Asteroid Juno: Marriage Or Mistress?

Juno Goddess ArtLet’s do this.

You can, of course, discover the whereabouts of your asteroid Juno via the extended chart options of Astrodienst. Genius.

Juno, to me, is a bit like Ceres. I don’t really follow either of them too much.  Juno is right now opposing Pluto and nearing the South Node, btw.

Some say Juno is the marriage asteroid, terribly important in synastry (comparison of charts a la compatibility) as in if HIS Juno is on your what’s-it, you are like his ideal wife sort of thing.

So this is adding Juno into  the Artemis/Moon (emotional connection) and Venus (sexual  magnetism) pantheon of female divinity. The mythological Juno is Queen of Heaven and long-suffering wife of the rampant rooter Jupiter.  A.k.a. Hera and Zeus. She charges around meting out shocking punishments on the nymphs and so on who dally with  her hubby.

In books such as Goddesses in Everywoman, a Juno/Hera type woman is said to put her status as Wife above all else- above mothering, above being a lover, above career, above her own identity.  So compared to the erotic & liberated arty Aphrodite/Venus or the fiercely independent Moon Goddess, Juno is not so of the now.

What’s always fascinated me is that Magi Astrology (sort of old-school renegades with different ideas than many) say that the position of asteroid Juno in your chart is NOT about dutiful wifehood and/or where you would put up with practically anything to stay in a relationship. No. They say Juno is the Mistress. They’re not dissing the myth- Magi reckon they have crunched the numbers and decided that’s just how Juno manifests. ie; She should probably be re-named asteroid Jezebel.

So who is right?  Is asteroid Juno relevant in your chart?  And is it operating like a wifely asteroid – has it been significant in major, long-term relationships? If you are in a serious relationship, is there strong Juno action between  you? Or is asteroid Juno definitely more linked to the Mistress archetype in your chart?

Some people consider Juno intra-aspects one of THE most important contacts between two charts and say strong Juno links definitely mean you will have a significant and enduring relationship.

Lol this is only suddenly riveting me because i met a man whose Juno is exact conjunct mine.

And Juno conjunct the South Node opposite Pluto? Wives and Mistresses from past lives emerging? Strange karmic-feeling entanglements? Or some sort of disgusting psych-trip a la what sacrifices we would make or have done in the past, just to have societal “couple” status?

THOUGHTS?

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ElectricLily
ElectricLily

Juno doesn’t strike me as marriage material nor mistress. I find this to be a limiting view of her. Think of Hera – she wasn’t only Zeus’s wife, she RULED with him. An eastern understanding of male/female archetypes is that – she is the power of her male counterpart, meaning, Jupiter plants the seed and she carries the growing up process. And she does it the hard way. Look what she did to Heracles. He’s been tortured and tested all the way, especially in love matters. The man never knew a lovey-dovey happy ending in life. It was all hardships… Read more »

CapricornSue
CapricornSue

His juno conjunct my venus. Many aspects conjunct between us. We met 29 years ago and I have been his mistress for 25 of those years. I let him go. He returned with my second saturn return.
Pluto saturn transit headed for 22 capricorn. My natal saturn square his venus.
So, Juno to me is the loyal long term mistress… where this is headed, no one knows… but difficult and intense and karmic.

RMB
RMB

Mine: Juno 13 in Capricorn, Jupiter 29 in Virgo, Saturn 26 in Aries, Neptune 28 in Scorpio, Pluto 23 in Virgo,
Hers: Juno 26 in Leo, Saturn 13 in Capricorn, Neptune 12 in Capricorn, Moon 10 in Scorpio, Pluto 14 in Scorpio
There is more, although that is all I’ll share

Butfly
Butfly

I have juno conjuct pluto and Nadir in my natal chart, strongly aspected. I personally support the statement that Juno is not directly related to the female wifehood/mistress role play, but anchored more at the ways that women empower themselves through coping with their male counterparts.

calypso scorp
calypso scorp

well. I have been a mistress once in my life and here are the deets: his Juno conjunct Uranus on my Mercury conjunct Jupiter all in 6th Libra, and my Ceres is on his Midheaven opposing his Ceres conjunct Moon in the 4th. Can I call it fated now? 😉

Gemini 1001
Gemini 1001

mmmm So my Jumo is on TOP of my pluto – well one degree seperating, and square my venus and sextile my moon….. ?

So what does that mean Mystic? And with my current crush Juno is square the sun, moon and Mercury? hmmmm that sounds bad?? Any insights?

xxx

glittergirl
glittergirl

These asteroid connections seem more valid than the usual venus/mars nonsense.

I have just found out that i have significant juno/lilth/node and other planetary aspects to a guy that i have always thought of as someone that i have a connection too.

His juno is conjunct my sun and ascendant plus trine my saturn.
Do you think he’ll wanna marry me?!

GreenRoses
GreenRoses

Juno is definitely the asteroid of the mistress when aspecting a man’s chart. My ex MARRIED lover had Juno in Cancer in 24degrees making a trine to my Venus in Scorpio at 24 degrees. We talked about living together and making a life of our own. I did love him, but nothing came of it, since he decided to stay with his wife and didn’t talk to me again. Certainly not the aspect of LOVE AND MARRIAGE. The aspect of true love and marriage according to Maji astrology, is the Chiron/Venus aspect.

messy leo
messy leo

I just keep looking at all of these great articles covering all kinds of stuff, and I find it kind of difficult to google and come up with something really good. I love everyones’ posts, and I see usually it’s only relevant within a couple of days to comment, but I’m gonna do it anyway. I have Juno conjunct Neptune (exactly), and they’re one degree on the first house side of my Asc. I’ve had more comments of coming across as the “housewife type”, no one’s ever referred to me (to my face) as any kind of mistress type. People… Read more »

Elizabeth
Elizabeth

This is the most impossible relationship but has that compelling energy one person spoke of. He has Jupiter conjunct the ASC in Gemini in the 12th and I have Juno conjunct the ASC in Libra in the 12th. Our composite chart shows a packed 12th house, Sun and other personal planets. Our ASCs are trined in air signs. His Venus is conjunct my Juno exact at 28 Virgo. Weren’t Jupiter and Juno husband and wife, and rulers together in Greek mythology? Well with recent Juno and Jupiter opposition, Jan 2011, the sacred contract we carry was revealed to me in… Read more »

Donna
Donna

Oh- I forgot to say that his Juno is also trine my Jupiter in late Sag- I keep saying- “there is wisdom in this or else we would not have met.” So there it is- she is very strong in this synastry.

Thanks Mystic- you are brilliant.

Donna
Donna

Hi Mystic, I have a Juno strong relationship that places his Juno at 29 Leo conjunct his Mercury on the IC trine my Venus and my Juno conjunct Mercury IC at 22 Aquarius trine his Venus (and my Vertex). This relationship has been a conundrum- in all ways. Deep and abiding love with a sense of connection across time and space- and he is married. So- I am looking at reality and have accepted that it is what it is and I am 62 and cannot bear never laughing together again, etc, etc. What has this created? I’ve learned a… Read more »

celeste
celeste

Just wanted to throw my experience with juno in the mix….my current MARRIED lover and I have a 3 year relationship. Our Juno’s in Heliocentric are EXACTLY conjunct-also in the latitudes(Magi) Neither of us have ever had an extra-marital affair but we seem not to be able to stay away from one another–We are deeply in love (Juno illusion?) but agree that it is best for him to stay in his marriage for his two young children. We also have mutual Jupiter/Juno connections–Hera & Jupiter? According to the Magi, the Jupiter/juno aspect is the only Juno contact that does not… Read more »

Ariel
Ariel

I thought Juno was about soulmates/ the ideal partner – the one with the qualities you are looking for – has always fit with me. I have Mars in Cancer & Juno in Pisces (in House 8, Scorpio’s House!) so the men I like are very sensitive and watery: explains why I’ve always been attracted to the ethereal artistic types…

PiscesPrincess
PiscesPrincess

Interesting discussion.

Well, I have JUNO conjunct LILITH in scorpio CONJUNCT My ex boyfriend’s Venus/pluto conjunction.

His JUNO in LIBRA conjunct my ASCENDANT in Libra.

We have a daughter together. We only dated for 3 months ( I got pregnant very early in).

We talked about “marriage” all the time as if we were brave souls ready to take the “plunge” – it never happened. We have not even seen each other since last September:( Whats that all about?

hodad
hodad

My Juno is in Sagittarius in the 3rd house,conjunct my IC and square my nodes in Virgo.What could that possibly mean?

Samina
Samina

I haven’t quite sorted out the Juno vibe, despite haven’t read all the angles. Tho she feels personally very relevant, as my family is from the island in Greece that is considered Hera’s birthplace, and I grew up passing by the ruins of her temple on my walks. I’ve got Juno conjunct Pallas smack in between my 2nd-house Neptune & Moon in Scorp. I’ve been married (and divorced) and enjoyed the experience, but really, after many decades, the bottom line is I am *nobody’s* wife or mistress… a *cosmic* wife at best… simply not “ownable” in that way. Tho I… Read more »

whatevs
whatevs

nice – Did you ever go into the ruins? Were there vibes?

Ms
Ms

beautiful

davidl
davidl

My Juno is in Libra, pretty close to my North node. Kataka’s is in Cap ? Is that a trine ?

Andromeda
Andromeda

That’s important I think it means Juno has more force in your life…like your destiny is involved in your sharing a life with a graceful and wonderful woman.

Uranian&Plutonic Virgo
Uranian&Plutonic Virgo

I haven’t cleared my cache! Shouldn’t have shown up Anonymous.

Anonymous
Anonymous

My Juno is in Scorp, and smack bang on my Ascendant. Teehee, it’s married to my rising…oh my bad, I know… I’ve known it was a significant placement since I printed out my chart yonks ago, but still no clue how. From Kim Falconer’s ‘7 simple steps to synastry’ printout I have, Juno’s significance and meaning is: “Committed and bonded relationships, marriage, legal ties and protections of rights within the relationship.” I’ve always been either all or nothing when with someone, but that’s just my Ascendant. Or so I thought, hm…..so Juno adds an extra layer/depth/whatchamacallit to the Scorp rising…?… Read more »

Uranian&Plutonic Virgo
Uranian&Plutonic Virgo

I haven’t cleared my cache! Shouldn’t have shown up Anonymous.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Leonic all i know is that the 9th House is ruled by Saggittarius about development
of mind, higher learning all Jupiterian endeavours.
Wouldn’t you be attracted to Aqua’s?
On a big learning curve myself. Google ‘Houses’.

Leonic
Leonic

Hi folks, I have Juno in the 9th house in Aquarius at 0 degrees retrograde, can anyone help with an interpretation??

Pegasus
Pegasus

HA..and i was planning on laying low for the next few days…UHHUH? I’m angry & just spat the dummy at my Medical Center. Quite like this feeling of being entirely PISSED OFF, that feeling that i had years of therapy to cure, more supress methinks as it does result in action where total courtesy doesnt get what you want. Didn’t know how much i missed the firing of the arrows of indignation. It was about money & love as always, real 8th & 12th house stuff. There you have example of Moon in Sagg. Full Moon Capricornian Ecslips on my… Read more »

whatevs
whatevs

OH! Cup of soothing chai? Chamomile? Whisky? Maybe eclipse is showing you who you aren’t anymore? Take it easy pegs – if you can – having it on the ascendant would pack a punch.

whatevs
whatevs

PS pissed off is virile, I know what you mean, hard not to pour it like boiling oil over innocents when it’s coursing in your veins tho.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Thanx for the sympatico, Whatevs.
Went for walk…the cure for most things.
Sometimes displeasure has to be shown
so you don’t get crushed in the masses.
The problem is actually with my body alignment & structure,
isn’t that so Capricornian 🙂
Also about any realism with Butch, who was supposed to call me
for our ‘date’ tomorrow night, resulting in the ‘same ol same ol et al
dsiappearing act that squenches emotional buttons.
Myst has been saying………………….hasn’t she?
xx

Pisceannn
Pisceannn

conjunct pluto in scorp

virgo cat
virgo cat

Alright.
My Juno is, of course, in Leo. Of course of course of course! Not tight with Venus, but close.
1. Bestest friend/ex boyfriend has Sun/moon conjunct my Juno.
2. My lovely but difficult ex (Gemmy Gem) has Juno in Scorp (where my north node, progressed sun, and Uranus is. go figure).

ha!

Lucy The Leo
Lucy The Leo

SO interesting, as ever, Mystic. Wow, so incredibly topical for me atm.
I am so thrilled you have met this Juno man!

andrew
andrew

oy. next on sad, sick world– my juno refuses to interplay with anything.. sitting all smug and pure in virgo next to my asc.

and they rejected my application for the nunnery… something about damaged goods.

Mari
Mari

I have a Libra Juno in my Seventh House and I could NEVER EVER be a mistress! The jealousy and the feeling of being of lesser importance would be intolerable. I need a mate’s full love, devotion, and commitment. In my first marriage, my husband’s Juno in Scorpio was trine my Mars and my Juno was conjunct his Mars in Libra. I left him because, quite simply, he wanted and needed me more than he loved me. In my current marriage of ten years, my husband’s Juno in Virgo is sextile my Venus and my Juno is conjunct his Venus.… Read more »

Lilly
Lilly

Hhhmmm. This is very interesting! But what constitutes a “special connection” between Juno’s on couples charts?

Mine and my lover’s are both in Leo, separated by a degree! His is 27 and mine is 28.
Is that special?? Or do only conjuctions, etc. count?

Lilly
Lilly

Or am I really new to this (and therefore very, very stupid) and what I’ve got IS a conjuct? Oh astrology, how you vex me!!

(Apologies if I look overly dumb.)

Lexicorn
Lexicorn

Hey, no self chastising in here please! Tis the place to come to ask such questions… Yep, you do indeed have a conjunction between your mutual Junos, and according to the marital theories on Juno, yes, that would appear to be quite special… Look to the houses she sits in in your respective charts for ideas about how you might relate marriage issues / codependency between yourselves…

shell
shell

I’ve juno in virgo, 2nd house. which is kind of empty space for me. though maybe my progressed asc is around there now. It is very loosely opp my moon and sextile uranus. I can see that marriage (not that I think I will get married) would be about material security for me, given I’m not particularly materially secure. The stupid man who I am trying not to think about because I am on the other side of the world and whatever to him, his juno is conjunct my south node, in taurus. I’ve been looking for a south node… Read more »

shell
shell

interesting thing, the other (leo) man with whom I had a similar f’d up connection quasi-relationship with, who is still in my life, has his juno at 18 taurus, on my midheaven. his moon is on my south node (11 taurus). The aries has his venus on my midheaven.
that bloody packed taurus of mine has a lot to answer for.

whatevs
whatevs

shell have you read the spiller i think her name is book about the nodes and the karma etc. that both of you have a sth node thing if you use her theories is about you having already done that before. does that make sense? have already been married. I don’t get into that whole thing but dragons tail is the past they say.

shell
shell

yah, read a few things on south node conj in synastry. Of course no consensus beyond they tend to occur in significant relationships/connections.

anon
anon

My late husband’s Juno was in my 6th and trine my mars, trine my neptune, sextile my Pluto and opposite my ascendant. I felt utterly suffocated in this relationship but even after our separation there was a connection that would not release, much as I longed for that link to be broken. I have juno conjunct my uranus and my pluto, sextile my neptune and mars and trine my ascendant. My juno was in his 6th also and square his moon and jupiter. So on that one relationship I would say it is a marriage asteroid.

VenusRules
VenusRules

My big ex has juno conjunct NN opposite Pluto conjunct SN. He’s on his sixth wife, for whatever it’s worth. Marriage as destiny, but with a very long chain of karmic entanglements to march through? The whole shebang aspects my venus by trine/sextile.

Ms
Ms

I have wondered about Juno, only ever considered marrying one person so was never so interested to look it up in synastry before. I have Juno in Cancer 1st/2nd cusp (looks to be kneesliding into 2ndbase) trine Sun/Merc its one of the strongest trines in my deck Supercrab has sun/venus/juno cancer but not conjunct my juno got a massive uranus oppostion asc synastry so no danger there, lol I googled this. cancer is nurturing. well yeah… sun trine juno. leoy showy partners increased charm and social grace merc juno -needs excellent communication 1st/2nd house partner is center of universe and… Read more »

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Love that quote 🙂

Charley
Charley

Love, love that quote. She has so many I love.

Charley
Charley

Well my Juno is in Libra (not a surprise) exactly conjuncting my stupid ex Aries moon and his is in Aries sitting right on top of my Asc. Probably some kind of relevance, all I know is that he sure as hell doesn’t want to marry me but can’t control himself for one second sexually around me so I guess that makes me a mistress, again. All that Libra in my chart gagging to pair up and nobody wants to marry me, haha.

The Empress
The Empress

Just wanted to say I LOVE your tumbr girl. Was the first one I’ve ever looked at (I know).

Charley
Charley

Oh yay! I’m entirely too addicted to the whole thing.

SPMALR
SPMALR

Definitely marriage related.

Compared my Juno at 10 Virgo 23 with my two ex husbands.

First one love of my life, still is, conjunct Juno at 12 Virgo.
Second one, dreadful mistake, at 16 Libra, opposite my moon in Aries, also conjunct my Pluto. Interestingly he has Uranus at 15 Libra- what sort of wife could ever make him happy…..
A drone perhaps.

Anyway, moving on….

I noticed that my Juno is conjunct my Pars Fortunae, at the end of the first house. Lucky in marriage?
Third time lucky perhaps.

SPMALR
SPMALR

and also, my Juno is directly opposite my sun in Pisces.

perhaps marriage doesn’t suit my sensitivities…

nancyx
nancyx

Juno conjunct Mars in Sagg.
Square Pisces Sun (HA – maybe explains my continuous relationships with men whom my father does not approve of?).
Sooo… potential conflict between my personality and my wifey and/or mistressy ways (powered by rash and impulsive mars)?

Mars certainly comes out in mistress situations… ie not enough attention, I will turn to one of my other admirers… In ‘wife’ type relationship… not sure, only had one of those so far (not actually married).

HOLY COW. Just had a look and The Big Ex’s Venus is on my Juno! The same degree and everything.

Leo with aqua rising, Cat who can get wet
Leo with aqua rising, Cat who can get wet

oh yes, ps. if you didn’t pick that up from the above, my friend is a diehard feminist – environmentalist – and super sagg. So I think a Strong Juno may also = Strong Feminist. Juno and Pluto (as per UberVirgo) sounds more on the money, Pluto would make you Uber Uber whatever the other planet is.

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

Actually, Mystic herself told me Juno is often significant in the charts of women with serious feminist leanings. As for the Mistress angle. I’m wondering if it’s a bit of creative translation??? This from the Hera Wiki: ‘”The name of Hera, the goddess of marriage, admits a variety of mutually exclusive etymologies; one possibility is to connect it with hora – season, and to interpret it as ripe for marriage.” So begins the section on Hera in Walter Burkert’s Greek Mythology. In a note, he records other scholars’ arguments “for the meaning Mistress as a feminine to Heros, Master.” John… Read more »

Ms
Ms

interesting

The Empress
The Empress

My Juno is in Kataka in the 8th house and my lover’s is also in the 8th although in Pisces. So that means we both find sex and sharing resources important??? In my own chart there doesn’t seem to be any important aspects being made (sesqui/whatever neptune and jupiter and quincunx my NN (although – ). It does quintile my lilith which I think means it’s a blessing. I guess my lilith makes sure I don’t marry anyone who is not my equal. 😮 I’ve never looked too much into synastry; I find looking at an individual’s chart challenging enough… Read more »

Leo with aqua rising, Cat who can get wet
Leo with aqua rising, Cat who can get wet

My very different theory on Juno (probably agrees with Uber Virgo) I don’t know much about Juno, just got interested in it lately as did a chart for a friend of mine who has a very strong Juno. She has Juno conjunct Saturn, in the 7th house (Taurus). She also has a “basket” chart where Juno-Saturn is the “handle” of the basket, and everything else is lined up on the other side (also she has lots of Scorpio, so it makes a lot of aspects there). She told me – before I ever did her chart – that she had… Read more »

Aqua Fey
Aqua Fey

“And Juno conjunct the South Node opposite Pluto? Wives and Mistresses from past lives emerging? Strange karmic-feeling entanglements? Or some sort of disgusting psych-trip a la what sacrifices we would make or have done in the past, just to have societal “couple” status?” Ah Mystic, again! This goes some way to explain why my ex ran off with my best friend the day I dumped him, because our relationship had been mysteriously unravelling for a coupla months (say, as long as they had been fooling around). I’m a week in, it’s not pretty. Have had a really strong past life… Read more »

Pegasus
Pegasus

Ouch! Bigtime double OUCH!
Can say nothing else cept look after yourself.
Life’s an incredible teacher, but sheesh her bills are enormous.

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

My Juno is exactly conjunct my Pluto in Virgo in the 10th (+ Uranus), and I don’t really get what it means. I am most certainly not mistress material. In fact, I’ve never been more infuriated than when two different lovers, both Italian, commented after sex that I’d make the perfect mistress. (They’d hardly say that after a discussion of postmodern theory). I dropped both of them soon after that. Madonna-Whore complex much? I can’t imagine worse torture than being someone’s mistress, or being wife to an unfaithful or disinterested man. I’m probably the most contented singleton I know and… Read more »

The Empress
The Empress

I have the same thing happening with Lilith conjuncting my Pluto in the 10th. Had the harlot consult done (which was brilliant) and Mystic said it was pretty wild. Thinking yours wil be the same just with Juno tendencies.

😮 about the Italian’s UV although reading this just reminded me of something I learned in Italian class years ago: Mrs is the shortened form of mistress in Italian. 😮 Maybe they wanted to marry you.

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

I have a feeling it hasn’t fully manifested yet, but that bobmarks link supplied by Poppykettle above, reckons it means I’m married to my work (10th house) which is true, and the Pluto component means transformation through marriage, a partner who is intense & secretive, and volcanic sex, lol! :0 I’ll believe it when I see it.

And damn those Italians. They can kiss my feminist arse.

The Empress
The Empress

lmao Too right.

OMG! I went and read that link, it says I need a sex machine for a partner. *blushes* Tis true. lol Also that the relationship would transform me whether I wanted it to or not. Yep.

whatevs
whatevs

WOW it just occurred to me mystic how weird it would be for you to have a relationship with someone whose DOB info you – for whatever reason couldn’t have – he was thawed from the icy tundra as the glaciers melted and the oceans ran black, fiery plumes bursting forth etc etc and stumbled into the nearest apres ski locale to be nurtured back to health by some wealthy eccentric clad unapologetically in sable who dabbled in herbalism and the occult and had more than a passing interest in galvanic / post enlightenment / tesla type experiments. Eccentric has… Read more »

whatevs
whatevs

OH yeah, forgot – I think that whole wife or mistress thing is shifting sands in my world and I put it down to lilith. There’s sometimes a sexual energy that is not earthly and there’s no role/label associated – it’s like it’s off the grid therefore it seems more mistress because it’s not part of the earthly idea of matrimony.

whatevs
whatevs

O i meant mistress to my husband btw – not mistress as in outside the love “thing”.

whatevs
whatevs

to which part hon?

whatevs
whatevs

by the way damons you would have the same juno uranus conjunction as aqua – do you find yourself drawn to v smart or wacky independent women? Chicks who need space? That’s your juno in action.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Ok, now i know of 3 good marriages, Whatevs.

poppykettle
poppykettle

hmm, very interesting all. The only aspect my juno makes is to oppose my saturn in scorpio. Doing a quick search around on the net says I ideally shouldn’t marry before my first Saturn Return, which occurs around the age of 29 (what is a Saturn Return, exactly – the return of Saturn to the sign it was in when you were born?)

For anyone else interested – this is the link i found:
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html

whatevs
whatevs

awesome link poppykettle – accurate.

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Thanx poppyk – so much truth there xx

Libra sun/moon, Virgo asc
Libra sun/moon, Virgo asc

Ooh, thanks poppykettle for the link. Light bulb moment for me reading that – it just made sense of sooo many things!

nancyx
nancyx

…that’s kind of scary? Like, 3/4 correct.

Charles
Charles

Yeah, I saw that Bob Marks interpretation of Juno. I have Juno in Cancer in the 12th house. Juno is square Venus, Jupiter, and MC; trine Mars. Marks says if I have too many stressful aspects (and I do) then I will have to nurture my partner, and they will whine and complain endlessly. Sheesh. It also says of the 12th house, “There is an increased chance that the first marriage (or business) partner can do you in, or even be an enemy.” Well I’ve never been officially married, but for all practical purposes, that would be stalky crazy Miss… Read more »

virgo cat
virgo cat

Awesome. Thanks for the link poppykettle. Also, good name.

Taurean Love Expert
Taurean Love Expert

Hmm, Stealth Leo’s Juno sits right next to his Venus (also in Leo, in his 7th house). Any my Juno… also in Leo (in my 2nd, next to my Part of Fortune). No WONDER we’re looking to buy a house together!

Pegasus
Pegasus

Not even going to look!!
Mistresses have more fun. Never have been marriage material
and you really don’t want to know how many relationship varieties
i’ve tried, probable even intvented some nver heard of before.
Do know what a good one looks like tho’….have seen 2.

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

Pegs, I’d be interested if you could look it up. Perhaps it’s in carefree Saggo. Sign and house position if you can find it.

Pegasus
Pegasus

Juno in Capricorn in 12th house.
Venus in Capricorn to match, wouldn’tcha just know.
The ‘marriage’ would have to be about status & old money
i guess that would mean? Wanted a business partner more
than a lover-partner?
Would like to experience ‘the living alone together’ or ‘living together
alone’.
My Capricorn Venus will never understand ‘his’ Scorpionic Venus.

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

Well that blew that theory.

I know of a bunch of excellent marriages. Not perfect mind you, but very worthwhile. One approaching 60 years, one approaching 50 years, several gen X and Y. Actually quite a few when I think about it…

Hummingbird
Hummingbird

My Juno in cap too but in 11th house. Never be anyone’s mistress though maybe that’s more to do with my moon and mars in sag?- hate duplicity, far too honest- but could also be my Venus in Aries- doesn’t like sharing! But old money hey??!! Def like hard-workers- am tired of losers and not impressed by guys who don’t DO anything! Had my fair share of them and enough already! Maybe Juno kicks in with maturity!

davidl
davidl

so your a trisexual ? hehe try anything at least once .

bluelibra
bluelibra

At the moment this question seems almost too intense to contemplate as I received a rather terse / threatening sms from my ex re Child Support payments. He owes but is Very Angry / Outraged that he is being ‘enforced’ to pay. I am quite scared actually given the manifestations of his rage against me previously. The daily / weekly scopes / eclipse season predicted this but I am really not sure how to protect myself psychologically. Shall go scatter more salt across my door, remind myself to step out of victim mode, my children’s entitlements but, well ..yes.. am… Read more »

Taurean Love Expert
Taurean Love Expert

Bluelibra, if his past behaviour gives you reason to be afraid of him, take the sms to the cops & get it on the record. They take this kind of stuff very seriously.

whatevs
whatevs

Yeah salt’s all well and good but saturn also gave us the system where you can avail yourself of the police if you need to. Uranus/jupiter/eclipse/pluto means you may need to avail yourself of them quickly and if they’re already aware of a possible developing “scenario” in your hood they may see you as being on the fast track for future assistance should you require any? Fingers crossed it is as simple as that.

If you have a feeling listen to it. No question.

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

Certainly keep a record of it and consider alerting the department asap. If it’s safe enough, tell him to take his complaint to the department himself, or to the police.

Do these guys get that the money goes to bringing up their children? I have a brother who whinges about this and I’ve ripped into him about it more than once.

fluidfeline
fluidfeline

Angry ex’s coming out of the woodwork with the demolition astro and Eclipse. I hear you bluelibra. For me not to go to son’s concert last night is huge for me but I just had a gut feeling of deep fear. Do take the good advice of others here – go on the record xx

The Empress
The Empress

Go with your gut hon.xxx

I like UV’s suggestion too – to get him to take it up with CS.

bluelibra
bluelibra

Thank You all. Yes. I have received an email from him tonight stating that he was not aware that I was contacting the CSA and that he demands a response of my ‘intent’ before 9 tomorrow morning – which is strange because the CSA sent him a letter two weeks ago saying he owes me $40 per week. That’s $20 per child per week. He is very angry. I’m keeping my head down tonight and banking on the fact that he will be staying at his girlfriends which is a fair distance away. Thank you for all of your support… Read more »

Scorpophilia
Scorpophilia

BL I’ve been in this position, so I know exactly what you are going through, scared shitless! You don’t owe him a statement of intent, act dumb! Tell him the CSA are chasing it up, not you (its actually their job) and to take it up with them. You seriously need to clear you energy and then white light yourself to protect yourself (I also do this for the house and kids too) . I invoke Maat the egyptian goddess and have the most amazing results when I do, she will protect you and your kids and ensure a fair… Read more »

whatevs
whatevs

oh jesus stalking – my dad did that to my poor mother and as a byproduct, me as well. It’s hideous for a child and you grow up with the constant feeling that someone is watching you. A constant sense of unease travels with you through your days until you realise he isn’t there anymore, lurking. So glad you’re out of the woods with that scorpo – look after you and your kids blue. Please, please trust your instincts. xxx

starstrokes
starstrokes

Asteroid Goddesses by Demetra George is an awesome book for info on Ceres, Pallas Athena, Ceres, Juno. Amongst a whole lot else, she says that Juno’s sign & house position describe the qualities that we seek in our ideal mate.
My Scorpio is early Juno in the 11th, square Mars, sextile Venus. I am so living it!

starstrokes
starstrokes

My personal take, for me, is that if the bond feels real, thats all that matters, marriage is not my thing at all…

Andromeda
Andromeda

Juno a big player in the synastry between Gem Hub and I from what I understand (??):

My Juno (and Ceres) in Pisces (9th) conjunct his Mars (1st)
His Juno in Sagg conjunct my North Node (his Ceres conjunct my DC in Sagg) in my 7th House.

Andromeda
Andromeda

Also his Juno is 4 deg away from my DC.. Nurturing, supportive stuff I think rather than Mistressy, but then I have a Cancer stellium to his Cancer Moon…

Andromeda
Andromeda

Just thinking about the meaning of the above.. First thing I note, is there is a strong Saggitarian vibe to our connection (my 9th house Juno to his Sagg Juno) and certainly I feel very free in this relationship. Also I find that whatever I say will have an immediate response. If I want space I get it, if I want help, I get it, if I am being unreasonable.. I get a discussion! I was wondering if it is the physical energy stirred by Mars being conjunct Juno contributing to this open, active and energetic vibe… I really have… Read more »

Andromeda
Andromeda

I just remembered that the only situation in which I could have been considered mistressy was one where we were born 4 hours apart. So pretty much our whole chart was um, conjunct.

I am sure no one will read this but my Mars in Virgo demands that I finish what I start!!!

Mauvellous Capricorn
Mauvellous Capricorn

My Juno is in a stellium with Mars, Neptune and Lillith, all within 1.5 degrees of each other in my first house, out of phase in Sagittarius. Have been in one serious relationship since I was 18. His Juno forms a semi-quintile to mine.

libra w pisces rising
libra w pisces rising

so does the same apply for women – women fancy their Venus but they marry their Juno?

Ãœber Virgo
Ãœber Virgo

Women fancy their Mars and marry whoever they can get. Okay, I made the last bit up.

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