A Pisces happily in a relationship with another Pisces keeps thinking about (and talking to) an Aries Man (her Ex) she does not even want to be with.
I have a problem. I have been with my Pisces partner for four years and I adore him. He was initially a rebound from my high school sweetheart Aries Ex. Now for 3 of those years, Aries-ex & I barely spoke – an email here & there. But we eventually sorted through all the angst of our messy breakup, just earlier this year. We have ambled along as friends but slowly it has been revealed that we both still think about each other every day. And we still feel that intense ‘body-soul obsession’ as he once put it.
I am feeling like I am betraying my partner by talking to Aries-ex in this manner and he feels the same way, as he is living with his girlfriend. It is unsettling to always have this hanging above our heads – we’ve decided to sit down & talk about it as mature adults. Whether it is even viable for us to be friends is questionable – especially since he thinks his relationship will end soon. I have no intention of leaving my Pisces for the Aries-Ex. I love my Pisces very deeply & we have the most gorgeous little relationship I am happy in. Even if I was single I would not want to be with Aries-ex, it’s not the right time, it may never be again.
But I need to know when it will be best to have this chat! I was planning to see him Thursday but you have stated that is a bad communication day. Its probably better I don’t see him on a day I have no other commitments otherwise I’ll end up spending the whole day with him. It could lead to dangerous territory. How does Friday look?
Any advice you could give me would be most appreciated! I have a distinct feeling this may be a goodbye for the Aries-ex & I for the foreseeable future. But I know neither of us really want that, its more of a practical solution
The Scorpio Rising Piscean
Dear Scorpio Rising Piscean,
I think Aries-Ex may is using you to fluff his ego during this stressful Zap Zone phase. And you’re hooked on him as an echo of high school hormones and well, the flattery. It is so much easier to have high vibe spiritual rapport with people when they’re not asking you if you bought catfood or grumbling about their bad back again.
and you are sounding like a tres batty Pisces. If you are truly happy in your gorgeous relationship with the other Piscean, why are entertaining chats with the Aries? And if you have no intention of leaving the Pisces, then why are you saying that you “may” never be with the Aries again. This is how Pisces sends peeps bats and all with a tantric serene smirk plastered across their sweet face. This whole ‘cry for help’ is infested with ambiguity .”I know neither of us really want that…”
Admit that you and the Aries-Ex are an “us” – “we” this and “our” that. You don’t want the risk of being with him but you don’t want to let go of him or the validation. Venus is about to be in Scorpio for far longer than usual. Clarify what you want to happen and finesse it. If you drift into an affair without taking responsibility for it, there will be chaos and regret. And, btw, emotional infidelity packs more of a pow than the physical version.
Let’s get the sagacious and worldly viewers of this site to solve this for you in the comments. Thoughts?
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