That Would Be No

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Legs vintage telephone

So that would a great big fat “no” to the “just touching base” phone call, the poignant cryptic communique and/or the “bringing things to a head” candid confessional rant.  But why oh why when Venus is suddenly in Sagittarius and honesty feels so good?

Because Venus is square Neptune, the classic Love Zombie Trigger. This eases in a few days – see Horoscopes for more – and Venus starts to trine Uranus, that would be the time to strike – if you still want to.

Meanwhile; there is enough to deal with as the Zap Zone intensifying brings all manner of hyper-controlling & critical peeps out in force, looking for ways to displace their anxiety about the times onto somebody cool like you. We need some sort of a cosmic hazmat suit.

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Jokerman
Jokerman

I wished I knew about the site when this was posted. Could’ve saved myself some MASSIVE heartache. I only knew you in “The Australian” back then.

The Pluto Stationary Direct, on the 20/9/13, at 8*59, on my Cap Dsc at 8*53 and a subsequent letter I sent on the 10/10/13. It is THE EVENT that made me realise how incredible is the Astro and how zeitgeisty is Mystic.

Cattiva
Cattiva

I love these two photos! Brilliant:) An update on my fitness comp (for those who were so wonderful and encouraging) So I came first in the over 40’s fitness model category. That’s right, FIRST PLACE IN THE UK CHAMPIONSHIPS over 40’s but still, a big gold trophy sitting on my bookshelf is a groovy thing to wake up to. I also got a gold medal that makes me feel like 50 Cent. It’s totally “rap star chic” I came 5th in the Miss Bikini All classes. That one was such an unexpected shocker I’d already gone downstairs so had to… Read more »

Andromeda
Andromeda

😀 So thrilled for you Cattiva!!!! 😀
That is HUGE!! You complete stunner you!!

Fantastic news, a real compliment to your smarts and work ethic. Enjoy your success!!

leogroover
leogroover

Go GF. fantastic news

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Hey brilliant! What a gas! Congratulations 🙂

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Kick arse woman! Congrats, and loz @ Anne Rice comment! 😀 x

AkaPluto
AkaPluto

This is good to hear…I was about to say, “What about the rules?!”

Pegasus
Pegasus

AKA Pluto, i would say it would be a time to forget the rules and do down-home compassion and visit him
with flowers.
Treat him as you would like to be treated far from home in hospital with a few dreams broken.

akaPluto
akaPluto

Eh…impossible. He’s so out of reach. Aqua moon…Uranian transit… No idea what hospital he was in anyhow. Felt too intimate to call him. I can’t explain it but I felt that it would be weird. I barely know him, ya know?

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Is ANYONE nervous about the state of affairs in the U.S. I am sick over it!!

sweetpea
sweetpea

sweetpea
sweetpea

😆

Eh, Bam Bam has spoke..

And at the 11th hour of the game…It’s still a game..

Nervous over the idiots in DC? Hardly…

Yes, I know peeps are upset over SS payments and all but it’s still just a power game…

sweetpea
sweetpea

So…sorry to be a smart arse but…

~That would be no~ lol..

Sorry Virgo Ellie..of course I’m concerned for this world but today I really can only take care of my corner luv..x

sweetpea
sweetpea

Sagg Venus is exact my Jupiter in 6th trine Aries Mercury 10th.

Via email today because I am not ready to chat…had to address something to my Aries Father today that could be potentially very sensitive for him but I felt hurt by something he said.

I will not be phony and pretend…There ya go Sagg..

sweetpea
sweetpea

Phony would mean truly doing the Venus square Neptune square but I have Pisces Sun-Moon midpoint 3 degree on 5 degree Pisces mid heaven opposite Pluto/IC..

I feel like crying today because something needs to be healed and must be true to myself whether people are comfortable or not. x

sweetpea
sweetpea

The trine from trans Venus conjunct natal Jupiter trine Mercury means yes, of course I was diplomatic and thoughtful about it…

Just had to bring something to light that I thought was very superficial and have seen a pattern to.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Hadn’t even considered the trans. Moon in Sagg as well…lol Okay, so what I see is that I call him when trans Venus trine my Sun and trans Uranus as did say I will call him soon and “love you very much”…etc… Hey, he needs to hear some shit time to time ya know? That Merc and Pluto on the 4th/10th axis means not everything is perfect in Daddy land. I remember when I was a teen and would come home from school and he would say “smile”…I didn’t feel like smiling!.. I still don’t feel like chatting so often…I… Read more »

akaPluto
akaPluto

Man- talk about crazy. GET THIS: I finally get with a a year long crush of mine, rebound style, now that I’m single. Super hot Aussie dude (I’m in New York City) and he takes off work to have me over and we hang out for two days straight having a LOT of, er, fun. I go back upstate and he sends me a text the next day saying “hope you got there safe, thanks for making my week xo” Of course I’m totally crushing on the dude and so I consult the Oracle: “An unexpected event will turn this… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

If you like the guy, I would reach out saying you heard about the accident and support him – if you do. And then see.

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

Yes I agree 12th act on your feelings be authentic.

calypso
calypso

yeah and why does he have to do it all? he’s lying in the hospital with a smashed up face…..might have something to do with it? don’t let your insecurities lead. what’s the worst that can happen. he wont want to be with you but you were nice to him?

Aussie in hospital in NYC….would he have insurance?

calypso
calypso

ps. check Libretta’s insight below….I agree!

AkaPluto
AkaPluto

Calypso, these are valid points, though if you’ve ever met an aries stellium of mars-sun-venus you’d know if this guy wanted hot girl to come visit him in the hospital he would make no bones about it. Of course, I did tell him I was leaving town. He doesn’t even know I’m still here…

AkaPluto
AkaPluto

I do care. Biking is his life. He bikes for a living, he bikes for fun. Now his leg is broken. I’m concerned! But you should you tell someone you care if they don’t care about you? I can never figure that out…

Veronica
Veronica

As a stellium Aries myself, I have appreciated it a Lot when friends have come to see me the various times I have landed myself in hospital.

It’s not really about you being hot at the moment , it’s about him being vulnerable

calypso
calypso

Yes Veronica! and Pegs below….in any case, I think this is a good thing for you to continue to workshop AKA, however it goes down.

Kelly
Kelly

Seriously sometimes I wonder if you live in my head mystic! As a Pisces I’m quite emotional and can never explain to friends quite how I’m still caught up with my ex – especially these last few weeks. Ahead of cosmic schedule I finally told him a couple of weeks ago, after months of back and forth since we broke up and him contacting me first these last few months especially, that it’s done – I laid my cards completely on the line and he just said ‘ok I’ll leave it, just deleted your number” – no fighting for me,… Read more »

libran dreamchild
libran dreamchild

oops?

calypso
calypso

LZ impulses seem alien to me – what’s up I wonder? I’m all cranky instead…tolerance for sub-par people and outcomes loooow.

leogroover
leogroover

me too Cal. No impulse at all. its taken years off my life but am comfy now not giving a XXXX. Too busy with new online course. Go me and all the other recovering LZers here. Life is too short beleive me.

calypso
calypso

I think I’ve lost too much time in the past as well. No time for that with Saturn on my tail! and conjunct Mercury – that’s my cue to write! Cool about your course 🙂

Luxor
Luxor

Was checking this site for LZ alert.After winding myself up all day to a) ignore LZ subject and convince myself to b) forget all about it,I am better than that but I get tricked every time with this person.Took me nearly a year to steel myself and not care.Back in same position this year gah!! Will I ever learn. Focussing on artwork ,writing and getting enough sleep.Thanks MM for the heads up

Double Happiness
Double Happiness

I was wondering if/when cap ex would contact me during this astro shitstorm.. Txt me to say needs an address to send divorce papers cause its time plus he found photos n books I had left This feels very calm AND yes karmic for both of us… I have really wanted to begin the process divorce and guess I do have to face him. When I left it was because I was frightened and grieving an already over marriage. When I last saw him a couple if days later I was angry and already knowing I would not fight for… Read more »

xx
xx

Omg. I checked this site this morning as I felt a zombie attack coming on. I was going to fall off the wagon, send an email to “be polite” to the object of my prior psycho obsessive behaviours.
Thankfully I had an ounce of willpower and put the thing in drafts. Just before I was about to send it I looked at this site one more time and here it is!!!

If I had sent the bloody thing I’d be in a zombie catch 22. Bad if I get a reply, even worse if I don’t.

Message deleted.

No more drama. No more drama.

leogroover
leogroover

Love that phrase xx. LZ catch 22

Ainslie
Ainslie

Mystic : ) you make me laugh.

Savannah
Savannah

I wish that would apply to nocturnal dreams. Had such a vivid dream that my last long term, long distance mi.. oh relationship, was reading an apology letter to me. In it he was declaring how much he missed me, yet it was my fault he couldn’t contact me to apologise because I hadn’t contacted him. Took me a few minutes to come to normal thinking after that dream because it felt so real.

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

The Pisces is blowing up my phone bill. It’s wonderful and scary to know someone who – I can’t imagine he’d ever tell me “no” if there was something I wanted to do or to try. Limitless. Anyway, I feel happy but really private about it. He posts stuff on Facebook for me and I ignore. I talked to him about it. Must be my Venus in the 12th house. I like privacy in love. Like if people knew we were happy, they would trample us.

Domestic Triffid
Domestic Triffid

Skype. Its free !

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

Yes – he currently only accesses Internet via phone or library. I told him he needs to get it back at home. He’ll be here for a visit next month.

quintile
quintile

Fab 12 House – having been absent for a while I have missed this wonderful and exciting news!! good luck with it – pisces and virgo of course are a match made in heaven!

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

Thanks love! He’s so dreamy I can’t sleep. And he’s flawed plenty. So unexpected. I guess Venus square Neptune (in my natal chart) can work like that too – a big fat surprise.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

not really, i wouldn’t trample you. I think it is awesome you are getting some love finally!

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

I’m probably a potential qi vamp, feeling like somethings missing, looking for someone to listen, and comin up with nothin, I think it might be time to write this one out for myself… Getting pretty over loved ones not being there for me, feeling separations all round, struggling w bein a single middle aged woman with no children… I can’t believe life is doing this really! I think I have been ultra loving to the loved ones in my life and now I’m just seeing the flimsyness…. I know its some lesson in my own solidness… But goddamn does it… Read more »

12th house Virgo
12th house Virgo

Expectations are what hurts. That’s insanely rational or practical – probably not of use. But it’s true. Love is a feeling, not something you barter for. If you have it, no one can give or take it. I spent 4 years watching myself wake up alone every day. Some days I was happy. Some I wished I was dead already. The change was in me. And once I became happy there, warp speed. But god it felt like prison in between. So I understand. But your happiness is not in the others or your expectations. Ranting. I hope you find… Read more »

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

Oh awesome 12th house v, thank you for pointing me in that direction! I really agree with you! I got lost on the way feeling my expectations falling apart! Thank you so much xxx

quintile
quintile

hey don’t be hard on yourself F ala A – perhaps people haven’t been ‘there’ for you lately? Can you rationally assess whether you are being too needy, or perhaps you have attached yourself to people who do not give very freely? A few months ago when Saturn finally went into my 9th house, I called a couple of friends on their behaviour, which I felt was taking me for granted. All has worked out. Where is transiting saturn for you??

xx
xx

Yes, surround yourself with people who bring out the positive. Sometimes it’s hard to move away from same patterns of contact as they feel reassuring in that they are a constant.
I’m not putting it very eloquently but your situation resonates.

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

Yes I agree with you both, there is an energy of that too, Saturn is transiting my first, so that’s what its all about!

Self reliance!

Deb
Deb

I’m writing to thank you, MysticM, for your brilliant and amusing post titles. In particular, the “Drop Dead Qi Vampires” and “That Would Be No” have made me laugh so much. So appropriate for the times…

D.

ceramici
ceramici

I woke up at 4.30am and deleted his number. Did some art. Went back to bed. Had a vision of a flying bird of flames (phoenix?). Fell back to sleep.

leogroover
leogroover

Phoenix image is awesome. Rise above wayway above

Cattiva
Cattiva

Very very very cool response to this astro

quintile
quintile

oh thanks goddess I checked the blog – was just about to fall in a screaming heap over the new love interest who has found his way into my progressed-venus-in-libra-its-all-cool heart – he is staying interstate and thought he MIGHT come to town this weekend but now tells me he is not. I managed to play it insanely cool and non-pressuring, but none the less the phone call has rattled me and reminded me I DO NOT WANT TO GO BACK TO LZ LAND no never never ever again….I have venus trine neptune natally, so am a native LZ but… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

Oh Quinnie, having been a LZ only ONCE in my long life, it was one time too many. It’s like they pitch a tent in your mind
and nothing short of an earthquake-tsunami will move them on. He was a Venus in Scorp Sagg, needless to say any V in S man will be given a wide berth henceforth.
Caroline Myss describes it as a ‘spell’ one is under, a spell being an unwanted-set- in- concrete thought form.
Not easy to shift as it’s beyond the rational mind.

quintile
quintile

Bless Pegs – yes some peeps are obviously lucky to have done it in PREVIOUS lives and be free of it now, or born free of it – interestingly I watched Gone with The Wind on the weekend (not intentionally – it was on broadcast) and what a micromanaging, love zombie was Scarlet O’Hara! Quite interesting in a contemporary light 🙂

Link
Link

Love zombie–in the end she was victorious and right. Used astrology and so she won. Zombie no more.

Lola gets . . . .
Truth is power…..

Being single is definitely the better option (I hastily add) and having my headspace back again feels unreal. It’s been a long long long 8 months.

Cattiva
Cattiva

I love Eartha Kitt’s version of Whatever Lola wants!
Also This is my Life and I Love Men
All very This astro no?

gypsy
gypsy

Yes must obey this advice. Virgo who swept me off my feet, charmed me into his pants, told me he fell for me, made me fall hard, then called it all off over some horrifying vision he had of our future together. I will not contact. I will not be a LZ. Venus neptune square however could not have come at a worse time. 🙁

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

aww, that sucks.
What was the horrifying vision? I’m curious

calypso
calypso

hahaha, i just went to write almost exactly the same message Scorpbot!

Man, I HATE that when they seduce you real hard and then freak out and fuq off – cowards!

But I’m curious too 🙂

Nilaya
Nilaya

Don’t sweat the curious……the vision ‘ dust still settling ‘ left behind – unbearably, was his own too far less than his best because his nightmare is he can’t sustain in2meUc. He’s only learned the ‘presenting’ pose of dancing the divine duet. Dancing each other to heaven involves sensing the other, allowing spaces of seeming to move away from each other to build the return dynamic while never actually being out of reach and rhythm of one another. ah to be danced to heaven….my daughter said of observing the first meeting of my heaven dancing man “it was like watching… Read more »

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Romance such a distraction. The grass is always greener for my Saggo moon. Keep wondering what I’d be doing now if I wasn’t with the Crab. Being a Scorp with a packed 8th house I struggle to find the middle ground. There are no shades of grey in the 8th house.
If Venus on Asc equals loving life I can’t wait for Venus in Cap to cross mine 😀

Scorpbot
Scorpbot

Calypso, such curious cats us Scorps 😛

pi
pi

love the ‘psycho police’ !
Right now I think I need a psycho police escort – to protect me from MYSELF.

feeling tired and bitter and cynical (cause or effect?) ; forcing myself to stomp on any feelings of attraction for ANYONE because I just can’t handle anything right now. Following these two Pisces mantras:

Shortest prayer in the world: “Fuck them.”

I don’t know, I don’t care and it doesn’t matter anyway.

Following up all art and creative leads however. May prove awesome. Who needs love when you have Art. Right?

Pi
Pi

decided to get over my grizzling and just play some very loud awesome music. YEAH \m/ >_< \m/

freedom ala air
freedom ala air

Feeling u pi… Fuck them and then move on with your own music and fun…

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

I have Venus sq Neptune natally and also sq Jupes… say no more 🙂
I know it’s manifesting when I keep waking up in the middle of the night thinking about what to say to accurately express my hurt/outrage/pain in the mistaken belief that it will change my ex’s attitude towards me.
Will wait for the Venus-Uranus trine before doing the next round of divorce convos.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Happiness for Venus in Sagg then in Cap for this Sagg & Cap rising. After having said no to meets with the Sagg Adonis throughout winter due to his requests for 10am coffees whilst am still rugged up and no energy to spend for the preparation time it takes to fix the ‘public face & apparel’, may text him to say: ‘READY’ or perhaps ‘i’m unready when you are’? He does do a magical massage, his way of believing he is not being disloyal to wifey by practising! Sagg honesty, huh? A particular type of honesty one-one else gets except… Read more »

luland
luland

tooo hilarious.

i definitely came online to consult the site before i sent THAT text because yes… it HAS come to a head that i can’t stand anymore and HONESTY has to happen NOW … as it seems…. but of course all along i knew i couldn’t just count down the clock for entrance into saggo and everything be ok…. thats just what i WANTED.

i can’t laughing… its all too insane and all too accurate.

bastblessed
bastblessed

Totally could’ve used this earlier. Dropped in “to just touch base” with a coworker at my new job cuz of the rough past week they had. Now I see a rant on a personal habit of said coworker that suddenly has a “philosophical” bent that personal habit no ONE has heard of before now. People I have never meet at this new job have literally stopped me in the halls to thank me for getting this coworker “to change” since this habit is…odd. Love zombie alert for me personally = quit trying “to fix/help” others who may or apparently may… Read more »

Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Ha! I needed this! 🙂

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

My cosmic hazmat suit will just have to be my personality in 24/7 ‘don’t fuck with me I’m a septic bitch’ mode. Yellow just isn’t my colour…

#tryingtobesilentandfailingmiserably

Cattiva
Cattiva

Silent?
You?
But WHY Saturnalien ?
Don’t deprive us of your acerbic insights.
You are politically incorrect in THE MOST DELIGHTFUL WAY. Do not be quiet. Not with us. Please?
X

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I know, I know… me and silent is like an oxymoron of some description. I have been attempting an ‘isolationist stance’ approach to dealing with the impending doomZap Zone shizz, as per Mystic’s advice to Cappies.

Thanks for the compliment though! I think I needed to hear something nice about my weird ways today (it’s the last day of having Saturn’s butt parked on my Moon for another 28 years or so, woohoo, partay!) x

Tee
Tee

What does this mean for the creativity / Art side of Venus? I’ve got natal sun and venus in Sag, and am totally feeling an upsurge in inspiration…. but I want to stay on the good side of Neptune, too. Ideas?

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Channelling this energy into art and creativity (as opposed to say being a LZ or Blue Devil Hootchie fiend) IS staying on the good side of Neptune… work it!

Tee
Tee

Sweet, thanks!

Centaurus
Centaurus

Hahaha.. that would be spot on!!

There be zero chance I’ll even consider, no matter how fleeting, anything of the sort even with Venus arriving in my sun.

Focus is on any and many other things and all irrespective of how insignificant, fleeting or indulgent, are a whole lot better than that epic backward step. Besides.. I feel a yawn coming on.. it’d all be so predictable.

Pegasus
Pegasus

OMG that is the Mother Crystal!
WHERE is it Cenaturus?

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I thought it was a statue with its arms outstretched and a shroud over it (and got scared).

Tell us everything! What is it?

calypso
calypso

ha, me too!

Andromeda
Andromeda

I believe it is Crystal Castle in Byron?

shiniest
shiniest

im going there on sunday ! 🙂 its heaven and in mullimbimbo not Byron

Centaurus
Centaurus

Mullembimbo? Say it ain’t so! Haven’t been for so that’d be a sad outcome as I really like that town. However I am choosing to click my heels and will this to be a typo. Ahhhh that’s better 😉

Centaurus
Centaurus

Indeed it’s just out of Byron and this one is just off the eatery… been on my phone forever so I thought I’d change it up a bit. There are also lots of amythst geodes and they are taller than I in some cases. Not to mention other lovely surprises along the walks in their gardens. PS for some reason I let go of my tongue briefly, like it needed a good morning stretch… at the double Saggi at work.. he and I have some interesting vibe which could be said to like and repel. Grrrr.. note to self, this… Read more »

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