Your Mars People

tiger biting womans leg artDeedee Cheriel

Somehow, in the middle of my Dark Moon Funk, an astrological realization occurred to me today.

As you know from the Horoscopes etc, this Dark Moon throws up everything unresolved or not fully grokked from the last Neptune cycle, ie; since 1998.

So i was stretching my quads and musing upon said past factors when i suddenly got it that nearly every significant person in my life has had or has some strong interaction with my Mars. 

eg; Their Venus on my Mars, their MARS on my Mars, their Ascendent on my Mars etc etc. 

It makes sense because people whose planets hit on our Mars are the ones who stir us up, bigtime.  They won’t be able to help but be catalysts. Whether it’s a friend, lover or biz connection, the chemistry is speedy & paleo, tapping us straight into that Mars vibe of lust, aggro, ambition.

So it makes sense that significant peeps have strong links to your Mars – please figure this out for yourself, using YOUR Mars as the basepoint.

Who are your Mars People? 

 

 

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meg
meg

The most intense person I have ever met and who still exerts the most major influence – demon? who knows? has pluto in scorpio sitting on my mars in scorpio. I also have pluto in scorpio.
This has a ‘relationship’ of 9 years of torturous entanglement. and I think the one that has to go.

missfine
missfine

interesting… thinking only of conjunctions….my best friend since childhood has her mars conj my ascendent 0 degrees, conj my saturn 3 degrees, my mars conj her jupiter 3 degrees. also she is taurus rising and i’m scorp rising which makes it all very powerful. we’ve been friends practically our whole lives! current obsessive crush finds my mars conj his ascendent. his mars makes no conjunctions with me but a lot of trines and oppositions. my only serious relationship shared the same type of mars synastry, actually (BOTH have mars opp merc, mars opp pluto, and mars trine mars…weird). My best… Read more »

Violetmoon
Violetmoon

I met my husband in 1997. He’s an Aries and his Mars is in Taurus ( also his ascendent) so trine mine in Virgo and opposite my Scorpio ( my ascendent) Venus and Neptune. My Saturn is also conjunct his Sun in Aries – so he has been really important in teaching me how to motivate myself. ( he has Saturn & Neptune conjunct – conjunct my Sun) But Let me tell you our Neptune Story. I met my husband on a small local fish-farm where i’d picked up some part-time work. He collapsed in December 1998 ( when I… Read more »

Violetmoon
Violetmoon

Oh and by the way our friend is a Taurus with loads of Aqua – but definately gemini rising.

catfish moon
catfish moon

Wow! Amazing. Best of luck.

12th house Leo
12th house Leo

Yah. Makes great sense and thankfully I really make him laugh. Venus in Cancer. I don’t really want to be a mommy, but cozy and cuddly is nice. I’ll keep the monster on a leash for now.

12th house Leo
12th house Leo

Gotcha. UrthGem. Good imagery. I don’t want to contain him, just have some fun. Message to self: do not squeeze Geminis. My brother is a Gem and I do recall him laughing as he slipped out of any traps he encountered.

UrthGem
UrthGem

Fun is a gemini’s middle name 😉 .. though you said he has venus in cancer? .. but still…make him laugh – brighten his day in dumb stupid funny beautiful ways. He will love you for it. Venus in cancer – what was that again? those guys like to be kinda mothered and nurtured and emo and I guess homely… is that making any sense? …

Messy Leo
Messy Leo

Yes, wow. I’ve been looking at synastry charts on astrodienst, and I even have a Mars connection with my dogs! Their Mars conj. my Sun in Leo, but maybe that’s just because at that time I had a drive to love puppies. There are only a few relationships that don’t have a strong Mars connection. One was my Gramma, we had a lot of amazing synastry, and while my Mars makes some minor aspects to her planets, her Mars is completely unaspected by mine. Also, my current boyfriend and I have no notable Mars aspects, just some sextiles and a… Read more »

Messy Leo
Messy Leo

Thank you Mystic Medusa, I’m so glad you’ve posted this.

12th house Leo
12th house Leo

Thanks UrthGem, most appreciated. I’ve been channeling that pushy Aries moon energy into physical exercise. Seems like the best option now. You’re right, he is having a heck of a time with work. But am I doomed? Is my Aries moon too butch for this man? Are Gem men a bit fragile?

year of the fox
year of the fox

Gem menz are not fragile at all. They are more slippery and harder to contain if they do not wish to be contained.

catfish moon
catfish moon

Interesting….my mars is at 6 degrees Taurus. Just looking at conjunctions in a close orb:

Saggy bestie has Chiron conjunct my mars.
Libra bestie has moon in Taurus but 6* away.
Taurus bestie has venus, ascendant, and jupiter conjunct my mars!!!! My saturn conjunct her mars….No wonder we became instant best friends!!!!

catfish moon
catfish moon

weird…I didn’t know this got posted… I really didn’t expect to find much….Boy was I wrong!!!!! For conjunctions only(no other aspects)….and looked both ways between our charts. All 3 of my kids, my dad(our mars are conjunct!), my sister, all 4 of my besties, and my exbeau I lived with all have mars conjunctions with me….either my planets to their mars, their planets to my mars, or both. That was just conjunctions! we had other aspects too! The only people in my close family and friends who doesn’t is my mom and ex hubby. I also looked up some important… Read more »

scorpiorising
scorpiorising

The two ex’s that drive me nuts (not in a good way) both have Mercury right on top of my Mars in Virgo.
Interesting.
I wasn’t in love with either one. The relationships started over interesting conversations but, both were macho bullies.
One took the hint and left me alone after a few phone calls to the police for breaking into my apartment drunk.
the other one doesn’t scare off as easily an dis in a position of power so, the police don’t even phase him.
Wish I knew what I did know back then.

catfish moon
catfish moon

scary….

12th house Leo
12th house Leo

Me, female Leo with Virgo rising. He, Gemini and don’t know rising. thanks for your thoughts.

UrthGem
UrthGem

Hmm well I’m no expert but I’d be careful with that pushy feeling. He’s a gem. (I’m a gem) … Needs to feel free and no pressure. He’s also having (depending on the degree) pluto opposite his venus and now neptune opposite his moon. Not really knowing but I’d say he’s having a weird time regarding female relationships. Gems are supposed to be having a gangbusters time career wise though – could it be that?

But also right now… mars on your moon/venus – what does that mean? Any takers?

UrthGem
UrthGem

OH – and there’s something about saturn being retro right now for gems.. not feelin much in terms of relationships at the mo.

12th house Leo
12th house Leo

My friend’s Mars in Virgo is exactly conjunct my Venus in Virgo. And my Mars in Cancer is within 2 degrees of his Venus. Why aren’t we getting it on? Any ideas? My Aries moon in the 8th is getting pushy and difficult to manage. His Virgo moon is skittish. I think we need to switch genders but I’m open to other ideas.

UrthGem
UrthGem

what are the sun and rising signs?

year of the fox
year of the fox

I have Venus in Virgo and I’ve always been told that if i meet a Mars in Virgo we’d be so hot for each other. When I’ve analyzed past trends, I’ve found that I had NOt so great sex at all, but there is some sort of enduring easy-going-ness with the friendship/relationship. It makes a failing relationship last much longer than it’s supposed to in my case.

The peeps I had really good sex with was Mars in Taurus so I’m curious what Mars in Cap would be like.

catfish moon
catfish moon

Too bad I’m not a man Foxy! I’ve got venus in virgo trine my mars in Taurus! LOL. my best lover….mars in leo with venus in virgo….gulp. Other consistently good ones…. mars in scorpio with venus in scorpio, mars in scorpio with venus in sag, mars in taurus with venus in leo(conjunct mine but we were born two days apart so…everything was conjunct!) Mars in Gemini and Mars in aqua men have been both boring and fabulous, depending on the day. Would be interested in being with a mars in cappy….there is one on my radar, but he is far… Read more »

year of the fox
year of the fox

Oh yes I forgot Mars in Scorpio. But i wonder if that’s a Moon-Mars thing for me. So good, but emotionally unstable relationship.

year of the fox
year of the fox

Trines and sextiles seem to work really good, but conjunctions with others with 5 deg Libra only cause irritation and fights. I also natally have Pluto conj my Mars so maybe that’s why? Idk.

shantidevi
shantidevi

If Mars is in the sign opposite your sun and rules the sign opposite you moon, it’s a personal relationship significator. Neither of these occur in my chart, but they might in other’s. Mars is a relationship significator for me by ruling the descendant, but only prominent in the sense that I cannot stand men with weak Mars placements even if initially attracted by some aspect to my Pisces. I don’t have Mars people, I am a Mars person.People in my life who are aspected by my Mars have to have very powerful charts and resilient personalities for it to… Read more »

MiloBloom
MiloBloom

Are outer planets less significant in this regard? I noticed my Pluto (23Lib) is the same degree/sign as my best friend’s sun. Hope this doesn’t mean I’m a negative influence on her!

UrthGem
UrthGem

I have moon/mars conjunct in taurus. It’s pretty boring but every significant male relationship i’ve had (three) has been with a cap sun dude trining that. It’s at the point now where I get that feeling and I almost don’t need to ask the birth date. But of course, always plenty of variety in the planets! Have to say I found the trine a lot more comfortable than the sun direct. That was Ouch. But I have wondered if there is some kind of astro for my ideal guy that can trump the feeling of that cap trine to moon/mars..… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

most significant ex and I had mars conjunct his venus/mars conjunct in virgo. true love.

Anonymous
Anonymous

That sounds lovely Ms! But why then is he an ex?

Ms.
Ms.

just didn’t work out. we had different paths. nearly married him though. no regrets. the love was beautiful when we were going. just some things end, thats all x

Ms.
Ms.

I think if you truly love and are loved there can be no regrets because love is just such a great thing to give and to be adored like that. My god I sound like a massive hippie.

I have very little scars in terms of anger of most people. I can’t see the point in being F* ed up over exs. Men get far too much attention as it is and its only a mask for thing we need to get over in ourselves often. Why fear it, we have the power.

Ms.
Ms.

and good luck. x x x

Ms.
Ms.

something I noticed from a previous exit is the mars connection. My mars at 0 virgo, I keep attracting late degree Leos who not only square my sun but their sun conjunct my mars. My mars is on regulus and conjunct my north node. Something to avoid for the future. I have dated 2 female and now one male with this conjunction and its been utterly competitive yet highly sexed. The very worst mars competitive award though goes to the piscean rock whore whom I am a catalyst for but annoyingly so. Mars opposite mercury exact and sun. My asc… Read more »

Charley
Charley

I think it depends on the sign/element but from my experience it’s generally been good, you’ll have similar direction, ambitions, passions, levels of sexuality etc but it could also make you competitive in those areas.

Anonymous
Anonymous

Mmm thanks Charley. Both Mars are in Cancer. It feels like we pop our heads up for a bit, connect, then revert back to our shells. And, lots of playing nice, with mini explosions and misunderstandings thrown in. Hysterical.

Charley
Charley

Yep, totally. Both my parents have their Mars in Sag on my Mars in Sag and on each others. My Mother and I have our Moon in Sag on each others Moons, conjunct each others Mars in Sags – intense. My ex Crab and I both had Moon in Sag conjunct, his Moon on my Mars, my Venus on his Mars. So many family members with Mars in Sag, on the maternal and paternal line, weird. Two long term BFF’s have their Moons in Sag both dead conjunct my Mars. It goes on. Current epic crush situation has his Mars… Read more »

DeepSeaBloke
DeepSeaBloke

I’m Virgo Asc. At least three close friends have Mars in Virgo which often results in simultaneous talking AT one another yet with perfect retention of everything that was said by either party, including all jokes, asides, technical footnotes etc. Even when one of us is feeling like crap, we somehow interpret this as a signal to explore how recent psycho-neurological research confirms what people like Demartini have been saying for years … The latest in “well being and living well” is our thing. Two of my closest friends have Mars in Leo (like me) and which translates into frankness,… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

yes, I attract virgo asc peeps all the time. infact mars/asc is my most common friend click. (I’m mars virgo 0 degree)

also, its my mars clicking everything usually. Even in relationships I am mars, despite gender often being male. I met a pisces astrologer once who told me I had the mark of mars on my forehead. Timely post MM

anon
anon

The “mark of Mars”? That’s interesting because my son has Mars @ 0Virgo just like you. He has this jagged scar on his forehead that people occasionally call his Harry Potter scar.

year of the fox
year of the fox

Even the name “Mark” is supposed to be a homage to the god Mars. LOL! 🙂

catfish moon
catfish moon

I have venus at 0* virgo!
My ascendant is at 3* virgo too.

La folie
La folie

OMG!! I have a scar on my forehead too, from falling off a ladder when I was 5 yrs old. The scar is at 45° angle on my left side above my eye.

I have Mars Virgo 0° in 8th house. I ADORE Virgos… they make me weak at the knees 😀

Ms.
Ms.

just to clarify there is no scar or mark it was something about my forehead I did not understand. He came over to tell me in a bar though.

nancyx
nancyx

My Mars is in Sag and is conj with my brother’s merc and venus – we have always got on really well.

But my current man’s mars is in direct opposition to my mars, and his neptune is conj it. Huh. So this is why I want to strangle him so often.

Savannah
Savannah

We’ve all had/have one of those nancyx 🙂

venus a-go-go
venus a-go-go

My mars is Leo. I have a love hate relationship with show ponies. I have never done an exact chart of other people, so it’s hard to give anymore info than that:)

Savannah
Savannah

Leo ex lover his Mars on mine not that it matters any more except I ignore him when I see him. He pulled up in front of me the other day so I had to give way but I slippery like I looked past him. Sorry buddy its over!

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Nada for Mars conjunctions connex for me. Most common in order is Moon/Angles; Sun/ASC, NN, Jupiter, Pluto, Saturn and Venus. Usually more than two of these in impt relationships. Although I do have Venus conj Mars (different signs) by 3 degrees, so technically those Venus connections are usually a Mars conj,too just easy to miss being out of sign.

Joan
Joan

l have Aries Mars 8th h. at 25degrees The synastry with my boyfriend in regard to my Mars looks a bit like this: His Sun&Mars make a Sqaure to it his Moon&Venus a Semisqaure Mercury a trine Jupiter a Quintile, Neptune a Trine and Pluto a fine opposition. So my Mars is big time stirred by all this interaction in our charts. l can feel the tension at times in differennt areas of our lives. We can move mountains or burn a house down with our energies at times and yet we are together…amazing!! this is heaviest by far as… Read more »

Anonymous
Anonymous

Rookie Question, what does it mean to have someone on your mars? This fascinates me, my mars is in aquarius

BootesLacuna
BootesLacuna

Mars at 0 Aries.
I must admit I laughed when M termed the less evolved Arian guys ‘belligerent louts’ (I think was the phrase) Either way I think I intuitively avoid them. The female of the species is good fun tho.

Stella
Stella

My man’s Neptune is EXACT conjunct my Mars. Like fighting under water. Nightmare.

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