Is A Pluto Conjunct Venus Transit Always Hot?

Pluto conjunct Venus transit

Is a Pluto conjunct Venus transit always hot? An Aquarius Doctor finds that she has very little immunity to her crush on a Leo neurosurgeon at work.

Hey Mystic,

Generally, I try and keep any missives to letting you know you’re awesome and saying thank you.

But, seriously, what is up with this Venus Retrograde caper? Is it so hot/weird as I also have a Pluto conjunct Venus transit? Thank you so much for covering this action in your scopes, as it has been invaluable in keeping me sane and hopeful thus far.

I was minding my own business, walked onto the hospital ward at work and fell head over heels in infatuation with another doctor. He’s short, burly and looks like a Leo. Not my type, probably too young and a neurosurgeon who I have to work with.

Who, I might add, I don’t know and have barely managed much of a conversation with. I’m convinced that there’s some karmic connection and have a ridiculous visceral reaction every time our paths cross, up to and including heart palpitations. I’m aware that I may be insane. I mean, I’m 33, have two children and am an Aquarian for fuqs sake. It is so not me and has never happened before.

I’m also aware that the above-noted life situation may not be a prime selling point for moi as hot property, nor the fact that my Toro ex (who left me with no notice after 10 years and literally stole the couch on his way out) is back living in my spare room due to his general hopelessness and the fact I’m a kind hearted idiot. And he probably thinks he’s my boyfriend on that basis.

In fact, he may have even told hot burly maybe-Leo neurosurgeon that he’s my boyfriend as their professional paths crossed last week. Holy crap, what if he said we’re married? (We’re not). Now I’m paranoid. You see? I’m insane, clearly.

I’m sure that hot Leo neurosurgeon is having the same visceral reaction to me. Which is making interaction quite awkward as we’re both too busy having runs of ventricular tachycardia and pretending we’re cool.

Its made me reappraise everything. I was managing to compartmentalize my Toro-ex living arrangements up to now on the whole “good for the children, I work long hours” basis, but all of a sudden I want to stab him with a fork for being a miserable, borderline-alcoholic, cock-blocking robot sent to destroy my love life.

The Pluto-Venus transit is just beginning! I really hope I’m not insane and just making all this up in my head. I can’t quite work out what’s worse:

a) Me hitting on someone at work, therefore running the risk of being branded a cougar and occupational health and safety risk plus or minus being rejected.
b) Succumbing to an urge to stalk that borders on the creepy.
c) Nothing ever coming of this, thus proving that I must have just made it all up in my head.

My Aquarian brain can’t cope. Nor can my Libra moon, as I now spend 10 minutes every morning agonizing over whether I should go with the ylang-ylang or monoi body lotion and triaging its seductive/mystical qualities.

Damn.

Stay awesome and love your work.
Dr. Aquarius

My Dear Dr. Aquarius,

Pluto conjunct Venus transits are once in a lifetime, formidable, karmic and hot. Your Venus is being Plutonified. It’s spiritual, self-actualizing and hot endorphins. Honestly, you are single, and heaps of people meet at work.  It’s brilliant as you can get to know one another gradually and without the awkwardness of a ‘date’ situation. 

Pluto on Venus can = a once in a lifetime karmic romance. So it is either the Leo neurosurgeon or he is just the “fluffer” to help get you in the Plutonic mindset and clear out the Toro Ex.

Don’t do anything cheesy at work. But do mention to the Leo Neurosurgeon that you hear he and your Toro Ex met/know one another. Say something about how you’re so happy you had an amicable separation. Assess Leo Neurosurgeon’s status – single/married/gay etc. – and consider not wearing monoi oil as I imagine it would be quite cloying in an operating theatre. Personally, if I were having a procedure, I would prefer the person to smell like a ruthlessly proficient floral aldehyde, one of the frostier Chanels, for example.

Also, Leos don’t like monoi oil type scents, usually. You’re still in your Taurus-Ex scent-settings! So, Pluto conjunct Venus transits are enormous and you can riff off them to transform every element of your life. Going with them unlocks an almost supernatural source of energy and focus. But most of all you crave authenticity of self-expression and genuine intimacy. So, here you are!

Venus Retrograde adds to the weird/reconnecting with past-life-lover energy. What does everyone else think?

 

Image: Monty Montgomery – Doctor’s Orders – Society 6

 

 

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AquaRam
AquaRam

Oops forgot to mention Aquarius Sun, Virgo Rising, Aries practically everything else.

AquaRam
AquaRam

Gosh, sounds eerily similar. Think I am absolutley nuts as I have left my husband in the last two weeks, he is also a couch potato whose parting words were from pouting Gem/Taurean lips “But you do all the things that NEED to be done but hey it’s cool, it will be fun to be single again!” Hmmmph. Ahh but stick with me peeps, it’s gets better. I ‘came out’ and confessed my undying lust for my best man (yes you read that right) who is normally soooooo not my type but geez I want him baaaad (my Arien mate… Read more »

Lucy
Lucy

If it feels like one of those heavy karma meets then you need to take it slow/careful because:

1) affects your children
2) you work together
3) unstickifying yourself if you need to will be a difficult process

losing my religion
losing my religion

I married my co-worker. Best decision I ever made. Anyway Dr. Aquarius. You are too young to be a cougar. I think you have to be at least 38 before that term applies. How young can a neurosurgeon be anyway unless he is Doogie Howser MD.

warrior crab
warrior crab

Ok nevr eva hit on a person you work with. but it happens. keep your guard up. wait until he shows you he is honest and sincere. even if you have to get up close with the person you work with for work – it’s good to leave it at the door and just be mates, if it’s going to happen let it unfold in time.

April to August you say

Anonymous
Anonymous

my cap doctor friend met her doctor husband at work. First sighting was ‘this is the man I’m gonna marry’. So, she went to work getting style factor up, being incredibly flexible in offering to swap shifts with peeps so that he and she were at work at the same time, and then just being her natural self. he didn’t stand a chance… I think the best advice I can give is to enjoy the feeling of wanting someone special again in your life, unblock your energy by moving ex on to another pasture (don’t assume that won’t also be… Read more »

Inger
Inger

Ditto !
Very well said.

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

This thread is a treat! And just before the dark of the dark moon. I can’t think of anything different to say on top of what has been said 🙂 1. No, you are not a cougar. 2. There is nothing wrong being a bit obsessed about a man at work place. 3. Ditch the ex, obviously you should not feed leeches..

I am thrilled to think the coming stream of stories during this Venus retro 🙂

Piscean Under New Management
Piscean Under New Management

Firstly, i love your way with words 😀 OK. I am very relieved to hear that other women in the vicinity of 33ish feel like ancient creatures not fit to feel the gaze of hot young things. I can relate to that. However, everything I read tells me that such wimmin are hot property / in the age irrelevant bracket. So, I might suggest dismissing the age concern. I am pitifully underqualified in every other aspect of this conundrum / furphy / excitement / etc. I agree that the feelings you have for the nuggetty Leonic Dr Jr may not… Read more »

Aries_FTL
Aries_FTL

Wow… Yes kick the EX out! TODAY! He’s keeping you looped in old codependent bullshittery! Go the tough love otherwise you’re just enabling his victim-trip. Leo has been sent to open your sexy chakras and move onwards and upwards. Embrace the new!

Charles
Charles

I keep laughing at the advice to kick out the Taurus. It can’t be done. It’s like kicking a 2 ton block of stone. The only way you’re getting rid of a Taurus is to somehow get him to believe it’s his idea to leave. Then nothing can stop him from leaving.

Aqualeoscorpmn
Aqualeoscorpmn

Thats easy just play poor….

Inger
Inger

Love it , love it, love it !!!!

someone
someone

“play poor” 😆 !!

scorpionic
scorpionic

Charles, you make it sound like it’s difficult to get T’s to believe it’s their idea to leave…

H
H

Aha!

H
H

Find a way to remove the Taurean influence from your life. I suspect that he is offering something of value , maybe companionship, maybe more, but the relationship failed for a good reason. Taureans like their comforts and their routine. He should find a way to re-structure his life, by himself. Your Libra Moon craves a meaningful relationship, and doesn’t enjoy solitude. A Libra Moon will often do anything rather than face being alone. I think the Pluto / Venus transit is time for a massive clear-out of all the things that don’t really work in your life. That means… Read more »

mitra
mitra

Good advice, H

The Green Witch
The Green Witch

Dr Aquarius – you haven’t lost your sense of humour (as your witty comments show), so you are one up already. Cougar at 33?! No NO! And anyway, what’s wrong with a few cougaring moments? (Moi 50 and last encounter 28. Sweet, fun and no hearts or bones broken). Ask the divine Leo out for a drink or something once you have led the toro (by the nose, the most sensitive part of a bull, apparently) out the door. Re Venus retro: I am being contacted by last untrue love who was a real thief in the house of love.… Read more »

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

oh yeah and you are only a cougar if you are technically old enough to have given birth to them. I know these things.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Agree! Anything over say 20yrs. 5-10 is nothing!

Piscean Under New Management
Piscean Under New Management

hahaha TLS.

Ms.
Ms.

🙂

Scorpalicious
Scorpalicious

I love these queries!! Especially when they’re witty.

“…but all of a sudden I want to stab him with a fork for being a miserable, borderline-alcoholic, cock-blocking robot sent to destroy my love life”

“Nor can my Libra moon, as I now spend 10 minutes every morning agonizing over whether I should go with the ylang ylang or monoi body lotion…”

GOLD!!! 😆 😆

Aquaria
Aquaria

Oh I totally missed the bodylotion part … don’t worry, this happens to me too, but I have like at least 10 to pick from, plus of course the matching shower gel.

Only bloody thing in Libra is gen. Pluto, I do blame my Taurus Asc wanting to be smelling ze best. Or maybe it’s the Cap Venus?

Scorpalicious
Scorpalicious

Of course your Taurus Asc and Cap Venus explains your love of body lotions. Cap rules skin & bones 🙂

With a Taurus Asc and Venus ruling Toro that makes venus your chart ruler. You lucky thing. My chart ruler is Saturn. I guess that has it’s own rewards 🙂

Aquaria
Aquaria

Well, Saturn rx is opposing my lovely chart ruler tightly and the universe made sure I had someone around to make me feel like the ugly duckling for enough time to deeply ingrain the idea, spent my 20ies hermiting my life away, slept through my saturn return, just now coming around to be the beautiful princess I was born to be 😉 Still in the faking stages but it gets better everyday, same time, filling life with “you did/made/created that? Ah yes, I did that”-stuff to detach from need to get attention for prettyness. Not bitter, just wish killing of… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

yes totally. I have one myself but I am not going to post to mystic and I would die if it was a post. but seriously my aqua scenario is insane. and for anyone that has met anyone during a venus pluto transit that shit is completely insane.

Aquaria
Aquaria

I don’t think I’d die, on the contrary, I am at a point where I can use all the help I can get to figure out what the hell is happening (another insane aqua … it’s an epidemic?) and how to beat my own demons so I can go deal and play like a pro.

Ms.
Ms.

typical aqua logic at it’s finest 🙂

Aquaria
Aquaria

Sigh, I wish logic would help :p Only, I am up against an ol’ cancer, I feel horribly out of my league. But that might just be something my demons are trying to make me believe see …

Pffff, I must scheme up a cunning win-win strategy that works around or with the demons.

Ms.
Ms.

I JUST had this conversation with the Aqua. you have to fall there is no plan. bwhahaahha

xxxxx

Aquaria
Aquaria

What kind of fall are we talking here?

Ms.
Ms.

the one where logic does cannot win over the emotions xx

Ms.
Ms.

that was not a slurr on you just scorping privacy is all. I love this post x

Scorpalicious
Scorpalicious

Ms, you could just write anonymously. Nobody need know. I’d love to hear a Venus/Pluto story!!
Is Pluto conjunct your Venus?

Ms.
Ms.

still way too ID able. I get outed here enough as it is

Pluto venus was my 22/23. Nuts.

Currently I am venus gemini saggo venus scorping sun love transit natal bliss that is whatever the crazy astro. Node transit on my moon, who knows. I am heaven I am happy, this will take ages to play out. Mystic is correct. I just hope i am not delusional venusneptune soaked but he is a m a z i n g

mitra
mitra

This is such a witty query! That you want to stab Toro with a fork is a wake up that you are actually still in a relationship with the Toro and if you want another new and functional relationship, you should first make yourself …. single. Having any male adult other than your child living in the house is unfair on the maybe Leo who maybe a nice person and maybe have emotions and maybe worthy of an uncomplicated relationship. Cougar? That is so passé. Besides which, you are Aqua with LIbra moon, and therefore ageless. I agree with Barista.… Read more »

mulltiair
mulltiair

This whole post is a gem: Dr Aquarius’s letter, Mystic’s response and suggestions above. I am loving and lol’ing it.

Baristagem
Baristagem

😯

“SECOND: go and get your (HAIR) done…”

I’m not sure where that word went… 😯

Baristagem
Baristagem

😯 Work affairs are the BEST! 😯 The things I have got up to in that cafe! 😯 😯 Anyway, where was I… oh that’s right… 😯 Ok here’s the plan: FIRST: put the couch out the front, preferably on a day of the council pick up (if you don’t have a regular one you can always book it). HOPEFULLY you’re ex will still be ATTACHED to it when they toss it onto the back of the truck… 😯 SECOND: go and get your done, like really DONE. The kind of hair style that makes you feel HOT. 😯 THIRD:… Read more »

The Leo Socialite
The Leo Socialite

OOOH I LOVE THESE SORTs of queries. Agree with everyone about Taurus getting the boot, pronto. Like NOW. I kept sleeping with my ex a bit after we broke up, telling myself the same crap that it was “for the children” a sort of continueing comfort zone but it was just me being weak and him wanting a root i dare say. So exciting re work affair though i would hate to having surgery with him all distracted by you wafting past in a haze of perfume and your scrubs undone to reveal a sheer calvin klein bra. seriously. you… Read more »

Gemricorn
Gemricorn

Aquadoc I totally agree with Leo Socialite – in my experience too, those totally “wtf is that?” kinda feelings are always mutual. Maybe you are even feeling what HE is feeling, (more so than your own feelings if that makes sense?) which I sometimes find happens to me. I don’t know how but I also have bucketloads of earth in my chart and a strong chiron. Anyway, no matter where it starts – it’s there.

…btw your explanation of the Taurean situation… f-ing hilarious…. in terms of that… I leave you with a song….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8Tiz6INF7I

Aquaria
Aquaria

I had not heard of that one before. The mutualness thing that is.

And you say, it could also happen that one actually picks up the feelings of another person and perceives them as their own?

Scorpalicious
Scorpalicious

Oh yes, ’tis true!!! I’ve always felt this instinctively. Then about 12 years ago I read an article about Sean Penn and he believes it too. “I like to believe that love is a reciprocal thing, that it can’t really be felt, truly, by one. That on a romantic level, if you feel it about somebody and it’s pure, it means that they do too. And if you keep believing that, they come around” – Sean Penn (Leo). I loved his quote so much I felt it deserved a place in my little book of quotes. (Mars Virgo- have heaps… Read more »

cosmic ram
cosmic ram

Hey Gorgeous Scorpalicious,
Did you happen to click on this link the other day – where Mystic found the tree quote ?
http://cavesoflilith.tumblr.com/

there are some beautifully breathtaking quotes on there,
reminded me of your book of quotes, a lovely idea.

tootle piparoonie xx

Scorpalicious
Scorpalicious

tootle piparoonie! 😀 No I didn’t click on the link because I don’t want quotes handed to me on a platter all at once. I like to stumble across then spontaneously and serendipitously. They’re more meaningful that way. I reckon a book of quotes is better than a diary. I can look at any quote and roughly remember where I was when I read it or recall that time in my life. The only reason I started it in the first place is that I have a shocking memory where words and names are concerned (Saturn square Mercury in Scorp)… Read more »

Aquaria
Aquaria

Teehee I have lots of different notebooks/journals too. And my Virgo Moon insists that for every “purpose” there needs be a new one, and the writing has to be neat or to be erased. Gosh, the idiosyncrasy. On topic … I am not sure if I am a heavy Neptune type, its in my 8th and part of my mutable T with Moon and Mars, but Jupiter is in my 12th so they are sort of in a weird way in mutable reception even if 12th is Aries and 8th Sag? Buh, well everything is interconnected in my chart (splash)… Read more »

Scorpalicious
Scorpalicious

hehe… totally understand the idiosyncrasy!! As I was searching for the quote this morning, i stumbled across a few that no longer resonate. Will have to do some editing!! Gee, as if I don’t have enough on my plate. There’s always something to do. I don’t understand people who get bored! Anyway, I digress…. Neptune in the 8th house!!! Of course you pick stuff up and Jupiter in 12th expands that. 12th house is the Neptune house. Things are never clearly defined where Neptune is concerned. It’s like walking though a fog. So there’s no way of ever knowing if… Read more »

Aquaria
Aquaria

Haha, yesterday evening I went through magazine clippings i had since awhile and tossed most of them cause they only left me with a blank “bazinga” when looking at them 😉 My 12th is actually double neptune “ruled” ’cause pisces is on the cusp even if jupiter itself is in aries together with chiron, vesta, lilith and pallas. Not got a strong sense of self. Yet. Working on that. Still, in very quiet moments, I just know, there’s no doubt … my gut says “it is so”. But alas, spent a lifetime ignoring and shutting down that gut. Ya know?… Read more »

lionfish
lionfish

Wow. First – nobody at 33 is a ‘cougar’. You are a woman at the height of your powers, which the maybe-Leo has obviously figured out! I reckon – ditch the Toro ex, regardless. The Plutonic ‘authenticity or bust’ vibe is already in motion, if you’re realising how he’s limiting your life. Easier said than done, I know… but he can still be a great father to his children without being in your house. From my experience, Pluto will make the authenticity happen one way or the other, and it’s better to be in charge of the change than wait… Read more »

ArienScorp
ArienScorp

The police are gone, perp in custody, and I am ok, so Toro’s stealing couches are a good diversion. Hurry up and steep calming herbal tea. I agree with get rid of the Toro. Mine (2nd marriage) was very hard to get rid of. I ended up moving 4 states away. A cougar? At 33? I thought you had to be an older older woman to be a cougar. My Toro is/was 8 years younger. Of course, yours is a Leo. But I still think whether a Toro or a Leo, you’re not a cougar. Work is tricky. Gossip, emotions… Read more »

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

I’m too busy laughing at the “miserable, borderline-alcoholic, cock-blocking robot sent to destroy my love life” comment to think of anything intelligent to say right now …

Will get back to you! 😆

cosmic ram
cosmic ram

lovely to see you again Prowln !

Anonymous
Anonymous

ahahahaha me too prowln, absolutely pissed myself laughing. God i love articulate vitriol.

Piscean Under New Management
Piscean Under New Management

me.

Virgo Ellie
Virgo Ellie

That statement caught my eye too!!! Way to put those words together with a punch of power!! 🙂

Ms.
Ms.

I know GOLD line , genius

scorpionic
scorpionic

Thanks for sharing Dr A, on the face of it I’d suggest kicking the Taurus ex to the curb, give yourself permission to enjoy the infatuation without any pressure on destination and in the end if that’s all that it ends up being (which is improbable) trust that it wasn’t meant to be and occurred purely to bring clarity to your (and probably your family’s) life. Ultimately you couldn’t say nothing happened or that it’s all in your head, after all when was the last time you felt your heart flutter? Whatever happens, I wish you all the best 8)

Zentriplet
Zentriplet

Great advice scorpionic.

scorpionic
scorpionic

thanks 😉

virgo aqua etc
virgo aqua etc

oh yes turf the toro plz. even if this maybe-leo thing doesn’t pan out, it’s obviously highlighting for you what it is that you genuinely, truly DO want. if he’s going to be in the way of romance, hotness, and love bliss then get him out if you have to get a removalist in to pry him out with a crowbar. i’m predicting that this astro-passage mystic is referring to might lead to quite a few people evicting cloying former lovers from had-it relationships from their life. i just cut the cord with my ex of 3 months who had… Read more »

Charles
Charles

Oh no you can’t just make a Taurus move out. It’s his place, wherever he stomps his hooves. Easier for you to move away and leave him behind. And he’s not an alcoholic, he just enjoys his pleasures on a level you don’t understand, while you Aqua are out there hunting for some drug fix that hasn’t been invented yet.

Anonymous
Anonymous

have you ever witnessed a Toto V Aqua argument? Each are so convinced they are right. It’s like one of those standoffs in nature where no creature actually tussles, they just stand there with locked horns, skull to skull, not moving, feet planted, a twitch from one counterweighted by resistance from the other… it takes a gemini or a pisces to break the deadlock. Well, in my experience..

Piscean Under New Management
Piscean Under New Management

HAHA oops obviously I mean TORO

aqualala
aqualala

Yes to that: Rock meets Hard Place. Wall hits Wall.

Aqualeoscorpmn
Aqualeoscorpmn

The truth usually backs up an aquarian in time, one is associated with sacraficing comfort for truth, the other is about having it…

Zentriplet
Zentriplet

Yes PUNM!
The argument I witnessed was be btwn my best friend (Taurean) and my beau (Aqua). I (Gem) tried to diffuse it, but it blew the friendship (between Toro and me) because she could never get over it – which was awfully sad.
Such stubborn creatures, the pair of them.
The Aqua is also year of the Ox… so the tussle was indeed bull v ox and unfortunately the bull never recovered.

Anonymous
Anonymous

aw that’s sad Zen. I wouldn’t know what to do if my partner and my bestie were fighting. Probably try to talk one or the other around in the best way possible…or at least to leave the difference by the wayside..

Ms.
Ms.

sounds like a sun square sun off xx

Electric Eel Libran
Electric Eel Libran

Get vaccinated against the Toro! They keep trying to squeeze their way back into your life and it’s hard to say no to them. 🙁

Kata
Kata

Yea, so seductive :/

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