“…WHO is fussing about having an actual date?? Dates are passe. It’s like a job interview in a cocktail dress. Please. “Hanging out” is now. Dates are like a fuqing contract negotiation post union strike where a few workers got killed on both sides of the table and you have to navigate between corrective action, a fresh start and guilt. In fact, I actually feel dates are elitist and upper class shit. You know, peasants just get ON with it….”
So La Femme Uranian emailed me this and a whole rant besides & it reminded me of when i had Uranus ON my Venus and we had the Venus-Uranian Club.
If you have your Venus anywhere in the early degrees of Aries, Libra, Capricorn or Kataka go back and revive the thing. Because you are having a Uranus-Venus transit and there is a LOT of good material in the comments there. It should be turned into a guidebook.
But okay, I completely relate to what La Femme Uranian says about dating. Like why?
And then i remembered that i have Venus opposite Uranus natally. It’s a loose opp but there is it is. And Aqua Rising. And Uranus with Mars…so i complain about Uranians and their fuqed dating paradigms but i AM one.
What is the Uranian Dating Paradigm?
Just hanging out, never-defined connections, random chemistry that nobody mentions because that is just too insanely bourgeois, the Expectation as Endo-Toxin…Space is an aphrodisiac narcotic.
If you have any sort of Uranus going on whatsoever: Strong Aquarius, Uranus aspecting Sun-Venus-Moon-Mercury-Ascendant-Mars, you may as well get with the Uranian Dating paradigm.