How do you seduce a Taurus? I met him on an online dating site. We’ve been in contact via text every day since June 6. We’ve both acknowledged the vibe is there and that a vibe can be way wrong when tested in real life and enjoyable while it lasts. But he doesn’t seem particularly concerned about meeting in real life. I got pissy in a text message about it and he replied with an immediate call, which I couldn’t take because I was pissed and in the company of others, and he texted an apology and claimed miscommunication.
But no plans to meet up have been made. With my history of love zombie-ness, I’m tempted to just cut contact and mope in the private insecurity and fear rather than make a possible romance of nothing here. But nothing is wrong and he makes me smile. Simple enough. I just can’t seem to move this guy to act. Am I being impatient with two weeks of nothing but texting? I’m not sure of his moon or other details. I suspect he is a multi Taurus (Mars, Sun, maybe Mercury) with Saturn in Libra.
Dear Online Virgo,
How do you seduce a Taurus? Dinner on the couch? Seriously I think two weeks of texting is nothing. I know people who have limited things to texting for months on end. Admittedly they’re Aquarius-Uranian types who break out in hives at the thought of conventional dating but still.
I think you set a deadline for Mars in Scorpio and if this person has not made an effort to manifest an actual physical meet-up by then you either drop it but without the boring moping, private insecurity and fear that you mentioned OR you ask him out to dinner. Obviously the couch bit of it can wait until you ascertain the Richter level of the chemistry i.r.l.
Also Taureans move slowly – it’s part of their thing. Not everyone is rocking that Virgo vibe of wanting to be able to tick things off their list so they can get that satisfying “done” thing.
What does everyone else think?
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