Venus Vamps Bast
So there is the Virgo Moon trine Pluto which can translate as a cleaning-stationery fetish, vitamin edit or geeking out on protein powder…
And then (for a good time) there is the Venus in Saggo sextile asteroid Bast situation. Venus is also Void and in square to the Moon.
SO long story short – this is EPIC for sudden ‘aha’ moments re romantic coupling versus independence. Venus in Saggo AND Bast in anything prize their liberty fiercely. There should be a whole new term for this sort of astro-weirding. Sextile sounds too meh for it. I am thinking of it more as Venus in vamp to Bast.
If you haven’t had your o.m.g. type relationship vs autonomy OR a stunning release & freedom feeling re some old romantic angst, clean/work out/organize till you get it.
THOUGHTS?
This and the recent full moon – is this why I have FINALLY realised that I have been spending way too much of my time (not to mention thinking way too much) on a complete loser, who when I think about it – he is only half a man, with no strong family ties or roots. He would have been so lucky to be with me as I don’t have half the drama’s or problems he encounters everyday. He wasn’t and isn’t good for me. I am free to be happy with whoever I choose. He unfortunately is still stuck in the past. Yet I feel sorry for me, but wish him the best as I move on. Sorry about the rant
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Preach on! Ditch the loser sounds like a great idea. You can protect this guy from himself. Let him sink his own ship with you NOT on it.
erghh….supposed to have been “can’t”
Thanks! Hope u have an awesome 2013 xo
Wow. Thank you.
OMG – I have been de-cluttering for past week, given/thrown stuff away, re-arranged furniture in apartment, washed down windows, done my taxes for past 3 years (Ooooooo, naughty), cleaned out the spare/junk room (I now have a study!) and finally released the big-hurty-love. and and and, I’ve started Liver Cleanse Diet today … just to get the juicing happening again…. Goodness, I need a lie down
Sun/Moon in Pisces, Kataka Rising … Bring on 2013 – I believe I might be ready for you now 
Well, I had a flurry of fun during the Holidays being independent. This actually started the week of Thanksgiving. He just didn’t want to deal with me so I kept on stepping. No Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas or Happy New Year message sent to him. What is the point. My independent run was based on me not worried about what he thought. It was a great feeling. Had a friend date for New Years. I was starting to feel guilty and then I said “he wouldn’t care of he did it, so why do you”. He feel so sorry for him. If he calls I am going to treat it like we are great friends and see what happens. But it just seems like he’s losing interest so maybe I know he is emotionally he is trying to figure things out for himself. And this is great. He needs it. For me, I am okay alone. I don’t need a relationship to keep me strong! So, right I feel detached and independent. I need to focus on me! xo!
So thankful he’s someone else’s lump of coal now.
Lol!
Best comment!
Haha!!
Hmmmm. Have been enjoying a gorgeous summer holiday romance with new Aries man Taurus rising Venus on his mc whose going o/s for 5 weeks but def doing ALOT of aha moments and a lot of how do I do this differently and maintain independence freedom etc if this becomes more of a thing … You know. But having said that I’m typing this from a and e after having the wire from sparklers left on the beach taken out of my left foot…. Anything going on in Pisces ATM?
Yes… virgo brought final reality moment from unrealistic love interest with asbergers and I finally made up a new budget. Not a nye resolution just necessary. Clean new slate but boring and sad in some ways too. Need to find fulfulment elsewhere.
HA! I totallllllly get this feeling/astro right now!!!!
GO GO independent women!!
I have a problem. I am going the other way. I am usually the epitome of independence/freedom but right now I am being seriously lured by the prospect of marriage/children etc. It’s so weird. Never thought this would happen to me. But it could just be a phase to be fair. You know, oxytocin etc. Time will tell…
I went swimming in the ocean without my costume it was so peaceful beneath the waves I finally got time to myself, under there. Then I had the funniest memory about a phone call I received from a guy, back when we were in high school, who declared his love for me but wouldn’t tell me his name, said I knew him however I hadn’t the foggiest idea who he was. I still don’t. The ocean doesn’t clear everything up.
I love this picture! Ordering as a poster. Strangely enuf i was thinking today about how i was actually disempowered when i was married, my divorce was extremely stressful but i came out the other side a much stronger person and not like some ageing child bride. right, getting a bast statue too
Been Feng Shuing my ass off. Exhausted. Had tons of guys from the past pop in including a 20-something Libran (lately I am surrounded by Librans) who said every brief interaction he had with me detonated his psyche basically. He called me his guru.
I cleaned my love sector. It was really cluttered. Bought white flowers. I don’t know what I want. But it sure as hell isn’t a fixer-upper.
That feng shui stuff really works. I did that back in 2009 and there was a plethora. Sadly, all were idiots.
Peach blossoms don’t guarantee quality just qty!
Good luck!
I didn’t do the peach blossom remedy. I got some suitors from it once, but they were from Cech Republic, Spain, someplace far, far, away. I feel like my love life is too karmic for me to tinker with like that. But, I have been taking a cold, hard look at what I am open too and trying to bring more earth into my home – which is why I bought the hydrangea (white flowers). My peach blossom color is green.
Hell, I am so burnt out on the “love life” I’m just going for my awesome now. Partner or not.
Called-out my friend over some suspicions I had on NYE. Of course I was correct – I am furious and am taking a time out to over analyze (Scorp out on) my feelings. Such a betrayal of trust. Do I take the high road and get over it, or fuq her right off?
Perhaps now I see the friendship for what it really is/was – a fair weather friendship – and the lack of loyalty and respect there, I’ll expect nothing more and accept it, or I won’t
Forgive and forget?.
God, I feel so betrayed and upset.
I can forgive but never forget so usually the friendship is done. Sorry. That sucks. Perhaps making room for high Qi types in your life?
I’m trying SO hard to be all evolved and sh*t and get over it – but the fact she hid this from me for months makes me realize she knew damn well how I’d feel about it, but did it anyway.
She was my best friend, so this is no small matter.
Now I even feel stupid for venting here.
I know I’m all Moon-timey and what-eves, but I’m swinging from bawling my eyes out to smashing coffee cups and hurling eggs at the big gum tree out the back – real mature.
we all feel stupid when we vent here. cry and smash away, sweetie, that sucks. allow yourself to grieve, and in the process the nuances and strings will untangle. it just takes a while. it could be intentional, it could be a situation that spiraled out of control, you never really know at first. honor your moon time and the answer will come. xoxoxo
Ha!
TOTALLY!
No reason to feel stupid here. You’ve posted as anonymous. Better to vent here than within your social circle where it can get back to you.
I had to break up with my best friend. She was seeding me with bad advice. Her Saturn is on my midheaven and I have a Jupiter transit coming up there, so I don’t need the self-doubt. Time to expand, not contract.
Maybe check out the synastry between you two to get a sense of the lesson of the relationship? I don’t know. I research the fuq out of everything and think synastry is always useful to look at.
Protect your awesome and take no prisioners! (says the woman with no social life :-p )
Also, if you like rap, check out Kendrick Lamar’s song “Bitch, Don’t Kill My Vibe” Harder to paint your vision when you’re hanging with color blind peeps, lol!
Ditch the friend or if it’s someon non-ditchable…like you see them at work, keep it all superficial and avoid like the plague. Things like this only get worse not better.
I’ve found that to be true. Once they know they can bite you and get away with it they assume bad behavior is just part of the relationship and its all feelings and no consequence.
Yes, exactly. They are like man-eating tigers. Once they acquire a taste for flesh you have to put them down.
But I’m all about forgiveness. I just also believe in defending myself against morons who try to overstep boundaries.
The hi road is looking at her as your shadow side, perhaps asking yourself why those emotional buttons were so heavily pressed.
I like the do nothing, don’t react. You haven’t been friends for so long for it to come to zilch and accompanying trigger memories that stay with you.
Forgive 300 times, YOU will feel better
If taking the high road means more betrayal and abuse of friendship by this person, who obviously doesn’t value your friendship as much as you do, then feeling the rage, throwing eggs at trees (yes, very therapeutic but will attract snakes if you live in the country – been there, done that), smashing coffee cups (also highly therapeutic but quite expensive) and then telling her to fuq off, might actually be the more spiritually evolved and shit thing to do.
Friend =( NOT ) frenemy.
Thanks heaps guys.
xo
as a fellow scorp, you have to cut her out because you can never respect someone who is low enough to hurt your feelings on purpose without cause. until they display an honest change you’ll never trust her xx
*Don’t spend time with people who make you feel like shit.* This little wisdom (now a habit) changed my life.
You don’t live in the history of your friendship, so unfortunately you can’t count that in the sum total of what your friendship is worth today. This isn’t about whether you chose to forgive or not (YOU SHOULD), this is about whether you spend your precious time in the atmosphere of this person (TIME WILL TELL).
Just saying, until you feel good in her presence, just don’t spend your time there.
I’d like to dump my father. He’s always going to be an unhappy person and a toxic influence in my life. I’m finally coming to the sad realization that he isn’t going to change and that I’m probably better off without any contact between us. : (
I dumped my father. It took me two years to accept that he’s not going to resist that move. So be it. No more guilt about people and relationships that are circumstantial.
I feel liberated. I’ve changed my eating habits. Lots of protein salad and veg with yummy sauces. Loving it and feeling fit
Re: Love – Well…. I kinda went there with an ex and he is still the same old. he is negative like, never ever happy. Just incredbily MEH about anything that comes his way and we did the old deed and had a sleep over yadda yadda and he was so MEH .. so damn MEH.. its like whoa I’m a completely different person now and you’re still the same
Qi are not matching up.
I smell Qi Vampire.
Gettin’ over it. Moving on.
Loving this non-committal dating that I’ve been doing lately. So fun, who would of known
exes are so meh! there’s a reason you’re not there. your energy sounds fab and contagious! non-committal dating is where its at methinks.
my publicly stated new years resolution is to have casual sex with musicians. i think that’s a worthy goal.
Bawled my eyes out in my lover’s truck telling him all about the terrifying and violent dream I had last night that neatly packaged pretty much all of my fears about us and my life into one shabang… yeah that was last night. Of course, I also read my scopes ahead of time and was doing shiva nata (basically pattern recognition yoga art) on my relationship patterns, which helped it along. I also have Venus in Saggo so the timing probably couldn’t have been more bang on. Still feel tender inside but healing. I am so lucky to have shamans in my life <3
This morning did a ritual burning of old diary pages I found over xmas in a box at my parents… decided I didn’t need to keep them, and it actually felt quite cleansing and wonderful to burn them!
Letting go of the past continues…
today I got a FB message from my favorite ex! shot him my phone number and we talked for the first time in almost six years. his sun/my moon same degree, my sun/his moon exact sextile. I would marry him tomorrow. thanks for keeping my head on straight re: this, MM!
Back at work and not enjoying it, don’t want to be there but not sure where else i want to be instead. O of course, the beach.
A new mantra devised by Virgo Voodoo Mamma is ‘No to Non-sense’.
Like.
so sagg x
you know who’s right there with bast? nessus. obsession master himself. brutal.
venus into 7th revelation of the day- while my Big Love is about Love, and finding myself in another, seeing/living my shadow from the outside, being wounded by it, and coming to forgive, love, and integrate it, it’s also and fundamentally about power. Power over myself, ultimately, but being practiced on the beloved/most hated. we have tight and mostly hard pluto synastry with mars, sun, moon, jupiter, mercury, and ceres. every singly interaction on every plane is a power trip. this may be true for all human interactions, but maybe not on such an intense level. or maybe just as intense, just not conscious. i don’t know. and then from this came the revelation that the ultimate power in a relationship is freedom, love in absolute freedom, no jealousy, no expectations, no strings. absolutely no reason beyond the pure flame of love. it’s an all or nothing game. so. RELEASE.
now i just have to do it. jealousy be banished!
Still want to be Cat Woman when I “grow up”! Ubasti at 26 Libra-conjunct Mercury, Moon, NNode. Fave bed time books “Cat Wings” series by Ursula Leguin. Often I dream of flying with my cats.
Cat mums promote indy kits- no smother/mother stuff. That’s me.
Great romp/ read- “Initiation” by Elisabeth Haitch for cool woo woo Egyptian astro stuff.
Ubasti near IC now- trine NN- trading jitney service for kiddos for writing/ singing/ yoga/ me time. Fed up with smother mothers judging me cuz I want a parallel life sans teens.
PS My Saturn at 21 Sag in 2nd feeds in how… does ditching old greeting cards count? LOL!
Just dumped mental images, what if questions about a possible person of interest. Too boring..
My Torro and I just keep getting better. I love it!!!!
I am leaving for a week, so we will have a break after being together almost constantly, but we don’t want to part.
With Scorpio ex moving back I know I have to come to terms with my complete negativity towards him. But I am not worried about it. He just managed to erase even the memory of love between us.
Torro has his own manipulative ex, but luckily she is far away.
Last full moon was amazingly good for me! I have let go of a lot of jealous and somewhat silly anger regarding my S.O.’s ex-wife. The thought of her doesn’t make me cringe nearly as much as it used to for the simple fact that I don’t think about her much anymore. I see my S.O. in a better light and realize that while I may end up being his “second wife”, that doesn’t make me any less. Only time will tell and as the song goes, perhaps he saved the best for last. At least that’s how I feel at the moment …
With the recent cardinal square & this aspect, I’m seriously reconsidering if I actually want to become a mother. I’ve wanted a child all my life but it never seemed to happen (Moon square Saturn in Cancer, perhaps?). I’m pushing 40 and I’m wondering if I’d rather enjoy my freedom or if I’d have the energy available for one as I get older.
In a lot of ways, I feel a sense of new possibilities as I reconsider, and it has been surprisingly refreshing.
Don’t understand the logic behind “love zombies” or stalkers. When someone says ,”Please don’t contact me.” Then they should take that advice.
I have an ex who won’t take the direct instruction even though I’ve taken out restraining orders. He still doesn’t get it.
Really wish he’d stop focusing his hateful, negative vibes on me. In 2013 here’s to no “love zombies/stalkers or the “undead ex-’s”!”
you have some serious love zombies by the sound of it. maybe we should swap zombies for a while and give each other a rest just for something fresh x
So on mark. NYE was venus returns for me and it was ultra venus alright. A car of Scorpio’s took me to a club where I partied out and caused trouble/broke hearts all night to come home (solo) to Aqua’s bleeding heart in many messages as he ran away to NY leaving me to fly solo for the christmas new year period. which has actually been really good and I am glad we broke up. Now he’s turning into a love zombie for reasons I can’t fathom beyond I am doing something else that does not involve him (gemini moon). I was sent almost equal volume abusive messages only 3 weeks ago by the same man who claims I am his dream girl. It’s Bollucks. Very beautiful things are happening in my heart but I have to fly solo and jesus why don’t people realise it’s a really shit way to live breaking up and getting back together. I sent a very real but beautiful response as to why that is not a good idea. attracting many potential dates but I feel so deeply uninterested in anything that has no future in it (saturn)
This is exactly what happened to me. Same time frame. Same scenario. Though, I was really heartbroken, Im starting to feel better. …now he wants back. I know it’s not very enlightened, but MAN! do I wanna even the score. Im a Leo and kitty wants to *%#&ing play. Ha.
I’m of two minds about it. On the one hand, I can be the bigger person. But, on the other hand, male love zombies are like dogs. When they get a taste for flesh, they gotta be put down.
….decisions, decisions….
“When they get a taste of flesh they gotta be out down”… I love that by the way, whoever said it.
yes
My situation just hit a whole new level as of yesterday but yes, some people don’t learn and like what is shiny, they are not good enough to rock with your shiny, they take it or put it out in the hope you are too damaged to leave by the time they are done, then went you purge through the heartache and emerge, get all hot for you when you get shiny again.
That is very true of some, and very twisted, only the clearer it is to you, the more incredible it seems that they themselves don’t know what they are doing to you. Sorry that you’re on the receiving end of this shit, and really sorry it’s taking away your feelings of beautiful. I hope you can cauterise quickly and regain your shine xx
Thanks Mille, I don’t want to turn this post into a crap on about it but I am writing a list for this year and rituals of beauty and self are going to feature highly to put back the love that has been destroyed in this process.
xxx