I have a problem. I have been with my partner (who I adore- pisces like me) for 4 years; to be honest he was initially a rebound from my aries ex. Now for 3 of those years, aries-ex & I barely spoke – an email here & there – but we eventually sorted through all the angst (we were high school sweethearts I suppose you could say) of our messy breakup, just earlier this year. We have ambled along as friends but slowly it has been revealed that we both still think about each other every day (& have been doing so almost everyday since we first met) & we both still feel that intense ‘body-soul obsession’ as he once put it.
Now, because I am feeling like I am betraying my partner by talking to aries-ex in this manner, (& aries-ex feels the same way as he is living with his girlfriend too) & because it is…unsettling to always have this hanging above our heads – we’ve decided to actually sit down & talk about it as mature adults. Whether it is even viable for us to be friends is questionable – especially since he thinks his relationship will end soon. & don’t get me wrong I have no intention of leaving my pisces for the aries -ex, apart from the fact that I love my pisces very deeply & we have the most gorgeous little relationship I am happy in; even if I was single I would not want to be with aries-ex, its not the right time, it may never be again.
But I need to know when it will be best to have this chat! preferably this week! I was planning to see him Thursday but you have stated that is a bad communication day, plus its probably better I don’t see him on a day I have no other commitments otherwise I’ll end up spending the whole day with him – which could lead to dangerous territory. How does Friday look? or if you know of a day coming up that would be better suited please let me know.
Any advice you could give me would be most appreciated! I have the distinct feeling this may be good bye for the aries-ex & I for the foreseeable future…but I know neither of us really want that, its more of a practical solution
The Scorpio Rising Piscean
Dear Scorpio Rising Piscean,
I think Aries-Ex may just be using you to fluff his ego during this stressful Zap Zone phase and you are sounding like a tres batty Pisces. If you are truly happy in your gorgeous relationship with the other Piscean, why would you want to be entertaining chats with the Aries. And if you have no intention of leaving the Pisces, then why are you saying that you “may” never be with the Aries again. This is how Pisces sends peeps bats and all with a tantric serene smirk plastered across their sweet face. This whole ‘cry for help’ is infested with ambiguity..”I know neither of us really want that…” etc etc.
Friday 13 is a good date for diplomatic dialogue, the Zap Zone is all about makeovers and ending what has to be ended but maybe this is just the prequel to the mega-bats Venusian Luxe – Sex, Magic, Karma phase from Sept to Jan. Venus is in Scorpio for unusually long time and you, of course, are Scorpio Rising. I reckon next time Aries-Ex current g-f “tramples on his dreams and exhibits major disrespect” – as Arieans call even the most mild of criticism or fail to completely worship their every move – he will be wanting to have another chat with you. The Zap Zone is hard on Aries relationships, for sure.
Let’s get the sagacious and worldly viewers of this site to solve this for you in the comments…Thoughts?
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