Whether it’s your chart, the chart of your lover and/or the so-called Composite Chart (you and your lovers chart blended together into what is essentially a chart of your relationship) the points to watch are the Ascendent, Descendent, Sun & Moon. And then you don’t just look for a silly little bit of Full Moon nonsense.
You are looking at Saturn Out. By which i mean, the relatively rare transits of Saturn, Neptune, Uranus & Pluto. All these astro-passages seem to test a relationships validity, authenticity and relevance. Sighhhh. But please don’t flip if one of these planetary heavy-hitters is approaching a significant point; they can also indicate expansion & emancipation – an evolution of the existing relationship.
Yet whenever i have a client with one of these nearing his/her Descendent – the cusp of the House of Love/Relationship sector, I have but to say the R word and they wince. Uranus is more like the person hasn’t even bothered to consult an astrologer because they’re outta there & they’ll fix up the details later. Saturn is a more sombre & let’s-do-this-right mature decision kind of an energy.
Uranian break-ups are more w.t.f? If Neptune is the culprit, there can be confusion, yearning and maybe even one of the parties just sort of drifts off into lala land. There may not be closure! Less said about Plutonic break-ups the better; they’re the stormy ones. Having said that, as we always say in ‘buck up’ mode when discussing Pluto, there will be a vast degree of self-knowledge and personal growth that you can gain from this enriching experience.
Eclipses – such as the ones we are entering into at 15 Capricorn, 29 degrees of Cancer/Kataka & then (less strong) 13 degrees of Aqua – can also be linked with major turning points if they hit on of the aforementioned important points. But pls don’t go and squiz at your chart or composite, whatever & then diagnose something vile if you don’t know what you’re doing…!!!!
If you’re smarting from a bust-up or something that didn’t work out as you would have wished, try to see it as part of some grander plan, fix the Feng Shui, exfoliate, get therapy if you think you need it, Reiki, massage, mates & this is something i read yonks ago in a magazine article about divorce. It’s apt. You have to look after the Five Fs. Fitness – because it’s good for your health & self-esteem. Finances – because you’ve got to be independent and loving it. Friends – expect to lose a LOT of them & make some new ones but the ones you keep are for real. Family – if you have kids, you become closer to them & they sort of get to know you better. Fuqing – because you can & will have sex again.
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