be her own thing early in life. It’s not usually white picket fence territory.
Angelina Jolie is Exhibit Numero Uno when it comes to contemporary Venus-Uranus women. She’s made a whole series of unconventional (before she made them more mainstream) choices, solo-adopting, solo-flying, solo subverting the cliche that Hollywood actors do ‘charity’ purely for show to become a fully fledged activist for the rights of women and children in the Third World.
Liz Taylor And Princess Diana Were Both Venus Uranus Women
Liz Taylor championed the rights of people living with AIDS well before it became de rigeur. Ditto Princess Diana. Both Venus-Uranian women.
Historically, hooker turned artist’s patron Lady Emma Hamilton (Venus-Uranus conjunct in Aries!) scandalized continents via her love affair with England’s savior Lord Nelson and the menage a trois that followed. She railed against the hypocrisy that allowed men to take multiple mistresses but punished women who strayed outside the sanctuary of monogamy. Women of the time were listening.
Venus-Uranus women are more drawn to the sex industry than most; it’s partly their detachment, need for fast decent money to fund freedom initiatives and lack of traditional bourgeois values. They resist any firm categorization or diminution of their rep through whatever they’re doing. Think porn starlet/indie movie actress Sasha Grey, the notorious Mayflower Madame, Sydney Biddle Barrows, Heidi Fleiss and (less successfully) Linda Lovelace.
Their Charisma Flickers On And Off, Depending On The Company
With a few sad, failed-rebel exceptions, they do whatever the fuq they want and their choices inspire others to live their truth.
Anais Nin and her searingly honest writing on the psyche, sex, love, more sex, etc. was a game-changer. Not to mention the fact that she hit on the genius idea of writing erotic fiction to fund her more literary endeavors. Angelina has inspired thousands to be more free souls. Susan Sarandon (Venus quincunx Uranus) is like the Poster Woman for do-as-thou-wilt modern aging. Ditto Ellen Degeneres. Quietly, urbanely and always with humor, she’s turned on a whole audience to veganism, marriage equality and so on.
Are Venus-Uranus women as dodgy as Mars-Neptune men? Maybe to the people who love them. With this aspect comes a strong desire for authentic connection and electric rapport. Their charisma flickers on and off depending on the company. They adore solitude. True feminine independence is threatening to many a person, and it’s at the heart of people with Venus Uranus aspects.