Venusian Gaga

Filed in Venus

I've come to New York to be an old maidJust a few more days to go of Venus Retrograde – Jupiter & Venus turn on Friday.

So, cue the return of a few things seemingly gone for yonks – your sanity, self-esteem, ability to handle $ properly, fun, a particular person?

But in the meantime, use these final few days of Venus in her underworld phase to really seethe it out with the relationship shrinkery analysis.

Anticipate super-rad insights re relationships past, present and future IF you stick with it.

And yes, it’s a weird week, what with Venus + Jupiter going forward again and the Fixed Square Vibe of the Full Moon-Sun-Neptune scenario.

The solution?

Short Answer: Work your Uranian bits or the part of your chart where you have late Pisces/early Aries.

Honor dream messages but be Saturn Girl in waking life.Β  Or Saturn Boy. Saturn Man?

Oh and how many peeps feel like they’ve damn well had it up to hereΒ  with love and are going to devote their lives to cats/art/body-sculpting whatevs but will actually be immersed in a deep crush within weeks?

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piscesgem
piscesgem

i did the whole obessive thing about my ex to start of with when venus wnt retro but now im fine no more analysis couldnt care less, cut all ties to the past and past partners,wouldnt want any of them back, the last week iv thought a few times that i couldnt take another heart break but what the hell cant wait to find new love and get to know somebody and all the lovey dovey feelings again, i am alot more wiser now after these last few months its take me as i am or off you go, iv… Read more »

Andromeda
Andromeda

Venus has been in transit over my Libran Uranus, with Pluto running amok through my Cap 7th house.
I guess I could be feeling toey and simultaneously grokking my Saturnian GemHub’s Cappy NN? That’s if I had time to ponder such things.

Venus is Retrograde in my 4th house, now if it just nudges a degree or so, it’s in the 5th! And direct, oh fab! *attempts pushing planet Venus forward by force mentally*.

Andromeda
Andromeda

SaggEx has Venus in Scorp so of course he dropped a line during this retro.. Didn’t feel like replying and thought I should only reply when Venus went directamundo!

Pegasus
Pegasus

Ha…my Sagg ex had a Scorpionic Venus. Too much untold, not deceptive, not actually lying, but but but hidden, wouldn’t let go completely has now, phew, as i thought the retro would have him linking me again to his energy, & would never expose his feelings. His Leonic Mars seemed to inflate his ego bigtime, hugetime. It really is done & dusted now & a huge exhale from me. Twas some karmic lesson i’ve yet to figure, so musta been a ‘father’ thing it’s so unexplainable. Some peeps have too many ‘limiting’ beliefs, too hard-wired, thoughts set in concrete &… Read more »

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Didn’t know (had it been Butch?) ….but didn’t know you’d been hooked up with a Mars in Leo. Try that AND a Leo Moon to boot. I love my Leos (as most know), but that combo opposite my Cappy Moon was just awful.

A Pisces with a huge ego. What a dichotomy.

Andromeda
Andromeda

That’s really interesting Pegs, my Sagg Ex also was hidden, perhaps largely unto himself!! He had Mercury in Sagg and Jupiter conj. Lilith in Leo. Ego you say? I always wonder about the fact his Leo Jupiter/Lilith being conjunct to my Sun. 😯 Kim says Lilith is “life and death, ecstasy and suffering, passion and revulsion, enslavement and freedom” while apparently Jupe in this context means we would have encouraged overindulgence in each other… Apart from my NN being exactly on his Neptune (illusion lesson #1) I think we did let each take the piss…. or skate too close to… Read more »

Pia
Pia

I as well am another one who is fed up with love. Men suck and i can’t deal with them anymore.
Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago and I’m still insanely inlove with him. It’s driving me insane I just want to be over it. But when i think I’m getting better and getting over it he comes back into my life and i cannot say no. So he uses me for what he wants and i fall head over heels again.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH how long will i have to wait for this to be over!

Lexicon Limbo
Lexicon Limbo

Lock the back door! πŸ˜‰

Pegasus
Pegasus

Indeed, have we not all been there & feel foolish after?!

fallen angel
fallen angel

Pia, he uses you for what he wants?? Holy Inanna girl, if you can say it so lucidly then you may be halfway there. Here’s a sobering thought, and trust me I am the baseline for this kind of crap… Whenever I feel myself slipping towards patently despairing behavior I just imagine that I am my ex’s (NOT the Sewer as I can’t imagine that ever) current gf and I get to peep into his emails/exchanges.. I get to watch some other girl (potentially moi if I gave in to the desperation) being used while HE TREATS whoever is the… Read more »

Pia
Pia

Yes I no because when I am with him it kind of feels like we are in a relationship again and we have so much fun and he treats me so well. But then normally we do not speak until the next time he texts me which is like a month later. But I spent sunday with him and he dropped me home on monday morning. And then that morning he send me a text was very much surprised. His a cancer but a very strange one at that. And very confusing don’t think he knows what he wants. But… Read more »

Meowmix
Meowmix

I prefer Maine Coons to Persians… I will be having a make-your-own pizza party with my two hairy (Maine Coon) children this weekend πŸ˜‰

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Unusual Meowmix – had to google as never heard of them. Are you in Aus or US; apparently rare here in Aus but common in US. Huge gorgeous cats πŸ™‚ lovely kitties.

FireyBovine
FireyBovine

Well, before the Retrograde I was renouncing love (and it was all about my menagerie), then Venus made me a believer again by sweeping my creative soul twin into my life … and really, up until this week, that delving into old loves didn’t seem relevant, but now I find myself putting the most recent ex, the one who I thought would take me months and months to get over (now I realise that I was getting over him whilst still with him – 12 months of that will do it!) into context beside this new creative twin situation. And… Read more »

Aquafleur
Aquafleur

I have been sworn to celebacy for 2 years now. I don’t think I want to touch anyone ever again. I have a puppy now. Don’t see that changing in a hurry. Crushes maybe, nothing more than fantasy. Nothing could come of it, just day dreaming, cos the real thing is not wanted. Could not go through with another relationship. If this changes, I’ll eat my hat.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Betting start soaking it before you eat it, coz your’e
too young to say N E V E R. That’s often when you get
the lovebug come knocking. Like the Universe tries to prove
you wrong & when all your defenses are up.

fallen angel
fallen angel

dude. that’s a bit hard core.

LeoVirgoCuspian
LeoVirgoCuspian

What can I possibly truly say about this 1?? You got me here Ms. Mystic. I had 2 give up on somebody I was totally NOT feeling. The thought of not talking 2 any1 @ all, was getting the best of me. I rather be alone than 2 talk 2 some1 I can’t see myself with @ ALL. Its time 2 face reality & stop giving men the green light: I think its called settling. & I refuse 2 do it any longer!! Do I have a crush?? I had an old 1 but that was too overwhelming 4 me,… Read more »

Tonne 'o' Scorp
Tonne 'o' Scorp

shut up. no way. this whole past week i’ve been saying to myself, “i’ll just be single for the rest of my life. it’s fine. i’ll be a successful single woman.” and then i started to sing “single ladies” in my head. i know i sound mad, and of course i hope that won’t actually happen lol, but i really have had it up to here with love. so i think it’s totally amazing that you made this one of your posts. but yes, it’s true, i always have a crush on somebody (and still sort of do), but it’s… Read more »

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

The same song has been playing in my mind too πŸ™‚

Saturn girl is a skill I haven’t mastered yet. You work on your boundaries, don’t waste time on things that don’t matter. Search Saturn Girl on Mystic’s board, there are lots of to-the-point posts on how to be a Saturn Girl. A point I have yet to apply.

Capqua
Capqua

How funny, my housemate was singing the exact song this morning and have renamed our place the “Bachelorette Pad”. Single ladies we are!

Have found it easier to be Saturn Girl the last couple of weeks – probably because I had to deal with a douche of an ex who has no boundaries and respects no boundaries, and who has forced me to draw the line several times.

Strangely, Friday is the day I fly out to see a boy I fancy for the weekend…

Good timing, no?

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Arrrrghhhhh!

Retro Venus hit me – again. The MIA Scorp suddenly sends me an email. I knew that I had to mark his name as spam mail, but did I? Nooo. Replied, received a reply, replied – and pooof!! Gone again.

I scribbled to my journal: this is the last hurdle retro Venus is throwing at me. What do I need to learn from this?

Spam sometimes works wonders.

I -can’t – effing – believe after reading so many posts here, Mystic’s unrelenting cautions, I repeated the same reaction.

Sorry for the foul mouth, am really seething at myself atm.

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

I totally hear you… totally.

It’s like they just show up to prove they can get your attention. Then once they do- poof!
It’s like they got a big hit off you…

Or maybe I’m interpreting.

Anyways. I told the above gentleman to man up or go away. He was waffling and teling me he was just thinking about me…

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

I waited for 24 hours to reply. Did it work? No. Did I itch? Yes. So he asks me “how are you doing?” What do I reply? “Locked into a mortal combat with my jeans” What is wrong with saying “Am in a different universe now”.

This one showed up after 8 months – no messages, no contact in between. Maybe I will learn something by the next time he shows up.

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

My two cents?

Back-door men.

As in- show up at the front door with flowers, or not at all.
They try the back door hoping it’s unlocked…..if iyt is, and you answer- they get skeered and run away..

This is the male quality that I am officially saying good-bye to.at the end of this Venus cycle.

weathergirl
weathergirl

Reminds me of a childhood game we used to play called “Ding-Dong Ditch”: run up to the front door, jamb your finger in the doorbell button and then run like hell for the nearest bush and watch the inhabitants come answer the door. If you’re really good at it, you can get ’em to do it several times. [giggle giggle] Trick is not to do it so often or to too many people in the same neighborhood; someone might alert the police.

Ding-dong Ditch.

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

I hear you both. Thankfully V retro is not over yet, and am closing it with END-OF-ANALYSIS chapter.

Lexicon Limbo
Lexicon Limbo

Love your two cents Black star. Well worth it!

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Barbara DeAngelis, Psychologist, say these are little boy types who like to chase and conquer. Believe me ladies, I’d had my share at a time too. No thanks.

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

Just re-read Mystic’s post. Please add my name to the said list on the last paragraph. I turned on computer, seething, poured a cup of tea and decided – this is the way things are, they are not changing. Have been alone so long, even when I was in a relationship. Then typed my message above.

Sheesh. Life.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Ladies of the Canyon, i’m here to tell you
the Best relationships, if youre’ single & yearning at mo,
don’t happen until your’e in your 40’s, with the
man being a little (3-6 years) younger.
That’s just my opinion after long observation & what the men
tell me.
The battle of the sexes in still in force even in these
more enlightened times. Go figure as there is plenty
of info around on navigating a good one.
Men don’t read?

fallen angel
fallen angel

Speaking of Back Door Men, this may make everyone else feel better..I know it did moi. In typical slinky fashion, the Well Hung Uranian had sent a text offering his services (as I mentioned earlier in this thread). And yes, Black Star I do feel the same way, it’s like they test you to see if there’s responsiveness there, get a hit then poof, disappear. However, the last time I’d dallied with the WHU I was apparently so lackadaisical that it put his Quality Control on alert, he’d been moaning about it sporadically over the past year. It had been… Read more »

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

I have been asked that in situations FA. Totaly insecurity. And nosey too! lol

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

lolololol!!!!

Save that fricken text!!

I know, I know…

Fragility is there….unforch…. that IS how they get me to hang around for the abuse in the first place….
*pisces moon*

Je sais.

fallen angel
fallen angel

Fuq are you joking? I’m flipping framing this thing. Possibly even cross stitching it. It made my week I tell you.

I have Venus Leo and an Aqua Moon..needless to say it’s all a-sailing in passion/devotion whilst I’m quietly sieving thru factoids, the Aqua Madness then takes hold & la voila..suddenly it’s a shock that I’d been lucid all the time and it dawns that my being kind is not equal my being dumb.

Sigh.. ’twas precious though isn’t it.. πŸ™‚

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Maybe some women do go to N.Y. to become old maids. Patti Stanger, Matchmaker Millionaire show, found N.Y. women to be needing “help”…Peeps hash it out in the comments, lol. And if you are from NY, don’t yell at me, as I haven’t dated in 5 yrs…..out of choice however.

http://guestofaguest.com/television/patti-stanger-hates-new-york-women/

Maybe it’s a last minute Venus retro but I dreamt my Cancerian daughter was missing! Upon my email to her to look after herself (just in case), she tells me she’s been accepted to UC Santa Cruz, CA.

I’m happy for her but she’ll be so much further away πŸ˜₯

year of the fox
year of the fox

Go banana slugs!!! I’m happy for you!

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

OMG, I had thought you were yelling at the peeps in the article comments! That is just too funny as I didn’t know UCSC mascot is the banana slug!

πŸ˜†

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Kim Falconer is from Santa Cruz. Kim did you go to college there?

Kimmy
Kimmy

Remember Pulp Fiction? Johnny T in the UCSC Banana Slug Tee? Rewind!

Yes, UC Santa Cruz. My sis went there too. Stunningly beautiful campus. The redwoods!

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

Thanks Kim! Yes weathergirl, a reason to go some place lovely! Maybe I’ll take the train (I tell myself already planning…hehe).

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

thanks! btw

weathergirl
weathergirl

sounds like an excellent place for a vaca…

Andromeda
Andromeda

Can’t help finding Millionaire Matchmaker strangely compelling.. Patti is an odd one (Gem Rising Gem Moon in Sagg). But nothing prepared me for Tough Love! I love it when the host screams at a guy, “How can you look her in the FACE!!?”. Of course he is Aries.

Sad to miss your Kataka daughter so.. boo, Sweets.

Sweetpea
Sweetpea

I haven’t watched Tough Love but the guy is familiar. Just now was looking at a clip…He tells one girl, “you look like a slut and can’t keep your legs closed”. She wonders if buttoning one more button on her blouse really makes that much difference. He says it does. As an Aries I’m sure he’d know!

Thanks luvy..

doublesagg
doublesagg

I’ve had an internally turbulant venus retro – you’d never know from looking at me – venus scorp πŸ˜‰ and now, this week: Venus station/direct bang on sextile my sun; mars bang on conjunct my Asc. hand in hand with mercury whilst simultaneously sextile (bang on) natal mars in Aqua and also sextile Saturn which is about to trine my natal mars and also cross my sun/moon midpoint. Jupiter (my lovely ruler) direct. What’s going on? I’ve got all the gear and no idea. The only thing that keeps popping into my head is ‘Saturn Man’ which sounds well scary… Read more »

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Need advice , Pls…

A gentleman I briefly met/had a date with a year ago has come back… via email.

His timing is always suspicious. I am wondering , seeing as he just emailed yeaterday, if this is something I should write off as- been there, didn’t work, No, no, no via Saturn Girl…. Or
I have new boundaries, take em or leave em. Look how much I’ve changed, yes, we can email or talk, but just friends….

Is that too vague? Really its the timing of him showing up that makes me suspicious. Something about it is setting off my spidey-sense….

Hippychic
Hippychic

I would see how you feel in a week about it, keep your spidey senses on. Just be curtious and detatched to keep your options open.
Wow we getting back the power yeah its gonna be good times for all coming up, I can just feel it through the numbness.
Isn’t it amazing what life brings in when we start not giving a toss? There is really something in that letting go idea.
Still nice to get the attention and the ball is in your court now. But do trust your own instincts.

Bluesky
Bluesky

“I can just feel it through the numbness.” πŸ™‚

Saturn knows what you did last summer
Saturn knows what you did last summer

hehe… yeah, great line Hippychic. πŸ™‚

Quadrupled
Quadrupled

I wish my antennas were as good as yours. I will drop being angry with myself now, no insight will ever be brave enough to pop in with this mindset.

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Don’t be angry at yourself…. I have antenaee (sp) cause I’ve been worked over thoroughly by the best of the worst…..
Saturn in Gem, seems to mean I meet sophisticated baby-boy mind f**ckers….who are otherwise very nice guys- that part must be my Aries sun…lol

Take a breath.
Never ever, ever be mad at yourself, because somebody very good at what they do manipulated you.

They are shit.
You , however, are fabulous! Extra fabulous, and caring, too!
*hug*

Scorp
Scorp

I can’t possibly imagine that happening… my love life is completely non existent… nobody in sight. I’ve done TONS of sifting through all the old and many a lesson have been learned. So much so that I think I think that Love, is a pain in the ass!

bad tood.

plutonic gem
plutonic gem

im having some interesting retro-venus old friends stuff going on… I just had (like 5 min ago) an old friend/acquaintance declare their attraction to me, from over ten years ago, they still hold a flame… and i am seeing my bestie from high school on the weekend, and while I feel we have little in common, I feel strongly to apologise for the fact that I didnt go to her wedding (pretty bad form on my part, very neptunian time), which we have never talked about, but thats because we have hardly talked in the last 10 years… I think… Read more »

Charley
Charley

Love? Oh yes, I forgot about that, WHATEVS!

shell
shell

I’d renounce men and dedicate my life to cats for an NYC penthouse apartment.

Charley
Charley

You know what it’s genuinely my life plan right now, only a different breed of cat.

Ms.
Ms.

lol. here here

Charley
Charley

To the point where I put a reserve on a ticket to NY this morning!

Ms.
Ms.

why am i getting pictures of holly go lightly ?

πŸ˜›
x

Charley
Charley

Hehe in my dreams! x

Hummingbird
Hummingbird

Well done for recovering so quick mystic! And yes that explains why lately can just hardly be bothered to dress up with any effort, get out of bed early, exercise, make-up etc – thought it was a long-term, forever thing- but now realise is just those planets dragging their heels! Am almost excited! But love? Mah…

WOOHOO
WOOHOO

For some reason I feel no compulsion to give up on love, no matter how twisted it gets.

I enjoyed the retrograde. At first it started with confusion – but the introspection that seemed to come with it was much needed. It’s easier to contemplate when you’re not actively changing the circumstances every few days.

blueberry
blueberry

its been very retrospective. actually. MY EX who ive been in love with still for a year .. is suddenly single and all i think about. . im a libra. i feel actually really empowered lately. like i dont give a shit weather we get back together, or weather i just devote my time to my band and have ALL THE MEN I WANT. either way. ill be happy.

year of the fox
year of the fox

retrospective is a good word choice for this Libra too. It’s got a sense of detachment to it. I’m not stuck on my ex, but I ejected myself from the emotional hot seat of a current relationship that seems to go forward, go back, and stay still in cycles. Currently, it’s at “stay still”. We’re still “together” in that detached way, but I don’t care if it will work out. Something will work out either with him or with someone else. Until then, I’m slogging away at work.

8thHouse SunMoonVenus
8thHouse SunMoonVenus

Ditto, YOTF!

CancerInDenial
CancerInDenial

I have similar fantasies except they are more like opting out of the fuq’d up emo of the corporate world to be a check-out-chick (only problem is the $$$).

No shortage of men… I just want one in particular…. Pleaaassseee! I’m asking nicely…. After the crappiest, heaviest, most hideous year ever, I deserve some rewards:-). Even my therapist can’t believe all that has happened this year – it was the perfect storm for destruction of my psyche… Now I just have to figure out how to / what to rebuild to. Scary but also exciting!

D
D

over love. . . so over love. . . at present, I’m angry at everyone I’ve ever loved, and angry at myself for ever having loved them. I’m hoping this is just the retro. I’m not especially looking for love. . . don’t want it. It’s a great waste of time, energy and money, but I would certainly like to learn how to manage money again. I haven’t been able to manage money for about 5 years. . . though I’m not sure I can blame astrology for that.

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Wow! sounds like you are doing the work!
And…sure! you can!
lol

Whats in your Pluto/8th house/Toro/2nd house areas?

JLC
JLC

But Jupiter Retrograde is my time to shine! I was born in a Jupiter Retrograde and whenever it happens there are very strong effects on my life. It gets so much better! During this one, I started making more money than I ever had before. I’ve also noticed that it is when I am at my most confident and effective. And lucky! Usually I just feel like a stupid crap. I don’t want this to happen. I love Jupiter Retrograde too much to allow it to go direct.

blackcatsleeping
blackcatsleeping

Mystic is this the right time for Prince William to announce his wedding with Venus retrograde still?????

InchbyInch
InchbyInch

I couldn’t believe my ears when I heard the announcement! Aren’t royals supposed to have court astrologers who keep them from doing misguided things like this? I’m using it as an astrology lesson for my son (who remains ever-so-skeptical of astrology). I’ve told him to watch how the engagement and marriage – if it actually gets to that – unfold, and form his own opinion regarding the connection between the astro and the event.

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

There always seemed soemthign not quite right about that relationship…Something people were working very hard to not have it come to the surface…..
Methinks she is not all that she is on paper….

Ms.
Ms.

I agree, I don’t know what it is but it just doesn’t sit right. I know we hardly get a real glimpse into people from a media perspective sometimes but there is something, it just doesn’t sit in space properly.

weathergirl
weathergirl

And he gave her one of his mother’s rings as an engagement piece. I find that creepy. We don’t need another hounded Diana. Classical pun intended.

There’s a commemorative plate out already in which Wills looks about 16 and Kate looks 30. Very strange.

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Cuz he had hair then…! :o)

fallen angel
fallen angel

Gosh I adore this thread.. yes, I thought ’twas just me, but I’m suspicious of the entire thing. I watched a snippet of their interview and he just seems..dunno..all business about it.

I wonder if it’s moi just being jaded about royal romances.. or the fact that I’m not quite feeling that thing between them. There’s also something fragile and contrived about her..

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Yup, I think she’s after something….hiding something….Hiding behind a front of appropriate mate for a royal robotness…..
Something, something, who’s going to be king, actually…something, something……high stakes really….
I read somewhere they were living together secretly….don’t think that’s the dealio tho….

Diana was definitely not a saint, but she was so human while being a celebrity chaser, it hurt to see her unhappy……..

fallen angel
fallen angel

Well. I certainly couldn’t blame Diana when she rolled round the hay with Hewitt, holy highness she was a tadpole when they brought her in and it was so..so..about finding someone appropriate for Ch-dog to breed royal spawn with. Shudder. For all her confusedness and later media manipulation, she did remind me a bit of a lamb to the slaughter.. all legs and big eyes, and Ch-dog was well, a bit of a pr nightmare already. Kate is miles away from that..she’s quite self possessed really, hmm…so yes, definitely something ain’t quite right. It feels a bit like a reality… Read more »

Ms.
Ms.

swap art for men. I am having massive revisit of style and creative, on every level. still.

Bluesky
Bluesky

yes, with no men and no fun thoughts of men, my creativity is blossoming all over the place—except my energy level is a bit blah and I can’t seem to stay hyper focussed (or even focussed) or able to complete small tasks

I want to just give up, but I’m way too stubborn for that so I am stuck slogging through whatever this phase is

Hippychic
Hippychic

Wow this where I am at. My physical body is zapped beyond usefulness. I have so many ideas and creative wow moments but my body is operating on essential services only.

I have a rediculus amount of hope that come friday I will be suddenly soaring again. If it doesn’t happen over the week following I am sure to spiral down further, but will of course keep trying to get up.

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Well thank fuq re return to ability to handle $. Yesterday completely out of character, I was randomly roaming biggest shopping complex in the southern hemisphere. Spent hours in massive bookshop chain, then ended up in DJs where i bought a pair of sunglasses for an obscene amount of money – WTF?!? I didn’t have them on my list and hadn’t even considered I wanted a new pair of sunnies. This morning I came to my senses and will return them tomorrow – thankfully it was DJs – no questions asked. Am still coming to terms with how off the… Read more »

plutonic gem
plutonic gem

well ya wouldnt want to lose them would you? unless you have a sunglasses insurance policy! but you could go for a holiday for that, or feed a small country!

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

No sorry not this time, too much, over the top, lesson learnt.

monte
monte

Fuq love!

unpredictable pisces
unpredictable pisces

FUQ CRUSHES! useless things
I HAVE ANALYSED PAST RELATIONSHIPS TO DEATH I AM BORED SICK! NO MORE ANALYSING! note that analyse has “anal” in the word meaning it’s a pain in the ass.

signed, fish with sharp teeth.

unpredictable pisces
unpredictable pisces

i have decided to re-interpret Venus retro as ‘review what I am currently attracted to / attracting’ rather than ‘look back’. Mind you I am sure that has helped me greatly – like i said, much analysis has been done!

Tonne 'o' Scorp
Tonne 'o' Scorp

agreeeed, i hear you.

postmodscorp
postmodscorp

Pirahna Pisces….

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

I have always considered retiring to New York to be an old maid and cat collector as a very feasible fall back. For now, Venus retro seems to have rendered me unbelievably sane and sober about love past and future and romance in general, sans bitterness. Bland but not complaining.

xox rockstar libran publicist xox
xox rockstar libran publicist xox

clean slate? πŸ˜‰

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Here’s hoping!! x

Hummingbird
Hummingbird

Yes- bland but not complaining- well put!

xox rockstar libran publicist xox
xox rockstar libran publicist xox

what about laying out pix of objects of interest / past loves & rate them per this ?

http://yellowtrace.com.au/blog/2010/11/16/schooled-heather-k-phillips/

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Love them!! How cool. Every Virgo needs a set.

Saturnrox
Saturnrox

definately ! heh I can think of a few foreheads I’d use them on

xox rockstar libran publicist xox
xox rockstar libran publicist xox

perfect!

Hippychic
Hippychic

Well what I really want out of the venus forward motion is to feel really good again, no really good like when you can just do anything be anything and because you feel so good, you look fuqin hot anyway so you don’t have to work on that and you have boundless energy. I have had these breif moments in life and they usually come after you have had your arse kick into the ground untill you feel like you just won’t be bothered getting up again (like now – standing upright is a challenge as is giving a fuq).… Read more »

LeoVirgoCuspian
LeoVirgoCuspian

” so you better be the real thang, or a good new friend ” : totally agree!!

Crabbycrab
Crabbycrab

I’m taking sick leave till Friday. In a very messed up head space, trying for some clarity. The bag of lollies, punnet of blueberries and large doses of red wine have led me only to google stalk my crushs new girl who’s birthday is today( clearly I have a gift for this, maybe I should turn it into an art piece!!).
Tuning in and dropping out till Friday.

Louella
Louella

me! surreal crush that came from nowhere and that will end up in nothing, I’m sure

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Fab!! Well enjoy it all the same!

Louella
Louella

aww thanks! but I think there’ll be little to enjoy…

leogroover
leogroover

looked at my chart and I’m doing aries in third house – communication. mmm so spot on for now as I’m trying to extinguish my anger problem by saying my truth in a gentler way. That and starting surfing again throws cold water literally on me and relaxes me to the max.

prowlncat
prowlncat

Nice to see you feeling better and back on your blog seat Mystic. Yep this Venus retrograde has been particularly tiresome. Felt like I’ve been going backwards … I’m sure the rad insights will come later, as is usually the way. But in the meantime … urggggggggh. It’s taken all my strength to just bother getting out of bed lately – let alone do life. Relationships? What is this thing you speak of? πŸ™„

Pisces with sagg rising
Pisces with sagg rising

Funny picture…tee hee

I hope I get my looks back on Friday. Have been feeling very drab and passed it. Hope object of my affection/distraction makes an re-appearance, too. Have been feeling despondent, too (which has come as a surprise to me vis a vis him).

Anonymous
Anonymous

well heres hoping ill be deeply immersed in something delicious and fulfilling in the next few weeks (and no i dont mean swimming in a vat of trifle)
The last uh…10 yrs(!!) of crappy relationship drama has just about done me in.
(God, 10 yrs-is that normal?)

fishgirl
fishgirl

My god this is so me now. I choose my cat every day after the cyclone I’ve just been through, apparently called ‘love’. Whoa! Still reeling…and trying to find solid ground…

gemyogi
gemyogi

No. I am really going to devote my life to art!
But if I attract some gorgeous male fans… I’m only human πŸ˜‰

ScorpioRising
ScorpioRising

Devoting your life to Art is a worthy cause, devoting it to men just -ain’t.
My theory is do want you love, men will follow.
Men chase their dreams, then the ladies.

unpredictable pisces
unpredictable pisces

nice.

plutonic gem
plutonic gem

looking forward to a love revolution actually… crossing fingers that this venus going direct might release me from some voodoo funk out of a time ive had for quite a while. Manifesting brilliant reemergence of super gorgeous self loved moi… all in alignment with finishing a 7year project… surely a rebirth is on the cards!

doublekataka
doublekataka

I’m one who has had it up to here with love. The so called man of my dreams who just visited me from overseas, invested his time chasing my (much younger) friend. Feel like I cannot fuqing win.

venus a-go-go
venus a-go-go

Anyone that doesn’t give you the love and respect that you deserve doesn’t deserve your time and their lives will be less for it.
Their loss… not yours.

leogroover
leogroover

Hallelujah sister

doublekataka
doublekataka

Yep I do agree… I’m just having a pouty moment about it right now but it will pass quickly. Now seems to be a good time to look at the overall patterns – I’ve been in similar situations. And the sexual politics of 40-somethings… yikes, I’m just starting to find out.

fallen angel
fallen angel

doublek, mayhaps this will make you feel better…When I was 20 I was taking swimming/diveboard lessons and encouraged my Virgo sister in law (then in her mid thirties) to join me. The instructor was a hot guy my age with whom I ended up having combative-humorous banter with..of course I liked him and he certainly did not discourage it. However, it became quite obvious to me at the time that he was gunning for Mrs. Robinson, so having concluded that the ship had sailed from my port, I quietly sharpened my wit and never again held back. Still, it irked… Read more »

doublekataka
doublekataka

thankyou! xx

doublekataka
doublekataka

last two paras especially

fallen angel
fallen angel

oh bless, this venus retro shite is getting tres ooooold… but its nice to know I don’t have the market on yearning all on my own πŸ™‚

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Good story!

fallen angel
fallen angel

sweet avatar black star.. it reminds me of me and my lovely libran sister. πŸ™‚

BlackStarAries
BlackStarAries

Thx!

venus a-go-go
venus a-go-go

I am going to become a nun… it will be easier. I have decided. My Set and Forget Saturn is not not to talk to my ex ever again and avoid when possible. Just because he says nice thing once does not mean he is not a prick. Oh yes. Get over him, I will. Like a much more attractive Yoda. I will no longer make allowances… I will be spending the next weekend hanging out with some delightful ol’ friends instead of going to his sister’s photography exhibition (even tho she did invite me and I helped out with… Read more »

leogroover
leogroover

GO go vgg. I’m on a 30 day ex detox myself. No contact -nada. Deleted him from my life. I have slipped up a couple of times in 10 days so have to add those as extra days but am doing fine. My biggest lesson in all this VRx is to slow down and jsut accept and allow stuff to happen. e.g If current crush doesn’t ring so what? i won’t die .

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Loving both your ex detox resolutions. Full support!

Bluesky
Bluesky

yes, detox

nunnery

maybe life is simpler with no men, cleaner, saner…

Pegasus
Pegasus

The problem with sending yourself to a ‘nunnery’
is that after a while you get so horny you choose
the wrong person to break – fast with. Then the
true shite hits the fan! One touch & your’e a goner.
Not easy for women to separate sex from love as
men can do…& i don’t think we should try altho’
Cleo & Cosmo mags tell us otherwise.

Remember the saying ‘god put men here to drive us nuts’?
Think this is why so many women have turned to ‘Goddess
Thinking’.

Bluesky
Bluesky

πŸ™‚ “why so many women have turned to ‘Goddess Thinking'” Funny.

And I would be exactly as you say. I am way too easy if I don’t get what I need!!!! I would like a nunnery for about an hour (or less).

fallen angel
fallen angel

Word, VGG. I’m home sick with what I’ve dubbed the Loneliness Flu. That’s it. A half breed girl-angel can only take so much. And not to mix posts what not, isn’t that just the thing when things end and exes do the “take care of yourself bit” like Pegs pointed out as they won’t. It’s like the most insincere piece o’ crap thing to say that makes me want to descend upon them hydra’d out all however many heads in full roar whilst at the height of PMT with Tati’s flame thrower on load and loan..obviously this flu is enraging… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

‘strategic molestation’…..soooo appropriately put.
That was sure an offer you could understand.
Tell him to hire a hooker. Your’e too good for that
un-romantic Uranian. Does size REALLY matter?
They all look the same to me. (if i look).
x

fallen angel
fallen angel

uhm..he’s kind of MY hooker? haha.. truly I don’t mind the lack of romance from him, it’s mind boggling to think he’s been around since ’04, and at the time it took me three months to tell him I was 10 yrs older. And he actually asked me to produce ID. It’s been apparent since that the only connection we could ever have was physical..and it’s actually made it simpler/clearer/easier for us though in the bigger scheme this is not what I would want for moi in the long run. I’m just surprised he’s been that bothered, I successfully waylaid… Read more »

Little Joey
Little Joey

Yay!! Glad its ending soon …. feel like a real fugly today.

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