Dreaming Of Ex-Lovers And Neptunian Nights

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Dreaming of ex-lovers, for no apparent reason? It’s confusing as hell. You don’t want to be with them and would probably scream the house down if you woke up with them.

Or time-warped back to that era. So what is going on?

At the moment, the Neptunian Nights are making dreams more evocative and therapeutic. So, if this is occurring now, see at as a gentle astral cue to resolve some uncompleted narratives within your psyche.

You’ve moved on. You rebuilt your life and you’re confident that the romance was not meant to last longer. In some cases, it soured and no amount of saccharine gambits could sweeten it again. Or, you out-grew them and realized that to stay, you would need to bonsai yourself into a stunted sad shape of your potential. In some cases, it was worse. You lost them un-naturally, while still in love. Or, it was traumatic and they were abusive. You crawled out of that wreckage, like a Plutonic mercenary, vowing never again.

Dreaming of ex-lovers makes sense when you still love them or actively seek them back. If that’s the case, a simple Saturn-style action plan or some therapy can help you to assess the terrain. It’s cognitive. You either reunite or you comprehensively put this behind you. But when you don’t want to be in that relationship again and you are still having those dreams, it’s time for astral action.

You have a Shadow Self trapped somewhere in the basement of your psyche. That self is still fighting a war that’s over. They’re on a psychic loop, proving something to a phantom. Rescuing and reintegrating that self is the realm of shamans. But Neptune energy is shamanic. Try Binaural Beats, Reishi, dream-journal keeping, saging and working with the Moon-Neptune Lunar Portal for fabulous results with this.

Finally, you could also be dreaming of ex-lovers at times when you’re not certain about your present or future. It’s not so much that you want the person back or have an unfinished conversation, it’s harking back to an era when you thought you had things more sorted out. It was a more certain time, even if you were unhappy. And, if you’re currently single, it could be that though you don’t want to be in that relationship again, your psyche is saying you’re ready to share more with another person.

Keeping a dream diary will help you understand these vagaries, even if the dream notes do not make sense at the time. In fact, dream fragments can sound deranged but miraculously, when you read over them later, the narrative is entirely clear.

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Vslr
Vslr

Unable to fall asleep for the last week or so. Seriously sleep deprived. Have had loads of chats with my girlfriends and I realise I have a beautiful tribe around me. Ever so grateful for their advice when I’ve run into them with my EX problems a thousand times. And for you all here who have guided me and made me see sense. They never change is my new mantra. Yes, the sagg new moon which is also my natal moon helped open a new emotional chapter as was suggested. I’m not mopey over him and don’t ever want to… Read more »

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

HOLY GODDESS!!! That thing about something magical in the dailies for Pisces getting going that started in 2012>>>??? BAng on the buck MM, BANG-ON. Woah. so exciting.

Scorporation, Inc.
Scorporation, Inc.

I’ve slayed many foes over this past week. Today I have an appt with an old Pisces sun friend– or rather, an invite– to play offense against a host of her own enemies. A little weary, but sword drawn: I rather enjoy fighting alongside a friend.

Neptune won’t hit my 1st house till 6* Pisces, but I feel him washing up the front steps. Mars into Libra: my 7th/12th house, where natal Pluto-Moon live. Psyche armed to the teeth, mojo rising with the vibe.

calypso
calypso

Your AC is on my MC Scorp Inc

Ms.
Ms.

Ok I just did this and its amazing. Well done Mystic. This is really , really good

Ms.
Ms.

(Neptune Beats), was not expecting it at all to be as it was but very strong for vision

Lux Interior is My Co Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co Pilot

Lots of weird omens and dream omens. I’m basically “moving my troops under cover of darkness” and being all blithe and hippy on the outside. Time, time, time. Strategy.

me
me

i just drink a lot

Pegasus
Pegasus

Who’s ME? Not a Virgo methinks.

Ms.
Ms.

lovely people of blog world. Neptune nights question: Tapping/EFT. Is it good? does it work? x

Ms.
Ms.

Thanks, I am trailing it. Yes I can see Gala getting into it. Well she’s not doing to badly. Thanks for the demo. Will reserve thoughts until a month I think

x

Emg
Emg

Can you tell us how things are? I’ve thought about you daily and obviously things are continuing on a pace. I’m so interested to hear you say this is what you have always felt was coming. I really get that. So many folk moan at me and say no no you’ve made it this way but personally I’ve followed Portmas and her deeper secret. Love and light to you durning your free fall

Emg
Emg

The above was to HDQ.

hdq
hdq

I totally will try to explain when I return from class. Thank you so much for the love and light! Xxxx

Pi
Pi

HDQ I was wondering how things were going for you and yours. Your description of your experiences right now – fwiw I utterly relate (I am seeing through the lens of my own experience of a loved one in hospital, hope am not misreading your words). you already know – all you can do is surrender to and be totally within the present moment. That’s all there is. Big love. xx

hdq
hdq

I’m so sorry that it’s taken me so long to respond. Thursday afternoon the tests came in – not good. Significant anoxic brain damage. They think there’s a good chance he won’t ever wake up. I’ve pretty much lost it ever since. Wailing or wasted or both. Hands down, this has been the worst week of my life. And he’s everywhere. Every song is a message from him, every post a clue. Shamanic? For sure. I’m going to the underworld for him and I hope to come back. Today mars is on our Pluto- Ceres conjunction. Ceres was on my… Read more »

hdq
hdq

Yes, and surrender, totally. It’s funny, one one level it’s just his skin suit, and I feel his glowing ball of light holding mine, saying, it’s ok, my love, it’s all a video game anyway. But godDAMN I love that skin suit!! I think it’s worse because I’m still not even there- I can’t leave for another week still and it’s so utterly ridiculous. Finals, seriously? Getting the braces off, what I’ve looked forward to for two years now… torture. Surrender and trust and be in the now. Thank you for the big love. Xxxxx

calypso
calypso

love and luck HDQ

S
S

HDQ wish I knew something soothing to say. Thinking of you and sending love.

Gemyogi
Gemyogi

I was wondering too. There really aren’t any words except prayers for all of you. So sorry & sending more hugs. Xx

hdq
hdq

Thanks, you guys. Love to you too! Xxxxxx

hdq
hdq

Time isn’t running – time has stopped. It’s all become a big whirlpool in the stream. I have never felt so without a boat or even an oar. It’s just me and the river and all I can do is surrender. This is not as I’d envisioned my SN transit, but ha, here it is. How many planes can one experience at one time without going mad? Am I going mad (probably). Neptunian. Chain smoking bowls, drinking wine like it’ll do something. Midnight bundles at the crossroads. Rambling aimlessly. Caught up in Orpheus and Eurydice, Ceres, Pluto, and Persephone. Spooky… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

FWIW – I had a hard time of my SN transit – in my case it was Jupiter on my SN and I have Jupiter square Mercury in my Mercury ruled chart so Jupiter on my SN in Gemini was like Mercury overload times 1000. Very disorienting. Not sure what your SN transit is, but consider it may be like emptying a trashcan, maybe chaos if it isn’t bagged up all nicely and it likely won’t be, but clears room for the unknown to come. Take comfort in the whirl because its an omen of lasting change.

Veronica
Veronica

Very much Agree that it is an omen of lasting change, 12HV.

HDQ your words are so evocative. I have travelled that path of Orpheus and Eurydice, have been Persephone. I became able to feel comfortable and soothed by the dark. This was many years ago, and now standing fully in the light.
In your case I feel like there is a Shamanic aspect to this, and it doesn’t come without intense pain

hdq
hdq

It is like emptying a trash can, and it’s only just begun. Transiting SN is on my Venus now, with mars and Chiron a degree away and the moon 2. I feel like by the time it’s over I’ll be an empty shell. It’s all getting sextiled by Neptune (as my ruler mercury gets squared- kind of a perfect storm) so it’s ultra surreal. And painful. Yes, the most intense and enveloping pain ever. Thank you for your wisdom, both of you, that walk through the darkness must be taken, and it will probably change me forever. I can’t really… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

full on weird ass dreams, Downloading, reprocessing and clearing.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

My whole life has changed since end of September. I’m still working on getting my new name on all official documents and suddenly I have this new cat, dog, and man living in my house new house that is still under construction. Yesterday, Pisces came home and I said “who are you and how did you get in my house” as a half-joke and then at night in bed he said “Good night. I love you. Don’t worry – we will get to know each other.” LOL! Strange times…as if time is running backwards and leaping forward.

leogrooer
leogrooer

Can some peeps help with this dream interp? I’m in a large ranch in south Africa and responsible for a few kids. Some menacing men arrive and take over and i realise they want to set the place up as brothel. Im trying to stay calm and not let anyone know whats happening. Out of nowhere a lion roars at me.
????

If
If

My gut 2 second take:
Lion is (1) roaring to both telegraph the danger and more importantly remind you of your own inner ferocity and strategising capacities – to be king of your own jungle; and (2) Lion is telling you that staying silent isn’t going to work – ie that if you communicate with the kids (your inner child/ren??) to enlist them to work together with your adult self to outwit the men, you (adult you and little inner you’s you want to protect) will survive in the jungle….
God, I’ve had some doozy dreams lately, too.

If
If

gut 10 second take: what is that wonderful tarot card? fortitude/strenth? where the girl is opening the jaws of a great lion or something? i used to get it a lot….here, I am sure that the Lion has arrived as an ally to help you scare away (or eat!!) the men….you’d be in deeper shit if it was a lioness stalking you, and SHE’D do it silently, before she pounced, since it is her who hunts for the food. A roar says our Lion king sees the men as intruders too, and is trying scare them away (they can hear… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I like it.

Virgo Kathleen
Virgo Kathleen

I’ve had dreams similar to this – do you work with kids? I used to and would have dreams of being in charge of many kids, but things would go wrong. It seems to be about responsibility (over kids, or something else) then losing control, like a fear you won’t be able to do your job. A very stressful dream. I have recently read that when you dream of bad men it can actually be a different part of yourself that you’re afraid of. Maybe look into that. No idea about the lion but you are a Leo right? A… Read more »

leogroover
leogroover

Thanks If and VK. Really appreciate it.

Don’t work with children but inner child and adult rings true as well as being afraid of speaking out. Have 2 friends pass agging me at the mo. I’m trying to comm with them but they are in shutdown and I feel like I’m not doing it right. guilty for seeming demanding when I’m not.
The brothel aspect could be issues i have around sex. mmmm

Symphony
Symphony

Is the astro really so strange? I have natal Venus in Cap AND Mars in Libra. πŸ™‚

Nightrose
Nightrose

Wow Mars AND Venus Rx for you! Please update us on what is going on for you during this time, would love to know.

juno
juno

Love the pic! Just so appropriate for my Mars return today. Had a great workout – precision, care and flexibility.

leo-scorp grrrl
leo-scorp grrrl

I check in and read here quite a bit. Don’t post a lot. But,….this pic really got me. One dear friend told me “You are a Champion and a Warrior.” People in my life see me that way which baffles me a bit. (I just want to be the loving Leo and throw a party for all of my friends) Maybe that is typical Leo Sun Scorp Rising. I might feel like this pic, but definitely more battle weary. Those close to me never see the weary. Only the warrior. I have been so busy and truly weary doing my… Read more »

me
me

cant keep up

Oneironaut
Oneironaut

So crazy crazy crazy. Uranus is conjunct my mercury and all of a sudden my body actually feels like it’s buzzing, I have a crush on a Uranian, I’m having lightbulb moments and psychedelic creative ideas everywhere and anywhere, I can’t fricken sleep which is actually very frustrating, I love my job and I’m about to move into a beautiful cottage which will give me the peace I need to be … Properly Uranian! Anyway, this is all most unusual for this usually earthy/fiery Venusian toro. Help? But don’t let it stop!

me
me

toro.. mean… ur taurus?

Domestic Triffid
Domestic Triffid

Its all completely bug-fuck. Am in a total state of flux, with nothing to do but declutter until mid-January, at which point we will either move or renovate.

My money’s on moving…. My art stuff is really taking off, and we’d be moving into a much “artier” area, among other things.

Pi
Pi

bug fuq~~ lol πŸ˜€

me
me

quantum flux… is a great song

http://youtu.be/MIajmLP46b4

NORTHLANE##

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I’ve had such a weird and sucky week, maybe this next lot of astro weirding is just what I need to straighten shit out.

Definitely looking forward to the Neptune beats.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Luckily i have 2 moods. Flat & Active.
Full on or Stop.
Thankfully, Alien, weird & sucky do not apply.
It ill be alright on the night. I promise with all of my Sagg luck, in fact here is a pocket full.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Thanks Pegs, this dreary little corpse tied with a brick at the bottom of the sea can always do with some Sagg luck! x

Ms.
Ms.

there is a mattress in London anytime you want to crash on it. x

Ms.
Ms.

and yes, it’s been a weird week. I can’t type it out but I decided to get completely magical on it’s ass because I’ve totally had enough now. I’ve got some ball aching transits next year so I have to get even more stealth. By 2015 I will be a machine. Sending tea and hugs x

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Thanks Doll! I got fed the fuq up and went magical on some shit too…

Week is getting less weird and sucky, thank fuqing fuq.

If I had insane amounts of cash right now, I’d so be in London, sitting on your mattress unpacking my latex! Could deffo go a change of scenery right now! Meowsa x

Ms.
Ms.

xxx

saggibee
saggibee

I’m heading towards a whole bunch of conjunctions to my natal chart in the next few weeks – it’s kinda crazy… Saggi Sun and Mercury, Venus in Capricorn, Saturn in Scorpio. Hoping it continues the good omens. I’m feeling prepped to break through to some higher spiritual ground now that I’ve found some solid footing in my everyday life and equilibrium.

Nightrose
Nightrose

Were are like astro sisters, Saggibee πŸ™‚

Good luck with everything.

saggibee
saggibee

Hehe, that is so funny and cool, Nightrose! What part of the world are you in if you don’t mind me asking?

Good luck with everything as well! Here’s to a stellar end to 2013 πŸ˜€ xx

Nightrose
Nightrose

I’m on the west coast of the states.

Saggibee
Saggibee

Oh cool! I’m on the east coast of Australia!

Nightrose
Nightrose

Btw, sorry for the typos y’all.

caprika
caprika

so funny! im a cap sun with mercury and venus (plus mars) in saggi

saggibee
saggibee

Haha, we’re astro reflectors!

Pegasus
Pegasus

Nightrose, similar astro.
Sun & Merc in Sagg, Venus in Cap.
A Maven Version of you…lol?
Shall i tell you from my 360 degree vantage point what to avoid?
It took courage to do some of the things i wish i hadn’t πŸ™‚

Pegasus
Pegasus

That was for Saggibee! Altho’ Nightrose is Sagg Sun/Merc.
Have Saturn Pluto & Mars in 8th house.
Do think about death a lot & how it should be banned.
Aslo think about my lost inheritance a LOT.
These are interesting times for ‘our’ astro, i’m working it but only when the sun is out and it’s above 22 degrees celcius.
It’s a fun time of year. I insist. Hang out the fairy lights. set out the candles. End of story.

Nightrose
Nightrose

I have Cap Venus as well πŸ™‚

Saggibee
Saggibee

That is awesome Pegs, there’s a bit of an astro coven happening here!

Yes, please to tell more Pegs! That’s quite a loaded eighth house – I can see why you’d be mulling over those issues of sustenance/legacy/existence. My eighth house is empty, but it’s in Pisces. I think about death a lot more than I should!

How do you find your Venus in Cap placement?

Nightrose
Nightrose

I’m all for learning experiences from others. Lay it on thick, Maven Sistah.

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

“It took courage to do the things I wish I hadn’t” – brilliant!

Pegasus
Pegasus

Still re-inventing myself. Investing in myself to create an income.
Dividing what are necessities and what are luxuries into ME:BIZ.
Advertising 50% of gross, that’s gross. Maybe draw up flyers, brochures,biz cards and sky writing πŸ™‚

Pi
Pi

good on you Pegasus. can’t wait to hear how things go xx

saggibee
saggibee

Likewise, Pegs. Sending you some inventive uranian vibes your way!

Pegasus
Pegasus

Thanx Darling Pi & Cosmic. Not an easy time to be self-employed-cottage ‘industry’, it’s about generating your own work and balancing creativity & what your bottom ln is in fees instead of a set pay packet weekly/monthly. My husband, the Government, gives me an allowance just for being an senior & doesn’t ask i cook him. Requires genius budgeting & a bit of alchemy, speaking of which, Taurean Alchemist has been saying for 24 months ‘i’ll do you a website’. Think i’ll agree to that generous offer after all. Clients are dribbling in………:-)But want to be full-on busy in demand,… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

‘cook’ him, my husband, the Gov?
I mean cook FOR him or sleep with him.

Pi
Pi

website not a bad idea πŸ™‚ broaden the publicity, talk the good talk xx

leogrooer
leogrooer

With you in striving for my own business model Pegs not someone elses. hard yakka tthough but great to keep up my own motivation. Be my own guru. december not good month as everybody is winding down and putting off spending any Biz dollars So plan is learn how to build a website and get my promotional shizz together,

Ms.
Ms.

lol. I can see you sky writing x

Pegasus
Pegasus

Prowlin, how very Zen of you. Life’s too too interesting & exciting to
droop over Cap Man’s ego.
Your de-tach will drive him bonkers, as that’s HIS game.
And a ‘game’ it is until he gets real, or really gets it πŸ™‚

He’ll want sex in 10 days . hahahaha.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Strange astro weirding is fuqing right … it’s all over with Mr Cap. *yawn* He did one of his dreary emotional detach things and I just couldn’t be fuqing arsed with it. So I kinda torpedoed it with some brute Saggy moon truth serum. Obviously his Scorp moon didn’t take it too well – it’s all my fault apparently! Yeah whatevs … Can’t be bothered moping. Really I can’t. At least I got a good couch and a vege garden out of the deal. The plan for the next 8 weeks is get insanely fit, financial and flirt my effin… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

That sucks! I love your attitude though, I’d rather kick arse than mope under such circumstances too. But I want his number, I could use a vegie garden bitch…

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Soz too late! I already deleted his presence from my life which includes his number πŸ˜‰

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Like your ‘tude Prowlin!!! πŸ™‚

Mars in the 5th yaaay πŸ™‚

Lux Interior is My Co Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co Pilot

Well done. Enjoy the veg, the couch and the flirting with other people.

Nightrose
Nightrose

You make sounding being out of a relationship so awesome. I cant wait when Im out of one! LOL

saggibee
saggibee

I know, right?! I am mentally storing Prowln’s approach in the back of my mind if I should need it in the future!

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Takes a lot of practice to be this awesome at being single! πŸ˜€

Baristagem
Baristagem

Go Prowln!!

:mrgreen:

DP
DP

Yay for Mars in the 5th! I am lucky enough to have it natally, in Sag. It’s the funnest placement.

DP
DP

Also, Cap Sun with a Scorpio Moon? Ugh. Way too heavy. Life’s too short for that crap.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

LOL. I’m a Scorp with a Cap rising. Tell me about it!!! πŸ™„

At least I have a Saggo moon to lighten things up every now and then. πŸ™‚

DP
DP

Ha! In my experience, with the people I know, a dose of Sag can lift a whole boatload of heavy. Seriously, it’s the most uplifting energy. So yeah, lucky you!

And I certainly don’t mean to disparage anyone with these aspects. Hell, I’ve got a Scorpio moon myself. But that combo- Cap and Scorpio- I think of a brick tied to a corpse to make it sink to the bottom of the sea.

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Haha… you’re hilarious!! πŸ˜€ Perfect analogy.

Sometimes though my Saggo moon struggles under the weight of Scorp/Cap combo though. No stopping the horse once it’s bolted πŸ™‚ .

DP
DP

Sounds like the reverse of my arrangement: Scorpio moon weighing down the Aries sun/Leo rising.

Actually, it’s a good thing though. I think I’d be rather flighty without it.

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Hahaha … my nick name for him was grumpy old man. πŸ˜‰

DP
DP

That is So not a surprise. πŸ˜‰

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Can we call him DropCap again? I like that name. I like typography.

Baristagem
Baristagem

Awesome! Thanks MM!

I’ve been having dreams about pumpkins, not a lot just a couple of pumpkins sitting in the corners of my dreams.

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

I love pumpkins- cheerful little gourds. πŸ™‚

Baristagem
Baristagem

πŸ™‚

Tasty too

saggibee
saggibee

Baristagem, I just clicked through to your blog for the first time and I love your writing!

Baristagem
Baristagem

Thanks Saggibee! I enjoy writing, perhaps it’s the Gemmy Sun, Moon & Venus in 3rd House πŸ™‚

Ms.
Ms.

cute

my housemates made a pumpkin head for halloween and it\s rotting out the back now in the garden but I can see it in my window. I wonder what the bugs think