Love Zombie Relapse Symptoms

You broke my heart - You killed meVenus square Pluto synastry is but one aspect of the obsessive love frenzy that is Love Zombie Central.

When these two square one another in general, it’s a trigger. And, the latest Wuthering Heights movie is bound to be a MASSIVE trigger for even the most dormant of Love Zombie tendencies, seriously.

Wuthering Heights is absolutely on the Non-Recommended Reading for Love Zombies list.

So is the Venus-square Pluto shebang later this week. Yes, I shall be addressing this, apres Full Moon & in the meantime, are any of you Venus square Pluto sensitive folk or recovering Love Zombies feeling it yet?

If you have Venus square Pluto synastry this sort of astrological atmosphere sets it off, big-time.

Love Zombie Relapse Symptoms:

The Desire to listen to trigger-music.

A sudden whimsical idea that it might be “fun” to contact a certain someone from your pas.

Non-productive fantasizing about alternative scenarios. You call it Creative Visualization.

Misplaced belief in the restorative powers of time travel, gin and/or patchouli oil.

 

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anita
anita

After being in relationship with my boyfriend for six years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it,… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

LOL a love interest from my past who i haven’t seen in years contacted ME the other weekend, so funny! i’m not feeling it at all anymore, it was pretty long ago but guess he still is…

Darrell
Darrell

Meanwhile from an evolutionary point of view, ie. in light of the Taurus Full Moon, Taurus asks us all to develop a deep sense of emotional Self-reliance & Self containment deep within ourselves, versus getting caught up in the emotionally charged distorted Scorpio archetype, hell bent on beleiving that we are powerless & victimised by others etc.. Venus-Uranus-Pluto ‘T-square’.. Chiron in Pisces, wants us all to connect with the deep Wisdom of Chiron, the wounded healer, as the Heirophant within..

Darrell
Darrell

Yes, Wuthering Heights, I remembering watching the video of all this in high school, Kate Bush etc et al.. And, all this is interesting at this time, with Saturn in Scorpio, in lockstep with my *prog Scorpio Moon, both having just recently moved over my natal Libra Descedant, into my 7th house.. And, being happily single for the last decade or so, well mostly.. Along, with my also recently watching Season 1 of Once Upon A Time again, premiering back on Oct 23, 2011, with *the Scorpio Sun, at 0deg16.. trine *Chiron(r) in Pisces, at 0deg48.. With this series premiere… Read more »

AURE
AURE

WHAT THE FQ! and wheres the bottle opener? 2x in the past few hours I’ve caught myself going for the TRIGGER BEATS! Never has it been so hard to maneuver through my music library! Not to mention the early morning stunning lucid memory of THE ex returning to me, completely open. This has gone too far…

1st H Venus-Virgo
1st H Venus-Virgo

I have Sun-Pluto-NNode ruled by Venus. Currently, Uranus in Aries is trans. in opposition to that conjunction. Uranus is natally ruler of my Descendant/7th H. Aries ruled by Mars where trans. Uranus is currently located and opposing.

1st H Venus-Virgo
1st H Venus-Virgo

Actually make that Sun-Pluto-Nnode ruled by Venus, & Moon-MC ruled by Venus & trine my natal Eros, Venus & Mercury. That’s a whole lotta Venus, trines, rulership, & I’m a proud cardinal-mutable twenty-first-century gal πŸ™‚

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I noticed some relationship patterns. For one, all my loves (3) have been Cap moon guys. I have powerful feelings, but I like to deal with them in a “solving-the-mysteries-of-the-universe” way. And Cap moon trines my Venus. I also noticed in a pattern of my Saturn on the south node of someone being a case where they let me down, they just can’t move forward on the path with me. And, blessings, I realized I have met a few north node peeps. They are friends, not romantic interests, and live far away. But I am going to make more time… Read more »

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Found an old Cleo mag…. A bunch of guys in it interviewed – asks what they masturbate to…. Majority had the same answer “past sex with an ex”.

There’s some consolation. I might not have him anymore but we had great sex and he’s probably whacking off to the memory.

sweetpea
sweetpea

haha…yeah to the ex and the memory of a younger thinner (but dumber and naive) me. πŸ˜‰

Anonymous
Anonymous

Oh yes, LZ returns.. text messages abound and planned meeting tomorrow. Hey, I live for this kind of shite. Just being honest. Venus Sq. Uranus & Pluto.

Anonymous
Anonymous

It’s weird, I had no idea so many ppl thought that getting someone to leave their wife for you was a viable relationship strategy. If they do that once, they WILL do it again. If a relationship is over one *ends* it and then goes about the business of inviting the right one in, ppl who step out of one and straight into another are hiding from something, intimacy, most likely with themselves first and foremost and entering a relationship to escape oneself is crapulent. In my experience they want someone to mother them as well, so can’t be alone,… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Oh goodness yes I agree entirely… in my case I was very clear about this issue, and told him that if we were to be together he needed to come to me free of anyone else, and must sort his marriage out first. For all my ranting above, he and I both made tough choices and I assume we both learned a lot about ourselves from our relationship. For me it forced me to make the hard decisions about my own life that I’d been putting off. I’m glad he didn’t break up his family “for me”. As I told… Read more »

sweetpea
sweetpea

I remember having someone show me his divorce papers, not that it mattered for a committment to me later on as he said he would not be ready for a couple of years. It had been a complicated mess all around as it was. Get into an arranged marriage, go on with your life for awhile, get out of the arranged marriage…Damage city all around but I ended up fighting for her as he had treated her unkindly and would not live a lie with him. Besides, she had the same birthdate (different yr) as me and we sistas gotta… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Yeah, the sistas gotta hang is so true, and I’ve been in the position where I was told it was all done and dusted with an ex only to find out she was absolutely certain they were only living seperately for a while to sort things out. Yecch. It was a pattern with him diss the ex to the new woman who would then be dissed in her turn, it was a core mating strategy for him, engendering sympathy.

Ms.
Ms.

very true

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Sisters before Misters, for sure! But – my here’s how I fell for a married guy – we hadn’t spoken to each other in about 20 years and when we did it was a few message in before we were professing love. My first love who I pined for for years. I couldn’t believe we still had the connection. It felt like my brain was being rewired and I was on ecstasy all the time. If I hadn’t just gotten divorced, I’m pretty sure I would have done so then even though love object was on the other side of… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Absolutely, you can’t help who you love, you can’t help when your feelings are intense, it’s what you do next that counts. After that first relationship I made a vow that I would never be a party to hurting a woman/family again, and that taking the prospective love’s word on their relationship status was clearly not good enough. I do due diligence on ppl now, LOL. The upside is that you find out really fast whether that person is into deception so you can kill it fast if need be.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

My next connection was with a Scorp who acted all “free love.” But when he started talking shit about his ex, I was like “hang on a sec, what about YOUR behavior? She was good enough for you once, don’t give me that shit” and he couldn’t handle that conversation. Just shut down. Doesn’t matter if they are married or not. Some people just use relationships as a place to store baggage. Anyway, I unsubscribed from him on FB. But I still stalked from time to time. And when I saw the new girl’s photo as his new friend, I… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

I”m just listening to Van Halen’s Panama….I don’t know what that counts for cept it makes me feel good to rock πŸ™‚

~Yeah we’re runnin’ a little bit hot tonight…

I can barely see the road for the heat comin’ off~

What to do after massage music all day? AND, it was just nuts as SO many cancellations and no shows. It was unheard of as it affected us all. I ended up with 5 tho which is cool. Must be the Full Moon today and the craze weather everywhere…

Pi
Pi

BEST SONG EVER

sweetpea
sweetpea

Yes, I do love that old hard rockin’ stuff sometimes.

Had gotten my netbook back last Friday eve but they sent the wrong battery charger home….Geeze…Got it sorted today and back on line at home ~finally~…Enjoying the indulgence tonight.

Having only gone on line for one hour per session at the library these past threeish months has been an opportunity to have been a bit more inward which was good. That and the fact that I have a tv with no picture but have sound. Then the ipod got wet….yipes. Was beginning to think spirit had a conspiricy out for me.

sweetpea
sweetpea

Then the Kataka condo mate, David, overloaded the stackable sized washer with his bedspread thus sending IT rocking and rolling and spilling out water from underneath onto the new carpet.

Libran landlord has called a meeting this week. She is none too pleased… :shocked:

sweetpea
sweetpea

:shocked:

πŸ˜†

sweetpea
sweetpea

I give up…Can I say SHOCKED? πŸ˜†

sweetpea
sweetpea

😯

sweetpea
sweetpea

πŸ˜†

sweetoea
sweetoea

Der

Lililth
Lililth

Well I’ve had plenty of ‘bad dreams in the night’ all about my exes from the last five years. The weird thing is I dreamed we were getting back together and yet in the dreams their new partners were there as well, not in a kinky threesome way just there in that weirdo way that dreams present them. It’s the oddest thing to speak to old partners in dreams that you haven’t spoken to for years because the break up was nothing short of traumatic and catastrophic. Weird how love can almost kill you in that Wuthering Heights kind of… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Honestly i don’t get this karma past lives thing. I grew up with this notion as part of my religion. I even grew up being told who i was, now reborn. It was kind of reaffirming for a kid with a fqd family space to be told yr part of the fam in that way, but seriously, it didn’t last long. By the time i hit 10 that was it. Nooone gets to tell me who i am or who i was or bind me to some idea of who they want me to be. I get the FEELING. I’m… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

And that, by the way, is what i have relinquished with great pleasure since being single for the first time since i hit my teens.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Amen!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I responded quickly to this and you presented a lot to consider. ” when you’ve heard that, yr past seems very much like a place that should be set on fire” – Reminds me about my favorite advice from the iching – the clinging – cling to the good in your self and in others like fire clings to the wood it burns. Living is a kind of burning. When I was young, I told my family about when I was a 20 year old boy. I remember clearly, my mother laughing at me and telling the family to come… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

I don’t feel that it is all happening Now. I don’t think that’s what simultaneity or relativity of time means – i think that’s just the polar opposite from a linear perspective. NOW is where you are, in your body and in your materiality, like your work and your children and your art. If other lives are real, and i really don’t know what i think about that (sometimes i veer towards collective unconscious memory at cellular level, and sometimes to imagination using metaphor; other times i entertain it as literal) then they serve you, here now, as reflections and… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

These things are hard to talk about. Seems all clear when its just burning in my gut. I totally agree with out about the karmic relationship stuff. And I get that my power point is only here now – as in me typing and wearing a jeans and deciding to dress like the office COO for Halloween because the group organized it. But, I do feel the past is still alive, elsewhere, like a shadow. I’ve seen it change, just as we can change the future with how we make choices now, we can change the past with the choices… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

You know how in physics they discuss all the things that could happen and how weird the world or time would be IF we could travel faster than the speed of light? Violate causality, time travel, etc? Well, consciousness moves faster than the speed of light. I am sure of it. But I don’t see how that could ever be proven until people are strong enough to validate their own experiences, their own consciousness, instead of being addicted to externals. And, of course, some people are quite insane, the ones who cannot consider that they may be wrong, so, its… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Its like this: The Sag soul connection I had – I felt like he was mine. In a past life, I was an abusive mother to him. I was a wife. I was lots of things. But what persisted was the energy of that dynamic – feeling like he was MINE. And I learned, the sure sign of a person who may abuse you, is someone who thinks you belong to them, like an appendage or a slave. Mother/Wife/Father/Mistress/Priest – whatever. Doesn’t matter. The energy imbalance persists. And when you let it go – see the pattern – you let… Read more »

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

“You take it all and breathe your fire into it and blow it up and let the pieces flutter. That is what you’re in it for – to end it for them.”

If I could say my own destiny – I’d say its just that. And, when I want safety and containment, its a bitterness to feel I am not living at all, I am just burning.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

I’m dying for the reset moon rant!!!!!!!!! “Saturn LOVES a plan”…… Every plan I conceive is shizen!!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Sorry, Im new to this and hit the send button…anyway, that truely was my Wuthering Heights experience, made worse because Im Aquarian and not into such craziness. My celebacy was a “never again” response to this and I though I was doing just fine, until Saturn hot my 12 house and trined my newly progressed moon in Pisces transiting my 4th. I now dream of this person regularly and have dreams that are indicative of past lives with this person. All the angst and insecurity of that time are raw as, plus Im now contemplating the possibility of sex after… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

I have had pluto square, uranus conjuct my venus in my 5th house for almost a year now, coupled with my second saturn return (27 Libra) which is just about over. My Sun Mercury in Aquarius and transiting uranus trine ascendant protects me from the worst of Wutherthing Heights syndrome, though I live in an apartment block called “Bronte.” Most of my Zap experience has revolved around money and aging (pluto in the 2nd = money, Sag rising = eternal youth syndrome) and while I refuse to give up my long darkhair and my collection of red lipstick, I cant… Read more »

hiddendragonqueen
hiddendragonqueen

far too depressed to even consider being a LZ. beginning to feel my incoming saturn-moon opposition. the motto for it being “abandon all hope ye who enter here.” LZism requires a smidge of hope at least. it does not help that he has venus on his pluto today and from our super-strong telepathic link i all of a sudden feel NOTHING. saturn v. pluto round 1 goes emphatically to saturn. dammit.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

So, I was just flipping through a yahoo photo tour of Hillary Swank’s place and at the end it random linked to a modest man pad reno-ed by some high school teacher/surfer guy on the other side of the country. I already looked up his tax records and tried to find him on FB. Not there. But! The Oracles tells me he and I have a chance. lol. How’s that for rapid zombie? Lo Scorp came to me in a dream last night. We were in some combo street-style t-shirts-hospital gift shop and he said “we can stop at any… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

God i hate “we” esp the patronising “And how are we today?”

It was jovial enough but i responded, “I don’t know how you are, i only know how i am.”

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

i love it when they do that. it gives me an excuse to start talking in third person like a japanese school girl. the person will usually regret using “we” after 15 min.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

OMG! Do you do the accent and everything?! I’m going to try it.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

no accent, but now you’ve given me new ammunition!

One of my previous managers tried that we-shit and i made him endure an hour of me speaking in 3rd person until he apologized.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

“We go potty now?” I’m trying it with the accent next time.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Ha ha! I was talking to myself when your comment came in. Looks like I was ranting at you. Anyway, yes, the we-talk is super annoying. I became acutely sensitive to it the Sag and his “we ate, we bought, we thought” talk..

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

And by “over investing” I mean done investing in someone with no interest in paying it forward to me or We – the real We of the greater Collective. I expect somebody to step up to that challenge. I know those people exist because I do. So, Universe, let me fantasize about someone like that, please. And make him an “I” person and sexy as hell. At this point, whether I ever meet him or not is secondary. Just existing would be nice.

muddytaurus
muddytaurus

I have confined myself to my apartment since the LZ in me is trying to get me to walk the 2-1/2 blocks to see the “disaster” (as I call him)…I will drink and I will go to bed at a reasonable hour and I WILL NOT go anywhere near him. Natal Taurus Sun in 12th, Neptune in Scorpio …Transiting Sun, moon and Saturn opp my Sun…I would like to move to Fiji.

Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

OMG OMG cue Love Zombie-esque dreams of the ex last night!!! Only “it” was much better than real life. Ahem. Yeah. Anyway, I will NOT be making contact.

Ms.
Ms.

I had a sex dream last night too, though someone I have not been with (that I would have liked too but we were both with other people at the time). Never really have the urge to contact the past. Moving country is good for that also.

Ms.
Ms.

Sadly, I am on camera with my gorgeous italian sag friend at the close of a bar trying to redo the dance to kate bush’s wuthering heights.

.

Charley
Charley

That gif exactly sums up how I feel. Ever since I randomly bumped into my Venus-Pluto ex love a few weeks ago, I feel dead inside. Not because I still love him, even though I probably do but because I can’t imagine feeling or wanting to feel that way again, everything else since has just been filler. The deep disappointment has killed me. So, I have no romantic prospects right now, no crushes, no exes on the sidelines, no booty calls, no lovers, no friend’s with benefits, no interest, no desire, nothing. Nothing to be a LZ about for the… Read more »

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

THIS!

I’ve dumped SN stuff an I’m only doing NN from now on. Re-spawn!

Charley
Charley

Exactly. Keepin’ it North Node.

Bluesky
Bluesky

Check!
check, check, check, check, and…check.

how deep it goes
how deep it goes

This is too weird. I could not STOP thinking of the song wuthering heights sung by Pat Benatar and just HAD to hear it… before I ever read this! O-o

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hello. My name is Chrysalis and I am no longer a love zombie. That’s right – get a load of me. Short version: (well knowing me it will be long, but hopefully entertaining) – LZ object’s wife became harder to find on FB. Are you kidding me? I’m a PhD specialising in historical research. THEN she posts a hideous pic of herself w MY man (well, okay, if you want to be picky, her husband of 20 years) in a banal kiss (his eyes wide open, looks bored shitless) surrounded by photoshopped pink love hearts. WTF? Shiraz-fuelled debrief with my… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Sheesh sorry, that was a bit long winded, even for me.
I should also add that I love Wuthering Heights and Victorian gothic in general, there are lots of lovely parallels in Australian literature which I’m attempting to write intelligently about.
And I was born in Bronte country. Very special part of the world. Can’t wait to see the new film.

quintile
quintile

author! author! voila la transformacion!

would love to hear your thoughts on aussie romantic/gothic literature.

and I’m sorry he never turned up and at the last minute I posted on that day to say: don’t expect him!
the paper in the freezer really worked for me…

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hehe thanks q. x I knew he wouldn’t show up, his 13 kids and all, but you know – how hard is an email??Specially as music was ‘our thing’. Oh well. My ego said, ‘obvs he can’t trust himself to be in touch with you’ and then I shut the door. Weirdly today I walked past his fave old record shop, one of those ‘been there for 1000 years’ anonymous cult vinyl places. It set off a wave of nostalgia. Then on my way back to the office a random guy stopped me in the street and asked me for… Read more »

Zoom
Zoom

You sound very smart, except for the part where you are at all interested in this married person.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Thankyou Zoom πŸ™‚

quintile
quintile

hi Chrys – thanks for the ref re Gothic fiction – yes, I am interested as my current research on affect has clear roots in Romanticism – I am also just starting on a new project about the new digital sublime and the new digital uncanny – so will defo will check out the anthology. Glad you’re hairflicking etc – have been concerned to know how you’re going and was v worried I had ‘over’ encouraged you to send the email. Main thing is how excited and inspired you were after the gig! I’ve just come back from having regular… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Haha oh it’s cool re the email thing πŸ™‚ I am a multi-Piscean, remember, I would have done it anyway πŸ™‚
The digital sublime and uncanny, sounds really interesting. LOVE the idea of it, I must find out more!
And most importantly – VERY glad your health checks have gone ok. I agree – nothing like health worries to put other things in the right perspective. Here’s to what really matters in life xxx

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

What is the paper in the freezer…. Sounds like something I might need?!

Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Write their name on a piece of paper. Put in small container of water. Place in freezer. You will stop worrying about this person. Works a TREAT.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Is every man on the planet settling!?! I thought settling would be the antithesis of Saturn in Scorp. Personally I blame Saturn in Libra….let’s all be nice and accommodating and try not to hurt anyone’s feelings and just wait until one leaves and we’ll settle for the other.

Seriously! Dude has 13 kids did you say!?! I’m guessing he has more elsewhere if he’s that virile!

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hehe, not 13 – technically three, but it seemed like a whole swarm of them.
And I don’t think he’s ‘settling’ as such – when there are kids involved it’s a different proposition. For me it was easy but not so for him. Still, next time he feels ‘unfulfilled’ by his pedestrian life with Mrs LZ I hope he keeps it in his pants and doesn’t tell some other woman she is the ‘love of his life’. Ha! Go me πŸ™‚

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I hate the “for the children” excuse. I probably wouldn’t have gotten divorced if I didn’t have a child. I didn’t want to be a fake and coward in front of her and keep myself in a bullshit relationship. The “for the kids” people project crap onto their children or spouses as an excuse for not dealing with their own karma like warriors. Whatever. Let them have each other. All of them. But I don’t buy for a second that maintaining status quo benefits the species – children or not. I mean…I GET it…and its his wife and family and… Read more »

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Yeah, me too. I grew up in open warfare between parents and it is no fun.
Anyway, after venting here I feel so much better πŸ™‚ a lot to get on with in my own life and feeling really ready to do it. xx

Pi
Pi

go chrysalis xx

Veronica
Veronica

It’s funny, I moved to the city where I am now because I thought I would be with a guy (whose family llive here and we I met through work), who I thought was a big love, but we were ‘nobly’ not consumating it because he was with a girl who ‘trapped’ him into getting pregnant after only being together a few months, and he was ‘nobly’ staying with her because he felt he should. It all got a bit messy emotionally, and he started flirting with another girl at the office, and I felt betrayed… :s Anyway, I finally… Read more »

Please
Please

You are trying to make it painfully obvious you were part of the brangelena tribe. Let go I don’t like bs the only reason you used Taurus earlier was to make it seem like you know this stars angie Jolie true star sign speaking Vedically. Be real you can’t manipulate puppeteers.Pluto Q degree of Ur nodes square trined trained Aries person wouldn’t be so dumb. I we 13 family fame blame married you are mind FAqking out a marvellous false lust game. Get a real ex stop playing like you screwed Pitt if you had youd know the drill of… Read more »

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

could be Mars B.S. making men “settle”…but idk.

Pi
Pi

schyeah their problem not ours xx

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I accidentally commented on this but somewhere else on this post. Whatevs. Rock on!

leogroover
leogroover

Thanks for warning about crazy comms MM. Sent very clear comm to she devil scorpio boss today and am playing it very straight or she will sting me at every turn. What a challenge for Nov before she goes way early Dec. bring it on
Playing it straight with the lusty.almost ex he even offered to do a service on my car after a few crazy comms from him lately. Hey going with the flow but am LZ free at last.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

Umm.. I just waiting for him to “settle” with someone who he said he couldn’t stand. Thinking back to that comment it means that he does want her. Oh well… moving on but waiting for the announcement. He gives me signs that I should get prepared for. I think he’s a little unsettled that I moved back close to him so instead of being mature and saying “sorry, not interested” he will do it some other way. Right now, I am ready for it. When it actually happens I will probably be pissed but what can I do. I am… Read more »

Oran Mor
Oran Mor

Feeling it. Fo shizzle.

mulltiair
mulltiair

No Love Zombie action here but I have been fancying random strangers in a big way. Is that a Venus-Uranus- Pluto thing too?

Pi
Pi

only if you sleep with them, I believe. πŸ˜›

Pi
Pi

I BELIEVE IN THE RESTORATIVE POWERS OF GIN AS MUCH AS I BELIEVE IN ASTROLOGY that means I am the world’s biggest sceptic after a late night on the martinis DON’T YOU DARE TRY TO CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE Ps as for love, *la la la la la la laaalalaa lalalalala lal lal a* I feel it all the time Mystic, I just manage to override it with other things usually. Just some minor facebook stalking of The Amazing Pisces Scientist and a bit of RSVP boredom-induced roaming (both thoroughly unproductive). Ambivalent Leo is out of sight, mostly out of mind… Read more »

quintile
quintile

go girrrl – sounds like you are a bit more on top of things πŸ™‚

Pi
Pi

Love, yes, Death, no. XXX

quintile
quintile

hope you and the family are ok? I can certainly feel all the scorp stuff – its just managing it day-day, hour by hour *tears out hair* πŸ™‚

Anonymous
Anonymous

so true quintile – day by day. Taking an AA / Life Anonymous / ZA approach might be the best, ‘one day at a time’…

maybe scorps are blessed, being fixed signs, to help give metre to all that passion – they’d surely go mad otherwise.

I must say though, the Scorping is in 5th house and my hair is looking great. don’t tear *all* of yours our ok?x

Tropic of Scorp
Tropic of Scorp

So very true Anon!! We would surelygo mad if it wasn’t for our fixed natures. Imagine if we were mutable 😯 πŸ˜†

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Gin is not to be underestimated as a healing restorative! I mean it’s made with juniper and herbs right? Healing herbal tonic?

What kind do you like/recommend?

I’m a Bombay Sapphire type but I’ve been known to try local brands like Brooklyn gin..

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hendricks gets my vote, with slice of organic lime and a stick of cucumber. Ms., if you’re out there, does this count as a green smoothie? πŸ™‚

Pi
Pi

lol green smoothie… ditto for a mojito… lime AND mint! lol

my default gin is bombay sapphire but i do like hendrick’s…

also re those misplaced married-man comments up there – whoa, if he’s married, get outta there! if there’s a married man complaining to me about his life, i’d be v quickly saying “don’t tell me about your problems man, go talk it over with your wife?!?! she’s the one you have to deal with / vice versa… sort yourself out then get back to me” lolol ah, humans say the darndest things πŸ˜‰ xx

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Married guys are the worst. I was really into this Sag we-talker. I can’t even believe it now, that’s how over him I am. He and I go back decades. He’s my first love, really. Telepathic soul wrenching connection and all that. What helped is that I realized he and I aren’t together not because he’s married or lives far away but because he’s a douche bag. I wish you the same kind of clarity.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hahahahaha YES 12HV. After posting my rant below I realised – he is not noble or ‘trapped’ and I am not, as he professed in tears, the love of his life. He is spineless and pedestrian, and in fact his wife also deserves better, but they are welome to each other. Ha! I must look to see what Mars is doing in my chart, perhaps it’s all the Scorp. I’m feeling quite the Love Ninja today. xx

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Yes! Sag we-man is married to a Taurus woman who I imagine has accepted he is a total idiot and tolerates him so long as he continues to put in hours and maintain the game of keeping up with the Jones-es. He feels OK about the deal because he works off his affairs and lies to her with hard labor. Violins and Valentine’s cards for them both. I couldn’t live a day like that.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Yep, I hear you. Cap LZ man and Taurus wifey acting out their abandoned parent issues on each other. I summed up their problems in a sentence on the back of an envelope then told him to go home and sort it out. SO tedious.
For whatever reason, Life is telling me solo is the way at the mo, regardless of scopes saying ‘love trending up’. Once I’m unpicked from the repressed gay husband I suspect things might shift. Not really in the space – actual or figurative – for new love just now.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Wait – I meant to reply to Chrysalis – the hotty who suspects some married dude may be worth her time if-only. Rock on, Chrysalis!

Anonymous
Anonymous

I have Venus square Uranus, natally, but now my Venus in Cap is being transited by Pluto exactly conjunct. Also, transiting Uranus is squaring my Venus, (and conjuncting my Saturn! ack!), so I guess I should be getting triggered, but I’m not……yet. I’ve got some other super heavy and immediate things I’m dealing with right now that will probably distract me from the LZ thing, but I will say that I’ve been dealing on and off with a seven-year-long (what I will call) “telepathic” connection with someone that turned into a very intense LZ situation during the first few years… Read more »

Pi
Pi

I wonder if you have a while to go for this situation and others re all those squares and conjunctions. My first thoughts were ‘ride it out, know yourself, be true to your heart, be healthy, live the experiences’ …. that’s all I have for u X

quintile
quintile

gee – sounds like a very intense connection that ultimately ended. maybe south node stuff? also sounds like things needed talking out too – there is a place for face to face or at least voice contact – I’m sure the astrology would account for some of this. I hope it doesn’t deter you from future opportunities for love x x

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I’ve had back to back telepathic relationships. Its weird, scary, and real. But it doesn’t mean the connection works out. It is hard to trust after something like that. But I realized its just a matter of staying grounded in how the person acts, not how they feel or how you feel when thinking of them. I am sure I could trust a person who was in my life and there for me, you know? But – no – I will never trust just the connection again. No need to.

Saggg
Saggg

Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorp, sextile Uranus and Neptune….. Currently writing an essay on Wuthering Heights….. heh…. heh

Ainslie
Ainslie

My bull horns are finally raised : ) Every thing about me is so universal love… That I tend to be walked over and manipulated. I see everything of course even the lies : ( . Gods way etc
Every once and awhile I’ll arc up. The full moon in torro aparently one of those times… No drama… : ) … Just Quietly slip away. Bless them! but I value me more than what they offer in a disgusting definition of friendship.

Ruth
Ruth

Shit…just mopped my floor with half a vial of Patchouli oil and Clarey Sage in the mop water…thought I was doing OK TILL NOW…

quintile
quintile

i LOVE clary sage and use it when anxious or upset – even holding the bottle works for me!

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

im such a fan of clary sage plus neroli. super feelings of well being.

Charley
Charley

Me too, ylang ylang with a sandalwood and clary sage chaser in my atomiser right now.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Yes! Ylang ylang is also a fave of mine too! yes!

Sometimes cardamom, sandalwood, cypress, and vetiver. Othertimes those feel “too heavy”

Anonymous
Anonymous

yes there is def something “transportative” (I made that word up ok) about Clary Sage.

Ruth
Ruth

I like to think that essential oil scents trigger some sort of unused primal memory. It just feels so good to smell them and think mmmm…yes!

Anonymous
Anonymous

Yeah, a speechie once gave me a recipe for an anti- anxiety mix for my boys; 8 drops bergamot, 7 drops clary sage, 4 drops rose geranium. I have used it ever since.

quintile
quintile

guilty – please don’t ask me to elaborate!! deffo have made inroads in exposing the Dark Zombie Interior Jungle Station but not there yet – new crush visited unexpectedly last weekend – great fun – but no word this weekend πŸ™

seems I do have more faith than usual tho – am NOT doing any sort of cyber stalking which is very very liberating!

Pi
Pi

Well done quintile πŸ™‚ xx

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Yes! Well done on the no cyber stalking. Hmm…new crush.. nice! Keep us posted πŸ™‚ xx

Astraea
Astraea

Kudos! Nice and cool…

Aquaphobe
Aquaphobe

My love zombie targets are so long ago that I’d have to dig them out of the basement and dust them off and de-cobweb them. I get bored just typing their names into the google search and revert to going to tmz and checking out celebrity”where are they now” galleries. Guess that’s gossip zombie?
Have had odd thought this weekend but that’s it. Have tormented myself and others enough…

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

what does patchouli oil do for love zombies?

…..and so far not a damn thing romance land…not even a love zombie feeling…nuthin’…. although i do feel a crack in my force-shield. i suspect certain someones harboring a secret crush on me. i really hope not because i hate stomping it out like a flaming bag of poo.

Pi
Pi

” i hate stomping it out like a flaming bag of poo.”

HAHAHAHa o yes.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

You know what I’m talking about right? =) flaming poooooooooooooh!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Aw, yes. Had a FB fan let me know I’m SO hot. I thought “how’s that relevant?” I decided to just ignore so as to not have to stomp the poo.

electric eel libran
electric eel libran

yes! ive been hiding and being avoidant of these people.

Kakata/Aries1968
Kakata/Aries1968

Totally feeling this all day. Currently avoiding all music & resisting texting anyone at all for fear of saying something I may regret tomorrow. But definitely doing the LZ daydreaming about a certain someone (Aqua/Leo) , and wanting to indulge heavily in alcohol consumption.

toomuchgoingon
toomuchgoingon

Spooky synchro/astro alert – Aries, kataka rising here. I’m seeing the Karmic leo/aqua next week for the first time in a year. Wish I was feeling stronger as it’s going to have to be brutal honesty – good or bad. Gulp.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Oooooh, sounds interesting! Do you really have to see him? Last month I thought I was goin to have to see Shithead Pisces at a wedding. Turns out he was in Europe!

david5379
david5379

if teenage girls have to be infatuated with a bad boy, then im glad its going to be hypothetically heathcliff, dudes got a reason to be dark brooding and intense, not all this lame teenage angst for no reason

Ms.
Ms.

pre suburban angst and teen labels amen

Luna
Luna

Love Zombie? Nah. More like your typical Venus/Mars in Scorpio or Mars-Pluto / Venus-Neptune aspected person.

My girlfriend has loads of scorpionic placements and my boyfriend has a venus in scorp. They both consider love to be the End All Be All for them.

I think that sort of passion is glorious and sexy. Then again, I have loads of Leo in me so I live to be worshipped.

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

“More like your typical Venus/Mars in Scorpio or Mars-Pluto / Venus-Neptune aspected person”

What does that all mean? Is there such as thing as typical with those aspects?

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

Shit! I’m Mars-Pluto / Venus-Neptune aspected. Dish! What the fuck is a typical me? I’m too mutable to know. lol

jessicat
jessicat

mars-sq-pluto (10th house cap to 7th house libra), venus-sq-neptune (12th house pisces to 9th house sagg)…

don’t you just swing between the two? ie checking your ph every five mins between hardcore workouts? πŸ˜›

Astraea
Astraea

Mars conj Pluto (1st Libra)
Venus sextile Neptune (1st Libra-3rd Sagg).

Heathcliff and Cathy are my he/she-roes. I’m absolutely in love with love! Epic-sized, eroto-intellectual, fatalistic Cupid snares besotted by torrid lovefatuation-making. The brand-shiny-newness of it all and the thrill of the wild, wild dangerous chase to the finish…and then I’m done. Once it gets too close, too real, I predictably supernova and ‘end scene’. I haven’t quite figured out what happens off-screen during that happily ever after time, but I’m Cardinal (and Mutable) as all fuq.

quintile
quintile

hahaha – resonates for me – pluto conjunct venus (in virgo 6th) and sextile neptune (in scorpio in the 8th) – deeply romantic and a bit of a bolter!

12th house virgo
12th house virgo

I’ve got Mars conjunct Pluto in first house Libra too! Plus Venus in the 12th square Neptune. All I know is – I am either into someone – completely utterly into them with no point in “getting to know them” crap just ready to cut to old-soul comfort and deep knowing. OR I am not into them. No chance. No way. Not at all. No consideration of maybe. I don’t do dating. I’ve noticed those connection bolts tend to be signs of karma. And karmic relationships – well, it didn’t get resolved last life for a reason. So, I am… Read more »

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

I’ve got mars conj pluto as well but mine is like 10th house. I’m all or nothing like that as well. There really is no….well let’s give it time sort of bullshit dating. If i didn’t like the person at all on date 1, date 2-10 will all be exactly the same so there’s no freaking point.

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

Doing finances and spoken with bank, investor services, insurance. About to call accountant, and looking for one i spoke to last year. A certain someone from my past?

Yes, i’m bringing sexy back.

Chrysalis
Chrysalis

Hot stuff Mille πŸ™‚

Ms.
Ms.

lol. I’m off to do tax tomorrow also. *flicks hair*

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

*accompanies with brief flurry of kate bush dance moves*

(hair’s too short)

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

I did spend a few waking hours of my weekend HATING my ex lover’s ex/girlfriend (he reunited with the ex…. despite saying all many of nasty things about her to me). I don’t know her. I haven’t met her. But I just don’t like her. Though he proved himself a liar there is a grain of truth to most things people say and so I think she was most not a great person, re: the things he told me about her. So I guess he gets what he deserves to go back to some psycho. And I get to move… Read more »

riverwalker
riverwalker

Do you think they’re really happy or (one of them anyway) just settling.
Know what you mean though, happily single but miss some of the simple, daily interactions of having a partner.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Settling. You can never underestimate the power of “comfortable”.

venus a-go-go
venus a-go-go

Fight me, fuq me, hate me, love me- I don’t mind. Just don’t settle for me’
-Venus in Gem

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

It’s funny… He was a Venus in Gem.

One night while drunk and falling asleep I was talking with him about how I fear “settling”. And he was saying that settling was good. I don’t know if he got it though. He equated settling with settling down.

Venus a-go-go
Venus a-go-go

If he can’t tell the difference, he doesn’t _know_ how to be happy.
Dust of hands and leave him to his numbness!

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

It’sfunny,I’mstartingtothinkmaybeit’saguything.AnothermalefriendIspokewithhadnoconceptof”reachers”and”settlers”.

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

I also dated a Toro with a Venus in Gem who also said settling was just fine with him as long as he got what he wanted. he didn’t care if the girl felt like she was settling or not. So i guess it depends.

Aqua Ramette
Aqua Ramette

Provided you don’t want him back, I don’t think that’s love zombie behaviour. To me it sounds human to be angry – in part at least because it sounds very much like he was wasting your time spinning his narrative about the nasty ex to get your sympathy while he was still harbouring hopes of reconciliation with her. And, without wanting to sound like an apologist for your ex’s lady-friend, remember you’ve never met her and you only know of her through whatever prisim he’s allowed you to view her through – and as unpleasantly as he may have painted… Read more »

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

I don’t want him back. He won’t try either. He knows that I’m a “when it’s over it’s over” person. I think deep down he knows he’s a piece of shit for what he’s done too.

I do have secret fantasies where (in her support) she meets an AMAZING new guy (and in keeping with his version of her) she harshly dumps his arse!!! After a few weeks of two-timing him. (only fair seeing as he was two timing us)

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

Karma is a bitch. It’s quite possible she’s not a psycho but he lied or exaggerated. But, yeah that’s weird to return to someone you hated and were talking shit about. Not cool.

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

Yesm. I’ve somewhat come to the conclusion that maybe HE is the psycho. In fact, in hindsight he was always playing some sort of pity card.

hummingbird
hummingbird

He that doth protest too much etc….when someone’s that angry (I’m talking bout him here & how he was so vicious when he spoke of ex) it’s usually cos they’re hurt & you don’t hurt unless there’s still feelings there. You want to date someone who DOESN’T bad-mouth their ex. I did and when he went on about what a bitch his ex was, all I said was “well you married her & had 2 kids with her so she can’t have been that bad” – he thanked me later. But it did set off big warning-bells in my mind… Read more »

milleunanotte
milleunanotte

More to the point, he has no ownership of his feelings or part in the relationship, it’s all a blame game. That to me woulod be more of a worry than him having feelings still for someone he once loved.

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Yick! I just decided to swim away from a past-use-by-date object of affection. I better shut down all the possibilities of a contact and sit on my hands until this one passes. Thank you for the alert Mystic!

jicky
jicky

i have just decided not to answer hissy fit sms from current mancessory. cracking it that i put helping around the house that i am staying in (for free atm), in front of seeing him.
it’s not my fault that he is not motivated to help more around his abode for which he pays no fee.
goodness goddess, not worth my brain activation.

Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot
Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

Warning heeded. That gif is so Love Zombie. Hang on…Cathy’s Ghost…OMG, Gothic novels are soooo LZ.