Venus Uranus Oppositions Are Not Normal So Why Try?

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Venus Uranus oppositions don’t care how tired you are or what might constitute a boring ‘healthy choice.’ They’re all about high-vibe rapport and ingenuity.

So half of the astro is like “you’re exhausted, take a rest, seriously sleep or get a carrot juice or something and then tomorrow you can work some more on your pelvic alignment or using your quads less when you cycle. Plus don’t you have some deep psychological shit to ponder?”

And other half is like “party-party-party, there are so many interesting options around within (holy fuq!) walking distance. Or via my keyboard, right? I could change my whole love life/future/whatever in just 24 hours, why wait? First the hairdresser, then something stimulatory and then WHAM: cut-through. Edge. A fresh dynamic. Plus why not send cryptic texts to a whole pile of people? Tantalizing for them, closure for me…”

Venus Uranus Oppositions Are Not About ‘Normal’ So Why Try?

The latter is Venus Uranus – just remember, Uranus is high-end energy, it’s not really about ‘normal’ mate/date. So you don’t take whatever you’re buzzing on now and attempt to turn it into a standard relationship. If you can’t handle that, go with option 1, yes?

Venus Uranus Oppositions last for about a week unless you’re born with one. If that’s the case, you are a walking romantic catalyst and free spirit. You’re not against love or relationships but your threshold for feeling ‘crowded’ is extremely low.

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12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I am freaking out over nothing. I talked to the Feng Shui lady for hours today. She can’t help me – she gives me a lot of numbers, lots of ideas, and I can’t make a decision on what I want. Being mutable sucks. I don’t even know how to try the peach blossom remedy anymore. My head is filled with flying stars mumbo jumbo and none of its clear or resonating with me. I mean, the more you learn, the more you know, the heavier it is to decide which way to go…and there is nothing at stake here…but… Read more »

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

yep. hugs hugs hugs. 🙁

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I feel like Henri, the existential cat: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IiYUzYozsAQ

Anonymous
Anonymous

Awww, hope the ennui lifts soon, 12th house. I just want to give Henri a big, fur-mussing cuddle, knowing that he’d be all frowny and “Mon Dieu- I just groomed that bit!”

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

I LOVE Henri!!! 🙂 That’s what it’s like being a Cap rising!! … well, for me anyway. And a lot worse during my Saturn/Venus transit. This one is my fave!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q34z5dCmC4M Feng Shui is crap and so is the Peach Blossom – which is all about quantity not quality. Not for you from what I’ve read. I’ve tried it all. It’s all a load of rubbish. But hey, don’t listen to me. I’m way too Saturnine to “believe” in wishy-washy, airy-fairy new-age, witchy-poo stuff. I also have a Jupiter/Saturn square, so whenever I DO feel positive or hopeful, Saturn comes… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I did take some self portraits – that’s kind of my sun sign. Moon in 11th Leo. I think my moon is more aqua-11th than Leo, but whatevs. I haven’t exercised in ages. You know how you go so long you just don’t give a shit? That’s me. Phew. Must find willpower!

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

thanks! I didn’t realize there was an Henri episode 3!!! i had only seen the original and #2.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Well…. I suppose most rooms have four corners…… one house I lived in as a child had eight! I guess you just get driven into another corner. I had the same feng shui dilemma… and I’ve never lived alone. So it’s all well and good to have your own bedroom sorted….. but then what about the rest of the dysfunctional house! What if one housemate is extremely dirty and doesn’t even wash herself sometimes and absolutely, vehemently discounts your “astrological, feng shui mumbo jumbo”! Oh….. not to mention that I live in one house 18 days of the month, and… Read more »

anon
anon

please tell us what sign this girl who doesn’t wash is!!! Dying to know 🙂

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

She’s an Aquarius!!!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Sounds like Neptune to me.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

What’s the cure for Neptune?

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Thanks for the support everyone. I know I am in the low Neptunian pit right now and the good news is I’ve been here before, which means I’ve gotten out before. But conversation helps. Asked a friend to talk today. She blew me off all day. I just have to accept she isn’t my friend. I had a list of things in mind to do…I bought supplies but did none of them. Tomorrow! Today, I took a self portrait inspired by Henri. If a cat can have an existential crisis, so can a Virgo…it is funny. Not sure if the… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Testing

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

Fantastic!! I love it!!
Im a big fan of self-portraits too. Haven’t done any for a while…
Neptune conjunct Sun in 10th 🙂

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Thanks! I have a ton of self portraits. Very 12th house sun, I guess. Anyway, I had them up on a wall…made me think of the Bjork song “Army of Me” but Feng Shui lady said it was bad juju to have solitary figures up and I should put a picture of partner on the back. What partner? Pfft. Now they are in a closet, with most of my other non-feng-shui artwork. Not sure this feng shui thing is working out for me, but the lady is nice.

Vuldaen
Vuldaen

This totally explains my complete feeling of bipolar this weekend. I’m torn between chillaxing at home alone with some wine and a few movies etc and smashing it at the gym and going shopping & catching up with people, job hunting, working on me for 2013 etc.

So far I’ve done the first one and now having my 2nd coffee for today to induce the 2nd part. It’s kinda not working though.

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

meh. i’m falling in love with myself and that’s all. romance will happen eventually i’m sure. this is a good night’s sleep talking. also decided to have celebrity crushes- andrew bird was born 6 days after the karmic crab and has the exact same amazing astro that i swear i partially fell in love with him for- the most potent artistic potential i’ve ever seen. so he could easily be andrew bird (and they look and sound really similar and OH the hands… swooooooon) but he’s NOT. reality check. and i checked out atticus ross after seeing the new how… Read more »

twinfishrising
twinfishrising

Minor rant coming up..Andrew Bird is compelling! Although my Cap north node is so irritated by his male maternality and gentle strength that I actually watch him just to observe my mutterings about him, it’s totally weird. I go like a cat watching a bird on tv and slapping it with a paw. Also I have Mars and venus in Kataka. Venus sits there very easily but Mars…????why?? It’s like WTF am i supposed to go out and conquer my patch of the world with a drive to care and nurture as only a mother would? I clearly haven’t mastered… Read more »

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

he has a cap NN too! 7 degrees- pluto exactly on it (3rd pass) right now. wonder how he’s doing with it. certainly some mastery going on! his mars is in aries and venus in leo so under that softness there is quite a bit of drive and desire for glory… hidden very well though. i’m just so taken by his gentle thoughtfulness and beauty on every level, and the kindness he shows to interviewers… those smiling eyes… yes i think he is the ultimate cancer dreamboat. funny that you are attracted and repelled at the same time. perhaps some… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I am sooo with you on dreaming the reality. Its where I’m happiest. Jupiter in 6th house Pisces, my 12th house Venus and Sun point right at him. But I am afraid.And I don’t even know why.

twinfishrising
twinfishrising

Started the day listening to Noel Coward – totally gemininian mercurial lyricist comic…then while walking in the wilds I stopped intuitively , looked to my right to see a giant python lying blissfully in the sun. She/it took up so much room with it’s stripey body ( carpet snake) with a bellyfull of bandicoot – you could actually see the shape of it’s prey in muscle outline- it flattened out a big patch of grass..was so amazingly sublime, gleaming , almost glowing where it lay, drunk on lifeforce- food and sun. I ended the day with some no-strings life force… Read more »

twinfishrising
twinfishrising

make that “strong mercury”…I don’t think string mercury works…

Anonymous
Anonymous

Ha, I don’t know, some cool combo of string theory + astro, I always thought string theory and its variants actually make weird synchronicity and magical foresight totally possible. I really agree about mercury retros having a mystical element. Mercury is my strongest planet overall and ruler of my packed 8th house. . I’ve just had a strangely premonitory dream, right after the oracle said to pay attention to lucid dreams. I love your snake story, its v snakey here at the moment too, spring and all, I’ve seen lovely little common treesnakes with their big goobly eyes literally throwing… Read more »

twinfishrising
twinfishrising

My rather Uranian solution to the tick issue, cos NOTHING IS GOING TO STOP ME TRAMPSING IN THE WILDS, was to shave my long locks off, and wear wigs from now on. Solves 2 probs in one, wryly cunning manner. Image change and easy to find potential ticks on cropped hair. And even longing to have cropped hair again feels a bit Uranian..it certainly feels sensational…but I resisted…sofar..

Anonymous
Anonymous

Good point about strong mercury and retrograding periods and ‘mystical’ experiences. I hadn’t thought of it before. I had a mystical conversation with a person i had never met before today and I thought it the venus-uranus-pluto transit and mystical things happen to me a fair bit. Pluto is opposing my Jupiter in the 12th house and i always have thought of my Jupiter as being an angel and with pluto opposing maybe coming through in meeting people who are mystical and what they have to say to me somehow transforms me.

twinfishrising
twinfishrising

Nice 🙂
Jupiter transiting the house of the soul…anything could happen, but if you dreamt it first it is more likely to 🙂

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

yes, absolutely. merc retros are magickal for sure. i was going to respond to the “mental fast” above but here seems apt… i’ve tried squdillions of times to do this- smoking myself into oblivion- but have come to the conclusion that it’s impossible for anyone with a strong mercury. especially with jupiter in gemini atm. but retros are this lovely time out of time when the subconscious communications overtake the chatter and everything just flows beautifully. or would if we didn’t have technology i guess! LOVE your uranian hair inspiration!! do it!! xoxo

1st house venus
1st house venus

Every Libran born in the Pluto Libra era will have Venus going across their Sun then Across their Pluto and while Uranus opposing their Sun and Pluto, Pluto squaring their Sun and possibly pluto

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

It’s happening. I’m going out tonight!

Please, universal powers at large, just one cute sane guy!?! For keeps.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

good luck!

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Home now. Unfortunately…. No. Haha. A cutie…. Who got my number… I walked away and my friend said “NO! I saw him saying goodbye to his girlfriend at the airport. Look at the back of his calf at his tattoos!”. I’m a bit tipsy right now but it was something about “getting laid” and his kids birthdays. Cool 😐 Saw ex’s company car. Then his workmate. At first I had no idea who the guy was, so I basically said it “you look so familiar but I have no idea who you are” (I’m very blunt. In my industry a… Read more »

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

you were the weapon. omgoddess how shallow and disgusting. fantastic clarity for you though. i imagine you’re mad as hell, and you should be, but think of the power that gives you. are you a machine gun? a sexy switchblade in the night? an atom bomb? own that power and use it to cut all psychic ties with him knowing that if he was playing some kind of bs game YOU WON. level up for you… you are badass chica and you both deserve and will get waaaaay better. DEFINITELY better than guys with calf tattoos too…ewww. xoxox

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Hmmmmm. Generally speaking I think I would be a mega cool weapon…. like a katana. But for the purposes of this exercise I would want to be some sort of toxic gas that slowly seeps in and chokes the life out of their relationsip – imagine having to need a “weapon” to get back with your ex. Mmmmmm, they must have a healthy, trusting relationship free of manipulation…… ;| hahaha.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Oh! But thanks for the luck electric eel libran.

If anything I have fun! Hehe!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

OK, so I so don’t get it. Transiting Pluto is at 7 Capricorn. Natal Venus at 6 Virgo. Astro.com calls this a “conjunction” but isn’t that a trine? Does it matter if its one degree off?

Wait…on second look it that transiting Venus on my natal Pluto at the mo…

Pffftttt….

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Can someone please tell me – how long does Pluto’s transit to a personal planet last? Couldn’t google an answer. astro.com said Pluto trine Venus was last year for me but it feels like it’s still going on.

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

Good question!
Transits are always more powerful when approaching the exact conjunction and you get a feel for what the transit will manifest but with outer planets that move s-o-o-o-o-o s l o w l y, that could be MONTHS! and then there’s the retrogrades too!
So it’s hard to say and I’m still not sure what degree of orb to factor in – 3º ?. Some say to give the outer planets a wider orb – 10º.

I’m sure someone here said something along the lines of “it’s over when you feel it’s over”? Sounds good to me 🙂

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Well, I said I’d go on a thinking fast, but instead I’ve been pondering my Pluto trine Venus transit. Last hit at 6 degrees was Pluto stationing direct on September 18. I think I’m through the thick of it. Its been intense. I’m tempted to write a summary of lessons learned here, but it would be a novel and I don’t think it would make sense or that its entirely done, but its full of mythical crap. Short odd bit – tonight I went to the creek where I’d taken some self portraits under the influence of some major a… Read more »

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

shoot! i had no idea pluto was trining venus then bcos my venus was at 5 deg virgo. and yes early to mid sept was poignant!

thank you for sharing your story 12th house virgo!

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

“You can’t really love someone unless they choose you”

Very true that!

Haven’t tried the paper trick for a crush, nor would I. It’s pointless for a Pluto/Uranus moon Scorp like myself. Besides, I don’t mind having a crush… keeps my heart alive. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality anyway. Especially when you know it will never become a reality.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Ugh! I’ve got to take the name from my freezer. It feels silly and like he has more power or presence over my life by wasting valuable freezer space.

I think that’s the hard part for me right now – I like being in love, even fantasy love. But, I need to focus my energy where its more realistic. Having a HARD time with that of late.

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

Exactly!! by having the name in the freezer, your attention and focus is more on him!

Don’t fight it…. it will pass. One day you’ll wake up and go ‘hey, today is the first day I didn’t wake up with him on my mind” or whatever… 🙂

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Thanks…its happened before, it can happen again 🙂

Maybe one day I’ll wake up with the right guy…

Astro hair
Astro hair

Natal Venus 7 degrees Aries and Uranus opposition at 4 degrees Libra. The current situation with Venus , Uranus is obviously a little closer to me than most. I have to say I am exhausted and have spent days in bed just sleeping. Not a normal thing for a women that runs multiple health practices with Pilates, Gyrotonic, body work etc. Normally would just do a class and get some body work but can’t even be bothered getting out of bed. Please let me back to normal soon

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

You are so onto it Mystic, like you wouldn’t believe – I’ve got a miniseries to write up for my 2012 Year of Neptune conj Asc. The stories I have to tell!! Right now I have t Sun sq n Leo Sun, t Moon conj Venus, Vertex,NN, Mars in Cancer conj; t Mercury conj MC, Jupes in 4th house approaching (well not while Rx) my natal Venus), t Saturn trine ASC/conj Saturn in Pisces, trine n Venus/NN/Vertex/Mars in Cancer; t Uranus is on my POF (2nd house) and prog Asc in Aries and t Pluto is opposing my Moon and… Read more »

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Just read the Daily Mystic- more apt astro – sigh – I just want to be with my Libran but not at any cost. Saturn chic all the way….

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

But what if option 3 *is* your idea of a normal relationship? Pfffftttt…. Had a dream about a name last night. That’s right – just a name. “Stephen” which is not the name I have in my freezer right now. BTW – that old “stick his name in the freezer and you won’t think about him any more” trick didn’t do the trick for me. I know a couple of Steves, but really have no idea who Stephen is. Weekend plans? Juicing, de-cluttering, et al. I am also going on a mental fast – no oracle, no iching, no tarot,… Read more »

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Freezers are turning to be cemeteries 🙂

Here I Virgo Again
Here I Virgo Again

Love the idea of a mental fast. That really jumps out as what I need right now. What a great way of describing it.

Then my my second reaction was “I’ll think about it”. Q.E.D… time to take that break

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

LOL! Mental fasts are HARD but sooo worth it. Good luck!

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Freezer thing didn’t work for me either. After I asked about it and got the reply I remembered it because a mate told me to try it on an ex to get him out of my life.

The ex never went away.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

the freezer doesnt work for me either. that where precious things i want stored for later go like vegan coconut ice cream! so i am always peeking in there.

Older/Wiser Virgo
Older/Wiser Virgo

Mental fast! What a fabulous idea!!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Yup. But WAY easier said than done. I’ve fallen off the wagon about a million times tonight. Pluto – forgive me.

quintile
quintile

agreed re ‘mental fast’ – neat concept tho the line between succumbing and transcendence is so fine its hard for me to observe (in the spiritual sense!).

re the freezer – found it worked very well on a female work colleague who really freaked me out, but took longer for the FWB to whom I got too attached.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

I think I’m doing the sane option! Must be a first, lol. After a couple of small but much needed boosts in non-love areas I’m now focused on academic/work/music/writing stuff. Maybe the leftover Taurus moon vibe with a dose of Saturn but it’s suddenly become all about return on investment – of time, energy and emotion. I’ve tried to pit my wits against the universe, give fate a helping hand blah blah, and it didn’t work. I have no choice but to give up on that for now. Checked out my major transits and I have heavy hitters onside if… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

…and I’ll start just as soon as I’ve had another cup of tea 🙂

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Actually I have just realised I do have a bit of a LZ potential scenario going on… this week I have tix to a concert, one that Mr LZ could be at as it’s one of his faves. I only heard about the concert by accident, and thought, fuq it I really want to see this artist, why should I avoid it because HE might be there? The venue’s plenty big enough. Of course I am wondering – if he sees me, what will he think?? tbh I can’t be fuqed analysing it too much, but will ensure I’m looking… Read more »

Aquaria
Aquaria

I had thoughts like that in the past. Then I decided I cannot be arsed to stop living my life only because other people might think it’s about them.

Pi
Pi

“the journey of a thousand miles begins with a full tank of petrol.”

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Love it Pi 🙂

LOVE ZOMBIE!!!
LOVE ZOMBIE!!!

Question:

I’m having massive love pangs pop up again about a guy I dated like half a year ago. I am ACHING to see him.
I checked out our charts awhile ago and we have saturn on our composite north node.
Fail or potential somehow???Should I get a love zombie tonic?

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Y’know fwiw, in my experience it doesn’t matter what’s in charts or not, if somebody isn’t in your life they’re not in your life and there’s nothing you can do about it. We are obvs all on journeys bigger than we can comprehend and who knows how some aspects between people will ultimately play out. In my own life I hung onto an idea of someone for much longer than was healthy because of the ‘rightness’ of the astrology. I’m not saying the astro isn’t useful – far from it – but if it keeps you stuck, maybe focus on… Read more »

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

right on sister! *thumbs up* 🙂

LOVE ZOMBIE!!!!
LOVE ZOMBIE!!!!

Hey y’all thanks for the advice!!! Here’s the context. Bear in mind that I have been very sensible and have not contacted him at all since we ‘broke up’ around June?? Super attracted to him when we first met in October 2011. Was with one of my best friends (probably the closest friend I’ve had in my whole life, theres a story behind that too) She’s into open relationships and was breaking up with him- no hard feelings there. I told her straight away like a confession that I was super attracted to him, she laughed and said go for… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Be HONEST with him. I’m sorry you have a history of abuse. But if you ever want intimacy in life you are going to have to accept the possibility of hurt and rejection. And still try. You’re no idiot for connecting to someone. But you have to accept the connection to keep it, you know? Maybe it will be ok. At least you tried if it isn’t. You won’t know how strong it is or you are without trying. I wish for the best for you both.

LOVE ZOMBIE!!!
LOVE ZOMBIE!!!

Thank you 🙂
I did be straight up and honest with him when I was seeing him (after a little while). But I guess I didn’t realise how much of a problem it was within myself and how much I needed to deal with it on my own without a ‘partner’.
I don’t think I expressed it properly to him though which is probably why he felt so hurt and rejected. I guess a bit of man-hate was coming out too so not a good thing 🙁
I will try 🙂

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Don’t let past hurt keep you from love now. If he isn’t ready, then you’ll be able to understand because you weren’t ready once. Love is hard, but I am certain it’s the right feeling to keep, no matter what happens. xo

Anonymous
Anonymous

Are you making this up?

LOVE ZOMBIE!!!
LOVE ZOMBIE!!!

Why would I make something like that up??
What a weird thing to say…. And anonymous…typical

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

oh for shit’s sake anonymous grow the fq up and get a realism radar and some balls already

LOVE ZOMBIE!!!
LOVE ZOMBIE!!!

😀

Anonymous
Anonymous

Are you Pisces?

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

You sound gorgeous, and i love that someone so hot and gentle and beautiful has fallen for you. And is obviously wanting to be there for you. Honesty and sensitivity are best. But honesty is not always full disclosure. This is because the boundaries you require respect for may be different from what is tolerable to someone who does not handle the past that you carry with you. Fear is something that can get larger if not faced. Fear can also be a warning that we aren’t prepared. But desire and fear together are natural. Which is stronger? Which will… Read more »

LOVE ZOMBIE!!!
LOVE ZOMBIE!!!

Thank you!! <3 That was very beautiful and deep advice and very poetic. I think I need to sleep on it.
I really appreciate it and many blessings to you lovely one 🙂

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Yes – get a tonic because no astro chart makes a relationship, unfortunately. Two people have to buy into the proposition fully.

leogroover
leogroover

maybe get a new name like LZ in remission or under constrution or like PI closed for renovations ha!

Pi
Pi

🙂

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Really…you haven’t given us enough context. Did you blow him off or avoid or something? Or did he do that to you? Either way, not advisable to act out under aching impulses. Wait it out a bit…no way will knowing the astro chart be THE answer. Communication between you two will.

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

I haven’t really noticed too much in the way of Venus-Uranus energy.. To be totally honest I’m feeling somewhat cynical about the prospect of pleasant surprises in Venusian matters, given the circumstances of my current Venusian situation. I’m open though, and after all a surprise is a surprise, not supposed to see it coming.. As for Venus-Pluto, well Pluto has definitely been a big player for me in recent times, it’s been transits involving Pluto and Chiron that have been most potent so yeah, I can see that one being a bit more intense, but again I’m sitting, feeling a… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I’ve had a Chiron-Venus opposition going on since last May. Pfft…I’ll be so glad when that one’s over!!

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

I hear ya, Neptune + Chiron are doing the opposition thing to my sun, and have been for le age…

If I can point to anything really wearing away at me in regards to these sorts of matters, it’s those two..

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I don’t think any romance gets realized under the influence of a Chiron transit. I had an astro consult done like a year ago. She said the eclipses in Spring 2013 would bring a partner in for me. I was like “What? Wait? Which year? Isn’t the post-apocolypse?!?”

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

Yeah? Can’t say that’s something I find all that comforting right now considering Chirons hanging around in Pisces for another what, 7-8 years?

Chiron is pretty much off opposing my natal Sun by now (1deg Virgo) but still, I’ve definitely had a good supply of the ‘wounded healer’s’ wounding..

Interestingly though, Chiron is currently in trine to my natal Chiron… I’ve been long pondering what influence that may be having.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Well, it CAN’T be aspecting a personal planet that entire time, right? I’ve got it on my Venus now and sometime it will conjunct my Jupiter and eventually oppose my Sun. But…I expect a break in some of those degrees, don’t you?

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

Yeah, definitely. I find the Chiron energy most potent as it makes direct aspects. It can be quite precise.

All direct aspects in recent times co-incide with various heart-centered woundings.. Ouch..

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Yeah, looking forward to having it exact opposition to Venus and then eventually roll over Jupiter…good times, lol! I’m just getting used to living with open wounds.

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

Open wounds is right.. I’ve pretty much just stopped trying to lick them in some attempt at ‘closing’ them..

I’d be lying if I said this wasn’t kinda painful.. All this is a lot to process at the moment, and I’m really quite unsure what to do about it..

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Commenting up top because it was getting small down there… Its Chiron. It hurts like hell. I actually – twice now – have had visions with the inner-child of romantic interests. These wounded boys…its painful to let go without feeling like I’ve healed them and just hurt myself in trying to hold on. The wound keeps growing. Honestly, I’m scared now. I’m scared of dating or even leaving the house, frankly, and connecting to someone and seeing their wounded inner child. Its one thing to meet a man who has no self control. Its another to meet the child he… Read more »

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

I can certainly relate to that. Hurts like hell is such an understatement. I am ultimately realising that the relationship between myself and ‘she who seems to be my reflection’ is both extremely Neptunian and Chironic. There’s healthy helpings of both energies in it, and yeah it really, REALLY hurts, despite the immensely beautiful and powerful ‘whatever-it-is’ that exists between us.. ~~~ “If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy. …Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Wow Oran Mor, that’s wonderful. Thanks for posting

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

You’re most welcome.

x

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Ahh…that quote is a good one…I love Bob. I offer you my Chiron passage… From “The Bull” by Ahmed Ziyadi Moroccan Short Stories, translated by Jilali El Koudia “Night is a tent without a central pole or pegs or supports. It opens up horizons and connects earth with sky from whose remote holes a faint light twinkles, hardly illuminating itself. The larger hole, in whose orbit trail smaller ones, has disappeared or perhaps closed up tonight. Some holes are better kept open than patched up, since the patching gives the illusion that the hole is restored to its normal state,… Read more »

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

Yeah, that really hit the spot..

x

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

yes! so beautiful!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

*that

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

thank you both so much for this. it was exactly what i needed to read this morning- huge lightbulb of clarity. truth be told i’d forgotten all about chiron. me venus at 5 too, so being sextiled… and though a “good” transit, i don’t think there is such a thing with chiron. healing like massive surgery to remove cancerous lumps perhaps… with no anesthesia. plus pluto to make it all a thousand times more intense and obsessive. fun. what IS it with seeing the wounded inner child and trying- no NEEDING- to heal him?? 12th venus thing?? insanity-making is what… Read more »

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

BUT think how healthy and healed we’ll be when he gets around 10… march. all shiny and new and hopefully with much less of an unconscious shadow to project onto the beloved… fingers crossed!

oh and chiron trine chiron must be awful but without direct crisis to stimulate it. just languidly flowing pain that morphs into more and different pain. chronic disease vs. the car accident of a harsh aspect. that’s how my chiron sextile chiron has been… strength and blessings…

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

and a song for you lovelies. https://vimeo.com/1895788

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

Yeah, certainly looking forward to Chiron’s directness and moving on. Same with Neptune…

Too often, it feels too much..

leogroover
leogroover

I have the will power now to not be a LZ but not the motivation to practice it. The taurean moon brought out the Mars in the man and some surpising moments this past week. Im playing way cool tho and keeping up my LZ boundaries. Def laid back resting up astro here is chez groove

Anonymous
Anonymous

baby steps LG u can do it x

leogroover
leogroover

Thx Anon. its been quite a journey but Im over the hump and on the way up. How you doin?

Atlas
Atlas

Im going to wait & see what Venus-Uranus-Pluto brings this week. I had a Venus-Uranus conversation with someone I like but is strange, weird. It came at the end of the day, being ruled by Venus I thought, that was a Uranian hit – out of the blue, great, unexpected, but weird – Uranian-Venus right? So I went a-looking for shoes, again (grounds me). I found a Venus-Uranus pair that I think I may buy. Everything is right in my world now. My lover, friends & family. Theres one friend whom i stay a distance away as she is very… Read more »

Atlas
Atlas

(Says in reply to self)

… Venus will be conj Sun & maybe this V-U__pluto will be about my image changing?
…… Best go grab true magic new shoes to heighten the experience!

Atlas
Atlas

Three options? You didnt write three options, only “half astro is this” and the “other half is like that” (2 halves).

swwwtpea
swwwtpea

Option three is Venus-Pluto…She lef that one up to our own interps… And perhaps imagination.. 😉

Atlas
Atlas

Thanks for replying. In reflection, I dont think there are three options this week for Venus -Uranus_Pluto. I think it’ll be a mash-up of the three.

Libra1Leo4
Libra1Leo4

Yes, I think that as well, unless the sentence ‘Plus why not send cryptic texts to a whole pile of people? Tantalizing for them, closure for me…” relates to Venus-Pluto.

Gren
Gren

Crap! Pluto trines my Venus today and embedded in my 6th house. Does that explain my recent fascination with showtime’s Gigolos – hello creative outlet pursuit of artistic seductive career?

Ladies, I will not be returning any texts today o_0

AURE
AURE

this again…. Venus/Pluto/Moon Trine in my chart. Can’t translate the connect from day to day.

eeesh!
eeesh!

okay this just gave me a buuuuurst of insight. so neptune is still TOO ?? close to my 29 aquamoon, saturn just on 1 scorp Venus[8th house, >-<], natall their both sextile my charts RULING ruler, urans in cap. not knowing what i want except that i want to party? yeah. then i feel too serious, i have to mature, nothing seems right, i want only REAL realationships, i DON'T want to feel isolated anymore. i want to be alone!?!?!?!? not even knowing who i like. or what is a relationship? oh god then this whole venus uranus thing is… Read more »

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

ah ok, another transit to sleep through, make useful in a work situation, and ignore. Back to my imaginary dream guy crush then…

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

OK, I’m already HATING this transit so far. I got propositioned to be a third in some weird 3-way sex crap shit. I am like Who The Fuq do you think you are?
I’m a natal 7th house Saturn so this bohemian stuff doesn’t fly for me. It’s like yuck.

I think I’ll just stay home the rest of this transit.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I had an invitation to go to a concert with my closet-gay-but-not Libra friend. Two colleagues are going to be at the show – both married men. I am feeling so passionate myself, I thought it better to stay home and do paintings of mountain goats. I haven’t started a painting yet as I’ve been fantasizing instead. But I’d rather fantasize at home safely then express myself inappropriately with a sexually confused best friend or some married dude from the office. I feel susceptible to that kind of shit tonight. I’d rather be with the goats.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

omgz yes. do not underestimate the healing power of goats! i think i will paint some too!
goats make for better company too.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

EEL – are we like astro twins or something? You so get me, lol

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

“another transit to sleep through”

yep! 🙂 Whenever I read a Venusian post I see tumbleweeds roll by in my mind…. such is the barren landscape of my love life…

meh, whatevs. Can’t even be bothered getting upset about it anymore. Life’s good.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Ha! I’ve given up expecting. I read the scopes aloud to friends at work the other day and realized they all predict sexy happenings. No one’s life is that sexy, except maybe Uranian Scorp, lol. Even then, the real stuff is rare. It’ll happen if/when it happens. I’m just happy to not go obsessive crazy.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

actually a fun thing i do when i read a hilarious sexy happening in the scopes? i try to predict how stupidly it will manifest in my life. let me tellz ya i was way off mark!

so if it says sexy communique it means some hairy fat guy will try to give me his left over sandwich he couldn’t finish.

when it says hot karmic love, i will meet some poor homeless kitty or puppy on da street.

and shit i read my asc sign too!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Same here! What I expect is so huge. What happens is like a gesture or practical joke. If I can still laugh, I figure I’m ok.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

you are so right! i have my sense of humor still intact so that means im still rich!

GemCrab
GemCrab

My SO has natal Venus conjunct Pluto and Uranus all in Virgo 12th house. Talk about complicated but always fun …

Aries Virgo Rising
Aries Virgo Rising

Thanks for the tip…going to get my Venus-uranus on at an underground party tonight..and i pretty much never go out. very much a homebody, rather snuggle in bed type most of the time..but i also love to dance! also..thanks HEAPS to ashtanga practice for giving me boundless energy & increased core strength/flexibility.

Aquaria
Aquaria

If you are not after mate/date partnering but biz/creative, does the “no chase”-rule still apply? I am tired of carefully beating around the bush and pretending like I am only half as interested as I really am. Even the oracle keeps telling me to drop modesty.

Aqua Sun, late Gem Rising

Ahimsa
Ahimsa

I’d like to know this too! As in should I launch my website now?

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

In fact, there have been so few comments lately that I can’t help but wonder if the whole world is out having fun while I’m stuck at home.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Nothing. Nil. Nada.

In fact, I’m still at home. No friends keen to head out tonight. I guess I’ll put on a face mask and go to sleep early. The thought makes me depressed. I wanted a bit of meet-cute action.

(Secretly wouldn’t mind bumping into the ex while looking hot too. Oh well. He can go to hell. Doubt I would see him anyway)

Aries Virgo Rising
Aries Virgo Rising

Did the face mask thing last night !! woke up with tight pores and fresh skin. yay. skin mask + beauty sleep = always a plus!

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Oh i love it when that happens! Drinking lots of veg juice does that to me as well.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

I just woke up…. My skin has had a breakout. And my housemate crashed around all morning (she’s a slammer… If you can slam it she’ll do it) so no beauty sleep. Maybe this is my Venus-Uranus. SURPRISE! You look and feel like shit today. Hahahaha.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

As a joke, put felt pads on all the cabinets and things she slams. I did that once for April Fools and the room mate that did that finally understood how loud he was.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

That would be pretty hilarious. Not sure it would work though.

Unfortunately her and our last housemate had a big falling out over her noise. Haha. It was not pretty.

Anonymous
Anonymous

hahah WOOHOO .. i know you’re in a bit of a low point but that was funny. xx

quintile
quintile

hahahaha – thanks for a good laugh WH!!

Charley
Charley

Is this going to be my life for the foreseeable future? I’m about to have Uranus oppose my Venus and Pluto square it for years, sounds horrid.

quintile
quintile

oh i had quite few of Uranian transits a couple of years ago – it was pretty interesting! also depends on how heavily aspected your own Uranus is?

Taurus Vixen
Taurus Vixen

My Love Zombie has been being pinged all over the place and not just regarding ex’s. Friends that did me wrong, bad jobs, etc. Wondering if I need a clearing done. lol

leogroover
leogroover

Get thee a sage stick in hand and go for it TV

Nic
Nic

Option three comes naturally to me. Natal Venus conj Pluto in 8th house Scorp.

Venus is currently hovering over my moon in Libra but no potential lovers have popped up yet!

quintile
quintile

ditto – venus conjunct pluto in 6th virgo – so probs not as full on as in the 8th but my eight is loaded too LOL. yesterday txt a ‘friend’ after reading the daily scopes, THEN read this blog post and realised that – yep – I am an option-3-recidivist and by texting, I have triggered that LZ stuff. and for the 1st tiime, he has not got back to me. big milestones at work too this week, so feeling a bit undone 🙂

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Ouch…hugs q, I know how that feels. Take good care of yourself xxx

quintile
quintile

Thanks dear *hugs* – OK really, its a bit weird as before he’s got back to me even if he wasn’t available but time will tell – and the piscean roller coaster == how are things with you Chrys??

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

The Piscean roller coaster. LOL! Yes indeed 🙂
Yep things not bad here… a couple of little boosts this week re my thesis and the band.
What about you? What is this work situ? Not too much drama I hope?

quintile
quintile

glad you’re ok – exo to get a couple of boosts and one re thesis – esp excellent LOL. My work’s ok – just lots of presentations this week which were great but represent the end of a development cycle, and now PhD chapter is due in a fortnight. The ‘friend’ is the same one that appeared during the winter as the awol FWB went into the freeze – so he’s been around for a few months now but wtf??

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Yikes, 2 weeks! Nothing like a deadline to focus the mind. You on track? (well as much as one can be, lol)
And YES wtf re the ‘friend’? I’m sure there will be a good explanation, and if not, then the silence too will be useful info, even if painful… *tears out hair in empathy* xx

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

bang on cue – text from number i don’t know, a bit suggestive, do i want to catch up…am i “still hot” – he is in town at hotel du rich sleazebucket. am i free. conflicted. should i go to meet someone i know but do not know becasue venus in uranus or do my meditation and fennel tea thing as planned? it IS a hot night, i should probably get some fresh air

Veronica
Veronica

You could perhaps send him a flippant text asking ‘what starsign are you again?’ it might jog your memory…. : )

Anonymous
Anonymous

i knew it was a void day in gemini and again tomorrow but i was just out of sync. six months ago i was approached by this pisces guy i like and i was so in shock that i totally fucked it up and ignored him. Since then we have bumped into each other a few times, but today it really took a love zombie nose dive. Was stressed and beeped this van to see if they were going. I look up in horror and it is him. He looks at me in disgust his scorpio eyes looking through me.… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

you need a love zombie tonic
a herbal mix which totally zen’s u out.
get to a hebalist and start to relax your nerves.

quintile
quintile

you know what – if he approached you months ago, and you like him – it might be worth making genuine contact and just telling him your side of the whole story. if he’s a nice and secure person, he won’t hate you for any of the things you’ve described. good luck!

sweetpea
sweetpea

omg Myst, cannot believe I just saw the Toro, Venus in Aries on my Sun… My Venus in Toro conjunct his Sun/Asc….His Libran Moon on my NN opposite my Sun/PofF… At the market, after a year and 10:00 at night… In a nutshell, he grokked me as I was walking out the door… He stopped me and we had an exchange.. It ended with him telling me he still had my number in his phone…I said I “do dance…know I said I didn’t….had just been in a mood that day”…(er, over a year ago). Said “give me a call if… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Had meant to mention that every time something stimulates our Aries stuff, (his Venus conj my Sun-SN), and in this case the transit of Libran Venus w/the zz, he pops up..He always sees me first..I’ve always been oblivious so he does literally pop up..lol Still, it’s like something keeps pushing just a little closer for us to have this karmic (Venus-SN) encounter… If so ultimately, at least I saw it coming and can keep my wits about me..This is a ten year younger… committed…never been married…bachelor! 😯 Had to open the door a little this time when he mentioned my… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

One more astro tid-bit some might find interesting.(I can hear Mystic say, ffs, I told you it’s the Uranian ZZ..) Yes, yes but of course I have to rehash my ever so elusive crush astro… His Libran Vertex is exact his Moon on my NN and opposite everything noted above… Astro is quite precise in that when I said stuff triggers the SN connection, it’s actually also doing the same for the Vertex. For those interested, Kim Falconer has a great write up on the Vertex and she provides some good links too. It’s called “destiny’s gate” (amongst other things).… Read more »

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

Sweetpea! enough with the Van Halen and call that man!!! What are you waiting for? If I was in your shoes I’d be going for it. 🙂

Who cares if it’s not going to be any more than it is. Just enjoy what IT IS.

A year is long enough to play hard to get. Has it really been a year already? Far out!!!! Time flies!

sweetpea
sweetpea

Nope, I will not calll…Told him from the get go I don’t call men…Cap Moon and Toro Venus a bit old fashioned I guess but those two things are precisely why I don’t like being the aggressor. Besides, I did invite him to call to “do something sometime”. I changed it up a bit. With all that fire surely he got the message and can figure out how. I wouldn’t want to take that away from him and It wouldn’t feel special to me. When we met he approached me….he knows how. It’s not a game, I’ve just learned from… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

Sides, David Lee Roth says “ya gotta plead for it baby”

🙂

(joke…he may be seeing someone for all I know!)

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

hehe… okay…. Fair enough 🙂

I have NO patience (Moon in Saggo). I used to like doing the chasing.

sweetpea
sweetpea

**HEY-HEY-HEY!!**

😆

guess
guess

xo

sweetpea
sweetpea

Is that you, elusive crush? 🙂

xo back to ya….

maaybe
maaybe

yes, love.
’tis me !
mwahs

Pi
Pi

I have an exact balance of both atm Mystic. Scheduled catchup with yummy friends (incl the well-mannered, capable and rather masculine Ambivalent Leo), plus some yoga, domestic re-habillement (I made that word up, at least I think I did)… actually might get a couple of sessions in at the pool over the weekend too… right. Best get organised..

quintile
quintile

sounds gorgeous Pi – enjoy! xx

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Sounds lovely! 🙂

Anonymous
Anonymous

ok so this explains alot about the last ‘fuq knows how long’ or so 🙂 as I have venus conjunct venus at the mo, so have had this little fuqed up party going on for awhile. EXHALES good to get some insight lol

Anonymous
Anonymous

….and upon pondering this energy, As I have natal Venus conjunct Uranus, and therefore have Uranus oppose Uranus at the mo, One wonders how all this pans out in the end? More fuqed up or cancelled out and normalised? OR pulsing constantly between the two….mmmmmm…..

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