Venus and Mars Mapping

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Matthias Vriens-McGrath

Some of you may want to go and pour yourself a glass of Blue Devil Hoochie Juice for this little astrological exercise.

There is a theory that for every aspect Mars or Venus makes in our birthcharts, there is a major relationship.

Yes.

You do Venus if you’re female and Mars if you’re a man. Β It doesn’t matter whether you’re into same or opposite sex.

And assume that every single aspect made by – say – Venus is an actual relationship.

Say you’ve got Venus opposite Mars, square Pluto and conjunct Sun – those are your three BIG loves and each relationship will manifest that aspect. So you’ll have one that is like sizzling chemistry and even though you fight an awful lot, the motivational effect is huge. That would be the Mars. You have a relationship courtesy of the square to Pluto that could best be described as “karmic” or “cathartic” or just simple “hell” and then you have a true romance.

So each major relationship in your life can be characterised by one of your Venus or Mars aspects.

If you have Venus conjunct Saturn but also opposite Mercury, you might hook up with (i dunno) an older headmaster type at some point but then wind up with someone more Mercurial at another point.

Your Venus aspects (or Mars) = your loves in this lifetime. Β They’re like your quota.

Go calculate and have fun!

 

 

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SeaGoat
SeaGoat

Well, this has been interesting πŸ˜‰ Quite a lot of them (te he!) It does make some sense to me… Venus in Cap 11th house: – conjunct Sun (Cap 11th house) = I think that’s the Leo love that wasn’t meant to be… – conjunct Moon (Cap 11th house) = beautiful but unreliable Cancerian, still hanker after that one πŸ™‚ – semisquare Neptune (Sag 9th house) = delusional sounds about right, and quite a few of them! – square Uranus (Libra 8th house) = that would have to be the abusive Aquarian ex, really not a good idea, but have… Read more »

kimbobean
kimbobean

My Venus is out of bounds (27+ degrees declination) & at the Cardinal point of 0 degrees Cancer. It is Conjunct Mars, Sextile Mercury, Opposite Jupiter, Square Pluto, Sextile Vesta, Square Juno (do asteroids count?) & inconjunct the North Node…I guess I’m grasping at straws here πŸ™‚

missfine
missfine

venus conjunct uranus = no relationship, never dated a uranian type, though maybe something like that is happening RIGHT NOW duh. basically in an undefined noncommitted dealy with an aries (uranus is in aries right now and I’m a libraaaaaaa). and in his chart i would be his mars opp saturn-pluto. sorry bout that dude! i have venus square mc and opp chiron. can’t really place who my major ex was, probably venus opp chiron seeing as every life trauma seemed to happen all over again in that 7 years (chiron in the 7th…hoo-ray) oh yeah and semisextile pluto…little sexual… Read more »

Brenda
Brenda

Oh jeez….

Sun Semisquare Venus
Moon Square Venus
Mercury Sextile Venus
Venus in Taurus
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Sesquiquadrate Neptune
Venus Opposite Saturn

And Venus in the 2nd house.

And by the by, I’m a Cancer sun, with a Leo moon, and an Aries Rising.

You know, for all the fooling around I’ve done – I was a little wild when in my younger days – I’ve only ever had one actual both ways relationship…. the one I’m in now.

This is just too complicated for me to figure out. lol

Tan
Tan

This is fascinating stuff!!!!!
More PLEASE !!!!!

Joan
Joan

ok! interesting!! So l guess l am my boyfriend’s Mars square Pluto, very all the above, painfull and karmic, HELP. That’s me for this aspect of his!
He must be my Venus conjunct Chiron.
He could also be my Venus oppsoing NN.
One more aspect my Venus makes it’s conjunct Mars! waiting for that!
nice way to look at things!

DoubleMutable
DoubleMutable

Well, it looks like I have FOUR, which is good news cuz I only consider 3 of my relationships major ones.

I have:
Venus conjunct Mars – does this mean a relationship that is more pals-y than passionate?
Venus opposition Jupiter
Moon square Venus – does this mean crazy-emotional, psycho-bats? Or possibly delusional
Venus square Pluto – definitely my last relationship with the Leo. Very karmic, very deep, very VERY painful to break apart.

Any thoughts on what some of these mean would be awesome. I”m thinking the Venus opposition Jupiter is the one yet to come….what would that one be like? Thoughts?

Verity
Verity

I think Venus conj Mars would mean a partner whose Mars Conjuncts your Venus. (& so then your Mars) Warlike Passion.

balancing
balancing

venus opposition saturn (yep yep)
Moon trine venus
venus sextile ascendent

3 hey? well i have def had more lovers than that – trying to think who fits where.
hmmmmmmmmmmmm

mrcreosote
mrcreosote

So lets see…. I have Mars in Cancer, with the following aspects:- Square Moon in Aries (sign of my one and only lover outside my long term relationship) Square Mercury In Libra Trine Venus and Neptune in Scorpio (sign of my long term partner) Trine Jupiter (and Chiron) in Pisces Sextile Pluto in Virgo (My sun sign) Opposition Ascendant in Capricorn More than enough to keep anyone busy, you would think, but only 2 actual significant relationships in my life (outside family) – can’t place anyone with Libra or Pisces – my dad was cap/aqu cusp (not sure which it… Read more »

Sonia
Sonia

Hey there,
maybe u guys could help me out. Venus in aqua, 8th house.
square pluto, sextile midheaven. (?)
As MM said, square pluto, karmic, hell… yes! broke up but think I still love him =(
Sextile midheaven? good news? I desperately hope so! Could use some. Thanks

kari
kari

Venus in Aquarius

Mercury Conjunct Venus

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Trine Midheaven

Venus in Aquarius

I have no idea what it means πŸ™‚

Pisces in CQ
Pisces in CQ

Cripes! I have six Venus aspects and a quick look means I might only be up to number three!

Just looking at my chart makes my eyes water at the amount of reading I might have to do to understand this. It will be an interesting exercise though……….

Panda Girl
Panda Girl

Cap Venus conjunct Neptune, sextile Mars & Pluto in Scorp and square Jupiter.
I think I just got out of the Jupiter relationship and I think my first boyfriend was the Neptune.
Looking forward to the sextile Mars relationship! (Pluto not so much…)

prowlncrab
prowlncrab

Cancer Venus opposite moon, quincunx Neptune and square Pluto. In other words I am romantically doomed …. oh well.

Luscious Leo
Luscious Leo

Venus opposing Saturn (that would be the 18 year marriage); trining Jupiter (that might be now?); and conjunct sun (can’t wait for the future).

amanda
amanda

that sucks. i have only one minor venus aspect and that is trine eros. Mars is square my neptune and trine my ascendant.
How to activate one’s love life. I guess its all down to where you live and your karma?

whatevs
whatevs

your MC isn’t just work and career – it’s the line that divides the 9th and 10th and also opposes your 3rd and 4th so there’s a lot mroe to it than just your work. MC is hobbies as well and also the way you appear to others but not necessarily the way you are, as in people might think a certain thing about you all the time but they are wrong. One way for your to manifest might be you may have a hobby that draws a great love to you.

Starinspired
Starinspired

So wots the deal if they’re UNASPECTED??!!

Issy
Issy

I have venus in Gemini (8th) house :
Trine uranus (libra 12th)
Trine ac (scorp)
Square pluto
Conjunct saturn
Sextile Chiron
Quincunx mc

I think I possibly know the Pluto square, but need some help on what the two trines would be like?

andromeda
andromeda

Venus Square Pluto – The hot Latino who broke my corazon, then crowned it with thorns.

Venus Conjunct Saturn – The one who is my friend still and whose family are like my own. Just too heavy for me.

Venus Quincunx Neptune & Lilith – The psycho Israeli who was very sexy.

Venus Trine Jupiter – My husband for sure. My Venus trines my Gemhub’s Mars in Pisces too.

year of the fox
year of the fox

Also would it be significant if someone’s Venus or Mars is retrograde natally or not?

Laura
Laura

Venus Opposition Pluto
and Venus Conjunction midheaven

Any interpretation of Venus conjunct midheaven?
I feel that i am pretty much hopeless as far as love goes!!

shell
shell

Venus MC discussion a few posts above

Sassy
Sassy

Going by the orbs allowed on astro.com

My ex hubby must have been the square Pluto. And still not too sure if I have met the Sun or the sextile to the Toro AC. Im still young, we have probably not crossed paths yet.

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Venus semisquare Sun
Venus conjunct Moon
Venus quintile Mercury
Venus conjunct Mars
Venus trine Saturn
Venus sesquisquare Neptune
Venus quintile Pluto
Venus conjunct North Node and Vertex
Venus trine my Ascendant
Venus opposite Lust
😯

Sassy
Sassy

Oh tell me about the Venus on your NN ff?? Whats that been like?

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Venus/Mars/Moon conjunct NN/Vertex in 4th/5th house that I have to develop my Kataka loving creativity and nurturing in this lifetime (as opp to rigid cold Cappy control in past lifetime, you know like maybe I was the pope or some ruthless leader). Also I’m rather partial to passionate, hot sexual relationships, and they’re good for me.

Sassy
Sassy

Wow, very cool in the 4th and 5th house. I bet you make a lovely home too!?.. Creative, warm and nesting.. Love the passionate and hot relationships. Good for the soul..

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Definitely good for the soul πŸ˜‰

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Interesting ff…

Someone I knew had Cap SN and his Aqua Venus was there conjunct my Moon…was cold at times…

NN in Cancer, Leo Mars Moon conjunct. I saw the warm heart but it was never for me in quite the way (cap moon) I needed it to be..

“other/SN life stuff”…shame but guess I’m good to go now as understand it like you do. My Aries SN did not help much!

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Are we really sure about the same-sex-attracted not switching the mars/venus POV? Mars is the most aspected planet in my chart, he basically gets it on with everyone. Venus on the other hand has a more subdued three aspects. Needless to explain, the three relationships would make a lot more sense to me rather than Mars’ 8, but then, maybe the second half of my life is set to get much much busier… Maybe I should work on getting my mars on…

Ms.
Ms.

same. I have a butch overdone mars and uber femme free love venus

whatevs
whatevs

i am the pants more often than not in a relationship so i checked mars as well voila! 9 aspects. I suspect the aqua has the power venus.

SourPatch
SourPatch

And what if your Venus is unaspected….except by major points like NN or MC?

shell
shell

Venus MC, star fucking. Or more nicely, a relationship that is about getting ahead, or being able to achieve something through that partnership.
Venus NN, pointing to future destiny?

SourPatch
SourPatch

YOU MEAN I GET A CELEBRITY??? OMGZ, WINNNN. :’)

On a serious note, I guess aspects to points count then? I would see Venus/MC as someone who furthers my goals or agenda. Not my idea of a partnership, but whatevs. Venus/NN is tricky for me since its the Square. I always felt it as love not being in the cards but I guess I can see it as love that is “Destiny”. πŸ˜€

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Planets to the four angles of the chart are always potent.

Maybe just the signs too.. as married a Cancer…Gem on Asc but Cancer takes up most of my first house..

Pisces on MC..bingo…

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

As a matter of fact, I’d have to say that the ex Pisces with Sun in my 10th defined nearly my whole destiny as far as growth and learning and what I can now do with that.

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

AND, his Sun did not make a major aspect in my chart except to cojunct my Lucifer…

Who needs a fuqin’ devil when you see it mirrored back to you?

πŸ˜†

But I will always love him for that. He enlightened me.

Sigh….

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Unintentionally LIED…

His Sun sextile my Venus/Lilith…his Apollo.

Appleskies and I had that convo (Apollo) months ago….

SourPatch
SourPatch

Well that is good news since my Venus makes NO major aspects to planets whatsoever. Although I should be clear that the Venus/MC aspect is the trine….and its in air signs. I’m okay with Aquarians (Suns and Moons) as mentors, and Geminis as lovers as long as they have some water, but I cannot deal with alot of Libras (thats my MC).

shell
shell

Hmm, Venus is in my 10th house stellium.
Conj Merc, Midheaven and Sun in order of closeness.
Only major outer planet aspect is of course to my good friend Saturn, a sextile.
Sextile my ascendant as well, plus weirdly, an exact sesquisquare to Pluto

I don’t think I could separate it out to say one is more talk, one more structured etc, saturn, merc and the midheaven things have pretty much always been involved.
I have mars conj Saturn as well.

shell
shell

I can make more sense out of the relationshis according to major transits to closest synastry aspect approach. There was the Pluto through late/Scorp early Sagg, the Saturn through Taurus and the Neptune through Aqua ones. By that figuring there should be a Uramus through late Pisces early Aries one, though it doesn’t appear to be the case. Maybe that’s the Uranian surprise. Or maybe Im a sucker for the hard ones, and nice sextiles and trines just ain’t enough for me. Still at bit of Neptune to go then, and Saturn in Scorpio to look forward too, tops. Maybe… Read more »

whatevs
whatevs

have you been having a neptune transit all the way through your phase of amazing dreams?

shell
shell

Yup.

And I met the Aries when Neptune was bang on our Mars/Venus sq (he has mars in aqua), and since then Neptune has been drifting between squaring my Venus, Merc and Sun. It hasn’t even made it to the exact Sun sq yet. Had to go back for one for go at messing with my Merc, mind, succinct writing ability and vocab and stuff. Blah

Not dreaming so much these days, which is mostly I think cause I’m on chinese herbs to help me sleep (amusingly), but also cause I removed the stimuli.

whatevs
whatevs

“cause I removed the stimuli” gave me a vision of beauty taking the thorn from the beast’s paw.

shell
shell

what – you saying I’m some kinda beast?!!!!

πŸ™‚

whatevs
whatevs

no lovely, you were the beauty but take from it whatever you choose πŸ˜€

shell
shell

This may amuse you, and kinda suits the analogy.
Procrastination sent me looking at when I’d have Jupiter transiting my Venus, and fabulously it’s a birthday present next year.
Cool. What other exciting birthday presents do I get from the stars? Saturn, exact inconjunct my poor same Venus!

Bastard, always stomping about and spoiling the party for everyone else.
At least the Neptune sq will be over by then.

whatevs
whatevs

oh! sometimes you just gotta let the astro roll and not overthink it too much in advance though! There might be some kind of thing where venus or jupiter gets to rule the energy because of a new moon or something. Or your special friend (hehehe) will just have grey hair??? I’m having some progressed mars on the IC conjunct uranus and pluto action and was thinking holy hell that it would be some kind of nuclear event but it’s just mad public works in the suburbs i live and work in.

shell
shell

Ha, yes. That’ll be the sugar daddy transit for sure!

I’m pretty much always letting these things roll over me. An emphemeris is more for procrastination than life planning in my world!

whatevs
whatevs

oh right, some people smoke cigarettes to procrastinate, you read your ephemeris? now THAT’s amusing.

whatevs
whatevs

and yes, amusing

Charley
Charley

Venus Conj Saturn + Pluto BOTH totally representative of my first two (and only real) relationships, perfectly so. Also have Venus Opp Asc which = Venus Conj Dsc, does that mean my next relationship will be with someone who is tres attractive, ha. God knows.

whatevs
whatevs

I know you’re wary of your venus conjunct saturn and now I know it’s also conjunct pluto I can see why that would be emphasised, but the part of me that has hope that everyone will experience at least one great love in their lives can see this working in a good way – you meet someone who works as a psychologist or archaeologist with exquisite manners, fall deeply in love and experience a partnership that is enduring and mutually beneficial because it allows you both to explore your psyches in the safety of a committed relationship? Not that shagging… Read more »

Charley
Charley

I’m neurotic about it aren’t I? I think that in combo with a 7th house Saturn put the fear in me a long time ago, guess I worry I already had the love. TBH both of those options sound totally dreamy, I’m a sucker for an older man with manners.

whatevs
whatevs

to be honest i haven’t noticed neurosis just remember it about your chart and yes, the manners I am loving the manners too but for some reason men who are overtly clumsy and gauche re ettiquette also leave me smitten.

pink lamp
pink lamp

My venus is not aspected…. this may explain why I haven’t found a relationship that lasts very long. No one worthy of meeting mom and pop yet.

toomuchgoingon
toomuchgoingon

Do quincunxes, quintiles and biquintiles count?

Sun conjunct venus
Moon quintiles venus
Mercury conjunct venus
Venus biquintiles mars
Venus biquintiles Uranus
Venus quincunxes pluto

Catsmeow
Catsmeow

Venus in Cancer opposite Saturn/Neptune in Capricorn, sextile Mars in Toro, trine Ascendant/Pluto in Scorpio, and conjuct Jupiter. What’s it all meeeeean?

fushiafairy
fushiafairy

Orbs I used….squares and trines 8 degrees. Sextiles 4 degrees. Goddess help me, I have a bunch….. venus conjunct asc in virgo….I love myself <3 venus square my midheaven venus square my nodes…oh dear….they have all felt karmic. I learn, process, release. venus sextile mercury venus sextile uranus- venus trine mars…yes please. venus trine jupiter(almost 8 degree orb) venus trine chiron….gulp My ex hubby I would say fits with the midheaven and mars aspects….we worked well together and prospered with our business. We also had a great physical relationship. my ex boyfriend….oh dear…he is jupiter(lived overseas for a long time)… Read more »

libraleo
libraleo

Ha, guess I’ll be joining Purpleta’s and Scalycat’s club for I only have Venus trining Jupiter in Scorpio in the 5th. Oh my, this prob means I’ll be single for the rest of my life..

whatevs
whatevs

ummm I dunno! I mean I don’t know you or your situation but the 5th rules romance, children, creativity, objects of affection and self-expression. Jupiter is jovial and all about expansion and confidence and venus is about charm, beauty, love and art so you’d be likely to be enchanting or attract charmers or maybe aesthetically pleasing extravagant snake charmers. Which planet is in the 5th? Trines can be an aspect that makes a person lazy because they indicate innate ability so no effort is necessary to make gains with a trine but if you put some effort in you’re likely… Read more »

libraleo
libraleo

Oh wow, never expected someone to comment, thnx so much!! πŸ™‚

But to answer your question, it’s Venus in 5th with Jupiter in 9th in Pisces. I thought the number of aspects by Venus was more or less the important relationships in life.. had that one already, so that’s why single for life.

T
T

Well I have Venus conjunct Mars, square Neptune, trine or sextile Uranus, can’t remember which, and there’s something with Merc, too. I’m 27 and have had zero serious relationships, but three minor flings that seem to fit with Merc, Uranus, and Neptune. Interesting! I suppose Mars will be the big one- they’re both in my 7th house.

RachΓ© (Aqua/Tauri)
RachΓ© (Aqua/Tauri)

Venus Conjunction Uranus
Venus Conjunction Neptune

Sounds about right. Ha.
My chart ruler is also Venus…
and I have Venus in Cap square Mars in Aries, and Sun square moon. I worry that I’ll never be content even if my life is full of good things. :/

Scorpio Sun/Rising
Scorpio Sun/Rising

How do we know who our Chart ruler is?

Sophie
Sophie

Your chart ruler is the planet that rules the sign of your Ascendant (= the Rising sign), so if you have the Ascendant in Aries, your chart ruler is Mars, if you have Taurus rising, then your chart is ruled by Venus, etc.

Scorpio Sun/Rising
Scorpio Sun/Rising

Oh thank you so much Sophie.. I’ve wondered that forever! (PLUTO!)

Sophie
Sophie

You’re welcome πŸ™‚ I’m a fellow Scorpio Sun and Rising, so for me it’s Pluto as well.

year of the fox
year of the fox

I’ve only a bunch of minor things aspecting Venus. meh. I’ve got a : quintile (i’m guessing that’s what Q is) with the Moon and a sextile with Mercury. Semi-sextile with Mars Trine with Jupiter Square with Neptune semi-square(?? angle looking thing??) with Uranus —I’ve already had my “Trine with Jupiter” relationship. That was my 6 yr one with the Saggo that didn’t make it because he was too lazy to put any effort into the relationship while it was failing. And then 2 yrs after I broke up with him asked me back and I was like fuq no.… Read more »

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Well, if a guy can’t do better than a butter knife I say who needs him, eh?”

Finish the job or go home..

lol..Just joking. That shit ain’t funny I’m sure…

AM SURE you can have more than just one per aspect as Kim F says “people are like transits” and we have many transits in a lifetime..

year of the fox
year of the fox

Well it’s amusing now, but when i was living it then I was 20 y.o. and looked up to him like a god practically as he was almost 10 years older. Plus i didn’t have any martial arts or firearms training like i do now.

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

😯

πŸ˜†

spmalr
spmalr

Venus conjunct Mercury. tick that would be my first Gemini husband
Venus trine Pluto. tick that would be my second Leo (uggghh) husband

I have learned a lot of lessons from that one.

Third aspect: Venus square True Node (in Scorpio!) , my destiny with my soul mate is yet to come. Looking forward to it.

fushiafairy
fushiafairy

I also have venus square true node in scorpio…. fun stuff!!!

spmalr
spmalr

Have you had the relationship yet? If so, some details…. πŸ™‚
Will it more than make up for a lying cheating Gemini, and a cheating egotistical narcissistic Leo?

fushiafairy
fushiafairy

well……
two major adult relationships…
hubby…scorpio sun and 3 other planets in scorpio. 14 years, loved him, but not his capicorn moon.
ex boyfriend…scorpio sun…oh dear, karma, high highs low lows. We were sure we were each others other half, soul mates, blah blah. turned ugly and violent, codependent and addicted. But when it was good, it was the happiest I had ever been with a man, unbelievable bliss.
who knows what the future holds….dating a new guy, and feel like we are either going to fizzle out, or reach great heights.

Scorpio Sun/Rising
Scorpio Sun/Rising

Cap Venus Sextile Scorpio Mars and Neptune (who are conjoined in the 12th) also Venus Trine Pluto in Virgo 10th. Delusional relationship is past and over and YES it transformed me from my tippy toes to my crown chakra!

davidl
davidl

The Venus trine Pluto in the 10th sounds constructive.

Scorpio Sun/Rising
Scorpio Sun/Rising

Yes, all in all very constructive.

leogroover
leogroover

Can I just say that pic makes me squirm it is ickkky.

davidl
davidl

Mars Quincunx Jupiter ?
Mars Trine Neptune …oh, yes,hehe
Mars Sextile Pluto..my marriage

Alexandra Yasti Devi
Alexandra Yasti Devi

Venus trine Saturn
Venus square Uranus
Venus square Neptune
Venus trine MC
Venus sextile Chiron
Venus semisextile Pluto

? this is too much lol

davidl
davidl

Are you the girl in the photo ? πŸ™‚

equilibrium girl
equilibrium girl

Cap Venus opp Kataka Saturn, squ LIbra Asc. and squ Aries Chiron.

Hmm. I had a much older man for ages. Saggo. Maybe that’s the Saturn time/ age thing.

Have no one in my life at the mo… So do I have two great loves to go? Ooohhhhh, gimmee!!

Jen
Jen

Does the tightness of the aspect or if the aspect is applying or separating have any effect on the timing of the relationship? Eg. If Venus was separating from the Sun at the time of your birth, that aspect would occur early on. Or does the importance of the aspect describe the intensity of a relationship? eg. A conjunction or opposition between Venus and another planet indicates a more significant relationship than a trine. Would love to hear your personal experiences or thoughts! I have not had any relationships I’d call significant yet although Venus squares Jupiter, then Saturn, then… Read more »

scalycat
scalycat

i must have no aspects as i’ve had no loves

purpleta
purpleta

It’s safer to look at the chart first.

I know I did and it left me depressed…

In case you don’t have aspects, welcome to the club then!

berry
berry

No aspects (major or minor) but I am in love and was in love… so maybe it was just an illusion… depressing πŸ™

shell
shell

Your life is not predetermined by your chart

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Right..once fell in love with a blade of grass and saw wonders there thru my sunglasses…

Probably was Venus in Taurus..

Out done Venus opp Neptune (did that, I mean) at least one on one..

Saturn trine Venus…my marriage (wide trine however…)

Venus/Lilith sqaure Uranus….now we’re talking..

Any takers? πŸ˜†

Nah, we love what we love…as Mystic said “have fun!”

whatevs
whatevs

your words are always wise

Sassy
Sassy

Hmm, Venus sextile toro AC….widely conjunct my Sun and squares Pluto..

But these aspects I believe are too big an orb to count…..

So I have an unaspected Venus. Boys can go jump in the lake for all i care right now.

Never ever dating a Toro guy again. I am that fuqed up over it all..

Sassy
Sassy

I think I have used up all my quota

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

No Sass, if you have love in your heart, it is endless!

Don’t let a set of fugin’ horns bring you down…

(said as a ram with horns.. πŸ˜‰ )

Sassy
Sassy

hahah thanks yes. πŸ™‚

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Maybe you just need time to heal..Know I did and that’s okay sweet crablette x

Plum
Plum

OK, got myself a cup of tea, this looks like fun…Oh. Only 2 aspects and I’ve had 2 big loves, been and gone…how wide can the orb be? Can I count Chiron? Asteroids? (clutching at straws here)

Curious Cancerian
Curious Cancerian

my question exactly, i’m curious about the orb allowance…

Sassy
Sassy

yes me too..well the biggest allowance is 10 degrees right?? and the asteroids too, maybe that is pushing a bit.. Have Sappho and Aphrodite on my Venus. Have had my share of girl lovers as a teen.. So that kind of is true then..

Curious Cancerian
Curious Cancerian

Sappho and Aphrodite conjunct Venus! That’s so cool, Sassy!
If we’re counting 10 degrees then I have 8 aspects… now am scraping through all my r/ship memories, trying to identify them…

fluidfeline
fluidfeline
Curious Cancerian
Curious Cancerian

perfect, thanks ff! x

Plum
Plum

Let’s count asteroids ’cause I’ve got Pan and Eros on my Venus and I’m looking forward to them!

SeaGoat
SeaGoat

Wow, Pan and Eros! I’d be looking forward to them, too!!! πŸ˜€

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Chiron definitely counts, I reckon, and perhaps Asteroids can classify fleeting flings??

Sassy
Sassy

Yes asteroids as fleeting affairs? Usually one sided.

Plum
Plum

OK using Astrodienst orbs and counting Chiron things are looking up – two down three to go; better get started! Plus all those lovely little asteroids – assuming I’ve still got some left…

whatevs
whatevs

Wacky I’ve just discovered something about my chart that I never looked at in this “romance” way before. astro to do with romance bores me as a rule – yes my venus aspects saturn πŸ˜€ why try to work it out? Love’s amorphous & organic and it’s about someone else & their free will as well as your own so I just try and keep a grip on my own side of things and fingers crossed they look after theirs and that seems to work a treat – they’re either with you or they aren’t is how I always figured… Read more »

unpredictable pisces
unpredictable pisces

public dredging, lol.

xx

whatevs
whatevs

maybe i should’ve said a pubic dredging πŸ˜€

Charley
Charley

Makes sense. Sometimes a little semi public dredging is useful for the ah haha moments!n

whatevs
whatevs

yeah sometimes less is more – I’ve always focussed on the stelliums that make up the majority of my chart and never really considered the less blockbuster aspects. I feel retrospectively blessed but venus is an irritant right now – saturn will be upon her and mercury soon and hopefully that’ll allow mercury to give the naieve idealist a stern talking to.

Baristagem
Baristagem

😯

I have Venus conjunct Sun & Moon, Square Saturn & Asc, In opp to Neptune & MC, & Trine Pluto.

😯 😯

Sassy
Sassy

You floozy, Gem x

fushiafairy
fushiafairy

funny.

Leonic
Leonic

I have Venus Conjunct Mars in the 5th house, can anybody interpret that for me?

whatevs
whatevs

what sign?

Leonic
Leonic

Virgo

whatevs
whatevs

mars in virgo makes for an attentive & diligent (not sure if that’s the right word but it seems like a virgo word!) lover. Venus in virgo might choose a detail oriented partner or on the other hand be a nitpicker in relationships. Combine that with the other info re house and aspect below and that’s one of the possible readings of your aspect – you get to choose how it manifests though, you’re not at the mercy of your chart, it’s just the tools you were born with.

whatevs
whatevs

5th house is love affairs and objects of desire and a conjunction gives power and strength to these energies so the sign of the 5th house will colour how your conjunction works.

unpredictable pisces
unpredictable pisces

ok wow. Sextile Mars, Square moon, trine Neptune, opposite north node, sextile Asc, trine Desc. Still trying to work out where I might relate any / all of my (rather dysfunctional) r’ships to these. innaresting. VEnus Sextile mars would be a good’un. don’t think i’ve had that one yet. mind you there’s no mention of ‘length’ of relationship is there – maybe that was a fling back in 2006..sigh πŸ˜‰