Generally, i get one of two types of queries about love.
Query Type 1 is best summarized by “How the Fuq Can I get out of this hideous nightmare of horrors that some would call a relationship? I am typing this to you under the bed because his/her farts shake the whole house. Each time they do that awful pass-aggressive sigh, my jaw clenches so violently i had to get physio twice this week alone…”
This person is basically hoping i will (a) astrologically validate the decision they’ve basically already made and/or (b) tell them about an awesome transit coming whereby Uranus or something will just handle the break-up, move them out etc. And actually, lol, this can happen. I know someone who managed to break up an awkwardly stale romantic scenario by getting a posting to Antarctica, out of phone range and all. All during a Uranus transit. Uranus is your get-out-of-jail card guy but it won’t be free.
Query Type 2 is essentially “will i ever fall in love in again?” Or, when? Obviously, any old Venus or Mars transit can scoot attractive people with whom you share similar values or even a degree of mutual lust with. Jupiter can = Awesome. But the actual “omg, i am in love” intensity are rare-as!
Whenever it’s happened to me, there has always been Pluto. And November, the time of Scorpio. For more of a “What Just Happened?” vibe, you look to Neptune or Uranus.
Figuring out what transit was in effect when you fell in love bigtime – even if it’s not happening any more – is a brilliant way to learn astro.
Image: ChiTreeSign – Society 6