Dating Drought: Why No Love Action?

Mia Farrow in a Sixties movie, sitting alone in a diner with red stockings

Dating Drought – Why No Love Action (?) is one of the most popular questions in the Oracle. And, it is a perennial of people after astrology advice or doing their TarotTiming Love in astrology is an art and in fact, a good time for romance can just as easily express as art.

Or through being more in ‘love’ with your life. If it’s Venus, it can evoke a surge of aesthetic and fashion awareness, that is a high every bit as satisfying as – say – a sudden influx of dates.

Most people claiming a dating drought have plenty of “rain,” but it’s not what they want. It’s not so much a drought as a scarcity of people who meet particular standards.

So, if you’re not happy being single and want to break the drought, you can take one of several approaches.

Saturnine – Do something like the Virgo Dating Efficiency method. Logically, there is no reason at all why you cannot acquire an acceptable partner and establish a functional relationship.

Neptunian – Observe the omens, monitor your dream flow, and trust that the right person will manifest for you when it is the appropriate time. You take Alchemy Baths and cleanse your aura.

Jupiter – Dating drought? No way. You are the rain-maker, the maven of mating. Seeing it as an extension of your usual conviviality you set out to expand your social life, host parties and go to everything.

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I’ve had too much ex action just this week but no love action for years. why do they all appear at once 3 of them? did my head in. but they’ve all retreated now i hope.


I just asked the new question and guess what: “a Capricorn is on his way”. Another one? Really? Dang my Cap moon-Lilith-Eros-Juno force field! Dear universe, can I please a) have sex again one day and b) can it be with a man who isn’t a Cap? 🙂


I was *just* thinking I’d love this kind of question in the Oracle yesterday – in sync or what?! I gave it a spin and was told that something would happen at the next solar eclipse. Hmmm… mid-November. I’ve been in total self-actualising mode the last couple of months – the likes of which have never been seen round these parts before – so am definitely in love drought-age purgatory. There are much, much worse places to be…

Fire Fish

Ok so WTF!! seriously what dark matter machine you got going on there!!!
The Oracle pretty much just told me what you said in your zeitgeist!! Next sig partner you’ll meet through work but at a much higher level so get going..ok verbatum but still!!! I heart the oracle.. I may just stay up working now 🙂


Well I asked about the lack of dating/love action for fun – but it’s worked!!
It said, “There is a Capricorn on the way!”.

Now if I turn ‘on’ to ‘in’ it’s 100% accurate.
2 3/4 year old Capricorn kicked my Gem in the head till he vacated the bed last night.


Yikes! It even knows about the impending Aries. Good one Mystic.

1st house venus

So I just gave the oracle a spin, such fun! So, basically, oracle was in a flattering mood. It said I’m like a ‘rain maker’ !! Ha. Nah. I take this as not to mean The Rain maker from the new Bruce Willis / Joseph Gordan-Levitt sci-fi filum *Looper* (I would scream if I really were like that Rain Maker). Oracle also says I that I am fussy… The latter is right but I would think that there’s a 1 in 12 chance with that response. ie. 1 in 12 people have venus in virgo which the zodiac suggests are… Read more »

Scaling forward

I think I am experiencing a love drought because I am on this website too much. But I still love mystic. 🙂

Fire Fish

lol! That is a good point…. one I will ignore despite myself and keep flicking back and forth from my ‘work’ 🙂


LOL just gave it a whirl got “next solar eclipse – something radically cool….” Cool just come back from 2 lovely weeks with potential mate it’s being left to simmer to see what pans out…. Love the Oracle too not an abuser of it but yes always spot on.

Raché (Aqua/Tauri)

I love the Oracle, it’s like my virtual too-truthful, best-intentions-at-heart gay best friend.

It says I need a makeover. lol I’m in productivity/scheming mode now, but health makeover is already launched and beauty/fashion makeover forthcoming mid-November.

Anony_Aus/Lux Interior is My Co-Pilot

The Oracle is ridiculously good.


Ha ha! Yes, I’ve had a dating drought for over three years, mostly of my own choice, but honestly, I never meet anyone in this big city………also, I don’t feel relaxed enough in my life to have a partner, don’t know how I’d fit that in, in a way that would be beneficial to me and not just cause a lot of stress. *sigh* I did the oracle and it said “Virgo incoming!” …..Oh no! I really don’t jibe with Virgos very well. I know a lot of them, I guess they feel familiar as my mom is a Virgo,… Read more »


😯 I’m obsessed with the Oracle! 😯 😯 Earlier this year I asked the oracle a question and the answer said that an animal was coming into my life and there will be a connection or something alike. Within about a month or so I heard about a little 3 month old puppy that needed a home. I didn’t know why this one was different but I knew I wanted her. A few people offered to take her and I didn’t think I would get her but the person who rescued her gave her to us. It’s been LOVE from… Read more »


Oh I love puppies so much! And your kitty is okay with her?



Sweetpea! 😯 I’ve missed you!

Yes, Zen (Virgo) and her have so much fun together but sometimes Zen gets annoyed and uppercuts her. Puppy is a miniature Pinscher x –


Awww, so cute! Yes, I’ve missed you around here too sweetykins but you been busy playin’! “ruff-fuff” lol x



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cosmic fleece

No Way Jose ! what a little treasure.
xx Welcome to your new family member…
Lovely that she goes with your rising !

plutonic gem

*troll alert above* But back to the real stuff…. So stoked you’ve added this on the oracle mm…. I twirled the oracle last night to find I need to feng shui my desk…. I’m not sure what that will require but I will declutter and research fenging for desk… That has given me something to focus on that I can manage given I think I’m all alone at work today and have paperwork up to my ears…. So the dailies were great I love it when you talk like that mm… So directive, I am bothered I have to wait… Read more »


hey beautiful dangerous Gem, you also rock and i like your *bitchy* intensity. … loved your koan! 😉 lol

plutonic gem

so that troll comment must have been removed? good it was a shocker…. So Im stoked, I have to share, I feng shui’d my desk today, well I havent finished yet, but it feels great!!!! I already feel a shift in my energy and a bit more positive about work… I did spend some serious work time doing this but I figure is an important part of work too, to stay organised and on to it!!!! In some ways I have the perfect job for me in that Im out half the time and in a lovely building the other… Read more »


well done then Plutonic Gem! good for you! let’s see how *i*’ll face the Zen like attitude today, (Monday morning here right now!) see you around! cheers 🙂


Love your fake koans! I make some for my former desk neighbour Scorpio Buddhist. You can tell a real Buddhist cos they have a beautiful sense of humour and know you’re pulling the piss out of yourself or existence, not their religion. Once the two Real Buddhists were chatting about a particularly difficult concept and i randomly said it took me ages to work out the sound of one hand clapping. They said i was doing very well as most people spend years not working it out. My eyes widened and my heart fell and i said, Oh no! I… Read more »

plutonic gem

: ) nice one millie… that koan made me smile….


WOW!!!!!! 🙂
i got

“fate is at play – keep trying to be true to your highest self and something beautiful manifests for you before your next birthday”

this and that *personal* LOL 😉 email for Monday TOTALLY got me out of the blue of this deep heavy Pluto day and re-asset my confidence! thanks Diamond Encrusted Shiny Brilliant Mystic!


(I’m gonna do it again).


“Leo Incoming” rofl– spare me!


Hello. I have a question. Can anyone tell me what the moon in the 12th house means for relationships? I heard it’s not good and I can actually believe that for the person who’s astrology chart i was reading about. Can anyone tell me?

Bonnie missing Clyde

This placement generally means you are a deep cat.


exactly what I needed to hear, thanks mystic


Ha, amazing. Just tried it, probably NOT for the last time lets face it. I got ‘Investigate your Mars sign and house placement for some rad insights’ well yes indeed. My Mars in Sag/9th H is fully activated by the Mars in Sag transit right now. I am so RESTLESS it’s driving me mad, I kind of know I have to be in another country if I have any chance of finding love again.

Scorched Earth

Me too. In my 8th with Venus so .. give up already (LOL) or hit the button again 🙂


Just after my subscription runs out! Boo.

electric feels libran

thank you mystic!

so far the oracle has been 100% right about everything i have asked. well i can’t be for sure of the past life stuff but damn! this is the most accurate online oracle thingy i have ever used. online tarot wise i like
Don’t ask it what you don’t want to know.

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Love the cut-out feature, Mystic. Lol!

You rock 🙂

Scorched Earth

Yeah, dig it.

Who will be the first to report max overload I wonder?

No that aint a challenge or a self fullfilling prophecy disclosure 🙂


It would be me. The Oracle always gives me a snarky answer. Not because of overuse because I keep asking the same about the same idiot every day duh!
But i do love the oracle. I am paying much more attention to her.

Scorched Earth

Love it!


Virgo Ellie

I like the Oracle. Have beeing using the Tarot Card question mostly. Sometimes I chose the LZ questions but I like Tarot better. Tried the new question and it is right in sync with what I am working on. Living my life alone! I can’t rely on anyone and shouldn’t have to. But if he comes around to enjoy some time together then I am there! I just don’t understand the interragating questions I get when people find out I am single. And when I explain I am “kinda” seeing someone but not really. They ask, can you rely on… Read more »


I LOVE the Oracle! Detailed, accurate and totally brilliant.


Ah yes the dreaming is full on. I’m also getting off my antidepressants (shrink agrees I probably don’t need them anymore, but they’re one of the most difficult to get off so teeny reductions at a time. A side effect if i miss a dose has always been mega dreaming but now its mega mega. Thanks for the heads up too in your amazing Zeitgeist Mystic xx


Well this would have come in handy before Neptune moved into Pisces (for me). I need a question like “how to get this/these men off me” – not to sound full of myself but that’s what Neptune on my Pisces Asc is doing to me – it’s like I can’t go anywhere… All the transits atm except Pluto opp my Moon are pretty awesome on paper but IRL it’s not so much fun 😐


Could you explain that a bit more fluid feline ?
I have a Pisces asc as well


Depends what degree your rising is in. I have 1.54 Pisces Asc so it’s “live” right now. For more info read Howard Sasportas “Gods of Change” or go to Cafe Astrology online but no one tells it like HS or Mystic.

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