Virgo and Virgo? Double the chic composure or non-stop pickiness? Mystic advises a woman who has begun dating another Virgo.
I am becoming more Virgo, and as any person of my Sun Sign would attest, that’s a terrifying thing.
I have been seeing a Virgo man for a few months He also has Moon in this sign. So I get it’s like looking into a mirror and seeing your own faults/skills/talents and he is working his Virgo Vision just fine. he’s not the problem, it’s me. This is having a very odd effect of making me hyper Virgo. Virgo on steroids. Or after a vitamin B injection.
I now have not only lists but lists of lists. I can’t sleep thinking of what needs to be done on those lists. My house/office space/appearance/existence is being scrubbed and polished to the nth degree. Everything is now declared ‘clutter’, even the cat (I obviously won’t hurt the cat, but my god is he messy).
Is this normal in couples astro? He seems totally fine, in fact, impressed, with my mania, the more the better. I, on the other hand, think there should be a rehab program specifically designed for one person’s astro ramping up the other’s.
Please tell me this is normal and will plateau eventually?!
The Accelerated V Woman
Dear Accelerated V Woman,
Virgo and Virgo hype one another up into being more, well, mercurial and analytical. But could it be that you’re finally able to relax and go Deep V?
It is normal for a person you’re bonding with to enhance or aggravate various bits of your natal chart. If his (say) Pluto is on your Mercury, being with them is like having a constant Pluto-Mercury transit.
But as for your super-hyped Accelerated Virgo Syndrome, what’s the problem here? Sure i speak as a Mars in Virgo woman who finds shredding therapeutic and decluttering cathartic. I make lists to achieve a more mindful Zen serenity.
Also, it is better to have a partner turned on by you being organized as opposed to you being drunk or hysterical, is it not? You know, there are plenty of lovers out there who prefer you anesthetized or disempowered.
My tips for learning to live with A.V.S.
* Don’t so much declutter the cat as have the cat up to date with worming, vitamins and vet visits. If the cat goes out at night, join one of the new study groups where they put a camera on their collar. You can analyze your cat’s nocturnal movements via catcam. Feline tracking is the new frontier of e-stalkery.
* You can NOT let your lists of lists of lists fetish interfere with your precious power-sleep. Get a grip on this by reminding yourself that quality sleep makes you MORE not less productive. Innovate the listing process so that you feel you can let-it-go, trusting that the data and tasks are still there. An interactive whiteboard?
The relationship may manifest as self-acceptance and amazing vim in mutual projects. But I would not like to witness an argument between you two – Virgos in conflict zing out hideously observant little bon mots. And it’s never nice to have your pronunciation corrected mid-rant.
What does everyone else think?