Getting Back Together With Venus Retrograde

Is getting back together with Venus Retrograde a good idea? As in you’re re-thinking your decision to split? Or, is it astrologically bad?

Venus Retrograde naturally entices even the most stoic mind down the path of “what if…?” It is a time when the prospect of closure, revival, or even just contact with an ex can seem more appealing.

It’s also just the Retro-Venusian Voodoo; strange echoes of relationships gone by haunt perfectly normal waking moments. That’s if they’re not sending you strange messages already.

Or you turn around a perfectly ordinary street corner and bam – there they are. Or, propelled into a social media e-sleuthing session, you discover data that makes you unaccountably miss them. Less savourily, you feel a surge of belated possessiveness. It’s betrayal, god-damn it, they belong to you.

Pull the hell out! There is a stage beyond Love Zombie, and that is becoming a necrophiliac of love.

It is a fantastic phase for therapy around relationship choices and drawing a line between you and the romantic past. And by line, I mean more like a border with flashing lights and drone patrols.

But getting back together with Venus Retrograde is not a good idea. Wait until Venus Direct and then reassess. Retrogrades have many useful purposes, but they’re not traditionally suitable for starting things that you would like to endure.

 

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Andru

Hey we’re in Gemini, trickster territory or the Magician in the Tarot. First it’s this then it’s that. Which is it? Keep your channels open, stay focused and follow it all the way through. Call it down – attain clarity. For the new to arise the old must die. I Ching by Hilary Barrett Hexagram 49 Revolution: In the moment of change [Venus Transit] there is truth — sincerity and sure knowledge. Here’s something for Gemini 17 degree from Star Sparks Elias Lonsdalle Gemini 17 A magic coin that has only one side Being suspended within an atmosphere, a feeling… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

This is fantastic. Thank you for sharing it, Andru.

Scorporation, Inc.

To some, to me, telepathy is like radio: I turn the knob this way, I pick up this station/frequency; I dial the other way, I pick up other frequencies. It’s no more magic to me than my artistic abilities: gifts, definitely. Magic, not so much. So my telepathic partner realizes her gift, too. Good for her, good for all of us! Like someone said earlier in this thread, telepathy is something we’re all capable of, and I agree wholeheartedly. Like drawing or making music, some of us just seem to come by it naturally and without instruction; others take some… Read more »

age of aquarius

Wow! Thanks for posting that, Andru! Interesting, my friend-in-telepathy has his Sun at 17 degrees of Gemini also conjunct Mercury and Eros…..wonder what he’s feeling during this time of transits and eclipses! I guess I could tune in…….Like you said, Scorporation, it’s like tuning into a radio station, and the frequencies have to be aligned…. I’ve turned down the volume on this guy lately, but a little bit has come through, mostly through music. Anyway…..what an amazing eclipse time/Venus retro/Venus in front of Sun/ time this has been…..and I’ll be interested to see what the next couple days bring! During… Read more »

age of aquarius

…..ha ha! Haven’t ‘tuned in’ to telepathy-dude in months but after all the writing about it I’ve done lately, I guess the vibe reached him ’cause tonight, out of the blue, he started tweeting away after months of silence…

Andru

Age of Aquarious and Scorporation, you both mention, turning off or turning down this telepathy at will. How do you do that? I don’t seem to have any control with this – it comes when it comes. It’s a soul resonance. I’ve wondered if the moon triggers the resonant communications as there are a plethora of connections in our charts? There’s also a lot of restraining factors keeping us apart until the field is ready, so to speak. Restraint can be such a gift – a hard lesson to learn. Anyway, Gemini 17 is the midpoint Venus/Sun degree between the… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

You know what, though? On the flip side of all that, I no longer have the umph to run a few errands without needing a nap. I can’t get through most days without needing at least a few hours sleep in between things… It’s sad. I’m running out of time. Sometimes I feel really optimistic and like I have greatness to share (yesterday), but most times I feel realistic and like I don’t have the energy to entertain a real partner (today). Whatever. I’m tired, and I’m going to bed. That’s all.

Scorporation, Inc.

Great: now I can’t sleep. Well, what did everybody expect: it’s a full-tilt waxing moon in Scorp, along with all else heavily planetarily-aspected. My astro said something about not pretending that shit’s normal, and to speak the truth. With Saturn bearing down on my Uranus-Merc conjunct, well, I’m keeping it real, yeah? In case anyone’s tempted to provide sympathy or cheer-lead, please don’t. I’m not trolling for either. I just have a lot of heavy shit on my mind, and it comes and goes… Developing primary progressive multiple sclerosis was not in my plan lol. It’s been a lot to… Read more »

milleunanotte

No wonder you’re so tired, Scorporation. You’re right, noone can tell you how to handle those core things, health, income, family etc on a blog. I know you don’t want sympathy and i don’t pity you, but i feel deeply for you.

May your tribe hold you in loving arms tomorrow. May you find solid steady practical support. May you sleep restfully for now xxxxxxx

Scorporation, Inc.

xoxoxo mille

milleunanotte
Scorporation, Inc.

*love*

Andru

Thanks for that beautiful musical interlude!

12th house virgo

I was thinking of all this soul mating talk and a line from the Grinch seemed appropriate “it came without packages, boxes, or bags.” Ah, unconditional love. Odd it pains us so much to feel love without “proof.” I finally have a Venus Retro tale. There’s this odd Libran who looks like a ginger-Jesus. He and I went to a psychic circle in the States a year or two ago. The medium was an Aborigini woman who said he was an Atlantian from the future. Dude is weird and freaking out on my Facebook photos. Ha! He’s not an ex-lover.… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

The only person I’m absolutely sure I feel unconditional love for is my son. As for my telepathic partner… Sometimes I think she takes advantage of this whole situation and it really pisses me off. I’m pretty pissed off right now! Full Moon Eclipse eruption warning in 5, 4, 3, 2, And I’m sick of being alone. Sick of raising my son alone, sick of doing fucking MS alone, sick of being alone! I deserve a good partner– my son and I both deserve it– and I deserve to be happy, and I deserve it NOW– right the fuck now–… Read more »

12th house virgo

Scorporation, Inc. – first, a-fuquing-men! I’ve got friends coming to stay at my house this summer. I am so looking forward to listening to my daughter talk to someone other than me. I want to know her through other relationships. I want her to know me through other relationships. Its wearying, being so self-sufficient, being so alone. I invested 13 years in a family (via marriage) that now acts like I’m dead, bascially. And the family I was born with – let’s just say I did the right thing by letting go. I so want a family. And its not… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

Yes, I so hear all of that, 12thHV. I too pulled us out of a bad marriage because it wasn’t healthy for my son and me. He never has to worry that he’ll be captive to some seriously messed up home life/partnership of mine, because I’d never have it– hence, my being alone. And yes, being alone is definitely preferable to being in an unhealthy relationship! You’re so right: my telepathic “partner” doesn’t deserve me! I deserve Better– so much better! And I want a real, better partner to materialize Right Now. Five years, waiting… Five years… Thanks for listening,… Read more »

12th house virgo

I’m trying to be nuanced here…hmm…everyone deserves love and no one deserves it. It just is. You love her. So what? Have you really been waiting just for her? I say this and please know that I do empathize with the pain/loneliness – and feel the same. But when I start getting judgmental about my partner (telepathic or otherwise), it inevitably follows that I start getting judgmental about myself/my life. So…she isn’t around. Have you really be waiting for her? Is she responsbile for solving the lonely problem? Or – is it that you’d be lonely either way – phase… Read more »

12th house virgo

I guess the point I am really trying to make is – when you let go of neediness and I-deserveness, you are free to feel in love. Just that. And it feels good to feel that way. Like a really nice drug. Dose responsbily, sure. But I don’t see a value in throwing out what’s magical for the sake of what’s quantifiable or controlable.

Andru

Thank you for this great non-tabloid exchange between you and Scorporation. This stuff is really happening to real people and only those who have experienced such telepathic loving/lovers, in differnet guises, can understand. Others must scratch their heads.

Something great is birthing here; an evolving way of relating.

Scorporation, Inc.

Yeah, I have been waiting for her. And she knows it. We will have to disagree on the “I deserve” perspective. I believe that “I deserve” is empowering; it’s an I statement to the universe that declares one realizes one’s own self-worth, and one’s entitlement to happiness. I do agree that everyone deserves love, happiness, complete attainment and fulfillment. If anyone said, “I deserve to be loved/happy/etc.!” I would emphatically agree, because Everyone deserves. I get angry with her when I feel she’s taking advantage of the situation– taking advantage of me. I am not a practicality, something to get… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

I find nothing magical in telepathic partnership. To me, Magic is creating a real growing and evolving relationship, with lovemaking and squabbles and snoring and work and leisure time together. Creating and growing a family, getting old together… To me, *that* is magic!

Scorporation, Inc.

And finally– haha! sorry– I’m not “needy”– I’ve been *wanting* Her! Ever since we met– Bam! Her! Totally knocked me on my ass! Our telepathic relationship has told me that she feels it, too: our connection has been undeniable. On some level, though, she doesn’t think *she* deserves– so she translates my knowing and desire into something less-than. She projects that crap onto me, and warps what I know and understand into “neediness,” I think. And that’s too bad… For us both. I can’t make her see, make her believe she deserves, and I’m not happy pretending like this telepathic… Read more »

12th house virgo

Scorporation, Inc- I so love you right now. Ha! Keep your heart open and all sorts of strange creatures fly in. I hope you get more, More, MORE than you ever dreamed you deserve. Sincerely – blessings to you and your boy.

Scorporation, Inc.

Blessings to you and yours, too πŸ™‚

missfine

Well ex lover who i totally want nothing to do with cause he sucks was cruisin for sympathy and whining to me on FB. whatever. the big news is I’m going to see my father in person for the first time in 12 or 13 years. he left when i was 14/15, i’m 27 now. and I’ll be seeing him probably ON JUNE 4th. I wonder if venus retro ever has anything to do with parental reunions? things with my present guy are GREAT. i fuqin love him. and i don’t know how he deals with me. he’s as sweet… Read more »

saggyaquaofnyc

LITERALLY THE DAY I FEEL OFFICIALLY OVER IT, i get a text. Different cities and haven’t seen in months. I was certain this would not happen as i read this article days ago. It did and the convo fizzled after my aqua self took to long to respond to each text. Gem has gf and older. at first im like wtf, what is there to talk about and realizations of how i blew his image up in my mind etc came about. Decided not to give it another try at a conversion today because every sign is pointing to no.… Read more »

12th house virgo

saggyaquaofnyc – that in my humble opinion is the Universe testing your resolve. If you felt better and at peace, why let another’s actions affect that vibe? I totally get the heart-strings pull, but the Universe basically doesn’t. Hold your resolve for best results. And be kind to yourself about the fact that’s hard.

saggyaquaofnyc

thnx<3

saggyaquaofnyc

the universe does seems to like to keep you in line..

Vee

Well…took a major chance with an old friend from school by sharing a week in Bali to celebrate his 50th. Have only seen him like 4 times since school. We live on the same latitude but on opposite sides of the country. The trip started with me missing my plane which meant flying out on the eclipse 20th May…. He is a Toro and I ze Crab I have had the most amazing full on love experience of my life…. In the days since returning 27th, I have been unable to talk to him via my devices all being f’ed… Read more »

greenfirespirit

Most of what I’ve read about this venus retrograde and venus transit is about stuff coming up (coming back) to be finished/eliminated etc. BUT there have also been several mentions of second chances – reunions that have a more positive “meant to be” sort of vibe….SOOOOO how will I know which it is? O.K. I admit I desire that he is back cuz he’s meant to be back and this time around it falls into place with ease and grace….could this scenario be possible?
he’s a libra with sagitarius rising
and I’m a gemini with scorpio rising

Vee

I’m in the same boat, seems so right. (see post below yrs)

I guess I should just be celebrating the wonderful opportunity I have just experienced. I have never felt so loved and cared for in my life…. Thank you Venus xxx

Aqualeoscorpmn

My retro venus reunion is with this blog, Venus is traveling across my 11th which does rule blogs- I survived the libran gavel, lol and am gonna put more venus into my replies.

I think people take them the wrong way when I forget a few of venus words. Pluto in Libs my only libra placement.

But like libra Barbara Walters can tame the people passionately debating at her table. I gotta give it to libran placed for there ability to bring together both sides in a way that makes it as comfortable as poss for all parties involved.

zappity

oh yeah profound dream i will be the courageous mermaid and cut the line, the sea is ruled by neptune’s dream and it has plenty of fish, crazy kool school of colorful new peers. “remain in the light …. no mediocrity”(MM)

Oran_Mor

Just had a thought.. So, I accept it’s not really advisable to go making ‘drippy’ contact with our ex’s, but what sort of contact is wise exactly? I’m wanting to close the book on one completely, but do so peacefully and respectfully, and not provoke any further negativity. I’m not really sure how to go about doing this at this point, and I’d kinda like to do so in conjunction with the upcoming eclipse as it feels right to do so. On the other hand I’m really not sure how to treat the other ‘ex’ in question during this time… Read more »

12th house virgo

Oran_Mor – retros are for going over things and if your intention is true about closure – follow it. I wanted to end a bond and did so on a during a moon that was advertised as unviable for making contact. But since my intention was to end, it worked. If your’e intention is to settle and bring peace – maybe retros are the right time? Just my opinion.

Oran_Mor

Sounds about right to me. I’ve been pondering over exactly how to do this the last few days but I’m getting there. I know my ex is going to be pretty hurt but the fact is I have to do what I have to do, demons must be exorcised, etc.. I’m just being extremely careful as to not be aggressive about doing it.

Everyone has the right to set themselves free, right?

Mush

“Fuqing up” as a fear that you’re not going to read the external signs right shows a lack of connectedness with your internal guidance. I’d be more concerned to follow what you think you feel and see how it comes out. Hone your ability to read yourself. Take the zillion variations in astrological charts. What goes on with your planetary placements and alignments at any partiular moment can’t be covered by a generalied statement. Do the thing you fear (making intuitive decisions) till you don’t fear it anymore. It’s another one of those learn-by-doing situations. And as far as provoking… Read more »

Oran_Mor

Well said amigo. Ultimately I always try my utmost best to follow my intuition with the utmost integrity, but I am only human and I falter at times even when I have no intention of doing so.

Can be pretty tricky with so much on ones plate at once, but I can’t help but be somewhat amazed by how well I’m actually juggling it all..

Anonymous

Nobody that I want to see from my past. Once its done its OVER!
Im laying low!!

Bluesky

I seem to be on a perfume bender. I can’t stop sampling new fragrances and ordering samples online. I need a hotline/call-in place that will talk me down. How many different scents can a woman wear? Usually, I am a one-scent per year (or longer) kind of person although I do switch it up every couple/few years.

Other than that I am obsessed with flowers. I guess this is better than obsessing on ex’s (???)

Bluesky

PS– I just remembered that I went on a scent hunt and went into a whole new place with scent during 2004 (the other Venus retro). I was on a quest then, as well, and got into the whole layering thing–but that was pre-recession when every scent had tons on product options. Now the labels are more cost conscious and only provide the bare bones of a line. *sigh*

zappity

Wow MM how could i survive without your magic? hmmph hmmph yessiree last nov. lost contact with lover cuz he unexpectedly fell in love?!? called on me apr.3 i ans. cuz i dropped his contact number did not recognize his # and now he is forever trying to gain my attention and invites into my life huh well idk do i play fish or cut the line? mermaids on neptune time wait it out till august?

inger

Screening my calls…

Baristagem

😯

How awesome is THIS! 😯

https://theconversation.edu.au/an-upcoming-transit-7339

Pegasus

Moon Calendar from Creative Cronies also says that
it’s ‘an intense and cosmic portal indeed’.
And that Vensu was the most important planet to the Mayans. A time of perfect harmonic resonance.
How inspiring.

Vuldaen

I’m really not interested in ex fuqery lol

Aphrodite Rising

Really weird this should come up right now. I’m arranging a reunion with my uni mates from the late ‘sixties, early ‘seventies when I holiday in the UK in Sept-Oct, and one of them suggested my ex turn up, a guy I haven’t seen since 1972. Weird stuff, can’t work out if I want to see him or not. He told me, in front of everyone on the kibbutz, that I always “had to be right”, (yes, end of relationship, full stop) and couldn’t see that I absorb information like a sponge, facts, figures, people, conversations. And then when my… Read more »

Darrell

AND.. well yes I do remember seeing a photo of my ex-wife on Facebook the other day.. Meanwhile speaking of Venus(r) in Gemini.. occurring in my 2nd house, closely aligned with my *Sol-Arc Mercury in Gemini.. moving back towards my natal Venus in Gemini, I have also seemingly come across the Mythologist, Storyteller & modern day Shaman Micheal Meade.. Wow.. this guy IS the “essence” of Uranus in Aries square Pluto in Capricorn.. And speaking of the last ‘Transit of Venus’, ie. in the sign of Gemini, over the Sun this Century!!! While this Venus retro began with a close… Read more »

Pegasus

That was a great read Darrell, lean red quite a bit from it
especially my thing of Understanding and loving indigenous
peeps.
This coming Venus transit only the 7th recorded, it will be a special time. Like the expression-impression of Venus impregnating the Sun.
Thanx

Darrell

Thanks Pegasus..

Yes, you just reminded me that this is the 7th recorded ‘Transit of Venus’, I forgot about that.. representing the 7 traditional planets, or archetypal teachers….. Yes, as we move into this Uranus-Pluto square, it will be interesting to see what the grown-ups from the mid-1960’s conjunction will bring forth into this world… The number 7 sybolising the searcher & seeker of Truth, according to Hans Decoz..

Darrell

AND… of course the purpose of “Life” itself is to BECOME ONES “SELF”.. And all the other stuff is just there as a kind of ‘side-show’.. ie. ‘Know Thyself” etc et al…. And, this is why I love the work of people in this world like Michael Meade etc who are trying to get us to connect with our own ‘Genius” within…….

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

man it ain’t raining = it’s pouring!! frolicking home post PRINCE with a bestie, (yes that symbol formerly known as a man), dropped by a friends BBQ. by then it was late, & we were fairly well seasoned having danced our pants off to the little big guy ….. & without warning – BAM!! usurped in a glance by a very tall, funny, smart Crab …. barely leaving each other since. the opposite of where I’d been for the better part of the last decade. cue Le Ram, ricocheting unprovoked vitriol via SMS & email – all communique was duly… Read more »

Pi

omg please report back RLP re Stop the Virgens, on whatever post is latest at the time! I can’t afford to go and… I watched an interview with her on the creative process behind it and…aaaagh *frustrated musician here*

xx

Anonymous

Karen O IS my goddess!!!

years ago Pav bought them out – when they were indy nobodies & she was the most captivating woman let loose on stage I’d ever witnessed!! performance art ….

we hung out for a bit – she was seeing an Australian guy at the time …..

if yr in Aust find podcast from JJJ radio interview yesterday …..

yeah yeah yeah!! πŸ˜‰

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

^ ^ ^ whats with the disappearing Gravatar /// ^ ^ ^

*heads back to tend deadlines ….

Pi

xxx

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

OK – now I have worked out who I’m talking to you get the whole story PI / UP!! Karen O’s show was one of the single most mindblowing things ever. that’s EVER. production design – BEYOND!! walked up to her after the show & put my hand out & said hi – I’m RLP. she was a lot more guarded than when I met her before she was super famous. I then sent to Nick Zinner & talked photography his books & suggested we run a show. then got overwhelmed by the company I was keeping when quiet gentle… Read more »

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

PS I took Le Ram as a divorce present – we held hands so tightly knowing it was the last dance. he watched me front my intendeds (Karen O girl crush now on overdrive) ….. & said ‘you are remarkable. what can I do to get you back’.

‘notice me 10 years ago, not now!’

am so happily ensconced in the new era – his shutting door after horse has bolted is not really a problem. not for anyways :-)!!

Ms.

How venus retro is that?. Glad you have a good crab though, those ones are gold x

Anonymous

Ms … word me up on the Kataka … have no priors but tis a wonderful break from *RAMS!!!

all good in your hood hotstuff??

xox πŸ˜‰ xox

crackhead sick of disappearing gravatars .....

WTF … ^ ^ ^ damn it!!

Ms.

lol x

Pegasus

Rocky, if you are still around, wear masses of silver, bracelets, rings, necklets of good quality silver for Kataka men. This i know attracts them.
Moonstone even if you have.
Rams and drama, o tell me about it, reason i didn’t marry ex-fiance.x

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

BINGO!! Pegs am always chunked up with tacks of Silver – up the arms, never leave house without massive silver arm cuff, the parrot …. so vibing right there!!

Oh to be away from the psychodrama is psychologically liberating. Le Ram is been stung bad, thankfully smart enough to see that me disappearing is wholly of his own doing … seeya cowboy!!

xox

Ms.

Hood is good sweets, thanks for asking x Though there is a hateful moan of the girls re crab men on here I have to say that the loyal steadfast shell of granite that is kataka is totally amazing when an invite is extended to share the shell. They make wholesome and something slightly old fashioned seem totally amazing. The right ones have EQ that will blow your mind, views on love that will kick your arse and let you ebb and flow in ways that make you feel totally like a woman. The epic game play of fire signs… Read more »

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

excellent re things rocking & rolling in your life Ms!!

your insights resonate & perfect timing – the crab shel – just struck that for first time this week – makes perfect sense … yes re wholesome, yes re mind-blowing EQ – yes re the real woman aspect ….. added bonus – he’s French (but lives here!)

first Kataka – worth Le Wait!! πŸ˜‰ XOX

salbra

oh should not have said yes to that wine drinking catch up then.. so should not have…

Tee

Hahahaha re: the Leo uber-text. Anyway, this explains why guy I briefly dated last year (also a Leo) sent me a “what’s up” text over the weekend. Deleted his # months ago but thankfully Blackberry retains some record of previous texts so I knew it was him. Not responding! In any case, definitely struggling to regain Sagg-ability at moment. I know it’s supposed to be intense, but honestly am looking forward to Eclipse in my sign next weekend!

monte

Where am I? Grumpy and tired. And not really looking forward to eight hours teaching today – 10.15 to 9.30!

angel

cripes, we so lucky to have your wisdom mystic! yes, psycho ex now bailed up in the bush getting our self sufficiency dream underway (but alas not for me, well, with him anyways..)oh but i cldnt help noticing him bare chested glistening in the sun tending to the vegetables and playing with our children…libran fantasies ensued and the pull was so strong that when the children went down for their nap i had to throw them in the car and get the hell outta there before i jumped his bones right there in between the cabbages and kale…lucky for me… Read more »

The Double Trouble Scorp

went to see the guy i’ve had a weird affair with for two and a half years in paris. felt utterly lonely and melancholy. don’t know what to think and what to make of him. it’s been on for too long, also, to change now, i think. although i wouldn’t know whether to change the whole thing by giving it up or by suggesting we tried a serious relationship. we’re utterly anachronized (if that’s a word) – he’s been into this for long, but i was hesitant; now the roles are reversed. or maybe they’re not and i’m just in… Read more »

age of aquarius

Retro Venus is transiting my 12th house.. Resurfacing of a seven year long telepathic ‘relationship’. He is a Gemini Sun so in synastry his sun falls into my 12th and now retro Venus transiting that…. This connection has taken place pretty much in the astral plane this whole time. I got frustrated with it after awhile and ignored it for a long time but it comes back to the fore at times and it’s been on my mind again, I guess due to the transit. This has been a lonely experience for seven years as it is difficult to explain… Read more »

12th house virgo

OMG -yes. Been in back to back telepathic relationships for nearly three years now. Sucks. Sometimes I think its all a cosmic conspiracy to make sure I never have sex again. LOL! It takes a lot of discipline to accept the connection and not freak or get angry about it. Sometimes I think “This is such bullshit – none of this is real, none of this is happening” and then the wisdom voice in me says “since when do you get to call what’s real around here?” I mean, we like to believe in magic when it isn’t so…nebulous, yeah?… Read more »

age of aquarius

Wow, thanks 12th House Virgo! You totally understand! It’s validating to know others go through this type of thing, too, though I wish it on no one, because it is, in the end, quite emotionally painful. It was fun and interesting at the beginning, but now I have no use for it and, like you mentioned, it feels like a cosmic conspiracy to keep me from having other connections, sexual or otherwise. This situation really has blocked me in ways from other relationships, though I have tried other relationships. I try to ‘turn down the volume’ on this telepathic one,… Read more »

12th house virgo

I don’t buy into the twin flame thing. We aren’t made half of anything. We’re whole beings. The Creator would never make your well being contingent upon the spiritual condition of another. But, yeah, karmic-spiritual relationships are painful. I find the less I try to control or judge my feelings, the better. The more I use my anger/frustration/loneliness to notice and articulate what I want to Source, the better off I am. The pain indicates where you need to heal as well – it isn’t all about the other person. Frankly, I’m sick of bettering myself alone, but that’s the… Read more »

age of aquarius

Thank you SO much, again, 12th House Virgo, for your words of wisdom. Very helpful for me, and I appreciate you taking the time! I do think this is a call for me to have a stronger relationship with Source, and when I’m in the flow and streaming with that connection to Source, I feel the best I ever feel. I guess I get side-tracked at times….we all do, I suppose. I, too, think the ‘twin flame’ thing is just a head trip and a construct. The more I investigated the concept or definition, the more I felt wary, and… Read more »

12th house virgo

Anytime, age of aquarius. Thanks for the note. I’m a double virgo and I love being useful to others. Good luck.

toomuchgoingon

Good to know there are others out there processing this weird stuff. My ‘telepathic link’ has chosen to turn his back on me without so much as a recognition of what has been going on between us (two years of intense mutual longing and soul-gazing – but nothing else!) which has been hideously painful to go through without a resolution, but I agree you can heal yourself if you are prepared to face the pain and understand the lessons. You have to feel sorry for those who chose to walk away from spiritual growth but I understand too well how… Read more »

angel

right on!

Scorporation, Inc.

Oh gawd: I so know what you’re talking about. I wish I didn’t, but I do. Mine’s been 5 years– and counting. I say I wish I didn’t know what you were talking about, and then I feel like, “Oh, I wouldn’t trade it for anything.” So, a lot of ambivalence. Because it’s horribly painful at times, lonely, stifling, etc., and then it’s the greatest thing I’ve ever known. I’ve tried to leave it– really really tried! Conventional wisdom tells me that a partner exists in 3D, not telepathically. So I indulged a crush a couple of times, dated someone…… Read more »

toomuchgoingon

I wish there were answers too Scorporation. I’ve heard these things can go on for decades which is just too hideous to contemplate. Maybe we should form a support group – it’s so hard for anyone who hasn’t gone through it to understand.

Scorporation, Inc.

Yeah, maybe so. πŸ™‚ Thank you, toomuch.

Scorporation, Inc.

It sure could! Thank you, Andru. *hugs*

age of aquarius

Just now seeing your comments, Scorporation. Wow, so many of us are experiencing this! I wonder what it’s all about…..? Like 12th house Virgo said, the ‘twin flames’ idea just doesn’t cut it as an explanation or even as a stand-alone concept. I mean, I think telepathy is something everyone is capable of, but it’s the emotional side of the connection and for me sometimes I just ask the universe over and over, why can’t I also connect with him on the earthly plane? The answer I get over and over is that this is a spiritual experience, not a… Read more »

12th house virgo

Connections are nice if you just let them be. No shit – its hard work. But its energy work. It is magic. The other day, sitting at my desk at work I could feel Uranian Scorp feeling stupid about how crazy his ex is. And it was clear like a conversation between us and I said “So what? I was married to a gay guy for 11 years.” And I laughed a big belly laugh with him at what fools we are. So intimate, you know? Beyond intimacy in that magic-telepathic way. Why should that hurt me? To have something… Read more »

Scorporation, Inc.

I met a guy today named Gary. I’m going to ask him out. LOL

age of aquarius

Beautifully stated, 12th house Virgo! I really find your words very soothing. ‘Intimate’ communication…yes! Another thing I experience is remote viewing with this person. Like, I’ll be going about my day and I’ll get a visual flash of another place, location, and then find out later that’s where he was. It’s like we look through each other’s eyes. Do you experience remote viewing? I think the hurt or pain that comes with this connection is just the longing and longing and longing to be physically close, but really, this person is closer to me in telepathy than just about everyone… Read more »

toomuchgoingon

I am really enjoying reading all these brilliant insights – they’re really helping. I agree so much with you AoA, especially on the intimacy thing. I have never experienced anything so intimate as this. I think ego death is the answer to dealing with the pain. As 12HV says, allowing the pure love to overwhelm is fine (why punish ourselves right?) without the toxic needing/wanting/longing, which is just futile given the circumstances. I do get the flashes of events too. So odd – I have never really thought much about that aspect, but I get shown stuff from time to… Read more »

Mush

The only reunion I am having is with myself. I told the two men I see that I need to focus on me right now. They patiently wait for my contact, which I appreciate. I am Venus (as a female; not some kind of bats declaration here). As it transits through the signs I become a different aspect of that Goddess. So I’m retro-ing into myself, and it feels just right at this moment.

Victoria

Yes, the ex wants to… I don’t know, probably have a fling. But no. There was a time when I would have considered it, but after running into him a few times, I can see that we should not have been together in the first place and I am remembering why we broke up. No, thank you. Time to meet the new fish in the sea. πŸ™‚

Electric Eel Libran

Sweet! I think fair Venus would be impressed by your toilet fixing skills. Spray some rose water on it and call it a day! =)

krissy

Uh-oh… Over the weekend, I needed an emotional “reset” due to a recent death of a close family member so I bored-dialed an ex-beau who showed me a great time. I guess as long as I don’t expect it to last or go anywhere, it will be cool, right??? **Gulps**

Tina Marie

I excused myself to cry in the bathroom last night over my ex-husband. It’s been 11 years. Then, was pissed at myself for doing so. It seems like I never get rid of the feelings I have for people, even if I’ve physically moved on. Irritating. It could also be that I’m now in a relationship with someone who makes me want to stab them in the face repeatedly. ::shrug::

The Double Trouble Scorp

what sign are you? it’s not an entirely unknown reaction to me! in a way the people you’ve once loved have a special place in your heart, even if you curse them every once in a while… πŸ˜‰

The Green Witch

The light bulb has finally flashed. Venus in the fourth – the house of home and family – and the last week has just brought up the issues that led to me distancing myself from my sisters for a long time. (Over the last couple of years I have been trying to build bridges but I’ve recently inadvertently acted as a catalyst, raising ghosts that have not been put to rest). It’s been interesting, though, understanding that these are feelings I used to have when I was a kid when I realised that people were lying and not behaving honourably.… Read more »

lady j

I feel you my dear, I feel you. A lot of troubled, previously painful issues with my mother have come up and been put to rest – years of pain and rose-colored lenses of looking for assurance. I’m glad we can let go and move on this transit.

Sally

Torn between the old and the new.

Or perhaps not so much torn, as considering the old and the new.

It’s a Gemini thing.

lady j

Anyone else having this Venus rx affect issues with women in their lives? I have a natal Venus rx in Gemini, 4th and 5th house cusp. this entire period has made me wake up (with the aid also of lovingly blunt Aries husband) that my mothers lack emotional depth will always be as such and I should stop believing I’ll ever get her emotional response to any events in my life. I also went back to my alma mater this week, an all girls school, after almost 10 years, to talk to young women abou t overcoming their fears and… Read more »

Sunrise

Yep, having trouble with the women in my life, not my mother, but female friends and feeling like I am on a different more authentic frequency vs immature nonsense.

I have distanced myself a bit trying to figure out why I feel so discombobulate. Venus is my ruler. Am so exhausted too.

Sunrise

Oh and venus is retrograding in my 4th and saturn is transiting my venus.

Am recently single after 4 years (two weeks ago just before venus went retro) and have moved into my own place, and trying to figure out my next career move whilst being true to myself even if it means temporary loneliness.

And my budget just got slashed due to aforementioned singularity.

But quietly jumping for joy at my New Freedom because the relationship wasn’t right for either of us.

Anonymous

Jesus sunrise… Sending you support laughter love and a bloody good um something… Whatever you might need at a down and out time.. Go girl!

Charley

Ok, so dating a new guy (Cappy with Sag rising + Venus conj Uranus in Scorpio, am I insane?) it started 3 weeks before Venus went RX so I’m feeling like it’s kind of only vaguely associated with this transit. Thing is he lives in the town where my ultimate love affair started over a decade ago so I’m having to revisit the place where my life basically went wrong and finally processing the massive damage from that. It’s too complicated to explain here but needless to say it’s very bizarre and very Venus RX. Added to that the first… Read more »

WOOHOO

I don’t think I’ve ever felt so much like I mean nothing until now. It’s horrible. I want to meet someone new, but why bother. I’ve spent since mid-April constantly reminding myself that I’ll be the apple of someone’s eye someday…. Someone who isn’t a stalker.

Charley

Oh I’m sure you will. Two months ago my romantic life was a wasteland of tumbleweeds and sadness, now I literally have offers coming from all angles. It’s totally bizarre but it can just change, trust and I’m sure you deserve someone who isn’t a stalker!

AzA

Funny, I live with an Ex, this almost happened last night, winter has hit, it was cold, she kept pouring me more red wine, we got mildly intoxicated… BUT, we both resisted. The urge was that strong that we were texting each other from our rooms after we went to bed. On reflection thank the olde ones I didn’t go there.

Taurean Alchemist

I don’t get it. I cannot get with the Venus vibe at all. Perhaps it is Saturn on my Libra moon?

Nary a man in sight… and I am hotter than ever – slinking around Adelaide in high high heels with my hair curled and my lips glossed. What is wrong with these guys?

Anonymous

i think it could be saturn TA. or you’re out on the town the week there is a National conference for the blind and vision-impaired.

FTR, i always see lots of spunky men at the following places:

film studies courses, whisky or beer tastings, mechanics (obv), on the jogging track near my house, in burger restaurants e.g. Grill’d, or other places that serve grilled / roast meat of some sort (you know the local but awesome special-recipe roast chicken & chips place etc), outdoors gear stores, surf beaches….

Anonymous

well, that’s a good place to start flirting anyway. venus in ares anyone πŸ˜‰

Taurean Alchemist

How’d you know about my Venus in Aries darls?

I will seek out a meat-serving restaurant tomorrow!

x

Pi

because it’s me, once-was-unpredictable-pisces, and I was thinking of my own V in A, then vaguely recalled you had the same placement as i was typing that ! πŸ˜‰ xx

Pi

and obv if you were vego / vegan you’d need to rethink the carnivore destinations…! x

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

U.P / now I can seee how you know lol

TA – shake that tail & dont look back…. flick the hair & click click into the sunset.

flirt with the postman, charm the milk bar guy – its addictive. trust me!!

xox

Pegasus

What’s wrong with these guys?
How long do you have for me to tell you?
Believe me Beauty it is not you, it’s them.
(from one who knows their foibles) x

Pi

I love your wisdom pegsy x

Anonymous

Nada. Went this ex trawling of memories last month with such efficiency and microscopic evaluation that now on reading this I thought oh…should I be thinking about x? And nothing. Not even a twitch.
Better things to do:-)))

Savannah

They’re crawling out of everywhere old lovers. Leo lover texting, puppy dog eyes when he passese. New one is being hilarious! Yes the games have begun as you said Mystic πŸ™‚

leogroover

had had first comms with SO for 2 weeks and was able to support him after a difficult time. I’ve been weird to andso focussed on anyhting but venus themes. which is good. so i say it will pass me by as i have more important things to do like look after myself.

Ainslie

I miss my ex ( suppressed rage mixed with sooky la lah) and Ive got a crush on a new hot and far more suited x…. So I guess bang on : )

Ms.

managed to tie up loose ends last week with anyone vaguely past harassing me. Money has been halved though due to unforeseen events so while there is a good slow mo action with actual career, I am about to get zap screwed lively unless something comes through while I am resting a cracked rib. The square and eclipse much stronger than venus for me at the mo. Trying to take good advice and cruise on romance with lots of communication πŸ™‚

Pi

ahaha Ms, I got as far as ‘tie up’ and thought, ooh, what juicy stuff has Ms got going on this week?! hahaha sorry scorps on the brain πŸ˜‰ x

Ms.

haha. that is a different story πŸ˜‰

Ms.

virgo’s to the rescue on the zap front, proper mars in effect here. seriously tight tope walking.

Pi

good luck…

dash of libra, shaken, not stirred

I recognise that image – is your avatar from True Blood?

Ms.

no idea. I thought it was a mag shot? did a google for smoking lips tbh x

Electric Eel Libran

Oh my! I hope your cracked rib heals up soon! Hopefully it was obtained doing something fun!

Pegasus

Mentioning rats, my beloved twin champagne coloured pets, Jack & Henry (after Keroac & Miller) are amazing their Vets by how long they are living with their a serious congenital respiratory disease, due to diet. Vets commented they eat better than them. They are on 2 different antibiotics daily but still, just as well this is so as they are costing me a escape holiday via airport. This is what love can do, but do try and have yourselves lovers instead of 4 legged furry creatures when you reach my age. Just saying πŸ™‚ That Indian Goddess of Rats will… Read more »

Pegasus

They are Aquarians. This IS an Astrology site.
Rescued on April 1. Yes, i know.

Quadrupled

πŸ™‚ There is a heavenly merit to all of us who fight for their pets’ health. Yes, that is what love does.

Pi

I agree. Pet Love is universal love. xx

Virgomorn'

Sadly two of my pets have died within the last two months. My favorite this weekend…sigh. However, I read somewhere or my mom told me, that when a pet dies they give their soul for something that you greatly need in your life. Wow! my hubby is a Gemini. We’ve had a rough time of it for 2 yesrs (jobwise ,etc) He has started a business and is up for a job offer. The dualities abound. I very much am into “symbiols” if you will. Is this a sign that our lives have turned a corner? Once again our lovely… Read more »

Pegasus

My sympathies. This is a situation where replacement
therapy is a good thing.
Was told by an animal whisperer that animals have a collective soul not an individual one, so i guess that means they will never be lonely in the after-life when they join their buddies that have gone before them
in the Happy Hunting Ground.

Libragirl

My boyfirend hates me!!!! He’s being a total a**hole, rude and extremely difficult to be with…….We’re not getting on at all and I’m falling over backwards to keep things together and he’s never really satisfied with anything I do – i’m really not looking forward to the ZZ next weel – anyone got any ideas?

iris aquacat

3 words: Get. Out. Fast.

Pi

LibraLovely, oh my god, let me speak from experience when I say GET RID OF HIM! “My boyfriend hates me” is NOT OK. Boyfriends are meant to love and canoodle and buy you surprise chocolates, not be shits. I don’t know how old you are but if you;re on the younger side, guys can do this when they’re too chicken to admit something bigger. So you get to to the dumping instead of them. you are young and beautiful and your whole life is ahead of you, you do not need this shit, other men can love you BETTER, you… Read more »

Pi

P.S. Dump Him.

Libragirl

WOW You guys are soooooo amazing!!! I’m on the old side of young!!! HAHAHAHA Have been with him for 13 years……..Yes I should dump him and sell the house we own – I knew that – I just needed to hear it!!!!! thanks all you gorgeous people xxx

Anonymous

oh wow, ok that’s serious business… well, you know, make sure you have covered all the relevant relationship solutions first… maybe you have.

Pi

go on then. take your own advice! xxx

scorpiorising

I back running off to Europe or somewhere exotic.

xox rockstar libran publicist xox

being consumed by out old in new re affairs of the heart – I can entirely bypass the fact I spent 9 1/2 challenging years with a guy who didnt appreciate me – only to walk into dream boy …. oh the change the change – so awesome!!

ditch the guy who doesnt appreciate you & jet off for inspiration – @domestic trif speaks so much sense – espesh now she’s taking her own advice!!

EPAries

Libragirl…so sorry to hear all that. have you been on Rori Raye’s site “get the relationship youwant.com”…..all this type of weirding is explained and how to deal with it. I cant vouch for it just yet as I’m in the experimental stage with someone who went all distant around November but is still around & doing my head in! Life seems like one big guessing game at the mo. For an Aries that’s TOTURE.. Problem is being in LOVE! otherwise he’d be dead at crossroads with a stake in his heart

lionfish

Just read the dailies for tomorrow… Neptune is going retro soon??? And in Pisces. lololol

Shannon

I always find it’s the ones that I want nothing to do with contacting me during retros… but I guess my Gem Venus isn’t big on going back at the best of times. This time it’s my father who I have barely spoken to in 15 years – I knew it would happen the second I saw the 93/94 reference in the daily scopes the other day!

scorpionic

nope, haven’t thought of an ex until reading this…
there’s too much to look forward to without needing to look back.
although, i guess it works for some people.

Scorporation, Inc.

Nice.

scorpiorising

Same here. Been there, done that. No longer interested in old weird relationships. Happy where I a and who I am with.
I do love a good mystery but, none of these exs are really that interesting to me in a romantic way. Do hope one ex-stalker, criminal eventually gets caught though.
I’ll take this transit and watch retro film noirs and shop for vintage clothes instead.

jicky

yes, i did bonk the ex a few weeks ago after a 6 month hiatus. now he is sulking that i won’t move interstate to re-unite more permanently. in the past i probably would have but even though i enjoy talking to him and still find him attractive yada yada i know that nothing has changed re our dynmanic together so i’m not budging, or calling…. just thinking

jicky

haha freudian dynmanic – how true

Anonymous

1!’bonk’ lol … hadnt heard that expression in years …!

Quadrupled

Mostly, I am minding my own business, Mars in Virgo 6th house is only missing a whip. I have been working non-stop, finally made a dent in my to-do list but almost broke down over the weekend noticing how people enjoying themselves. Will I ever get a break?

So far nada from any ex, other than the Scorp with whom my connection is at its last throes. Venus retro keeps bringing people from my past – unfortunately almost all qualified as Qi vampires.

Yes, count me irritated.

Scorporation, Inc.

Loving every minute of it. That’s where I’m at with it.

Anonymous

oooo, excellent, s inc..

Panda Girl

Totally agreed – it’s fantastic! πŸ˜€ I’m glad someone else is feeling this, I’ve been worried I’m doing the Rx bats wrong! :p

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