Some of you may want to go and pour yourself a glass of Blue Devil Hoochie Juice for this little astrological exercise.
There is a theory that for every aspect Mars or Venus makes in our birthcharts, there is a major relationship.
You do Venus if you’re female and Mars if you’re a man. It doesn’t matter whether you’re into same or opposite sex.
And assume that every single aspect made by – say – Venus is an actual relationship.
Say you’ve got Venus opposite Mars, square Pluto and conjunct Sun – those are your three BIG loves and each relationship will manifest that aspect. So you’ll have one that is like sizzling chemistry and even though you fight an awful lot, the motivational effect is huge. That would be the Mars. You have a relationship courtesy of the square to Pluto that could best be described as “karmic” or “cathartic” or just simple “hell” and then you have a true romance.
So each major relationship in your life can be characterised by one of your Venus or Mars aspects.
If you have Venus conjunct Saturn but also opposite Mercury, you might hook up with (i dunno) an older headmaster type at some point but then wind up with someone more Mercurial at another point.
Your Venus aspects (or Mars) = your loves in this lifetime. They’re like your quota.
Go calculate and have fun!