Sometimes the Aquarius ability to give space and not be possessive can be used against them in relationships. Mystic advises an Aquarius who has doubts about her Sagittarius partner.
I am an Aquarius who was engaged to be married, but I have decided that marriage is an idiotic concept. At just 33, I was already divorced and skeptical when I met my (now) partner. I was coming out of a difficult stage and enjoying being free. My Sagittarius man was coming out of an even darker stage where he and his wife, pregnant with their second child, separated. He (being a Sag) was suddenly entwined with a crazy Dutch Capricorn girl. Like super crazy. Stalker-bunny-boiler material.
We met making a television show in the Maldives. He ended the thing with the Capricorn days after meeting me and proclaimed love. The Dutch Capricorn Stalker started stalking him and me at work and hotel until the whole production was compromised. I was asked if I wanted to press charges but stupidly said no.
Then He Tells Me His Capricorn Stalker Is Pregnant With Twins
We become entwined. I felt like he was the man who completed me. Then he tells me that the Capricorn Stalker is pregnant with twins. He has his wife at home with a newborn, the Twins on the way and me. The timing was suss. He says the Capricorn lied to him and that they were not together.
I say enough. Too messy? It is too complicated for an Aquarian who can’t trust nor deal with complicated human situations anyway. And not that I am moralistic (well maybe a tad) but what kind of man does that? Really. The show ends. He is still proclaiming to love me but is also home trying to calm the shitstorm with his wife and new baby. Unbelievably, she wants him back. So I forget him, move on and for the first time in my life have a cute little apartment and fantastic work.
Six months later, I am on another tv show shoot, and he is there. Did I tell you that he is the most attractive man I have ever met? He starts pursuing me again, this time wearing his wedding ring. I am so blindly attracted to him and love our conversations. I know it is awful. And I feel heaps of guilt about the wife, though she is a Scorpio bitch. My Sagittarius says they are not together at all, just living in the same house for the kids and that he lives in the caravan. He is not allowed in the house. But what is with the ring?
Can I Marry This Sagittarius?
Long story short, he left the wife, and we got together, engaged, and with our own business. But now I am suddenly stalked by doubt. I’m seeing him as a horrible man with his brain in his dick and me as a selfish home-wrecker. We have our dark stages, but he is forthright, even about shameful things and the most loving guy I know. Still, I have this doubt. Can I marry this Sagittarius?
Confused and Guilt-Ridden Aqua.
Dear Confused & Guilt-Ridden Aqua,
Trust your instincts. Never ignore that inner voice. Yes, he’s attractive, and you have fun together. And it sounds like you’d do great work together. But Aquarius people are fantastic at giving others their space, and it seems like this Saggo would do a little bit too much with that space, you know?
If you’re open to a relationship where he has proven cheating form, and the odds are that he will do it again at some point, marry him. If you’re okay with infidelity so long as he’s “forthright,” then stay with him.
But I think also think about all the nonsense he told you about the “Scorpio bitch wife” and the “Dutch Capricorn Stalker” and assess whether you want to be similarly described one day. Men like this remind me of what a singularly under-appreciated asset female independence is.
I don’t think you should be guilt-ridden or confused. It’s time to switch up into the renowned Aquarius objectivity and play this forward.
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