Cool Yule

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If you’re a subscriber, you’ll know that this cool Yule ain’t nothing – it’s ALL about the Plutonic Full Moon of the 28th.

Churn every emo, realization or security concern back into THAT (see below post) for best results. Meanwhile…the Moon is in Gemini, Mars Void in late Capricorn (father/patriarchial issues lol) and some impetus for major change is falling into place behind the scenes.

That would be the Saturn-Pluto sextile, star of my Horoscopes at the moment.Β  Anyway, how y’all doing?

 

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ArienScorp
ArienScorp

My Yule was indeed cool. Very nice holyday time with fam and friends. A comment fight up there above! All perspectives are valid since it’s all just a matter of which direction you’re standing in… Getting grumpy is so informative about personal issues. Lightbulb going on. Happy fabulous new year to all.

andromeda
andromeda

Dear MM may I ask if is there a particularly good Moon for bathing crystals in the moon light?
I sometimes think that there are good full moons and rather tricky full moons.
Would it be to do with aspects to the moon if it were good or bad for crystal bathings?

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Great comment re earth v other elements MM! Worth considering for sure. Andy, something just occurred to me and though initially it might seem to be complicating things I wonder if it depends on the crystal? Clear quartz any time generally.. crystals for shadow work on full moons with certain house placements that are valid or depending on the energy of that crystal, so if it’s one that works moon energy then any moon generally or if it’s one that works sun energy perhaps better in a full moon in a fire sign, one that works emotional body then a… Read more »

andromeda
andromeda

Yes, I agree intuiting is best once you get past the need for lots of structure. I try to keep it real by obeying the basic laws of any system as it is easy to get a little arrogant and whups! though. So, I guess I am just feeling a little like my crystals need some attention, but I have always wondered if there were some moons were more earthly cleansing moons, or if aspects to Taurus or Venus or Virgo or Cancer were important etc. Now I realise why people use salt in crystal form with water too –… Read more »

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

I think it’s exactly that, some do prefer the sun, running water and intention is enough for others or even a smudge if they’re quite dense with energy. I think also rest for the workers eh.. we have a weekend and time off breaks πŸ™‚ But there is something spesh about a moon cleanse that the other ways don’t offer and it’s visible after, y’know more clarity in the crystal etc. I’m not sure that one is easy to articulate and I like the mystery of things so won’t attempt it either lol. Agree, salt and moon are the basics… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

There you go, you know! I was selling tea to China & ice to Eskimos πŸ™‚

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Not at all πŸ™‚

I’m not sure these theories have any merit but just started downloading and it’s interesting so I might actually pay some attention instead of running on instinct.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

The sun is by far my favorite disinfectant. Not for crystal work, per say, as I haven’t worked with crystals. But for everything and anything. Its one thing I lament about where I currently live – we don’t get much sun here. In Morocco, its easy to clean yourself with light.

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Yep, sun is something I value as well particularly for energising.. almost like a battery recharge.

We get a lot of it here. Sometimes it’s actually too much and I love the overcast grey and the rare opportunity to take of the sunnies.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

This astro seems to be having a negative effect on the community engagement here. Hope it passes. We’re acting WAY too much like family πŸ™‚

Uranus delivered me money today as predicted on days MM said to look for omens. Closed on my housing refi (finally) and got a holiday bonus. Have a killer headache. “Mom” has got to be the most over used word in all languages. My girl is sleeping now and so will I. Good night and blessings to you all.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Full Moon usually has this effect on the reader-writers here, the ebbs ‘n flow.
Someone above needs to wash their mouth out with soap, perhaps learn to spell first – claim the word in all it’s power.
Sweet dreams Mom πŸ™‚

Anonymous
Anonymous

I know it’s weird, have had the most lovely week with no stress at all and then suddenly the only emo strangeness was all go here in the most unexpected way. Am chalking this one up to experience. You live and learn.

catfish moon
catfish moon

sigh…..finally got my period this morning after a very long intense PMS. Seriously wondered if I was pregnant, especially with this full moon falling on my boyfriend’s nodes and the sun in my 5th house. But no. Lots of thinking though. His dreams got really intense last night, with him trying to lead me along, me being afraid, not wanting to go. So true. But other than that, things are good. My hormones were awful and I felt like I was losing my mind. I still have more work than I can handle but am spending so much money on… Read more »

catfish moon
catfish moon

Plus I have too many emotions, insecurities, etc. Gets old.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

This morning I have allowed myself one expression of anger towards my pass-agg in-denial gay husband. He once gave me a ‘costume’ that he liked me to wear, in fact it was the only thing that ever really lit his fire. Don’t get me wrong, I am all for a bit of production (Leo rising lol), but I mean he could only ever do it when when I didn’t look like me. I’ve just cut it up and left it on his bed. I think I will throw it in the bin so he will see it but in typical… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

x…Huge x…and an O…

Signed my beautiful Lbran, Toro Moon, Gem risings gdaughter Xmas card…

“Nani loves you forever and ever”..and I do…

Yes, new year coming luv…I’m going to make the best of it and suspect you might also. x

.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Thanks babes x
It will be fine… there’s a good plan, loads of support and quite a bit of magic getting me through, so thankfully my bunny-boiling moments are few πŸ™‚
Sheesh it felt good tho’. Mars in Virgo…I have top quality, well sharpened scissors πŸ™‚

Ms.
Ms.

Mystic, I am reading your daily mystic as I am drifting. So so spot on. Like oxygen right now in space

Anonymous
Anonymous

ergh, I thought I’d sail through the upcoming full moon madness unscathed, but now popping up on the horizon is uberscorp with a seductive invitation for the full moon time. I told him last week I’m not going to try to make another go at things ’til the new moon in January. We can discuss matters before then, but, well, to be blunt, my legs are shut until then. What does he now do? He hints at special treats. My thoughts are getting woozy, my resolve is getting weak. Why can’t this be easy?

Pegasus
Pegasus

Desire is never easy, the energy resides in the lower belly
where we assimilate what we take in physically & emotionally, permeates every cell, extraordinary but can be complicated.I liken it to a deep ocean where all sorts of
interesting life forms exist the deeper you go.

Ms.
Ms.

pluto is on alright.

Ms.
Ms.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Projection is something to be very aware of. It takes some real mindfulness. Didn’t realise i was doing it for many moons, in my work with peoples and personal truths vis a vis universal truths, and the wisdom to know the difference between them. To understand that it is ONLY an opinion that much is filtered through and the differences between re-action & response and when to respond and not react. Detachment is sublime actually. Wealth is health and i wish it for everyone here. Sweetpea EAT YOUR GREENS! Your diet sounds synthetic. Don’t argue with me i’m older πŸ™‚… Read more »

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

Good advice Pegs!

I have never owned or used a microwave and nor will I – EVER!!! They creep me out. I have an irrational loathing of those heat boxes. Must be my Virgo stellium.

Thus spake another Cap Asc + Saggo moon πŸ™‚

Anonymous
Anonymous

Love to you pegs.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Thanks Pegs, I’ve thought about your words and you are as usual right, winged sage. I realised I’ve been projecting because I’ve had friends who have had addiction issues and I was relating to another in the manner that the people I have known were comfortable with. I’ll be en guard not to make the same mistake again. Detachment? πŸ˜€ Consider it done. Have a great New Year x

sweetpea
sweetpea

ha Pegs. No I never eat junk food as rule…Just this holiday did indulge some.. Normally no carbs, lots of salads, raw nuts, etc. Back on my normal plan tomorrow! I did lose 55 pounds this year afterall…But thank you for your concern…x

RachΓ© (Aqua/Tauri)
RachΓ© (Aqua/Tauri)

Dramatic Christmas…craziness before with finals week, then my grandma died unexpectedly (well..kind of…she was very old but healthy), then I hibernated for a week just trying to level out and de-stress, then started an internship/temp job.

Just resubscribed right now, I’m all antsy, like WHATS GOING ON?!!? Feels weird going even just a week without being astro-informed! ANYTHING Pluto is always extra weird for me, kinda scared but learning to roll with and embrace the dramatic all-or-nothingness of the times…

RachΓ© (Aqua/Tauri)
RachΓ© (Aqua/Tauri)

But, should note….simultaneously the most UN-dramatic Christmas in that everyone seemed to shed their ideal Christmas dreams and just accept it for what it is — a day. Where you chill out and appreciate. Was a nice change of pace and good to see my family be more low-key.

Pegasus
Pegasus

I like you and may adopt you.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Hope your Nana had a good death on a sunny day, grandmothers are very speesh, like teddy bears are.

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

i’m sorry about your grandma, rache. big hugs to you. xoxo

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

xox

Pegasus
Pegasus

The Virgo Voodoo Mamma, did a 7 course dinner for her Aries man & myself last night, waited on us, treated us like treasures. Aries man said during the fresh poached salmon, after she just sat down to enjoy the fruits of her intensive labour that ‘some soya would be good’ but made no move to get it, not even a pretend to move in the hope someone else would get it from the cupboard. Yet BOTH of us stood up to get it as i didn’t want her to move. The fresh blueberries came AFTER the vanilla ice-cream, he… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

fyi, Mystic, spammers having a field day on your DIY Saturn-Astro post right now. Off with their heads!

eleneetha
eleneetha

Three years ago i discovered Mystic Medusa and feel richer, calmer and more suave than ever before. I want to wish you Mystic a wonderful new year and that your wisdom will certainly rub off on me and I am grateful for you!! but about the full moon thing..in my life it is always the week before things get crazy and by the time the full moon gets here, i already know whats up and what has been exposed. This time it was my 16 year old daughter who quietly planned a camp out with some teens in her room..when… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Haha!! I’d feel the same. Mars in Virgo πŸ™‚

Anonymous
Anonymous

Even if you are a prude, it wouldn’t matter! Your house, your rules, especially obvious ones like this. Stay strong, Mom, you’re doing fine! I’ve got a 17-year old son and so know that feeling of “freaking.” There is this internal conflict where you keep reminding yourself that you have to stay calm and in charge, the whole time also dealing with this chaotic reaction of “they’re doing WHAT?” “WHERE?” It’s that intersection of their still-child selves dealing with adult decisions, a messy time and we have to (without forewarning) step in and sort it out. It ain’t easy, but… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

That could very welll be Betty Grable in that Vargas print. True glamour.

Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Damn, this is amazing. Possibly due to advance MM warning, or Zap Zone evolution I have been able to weather a multitude of family shitstorms with my dignity and sense of humour intact. For the first time EVER–no tears this year.

Also the daily scopes are bang-on.

Nonametoomuchair
Nonametoomuchair

Well my moon is Gemini, mars in Capricorn, don’t do Xmas on any level, living my truth don’t need relatives rubbish since 2006, lots of planning, scheming and staying out of car for a rest!

GemStar
GemStar

Dude, I’ve been on your side since the baby cheeses story.

More power to you =0)

Taurean Alchemist
Taurean Alchemist

It was a lovely Christmas for me & my tribe. Lunch (paleo style) with Piscean Sister/Virgo Indie Kid, trip down to the beach to get icecream for the Littles then home in the late afternoon in time to prep a simple meal (more paleo) after which we exchanged gifts. No over eating, no alchohol, no stress.

For Boxing Day I will now pull off a BBQ with the extended fam.

Anonymous
Anonymous

hey TA, whatevs here. you know reading your words makes me think you are having some good jupiter action, it’s just that it’s about something other than material abundance. Much love to you and your family – give pegs a hug from me when you see her x

Taurean Alchemist
Taurean Alchemist

Thanks Whatevs – you are right of course πŸ™‚ xx

Pegasus
Pegasus

WHATEVS! this Christama has been all about friendships, lasting abiding friends who have been by you & around you if not always seen or heard, a loyalty buzz πŸ™‚

Oneironaut
Oneironaut

Merry Christmas/holidays everyone! Strangely, with a relatively emo-free Christmas out of the way, this boxing dAy feels like the real New Year’s Day … I feel ready for the phoenixing after processing the whirlwind of that November eclipse. Remembered my dreams for the first time in weeks last night, and (ok possibly influenced by ham and champagne overload) they were a crazy jumble, but I think they told me a friend is pregnant. In real life, someone close to me is having a series of breakdowns and continuing to make bad life choices, drama overload, meanwhile, against the odds, I… Read more »

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Agree, I only said that it felt like the end of the year yesterday and it may as well be… so today is the first of the new.

Oneieonaut
Oneieonaut

Hi-five to our new year πŸ™‚

Anonymous
Anonymous

went to a garden party ate way too many sweet crap things then this man who looks good sits down and glances at my plate piled with sickening cakes with some kind of chocolate all over it i cant eat it and why? why did i wear a drab dress then this man strides towards me with a smvg look on his face followed by a confident pretty chick like they had been having sex he not even good looking my leo friend said he had the right look the long hair etc so i am looking forward to staying… Read more »

GemStar
GemStar

cute poem

you should write a slim novel in first person verse just like the above

I want to find out what happened next to the narrator of that poem

=)

Anonymous
Anonymous

thanks gem!!
i wish to get into writing at school
i trying to lose weight and get a life
i also banged on the door like a crazy person
landlord not even want to talk to me
i was irrational and he is ta-ras
they close the door

Anonymous
Anonymous

Christmas Day was really nice here in Melbourne – weather, food, wine and company were all good, not too much. Spent away from my own family but with a portion of best friend’s family…my friend, his niece and her boyfriend.

MB
MB

doing great! it’s this Cappy’s birthday. lots of wine and dark chocolate to help me forget everyone’s obsession with the overlying religious holiday

MB
MB

well since I live in the states, it’s still the 25th.

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Many many roaring solar returns! Happy birthday πŸ™‚

GemStar
GemStar

Happy Birthday ! Glad you had a good one. Where i spent (my very lovely) Christmas, was a non-alcoholic two days! For the hosts religious reasons =) !! On Xmas day I could have really done with a drink. To make it worse two of the men decided they were allowed to drink and drank beer right in front of me and never offered me one. I have never claimed to want to not drink at Xmas time. So I envy you the red wine, but i had a lovely time and did not eat too much and did not… Read more »

libragal
libragal

Had a great day with all the family (parents, aunts, uncles & cousins). Its great to see we are all so close. Family is something I am very grateful for. Wishing everyone on MM a safe, prosperous and kick-aas 2013 xo

libragal
libragal

Sorry – that should be kick-arse 2013.

GemStar
GemStar

like the Aussie spelling =)

Cheers, and back at you

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Alone this Christmas which isn’t unusual for me. I honestly enjoy this time even during this holiday. I am having fun, met a new friend, was invited over for dinner that I think I might go to and enjoying my spirit of being alone and celebrating Christmas. It’s like I love having the freedom to do this without worrying about what someone thinks. I have a feeling I will be dealing with some drama soon but I hope he is having a great Christmas as he should. Staying true to the “signs” or “emo” that I am dealing with. It… Read more »

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

Christmas overwhelms me, sometimes being alone or going on a retreat appeals to me.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Hi Scorp.. I agree and understand! Right back atcha with the holiday wishes. All the best to you! xo!

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Am I right in remembering you’ve moved recently?

It can be a weird ol path that one, one minute you’re clear and happy with your decision and then in come others projections along wth second guessing and sometimes even overthinking.

Can be like trying to shake sand out of your clothes… little bits get hidden or stuck.

Sounds like you’ve done your authentic self and also doing the reinvention thing that seems to be our times.

πŸ™‚

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Hi Scorched.. yes. I moved back to where i started and I Thank God that it happened. I am so happy where I am. But with the Holidays passing I felt a little stuck. I feel more alive back where I am. Yes, I feel like I am shedding some snake skin. Staying to true to myself and hoping 2013 will be more encouraging. How could it not be after everything positive that has occurred since October 12th when Scorpio left my Libra (12th a and 1st house) and when I gave my resignation to start a new job, more… Read more »

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Congrats on rolling with the changes so well and staying in your power.. which imo has naught to do with the highs and lows of feelings nor whether we miss someone or not. These things will happen regardless but if we’re following our path it gets harder to turn around and go back to some things or people no matter how much we may desire. It’s that evolve or evaporate thing isn’t it. It’s not so much true that we don’t have choice/s but when one knows that one kind of choice doesn’t serve then it can feel like there… Read more »

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Thanks Scorched!!! I can’t wait to look back and say “what was I thinking at that time. I feel so much better”… yes, it is a process and I am so glad this site is available to get confirmation.

Wishing you the best 2013 year ever! xo!!

Lib_life
Lib_life

I spent my first Christmas (and said dogs) on my own, for myself! It was my chioce and a fabulous empowering experience! To do things when I wanted and not be concerned with other peeps expectations or wheatever else!! I say go you good Virgo Ellie!! I am inspired having the time to contemplate and be creative for myself and to share in the follow-up of those things that one has creatied!! Cool Yule is in the groove and 2013 is going to be a fabulous year!! I can feel it in my bones!! I am so bless beyond my… Read more »

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Hi Lib.. I guess this means you are a Libra? I have mine rising so I look to Libra qualities / change more than Virgo.

Glad to hear your experience being alone during the Holidays was empowering. I love that word.

Wishing a great new year for you! xo!

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

It has been an incredible Christmas.. alone. I met a great new friend, just home from spending time with her and her family and hopefully have someone to hang out with to be social in a way. She is a good soul. I also got an incredible compliment from out of the blue from a HS friend. She sent me a note saying how inspiring I am being so indepedent. I started crying because there are days for me where I sometimes think there is something wrong with me. But there is nothing I can do. I feel empowered and… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I’ve been feeling quite septic. Emailed my little sister about 2 weeks ago to ask her if she wanted to come with me to scatter our dad’s ashes next time she was in the vicinity, and due to the fact I’ve mentioned this a few times over the past few years and never got a response to any email I mentioned his ashes in, I said if she didn’t want to join in that was fine and that I wouldn’t think any worse of her. (Probably the wrong thing to say, but I just need to know where she stands… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Sorry, TMI and not enough paragraphs. I’ll blame Jupiter for that too. Fat bastard.

Anonymous
Anonymous

This is a hard situation you’re in and I don’t have much to say that could help except I hope it works out. Have you considered dividing the ashes and sending her some so she can deal with it in her own way? Or is that macabre? (I’m a Libran with scorpio moon and neptune : ) I’m not sure what the protocol is with ashes but that’s what I’d do, then you both get to have your own good-bye – or is it better to support each other and do it together? Have you considered telling her you need… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I don’t find that macabre at all (almost half a chart in Scorp here), in fact it’s a practical option I offered at one stage (despite the fact that would be going against my dad’s specific wishes as to how he wanted his ashes dealt with – he didn’t even want her to know he was about to kark it, let alone have me send her some of his remains to deal with as she pleased), but I got no reply to that idea either, so since then I thought fuq it, we either send either him off together, or… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

this is hard and I have nothing to say that will change it for you but I do think that your efforts are so very noble and compassionate.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Saturnalien, it may help to treat these as two different relationships you’re dealing with. One is with your father. The other is with your sister. Break them a part a bit. Both require healing, but I am not sure they will go quite together. You can your sister have other issues to work on, I sense, separate from him. Maybe give those some space? Just an idea to, I hope, help loosen the knot.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Did you try calling her? Harder to avoid saying you didn’t ask when she is on the line. If the wisdom you share here is any indication of how you carry yourself in life than I am certain you are doing much better than you realize. Blessed holidays to you!!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Yes, Saturnalien, what 12th house says. It’s a bitch of course that all this burden is placed on you, but if you really want a clean slate, then you should call her. Otherwise, she’ll claim she didn’t get your emails. (I know how those pass-ag minds work unfortunately, having been a friend to one previously. The classic example is where I would ask her where she would like to go eat; she said she didn’t care; I would pick a place; then she wouldn’t want to go there because it was too far/expensive/crowded/pick an excuse. Then she would demur from… Read more »

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

I have way too many friends in my life who pull the same thing and I have moved on without them. If it’s too much a hassle to hang out then we’ll just stay acquaintances online instead.
Not sure what is the motivation of a person who pulls this or not. Too wishy- washy? control freaks?
It annoys me to no end and tried of taking charge then later getting blamed for it.
Good luck!

Anonymous
Anonymous

hey, do you mind me asking you some questions about this so I can hear how this works from a scorpio perspective? I am in a similar situation but I am not the scorpio. The scorpio is the one who is always trying to make things happen and I don’t understand what motivates them to constantly need to fill time with activity. It seems like there is no room for air. I find it really exhausting and I don’t know how to deal with it. Are you a mid-70s scorpio? Can you please help me to understand this – it… Read more »

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

I only have Scorpio Rising. I am not big on event planning nor huge events in general in fact I am quite happy having one on one meet-ups over lunch, coffee or a beer, cocktail. What’s your Scorpion’s signs besides Sun signs? Maybe Leo or an extroverted sign? and your sign? You could tell your friend that you are more of an introvert or need lots of quite time to finish your projects, but when you have time you’d love to catch up with her. Just continue to be friendly, stay in touch online even just briefly and meet when… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

thank you – it’s nothing like the pay check or stand up friends – that’s really awful I would never do that. I guess the more I think about it what it boils down to is she won’t try to see it from someone else’s perspective. So you don’t sound like her at all. But I appreciate your answer.

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

I am sorry you are having this problem with her. If you are really close just be 100% honest that you busy and need time to work on projects at home but you appreciate her invites.
Hopefully, she has a group of other friends to hang out when you are busy.

Anonymous
Anonymous

if she has a mac and uses the latest version of mail she may not have got her emails…

GemCrab
GemCrab

Sorry to hear about the familial stress but I echo what everyone else said. You need to be exhaustive in trying to contact your sister just to avoid anyone saying in the future, “but you never ….” It’s a pain, a total pain, but it’s for the best. After that, in my opinion, you have carte blanche to move on with your plans of laying your father to rest.

GemStar
GemStar

No you do not have carte blanche! There is more than just you to consider. When I had some major familial losses I was numb for three years on the topic. Grief etc came up strongly later when I was strong enough to handle it, had other systems in place by then. Don’t burn any bridges over this. I like the splitting the ashes in half idea if you are in a big rush for your own issues. And just lay off judging your sister when you give her her half. Just lay off judging her for being different to… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Sorry, I just saw this so I’ll respond to it to set the record straight and then I’ll STFU. Actually I DO have carte blanche. On my dad’s instructions, his ashes were released to me with specific instructions for what he wanted done with them, which didn’t include splitting them with anyone, or her having anything to do with them. He didn’t want her to know he was sick and was about to die, he didn’t want to say goodbye to her, he didn’t want to leave her anything in his will (I tried to convince him that this was… Read more »

Gemstar
Gemstar

Yes, you know what to do in your situation. Absolutely.

Emotive posts tho usually draw responses from other people’s experiences and it usually takes more posts before all details come out. Couple of my responses were a bit emotive too, defending the seemingly judged person, I have already apologised for that.

*support* Peace.

Gemstar
Gemstar

Happy to apologise again though. Had a nerve touched, responded more emotively than i ever have, didn’t mean to offend. (check my history here, it’s not like me). Wasn’t expecting all this. I guess there was a family flashpoint for me after all. Sorry again Saturnalien.

Ms.
Ms.

you do what you gotta do babe. you have your head screwed on even if others want to play it different. you did the right thing and you know your situation. xx

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

Registered letter? I would so it can’t be brought up in the future against me.

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Avoidance is an old friend of denial and they’re both masterful at pain releif or not getting too close to the ‘thing’ that causes discomfort . I don’t think the ‘thing’ is you. I can well see that there is lots more to this than just what’s happening now but maybe your sis is not avoiding you but avoiding something else way tougher to look at from her own view? Maybe there is lots of guilt or regret or running etc? Not saying that to allow more space for her to wiggle as you do need to balance responsibility in… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Thanks everyone. Yes, I’ll definitely have to call her (when I locate my old phone with her number stored in it) before I go ahead with anything. It just shits me that I have to go chasing shit up at the best of times, let alone in this situation. Despite some fall outs and living in different worlds, I really like my little sister and gave her the benefit of the doubt after dad’s death but this whole situation is making me wonder if I was stupid to have done that, and if now she’s kicking back thinking “haha sucker”,… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

What sign is your sister? Just curious

Anonymous
Anonymous

SA, Pi here – I am sorry about your dad. I was wondering if your little sis simply doesn’t know what she wants to do re your dad’s ashes or how / wheen she wants to do it. This is me simply putting myself into her shoes, where I find that I can only deal with losing my dad one little tiny bit of reality at a time. So I guess she truly doesn’t care, or she simply can’t deal with what yoy’re asking of her so has gone off-planet re this. You know, feelings running deep. Would it hukeep… Read more »

GemStar
GemStar

EXACTLY! What’s the rush? Its not worth destroying your sisters psyche over. Let go of the “supposed to’s”. In your head on this issue. They are imaginary and maybe selfish. Sorry SA, someone has to play Devils Advocate πŸ™‚

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I wasn’t planning to destroy my sister’s psyche, in fact I’ve been going out of my way to do just the opposite for a very long time.

Anonymous
Anonymous

I’m sorry Saturnalien

I have deep regrets about how some of my sisterly interactions went down, and I sounded very much exactly like you do in your posts, and I fumed at my sisters behaviour ( sounds similar to your sis) and it was just SOOO unnecessary, in my opinion, now that I have more wisdom and experience.

Might be different to your situation, but I thought an alternative perspective may be of some use to you.

Again, apologies.

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

You’re wise woman and you’ll get a glimpse of the thread that leads you to the right path I’m sure.

It can just be a sh!t that right rarely = comfortable.

Very welcome x

GemStar
GemStar

Don’t call people slack just because they process and prioritize on a different timetable and in different style to yours.

GemStar
GemStar

I don’t mean to sound harsh, Saturnalien, apologies if I did. But I personally have been guilty of the judging and labelling of family members – it taps into all the past BS, and I see that coming out in your post. One needs someone to point out that our speedy, organised, reliable way of doing things (or whatever adjectives apply that make you feel hard done-by and calling her names in your post) is not the only way. Doing it differently is not the end of the world, the other person is not this unnameable bad (usually), and it… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Given that you don’t know any of the background to mine and my sisters situation, I don’t think you can say you’ve been in both our shoes. If I was out to destroy my sister, she’d have been mincemeat long ago. I have no intentions of making this situation worse for anyone, I’m trying to do my best under trying circumstances. I was merely having a rant as the current astro applies to my situation, I don’t need random strangers rubbing salt in my wounds right now. Sorry, advice declined. I feel you’ve just projected some of your personal experiences… Read more »

GemStar
GemStar

More of a community member than a random stranger I hope.

Some of us on here sometimes come from a different perspective.

We both had a nerve touched, I think. I definitely had a nerve touched, sorry for offence caused.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

No worries, I’m not getting my knickers in a knot over it, I just wanted to state my case for the record, and move on.

GemStar
GemStar

THanks

Anonymous
Anonymous

That you would have in your own words “made mincemeat of her” is telling of a control issue you have perhaps, maybe ? There are some people in this world who never will fit in with their “family of origin” and then there is the “extended family” energy that piles on as well. Perhaps the moment your sister started individuating she realized how incredibly lonely she has been, isolated her entire life, the only way to survive was to leave, find people more like her that she can grow with. Why don’t you just do what your father asked you… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Anon where have you layed your heart and soul on the line here with all your posts?

Great at giving advise and projecting your take on things…

I could have easily made mincemeat of peeps trice times over but its called RESTRAINT…and emotional discipline…Has to do with recognizing could easly exercise that control but DIDN’T

so bored with you babe…

sweetpea
sweetpea

That family shit you talkin’ about is your issue whateves…

Like I said, projecting…

Sorry Myst…silent until after New Year…x

Full Moon in Scorp coming much? lol

Pegasus
Pegasus

KATAKA full moon, both water anyway…..

sweetpea
sweetpea

Yeah Pegs, got the Plutonic mixed up with Scorp..x

Pegasus
Pegasus

How easy is that!
x

sweetpea
sweetpea

not very lol..x

sweetpea
sweetpea

er.an very lol

Anonymous
Anonymous

these posts aren’t whatevs!!!!

It’s the Gemini who explains their comments below. Maybe don’t jump to conclusions Sweetpea. As hard as that may be for you.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Whomever…and no need to get the dig in babe

You just gave it away right there……

Anonymous
Anonymous

Oh Sweetie this is very sad. I hung with you on the other post and tried to steer you to the astro to occupy time and mind because I knew otherwise you would possibly get plastered and go and spend all your rent at the casino. It’s as simple as that – and there’s no judgement in that statement just that I recognised the patterns and triggers. Was observing what you said and responding with astro because I remember some of your chart. It’s OK that you’re not into it and I respected your decision and stopped talking to you… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

funny…

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

My words making mincemeat were in response to being accused of trying to shred my sisters psyche.

I think you should keep your projections and your amateur psychoanalysis speculations of my sister, and her behaviour to yourself.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Fuq to the L lol…

Now back to my Kung Pow with extra peanut…

(don’t think it’s really spelled Pow…but I’m doing cabernet until the New year…dammit..)

Jezus Christ if don’t show up here..which may not, know I’m in spriitual psycho detox..
8th house Moon
x

sweetpea
sweetpea

Fortune Cookie said..

“You take critcism as an opportunity to grow”

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

If you’d read my comment properly, you’d have noticed I referred to both of us as slack.

GemStar
GemStar

I didn’t miss anything important. =)
I responded to the tone and info in your posts as a whole.

You don’t need to take it on board. Sometimes when we post a response the benefits are verbalising our own hard won lessons. Sometimes its what the original commenter needs, sometimes not. But it does come from a desire to help each other.

I’m not worried about you, you will handle this easily. You probably just needed to vent.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Mystic, if you are reading this, could you please delete this entire thread. I didn’t intend for my rant to turn into a fuqing circus sideshow. Sorry.

Ms.
Ms.

i’ve been on here for a couple of years now and there is very annoying thing with posting now where it’s become a bit of a joke to post things about emotions to the group because the group used to be a very different beast as is the nature of ‘advice’, I thought you were perfectly obvious in your intent and I find the exact same frustration when more respect and forethought in responding would go a long way.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Thanks a bunch for the validation Ms, seriously much appreciated. You so fuqing get it. xxx

Lesson learned. I will stop questioning my communication skills (and my sanity), and revert back to my regular shallow and occasionally witty posts from now on.

sweetpea
sweetpea

No honey, do not revert! Except when needed pure survival…xo

Love ya…

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Thanks for having my back doll xxx

sweetpea
sweetpea

Your welcome sweetheart. Some crazies comin’ outta here all over the place…Lots of pass-agg. x

golden green
golden green

there’s also a lot of peeps here who seriously need to get a life! They get way too involved with people here they don’t even know!

Sure some people like to shoot the breeze but they’re not necessarily looking for advice or commentary.

I seriously don’t get the giving of advice when it’s not asked for. Not online OR in real life!!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I have no life except the one I am living, of course. I appreciate the advice and commentary I get here. Even the “off” comments are illuminating.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I mean,if I didn’t want to hear it from others, I wouldn’t share.The idea that people share with rules around what gets shared back seems odd. Tell othersto fuq off or keep quiet but…to bash the community seems unjust

andromeda
andromeda

In life, as on this blog, I think there is a real polarisation between folks who like to ‘shoot the breeze’ and those who regard issues as collaborative concepts. (Myer Briggs have labels for this surely). As a person who regards my emotions as concepts mostly, I enjoy advice. (Though I didn’t enjoy the advice Gemstar gave and was about to write wtf at the comments when Saturnalien dealt herself). When I see a comment here I usually think people are hoping for some feedback – or why would they write it in the first place? Certainly the advice can… Read more »

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Yes, this!

Anonymous
Anonymous

I have a lot of thoughts that could become comments running through my mind right now. I won’t write them all as they’re probably not valid in the overall context but I will say that I can imagine I might be affected by this too since it amped up and of course felt compelled to reply even if I didn’t want to on another level. Don’t let that be a concern to you SA. Typed tone is important too imo. And I’ve not always got it right I’m sure but as time has gone on around here and I’ve got… Read more »

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Crap.. that was Scorchy.. def don’t need to be anon in my reply x

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

Haha, there I was thinking, “oh, fuq, not another anon comment, I should probably stop reading”. Just for the record, as someone who makes an effort not to give unsolicited advice (not always successful), I tend to specify if I’m after advice, opinions, viewpoints, whatever. Having said that, I realise that the majority of people don’t think like I do (I’m one of those 5% Myers Briggs types… since Andy brought it up) and I fully expect that I’m going to get opinions and viewpoints when I post my shit on a public forum whether I ask for it or… Read more »

Scorchy
Scorchy

I know.. another anon! I was like.. damn!

Oh for sure.. I agree with what you’ve said and well articulated.

Also think the ‘dismay’ comment is probably accurate and initially I think I just probably felt that in a general sense and had no words.. and then wanted to say something…

Know you to be direct but fair and wasn’t concerned about where I stood with my comms (lol this time.. but who knows yah.. best intents etc..or 5%er ;)).x

andromeda
andromeda

Totally agree with your clarity of voice here Saturnalien. I also see that sometimes (not judging what you said or Gem either) that there can be passive agg comments that are masquerading as luv ‘n’ lite, which is annoying.
That is very interesting about the Myer Briggs thing! Ha. I was on a very alt. conspiracy forum & every 2nd poster was INFJ which I found curious.

Didn’t mean to sound critical of you in any way btw just drawn in by the convo…’cos I do give a firetruck about both the blog & your thoughts.

Saturnalien
Saturnalien

I didn’t read you as being critical of me (with Mars on my Mercury for the past week, you probably would have heard about it if I did :P)

Just for the record, I’m INTJ (rarest type for female to be apparently)… don’t hang on conspiracy forums, but I do quite enjoy reading conspiracy theories! (I think that’s a Scorp thing though…)

andromeda
andromeda

Oo-er, I never met an INTP I didn’t like – ENFJ here, lol.

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

I was cool until last night when a phone talk unintentionally managed to unearth all kinds of conflicting emotions. To be honest, Mystic’s blog is the first time I am coming out of my shell today. It happened before, surely I am diving into another gold/coal/dirt mine. good luck with FM everyone, haven’t seen that this one carries a zing for me

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Nothing beats solo time and retro-inspection during FMs. The mines one digs, the dirt and diamonds one unearths.. Thanks Mystic, dailies helped to stay on track πŸ™‚

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Dear Mystic,

I have been searching ebook version of your books, such as Sun Signs and Soul Mating, or Mystic Medusa: Scorpio, or Soul Mating. When available, they are in hard cover format.

I don’t know about copyright issues, but is there anyway to have these books in ebook format? We have been getting heaps of information, training on the blog but I would love to read your books as well.

TY!

Pi
Pi

So moon in sky is near Jupes right now, what’s the other planet if it’s not Venus? Clear skies where I am. Orion writ large too.

Porkchop
Porkchop

thank f*ck i can stop (over)eating now. lol. i’ve been chowing down like i’m a family of four since i finished up work for the year two weeks ago. weird holiday stress it seems. chilling out with dvds the next few days. ice cream replaced by cherries.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Family of four ~ Lol!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Nothing cool in QLD bur very cool to see a phrase I pinched from a mate’s Xmas card to me, subsequently posted on the previous post up in lights with a cutie pic Myst. That’s cool x I’m doing my asc.. chilled couch time. I haven’t excessively gorged or hoochied or replied to messages that have randomly (but predictably if that makes sense.. intuited weeks ago) dropped in from an ex. Everything has an easy vibe although I’m very in tune and also very focussed but not fixated. When you get a change in the wind you plot your course… Read more »

Scorched Earth
Scorched Earth

Ok.. maybe I’m a little too chilled or would that be vague now??.. ..it’s Scorchy πŸ™‚

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Happy yuletide, everyone… mine has been lovely. Food, wine and laughter. I’ve spent some quiet time congratulating myself on getting through a very tough year. Feeling really optimistic about 2013.

Fishngoat
Fishngoat

This fish is ferling very happy with the cool yule I spent with the fokkers. It’s normally riddled with walking on eggshells, but suprisingly easy this year. Wtf?! However yet another detox awaits after over 9 months of chronic urticaria…and waaay too much rich food over the past week. Super excited about the new moon AND the new year. Bring it! 2012 has NOT been easy. Blergh.

leogroover
leogroover

merry merry yule all groovy MM peeps.Hope it was great day for you al however you celebrate it or not Had a lovely day with my family and flying high after a narly few days.

Mystic Medusa
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